August joins Ryan, Chuck, and David for a guest-led conversation about OnlyFans, kink, play partners, and the overlap between creator life, poly dynamics, and the lifestyle.From OnlyFans and Fansly to play partners, throuples, emotional bandwidth, creator boundaries, custom content, exhibitionism, and why she keeps her premium work separate from the rest of the internet, this one stays specific, candid, and easy to follow.Key Topics / Search Terms August OnlyFans Fansly kink vs. lifestyle play partners polyamory and throuples creator boundaries custom content exhibitionism public recognitionWhat We Talk About Why August sees kink and lifestyle as overlapping worlds instead of completely separate ones How she thinks about play partners, emotional connection, and the difference between polyamory and swinging Why throuples can work for some people and fall apart for others Why OnlyFans is her main platform and how she thinks about curation, audience connection, and premium content Her rule that OnlyFans partners are real play partners, not random content-only collaborations How custom content works, what she keeps separate, and why she treats it like her artwork Why being watched, showing off, and controlling her own work are all part of the appeal The back-half game section on trust, filthy compliments, fold moves, and scandalous storiesGuests Credits August — featured guest CND and FetLife: Lil Dancer OnlyFans and Fansly: Little Miss Dancer BabyCalls to Action Follow and subscribe to The Down Dirty Podcast Rate and review the showSponsors / Partners Passionscapes Photography — https://passionscapes.com/work Glitz by Jax — https://glitzbyjax.comStudio Partner CND — https://couplesnextdoor.com Referral code: DD25Listen Connecthttps://downdirtypodcast.comDown Dirty Productions is a sex-positive, consent-forward space for honest conversation. This episode reflects personal experiences and opinions and is not medical, legal, or therapeutic advice.
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Speaker1: Hey, Chuck, you know what happens to me at every fucking party now? What happens? Somebody comes up to me quoting some shit we say. Listen, people, do not take this BS as law. This is for entertainment and educational purposes only. And
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Speaker3: Have
Speaker6: you ever tried like the one condoms or the my one, the custom sized ones? No, I never got my dick fitted for a Jimmy. I just go with the straight Magna. The Magnums are just not working for me. The base of my dick was just not feeling very good from like the condom because it was so tight at the bottom well why don't you get they have bigger magnums yeah i used to have some xls but
Speaker3: even
Speaker6: the xls are a little tight i'm looking at this one where you can
Speaker3: order
Speaker6: different sizes i have a sample coming yeah i know those ones i'm
Speaker1: not going through all that i'm just going with the straight magnum
Speaker3: i'm
Speaker1: not ordering nothing you know what i'm not using i was just at the super bowl party and they had fucking lifestyles
Speaker3: oh
Speaker1: god
Speaker3: no
Speaker1: No. I'm like, oh my God, I couldn't even fucking fit it over my dickhead. But
Speaker7: that's funny you say that because I just did a post about lifestyles because for the first time in my entire life, I had a partner say he liked them.
Speaker3: And
Speaker7: I was like, every other fucking person I give these to is so mad when I give them lifestyles.
Speaker6: I guess I don't know if I've ever used lifestyles. I mean, for so many years, it's been the Magnums.
Speaker3: You
Speaker1: get them at the clinic or whatever. Like, if you come to my house for the summer party, I got lifestyles off because I get them off. Literally. You know what the worst condom is, though? And listen, I'm going to tell you guys something that I shouldn't tell you. It wasn't me, but in college, a guy told me about Dorexes, right?
Speaker3: So
Speaker1: he goes,
Speaker3: those
Speaker1: are the condoms that break. Dorexes always break. He told me this in college, right?
Speaker3: So
Speaker1: he also told me the reason he uses Dorexes. So
Speaker3: he
Speaker1: can break. Oh, you're so
Speaker8: insane, fucker.
Speaker3: He
Speaker1: knew he could break it. So he was like, you put the Dorex on backwards, you just pound real hard and it'll break through. So then the girl knows I put the condom on, but he still fucked her with it. So that's how I found out about Dorex breaking, right? So fast forward many years later to the lifestyle.
