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it out guys bye hey there pineapple people and welcome to the swing nation podcast we are your hosts northern guy and southern girl and uh today's episode we're gonna talk to you about our uh our naughty in new orleans experience yeah so last week we kind of gave you the rundown of what was naughty so now we're gonna go through and just kind of talk about our experiences yeah give you a little little inside scoop and a little behind the scenes about what happened with us yeah it's a good week all right so we decided to go down a day early which has been like really crucial for us um because we carry so much stuff it just it seems to work better for us just to get in a day early you kind of miss the crowd yeah try to beat the crowd in try to get unpacked now i will say we were not the only ones that had that plan oh no there was a lot of people there early and we actually ended up extending a day and staying a day late and there was a lot of people that stayed an extra day too yeah so we got in on tuesday i think uh afternoon sometime yeah um and they were doing a podcaster's meet and greet that evening for everybody that got in early when we say meet and greet we mean amongst podcasters so it was just our opportunity to meet the other podcasters like have an opportunity to sit down and chat you know just just us i guess is the correct way right uh so we basically by the time we got unloaded you know we talked a little bit in the last podcast about how that was a you know a whole thing uh being in new orleans to park curbside and get your bags out and bell hop and then up to your room so basically we got there dropped our stuff and we went straight over to the uh carousel bar yeah and we just caught the last 30 minutes of it but it was pretty nice so there was us the accidental swingers american poly um swinger diaries two or more to tango i think there may be a few more that were missing missing, but that was kind of it, which was awesome.
We had never met any of those people, so it was nice to meet and get to know some other fellow podcasters. Yeah, I mean, me and you are pretty tied into the Swing Talk, TikTok world, but we don't know too many podcasters, really. No, so that was fun.
And it was at a really cool bar called the carousel bar which the bar is literally a carousel so if you are in new orleans we recommend that bar it's pretty cool yeah the carousel actually turned yeah it looks like an old carousel and then i don't know every 30 minutes or whatever it actually starts to spin yeah it was a really cool bar it was that was a fun night but we didn't stay very long because all of our friends were getting into town and we had to help meg and her husband who meg works for us we had to help them get checked in so we didn't stay too long but then we head over and we met all of our friends they all stayed at the third overflow hotel i don't know if they give out the name of that hotel yeah i don't know either we won't do that here but yeah i don't know if i even remember it but we all we met over there helped them get situated and then you were already three sheets to the wind by that point i forgot that when we met them uh daphne was on live yeah we busted in her room well we tried to bust in the neighbor's room first yes uh and they dan so, I don't know what happened, but like we really had an A and then we went to that podcast thing, but you got pretty shit-faced.
And so like we went to the wrong room and Dan like beats on the door. It's like, FBI, let me in. And the people like, it was a couple, they kind of let him in and they were like, well they opened the door, they didn't let him in, but it was. As soon as I saw them, I'm like, that is not, that is not Daphne and Mike. They were nice about it though.
So they were like well they opened the door they didn't let him in but it was as soon as i saw them i'm like that that is not that is not daphne and mike and they were nice about it they were nice about it no they laughed at us but we found the correct room yeah we busted in she was on tiktok live um but we all ended up meeting up there it was us in the hot georgia couple um and daphne and mike follow them on tiktok and then again meg and micah um who meg works for us and her husband tacked along this time yeah and so officially naughty norlands had not started yet um so we just went to bourbon street just to have a a regular uh yeah i was annoyed with you though yeah because i was very sober and you were like seven drinks in and just like and usually it's the other way around but i don't know i think i was like a little stressed out like i didn't know what the week was going to hold there was a lot of people there was a lot going on and then here you are just like having the time of your life so i was like a little bit annoyed with you but it ended up i ended up getting a little tipsy and then i didn't give a shit anymore yeah so i don't remember we went out i actually think we went to that razzo's yes i went to we went and ate at just some random place in bourbon street and then we went to razzo's and they had this really awesome band it was like i don't know how do you describe them i don't i don't know but they were playing like new music but with like trombones and tubas and saxophones and it didn't go together like there was like a white guy and a heavyset black guy and like a really thin black guy and then another black guy who looked like magic mike yeah oh they didn't they went together i mean they played well but like the way they look right if you looked at them you would never been like these six people are in a band together yeah but it worked they were amazing we had so much fun we danced and drank and it was a good time yeah um and then we just went we went to bed i was like everybody go to your own room because you were annoyed with me no i mean it was just like the first night and i was like we have to face ourself it's the first night everybody let's just go back to our own individual rooms we have a week i mean it wasn't a bad call no but we did have to didn't we have something we had to get up and like set up the table yeah wednesday was like kind of the first day of the event i just i guess i wanted to be on our p's cues i don't know i was just like i was like the mom in the group i was like everybody's going to the room that's it we're not we're nobody's playing nobody's doing anything everybody go to bed we'll see y'all at lunch tomorrow um and so that's what we did and then we went to sleep and obviously so our kind of our routine every day was like sleep till like 11 lay in bed for like an hour or two and then get up would you say that was kind of like our routine yeah for the most part staying up half the night yeah we would go to bed at like 4 a.m get up at like 10 a.m ish yeah um well you try to get to a day party it's really like 11 or 12 don't try to get to a day party.
It's really like 11 or 12. Don't. Try to get to a day party around noon one. Yeah. So Wednesday was really like the first official day we checked in. We had a booth set up. So we got to set that up. Our booth is looking legit, by the way. We are getting better.
