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In today's episode, we're going to pick right back off where we left off last week yeah secrets hinaway resort kissami florida part two yeah part two and uh we ran out of time last time we're gonna spill the rest of the tea we are all that tea that's still in the cup is gonna come flowing out i guess you could say that um but first we're gonna talk a little bit about our plans this weekend. Yeah, so this weekend, we will be at Vibe Nashville area hotel takeover. Yeah, which is, we've been trying to get to a Vibe party for a while. We have.
Actually, Vibe was the very first hotel takeover that I have ever heard of prior to meeting you you and i had really been wanting to go to one um and we we've tried to make that happen we've been on their email list for a couple of years now but it just seems like there's always something going on we can't make it falls on the weekend i have my son or it just it just never works and so this year year, the Valentine's Day party fell on a weekend that we were both free. However, I am just coming off of my surgery, so that was a little bit of a concern, but I'm going to take it easy.
We're going to make it work. We're going to make it work. No pressure. The entire Swing Talk group is coming. Yeah, so originally it was supposed to be us and Nadine and Spencer, our G party. But somehow everybody just had so much fun at Secret. They're like, well, we're coming too. Which is great. Which is wonderful. So exciting. Plus a few more, I think. Yeah, yeah, a few more.
So, um, so yeah, so so yeah so so y'all they're gonna have to take care of me this weekend it's gonna be it's gonna be another one of those weekends where we don't sleep and it's just it is it is um but i think it's gonna be a great weekend i'm excited um we're all staying in the same place um your uncle's house. Right. Thank God for good uncles with big houses. Yes. So I'm excited. It's going to be a great weekend. Very much looking forward to it. Yeah. And I'm glad it worked out nice that we were able to do this, like, almost back to back. You know what I mean? Like, there was not much time.
Where before, you know, we haven't had a swing talk thing in months before Secrets. Yeah. I mean, I wouldn't really consider this like a swing talk event or anything. No. It just happens to be a hotel takeover that we're all going to. Yeah, no, we didn't really advertise this. No, we just are going as regular swingers. Right. We didn't plan any part or piece of the weekend. No.
But we're we're excited to go super excited this is a long time coming for you and I so if you're there if you're already planning on going I know the hotel rooms are sold out but they sell tickets at the door they said they've never sold out of tickets at the door right which I think it might be challenging us oh yeah so if you're in're in the area, definitely, if you want to come, come say hello to us. If you're already going to be there, Dan will include that in the show notes. Right. And the tickets should be on sale right now if it's Thursday because the party's in two days. Yeah.
And they sell tickets online the week of the party. Or at the door. Correct. Or at the door.
at the door so um you know if you're gonna drive any amount make sure you go online and get a ticket and make sure they're not sold out yeah but uh yeah excited this is a long time coming yeah we've met some people from vibe at hito we've met people from vibe all around so excited to finally be able to go yeah we're on their facebook group and i've been you know they call it the vibe tribe or something like that and they seem like a seem like a pretty tight-knit good group yeah and i know that the group at hito Thank you.
their facebook group and i've been you know they call it the vibe tribe or something like that and they seem like a seem like a pretty tight-knit good group yeah and i know that the group at hita was they were probably one of the funner groups that were down there so yeah we should have a good time all right so if you're in nashville um this weekend the 11th through the 13th come out to vibe and and hang out with us see the new boobies be gentle with them though yes all right all right so anyway let's get back into secrets back to secrets so i think when we left you guys we were talking about the club but um we forgot that before the club after the q a but before the club we um all changed into our um sexy attire so the theme for saturday nights was firefighter versus cop right so we left you right after the q a we were talking about the girls on the stage with the backdrop of secrets on their stools and answering questions from discord looking all fancy and and um yeah we left you there so after that um everybody went back to their rooms We'll be right back.
from discord looking all fancy and and um yeah we left you there so after that um everybody went back to their rooms and changed into the theme for the night which was cops and firefighters correct which is a great theme i kind of like that it's both like it was yeah because you got to choose which one it was a good like mix i think like 50 50 of the people chose one yeah it was a good mix i was a firefight I think, like, 50-50 of the people chose one of the other. Yeah, it was a good mix. I was a firefighter.
I wore, like, a black latex bodysuit with a little skirt, some yellow suspenders, red heels, fishnets. Very sexy. Yeah, I liked it. There are pictures floating around probably on our Twitter and Instagram. Yeah, so we all went to Malia and Sean's room because they had a really cool red and white room. So we went there as a group this time because the night before we had taken pictures with basically everybody. Right. Every swing talker that was there. This time we did just our little group, which is not so little, but our group. And Meg was in them. Meg, yeah. Meg was dressed up in the same.
This, the story of Meg throughout the weekend was one of, like, evolution, I think. I know. Because, you know, Friday she was very much, you know, quiet. She's here to work. Kind of shy. No, she didn't even go to the club that night. But Saturday, she started to blossom, I would say. Yeah. So we took some fun pictures, made some TikToks. She had a fire. She was a cop that night. She was a cop. And I have to say, she was a pretty hot cop. Yeah, she, definitely. I mean, I don't, this is a funny thing with these girls.
It's like, I don't know where, what, what I can and cannot like say about your employees. I need to get HR. We need to hire HR person. Um, it's hard. It's hard being a swinger. And hiring cute girls to work for you. But those pictures are also on Instagram and Twitter. Um, so check out Meg, Meg the cop. Yeah.
Um, but anyway, yeah anyway yeah so after that we went straight to the club this time they had our vip section like dead in the middle like we were front and center in front of the stage yeah yeah um and it was packed like you couldn't move in there standing room only yeah like me trying to get the restroom was like, like at some point we were like, should you go by yourself? It was that busy in there. But the club was amazing Saturday night. So Meg sat up and sold raffle tickets and T-shirts.