Speaker3: My
Speaker1: first time a condom ever broke on me was Dorex.
Speaker3: I
Speaker1: didn't think it was just broke because they used to have different color ones. Like they would be like red, blue, yellow. So then
Speaker3: the
Speaker1: next time a condom broke on me, I was like,
Speaker3: wait, is that a fucking
Speaker1: Dorex?
Speaker3: and I
Speaker1: fucking looked at it and it was a durex. So I told somebody the same story and everybody was like, durex broke
Speaker9: on me too.
Speaker3: The
Speaker1: only condom I've ever snapped
Speaker3: was
Speaker1: a durex. August, let me ask you this question. So you can feel the difference in condoms? Like I always think they're bullshit when they say, for her, red pleasure, or heat lubricated and it will generate up. Like, do you actually feel the difference in condoms? Oh, 100%.
Speaker7: 100%. I mean, some more than others. I think it depends. pens and i would say there's a there's a good chunk that i don't so for me magnum skin kind of feel those ones i wouldn't necessarily like and it's not something you could put me to a test about where i'd be like oh yeah this is a skin like no fuck it um i i personally think most of the for her ones are kind of bullshit like the ribbed ones and stuff they like they're fine but they're just i i think they just feel
Speaker3: diff
Speaker7: like i don't know it's like i like cock so i don't necessarily need any fancy shit with this we're gonna be so familiar you
Speaker3: don't
Speaker1: need nothing to rev it up for you huh so like
Speaker7: on that standpoint i've done like the icy hot ones or like the ones where it's supposed to be like the lubricant for her
Speaker3: those
Speaker7: i mean they're okay they're kind of fun but i wouldn't say they last long enough to necessarily like it's like you'll feel it when like i feel it when someone like puts it in and then it's done within like five seconds i'm like
Speaker6: We
Speaker3: did
Speaker6: get some free samples of lube to share. It's called Spunk. I
Speaker7: kind
Speaker6: of hate the
Speaker7: name, but anyway.
Speaker3: That
Speaker6: is a weird name.
Speaker3: They
Speaker6: marketed that it looks and feels like real cum.
Speaker1: Of course.
Speaker3: Why
Speaker1: do we want that, though? You want sloppy seconds. What is that? Probably for,
Speaker6: like, videos or content creators and all that. I don't know. I haven't opened one yet. There is
Speaker7: a line specifically, so I have a toy that is specifically made to come inside of me. And so I have something like that from a different brand for that purpose. Oh, you might want some sponge. Maybe. It might work for it. I get the peel.
Speaker3: Is
Speaker7: it thicker?
Speaker3: It's
Speaker6: supposed to be a water -based silicone.
Speaker7: That's the other thing I was going to wonder, because depending on how it pairs with a condom, I feel like it's like
Speaker3: a
Speaker7: gem.
Speaker3: This
Speaker1: is like, you got to be a condom sommelier. Like, this condom. goes with this wine and cheese
Speaker8: it
Speaker3: doesn't
Speaker6: drip from my hand it's actually like sticking to my hand i kind of like that because some lubes just run off and you hear that spunk we're hyping that shit up for y 'all
Speaker3: they're
Speaker6: actually a swinger couple that makes it of
Speaker1: course oh yeah august let me ask you this question have you ever given condom head yeah
Speaker8: yeah is that oh i hate it's awful i absolutely i um i fucking know it's awful it is i hate it
Speaker3: i
Speaker8: would pass that shit up like okay it
Speaker6: doesn't feel bad when women give me head after i take it and it's fucked
Speaker7: up because even like like so like i was like if you're gonna ask my favorite like i like skins and like magnums those ones have always done me well i like how they feel they're cool even those ones like the ones i like it's not like any of them fucking taste good like put a fucking plastic in your mouth put a plastic bag in your mouth and tell yourself it tastes like
Speaker3: a
Speaker1: balloon it's like putting a a balloon like you were four and it's just like no
Speaker7: for real it is not it's it's dealable but it's i would say if you pair it at the time okay there's been twice now that i've done it and i've paired it with like that flavored lube and it's been fine
Speaker3: that's
Speaker7: been like ah shit whatever
Speaker1: but all condom head is terrible but i will say in upstate new york one time a stripper put a condom on with her mouth and gave me head and that was fucking awesome and i hate it
Speaker3: I'll be
Speaker7: on with the head. That's a move. That's a good move.