We're getting more official official we got banners for all our sponsors we've uh we've gotten you know all our podcast paraphernalia that we we give away yeah we did good yeah so we had heard that the day parties were where it was at so we we decided to venture out to our first day party which was at the drinkery um basically like we said in the last episode naughty new orleans takes over these bars and so it's only swingers there are only members or only people that are attending the events i guess i shouldn't assume they're all swingers but um it was fun it was there was a lot of people yeah for that that bar i mean it's a two-story it's a it's a really large bar but i mean it was you were standing shoulder to shoulder um by the time everybody got there yeah and this was the first time that we had actually been out and i was really shocked how many people recognized us and i don't mean that to toot my own horn or our horn or anything like that but i guess because naughty is such like a national level you know it's not like the south where well it's not a party that we threw like and invited people and i was like so shocked how many people came up and was like we love the podcast you know and just spoke especially this first day i was kind of like shocked because i felt like every time i turned at the drinkery that day people were coming up club owners were coming up and speaking it was just i don't know it was i felt flattered is that the correct word yeah no i think it was very kind of people weird nobody came up to me oh just just you yeah everybody was really nice i had fun at the drinkery um we didn't want to leave but we kind of again we said we slept till noon we went to a day party we had figured out that we had to eat at least once a day right a good full sit down meal yeah and um so now to be fair we kind of skipped over but we we met this was the first time we met all of our friends in one spot yeah so we had you know daphne mike daphne daddy mike hot georgia couple and micah and meg but we also had um three uh three plus three or four other couples that came that are not public so we're not going to share their information right we won't tell you their names but I think we've talked we have talked about some of these couples um a few of them are from like the Charlotte North Carolina area that we go to LSC parties and friction parties with uh and there's a few from from other places but we had quite a, you know, once you got the entire group together.
It was a good amount of people. About like 10 couples or something like that total that we knew that kind of met us down there at Naughty. So we had a good group. And it was like a good mix of like, it wasn't all just us TikTokers. It was like some regular, you know, that sounds terrible. Non-public swingers. So I thought it was a good mix. Everybody got along. Yeah.
it was like some regular you know that sounds terrible non-public swingers so i thought it was a good mix everybody got along yeah it was a fun time and i i mean i think it's so i don't know if it's the first time maybe at maybe at trapeze they had kind of met each other before but yeah yeah i know some of them have met some people yeah it's always interesting when you take friend groups and kind of meld them together to see how that. Yeah, but we've done that. And if you notice, some of our friends even split off from there.
Like they make friends with a couple or two and then you see them hang out alone. So I think that's a good thing. Yeah, I think so too. Yeah. Right. And then we broke off. We stayed there. We had to make ourselves leave. Until, I don't know, yeah, four, five, six. Yeah. I'm like, all right, if we're going to survive tonight, we need to go find some food. Yeah. So I don't remember where we had on Wednesday, do you? Wednesday? I think we just found a random restaurant that let us in. We started to get smarter. Yeah, we did. We ended up waiting. We learned that we needed reservations.
So I think this was the last night that we didn't have reservations. The rest of the week, we pretty much did.
But yeah, we just just went and found food by the time you sat down and ate you know you're looking at seven o'clock and the party starts at like 10 yeah so by the time you get back to your room rest for a few minutes get ready it's time to do it all over again yeah it's like yeah it's kind of like normally i think we would like you know if it was like go hang out at the pool at hedo we'd go back take like a nap and then get ready it seemed like at naughty there wasn't time for that but i felt like our friends and stuff took naps i don't know why we did maybe it's because we like we're kind of working too i don't know but we did not nap any days no we like laid down and looked at our phones and kind of like reset a bit, but we didn't actually know how to do it.
So the theme um wednesday night was lingerie which is super easy um i wore black lingerie and i wore a uh silk silk nightgown right no no you did not wear a nightgown Or no,gown i wore a silk uh pajama set yeah let's get that straight there not a nightgown and i wore a black silk rose so we kind of matched um i changed my outfit like three times you did yeah yeah lacy was in the kind of the panic i don't well and everybody was in our room so because our room was in the host hotel room you know the main room everybody kind of came to our room and dropped their stuff and then we went down together and so i'm like getting ready while everyone's in there which i didn't mind at all but like normally i would like ask you what do you think about my and i would have like a moment alone to just you know see if i liked my outfit and i didn't really have that chance but it's okay it works yeah we wore i wore black we went um we again we hung out in the edm room right so this was the first this is the first night of naughty and so we didn't have it quite figured out yeah like what so when we went down we saw there's two there's two club rooms which we kind of talked about in the last episode one they they advertise as the top 40 room and when i say club room these are ballrooms within the hotel that they've taken over and converted to like a club space um and very they did a very well job i mean they had the light setups they had stages the edm room had a couple stripper poles i mean but these are big rooms that could hold i don't know hundred hundreds of people if not like a thousand people um and so the first night we went to the top 40 room and kind of hung out there for a little bit we weren't really feeling the vibe the music you know it was it was okay but it wasn't like our you know we were just kind of drawn to that edm right so we're like okay let's go over and check out the other room which is the edm room which is more like they're playing newer music and Thank you.
