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We we are your hosts northern guy and southern girl today's episode we're talking to you about our favorite experiences yeah we've had some good ones our best sex i don't know what like what uh what exactly is the that's kind of what i thought like our when you were talking to me about it like our most enjoyable experience like i guess the most memorable i do think that we're very lucky because we have a lot of really awesome scenarios that's true that's true um i think okay so i think before we dive into explaining some of our best um experiences and why they were the best to us maybe can we talk in a little bit general like what do you think goes into like what makes a good experience i think magic magic there's a little there is a sense of magic well i mean it's just kind of like everything has to align like right and that's worth noting because it always seems like when you try to plan things or like or you have this idea in your head and you're like, I can think of like the black room orgy.
If you haven't heard that podcast, we tried to have a blackout orgy in a room, which is basically like you go into a room and you can't see people, but you can feel them and have sex with each other. That on paper sounds hot.
It ended up into like people stumbling and falling and like it just turned into kind of a shit it was still fun yeah but it wasn't like what i had in my head right yeah i envisioned it i think the ones that are the most magical are like where everything just works it's not planned it's just kind of like all the stars aligned and it just works out right so don't don't force it no i don't i don't think you can right okay what about any other? Like if you were to think about the experiences we're about to talk about, is there anything else that's universally? We're in good company in all of them.
I think it needs to be noted that we are very fortunate that we have made some amazing friends along the way.
And because of that, that's what makes these experiences in my opinion yeah now you know me and you have both been in lifestyle what seven eight years now yeah right and then together for like five of those years and then really for the last three years we've been public and planning our own events and really kind of growing a core like group of friends and you know some of these friends we've known for four years you know so i do think it's important for people that are listening to this podcast maybe listening to some of the things we're about to talk about to realize like if you just joined lifestyle a week ago or a month ago or even a year ago you might not have these types experiences because it takes a lot of growth it took a long time for us to get to this place i think in my opinion i think also a little luck with with the podcast i think and also how often that we are experiencing new things we're traveling all over the country it's not like we're swinging with the same five six couples in our town we're traveling all over the world basically and meeting these amazing people And so I think because of that, we do have better odds of these amazing things happening.
I would agree. I would agree with that.
I think not only is it, you know, building a core group of people, but me and you have also had to go through some ups and downs and figure out what we like and what we don't like so that we're in the right headspace or mindset going into an experience so that we can enjoy it i agree because earlier on you know early on when we tried swinging stuff it was we had a few flops because we weren't in the right place i think every couple has to like they have to go through that right it can't all be perfect for everybody you got to have the ones that like just doesn't work out for it to eventually kind of like you have to learn from those things right so to have a a memorable experience in the lifestyle you and your partner have to be on the same page and on the you can even be like me and you are on the same page i think with the lifestyle for the most part now but on any given weekend we might not be on the same page right yeah so that you know that's we have to be in the right head space you have to you know feel confident about your body you know like all the things have to align so we have to be on the same page you have to be around a group of people that you or at least another couple that you feel comfortable with right so you have to find the right group or a group of people that you feel comfortable with and then that third third is just, then you need some magic, right?
You need magic to happen because you need it all to align and come together. No, I agree. All right. All right. So we're going to talk to you about some of those experiences that we've had. We're kind of. And like, we just randomly picked some. Yeah, I'm sure there's some more missing. I'm thinking like, what if somebody says like, we didn't pick ours. We didn't make their list. I thought about that because we were literally just eating or cooking dinner and making this list. Well, the funny thing is what we did is we actually scrolled through old podcast episodes and kind of talked about.
And we kind of have that benefit, right? And it's funny how scrolling through those. Remember things, yeah. Oh, man, I would have forgot about that had it not.
There's a few that came to my mind rather quickly that we didn't have to scroll it was funny that i think some of the similar ones came to our mind too okay yeah all right so the first one i'd like to talk about is um this is kind of kind of a throwback to the early the early swing talk days and kind of when our group was just forming um the nashville yeah massage orgy yeah that was 2021 was it that long ago because it was right after i had my boobs done i remember that yeah and it was like like you said it was very early on we've got two airbnbs like townhouse type situations like right beside each other and we went to a vibe hotel takeover on saturday night but on friday night we just stayed in right and how many couples do you think were there 10 maybe maybe that might be maybe eight somewhere around that yeah yeah and um it was a damn good time yeah so whose idea was it to do the massages that's kind of what started it uh i actually think it was duracell and his wife if i remember correctly okay or at least they had talked about it at one point in time that they did that at some party or event and we're like we need to do that okay yeah so just a little explanation of kind of how this night unfolded so like you said it was a friday night before a saturday night hotel takeover and we've we've kind of done this a few times now we're where we stay with an airbnb with a group of friends we kind of just like let's connect with our friends on that friday night and then go to the club or the event or whatever on saturday and i kind of like that yeah dj life of spice was djing for us i think that was the first time that he ever dj'd for us i think it is i think it's the first time he actually just asked he's like can i set up my stuff i kind of can dj on the side a little and we're like yeah he's like do you mind if we play a little music and we're like oh well i'm gonna keep it down because it's an airbnb and it's a townhouse so we don't get in trouble but yeah that was the first time so yeah he set up his speakers in the living room and there was actually a fold down like ottoman type bed in the living room and so we're like you know let's you know let's let life of space we'll play some music we'll put this bed here and we'll just kind of you know just kind of have some fun yeah and we were like drinking and talking and it wasn't even like it wasn't like we're all just gonna fuck it was just kind of we were hanging out and yeah i think we played um four plays uh bella and jace's card game to kind of get things started and then the massages started yeah so if you if you don't know it's a card game it's like you know tell us something sexy about yourself or pick somebody and kiss them or you know like just kind of like it's just a nice like a spin the bottle kind of type card game so we played that for a little while and then i don't know i don't know how it came up but somebody came up with the idea i think it was duracell and his wife that said hey at