Speaker1: It was awesome. I've done the
Speaker7: condom on with the head. But usually at that point, it's
Speaker3: not
Speaker7: lasting long for the head.
Speaker1: Chuck, are you awake? Yeah, I am awake, man.
Speaker3: What's up? Y
Speaker2: 'all just talking about condoms and shit. What's your favorite condom? What's my favorite? I know you don't like to wear condoms. Oh, no. Shut the fuck up. I mean, I stick with Trojans. but at the end of the day it depends on
Speaker3: the
Speaker2: person i'm with so august hi thank
Speaker7: you so much i'm so happy to be on and i appreciate you guys for having me oh thank
Speaker1: you thank you um how did you like being on before when this is a little different situation from the ozone where it was live the live
Speaker7: was fun i i did enjoy that i i just i mean i like top talking it was nice the energy in the crowd was really good yeah yeah
Speaker3: how
Speaker1: did you like the ozone oh it was
Speaker7: wonderful i think i I think it definitely was what everyone was hoping it would be. Nice.
Speaker1: I know. I was hoping it would be that, too. I didn't get to see all the kink stuff. I did get to make it up to your room where you had the scene and you were up there working. Yeah. I
Speaker8: tend to do that.
Speaker3: Me
Speaker1: and David, the producer, stopped up there. You were holding court. Chuck was obviously asleep at that time.
Speaker2: No, I wasn't. Hey, I stayed. I went around some rooms. I mean, there were some rooms like. Did you go to August's
Speaker1: room?
Speaker2: I probably peeked in and I walked right out. I mean, no, August, there's nothing wrong with that stuff. I don't mind the spankings and the beating them up. It's physical for you.
Speaker7: It's fine. No, it's not for everyone. It is totally fine to say it's just not. You can look and walk away.
Speaker2: Yeah, yeah. But it was interesting. It was interesting. But I don't know. I always like seeing different things and stuff like that. But it looked like a lot of fun.
Speaker3: so
Speaker2: I
Speaker1: was in there and I seen her hit somebody in a day they was like oh I was like they took
Speaker3: a
Speaker1: deep breath like who I was like oh that would hurt I was like people act like it feel good
Speaker3: now
Speaker1: August uh let's ask you this how long have you been in so I met you in the lifestyle so I'm gonna ask how long have you been in the lifestyle how long you've been on CND tell us a little
Speaker7: bit so the lifestyle has been kind of an on and off thing for me so like I started out when I was very young 18 I would do more on like I would say like a smaller basis like I was involved in non -monogamy I would go to like parties friends were throwing orgies situations like that I ended up in a very monogamous long -term relationship for a long time
Speaker3: and
Speaker7: exited that a couple years two and a half years ago and it was not long after that that I kind of back got into this side of things
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: again I
Speaker10: started going into
Speaker3: when
Speaker10: you say this stop stop for a second what do you mean this like the non -monogamy like the non -monogamy
Speaker7: so
Speaker10: like when I
Speaker7: got back so it was pretty because it was specifically that relationship I think I was monogamous for and so I got back into some swinging like I said similar to like the smaller party scene it's only been over probably the last
Speaker3: six
Speaker7: months or so that I've been going to larger parties and like lifestyle events in that sort of way I've always had a lot of lifestyle friends so I feel like I've been kind of just like like
Speaker3: floating
Speaker7: amongst the people I know. And I've always wanted to go to a party and finally just bit the bullet this past year. So
Speaker1: you just had some freaky plans. Oh yeah, I've
Speaker7: been very lucky. I feel like I attract, you attract what you are.