were just kind of drawn to that edm right so we're like okay let's go over and check out the other room which is the edm room which is more like they're playing newer music and it's kind of that techno electronic kind of music you know that yeah shake your ass to kind of music yeah so we went over there and we're like oh yeah this this music is you know this is this is where we want to be and uh yeah so we hung out we danced it was fun i don't remember that night okay so it was lingerie night did they have dancers that night they did and they had um he was a male but he like had just like a g-string on and he had like stripper boots and he was amazing yeah like i could just sit there and watch right so they we had talked about this a little bit on the last podcast but they they had hired professional dancers um and they would you know they wore fancy outfits and they'd come and they'd they'd dance on the stripper poles but not like a stripper just kind of more like a go-go dancer just kind of to get the vibe going and so yeah people would come up and dance and um that was nice and we so we were all dancing uh and we did a lot of dancing this week i mean crazy yeah i don't think i've ever danced that much because we'd be dancing at the day parties and then you'd go change you go to the night parties and just more dancing um but yeah i don't know i mean we dance with our friends and kind of this is you know these parties are really when you start swapping partners and dancing on different people and kind of getting the feel for you know who you have a connection with most of these people we've known and for years and so we kind of already know that but it's just just fun it's just a fun atmosphere yeah so we did end up going back to the playroom it was a smaller group of us it was it wasn't everyone um but we did go back we found like um it was like was it a it was like a semi-private play what would you call that right so this was our first time in the playroom so we kind of did a walkthrough first um but i don't think we even walked through them all no and so you know we talked about the again this a little bit in the last podcast but they had rooms for everything they had a big large group playroom which i don't know it must have had 100 beds in that room um they had several semi-private rooms and when they say semi-private room it's essentially a curtained off room but it has like a sheer curtain on the front so you can see into it and there's only a single like queen bed in each one at least that's all i saw i don't know if there might have been multiple beds in some of them but the one most of the ones i saw was a single bed uh and then they had these like larger rooms that had like six eight beds maybe 10 beds at most in them um and they're kind of like a i don't know a semi group room if you so to speak um so we kind of walked around and when we got to that eight ten bed room it was mostly empty there might have been one or two other couples in there playing um and up until that point i think everything was full like yeah like every single bed we can buy had people in it but that was like a perfect area so it's like a larger bed space wasn't so compact some like i felt like some of the other playrooms were like a little bit smaller i felt like that one was probably the most open one that i had been in yeah there was like i think eight people so like uh four couples that had gone to the playroom with us so we did need a larger a larger space so we got to that room and we're like okay this is perfect well yeah let's uh let's play here yeah and there was a gentleman i use that term loosely that was i mean i didn't think singles could go to naughty i don't know he appeared to be alone yeah but he was like may i sit on the bed and i said no thank you and he said all i want to do is sit and i said i said no thank you and he so i had to you know basically tell him twice and i'm really bad about that like i'm the girl that says okay and the next thing you know he's touching me right so i was kind of proud of myself for saying no thank you but the fact that he like pushed back again but i'm curious does single guys?
I don't know. I honestly don't know the answer to that question. I will say, as far as the single guy things, I have seen, at almost every club we've gone to, is where maybe not couples go as a couple. And then, like, the guy kind of breaks off on his own and kind of, you know. So, you know, was he part of a couple? Maybe.
But he definitely was wandering around the playrooms solo for sure yeah he definitely was yeah and that was it was kind of a little weird but again it's it's very important when you're in this environment to know that you have a voice and if you're not comfortable to go ahead and speak up and say no and it's not you know if he gets offended that's on him and that's something that i've really had to work on it's like finding my it's not normal i think you know people don't like confrontation so to tell somebody no is a little uncomfortable especially when it seems what he's asking is innocent he just wants to sit down but there was 10 other beds in that room he could have sat on he wanted to be close to you for whatever reason yeah um and yeah if you're not comfortable with that just speak up and say that and you know he did eventually listen but and there was attendance and stuff i did feel like if i had needed someone else i didn't feel unsafe at all um i just had to say it twice yeah and uh yeah every every play when we saw there was several attendants walking around and keeping an eye on things and changing sheets and stuff like that but uh yeah so anyway we got in there we got kind of settled um and for the most part it was a group we were comfortable with that one of the couples that was with us was a newer a newer couple and this is a couple we've known for a while but they've you know they're just kind of dabbling in the lifestyle they're pretty pretty new to the lifestyle we had had conversations with them it seemed like they were open to play we were open to play with them we just weren't quite sure oh they were giving us all the signals oh yeah so we weren't we just we had never had an experience with them um so as couples started to play um we kind of took over two beds um and this new couple the husband kind of was on ended up on one bed and the wife ended up on a different but they were pushed beds pushed together so let me know they were like a footer there was like a couple oh was there okay i can't remember yeah but still like relatively in the same space like completely in the same like you could touch the other bed from one bed right yeah uh and so as we started playing um i think you ended up with the husband yeah and i ended up with the wife I think, if I remember correctly, you were sitting on his face at one point.
Yeah. I think I was going down on her and she said something to the effect of, like, I'd really like you to fuck me. Yeah. And we knew this was a new couple. So what I did is I was like, okay, like, and I went to you.
So normally what I would do is check in with you, check in with him, and in this case you were sitting on the guy's face sorry so i couldn't really check in with him but i i went to you and said hey she she's asking me to have sex with her are you okay with that and you're like you know you're getting and i actually asked her as well so in this case i said you know are you comfortable is everything good and she said yes she was like absolutely i'm great and so so we proceeded with that yeah and then i guess i got off of him at some point it was very quick because you were with her for like maybe two minutes right and i you came over i think to check on her and yeah and you know like and i actually him and was like, hey, I just want to just double check that everything is good.