Yeah, Mark was like, because at the pool that day, you know, we were selling them and he kept and he kept hyping them and he was like he's like you guys are going to sell them at the club tonight right and we're like uh we hadn't really planned on it he's like no no no you need to sell them at the club tonight come to the club set up right in the club he's like we'll keep selling them right up until we do the raffle at midnight and we're like okay i mean let's make as much money for help now as we possibly can so let's do this so meg was so busy um at one point i looked up and meg is on the bar giving out shots yeah i don't know how that happened so i do mark party mark told her if she gave out shots he would make sure that she drank all night for free for free so who got on the bar with her the first time maybe ash i think it was ash it was ash so they got on the bar they're pouring shots in people's mouths i was like oh my god how did we go from like you know this sweet girl showing up without her husband and now she's on the bar you know giving out shots in this sexy cop outfit dumping shots down people's yeah but she was a total dancing a little bit like yeah she was a total team player she was very professional very professional but it is pretty funny it is very very funny um but i mean honestly saturday night was just a blast we.
We got to meet so many people. That's when a lot of the swing talkers were there that night, too. It was just crazy. Yeah. Yeah, and then at one point, and this is kind of funny, we went outside to kind of, I don't know, get some fresh air or something, and we're standing out in front of the club. I think it was me, you, and Bo, right? Mr. Fireball. Mr. Fireball. And then these girls came up to you. So, hey, girls. I wish we knew your names. They were so sweet. They totally fangirled over us. Fangirled like you were Justin Bieber or something. Yeah. Bieber, Bieber, whatever his name is.
Like, came running after you like, ah! Well, it was to you, too to you too babe like well okay that's such a weird thing though i'm not it so we've had people come up to us and say hi and like you know like that's the first time we've had anybody i've never had anybody come up to us like screaming like oh my god yeah and even to mr fireball i was like this is mr fireball and they were like. It was funny. But, like, even people like that, we were able to dance with them. Oh, yeah. I mean, it was just a blast. Oh, it was awesome. They were young. I mean, they were probably in their 20s.
I'm assuming in their 20s. Yeah, they looked young. I wish we would have. I mean, I know they don't miss their name, but we met so many people, it's hard for me to remember. But we took pictures with them. Yeah, I mean. We saw them in the club later and we're dancing with them.
It was're dancing we had so much fun um it was a lot of fun we danced we um just it was just so much fun so at the end of the night um we did the raffles which um we raffled off let's go over what we raffled off we did a frederick and barbie donated a five night stay at secrets thank you f Thank you, Frederick and Barbie. SDC gave away a lifetime membership. Well, yeah. Okay, yeah. And some swag. Mm-hmm. Us, personally, gave away a one-year subscription to the OnlyFans. Mm-hmm. Some t-shirts.
My sweet friend, Heather, who I met at Secrets, who makes our tumblers, made some cute The Swing Nation podcast ones. What else? The toys from Fairvilla. Fairvilla, the store that is in the little boutique shop that's in Secrets, did a gift basket. They said it was $400, but Party Mark said it was worth a lot more than that. Yeah, Mark was like, this one toy here I know is $250. He's like, this has got to be closer to, like, $1,000. Yeah, so we – I have no idea, but – So I look up, and here comes Meg walking across the club.
We had ordered one of those, like, raffle ticket holders that you, like, spin. It's like a drum that spins. Yeah. Here she comes walking across the club with it, and she gets on stage. They escort her to the stage. One of the super hot dancers. So, like, in my opinion, the secret dancers are, like, top-notch. Thank you.
she comes walking across the club with it and she gets on stage they escort her to the stage one of the super hot dancers so like in my opinion the secrets dancers are like top notch they're like they're like almost better than hito if not better um the one girl bent over and sat the thing on her ass on her ass and was sat there for like the whole drawing yeah which was probably It lasted 20 minutes. Yeah, and so we gave away all this. And so Meg is, you know, Mark has Meg positioned, like, right, like, where her ass is, like, doing the ticket drawing thing.
It was really cute to see Meg up there, like, just living her best life. I don't know how many drinks she had at this point, but she did not look uncomfortable.
No, and, like, a little little bit about meg she has four kids like so this was probably like an amazing weekend to just be i mean i know she was working but just to like not be with our kids and um and you know it's it's a hard job working for the swing nation podcast i'll tell you she was living her best life up there not a lot of people that were probably would want to volunteer to go to clubs and resorts yeah and drink and dance on the stage and you know yeah it's a hard it's a hard gig but uh you know she did it she did it you know for for the for the organization oh yes she believes in the cost she believes uh you know so they did the drawings everybody won was great, and after that, it was time to wrap things up at the club.
Yeah. Who wrapped things up? You. And you got mad at me. I did get mad at you. Right? Full disclosure. I don't know if you were going to admit to this. No, I was...
Okay, so we try to keep things real first of all i'm exhausted okay second of all i don't know i was having fun i was dancing even though i was exhausted i was dancing i was having fun and i felt like you pushed everyone to go like i felt like everybody overall was having a good time i might have and you were like let's go let's go you know let's either go to the playroom or let's go back to a room and in my opinion you had to like say it multiple times like instead of ever being like yes dan let's go do that i felt like you kept on and you kept on like it was to the point where it's like okay we get it so to be fair i was pretty drunk um and secondly, I also know like there's that fine line to like we're all having fun.
Let's go play. And to where like everybody's too tired and too drunk to go play. No, you're right. Somewhere in the night there's a line where people cross that line and then nobody wants to transition. No, in hindsight, you did right. Yeah. But in the moment, I was having fun and didn't want to leave. You're like, fuck this guy. I'm trying to have fun and he just wants to go fuck people. Yeah. So we got back to the room.