Speaker1: Now explain to the audience, are you a single and a lifestyle? Are you a couple and a lifestyle? I am a
Speaker7: single, I'm a single. So I have a few partners that I enjoy a certain dynamic, but like not anyone in a solid relationship. I tend to,
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: like the term play partners. I have a lot of play partners, like friends that I enjoy time with and will spend time with but as far as like my relationship I am single solo um
Speaker3: August
Speaker2: I wanted to ask you what do you think about throuples have you ever been a part of one so it's actually really funny I just was having
Speaker7: a conversation with a friend about this um I okay so I have
Speaker3: been
Speaker7: involved with couples in a sense so like I'll go on dates with couples I have like currently in my life, I have a couple that I play with. I'm very close friends with both of them. We'll go out and do outings together. Specifically, the throuple idea is not my thing. I'm never going to judge. I mean, if it works for other people,
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: like to focus on my
Speaker3: individual
Speaker7: relationships with people.
Speaker3: And
Speaker7: for the most part, I do. I'm trying to think of a way to put this.
Speaker3: Like
Speaker7: I've had two boyfriends at once. I've had like a boyfriend and a girlfriend. And for the most part, I find myself more comfortable with having like one primary partner and then other play partners. And I think particularly throuple dynamic,
Speaker3: it's
Speaker7: a lot of communication and it's not a bad thing that it requires. And if there's other people that like that communication and find that dynamic beneficial enough, that's dope. For me, it's just,
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: don't know, three people's a lot together. other three people's a lot together and i've found a lot of times the communication breaks down in a way that i don't necessarily like
Speaker3: what
Speaker1: do you mean no no no what do you mean about the communication breaks um
Speaker7: because
Speaker3: like
Speaker1: what have you seen no so
Speaker7: so like a big thing is is that ultimately like everyone has different desires and i think like in their life in general i mean even like you could be with like like i know married couples for 40 years that are like very committed and they still might have you know different shows like you're gonna have little little differences that pop up. And I think to a certain extent, you can not say sacrifice, but meet in the middle about a lot of things
Speaker3: in
Speaker7: relationships. I mean, it's like a basic one of like
Speaker3: where
Speaker7: to go to dinner or even if people have slightly like in relationships, people end up having communication styles. So say in a throuple, you have
Speaker3: one
Speaker7: person who's really physical touch based, one person who's very acts of service, one person who's very like quality time. At some point, someone's probably going to end up feeling neglected in that dynamic because it's so hard to meet all those needs at once.
Speaker3: And
Speaker7: so then the communication's breaking down in a way where someone's not feeling like they're getting attention or someone's feeling like
Speaker3: they're
Speaker7: getting more than the other person. Like, I think it's just, and I've seen it work, I will say. So like, I've known one or two people, like couples, I should say throuples, I guess at that point, like one or two dynamics I've seen in my history where they've been involved like that for 10, 15 years and they're very happy, have
Speaker3: children
Speaker7: even involved in the situation and they're
Speaker3: perfectly.
Speaker7: So I think it's a challenge that some people are up for?
Speaker3: Do
Speaker6: you think it's because of the people being emotionally aware or mature? Do you think that that plays a part in it? Like, and I don't think I phrased that right, but
Speaker3: how,
Speaker6: like, since it works for some people and not others, what do you think it is that ultimately prevents people? And I don't think it's a negative thing because I would agree that I don't,
Speaker3: and
Speaker6: maybe part of it's laziness too, It's like the idea of trying to meet a primary partners and a very close second partner. Like I like your primary then play partners because you're not responsible for the emotional state necessarily of the play partners. Like you don't have to cater to their every
Speaker3: emotional
Speaker6: need.
Speaker3: But
Speaker6: your primary, you're their primary emotional
Speaker3: provider.
Speaker6: provider, do you think that when it comes to people trying to do intense emotional connections with multiple people, it comes down to a self -awareness?
Speaker3: Or
Speaker6: what do you think changes that? I think it's
Speaker7: a combination of things. I think that it definitely, I mean, you for sure have to be self -aware and emotionally mature. I think for a fact, like you have to be those things. I don't think it's to say that because you don't want to engage in that or because it doesn't work that that person is emotionally immature.