And he was not okay. Yeah. I think so. Yeah. So you were writing his face. I got permission from you and her. And she gave me permission. Right. I started having sex with her. You came over and joined us for just a second.
And then I think you looked back at him and I don't know if you could tell by the look on his face or if you just were checking in but you said to him are you okay with this and he gave you a look i don't know if he said no or just kind of like yeah it became clear he was not okay yeah and i went to you and i said you need to stop yeah and like a very sweet loving wife like hey we need that right so we all took a break and this is i think the only reason we really because normally we don't get into details about what happens in a playroom.
But this is important because I think it kind of, it's a good example of what things can happen. Everything that we talk about, yeah. We had all talked about this ahead of time. We all felt pretty comfortable going into it. And then in the moment, he got overwhelmed. And we took a break. We kind of all talked about it real quick. He was okay. Everybody else that was there was seasoned couples.
And couples and listen we've all been there we've all had moments where we're not sure and really it was just a matter of them making like having like stepping away which they didn't even leave the room they just kind of sat with each other and had a conversation and then they were fine but it it happens and that's what we tried to tell them and i'm sure like they were like oh my god it doesn't happen but it does like you and i have had cases where i've left the room because i was upset with the way something had happened it's just it's kind of part of it with sharing your spouse it sounds fun and sounds cool and stuff but until you actually do it it's it can be hard yeah no and i think and that's why i guess i bring this up because i think this is like the perfect example and we were not their first couple just for the record they had they had had several experiences prior to us that's why we felt comfortable doing this but go ahead i'm sorry no i think it was probably their first time in this environment with multiple couples in groups is not for everyone that's like kind of what we love and we've gotten away from like one-on-one which is fine but not all couples are okay with that especially not in the beginning yeah so we all checked in with each other everybody was good we took a little break kind of and then we kept going uh and finished out the night and then they came the nice thing i think about this is they came up to this the next day and they said – Just the four of us.
Just pulled us aside and said, hey, we wanted to talk to you. We kind of talked through last night. And what had happened is he couldn't see – because we're on two different beds and there's kind of people in between, he kind of lost eyesight of his wife. And I guess that is what not being able to see her and know that she was okay just got to him. Like he wasn't okay with that.
And that's why he kind of had a little moment there and we took home that's completely awesome fine like that's you know that's the thing is you do if you have different experiences you kind of will learn things yeah you know and that's maybe a thing you're not comfortable with and you know as they progress as a couple you know they might get more comfortable being further apart not being actually well and maybe like how you came and checked with me maybe that should be like a boundary for them like she needs to if she's ready to you know do something with someone she needs to come and just check in with him or vice versa right um you've kind of learned and then like i think as you've done this more and more some of those can kind of yeah you know go away with time if you can kind of I can look at you and tell if you're okay you can look at me and tell if i'm okay so um so overall it was like a very good night first night of naughty was success i felt like um it was it was a blast yeah and then it was time to go go to bed and yeah so we probably went to bed at like three so then again we just sort of did the same thing again um thirsty was a little different because Thank you.
Yeah, and then it was time to go to bed and get up. Yeah, so we probably went to bed at like 3. So then again, we just sort of did the same thing again. Thursday was a little different because we were on some panels and in some things. But again, we slept till noon at 11. Got up. The beach party was on Thursday.
And I was so confused by this because everyone says, we're going to the beach we're on the beach it is a bar called the beach and apparently that is like the party of the week and we were so sad we did not get to go yeah so i mean we need to talk to bob about next year don't make the podcasting panel at the same time as the beach we didn't know when they asked us what we wanted to be involved in we were like we want to do all these things right essentially if it has something to do with podcasting we want to be yeah included yeah so they did that yeah we didn't know but basically at the same time as the beach part the day party they did a podcast panel where we kind of sat on a stage um it was us and maybe five other podcasters um couples including jackie and john from that own colette's they were on our podcast a few weeks ago so they're the open love 101.com people they also own all the clubs in texas and in new orleans which was like a very like there's like been the these moments throughout the last year of our crazy life of this podcast and tiktok and everything there's been some moments where like things just seem so crazy and i look at you and i'm like oh my god this is our life and i think meeting jackie and john was kind of one of those because like if you're a swinger you pretty much know who they are they're like the face of swinging if you look up any kind of news articles or news um like dateline anything like that it's jackie and john so like just stand there and chit chat with them like they're our friends and take a picture with them and get to meet their assistant and their horses their assistant get to meet meg i don't know it's a very surreal moment for me personally yeah yeah and then so we get on the stage with them and then we're on a panel with them yeah we're on the stage who are we at naughty in new orleans doing a podcasting panel uh and there was i don't know maybe at least 50 to 100 people in the crowd i mean i was shocked because when they said that beach party was the same time i was like nobody's gonna show up to this thing i even tried to like dip out i was like dan can we just like go to the party no we committed to this we're doing this yeah i tried um we even tried to go to the the party for like 30 minutes but it was a foam party and and i was like when we got up we ran and grabbed pizza on burger street real quick and we just happened to walk past the party on the way home and i'm like well we can dip in there real quick and just kind of so that we say we could did it and yeah there's foam everywhere The phone coming out of the front door.