one party one time we did this massage thing where one person gets in the bed and basically everybody else you know lubes up their hand with uh whatever i think we were using uh coconut oil yeah and just kind of massages them and if you've never in there like if you've never experienced like a 15 hand like kind of sensual massage is pretty hot it was very hot so we're like awesome that really actually sounds cool and i don't somebody volunteered and we we put the bed the ottoman bed down and we just kind of started doing that and like you said it was really hot i think we went through all the girls first and it's funny because people were shy like i can remember nobody really wanted to go first and then somebody went and then you know after like seeing their face and their expressions and their enjoyment then more people were like okay yeah i'll try it yeah uh we did all the girls and i think then we actually did the guys yeah it turned and then it turned into sex obviously yeah it was a whole night but yeah it was pretty special and it was very special especially thinking back to like how even though that's only really two years ago but it seems like so much life has happened between now and then so i think that's what makes it so special too yeah it's probably one of the first no because we had went to secrets the year before that i think no but i mean it's probably one of the first.
No, because we had went to Secrets the year before that, I think. No, but I mean, it's probably one of the first, like, of this, like, swing talk, you know, like, influencer group. Yeah. One of the first kind of big things we all did together. And it was pretty hot. Yeah, it was very hot. Oh, yeah. So, that was one of the first ones we talked about. And what's funny, I think me and you both said that.
We both said it, both said it yeah i think like you know what's crazy about that one is i'm not even thinking the sex like even though like i'm sure the sex was great i don't even remember the sex yeah i'm sure it was like a great orgy i don't really remember a ton of it but i do remember the experience of the night and it being like i don't know just an awesome time with each other and those massages definitely were very sensual very sexy if you've never done that i highly recommend it to get the party started we've actually done that several times since then it's been a while we probably need to yeah break that out again break that out again yeah but yeah it's interesting you know looking like you said that was back in two years ago now it's interesting what you remember looking back on those experiences yeah yeah it is all right so the next one i think we want to talk about let's see what we should do let's talk about your first gangbang oh yeah but that one's in that long ago that was just this past october i don't know how you remember dates like that i don't know i just can't i can't remember um i think it was around maybe it was in october i guess i was thinking when you're dressing up for halloween but we that's we're swingers every swinger yeah um i don't know i guess that could be wrong then yeah i was pleasantly surprised by the evening well it's kind of funny because we went to a house party so it was a private event it wasn't one of our event and we went knowing basically i think it turned out we knew two couples which usually when we go to an event we know like 50 couples or 20 couples you know so it's very rare that we kind of it was intimidating not knowing anybody it kind of and i remember talking about that podcast episode um it was like wait this is what this felt like it reminded me like swinging before the podcast you know like you walk into a situation and you're just like holy shit what you know and i forget sometimes that like most people probably experience that the majority of the people in the room at most of our events are probably feeling that same way yeah i do think we had forgotten that yeah we had and i thought it was a very good reminder it was a different crowd they did everything different so i think like the excitement of watching them and like trying to figure out what the fuck is going on here i think was really exciting and then somehow we ended up in this like four couple orgy and then it ended up being a gangbang and it just kind of like the night went so many different directions that i did not anticipate and i think that was what made that so exciting for me personally yeah no i agree 100 yeah so we were very you know when we got there again we didn't know anybody and you know we're used to you go to a club you dance with some couples you kind of feel a connection you go back to a playroom you fuck and then you go home yeah this party was like they were i don't know if they were even all friends but they would like grab each other and disappear for like 30 minutes and come back and and there wasn't like a lot of dancing or socializing it was just kind of like and we're like trying to figure out what the fuck is going on and they told us this ahead of time they're like hey this is more of like a fuck party than it really is but i didn't understand i didn't either yeah yeah and yeah at the end of the night but nobody ever asked us to go fuck no but i think it's the same they probably weren't sure about us either they're you know like but anyway at the end of the night we did get invited and yeah we were four couples well i actually said no at first because i didn't understand that's what she was like are you down the fuck and you were like no and then i was like oh yeah are you asking me to fuck like yeah i mean i didn't know what she meant i don't mean are you down to fuck i should have known i just didn't expect it to be like so forward so it just threw me off and i just like knee-jerk reaction said no and then i realized it and so like we ended up which we knew the one couple so there was two other couples that we didn't know and like honestly it like you said before it was magic like everything everybody was got hard especially with like the fact that we were there was four girls and we all took turns like kind of having because one of the girls was like this is my fantasy i would like for this which is again with an awesome like the way you know we were all fucking a little bit and somebody was just like hey who has fantasies like yeah what is there anything anybody wants to try and one of the girls was like i've always wanted to be gang banged yeah so then we just kind of took turns all experiencing her fantasy which was hot because it ended up being like our fantasy and like with so many condoms being changed and everything it's like a miracle that all these guys stayed hard but they did everybody had nice size packages everything worked it was just like it was just magic magic yeah it was a good time though and i felt you know especially not knowing anybody that you know you would think that that would be something that you'd be more comfortable with with like friends and stuff but it just kind of worked somehow right sometimes being spontaneous like that yeah and that's a good like i guess message in all this too right like we don't have you don't have to necessarily over plan everything it doesn't have to be i think a lot of swingers you know even us have probably been guilty of this when you first get into swinging you're like i want to find the it couple right like i want to find a couple we perfectly match with i want to be equally attracted to them and i want to flirt with them and get to know them and i want the pressure to build and i want it to culminate in this great experience where everybody fucks each other's brains out and it's all i mean like that's the vision we have in our head of things sometimes you can't control it sometimes you just need to let things happen the way that you like honestly i don't know that i would have picked the two guys out of the room that came back and did the gangbang thing but once we got back there they were the perfect guys for that you know so it just worked out it was very easily it how much i said it's like it just worked out right well yeah and that would be my advice right you know when you we're all doing this more for the experience and i think we're used to conventional dating where it's like I'm trying to find a partner I want to spend my life with.
