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And we got in at like midnight on Monday night. So we really have Tuesday and Wednesday as our low key days. And we actually even had work on Wednesday this year. So we really just had Tuesday.
Well, I will say I felt like this trip we had less work on Tuesday and Wednesday than we we usually do because usually you have like photo shoots scheduled in there we one time we had to take a trip to fort lauderdale yeah so i mean i felt like this week at least we got to stay on on the resort yeah we stayed on property pretty much the whole week um so that was really nice so yeah this one was definitely more low-key but that just kind of gives us we have no chill time thursday through sunday so that gives us like at least a few hours at the pool each day and it's just kind of nice so agreed yeah so we got in really really late on monday night basically enough time to like check in and we just went to bed right Right.
Yeah. So nothing really done on Monday. And then on Tuesday, so I had my VVL in January and I'm struggling with a little bit of fibrosis in my belly. And the best way I can describe that is some people do all the things right. They put all the lotions and creams on and they still get stretch marks. It's kind of like that with me. It's just a little fluid buildup on my belly. So just trying to get that all worked out. I was super self-conscious going into this week because I knew a lot of people were going to be looking at me.
And I've been doing some really good work to try to like break that up and kind of like get that moved out and I didn't want to lose the work that I had been doing so I went ahead and scheduled two massages while I was in the Orlando area so that way I wasn't going like seven days without a massage so I go anyway I go Photo a massage place. They basically, they do cupping. They do red light therapy. They do wood therapy. They do all this like crazy stuff to try to help break up that fluid and get it moved out. So, and I made some pretty good progress. I really have. You have since you started.
Yeah. And I just really didn't want this week to fuck that up. I knew I was going to be out of my compression garment and everything. So I made an appointment for Tuesday morning because I knew Tuesday and Wednesday were only like my slow days. So I made an appointment for Tuesday morning and Wednesday morning at 7 a.m. My thought process was I didn't want to get in the way of anything that we had going on.
So way i would go and get back you'd still be sleeping you wouldn't even realize that i had went well tuesday i slept late yeah i think we got in at like i don't know 11 11 30 midnight ish i don't think we actually fell asleep till like 3 a.m so you're trying to get up at 7 a.m and go no i had to be there at be there at 7. Right. So 6 a.m. and go was probably a little ambitious. It was. Yeah, it was. So I was able to call them, and they told me to come in at 9. Right. You basically woke up when you were supposed to be there. No, I think I woke up at like 6, 15, 6, 30.
And it's a 40-minute drive in that time of day because of the traffic in orlando and um so i would have gotten there at like 7 15 7 20 and so i knew i was already gonna be late so i called and they told me just to come in at nine and so went back to sleep for a little bit got up went had my massage and then came back and went back to sleep with you yes so um we ended up getting up midday and realizing that we had no water yeah and uh i promptly texted uh brandon and shauna from my candy and said you guys sabotaged us um so it turned out the entire resort was out of hot water yeah like the boiler or something yeah the boiler was, the boiler was out, which kind of put us in a little bit of a panic mode because it's like if everybody gets here for our weekend and there's no hot water in the entire resort, this is going to be a big problem.
Yeah. Because it kind of, I mean, it even sucked for us because like we had traveled the whole day before. Right. And we, both of us kind of really wanted a shower.
You ended up getting in the lukewarm water but i did not yeah so i mean it's florida so like the water was like room temperature but room temperature water coming out of the shower is basically cold yeah it wasn't like so cold you couldn't get into it but it was uncomfortably cold we were more worried about the weekend than we were ourselves i mean it sucked but we were more worried about it we didn't realize at first that the whole building was out so like when we we had to go to the front desk for something else and well we just went up there to talk to them and make sure they had all the reservations and everything was good they didn't have any questions of us and we asked about the water and they're like oh the plumbers are here they're working on it it's the boiler they got the part they should be able to fix it it's no no problem and they did they got it fixed it was that day too i believe yeah it was i think later that night there was hot water yeah um so we got up we were both hungry we you did your cold shower we went to los cabos which is the mexican place kind of adjacent caddy corner yes right yeah across the street yeah it's one of our favorite places we had lunch there um i wasn't it wasn't as good for me as it normally was was it as good for you i don't think so no i wasn't i'm always impressed with that maybe i'm just a little more intoxicated when we usually go but i don't think so i don't know maybe i don't know i don't yeah it just wasn't it was good but it wasn't that great um we kind of once we got done with that we came back we checked in with the front desk again and kind of met some of the new people um there a new manager yeah so they have a new front desk you know manager that manages reservations and does the the big group takeovers and so we got to meet her the super nice lady yeah i made some tiktoks by the signs out front since we were already out there i mean again like just a super low-key day um and then we really wanted to get out by the pool so i wouldn't put my bathing suit on um feeling a little self-conscious because i do have the fibrosis but i was like you know i'm just gonna do it dan was telling me i was beautiful my friends were telling me that i was yeah things were good so i was like okay i'm just gonna do it right um and so we went out there we laid out we made some tiktoks um it's pretty low-key no it was good i think i mean if you have never been into secrets like midweek there's not a lot of people there so i mean this is what tuesday so i think there might have been four or five other couples out by the pool yeah we went late in the afternoon it wasn't like probably a peak time but yeah when we were out there there's probably only three or four other couples out there so we basically had like the pool to ourselves which was nice because you were able to kind of go in the little shallow in there and we made some tiktok videos