We ended getting everybody right agreeance that we're leaving um i kind of wanted to go to the playroom even though i'm not crazy about the playroom i felt like i really wanted to spend some time with the jersey couple and i felt like they might feel more comfortable in the playroom um i don't know i just was feeling the playroom even though it wasn't the greatest the night before however as a group we decided that we were going to go to g party in nadine's room right well so before we got there though so we kind of skipped a key part we we went back to our room no i was just saying that was as a group when we were leaving we left the club and we're like okay everybody meet up at g parties and the reason we picked g party's room is because g party and meg's room actually combined like they had a shared door in between and so we were going to kick meg out of her room and let her stay in our room and we're just going to swap with her right right that way we could use essentially have a big room yeah with like multiple beds but in hindsight we probably we shouldn't have done that like as in as bosses we should have let her had her own room however we did go to our room right and we logistically made sense it did and we did ask meg and she said she was fine with yeah but i mean we were all intoxicated that's right this is this is all drunk decision like it wasn't you know i don't know how in hindsight it doesn't seem like a terrible idea but i get what you're saying like hey we're kicking you out of your room go sleep in our room we're fucking on your bed yeah we're taking over your room we're fucking in your room it did not it was much more like would you be okay if and she was like yeah no that's no problem no problem but the funny part is is we get to our room oh i was pissed at you and we were having a little like not spat but you're like i'm mad at you and i'm like baby i don't know i'm like one i'm drunk and then two like i'm just trying to get everybody to go and then you're like well we're not going if we're going to be mad at each other because that's like kind of like our golden rule you know if we're if we're frustrated with each other we don't need to go and like fuck other people right like you know red flag like whatever number that was we were having that conversation and kind of thank God, you know, because not to say I'm sure we would have kissed and made up and we would have been.
Oh, yeah, we would have totally had. It wasn't like it was an earth shattering, like disagreement. But we were drunk, you know, we were drunk and exhausted. And that was really all it boiled down to. But then the phone rings like multiple times. And you're like, I don't Malia keeps calling me. I'm like, I'll call her back. And so Malia calls Lacey and is like, Lacey, I need you. I'm here with Meg and she's concerned that she's going to get fired. So we, you know, we throw on our robes. We're like, what are you talking about?
She's like, Meg is like very, very upset and she thinks you guys are going to fire her. So somehow from the club to there, Meg was intoxicated. I guess drunker than we thought she was. Yeah, she just got a little concerned that we were going to fire her and we were like, no Meg, you to be honest with you, you rocked this weekend. You rocked this weekend. You get a raise I think is what I told her.
I was like, have done amazing we are not firing you whatsoever so we get to meg's roomie and lacy and pretty much the whole swing talk crew is there or most of them like petting her yeah like loving on her like you know in the bed and she's visibly upset and um she only has one sock on yeah and i don't remember though but it's something about she had lost her sock and couldn't find it and was worried that we were going to fire her because she was only one wearing one sock yeah and then people had proposed that she take the other sock off i actually tried to take remove the sock from her foot because then her feet would be balanced and then it wouldn't be an issue but that sock was it felt good too comfortable i don't know it was listen we were all drunk i don't know what was happening all i know was i mean this to be super honest at this point i was over it like i was ready to go to sleep like you know and like everybody else was i seemed like everybody around me was like all like gung-ho like to go fuck and everything and i was like can i can somebody just give me a pillow and let me sleep in the corner but we did get we did get med calmed down we reassured her yeah no matter how many socks she had on or off that um she was never gonna get fired and that she was a rock star for the weekend.
Yeah, she had really killed it. So we got her settled. We tucked her into her own room. She got to speak to her husband and all things were good. And I'm very grateful for our Swing Talk group. Everybody was very respectful of the fact that she is married. That is, she is not in the loft.
I mean, don't get me wrong we all like told her a thousand times that she was beautiful and that we want her to be a swinger and stuff like that but nobody crossed any boundaries or anything like that so super and it was never even like a concern like we never even were worried about that group of people i have a hundred and twenty percent trust in and they took very very good care of meg the whole night so we put her to sleep her and brad were like bffs yes can we talk about that kylie's husband brad he was like uh the assistant to the assistant i think we called him all night yeah Thank you.
good care of meg the whole night so we put her to sleep her and brad were like bffs yes we talked about that kylie's husband brad he was like uh the assistant to the assistant i think we called him all night yeah or all weekend him and him and meg were bffs um it was so sweet he was like helping her like with all the t-shirt sales he yeah he was a very he's a very kind person yeah he was you know i think because meg was new and not a swinger he kind of like kind to her a little bit. I think they had some similar interests outside of swinging, like with reptiles and stuff. Yes, yes.
So they just kind of hit it off. But anyway, so back to that. We got her settled, and then we ended up just going into G Party in Nadine's room and shutting the door. The cool thing about their room is they had a cage on wheels.
so there was a tell about that it's you know there's a cage and it's on a track on the ceiling and the cage had wheels and so you could kind of like tuck it into the side of the room you know off to the side and then or you could roll it out on this track out into like the middle of the room um and then because it had like these like almost like uh dolly cart wheels you could spin the cage like in circles so when i walked into the room someone i don't know who to be honest with you when we're not naming names anyway kind of got caught up with the meg thing yeah and people were already in g party's room and they kind of had already started playing while we were kind of attending to meg there was some sort of game and i'm not going to say going to say who, not everyone did it.
I didn't do this game. Right, we won't call out the people that did. And honestly, I don't know who did it, to be honest with you, who didn't. But some people in the room partake in this game where you were in the cage, you had a blindfold on. These are girls. The girls. And you had to guess. I did partake in this game, and I will fully admit it. Yeah. It was a cool game. Yeah. I mean, me on a normal day, like maybe, I just, I don't know. I was in an odd place this weekend. I'm not sure. Yeah. Sometimes you do that, where by the end of the night, you're just done.
It's like once things are just starting to get going. Yeah. Yeah, I do. You were a good sport. No, I was a good sport. I hung in there. You didn't participate, but you were in the room, and you were Yeah, yeah. I was like cheering on, yeah. You weren't like negative Nancy. No. But basically the girl had to guess whose penis belonged to who. It was guess your husband's cock. No, not even your husband. It was guess everyone's cock. Right. Oh, that's right. Yeah. So like you got to do the game with your eyes open so you could fill out the situation. Right, right. So we put the girl in the cage.