And so I'm looking for all these inherent qualities in that person that I would want to spend the rest of my life with. And we're used to. I'm not when I swing. Not when I swing. But not when you swing. But what I'm saying is I think we almost have to deprogram that from ourselves. No, we do. We do. When we get into the swinger lifestyle because I think just as people, when we're looking for sexual partners, we're used to looking for sexual partners in that light. Correct. When in swinging, it's like you're just here to have fun. Yeah. You're not going to marry the person.
It doesn't matter if it's somebody that you might not normally be attracted to or super attracted to or not somebody you'd bring home to your mom or dad or you know like but you could still have a great night and a great fun time with them some of the best nights i've had with people i probably wouldn't date in the outside world yeah yeah no i agree with that and i think we muddy the waters with that sometimes especially when you first get into it yeah no i get i get it like you feel like the person needs to check all these boxes in order to be a potential someone you swap with i think the more you get into it the more you realize whether it's age whether it's body shape size whether you know whatever the thing is just you're there for the experience yeah in the worst worst case you're like man well that experience wasn't that great so don't do it again you know i get that i get that i think sometimes we get too focused on trying to make everything perfect yeah and in this case we didn't we didn't it just sort of happened and it just kind of was amazing so so shout out to that couple for inviting us to your house party and for inviting us um for the orgy that was pretty hot thank you yeah no i agree i agree and i think you know getting like making that step right like had nobody talked to us or nobody we were just sat there all night and i mean we were chatting we were being social and stuff like that but i don't think we were gonna like grab some random couple and be like let's go fuck we were too out of our element to do that okay anything else you want to say about the gang no i think that was pretty much it all right next on my list of things i want to talk about is let's talk about colette's in the circle bed experience yes this was one that we both agreed on it was i think one of the first ones we said yeah it was the first one i said uh why like what what made you think of that well let me back up i went into colette houston or dallas okay i went into it knowing that not a lot of my our friends were going so i thought that this is just going to be like an okay trip you know like yeah we're going to have fun but like a lot of my close like friends aren't going to be there so it's just going to be okay so I didn't go in with like a lot of expectations and I think that's probably what set it up for success because we ended up going to Colette which is an awesome club and some and they have this circle bed and that's kind of what we do we just always go to that like if there's like a big orgy room or something dan and i usually just go to that and we did and it was kind of magical it it was i don't know how to just what do you i don't know what to say how do you help me here help you uh no i so there was there was our friends were there and i don't remember exactly who but like i remember hot georgia couple being there i think that was one of the first nights we met the Energizer Buffy.
Yes, that's what I meant. Like, at the time. Not the first time we met them. I think the first time we played with them. Yeah, yeah. But I meant like, like the Spices were there. There were some of our friends there, but like, I meant like Daphne and Mike, some of the super close people that we always travel with. That's what I meant by, yes, our friends were there. So I don't want it to come across that way. But it was not like my close core group of friends, I guess, is what I meant. Yeah. No.
And yeah, so we ended up, we were dancing and DJ Life of Spice and met some new people that we didn't know. And we were kind of hanging out in the VIP. And then we did what we always do is hey we're gonna go find the bit the orgy space yeah and go play uh and i think we went back there with a few of our friends and i don't i really can't put on why it was it stands out me either i really think a lot of it was the space yeah so it's this circle bed in the middle of a room that's surrounded by um like glass yeah. And so we started playing with our friends.
And when we went back there and started playing with our friends, there was like nobody back. Yeah, it was just us. And we were kind of fucking. And then it's like you look up at some point.
Yeah, we looked up and there was hundreds of people staring at us and like I didn't expect it, I guess, because we were I was just like busy fucking and having fun i mean and like you're literally like climbing over people on this huge bed to get to the other side to get to whoever you were gonna play with next um and then you look up and you just see these eyeballs like staring at you and it was like holy shit and so it was like a funny moment where everybody's like don't look up don't look up i don't know something about that night is very memorable um of course energizer buffy and and dwayne we you know that was your first dwayne experience yeah which was a lot of fun um but i think there was it was just something about being in that like bubble and having everybody kind of have their eyes on you that made it kind of hot and fun and like you're saying it was kind of this dynamic of a few of our close friends but then a bunch of new people yeah uh and i remember there was um people that we had known and it was like their first remember uh um peanut and her husband?