and took some pictures and kind of did some promotional content for the weekend yeah if you if you follow us on tiktok you'll see um they're the ones like the red chair in the background you can kind of go in that corner and not get anyone not disturb anyone right as long as nobody's walking by the rooms right there yeah we pay attention to that make sure there's not yeah it's almost impossible to get very many videos stuff out there on a weekend so you have yeah you have to do it during the week days really and after that we um had a little door dash and then we went to the drag show with nc hot wife and dirty max right if you've never been to secrets drag show on tuesday nights i highly suggest it it is so much fun yeah i will say you know so part of the criticism that the lifestyle gets is that there's not you know a lot of diversity and and you know lifestyle parties don't necessarily attract a large amount of the the lgbtqia plus community and i think overall there's some truth to that you know i mean yeah uh we could do better but i think we always could do better but what i i do like about secrets is every tuesday they essentially have a pride night and they they bring in drag queens and it's a very it's basically an lgbtqia plus environment for the evening oh 100 they even do hiv testing there um if you test positive they send you home with medication which is really awesome the like this is the second one that we've been to and both times they offer that um and you got to see all types there um a little bit of everything would you say no and i'll say and that's kind of what was my point was is that's probably one of the most diverse crowds you'll see yeah at secrets um and very heavily into the LGBTgbt community and then there was furries walking around there was i mean it was everything under the sun and even the you know the drag queen said it good you know one of the things they said is we we'd love coming to secrets because it's one of the most open and inviting and safe places that you that we attend that we go to which i think is a testament not only to secrets but really to the lifestyle community because that is the environment I think the community tries to foster overall I think some groups resorts takeovers are better at doing that than others but I think the idea of the entire community is to do that and it's just good see.
And I do want people and listeners that are out there to know that there are safe places like Secrets that are very friendly to that community. Yeah. I love Pride Night at Secrets. If you can be there on a Tuesday. And they even say the reason they love it there at Secrets is because it's the busiest night of the week, you know, during, during the, you know, always Fridays and Saturdays and sometimes Thursdays are busy because people start to come in. But that, that kind of Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, you know, there's not a lot going on. It's kind of a weekend resort right now.
And I know the management and stuff right there are working to kind of build up that midweek entertainment and, you know, bring in some themes and, you know, make it friendly during the week and try to get more people in there. But they love Pride Night, and I can see why, because that whole drag queen performance was excellent. They brought in drag queens from all over the country.
Yeah, I think they were having some sort of pageant or I don't know what they call them, but some sort of competition because there was a couple people there that were from out of town and they were excellent yeah the comedian one there was this i mean she must have been what like six three six four yeah she was very tall and she was like they said she was like miss whatever comedy you know she won some kind of crown for comedy and she was so good oh my god so funny she would just look at you and you could laugh and like almost like she would look at you and it make you a little uncomfortable but like in a funny way you know it was very very good we laughed our asses off yeah it was the whole thing i didn't want it to be over like when it was over because like each um each lady did two shows like two dances and so when it was like towards the end i was sad because it was so much fun no it was really a good time and i think did you say tuesdays are like ten dollar cover charge i think yeah i think it is and single guys can get in as well right um but yeah so i think that yeah i think so if you're in the secrets area and you're you have not attended secrets on a tuesday or if you have never attended a drag show i highly encourage you to go check out secrets and go check out their their pride night because it's it's a good time we've done it i think this is the second or third time we've done i don't know but it's always great yeah it's a lot of fun after that we just crashed um we didn't do a whole lot after that yeah it's well it's funny because we were walking kind of back to the room with uh nc hot wife and uh and her husband and i kind of was like man i'd really like to fuck them but also i'm really tired and we had scheduled to make content with him the next night so it's like well we're gonna fuck him tomorrow but i kind of want to fuck him tonight and i think you were you were i think more done than i was yeah i was and it was late at that point after all that had wrapped up so we kind of like gave him a hug and said we'll see you tomorrow night yeah i basically was like okay i'm going to bed like somebody had to call it you know yeah but you could tell i think we're all kind of thinking the same thing yeah it's like that awkward yeah no for sure a wednesday was a lot of the same as tuesday um i got up i was on time for my massage this morning but it was dark the whole way there like i was completely checked in and it was still dark outside and I was like what the hell was I thinking and I ended up falling asleep which is funny because I fell asleep at the end of it because it's not a super comfortable massage like when you say massage I don't think that's like the proper term because they're kind of it's a lymphatic massage it's almost like a medical procedure right yeah so it's not but at the end like she was doing my back or something and it was like not the uncomfortable part and i dosed off so it's like whoops hurry which is like the first time i've done that but i came back and i immediately just went back to bed with you we eventually did get up and we went just kind of straight to the pool i mean this is still like lunchtime like it's not super early but we had um some stuff to do in the afternoon so we went ahead and got out to the pool a little early today yep made the kind of the same thing we did the day before took pictures of you in a sexy bikini in the red chair yeah did some tiktok videos and stuff like that and then we just kind of lounged and hung out yeah um by the pool and we ended up having to do a podcast with jordan and jess they are the entertainment directors