Unless he's like, oh, I can't do that. I'm like, if, we can dip in there real quick and just kind of – so that we say we did it. And, yeah, there's foam everywhere. There's foam coming out of the front door. And Lacey's like, oh, I can't do that. I'm like, if I go in there and get foam and get wet, there is no way I'm sitting on a panel. No way. I was like, we're going to – you look so disappointed. And usually it's the other way around. Like it's me begging you to, like, do something. But I had to be the grown-up. I was like, I know. You had to be the grown-up.
was like i know i'm sorry i want to go too but we just we just can't um but the podcast panel was pretty good i felt like the new kids i did very much feel like the new kids on the block yeah um and i think i think everybody kind of knew it yeah um but they're probably like what the fuck is tiktok but it was good i think you know there's a lot of discussion and definitely the older podcasters you know their identities no most of them nobody knows who they are and they're very i didn't realize that i didn't know that either but it makes sense that you think about it um and so i think we were kind of bringing this new wave of hey like we respect what you guys do and appreciate it and you definitely have opened several doors for us um but you know we're kind I don't know.
I think we were kind of bringing this new wave of, Hey, like we respect what you guys do and appreciate it. And you definitely have opened several doors for us. But you know, we're kind of here and loud and proud and we're, we're going to make some noise and, you know, and I love that John and Jackie are, where I think I felt like they were on the same page as us. Yeah. It was kind of cool because they like, they were kind of in between, like they've been around for a while, but they're also public.
So they were kind of like the middle ground between us and them one thing did stand out is one of the people were like we did our podcast for six years and we only received one hate message email and i was like uh i can give you some of mine like i get one an hour what the hell are you talking about must be nice right and part of the conversation we had is you know the thing about podcasting is most people find podcasts by getting on one of the podcast platforms and searching and seeking out information on swinging the difference between that and social media is tiktok is pushing our faces and our tiktoks and our information to people that are not looking for swingers yeah and and seems like some of them disagree with what we're doing um so yeah we do get quite a bit of pushback against what we do but i think i don't know i feel like now that we've kind of gotten over the initial like shock of how much that hate hurts yeah um it also i think kind of helps us build our our armor and and refine our message right because if we're used to being heckled every day we can kind of speak to it you know yeah better than people because yeah we're used to we already know what the yeah the messages are going to be there but it was a little refreshing i had a conversation with one of the podcasters after and like one of the people that dislikes us and is pretty public about disliking us also dislikes them so it was like really nice that like we could have like an enemy in common i'm like oh so it's not just us um but they were all very nice but we definitely definitely felt like the newer ones like who the hell are they well we had one of them was like you guys have to teach us how to tiktok I was like, all right, we'll totally teach you.
Yeah. So after that, basically, we had missed the day parties, which sucked. But we had made reservations for the Bourbon House, which was attached to our hotel. And it's definitely a nicer restaurant.
I mean, we wore just like shorts and tank tops but definitely a nicer restaurant we had a good meal it was expensive another tip is if you go with a group of people a lot of places will not let you split your ticket so basically like one person would have to pay every night and then we would have to like figure out the difference and venmo um to each other that's just like another thing yeah if you are in a group i think it's like more than four people They won't let you split your tabs. That was pretty common amongst the places.
Almost every restaurant so after dinner it was again time to go back get ready um and so the theme for thursday night was burning land which i don't know where land comes from because burning man is i almost wonder if that's trademarked and they can't say burning man and so they say burning land that's what i wonder so if you don't know burning man is a festival somewhere out west like arizona yeah desert somewhere and it's basically kind of like steampunk golf mad max yeah all that so i'm honestly that theme is kind of all over the place you could just be whatever you want it to be um i wore a silver outfit with like a what's that hat called that i don't know what that's called i wore a pretty elaborate hat you'll have to go on our tiktok or instagram and look at it but it was a silver hat um silver sparkly shoes it was fun i don't think i ever wore heels or like maybe for five minutes each night that would be another tip ladies there's just really no reason i mean like i get it we all want to be cute but it's just borderline impossible and you're just walking so much yeah i think it's a thing like all the keto desire you know any multi-day unless you're one of those girls that can just like some of those girls wear those heels if you work on them every day i guess you probably used to yeah yeah i just couldn't but i got some cute like sparkly tennis shoes and stuff so they went with my outfit so it was cute so it worked yeah and then there was this was the mirror theme night right there was a lot of people wearing mirror stuff yeah there was and again these dancers that they had hired were on the stripper poles wearing lingerie with like a like a disco ball head disco ball head yeah i have a video i don't know if we can post it though because of the lingerie they're wearing it might be too much anyway um maybe instagram yeah maybe um but yeah he i asked him i was like can i take a video with you and he was like yeah yeah so you had a disco ball head you couldn't tell you couldn't tell who he was but um and i jumped on like the stripper stage and dance with him um it was fun i enjoyed this party and what was really cool about the edm room they projected um these like images on the walls of the room and so it was really really cool like it looked like you were not in a hotel ballroom they made it a bunch of projectors and there was videos on all the walls and the videos were playing of whatever theme you know so i think there was like you know mad maxi kind of videos going on the walls it was pretty cool so then we went to the semi-public playroom which y'all we first of all we had to make like four laps every room was full we had to wait in line for this we had to wait in lane i think that's the first time ever i've never never in a hotel takeover had to and again a lot of hotel takeovers don't even have playrooms but still even like if you compare it to splash you didn't have to wait in line no yeah yeah we finally got one.