Yeah. It was like their first orgy, and they were in there. Yeah, and they were like, holy shit, this is amazing. Yeah. I just think it was just something about it was like so like pure swinging with all these people that kind of knew each other but did know each other, and then like this huge bed, and then all these eyes.
It just, I don't know, something about it was very just was very just magical i guess yeah well i say that that whole weekend kind of put us outside of our element because you know we we went to dallas and then we're at this honky-tonk and people are line dancing and you know when there was dozens of people that came out that night that we didn't know and it's just i don't know whenever you get in a new environment with new people that like new people energy you know i mean it it just feels different and also pushing yourself outside of your comfort zone i mean just the last two stories are both you know us kind of going to places we had never been before so i think that might have something to do with it no i think so And I think, you know, I think an orgy space is our comfort zone.
A fishbowl space with when you're literally like behind the glass and everybody's staring in at you, that is a little bit outside of your comfort zone. And then to be there with people that are then pushing themselves outside of their comfort zone and kind of like enjoying it and you can feel that energy.
There's a lot to all of that yeah made it made it real special yeah yeah i agree it's hard to like put your finger on it it's just a feeling like when we were talking about what are the our favorite experiences were it's it's a feeling that it's hard to put into words what makes it so memorable i agree yeah i agree okay i think now's the time take a little break and hear from the partners and sponsors of the swing nation podcast and then when we get back we'll we'll tell you about a few more of our experiences okay all right we'll be right back guys we here at the swing nation podcast are proud to partner with promessant listen guys we've all been there you're having a hot night with a hot chick maybe a few hot chicks but you need to kind of delay the time before you pull that trigger that's where promessant comes in they have this awesome product called the delay spray you literally spray it on and it delays the time that you orgasm so you can make sure that your partner is well taken care of.
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Welcome back uh okay so we're kind of recapping our some of our favorite experiences and i think if you you know kind of getting through the first half we're noticing some trends here right one they're all like larger orgies that's because that's how we play yeah that's our favorite play style uh two it seems like when we put ourselves in situations that are pushing ourselves outside our comfort zone that seems to be to be it um okay so i think the next one i want to talk about is the grove yeah and the grove orgy and i can remember walking out of that i think this was the friday night orgy to be more specific uh i think i can remember walking out of that being like holy fuck yeah like holy fuck that was hot yeah it was and the grove was an interesting event all the way around because again it was somewhere we'd never been with a bunch of people we weren't you weren't sure like you were on the fence whether you even wanted to do the the grove um but i don't know what what do you think it was about that place room that orgy that really made it well i think just like to back up to the evening part of the grove um it lended itself to a much more relaxed environment like nobody gave a shit if your hair looked cute or if you had mud on your shoe or what you know it was like rainy and foggy and it was hot and sometimes it was cold at the same time it was very weird outdoor type situation it was just like a more of a situation where everybody was just there to have fun and it wasn't like nobody really cared how you looked or anything like that so i think that lended itself to a much more relaxed atmosphere yeah and i think that that kind of chill weekend gave the opportunity for more people to connect correct right so when we go to into like a secrets or into like you know some of these club parties and, they're just fast paced.
You know, like it's like you get there and there's, you know, pool games and there's room crawls and like something's always happening and going on. But at the Grove, which for people that don't know, that was a nudist campground that we did to take over last summer. It was you just kind of go and you're camping and you're hanging out. Yeah.
I mean, like look cute but like really we like had pigtails and like you know light up tennis shoes right and people embraced that yeah it was fun it was a lot of fun um and and i don't think that like if you go to like a secret or a club i don't think that like anybody intends to put pressure on stuff like that but you want to present yourself in your best light right you want to have your best dress and you want your hair and you want to smell good like here there was no help we were all gonna smell right we were outside there's bugs i mean it was just kind of part of it and so instead of fighting against it it was more of just like well there's yeah it's like going camping with your friends versus going out clubbing with yeah right yeah that's just a different mentality yeah right off the bat yeah so i think it just lended itself to just be a more relaxed evening and so when we went to the playroom well it really is not it was it's kind of a playroom we kind of so there's a small playroom if you don't know anything about the grove there's like a um it's almost like a clubhouse like a clubhouse next to the pool area and upstairs in this clubhouse there's like two bedrooms basically yeah and one of the bedrooms had like two or three beds kind of pushed together in it and so we ended up in that space with probably like 10 couples maybe 10 ish couples and there was even like and there's more watching and there was some in the other room some would come in our room and then go to that other room so there i mean it was a lot of bodies yeah and we were hot we were sweaty but it was amazing and i don't know what it was so out of those 10 couples we were probably had a good close relationships like with like half of them yeah and then the other half were kind of newer people that had been around the group that we probably knew who they were and had seen them a time before but never really been in a play environment yeah with them but all hot attractive yeah just like you said this is that magic and that luck thing yeah we didn't really have it we just said we're going to the playroom yeah who wants to come it just happened that everybody we didn't pick anybody out we didn't like say you and not you we didn't do any of that we're just like we're going to the playroom let's go and whoever went went and it just so