That sounds awful. We put the girl in the cage. Well, I mean, she volunteered. She consentingly went into the cage and then we let them have a, you know. A charm. Familiarize themselves with everybody's cog. Yeah. And then we blindfolded them. Yeah. And then we would spin them in circles. Yeah. And then they would, you know, all the guys are kind of standing in a circle around this cage. Your mom should probably turn off the podcast. Well, I didn't do it. So whatever. She can hear me. At this point, she's heard it all. So anyway, you spin the cage and then the girl sucks the guy's dick.
And then she has to say whose dick she thinks it is.
And of the girls got them right that these girls super i don't feel like i would do that well i don't i mean to be fair we were all kind of different you know yeah yeah you know like there wasn't two that were like really really close now there was one girl did confuse me with costco which i take as a very compliment because if you know what i'm you know yeah they call me sam's club and hang costco but costco is costco wins babe yeah costco i don't get to say that very often hands down yeah i have no problem admitting that yeah so the fact that i was confused for costco i was you were i actually felt good about yeah yeah okay i like it so yeah so that's kind of how like the evening or the play session started um it was a different because normally in in these like orgy type environments everybody kind of just goes at it you know i mean yeah but this it was very much like people are sitting around and talking yeah it was like and like you know there's a girl in the cage and she's playing with multiple guys and like in guys it's not like all the guys were there like got you know a couple guys would come over a couple guys would go and talk to other like it was just really like like very comfortable you could tell how comfortable we all were with each other it was nothing was forced right um or anything um i had a fluffy robe on and was laying on the bed like i was taking a little nap yeah um but i definitely was partaking I was chatting it up.
And so their room also had one of the awesome leather swings. Right, the ones that are big, wide, flat. So a couple of the girls took turns in there. It was just a lot of fun. Like you said before, nothing was rushed. It was very casual. It was just kind of like.
somebody wanted to play they you know yeah like i but not everybody was playing all at the same time like i wasn't you were a whore again i was kind of you were a pretty big man whore this weekend i guess i was kind of well so we do have we won't say the number unless you just want to but we do try to keep up up with how many people we play with in like a day or weekend or something. And you tied, but you did not beat it. My all-time record, yeah. Yeah, which there's one person that you really wanted to play with this weekend that you didn't get to. There was a couple people.
Yeah, that's true. So you could have really broke your record. I could have broke it by like two or three. Yeah.
Like I don't't know what the fuck i was thinking and i only had sex with two people yeah i was like a grandma this week yeah i had sex with a lot more than that but but i still didn't like you're right like i could have it could have been an epic weekend yeah i just missed a couple people that well there was a lot going on not to say it wasn't an epic weekend i mean it was yeah it was it was but there was there was a lot of bodies like but the funny thing is we had played i mean minus maybe one or two we had played with all of them yeah right and that's the thing about us and people you know probably listen to this and like oh you guys are a bunch of like sluts or whatever but the fact is we know all these couples i didn't sleep with anybody new oh wait i just sleep with beau just but that doesn't count because you had played with mr fireball yeah i had played with him before we had not actually slept together, but, wait, I just sleep with Bo, but that doesn't count.
Well, you had played with him before. With Mr. Fireball, yeah. I had played with him before. We had not actually slept together. But, so, I mean, I doesn't, yeah. So, I mean, other than him, just, I only, you know, so that's not me a lot. Right, and that was the third time. But if you think about it, like, when people think of swingers, they think, oh, my God, you probably fucked 15 people. Right.
But everybody there, we had pretty much knew except for the kylie and brad everybody else there we had played with them before and even kylie right i mean we've known kylie for almost a year now we just had never met them in person yeah yeah it is it is you know when you say like oh yeah i had sex with six different people like that sounds bad but like when it's six different people that you've known for years, it's not as bad. Well, it is. It is bad to any vanilla person. Well, I'll tell you. I mean, any vanilla person that hears that, it's going to be like, oh, my God.
They probably haven't had sex with six people in their whole life. But for us, that's kind of how we swing. Like, if we're going somewhere, like, for instance, we were going to the vibe party, we just tell people. We're like, hey, we're going to the vibe party.
And next thing you know, everybody in our group were going to the vibe party we just tell people we're like hey we're going to the vibe party next thing you know everybody in our group is going to the vibe party and then then when it's time to play we'll all play together and so that's how these big group sessions happen and I personally love the big group sessions and because um if there's somebody in the group that I don't want to play with i don't have to right like i'm very good at like finding my way to who i want to play with and if there's somebody that i don't want to i can politely decline which i did this weekend or that you know secrets weekend i did politely decline or if i need it or i can say i need to go to the restroom or i'm really good at because not all people in a group are you going to be sexually attracted to it's just it's super hard to make that happen it's hard to find four people let alone 14 people i don't know if i like the word orgy but in those group settings it is nice because you know in a one-on-one couple for couple experience you have to match with the couple and these group you know experiences you can like you might play with a husband and i don't play with a wife yeah you might play with a wife or a husband that yeah vice versa yeah yeah you can kind of mix and match a little bit um which is which is i think that's good i love it i mean that's my ideal way to play have those types of experiences it seems to be um some of the better you know experiences that we've had yeah there's no pressure you know i mean if you want to take a break go get some water like i always like get up in the middle and like go to the back like there was a couple of times like i went to the bathroom and um or you i don't know i just enjoyed that type play is my favorite type of play i mean honestly when's the last time that you and i just actually swapped with a couple oh i guess keto but keto yeah but even that we were in a group setting like a yeah we were in a playroom with a bunch of yeah but we only played with one couple Yeah, that's just kind of like our style.