It was like kind of like when you go to a restaurant and you see that table that's open by the bar that you don't have to wait and you like stock it. That's kind of what we did. But it was like a full-size bed. And how many people? We had like eight people. Yeah, so I think there was like eight of us that went to the playroom this time. And yeah, it was one full-size bed, which made things difficult.
difficult at one point i was like half hanging off the bed and using my hand to like hold me up i don't know if somebody was going down on me we ended up just soft swapping um you and i had had a conversation prior to going that we felt like with the newer couple that was the way to go um i don't know. There was just a lot going on. Wow. No, I agree. So, we just decided to do that. So, it was just a lot of soft swapping that night. Yeah, which was hot, which is fun. Oh, yeah. Soft swapping can be totally hot. Yeah. So, we had the eight couples in a pretzel on the bed.
I don't know if everybody soft swapped. Miss Me and you did. I don't know if some of the other couples swapped. Yeah, I don't know. I could just speak for us. Yeah, but it was a good time. Some guy poked his head in. Do you remember that? Yeah. So this, again, this is a semi-private room. So it's curtains and then a sheer curtain that blocks the room. Yeah. And some guy just opened the curtain and was like, what's going on in here? And it was like, we're trying to fuck. What are you doing? That's the purpose of the curtains. And he just, he left and went on.
But it was like uh we're trying to fuck what like yeah what are you doing that's the purpose of the curtains yeah and he just he left and went on but yeah it was good yeah i like that the nice thing is you know like it's private but you can still hear everybody else fucking super hot and you hear all the noises and like people moaning and but you can't really see it but you can kind of imagine so it's a good it's a good environment yeah it was yeah so friday again slept till noon uh no so i think at this point oh we're gonna pause at this point we need to stop and uh hear from the partners and sponsors of the swing nation podcast okay and then when we get back we're gonna go over friday and saturday night and finish out naughty new orleans with the guests okay all right we'll be right back the sweet nation podcast is proud to partner with shameless care yeah this this was an easy partnership right they reached out to us these are lifestyle people who are looking to to help the lifestyle, right?
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they had tickets they were giving away stuff harry the owner of hito was there which we've seen him at several events over the years um he's kind of always around um but that was a fun day party we danced and um right and this is we had a few other couples that had come in at this point they weren't there for thursday and friday or they weren't there for uh we had a couple that came in for friday and saturday yeah and so we met them there they're a newer couple from from the charlotte area that's part of that kind of charlotte group that we have uh super hot couple yeah super hot so um we danced and had a good time um up until probably about five o'clock and we had dinner reservations at the hard rock which we had every other night we had eight later like 6 30 but we had the sexual freedom parade um on friday so it started a little bit earlier um originally it was to start at eight they moved the times back a little bit and they pushed it to 8 30 yeah so we basically had to be ready like at 7 7 30 to make tiktoks and stuff to go down to be there by eight.
Of course, we ended up having an extra 30 minutes. So we ate at 5, and we went back to the room. All right, which is probably a good thing. But we knew because the parade was starting earlier, we didn't normally show up to the night parties until like 10 o'clock at night. So we knew, okay, we've got to be down there for the parade at 8. So we need to break out early so that we can eat, go change, and then come back. And we were having a good time at that day party. I did not really. And I think we were both starting to get a little tipsy.
So the fact that we did break away and go eat and kind of reset before the parade was probably a good thing. But that was really like our only meal, like all day, each day. I mean, sometimes when we'd grab a slice of pizza, there was a bunch of pizza places up and down. But that pizza didn't. It was like one slice. It didn't stick with you.
so we went to hard rock and then we got ready for the sexual freedom parade which was really really cool you know i didn't even think about it but i'd ask some of our friends who were not public i'm like hey are y'all going and they're like no and i was like what like i was like why wouldn't you go that seems like so much fun they're like we're not public and i was like oh so when you're in this parade you have to pretty much know that your picture's going to be taken yeah um there was like pedestrians lined up and down the street taking pictures taking videos putting it on their social medias and so if you don't if you like are definitely afraid of people finding out you don't need to be a part of this parade yeah no i totally understand that so the theme for this parade was was all white which was kind of cool because everybody was dressed in white and then uh we had actually had little um we got that swinger pride flag that we've kind of been trying to promote and so we made a bunch of little like handheld ones of that and put the swing nation podcast on i think two or three hundred of those so once everybody was starting to line up for the parade we had ourselves and meg and micah and everybody and daphne we're all running around passing out flags uh to everybody and then uh yeah we marched down canal street uh but like lacy said this is it's a sexual freedom parade and this is organized by the national coalition for sexual freedom and i think in coordination with the woodhall foundation uh but these are organizations also planned parenthood had a it was a big big part of it yeah and so these are organizations that are essentially fighting for sexual freedom which essentially what with their stance is is that um sexual freedom should be uh a human right meaning you should you know the government shouldn't be a you know you should be able to engage in sex as a consenting adult in any way you would like to engage in sex and you know government and employers and places like that shouldn't be able to infringe on that and set you know tell you how to engage so this is something that we 100 support and honestly i think swinger society and some of our influencers are going to be you know keep uh i don't know i think we're going to up our advocacy so to speak we are so we've been talking about that for forever so it's time to actually like do the work and so we have started that process of really putting in the work to do all those things so it was so much fun thank god i brought converses because i didn't realize so we because we had never been we didn't realize that you were actually walking so the party on third on friday was at the house of blues which is off site so you actually walked from our