of so of sorts i think they're co-directors so they're the ones on the microphone that are going around doing the games and chatting with people and stuff like that um so we did they have a podcast yeah so secrets now has a podcast and you can i think it's just called like the official secrets hideaway podcast or something like that and you can find it i think it's mostly like they do a lot of video i think it's on youtube but i don't even know if it's on like like you know itunes or anything like that but just go search if you see her tied away on on apple music and stuff uh you can find it um but yeah they asked us to be guests um on that show so we went in and uh while they were kind of setting up the equipment and stuff for the podcast um we actually did it right outside the dungeon and kind of that big uh open area if you've been there we know where the dungeon is you kind of know just outside of the dungeon area there's like a little stage and stuff there so they were setting up all the podcast there and so while they were doing that you actually went into the playrooms and we actually went through and we did a youtube tour uh with jess yeah they just recently redid it and honestly secrets needed that the last time we were there we were in there and i was just like oh this is just not great sorry secrets i love y'all but it was time for an upgrade it was much needed and they did a fantastic job with the upgrades no yeah so it's all brand new um all the walls have been painted there's all new beds all new like custom um mattresses with like the secrets logo on them uh they still put i don't know if you you put your own sheet on so you'll you'll see it if you go if you go in there yeah um there's all kinds of there's a like spinning wheel in the middle of the orgy bed yeah uh there's these like sitting seats like face sitting almost like toilet seats in one room they look like toilet seats but it's obviously not but imagine like i think it's meant for like female oral right i mean it'd be hard for a guy to do oral that way unless you got like in a position but um i i think they're meant to do female or i almost kind of wanted to go like try them out and see exactly how they worked but why don't you tell me i don't know we got we just got distracted in the we always end up in the big beds in the middle of the room yeah we do it was kind of that one was in a private room yeah it was a really it's really cool they've got like themed rooms um i would say if you are going back well first look out for our youtube video and second if you're going back to secrets i would at least walk through and give it um a look over the only thing i would say is there's I don't know.
out for our youtube video and second if you're going back to secrets i would at least walk through and give it um a look over the only thing i would say is there's still no water in there which i think is a huge disservice i've noticed a few playrooms that do that like i think on the one on the yeah the bliss cruise you had to basically leave the playroom well they had them because the playrooms were huge you just had to go, usually on the other side. You couldn't take your cup in. Yeah, so, okay, if you're going to administer a play area, put water somewhere near the play space.
Yeah, like, go to Home Depot and buy those orange coolers. That's why Hito has, like, those Gatorade coolers right in theirs. And it's, I mean, and that water is ice cold. It's so good. Like, people need water. They have paper cups and stuff. I don't know, like, because they usually don't let you bring your drinks into the playrooms. So, if there's no water in there, like, you're just out of luck. Well, and then, like, if one part of that, like, Hubble needs to go get water, then you... Both have to get up and leave. Yeah. Yeah, it's all the same. We're off on a tangent.
But anyway, we went back. Once we got done with all that i made some tiktoks um then we did the podcast it was live on like facebook and tiktok and we live stream you live streamed on tiktok they were live streaming on everything well that's pretty good that's a pretty good conversation and you know i will say uh i actually posted it on our tiktok page but jordan and jess were very kind of complimentative of us and our brand. Yeah, they were very kind. And, you know, talked to us a lot. And I really appreciated that. And I think they're doing good things. You know what I mean?
Like they've heavily invested into their social media presence. And I think you're going to start seeing this more and more across lifestyle, you know, groups and clubs. Because the lifestyle has always kind of been this underground thing.
and you couldn advertise it commercially on like you know normal tv and radio because they would just deny your ads because they they thought you were an inappropriate organization that they didn't want to support but now with social media kind of anybody can advertise themselves as long as you're being appropriate right within the right yeah in the community guidelines um and so you're starting to see that i mean i think trapeze does a pretty good job with their social media and and secrets has definitely stepped up their social their social media game yeah colette john and jackie have a pretty large social media presence so you're starting to see more and more of these organizations kind of take the social media to get the word out about their their club and their organizations and uh jordan and jess are doing i mean a top notch probably some of the best you know that we've seen organizations so kind they're very nice people yeah they're very kind and they they do it all like i you know i when you see them on like their instagram page and stuff like that you're like oh well they're the he's the mc and he's he hosts the pool parties kind of like what you said but but really like he's managing all their entertainment staff uh he's djing a lot of the the parties and stuff himself uh and then he's you know doing all the mc stuff and he he's a hype man like he he's very good how he keeps his energy the way he can dance he can sing a little bit he you know like and his energy is always at 99 you know i mean like always and just who he is like it's not i don't think he's faking it i mean i think that's just who he who he is as a person so yeah uh yeah i had a great time because we i think that's really we had met them at our last event a little bit a little bit but i think they were brand new and kind of just coming in at that time yeah but now i mean they got the reins there at secrets and they're doing good things so it was nice to get to know them a little bit yeah so after all of that I mean, they got the reins there at Secrets and they're doing a good thing.
So it was nice to get to know them a little bit. Yeah. So after all of that, I mean, it was like seven o'clock at night. Like that took quite a while. And we were staying in room 156 and 157. And we actually met the owner of that room.