I don't know how that kind of came about, but it just has. I don't know either, but I love it. Yeah. So that pretty much is, we kind of left relatively early. I think people were still playing when we left. I'm not sure, on Saturday night. I mean, we were there until 2, 3 o'clock in the morning.
But yeah, we left don't know how I don't know how long people stayed in that room I don't know but we probably were one of the first or second couple yeah and the windows are open like we you could leave the windows open if you've been to secrets you've heard our last podcast where we kind of described secrets we left our windows open we have like all kinds of people yeah there was one time when you looked over and there had to be at least 10 15 people yeah and we were on the second floor on the outside so it wasn't even like we were i think we were we were bottom floor outside oh bottom floor outside yes sorry so but i mean it wasn't like we were like by the pool or like in the middle out of the way yeah people had to like come to see it um which i don't know sometimes it's like some one couple was out there having like a complete conversation like it was kind of odd i'm like can you move if like you're not i don't know they weren't really watching but they weren't yeah i don't know it was odd yeah i don't that that's another trend with us though that we always have an audience have an audience yeah so we crashed after that and then then we woke up and it was sunday it was sunday and uh again um we had uh party mark we had scheduled a podcast um with him and so um we had to kind of not get up early but i think it was like 10 a.m or something Yeah.
Which when you're up till three o'clock in the morning, 10 a.m. can feel kind of. Yeah. So he came to our room relatively early and we recorded the podcast that you heard with Party Mark, which we genuinely enjoyed that podcast. I really like him as a person. I felt good about it because, one, I don't think he does that with everybody. No. And, two, he very much opened up to it. I mean, he got emotional at that sometimes. Some of that's hard stuff. I mean, we do talk a lot about positivity in swinging, and he kind of went over some of the negative things.
You know, we hear so often, oh, this will ruin your marriage. You're going to get divorced. And I mean, he kind of opened up and shared a lot about his personal, you know, experiences with it and it not going ideally.
And I think, you know, yeah, we share all the good and, but I think it's, it's smart to also recognize that there are things like that do happen and it can happen when you don't follow the boundaries and uh don't communicate and yeah but you know part of me you know from me listening to it um is i think a lot of you know like the reason there was underlying issues there oh for sure that he was you know very much trying to address but but obviously you know it goes back to swinging can't if there's underlying issues that yeah swinging's not gonna fix it no but i just i was very appreciative of him in that podcast i hope y'all enjoy that so mark if you're still listening thank you um thank you for sharing yeah your story with us um so i think uh at this point in time we'll we'll take a little break yeah and and get some uh hear from our sponsors yeah and then we'll take a little break and get some hear from our sponsors.
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Yeah, so Sunday was kind of a rainy, gloomy day, which we were totally okay with because we were all partied out. We were dead to the world. If I had to go drinking, hang out by the pool, I don't think I ever would have made it. I don't think I drank at all Sunday, to be honest with you. And I never really got overly drunk all weekend since the theater group instance.
That was the last time you took a nap in the middle in the middle yeah um regulating my alcohol um I never got like completely shit-faced I mean I was definitely tipsy but um but Sunday was a good day just kind of chill so we um we haven't really talked a lot about help now through these last two podcasts because we knew we'd get to this um but all the raffle tickets that we had sold all weekend and the donations that we had got prior to um coming to secrets through the help now um go fund me go fund me um they were all for us to donate to go um to help now so right so all those raffle baskets you know 100 of the proceeds from that 100 of what people donated to the gofundme that's all went to help now.
So, right. So all those raffle baskets, you know, a hundred percent of the proceeds from that a hundred percent of what people donated to the GoFundMe, that's all went to help now. Yeah. So just a little bit of backstory. Um, we've really been, and that's kind of Dan's, um, like his thing that he kind of came up with, which I fully support.
Um, when we do these events, we've really tried to pick a charity, um charity that's maybe not you know big government funded you know something like a little bit smaller that we can really make an impact with and just kind of another opportunity to show that swingers are not just all about sex and partying that they are nice good genuine people that want to give back to their communities. And so Dan had kind of asked Meg, hey, find us a local charity that we can support and we can donate money for. And so Meg actually found Help Now. Yeah.
And it is a women and children's domestic violence shelter.
Well, I guess it's just a shelter shelter correct no it's it's a shelter specifically for victims of domestic violence okay for women and children that are victims and but it's it's so much more you know they're an outreach program they're an education they run a 24-hour hotline i mean they you know they do a lot of things for for domestic violence and victims of domestic violence um i think for that county um in florida they they pretty much are the only um you know opportunity yeah i think so so we actually scheduled a time to go and personally deliver the donation yeah so all of us got to go um yeah everyone made it to the trip no um daphne and and daddy mike did not make it yeah but everybody else yeah everybody else got to go and Meg had got it all set up and so we um we actually got to take the secrets to Jeep yeah which was kind of thank you Frederick it's funny because on Thursday night uh you know we had when we talked to we had met Frederick and Barbie and talked to them and we told them that Lacey wanted to go to Disney Springs.
Frederick said, well, do you guys have a car? Because if you don't, you can take the Secrets Jeep. And we were like, oh, no, we had a car because I had drove down. But I was like, damn, we should have took the Secrets Jeep. Yeah, then afterwards, we're like, man, we should have took the Secrets. Because it's a Jeep Cherokee. Completely wrapped. It's completely wrapped.
And it says, hideaway resort like nude pool party you know like the phone number like how fun would that be to drop it into disney it has like you know the outlines of like girl bodies and stuff we're like man we should have really taken that to disney but then we need to go to help now to do this donation and we didn't have we didn't have enough a lot of people had flown in we didn't have enough cars so i had texted frederick and said hey you know can we still use that jeep and he was like yeah absolutely 100 percent um so we got the jeep and when we which was a little weird driving a jeep with naked pool parties on the side to go to a woman's domestic uh violence they didn't even see the car they didn't see it um so we went in and um we presented them with a check for three thousand one hundred twenty nine dollars which we were very very proud of so if you're a part of that if you donated thank you so much um we were a little taken back we didn't know what we didn't know what to expect but i was very proud of that that about yeah that's a good amount and if so we're going to continue to do this, but if you want more information on help now or the toy charity that we did, you can go to the swing nation.net and in the menu, you'll see, it says the swing nation cares.