happened it was the stars aligned and it was a very very hot good it was a very hot good of people yeah yeah uh and nobody like this you know we don't give a fuck that we're at the grove it almost like nobody gave up there was people let go of their inhibitions i'd say in that room yeah and it wasn't a big space so we're all like climbing people are climbing i mean there's like people at the door because there was what's funny is there was a um concession type like a food truck and the workers came back to like party for the night and they're like standing at the like doors i remember there's a few couples where that was like their first event yeah like mouths on the floor like holy shit yeah it was just pure magic it was amazing i had a great time and it's funny is because like when it was over like you mean you were talking at the end of the night and like i would i slept with one husband you didn't sleep with the wife it was just crazy it wasn't like wasn't tit for tat it was just a hundred percent just like organic yeah you went to whoever you wanted to whoever you were feeling at that moment and like you said the beds were taken people were standing up people were like fucking on the walls on the walls on the floor on the yeah wherever you could get in yeah the funny thing is the next day the the owners of the campground were like hey if you guys want to have a big orgy again like we'll open up a space they were concerned the play space for you again because we're not sure that room you were in last night is rated for that the weight of the amount of people they were concerned and you know what that would have been a story if we had fallen through the roof yeah it would have been that would have been a story i don't know if somebody got hurt it might have been no that wouldn't i don't want to be hurt but it would have been a it would have been a funny story though but it that was an amazing night and i like i slept with a lot of new people that night you did yeah i did which i'm noticing a trend the funny thing is i didn't notice this trend when we were kind of just talking about the events but it seems like most of these events it's us putting ourselves outside of our comfort zone with newer with new people but also a core group that we trust right like so we have a kind of our safety bubble but then we're bringing in new energy into that bubble yeah and then the stars align and magic happens it seems to be kind of what like the last three we've talked about have really have really kind of been yeah anything else about the grove that stands no that was pretty amazing saturday night is worth noting too because saturday night was almost as amazing as saturday night or wait saturday night was almost as amazing as friday night if it hadn't been 110 degrees in that play space we ended up in there probably would have been equally amazing yeah yeah it was pretty awesome but i think the whole grove weekend and the funny thing is we're trying to figure out times to go back to the grove and on our calendar because and people are asking for us to go back because it that is a i think it's an event worth doing you know i mean like it's an experience worth having so i really enjoyed that weekend and really enjoyed i don't know that i think that there is something to this having your group of friends and then having some new people energy around that group.
Yeah, I agree. All right. What's the next one you want to talk about? Let's mix it up here because all these kind of seem to be the same basic story. Let's talk a little bit about Hedo. Okay. And let's talk about the first night, this last trip we went to Hedo. The first night, we actually ended up in a playroom with just us and the Life of Spices. Yeah. If you've never been to Hedo, they have an open air type playroom. So it's the spa during the day.
Then at night, they put mattresses down and of course sheets and stuff and so literally you're fucking under the stars in the caribbean it's pretty amazing and i don't know how we ended up alone with them in there i think daphne and mike went to bed early yeah so it was our very night at Hedo. And so like a lot of week-long events or like people fly and travel that day. And so it tends to be if you end up going to like a Hedo or even like doing a bliss cruise or something like that. That very first night, everybody wants to party, but they're not. It's hard. The energy isn't necessarily there.
Yeah. So, you know, people get up at 3 a.m.
to go catch flights and stuff stuff like that so i think that's what would happen is most of our friends had you know got up early that day and been on flights and all this stuff to get there and so they were just you know at this point in time it's like midnight one o'clock in the morning or something like that they all crashed out and i don't i don't even remember i think we looked at at life of spice we're like we're probably just gonna go back we're gonna go fuck in the playroom because we'd like that playroom because we've been there before do you guys want to come and then we're like fuck yeah we'll come yeah then what happened and we hadn't honestly we haven't just been with just them in a long time like it's if we had it was probably like for content or yeah for sure um so it was really nice i actually really really enjoyed it me and mr life of spice joke that we were um international swingers because we fucked under the stars and it was just i don't know it was just nothing like amazing other than it was just us and them we have a very good relationship with them i think so highly of them doesn Doesn't get much better than fucking under the stars in Jamaica, but naked outdoors.
I was, and this is maybe putting ourselves out there a little bit. It was more of a connection than you normally have. Yeah, I agree. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. And that's, this is where we kind of get, people get weird about it.
And even go back and listen to our podcast two years ago, would have said we don't want feelings right this is just for son it's just about having fun sex and stuff like that um with life of spice mr and mrs life of spice we've been friends with them now for whatever three four years and there's a connection there right and it's not we're not polyamorous we're not trying to marry each other we're not trying to move in together but we we just deeply care about them yeah and i do think for me anyway and i don't know it sounds like you're saying the same thing yeah i am some of that came out in that oh for sure yeah i think like like you said in the beginning we didn't we were like we're romantically involved in each other and we don't want only friendships outside of that.
But I think as we've like gotten lots of deeper and deeper, that is still the case. But sometimes some of those friendships definitely cross over. And it's hard to explain if you've never experienced it. But it's definitely more than friendship. But not a romantic relationship. Right.