And he suggested that we go to an Italian place that was was at the hotel next door he was like you just walk and you'll find it you know we were so we were like okay let's go so it was like us nc hot wife um some of our staff some of our staff yeah and so we we walked and i'm telling you this is like a hole in the wall play it's like a very shitty hotel right so if you've ever been to secrets you know kind of the area around secrets it's not the best area it's kind of shit not like scary dangerous and you're gonna get shot it's a little scary but it's also not it's just not a great area so i wouldn't walk anywhere alone right that's kind of what you said we met the owner and he was like you can walk there he's like don't walk much further than that but you can walk there yeah it's like oh geez but it was like a hole in the wall yeah so we were pretty safe but and like when you're walking down everybody's like oh should we go but if he had not told us to go there i would have never we had drove by it or even walked by it i would not have went into to that restaurant, and then even going into it, it's like built into into like a shady hotel yeah at the shady hotels there and this thing's like off the side of the lobby of the shady hotel yeah um but we went in and it was wonderful amazing some of the best um italian food that we've ever had like the garlic bread we had mozzarella sticks i fettuccine would you have like some kind of stuff i had baked shells and they were excellent i ate i was the only one because they were large servings but i ate the whole damn thing like i cleaned my plate you did it was very good so i almost licked it clean that's how good it was if you are going to trust us.
Be brave. Walk over there. I was kind of sad we didn't go back. Walk in a group, though. I wanted to go again. Yeah, I would have totally gone again. After that, we came back to our room and made OnlyFans content with Dirty Max and NC Hot Wife. They hadn't made contact in a while. She had had some surgery done this year as well. I haven't made any content really other than with Daphne and Mike, but that was kind of like me being very easy.
Yeah, so she's been pretty public about her mommy makeover on on on social media and so you had just went through a surgery she just went through a surgery you guys basically had your surgery like a week or two apart right a week yeah and so you're very much in the same boat where like you know you hadn't done a collab in a while and you weren't you know you're both still a little sore but but ready i think to kind of get back into it uh and so we had talked about them like hey you know we're going to be there early if you're going to be there early if you guys would like to collab we can do that and we kind of even talked about like we don't even have to like Thank you.
get back into it uh and so we had talked about them like hey you know we're going to be there early if you're going to be there early if you guys would like to collab we can do that and we kind of even talked about like we don't even have to like have full blown sex if we just want to do like some oral sex or you know like just to get some stuff on camera we just honestly we needed some content i think they did as well it's very hard for us to do content once like thursday it's almost damn near impossible so we don't even try anymore so this is really our only opportunity so we did we made tiktoks um we uh we make uh dirty max fucked me pretty hard it was it was nice yeah were you jealous that somebody got to fuck me hard because i've made you be easy with me?
No, I wasn't jealous at all. I actually thought it was pretty hot. No, it was fun. And honestly, we haven't done content with them in a while. It's been a little while. Yeah, it's been a while. And they're so hot. The content we did with them like a year ago was some of our most requested content that we get. So it was nice to be able to do that. And yeah, it was a nice little... And the funny thing, I think I... So we full-swabbed.
funny thing I think I so we full swapped actually I think we did a video of you and two guys and then her and two guys and I got done fucking her and she's like you were so gentle I'm like yes if anybody knows how to be gentle it's not normal me it's not very gentle but me over the last yeah I'm a very good at this point I'm post surgery trained on how to have sex it was hard though I actually was excited that we We'll be right back.
me over the last yeah i'm a very good at this point i'm post-surgery trained on how to have sex yeah it was hot though i actually was excited that we it was a good way to start yeah it was um it was kind of like ripping off that band-aid for both her and i i mean i can't speak for her but i at least felt that way for me and um she had talked to it like she was kind of nervous and she's like yeah i'm kind of a little unsure i'm a little nervous i'm not quite sure and then i think afterwards it seemed like she felt good about it yeah i think so too yeah and so once that was over they left and daphne and mike always get off work on wednesday and drive instead of getting up thursday morning so that way they have all of thursday so they drove and they got in about like 1 30 so of course they got there we had to visit chad i think she was in our bed we didn't fuck or mike i think ended up passing out it's pretty normal for mike to go to sleep and like um daphne to be up chit-chatting with us till two or three o'clock in the morning not me i'm passed out usually i'll hang on for a little while but i usually pass out but we i was super glad that they were there and i was like officially when they get there i feel like the week end starts like it's party time yeah game on yeah game on you got your bestie there you're ready to go ready to go you got your squad we had harley Mm-hmm.
We had Harley. She's their dog, if you don't know. He might go as a service dog, and Harley goes pretty much everywhere he goes, so he was there. He's our mascot. She. She. I don't know why. I think it's because her name is Harley. I always call her a he. Mm-hmm. You just don't love her like I do. Oh, gosh. You don't even know what gender she is.