Speaker3: Because
Speaker7: I think it's a similar argument. and
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: didn't take it in that way but like I I think I
Speaker3: think
Speaker7: for me it breaks down to what like going back to like the priority thing like people you can only have so many priorities in your life so like me for example like I I have a child I am a mother that is my number one priority at all times
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: have a very strong friend group that is my second priority I love my friends and I love maintaining my friend group
Speaker3: I'm
Speaker7: also a business like I run like with the only OnlyFans with me dancing and stuff. I make my own schedule. I'm running my own business with that. That's three big priorities. Throwing a partner on top of that is something I could manage. Throw in two partners on top of that, that both need emotional needs. At that point, like I'm also an artist. When do I go and read within all of that? When do I go and
Speaker3: like,
Speaker7: literally it's like, it's, it's a big time and emotional commitment. And for me, it's, I'm willing to give that emotional time and energy to
Speaker3: one
Speaker7: partner and my friends. And but there's still
Speaker3: a
Speaker7: different boundary between like a play partner slash friend and a full fledged romantic partner.
Speaker1: Let me ask you this. Chuck, do you consider your situation a throuple?
Speaker3: Oh,
Speaker2: absolutely not. Because my wife is not a part of
Speaker3: what
Speaker2: I have with my lady. No, no,
Speaker6: no. But does a throuple mean that there's three ways? A throuple doesn't necessarily mean that all three interact with each other. I agree. No, a throuple is they interact with
Speaker7: each other. I would argue. I think because you can have two boyfriends and I don't think that's the same thing as having a throuple if they don't interact with each other even that's why I don't consider myself really a swinger I consider myself polyamorous like to be honest like I because swingers I feel like and not to people can argue I feel like for the most part in my experience swingers are more likely to only engage with one like very monogamous emotional connection versus poly because same with like I don't at this point in my life for my focuses I don't want two boyfriends I would consider it in in the future though like a boyfriend and girlfriend again so like it's an option i've loved it when i have
Speaker3: chuck
Speaker1: what are you
Speaker3: what
Speaker1: do you mean what am i like are you polyamorous you ethical non man swinger you're a motherfucker like me what is you well nom is like the umbrella what are you chuck
Speaker3: listen
Speaker2: i
Speaker3: don't
Speaker2: like labels all i know is i got a lady friend okay that's because I like that.
Speaker1: I like that. All I know is I'm going out tomorrow night, motherfucker. I
Speaker7: have a
Speaker1: lady. See,
Speaker7: I think we should bring back the term lover. Like back in the day when people would be like, I'm going to see my lover.
Speaker1: I
Speaker7: love lover. That's like absolutely my favorite.
Speaker3: But
Speaker6: then some people is going to interpret that as you're going to go see your emotional partner. Well, okay, then they can come up with a
Speaker1: fact. They know I'm going to kiss a hand and get in that bed. That's what they know. Also, okay,
Speaker7: I would argue.
Speaker1: I would
Speaker7: also argue too at the end of the day this whole like I mean I could get into a whole rant but
Speaker3: it's
Speaker7: not a bad thing to have an emotional connection with someone you fuck that's not romantic like I do love my play partners in the same way I love my friends I love my friends so I love my play partners I care about them
Speaker3: that's
Speaker7: just like that's not so I
Speaker2: mean I have that unique ability that
Speaker3: like
Speaker2: cuts those feelings off and forget about it it's a survival mechanism when you come from
Speaker1: the hood Dave you come from the hood out of it quick
Speaker3: plus
Speaker6: it's a little adhd we quickly can turn gears and just forget something
Speaker3: let
Speaker1: me let me ask you this august you did mention something um in your work you do only fans and you dance tell us a little bit about that because we've had an only fans um person on uh eliza was on the other day and she told us a lot of enlightening stuff like sex panther who knew knew there was a fucking site out there called sex planet
Speaker3: but
Speaker7: there's there's many of them there's a lot there's so many so many
Speaker3: what
Speaker7: do you um so currently i'm mainly on only fans i do have a fansly as well that i'm kind of in the midst of reforming um i do chatter
Speaker3: negotiation
Speaker1: and figuring
Speaker10: it out figuring it out check what's what's chatterbait we don't hear about this one
Speaker1: You guys know. I was about to be like, you know what Chatterbait is. I was about to be like, that's the oldest one. I know what Chatterbait is. It comes on every time I'm on Pornhub right before I'm ready to jerk off to my prescribed video. Chatterbait comes on.