But there was a little passion in that yeah no i agree a little romance maybe even right because you're talking about okay we're in a playroom under the stars i think there was a lot probably more kissing than there is in a normal swap and it was just it was fun it was nice it was different again we don't even normally we're very rarely just us and another couple so that just doesn't happen i don't know do you think that's something we should look more is that like we're saying okay this is one of our top experiences is that is that something we want more of less of i don't you don't want more no i mean don't get me wrong i really enjoy the spices but i'm not looking for right and i think that's the thing well in the thing if it happens organically and it happens that's what i would say i'm not trying to foster a relationship correct with those type of connections for that type of sex even though i really enjoy it when it does happen correct um because we're not looking are you sure you're asking me well i'm just thinking out loud i think i don't think i've really processed this thought either i'm just in my head thinking well that was good yeah and these are the reasons it was good well is that something you know like should we try more i don't know i mean like i don't think that's something that you can force i think if we said looked at each other like okay let's try to do that more i think that's something that just happens organically over time right and there's maybe a small amount of couples where we yes have that correct and i think if we tried to make that it probably wouldn't happen if that makes sense yeah it's funny i can remember that night and it was very good i think i remember mr life of spice finished with you fairly quickly uh and then i can remember after me and mrs life of spice finished she looked at me and she's like i think that's the best sex we've ever had and i can remember thinking like i think so too but i don't even know why but like yeah everybody i feel like felt it you know yeah no and i don't know again it's hard to put the words why it felt that way but it definitely was was a special moment those stars are magical the stars yeah i mean honestly we fucked a lot under those stars that week and it wasn't all that experience though correct so it wasn't just the stars it was there was something there was something else yeah but it was fun it was good you're looking at me like you're not sure what to like i don't know i think people sometimes like like hear our counseling sessions live i feel like this warrants more conversation not on a podcast mic well i don't i feel one i think the podcast mic i like doing to you.
I don't know if you like it, but I think it's, it's good to capture those raw thoughts and just kind of think out loud about this stuff sometimes. I do think we're on the same page about it though. Okay. All right. Moving on. Let's get back to some orgies. We haven't talked about.
That's funny even just talking about it like when you said let's go to orgies i'm like yeah that's what we're good at let's just get back to that that's just easier so it's like it's funny because like even talking about it like it kind of makes me uncomfortable so you you feel uncomfortable talking about having sex with a couple where you felt something yeah that was emotional maybe yeah when that makes you uncomfortable because i don't know okay i mean that's just the truth i just i don't know it makes me uncomfortable i feel i think i feel the same way okay okay that you feel about it okay good when i said do we sat something we want more of that was really like me just is that something like just i don't know you know what i mean yeah but i think i agree with you like i enjoyed it, I enjoyed it, and I liked it, and I would do it again.
Oh, for sure. And I don't feel unsafe in that space. Correct. And I didn't feel unsafe. I don't, you know, I don't feel like that threatened our relationship in any way. But I do agree that. They're a safe couple to feel that way with. Right. Yeah. All right. All right.
Let's talk a little bit about club trape trapeze and we this particular time I think it was a birthday party that we went and we were celebrating and kind of brought a core group of our friends was it is that what the time you were thinking about with with southern puddles and all that no it was not a birthday what was it what we were there for they all run the funny thing is we had so many we've had so many good orgies like club trapeze it's hard to kind of it's hard to do a list without trapeze with or it's hard to do our favorites lists and not include trapeze because the things that trapeze has seen and done done yeah we've done it all there um i was thinking it was the mansion party so it was the first time we ever met southern puddles okay husband yes so um we rented a mansion in the atlanta area it was more of like a content type weekend and but on saturday night we did go to trapeze because a lot of people had never been or had not done diamond so we did do that for saturday night and i say southern puddles because this night stands out because we got to learn why her name was southern puddles so we basically there's just if you go to diamond club there are some couches in the middle and the last couch is right by a huge orgy bed and that tends to be where we kind of hang out i almost hate that we're i feel like we're giving away our like our spot don't steal our spot don't steal our spot if we don't take that spot so basically like we eat at the couches and then when it's time to play we just can play and the cool thing is is like our are right there.
If you need to take a break for a second, you can separate, like you literally have a seat. So it just, it works to our advantage. Yeah, I will say in, you know, I think there's, we've had that particular space you're talking about. We've probably had 10 amazing orgies in that same space. They all run together.
In my mind, it is hard to separate them all out but what i do like about that setting is what you just said is yeah all the couches in the lounging area is kind of there and then there's this big was there like six beds or something three three beds in there i don't know how many there's i mean it's a giant play space where you could fit it's also lined with seats around the wall so not only do you have the bed you all you do have that sitting around the wall as well so you can sit back and that's nice as well yeah we've literally probably had those bed fulls and that seat full all the way around with people and to be honest with you i don't remember the orgy with southern puddles and everybody that much but i do remember that she literally soaked the entire bit i remember hot georgia couple his jeans were literally like dripping that's that's a sign of a good night yeah this girl can squirt she can yeah and she's look her up southern puddle she's on all social media and on only fans go subscribe to her you definitely want to do that uh but no i i think that that environment is nice where you can kind of hang out and chill and eat and drink and then there's an orgy bed right there and if you want to play you can go play and even me and you have done where like you're like dan go fuck daphne and you don't even you just kind of sit back and you watch and you enjoy And then maybe you end up on the bed with somebody and I'm like, hey, I'm going to go get some water.