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all right guys welcome back welcome back um thanks for listening to our sponsors we love our sponsors we do love all of them i think particularly when we have an event like secrets that's when kind of our sponsors get to get the shine um anybody particularly you want to out well um love honey has recently sent us some toys for giveaways and first you know obviously we are not going to use them and give we say we use some like some i got to keep and some were giving away and one of the ones that i kept was the womanizer which i had never had one of those yeah so if you listen to our podcast episode with love honey um we did the uh advent calendar yeah and actually you had a conversation with her about the womanizer and you were thinking it was a suction toy yeah she's like no it's a blowy toy yeah and you're like what and she's like i'll send you one yeah so i got one and i'm not a big fan of the rose like i feel like it has to be like just the right spot and that just seems like a lot of work to me but i really really like the womanizer it's in the you grab it more than you grab the wand currently currently just probably because it's it's compact compact and it's easier to like you to fuck me with it I mean I still love my wand don't get me wrong that thing's never going anywhere but I really have enjoyed the womanizer like so much so that it was my purse on the way to secrets yeah yeah I was like I can't forget that and you used it throughout the weekend yeah i did yeah yeah so if you're interested in the womanizer the swing nation.info you'll see the love honey link uh and there's a code there that'll save you i don't know some money so the swing nation.info go down to the womanizer link and use that little code and save yourself some money yep all right so we're at thursday we got up we um visited with daphne and mike like always um and then it was time to like get right into work oh we had to set up our merch tents our signs our backdrops our banner so it was kind of like all hands on deck to do all that yeah and so we've kind of learned as we've gone and done more of these takeovers i will say like the schedule of like who was doing what and when and how many people we need to do that it it seemed like it went the smoothest this for sure yeah i think i mean how many years have we've been doing this now we finally kind of figured out like yeah what is this our third year of doing takeovers yeah i don't know i think it's i think this is technically at least our second if not third year i think it might be our third year of doing takeovers there but it went pretty quickly in my opinion it took us a couple hours but overall considering how much stuff we had uh we got it all put up which there's a guy that hates that we talk about set up and unloading the trailer and stuff he's left us a bad review on the podcast so he's like we don't care about you unloading your trailer this is we're talking about our week so guess what we unloaded the fucking trailer easy killer sorry um but yeah i mean it was just kind of like all hands on deck.
We decorated, got everything set up. And we don't actually do a whole lot on Thursday. It's kind of like our prep day. So we don't, like, open the merch tent. We don't really do a lot of that. So I actually like this. So we spent Thursday day prepping the property.
So like you said, setting up the merge tent putting up backdrops um decor any you know decor you know decorations inside the the pool area just kind of prepping getting everything out of the trailer and into the storage units and into the tents and just kind of getting everything ready to ready to go um but then i did like thursday that we kind of planned because what we what we've done always in the past thursday's nights is meet somewhere for dinner yeah the people that got in because it used to be a small group 10 couples 20 couples showed up on a thursday night um now we're getting to the point the last two secrets more people have checked in on thursday than check in on saturday so you're talking friday right yeah more people start checking on thursday than check Friday.
Yeah, we had 90 people check in on Thursday. Right. So it became very overwhelming to try to go and have dinner and get back. So we changed it up this year. And really, that came from the reviews. Every time we do a takeover or an event or whatever, we send out a survey and a lot of people said that from the last secrets that they wanted more icebreaker games more interaction stuff like that and so that's kind of how this thursday was born this year and i really feel like it went well yeah yeah yep so th Yep. So Thursday evening, kind of poolside, we had a DJ.
But then we were also doing these icebreaker games. And they were fun. Yeah. So we did bingo slash swinger scavenger hunt. I guess it's not really bingo. It's you have a card.
And on the card, it says all these things like somebody who's done dvp somebody who's a hot wife um somebody that's a unicorn you know so basically what you have to do is go around the crowd talk to people and figure out like has this person ever done whatever the thing is on the card yeah and that game was probably the best game because it got people talking i heard several conversations about like what is dvp yeah i think next time we need to put definitions because well i almost liked that there wasn't that but hold on because there was vanilla swirl on there oh people are putting out the wrong definition somebody said when it's an african-american person in a white person like having sex together as vanilla swirl so it's an Interracial sex.
Interracial sex, yes. That's a vanilla swirl? Yes. Which, I mean, maybe that is something. And then somebody else was like, I don't think that they would put that on the card. There was another one that people said. I can't remember. There was a couple of things that people were giving out misinformation. Oh, okay.
No, I didn't realize that't realize that yeah so i don't think people understood and then one person would tell one person and then it would spit that's like misinformation how yeah yeah so maybe next year because i thought the game was really fun um we put definitions or something i don't know or maybe we talk about it i don't know yeah it was fun though well that almost makes it boring like oh here's your card and here's like a pair here's a book on how to like fill it out like that sounds i know people are i guess read this pamphlet of like nobody's gonna read directions true true i guess that's just part of it but yeah i signed a bunch of them um i signed like this if somebody's from the south i signed the gangbang one signed dvp a lot of people came like because people what happened was people started talking they started trying to figure out who's done what yeah that's what ends up happening so people will go up to somebody and be like oh have you done dvp and they'd be like well i've never done it but lacy signed mine yeah And so they would then be like, okay, Lacey's the DVP girl for this.
So everybody comes up to you to try to get you to sign. It was fun, though. And then we did a Ken and Barbie game. So basically the girls take a pink card. The boys take a blue card. And then you have to figure out which celebrity each other were. Yeah. I was a little confused. Well, I'm not very good at, like, pop culture. Yeah. And so, like, one of the people had, like, Jon Snow. And I'm like, who was Jon Snow's girl? Like. Yeah. I didn't know the answer. Mother of Dragons, right? I don't even remember what the answer was, honestly. But, yeah, I assume. But didn't he die? Like, I don't know.
Anyway.