And we're going to post every time we do a donation, you know, who we donated to, how much, and then have a website to that, that charity. So if, you know, if there's people out here and that hear this and they're like, oh man, you know, that's the type of thing I would really like to donate. You can still go, go to their website and do additional donations. But yeah, so what, going to help now, what I didn't realize is Meg had coordinated it and she had told them that we were a podcast, but she didn't tell them that we were swingers.
She gave them the name of the podcast and gave them our website.
assumed they did their own research they did not they did not so so we all show up there and these people were super super nice right and so we go in they give us like a tour of the facility well not a little tour we couldn't go we didn't go into the rooms but they give us a tour like the call center and the kind of the you know the the public area they had all you know the kitchen and the like living room that they all shared um and one of the girls the the workers there was like so who who are you guys like you guys are way younger than most of the like usually we get these old uh church groups that come through here and do donations they're like who who are you guys like are you a church and we're like well not exactly and so i was just like no we are we're a group of swingers and we you know and she was like like swinger swingers like like swinger swingers and we're like yeah we're we're swingers we're non-monogamous uh you know we kind of we told her that you know we do this to try to shed a positive light on our our community.
And, you know, and they were super they weren't like, oh, my God, get out of here. No, they're like, she actually was off that day. She just came in to get the donation and meet us. And so her husband had drove her up there. Yeah. So she like made her husband come in and she was like, oh, my God, they're from Secrets. Yeah. Like she knew exactly what Secrets was. She knew what Secrets was. Yeah.
And got all our tiktok names so she could follow us on tiktok and uh they were super nice oh super nice they went and got condoms for us and gave us a parting gift gave us a bunch of condoms and you got a magnum condom too it was a good brand they had the good stuff yeah um they were so nice took a picture with us um just we were able to meet some of the kids and and people that were there in the shelter um and you know you know just to share a little bit i i didn't realize this uh you know because of covid um help now has been affected negatively in a few ways um one is they can't have as much staff or have as many people so they're operating at 75 percent capacity they can't fill all their rooms because they have to keep social distancing yeah um in addition to that they said that domestic violence cases have soared um because everybody's stuck at home together because all these um partners you know all these couples are spending way more time together than they normally would and then all the stresses that come uh you know, with COVID and potentially not having, you know, all these couples are spending way more time together than they normally would.
And then all the stresses that come, uh, you know, with COVID and potentially not having, you know, losing jobs and money and, you know, whatnot. Um, so domestic violence cases have soared. Um, they don't have as much room as they're in their shelter. And then in addition to that, you know, they would do a lot of like, uh, community events to raise money.
You know, I don't know if dinners or, or i don't know how they were raising money but essentially they would do events to raise money but because of covid they were unable to hold a lot of the events that they typically would hold because of social distancing yeah she said they basically just had to cancel all right there the majority of their fundraiser events they had canceled um for the for the year. Um, so all of that together, they were super appreciative of us and the donation we made.
So, uh, I think that was one eyeopening, um, for sure to, to, you know, the struggles that that specifically that group had gone through. And then, you know, also made me feel even better about, uh, that we were able to, I was really proud of Meg for picking that charity.
I proud of Swing Talk as a community as a group not just us I'm talking about like everybody on TikTok that and then everybody that was at Secrets that purchased I was just very proud of everybody involved yeah and there you know and there was a lot of people made a lot of donations you know um you know i think we raised about two thousand dollars in raffle tickets you know and that's like at a dollar a pop so you know and you're only talking a couple hundred people you know i don't know two or three hundred people that were there so yeah you know people people definitely took it seriously and definitely you know reached into their pockets uh yeah to and thank y'all i mean that's kind of our little thing that we do and and they kind of took it and ran so we appreciate all the group and everyone that was at secret's helping us out with that and even you know uh you know spencer said some words and you know i think people in our group being there at help now and meeting the staff and meeting some of the children and, and women that were in the shelter.
Uh, I think the group was affected by that and got a little emotional. And, uh, you know, I think that's the type of thing that, uh, you know, obviously we support and want to continue to do, but it, it definitely does, um, opens our eyes, but also I think opens other people's eyes.
Well, the lady with help now i mean like we've hopefully changed her perspective on swingers because like now she hears about swingers she'll be like oh well like the ones i met were wonderful they came in they donated they were respectful they were you know like and that's kind of what this is about right um right to spread that right and then she tells 10 people and they tell 10 people yeah you know and then you know you don't like that but then you know i think secrets hideaway has a group of friends now you know like i think you know they'll be more supportive of that organization so yeah uh you know it's win all the way around yeah for that and i was happy to be part of it yeah after that we um we went down to lunch as a group we had mexican um which was really good um we talked about the food situation at secrets um which we should add they um one of my critiques in our first secrets visit was the food was not super great it has greatly improved yeah i don't they said something about hired a new chef or something i mean it's restaurant good restaurant quality food yeah it was very very good before it was like cheap bar food kind of yeah now it's it's still kind of a pain in the butt to get food and weight and stuff like that so it was nice to go to like a sit-down restaurant all of us together and actually i think we had been so busy we were kind of eating on the run all weekend to be able to go to a restaurant sit down and like stuff your face was kind of yeah it was nice so we and again the weather was like overcast it was just really nice um after that we went back and a lot of the people um got in the hot tub dan and i actually went back to the mexican restaurant we had a we had a dinner uh business meeting we did we met with sex with sue and we met tj um so it's kind of like a business opportunity to sit and chat so hopefully you'll hear about some of those in the future um but it was really nice to meet other people in the lifestyle who are, you know, are spreading awareness and helping.