Yeah. And it's – It seems like a very safe – it feels like I feel comfortable there. I think it is – you know, part of that, it's Diamond Club and not everybody can get back. And so you can't really – you know, for us, some of – not issues, but we can get swarmed at events.
And we can get kind of of so when we go there with just our friends and we're back in diamond it's kind of like a safe area you know yeah no i agree so we can kind of just relax even if you go and get a drink of water while i'm doing i feel like you're still close enough that i feel comfortable you know not all places have that feeling right no yeah even like you tried to do that at red room it's like you left to go get go to the bathroom or something and it's like it took you an hour to get back to me and yeah so it's that environment where it's like a chill yeah you can sit you can drink you can talk and you can also just go right there and fuck yeah i can think of so many amazing memories at trapeze my favorite thing about tra club trapeze, and we actually haven't used, but that chair is my absolute favorite.
If you don't know, they have like, it's not a gynecologist chair, but your feet go in it like that. Yeah, it has stirrups. Stirrups to the side.
And this, I'm veering off topic, but I think we should just do like, we just count this as like a trapeze in general because we just love trapeze we also had our bachelor party at trapeze um pre-podcast um and it was really amazing yeah it was a good time i i think you know this this is what you know like why some of the house parties with our friends and you know it's kind of that same thing when you get a group of people that you connect with and you feel safe with and you're in a safe environment with them and you can kind of let go, a lot of that is the keys to a good experience.
And I feel that way at Trapeze. I mean, like, has there been times when we went and not had a good time? You know, I just feel like it's easy. I feel comfortable there. I don't know. It's just a good time for me. Yeah. I don't know. I can't. I think it's something about that Diamond Club because because you're away from the, you know, like you're not on the dance floor. You're not there's not a thousand people around. You're just kind of in this back room where the the crowd is a little more limited. And, you know, it's just it is a safer, smaller, more intimate setting.
Yeah, I do do like that i think that that environment has led to so many positive experiences for us yeah now i want to go to me what if the manager just texted me the other day and said when are you guys coming that's funny but now i want to go that sounds fun let's go this weekend this weekend i'm just joking you can't you can't go this way you're still post surgery it's too close okay what's our next one all right that one with that we didn't do a very job on that one well i think because ask me what happened i don't know what happened in the orgy i know southern puddles squirted everywhere right i mean i can think of um other things that we've done in that bed you know uh katie's squirting for the first time in that space yeah there's been a lot there's been a lot of memories in that club a lot all right i think the last one i have on my list that we haven't talked about yet is Bliss Cruise.
Oh. What stands out about a Bliss Cruise experience for you? That hot guy that we met in the hot guy. I don't even know his name. The hot guy? Oh, I think I do know his name, but I'm not going to say it because I don't want to give it away. I mean, it's pretty generic. We call them Reno couple, I think. Reno couple. If that's who you're talking about.
Yeah, that i'm talking about yeah um they were hot he was very hot i really enjoyed it and again um what probably what stands out the most is we were just chit-chatting with them in the pool and it somehow developed into this like amazing facts it was super organic not planned turns out they're fairly new to the lifestyle and it was amazing like it was an awesome time and so maybe that's the key me that's the key like not planning just kind of going with the flow which i'm not very good at and one thing i did do at bliss is i told myself i was not going to get in my way.
Like I was going to just be open. I'm a little uptight, believe it or not. I feel like, you know, not to put you on the spot, but the bigger all this gets, I feel like the more uptight. Oh, for sure. The harder it is for you to just let go and have fun. Correct. Correct.
And I feel like if everybody's looking at me like, swing go fuck i'm gonna not do that you know like if i feel pressure from people around me to do something i'm gonna be like fuck you i'm not doing it i'm gonna do the opposite and so a lot of times i feel especially like when we're at a club or something like that like everybody expects for us to play you know like and everybody's gonna watch and it's like this big thing and that's what we always do yeah so you think people listen to the podcast and they've heard us talk about all these amazing orgies and so they came to an event and they think then unless you're gonna go to a big orgy place and yeah and that freaks me.
Like for you, I feel like you thrive in that. You're like, let's give them a show. I love it. And for me, yes, if you catch me on the right night, I feel like that. Right, just the right amount of fireball mixed with just the right amount of drinks.
Yeah, but most nights I'm just like oh my god you know like and i want to do it i just don't like the pressure of that and on bliss cruise i can remember saying to myself i'm gonna stop i'm gonna not get in my way i'm just gonna have fun i'm gonna let loose which is like crazy because somebody could hear this podcast and hear all this crazy shit they were doing and like the girls letting loose yeah um but it is something that i struggle with and and we did and we met these this awesome couple and we had this amazing experience yeah no and i agree that and i think that was whatever the friday or that before we got off the ship or something and then the next night we went back with them again um and and then life of spice and all our friends were there too and with a few new couples again so again like as i'm listening to us talk and kind of unravel this that seems to be a lot of the keys to this is like having a core group of people you trust around you having a little bit of new people energy around you having some luck having and even like the you know the thing that stands up to me about the bliss cruise is you're in the atrium right yeah so there's like running water and pools and it's like nicely lit and it's just like the ambiance is there kind of like hedo that ambiance is there so it kind of you know like the grove was fun but that was more because it was like hot sex in a closet you know but then but you know you put like a bliss or uh and then even something like the splash times you know like their playrooms are real nice and real elegant and real you know that that kind of brings a different dynamic into it which kind of makes it stand out as well i totally agree i totally agree no it was great i mean like you said everything just worked out he had a nice dick it worked everything just worked the way it was supposed to yeah all right so if people are listening and they've heard us talk about some of these experiences a lot of which were orgies with our friends and new people um and and so for everybody that says i don't sleep with new people yeah it seems like a lot of our good experiences not that we've slept with you know like now that there's new people there's new people around and every single one of those uh types of experience and that's probably what just makes it stand out yeah in your mind too because part of it's like okay if we just go have sex with our friends that we've had sex with a hundred times that's not a standout yeah it could be amazing mind-blowing sex oh for sure but i know we said life was vice and we've had sex with them a million times yeah and that stood out but i think that was the moment that was more the atmosphere yeah and the energy in the years now in each other yeah yeah so what were you saying sorry i was saying what what okay if people are listening and they're like i want want an experience like that.