So I drew Taylor Swift swift some of them were easy because it was like shrek and fiona like yeah that's an easy one but yeah i drew taylor swift which is like kind of ironic because i'm totally swifty but some guy walked up and said anybody got taylor swift and i was like that's not how you're supposed to do it yeah so that's not how you're supposed to do it and he was like what do you mean so it was it was kind of funny because we could like pick back we you know we were kind of picking at each other and i was like do you play for the chiefs are you tall do you have a beard you know like i was trying to get him is that how you're supposed to play i think so you're not just supposed to come up and say are you somebody you're supposed to like ask questions to try oh i didn't know that i mean i would have done the same thing that he did i would have been like where's taylor swift are you taylor swift at the end of it Thank you.
you were supposed to like ask questions oh I didn't know that I would have done the same thing that he did I would have been like where's Taylor Swift are you Taylor Swift at the end of it when there was like two left that was pretty much what people were doing but my understanding is you're not supposed to just you can't say who you are or say who the other person is yeah you're just trying maybe we do need to be a better job of explaining it maybe we could do that on the microphone or something something. Like beforehand. Yeah. Because I totally didn't get that until you just said it.
You just thought you were supposed to announce it? I just thought you were supposed to say like. I mean, I guess the point is getting people to talk. Yeah. And that's the bottom line. So ultimately, whether we screwed these games all up or not, the point is the whole group was intermingling and talking. It was a lot of fun.
it was and i think everybody genuinely enjoyed it um and we also did speed dating which you and i did that for the first time on the bliss cruise and we had a lot of fun and um i thought it went really well everybody was having so much fun i thought it went really well the only thing i'll say we did fuck up a little bit is i think the speed dating was supposed to be at eight o'clock yes so what ended up happening is the rest of the games were kind of i think went a little faster than we thought we did they were supposed to and so we were kind of done those and so there was like this awkward pause and so we're like let's just go into speed dating yeah because some people were leaving or what we thought they were leaving um like to go get dinner and stuff like that and so we started 30 minutes early and then so we start the speed dating and it like it filled up like all the tables we had set up and chairs we had like got full we did have to we kind of had to like come on we need more people get over here yeah we'd encourage we'd give them a little encouragement but anyway the area filled up and we start the speed dating and then at like eight o'clock couples start coming in like dresses and like nice collared shirts and they've clearly like showered and done their hair and make like they got ready for a date and they're coming down to do speed dating and we've already started it and it's full yeah so i felt bad i did too but we weren't trying like we just didn't think we're just like oh like like let's not stop the energy here let's keep it going let's go right into speed dating not realizing that people went back to shower and change and get ready for it yeah so next time i think we should do a couple of rounds i do think we should maybe do two rounds of speed dating and then maybe we'll definitely not change times yeah if we.
Like, if we say a time, we need to stick to that time. Yeah, because I felt bad, too. But it was fine. Now, I don't know. Had we, like, not jumped right into it, people might have left and we might not have had enough people. Yeah. So, I don't know if it was really the right call, but. Yeah. So, after that, well, actually. While we were doing the speed, what was your impression of? I thought they were really enjoying it. So I was kind of in charge of making people move and people did not want to move. That's what I noticed. So I was on the microphone. I was doing like the timing.
And then when the time was up, I'd be like, oh, time's up time to time to rotate. And every single time it was a chore to get the people up and like moving to the next. So people. So, I was walking around, like, kind of in the middle. And I was like, okay, guys. You got to get up. You got to get up. We got to move. You got to. Come on. You can find each other again. They're here all weekend. Yeah. Which I think is a good sign. Right. I thought it was a lot of fun. I felt like.
So, I will say, when we did it on the Bliss Cruise, I didn't feel much chemistry with the people we met there was a lot of different ages like uh different i don't know i don't think we were just there was some language barriers yeah uh yeah i don't i didn't think so either and i felt like a lot of these people were like on even playing fields right and i felt like they probably had there seemed to be a lot of chemistry in that group of people as it was a lot of laughing and smiling and hugging and like there seemed to be chemistry in that group yeah and i will say the good thing about like all of these like kind of pre-event um uh social games is i i can remember from the bliss cruise even when we did it when like we didn't want to fuck the people but like you'd see them later on on the ship and be like oh look it's yeah and yeah it was nice to have a connection because then you would see them throughout the week you're like hey how was your week going are y'all having fun have you gotten to do that thing that you said you wanted to do it just kind of gave you a connection with people even though we didn't necessarily want to have sex with them it was so nice to like almost have like a friend right and i don't know for sure but i would almost guarantee you that people within that speed dating group ended up hooking up with people probably right you know i mean and that probably was the start of that energy was that little two minutes of flirting and during speed dating yeah no i agree so i loved i loved all that.
I think we could probably try some logistics there we could work on and make it a little smoother. But I really like the idea of socializing people. Yeah, and for our first time doing games and different things, I thought it went really well. Right. And a huge shout-out to, again, our staff because they came up with a lot of those. They did. So they kind of took the suggestions from the surveys and kind of brought them to life and said, thank you. They were really good. Yeah, and this is really the second time because even at Tempted, they brought up some of these ideas.
So, again, having a good staff behind you makes you look good. Yeah, because we can only think of so many things.