I enjoyed our meeting. Yeah. No, yeah. TJ's, I guess he's pretty big in, like, the hot wife space. And then Sex with Sue, she has her duckling group that goes around and does traveling. And then I think she also has a podcast. She's a clinical therapist, I think. I'm not sure her exact title, but yeah. Yeah. And so she, you know, she is a very knowledgeable person. Uh, you know, we got referred to them by Frederick and Barbie saying they were close, you know, friends of theirs. And it's just, it's just nice to meet people that are, you know, doing things within the space.
And, and, you know, I think the more we can all work together towards the, you know, some of the goals that at least me and you have, uh, anybody that's willing to help with that, I think the more we can all work together towards, you know, some of the goals that at least me and you have, anybody that's willing to help with that, I think we're, you know, we're definitely willing to sit down and talk to and get to know. So we're super appreciative, Sue and TJ, for sitting down and having dinner with us and spending some time with us. After that. Great conversation. We enjoyed it. Yeah.
After that, we came back and we did a room crawl. So we basically opened our doors and let everybody come in and say hello. I'll be honest with you. We probably should have scheduled this for Saturday. At this point, it was snowing everywhere but Florida. And so a lot of people had left early. To try to not miss flights. Yeah, miss it.
So we didn't have a huge huge turnout for our room crawl but we we ended up all just getting in our room and just having a blast we did tick tock lives um another half a dozen or a dozen or so couples yeah did come and hang out with us i mean they did come and hung out with us for a couple hours it was great it was fun we had a good time and then a few you know i think you and malia and kylie went just running around. Because we had, SDC had given a bunch of giveaways. So just SDC merch, you know, and we had some bags. And so the girls ran around the resort.
And anybody they could find that was still there, they gave some giveaways too. Yeah. Which I think we got rid of just about all that stuff. So that, and it was, we had SDC donate a ton of merchandise. So thank you, SDC. And then also it was good to be able to give some of that stuff away and meet people. And it was a really good, like a lot of people that wanted to talk to us, like it's hard to talk at the pool when there's music and dancing and stuff. Same with the club.
This was a really good time for people to really chat with us and get to know us and we could actually have a conversation.
And then we entered the night back in the hot tub yeah and and i think this is another one of my highlights for the weekend was this you know it's pretty much at least who was still there we know a couple people had to leave but uh who's left we just hung out in the hot tub under the stars it was chilly you know chilly that night but we're just in the hot tub drinking and hanging out and really talking and you know i think really reminiscing about the weekend and and then just reminiscing about you know the whole tiktok swing talk movement and you know just i don't know just a lot of good conversations yeah it was um you know life of spice and her husband and just everybody that you know was there just it just felt good yeah it did i had a great time again i was exhausted we called it a night relatively early i'm not sure if anybody played that night to be honest you met the arouse people came and you met with them which was very nice they brought us some t-shirts yeah so they host arouse parties at secrets a few times a year so we got to meet them they were wonderful people um that was that was fun um they actually hosted a party the weekend after us they tried to get us to come back and i was like listen it's new boobs or arouse party i'm getting the new boobs but it was just really nice um but yeah like i said we kind of called it a night relatively early um you had an early flight i think the next day no i did not it was at three but i mean it was still midnight when i say call it early i mean it was midnight um but we just kind of wrapped it up we knew like, like, our room, we had so much stuff.
Meg had an early flight, so we had to get everything packed up and loaded in the car and stuff. So, yeah, so we went to bed. We did. We went to bed, which was much needed. Yeah. And we pretty much woke up on Monday and packed up all of our stuff. Again, Dan dan's car was so full you couldn't even fit a person in there yeah at least it was a little a little less because we had given a lot of it away but but you ended up taking like one of my suitcases home so i didn't have to pay to to check two bags um but we had lunch again with my sister and got to spend a lot of time with her.
At the Mexican place. So we did go to the Mexican place three times. In two days. And really 24 hours, babe. Yeah. Yeah. So we had lunch with her and she took me to the airport and that was it. Back off. Back to real life. Back to home. Yeah.
How many days did it take you to get over the weekend like it took me i don't and that's the thing it's like when we have weekends like that because you know pretty much i drove home monday and then you know work tuesday and you're just like exhausted yeah you are dan and i don't like in our normal everyday life we don't drink um in our house at all like we don't even really drink maybe if we go out to dinner or something we might have a drink but we don't really party we don't really drink we're pretty chill people we only swing about once a month so we can we kind of go all out when we do and so it takes us every bit of a half a week to to be Wednesday, Thursday to get over it.
Yeah. But Secrets was epic. It was really fun. Yeah. I look forward to more. I think Vibe's going to be, you know, it's only one night, but it's still going to be pretty epic. Yeah, it will be. And since we've gotten home, we've heard from Secrets. They want to do it again. So we're thinking about maybe planning another event this year there. I don't know. We'll see. Right. We've got to work on our calendar. Yeah. So, I mean, overall, I mean, Secrets was just an amazing weekend. Well, yeah.
So not only to hang out with the Swing Talk people, but then also meet our friends, I guess, you know, all of you that came out. It was super cool. And then, you know, meeting, you know, party Mark and getting to talk to him and Frederick and Barbie and, you know, Sue and TJ. And I mean, it's just a good, good weekend all the way around, not only for fun, but also for business and getting to know people in the space. I think a lot of good things happened. I agree. I look forward to doing more of it. Are we rating this weekend? We already rated Secrets.
I don't remember what we rated it, but do you want to re-rate it? We can't. It's up to you. I don't know. Let's rate it. I think they've moved up on the chain. I don't remember what we rated them for. I don't know either. I think it was maybe like a seven and a half, I think, is where we were at. Yeah, I think out of 10 pineapples, I would rate it like an eight and a half. I was thinking an eight. Yeah. And I think I would give it the half just because, like, the company we were with. Yeah. I mean, because, like, Secret Steel is a 1974 Old Ramada, right?
ramada right i mean it is you know but like they've really done an amazing job with what they have well that's i think i have more appreciate definitely more appreciation for it now than i did the last time correct did a review because of talking to barbie and frederick because of talking to james and i really see the vision they have for the place you know when you start talking hearing about about, like, you know, them wanting to put in this, they're getting ready to put in this, they're breaking ground probably as we speak. Yeah.