hotel to the house of blues and how far of a walk was i think i googled the parade route and it was like three quarters of a mile yeah uh total that it was so hot oh my gosh it was so hot but some girls were out there in like stripper hills i felt so bad yeah it was hot and muggy i mean you were so by the time we got to the the house of blues we were all soaking wet yeah but the parade was fun because i mean we had the flags we have our you know our little podcast uh arm brand wristbands and so we had given those to you know meg and micah and daddy mike and so everybody was running around so the crowds that were on the side of the road were like flinging wristbands at them and throwing it was fun we printed a bunch of like the podcast cards and stuff and we're handing out stuff to everybody left and right we had a bunch of beads that we had purchased so we were all wearing like i don't know a hundred of beads and so i mean there was children and stuff on the road you know yeah we'd give you know little kids beads and they were all smiles and happy i just it's very it was nice because it's nice to see our community doing something like that and then you know people for the most part you know nobody was like protesting it was like cheering and laughing and you know it was pretty fun yeah it was super fun um we ended up at the house of blues which i was not super excited about an off-premise like location but dang that was fun house of blues is amazing so it's a two-story big um big bar and it's like old kind of wood like this has like a country western feel to the building um and but the second floor is all open and looks down on this big stage and a big dance floor um and so they had brought in djs and they had brought in some good um shows like they had they had done a like a bdsm rope like tie you know suspension so they had the whole suspension uh thing they did a little elaborate uh rope tie up on some pretty very good looking girls and suspended them and like while they're doing that they're playing like you know club music and we're all dancing and watching i danced so hard i think we all did yeah i mean like so we eventually like basically shut down that part of it right so we went so next door it was like kind of like the party continued next door and it was a little bit different atmosphere it was like a it was part of the um house of blues but it was like another bar that was kind of attached to it yeah and they had a separate um band in there uh and dj and so once the main hall closed down they're like oh well you can go over there they're gonna be open for another hour or two so we went over there we.
We shut it down. And shut that down. It was so much fun. Like we laughed and danced. And I honestly have no idea how we got back to the room. I think I would just follow the crowd. We walked back. Yeah, I know we walked back. Come on now. But like I don't remember ever wondering which way to go next. I guess we just kind of walked with a group.
I don't think i oh okay yeah so when we went back to the hotel the edm party was still going right so we went in there and then just danced and danced some more yeah it was so much fun yeah and i don't know so that we ended up shutting that down right and then we're like to the playroom and then we got into the playroom. And they're like, yeah, you have like 15 minutes. Right. We got into the playroom. We went to the group playroom. And there actually was some room open. And we all get naked. And we get in the bed. And they're like, 15 minutes. Don't close.
It's like, oh, that's why there's room in here. Because they're about to close. So I think they closed the playrooms down at 3. So we were in there till 3. We shut it down.
Again, I didn't sleep with any't i don't think you did either i mean i i fucked you and soft swapped with a few other girls yeah yeah i didn't fuck anybody but it was good we had i mean we only had 15 minutes it was such a good girl i know i know i am such an innocent person yeah oh so basically we went to sleep and then saturday then saturday yeah which okay to be fair by by saturday we're dead i'm dead we have not napped we have partied we have drank and so we're not big drinkers like in our everyday life like we don't drink alcohol at home like that's no no hate to be let do that's just not what we do right um we only drink if we go to like this is the most i've drinking since probably keto yeah um but so well we got our butts up we did um the party on saturday was at razzo's again which we went that first night.
And it was the Miss No Swimsuit competition. If you're not familiar with that, Hito throws a Miss No Swimsuit week every year, which we happen to go to. We had a friend who had won Miss Trapeze. Right, and I think all that's sponsored by Tom's Trips. It is.
So we went to that, and a girl in our group, we'll call her Jay, she is like brand new to the lifestyle, she got up there yeah so she's not brand so she's been following us for like what a year we've known them almost a year maybe like six eight months at least six eight months um but they're very they're very calculated in their their lifestyle journey um so they have not full swapped with with anybody yet so they they are a new a couple uh but they're just so much fun and even they were there the night you know they've been there they're the couple that got in on friday evening um and i had never seen her husband was having a blast friday uh i'd never seen him like that yeah open and you know like just running around in his underwear like partying and it was good it was really good to see and i was proud of her for entering that contest like i wasn't even brave enough to do it we tried to get you to do it yeah and you were like nah if i can plan for it like maybe i mean like i had on not even cute clothes my hair was not like i'd been sweating on saturday i think we actually left this out but we walked to to Cafe Du Monde.
So, like, we were sweating. Yeah. We were gross. Oh, I was so mad. So, Lacey wants to go to Cafe Du Monde, which if you don't know, it's like a – what are those things called? Baguettes. Yeah. And this is like – it's the place in New Orleans to get a baguette. And baguette – because it's French. That's like the thing. All right. Beignets. Oh, yeah. What's a baguette? I don't know. All right. Beignets. Beignets. Yeah. So, we have to walk. Thank you.
morelands to get a baguette and baguette because it's french that's like the thing and all right beignets beignets oh yeah what's a baguette i don't know all right beignets yeah so we we have to walk so we're like oh at least we have to go it's not just me that wanted to go right there was people other people in our group they're like we want to go so we're like okay we're gonna we'll go early you know not early but like 10 o'clock we'll go get back we'll go get these whatever beignets beignets before we go to the day party it was so fucking hot it was like a hundred degrees a hundred percent it was like a felt like 110 it was like a mile and a half walk it was so fucking hot jay so jay and jay is that new couple he had to stop and buy a shirt stop and buy a new shirt because he was stretched and sweat they ubered back because are like fuck that we that, we're not walking back.