And truth like and truth be told we're not really great at going to icebreaker things we have to sort of force ourselves to do that so it's kind of nice to have somebody else be like no we should actually do sometimes you need a little encouraging yeah we did skip something though what's that before the games you had sex with daphne uh and me i mean oh yes i did that's true yeah so i think i don't know we went to go change to get ready for the game yes we changed out of pool wear and into like kind of casual wear or whatever semi-casual wear um and i don't know why i think she was in our bed and she was naked and yeah i think you were super horny and And I't i was trying to get ready and you really want to have sex and so i called her over it was like you have sex with him and um and then somehow you and i had sex well i think me fucking her turned you on yeah which is normal and then daddy mike had to come fuck her because that's their dynamic.
Because he has to reclaim her. He loves that. That's his favorite. That's his thing. So it was pretty hot. It was like a. A little pre. A little pre to that. A little warm up. Yeah. But after, so like to go back. So we're sorry. I didn't mean to skip around. But after that, we kind of hung out with everyone. I was wore out. I also had some anxiety. So let's, okay. So we do all the pool games. And then we kind of go back to the room. I don't even know why. I don't think we went back to the room. I think it was just like after. Anyway, so we transitioned out of the pool games.
And kind of everybody was mingling by the bar area yeah um it was super casual super low-key it was pretty much everything over the night was over unless you wanted to like go fuck or swim so uh and this is thursday now tuesday night into wednesday and then even into thursday i started posting on social media the bikini pictures and tiktoks that we had taken that tuesday yeah and i was very self-conscious i'm not gonna lie i was very very self-conscious but i asked you to let me see them before you posted them i you did let me look at them and i okayed them but the internet is cruel and right now so like if you followed us for any Thank you.
did let me look at them and i okayed them but the internet is cruel and right now so like if you followed us for any amount of time our social medias can get big they can slow down it's kind of all over the board you never really know right now our tiktoks and our instagrams are kind of like what's the rest best way to describe it going viral there's we have a lot of viral videos yeah we have like every one of our videos have a lot a lot of views and um for some reason instagram is where the hate's at recently um and i just happened i think you asked me to look and see what video a video how many views it had or something and so i clicked into the comments which i shouldn't read comments i know y'all i know um and they tore me apart over my belly like i said in the beginning of the um thing i have fibrosis in my belly i've done everything i'm supposed to do i got two massages in florida and i mean all the comments were saying she needs to put her compression garment back up her belly looks like hamburger meat i mean they were just oh they were so cruel and it again this kind of happened before tempted so i should like i should learn like at this point to not look at this stuff especially leading into it leading into an event because like that fucks with your mind when then you have to go and be in a bathing suit in front of all these people like front of people when somebody is telling we had been kind of dealing with this all day because you had been looking at it thursday yeah so you know in between the pool games you know in between everything that was kind of going on on this thursday you kind of had this so i knew you got a little like you're like why did you post that i'm like baby you know like so we were kind of going at it a little bit because i think you know you're you were feeling insecure and when you get like that a lot of times you feel like well you should have protected me from this yeah even though you know that i was trying to right yeah so uh so we were kind of we were at each other at each other a little bit about this whole thing that had happened.
Yeah. So it affected me, especially knowing that Friday and Saturday. You've got to be front and center. I've got to be front and center with a bikini, all the things. And so it just affected me me um so at that midnight we called it a night which honestly we had been going for 13 hours non-stop at that point so you'd come up to me i don't know it was like yeah 11 30 midnight something i was like i just have to you're like i'm ready for bed and i was kind of like because everybody's kind of having fun and socializing and i'm like well and i felt like I felt like we were the hosts.
And I was like. But it was midnight. Yeah. That was kind of my point. I was like, it's midnight. I'm tired. I want to get. So like you came back to the room and you were a little frustrated with me. But I didn't want to fight. I wasn't mad. I was just wore out. I knew I had a busy week and coming up. Yeah. I think overall, like, it was a stressful situation.
And obviously, you were kind of kind of going through you deal with anxiety and you were kind of going through one of those anxiety moments but i handled it well no and i that's what my point was i think in previous times that could have turned into a big thing for us i think we did i think you know i was a little upset because i thought felt like we should be out there a little longer. You know, you were just done with the day. 13 hours is plenty in my – I can still hear it in your voice that you're like so fighting for your side. I'm like, Dan, come on. I'm like a slave driver over here.
Like I don't even know if I ate dinner. We did. No, I did, yeah.
But, yeah, I was just like – And then I was a little frustrated because I was just like was just like i was worried i was tired i knew we had to be up early and so anyway so we ended up going to bed and daphne was not feeling well she she was puking she was puking so we don't know if she ate something or you know she had had like a migraine so my whole world's part lacy's upset about tiktok bitches uh daphne's over there puking and i'm like what the fuck is going on daphne are you mad at me she's like i'm not mad i don't feel good so it was just we were just a little bit we were a hot mess thursday night yeah it was not sexy times no dan did not get i didn't get fucked which is probably why i was upset the most of all yeah um but we just went to bed yeah but what happens next does lacy get over her anxiety does she put us another swimsuit on does she let the tiktok instagram trolls bring her down or does she party like a rock star you're gonna have to wait till next week to find out yeah time's up we're at an hour We only got through Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday.
Yeah. So the party's just beginning. You're like, we haven't even got to the orgies. We haven't got, what? Spoiler alert. I don't know what you're talking about. Did those happen? Maybe, maybe not. But you're going to have to wait until next week. Yeah. All right. So something else. So that's, we're going to pause the secrets story. Something else we want to talk about is we're going to start doing two podcast episodes a week. So on Tuesdays now, we're going to do, and we might miss a Tuesday once in a while. If we do, sorry.