For the new pool with a stage in the middle of it, you know, and then they're talking about building a second resort maybe next door or somewhere nearby that's like a, you know, more of a prude resort. But then, you know, give people a safe place to, like, dip a toe in.
then if once they get comfortable with that go to see you know go to this secret so i you know i think frederick and barbie and james and all them i think they you know it's i only see them going up from here right i think yeah i think they've taken that you know they took it from a dilapidated hotel that was full of you know drug dealers and hookers to now a really nice resort um i can't you know and that's all within a few years so i you know the next few years i can only imagine what what they're gonna be able to do with it but uh yeah i i like secrets um i think dan and lacey are fans of secrets probably for from now until for forever into the future yeah we're lifers now.
I keep trying to get Dan to buy a condo. Yeah, well, maybe one day. Yeah. We probably won't be able to afford it if we keep waiting, though. I know. Because I think it's only going to keep getting better. So, but I don't know. What else you got? That's it. So you're ready for vibe? Yes. How are your boobies feeling this week? The same. Right. I'm a little sore. Because we recorded the last podcast like an hour ago. So they literally feel exactly the same. Yeah. Yeah. What do you think? You think you're going to be ready for Vibe? I think I'm going to have to be. Yeah.
They're going to stay behind, hidden, though. They're not going to. Yeah. So I, before my surgery, I bought, like, all, I was really excited. So I'm getting off on a tangent here, but we have a few minutes so I can. I got my boobs done when I was 21, and they are beautiful and perky. But since then, I've had a kid. I've gained weight. I've lost weight. You know, I mean, like, gravity, like, age has happened to them. And so they were a little heavy and needed some support. So I couldn't just wear any dress, right? Thank you. I mean, like gravity, like age has happened to them.
And so they were a little heavy and needed some support. So I couldn't just wear any dress, right? I had to like kind of pick my dresses around my boobs. So when we found out we were going through the vibe party, I knew my boobs were just going to be freshly done, but I didn't, I don't know, in my mind, they were going to be like perfect and ready to go to go Didn't think you'd sell bruises and no, so I bought like all I bought six six off It's the first time I've heard that you were there when I purchased them, but I bought six outfits They're all like and now she's gonna wear none of them.
No, I can't wear any of them. They were all like spaghetti. Story of my life. Spaghetti strap. You know, like no support whatsoever because I don't need that anymore. And I'm realizing now, four or five days post-op, that. You're probably going to still be in a bra. I'm going to probably still be in a sports bra with bruises and incisions. So I'm going to have to go back to the drawing board and come up with something else. But it's okay. It's okay. Find me in March. I'm going to be wearing a top that has like no fabric. Yeah, I'm sure. I'm sure of it. What else you got? That's it. Let's plug.
If you're not on Discord, you need to be on Discord. We now have a Facebook group. There's a swing or a swing, um, you need to join us there. Um, where else are we? We're on YouTube now. Yeah.
We're continuing to post YouTube, uh, videos, some of our TikToks, but we're, we're working on youtube now we're continuing to post youtube uh videos a lot some of our tiktoks but we're working on i think the q a getting that up for you if it's not it might be up by the time you guys hear this so go check out the q a from secrets on youtube um you know we got some tours of some of the rooms that secrets will be on youtube um so you know we're you know the swing talk or swing talk the swing nation team yeah we're doing big things me lacy I'll see you next time.
um so you know we're you know the swing talk or swing talk the swing nation team yeah we're doing big things me lacy meg ashlyn you know we're we're trying to get you what you want what you need um to learn about the lifestyle and share that on as many platforms as we possibly can and it's a lot of work i think we we don't sleep much and uh we're on our phones 24 7 updating and commenting and liking and sharing all this stuff but uh we truly uh you know the goals are to shed a positive light on this lifestyle and i think to do that we got to be in all the places where where you guys are yeah um so we're going to continue to try to innovate and find new ways to to get get the lifestyle out there and to shed a positive light on it.
And then hopefully one day we'll be having these conversations with Congress and changing some laws to protect people from the types of discrimination that swingers still face on a daily basis out there. Yeah. But those are the goals.
They they are so what do we have coming up i know uh march we are going to trapeze it's not a like official event or anything like that but we will be at trapeze towards the end of mine we'll get those dates out april may we maybe maybe we'll go to pennsylvania there was some interest in an event in pennsylvania so if you know of an event that you think we should go to or you are a um club or associated somehow definitely email us right and we will we we have some availability over the next few months um yeah we do have naughty in new orleans first week of july yes um so what september august august we're gonna be looking at throwing a one year bash we Come on're gonna throw a one year um the swing nation podcast bash we'll be hearing more about that soon yep we just kind of had to get through secrets um secrets was a big undertaking so now that we're through secrets our goal is to get the rest of our year planned out so if you there is a place that you know we should go definitely definitely reach out and let us know right and if you want to come party with us the place to find um events is go to the swing nation.net in the menu you will find a events tab and we will post information about everywhere we're going everywhere we'll be and so if you happen to be in the area when we're we're in the area come come out to an event and say hi we look to party look forward to partying with you guys yeah i get so many messages like how do i join the swing nation like you're joined i don't know you're in you're in well how do we like we we are we always even if we want to keep an event low-key we always still tell you where we're going to be like you know unless it's like a private house party or something like that like if we're going to be at a club or hotel takeover we always post it we always say it so just definitely just keep an eye on that events yeah you'll find us all right guys i think with that in a world full of apples be the pineapple be the pineapple guys bye bye if you've enjoyed our podcast and want to support us leave leave a five-star review wherever you're listening.
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