But yeah, I was not in, I was not. And I was like, by the time we got these donut things, I was like, all this for a donut? Oh, I should. Really? Seriously? But back to the Miss Ness Winsuit condos, I just was not in like, if I could like had planned and like had a bag and had what I needed to look cute and so cute, maybe. But anyway, I'm super proud of her. She got third place. She killed it. She can dance. No, she can shake her ass. I, like, need some lessons. I loved it. It was very, very hot. Yeah. I mean, she's hot anyway, but I did not. Because she's kind of quiet and kind of shy.
But then she, like. You know, there's an inner freak in there somewhere. Yeah. Oh, yeah. You know that. There is. You know that.
But then seeing her move, we were like, yeah i was proud of her yeah um so then we had congratulations to jay yes you did so good she did very good she did very good um then we had dinner again on bourbon street another one that we had had dinner at earlier in the week i don't we don't remember the name but it was mardi girl night so we had to head back to get ready we did i loved my mardi gras outfit we talked about this last week on the podcast but it was like a green lingerie set and then um had the garters and then i had this like long skirt that attached that was like the color of mardi gras yeah you look that that green honey brudette set that you have is it's pretty legit yeah and then with the mardi gras like flare to it definitely and i had like a mardi gras crown and then i had like a bow it was cute it was super cute i felt really good in it so we went up and we partied i didn't realize i don't think any of us realized but they closed everything down earlier on saturday night they do i don't remember what time it was but it was i think they closed everything down at one and we did not realize that which is really funny because they closed everything down at once we didn't go to bed till 6 a.m really yeah we did not go to bed till 6 a.m i forgot about that yeah so because they closed everything down early and i think the reason they had another convention the next day coming so they had to be out of there by like 11 yeah so they they i mean like tear down the lighting and stages and playrooms and i can't imagine what no i can't i can't either so they were tearing it down like literally as we were leaving um so we went back to our room we did with the whole group the whole group everybody this time everybody and but i like got no action you were like in mom mode i was you were like checking on everybody getting people water getting people lube and condoms and like you were just like sometimes i go to that mode you've done it before you did that tramp piece that one time where you were like i think there was just so many new people in the room that i wanted to be respectful of so i was constantly like checking in for consent making sure everybody was good getting them water getting them water filming somehow it ended up being like five or six o'clock in the morning and then by this since everybody had to leave our room by the time everybody got out of our room then we realized crap we have to break down our booth By like 10am Oh yeah I went So you went and broke down our booth At like 6 o'clock Right so we had decided on Saturday We are not leaving on Sunday Like that's going to be too much of it We need a day so we're going to leave Monday But we still had to break down our podcast booths because again at that 11 o'clock mark they're they're switching over to a new you know naughty's gone and somebody else is coming in so you can't have anything up in the public spaces that's swinger related so i was like shit it's six o'clock in the morning like if i'm gonna go break down the booth before 11 like i'd have to get up like two hours from now so instead of going to bed i'm just gonna go down there and i'm gonna break down the yeah so i didn't actually fall asleep while you went um but you will you win you broke it down and so sunday y'all we net we didn't leave the room until seven o'clock at night we were dead we were so dead we literally slept all day and then like some friends stayed and we're like we'll go to colette's because colette's is the club we couldn't We, I could couldn't.
I could not make myself put makeup on, get a cute out. I was like, I'm dead. We're sorry. I'm so dead. We're sorry. We should apologize to Hot Georgia Couples. Hot Georgia Couples. Because we told them, we're like, we'll meet up with you guys. Everyone else will be gone. We'll meet up with you guys. Maybe we'll make some content with you. We'll go to Colette's. My body's shut down. We never got out of bed all day.
We did did we went to get food because we were like dying we hadn't we hadn't ate food so we literally went to the closest restaurant to our hotel and then we came right back and went back to bed yeah it was bad but i mean overall naughty was a blast um it was a lot i you know like if you compare it to a hito like i think it's like the same or even a higher level of party but then all the other the conventions the the giveaways the competition the walking there was so much walking it's hot you're walking around new orleans it's just there's so many like for us there were so many people to network with that we're always meeting new people and talking to people and it was just a lot like and it was four whatever four days five days of just like go go go go yeah and lots of hot sex a lot well not for me you had you had fun though oh i had a blast like you know i mean honestly i don't like the pressure of having to have sex at these type of things i don't't know.
Do we need to rate it? Naughty? Yeah. 25 out of 10 stars. Really? I don't know. What would you say? It's not stars with pineapples. That's right. I really liked it. Yeah, I did too. We've gotten a lot of people criticized even since we've been home. We've seen some criticism, but I would think it's like a nine. Yeah. at least. Yeah. I'd say it's, yeah. I don't. It's like keto without the ocean. Yeah. I think the only way, yeah, if you took that event and put it like on a beach somewhere where you could be naked, that's like the only way I think you make it better. Yeah.
You could make the crowd a little younger, a little hotter. But honestly, even the older people were, most of them were hot and fun. Oh, yeah, it was fun.
I didn't see anybody that was like a buzzkill like everybody was in the mood to party yeah yeah it was good okay anything else about naughty new orleans that's it all right so i think with that in a world full of apples be the pineapple be the pineapple guys bye bye if you've enjoyed our podcast and want to support us leave a five-star review wherever you're listening if you want to see more of our content you can find links to snapchat twitter instagram only fans and more in the show notes come join the conversation with us and other swinger content creators on our swinger society discord server if you have questions or feedback email them to us at the swing nation at g at gmail.com.
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