We're not going to be as serious about this as we are our Thursday episodes. But we're going to try every Tuesday to release, what do we call it? Tuesday Talks. Tuesday Talks with Dan and Lacey. Yeah, so we do realize that, like, a lot of people ask us all these questions. And it's super hard for us to, like, respond to every email, like, you know, private mess or DM, you know, comments. It's super hard for us to answer them all. So we decided that once a week we would take a question and we would answer it. It's going to be super short, less than 30 minutes, ideally like 20 minutes.
We're going to take your questions and answer them. Yes. And I don't know, me and Lace were kind of going back and forth on this. It could be a question about the lifestyle. Yeah. It could be a question about the lifestyle. Yeah. It could be a question about maybe our personal lives. Obviously, we're going to pick the questions. There's some things. We're not talking about religion. Yeah. We're not talking about politics. Yeah. We're not going to talk. We're going to protect our family. Yeah. Now, we maybe can talk broadly about family.
But we're not going to out our family or give any specifics about our family um but i don't know i'm pretty open to what what to talk about me personally and i think lacy's a little more guarded but we'll get out of the shell i'm guarded when it comes to our private life i say ask us anything and especially since we get to screen the questions and pick which one we answer yeah um if you have a question for us and you want to maybe get featured so what i would ask is give us your name where you're from and your question we're not going to say your full name we'll say like no like yeah stacy from ohio right yeah that's all we're gonna give we're not gonna give out your your private right if maybe city if you wanted the city if you don't that's okay so we well so they know we're talking about them right so yeah um right so shoot us an email a dm uh any you know you can email us at the swing nation at gmail.com you can message us on tix talk instagram twitter um all the social media and say hey you know i have a question for you for your tuesday talks and this is this is my question and we're gonna go through those every week and try to pick out a question and then post that up on tuesday so this is brand new so stay tuned for that um pretty excited about that yeah um maybe you get to know get to know us a little bit better uh i think we talk a lot about like sex and swinging and all that stuff but there's other subjects where i think we could broachach with some of this Tuesday talk stuff.
There is more to us than being swingers. Right. Our persona is swingers. People comment all the time, they're like, your whole personality is swinging. That's just what our platform is about. Yeah, is swinging. But there is a lot more to us. Maybe this is an opportunity to get into some of those other areas. We'll see. All right. What else? That's it. I mean, we leave to go on the Bliss Cruise, which is sold out. That's mid-April. After that, we will be at Hedo with our small group that we're taking. In May. In May. Then we have Splash Atlanta.
Okay, so we will be at Splash Atlanta May 30th through June 2nd. Splash Atlanta is by far one of our most favorite hotel takeovers ever, period. It's ran by some people that we've become fast friends with. We respect them. We work really well together. Dan hosts the pool parties, which is pretty fun. We have our merch tent.
It's just a really good, well-managed hotel takeover good i mean they do an excellent job like most hotel takeovers are in like sketchy hotels and you know in a shady part of town this is a good hotel and a nice i mean i don't know if it's a nice part of town but it seems nice anyway i don't know the area super well of lena but it seems nice to me as an outsider and you know everyone there is super hot it's just really it's a fun weekend it's a nice part of town there's a Chick-fil-A right next in the parking lot so there he is um it's just a fun fun weekend we have so much fun going to it it's also fun for us because we don't run it right so we get to have fun right we get to we get to if you want to see Dan and Lacey a little more chillaxed not running around like chicken ones with our our head cut off, the Splash events this year are going to be good events for that.
Because like you said, we're just going to be there kind of emceeing the pool parties, but mostly just socializing and cutting loose. So definitely go check out that. And we'll be at Atlanta, but we'll also be at the Splash Houston and Splash Fort Lauderdales. You can find tickets for all those on SwingersCity.net. I'll also say our secrets in July.
If you had fun, if you were at this last takeover and you want to come back, or maybe you're hearing about the secrets event now for the first time and you'd like to attend an event like that, we do have tickets for our July secrets up for sale right now.
You can get those on Swingerside.net we're down to i think 20 maybe 20 something rooms um so that's that event's going to sell out and it's going to sell out probably pretty here pretty soon probably in the next couple weeks um so go to swingerside.net get yourself a room we do have payment plans and stuff available so you can put that room on a payment plan if you don't have you know if you need to kind of budget that in um and we hope to see you at secrets uh it's secrets is always a good time i've yet to go to secrets and not have a good time and it's our 40th birthday it is our birthday we're turning the big 4-0 so this is the fucking into 40 party yep so um if that gives you an idea of what kind of things are going to be happening I think that spells it out about as best as you can a lot more than unloading a trailer that's right but you're going to have to stay tuned until next week to hear the details about what else happened besides unloading the trailer at this last secret yeah alright anything.
All right. Anything else for the Swing Nation listeners? That's it. All right. Stay tuned for Tuesdays. Tuesday Talks. Tuesday Talks. And then next Thursday for Friday, Saturday night at Secrets Forever Young Party. Yep. All right, guys. I think with that, in a world full of apples. Be the pineapple. Be the pineapple, guys. Bye. Bye. If you've enjoyed our podcast and want to support us, leave a five-star review wherever you're listening. If you want to see more of our content, you can find links to Snapchat, Twitter, Instagram, OnlyFans, and more in the show notes.
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