Yeah. What have they learned from this podcast? You've got to put yourself out in there. That's one, yeah. You've got to have a little luck. A little luck. You've got to go international. No, I'm sure you can do the same thing. It'srets. I think there is something to be said for setting yourself. The environment does take a place. It does. Yeah. And like pushing yourself outside of, like putting yourself outside of your comfort zone. That could be going on a bliss cruise around a lot of people that you're not used to. That could be it.
It could also be just going to a club because you've never done that.
So whatever that means to you, I think is, you know, baby baby steps you don't have to jump in the deep end i agree i agree i think putting yourself out there and being willing to kind of you know step outside of your comfort zone is made for some of the best experiences that we've correct yeah all right well that sums it up um all right while we got a couple minutes left what's what's upcoming babe what do we got planned so in two weeks well yeah about two weeks um we will be in louisville kentucky at tempted it's february 23rd and 24th it is going to be pretty freaking awesome it's Friday night is black and white affair and Saturday night is basically 50 shades of gray shades of gray yeah so where your favorite beauty is like a fetish night we have dancers we have a photographer he may be sold out though doing, like, bourgeois portraits in a room that's closed.
So he's not going to be capturing random people. I mean, just all kinds. Shabari. They're going to be doing some rope tying. They're going to be doing some flogging. We're going to have experts. We're going to have people that are there that can show you how to do that.
They can kind give demonstrations there's some planned times for planned demonstrations so if you're into that kind of stuff if you you know are curious more to learn more about things like impact play and flogging and rope tying we're kind of embracing all that yeah we're gonna have some exotic dancers kind of setting the mood for us because it's always it's always scary for people to get out there and to start dancing on their own so you know having some dancers out there to kind of encourage that i think it's going to be good uh if you've never been to club tempted or seen it check it out we have a youtube tour on the swing nation youtube channel it's a newer club it's actually three stories but it's two stories open and you know it's a giant club we're going to have probably over 400 people there on that saturday so it's very close to selling out to This is a production of the U.S.
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three stories but it's two stories open and you know it's a giant club we're gonna have probably over 400 people there on that saturday so it's very close to selling out so this will come out on thursday um it may be sold out by the time there was like 30 tickets this morning there's like 20 right now yeah so if you haven't i don't know if they're gonna make it to thursday but yeah if you're listening to this definitely go to swingersuddy.net and check and see if there's any tickets yeah if you can't come friday or saturday there there's still tickets for friday so come out friday night it's going to be just as fun yeah march um after that so march 22nd and 23rd we will be at secrets in kissamie florida for our spring takeover there it is sold out you can always get on the waiting list for that or stay at a nearby hotel and come with day passes they won't sell out so you're you just buy it at the door so that's an option but we do have tickets for our july takeover on sale now if you want to come and stay on premise go go book for july at secrets on that still on sale but yes secrets um it never sells out technically you can just stay well yeah the day passes you can just stay off right off the resort and then come in on the day pass it's basically like right down the road from disneyland so there is or disney world not disneyland there is plenty of hotels around yep and then uh april we got the bliss cruise so if you're gonna be on the april bliss cruise we will see you you see you there that's sold out but you can definitely uh if you message us at admin at swingerstudy.net we can get you on a waiting list if you do want to try to get on that and then we're going to hito in may yeah so next week is the last week to sign up to go with us february 11th i think is the last day yes we will be there may 11th through 18th it is a small group that we take every year so it's definitely like we get to know everybody we have dinner together it's it's a lot of fun it's a smaller group um it just makes for one of those small intimate groups yeah yeah it's a good time absolutely if you haven't been to hito you're missing out yeah it's like you used to be on your swinger bucket list if you've never been you got to go experience those those stars they're magical i'm looking forward to experiencing those stars we've got a few couples that i know are going yeah i'm excited i'd like to experience the story i'm very excited yep uh what else is that it i think so i mean that just gives us to may so definitely get on swingerside.net we got events coming at you every single month of 2024 we're going to be at all the splash events we're going to be at naughty in new orleans um all kinds of stuff happening so definitely get on swingerside.net get get on the discord server um stuff is happening every single month so get out there and check it out yeah all right anything else to say that's it all right I hope you guys enjoyed listening to some of our our favorite experiences over the last couple years yeah um we definitely have had a lot of fun and and look forward to making some more magic happen i can't wait all right well i think with that in a world full of apples.
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