Speaker6: Chatterbait existed before OnlyFans. Chatterbait was free. Yeah, that's...
Speaker3: I
Speaker6: could do this in Chatterbait now and then.
Speaker1: I've never been on Chatterbait. I've only ever seen the ads before my actual jerk. Well, you should talk. I like it better
Speaker6: than OnlyFans because OnlyFans you're committed for an entire month Chatterbait I can give her 15 minutes of my life and move on
Speaker7: emotional disconnection
Speaker6: you're a Chatterbait guy I just need right in this moment I don't need forever right now what in the hell are you guys talking about Chatterbait
Speaker2: shit
Speaker1: she's
Speaker6: going to tell us what Chatterbait
Speaker7: is this is a great conversation on a breakdown of the difference between the two actually and I think it's interesting what he was talking about about who likes what so chatterbait is a live stream site
Speaker3: it's
Speaker7: so it's live stream sex masturbation whatever you not say whatever you want to do i mean there's some limits on there obviously but for the most part it's you know like like if you were to log on to porn hub how they have like the live video section or whatever it's a similar sort of idea so i'll do that typically that one's kind of just like a like
Speaker3: sounds
Speaker7: like this sounds terrible i'm bored at night oh is he pulling up there you go so you can find all these lovely ladies these nice young women on here um showing their vaginas and
Speaker3: jerking
Speaker7: but also i mean so it's kind of like different so like i do a variety of things on there i typically don't necessarily do full -on videos on there because that's mostly what i say for only fans i'll do oh you'd be bait and switching
Speaker1: us i get a little i didn't a bait and switch it's
Speaker7: it's
Speaker8: true
Speaker3: um
Speaker7: but so i'll do like i'll do like a topless video like literally i made valentine's on there like a couple weeks ago i was like sitting there making my valentine's cards you know having a good time um and then
Speaker3: versus
Speaker7: like only fans is subscription based so like you got a variety of pictures so when you subscribe to someone's only fans you'll essentially unlock a vault of their pictures videos all this different content for you to engage in and then at at that point like he said it's like the monthly fee i find typically men who
Speaker3: exactly
Speaker7: that men who don't necessarily want to deal with it for a month they just want that like one night experience tend to gravitate towards like the chatterbait type thing versus people who are a little more conversational want to engage with the same person over time will do only fans now
Speaker10: how much does a good jerk cost me on chatterbait like what do i got well it depends do you want to private or do because that's the thing so when you're hell
Speaker3: yeah
Speaker7: i don't want no creepy motherfuckers in there with with me while I'm jerking. Well, okay. Cause okay. Here's the thing. Cause technically you can, so you could just watch a video like this and you can tip the girl to do things and you could be jerking at yourself. But if you want her to see you and you want to feel like it's like a true one -on -one experience, a lot of them will start at like
Speaker3: somewhere
Speaker7: between like five and 10 per minute is pretty average. Wait, what did you say? I got to pay $5. I would say, I think, I mean, I don't, that's usually what about
Speaker10: what I do, but I don't know if I'm, I think sometimes I'm on the a higher end so wait i'm watching
Speaker1: this
Speaker10: right now so
Speaker1: i'm paying five dollars for a minute of this so not this but like so that's the thing is
Speaker7: it depends on what the person does so that's exactly so for a private show typically they would be doing more and you wouldn't be able to say oh this isn't proud yeah that's what i'm saying so like the public this
Speaker6: is
Speaker7: the public
Speaker3: guy
Speaker7: and a lot of those i was like what's your
Speaker6: what's your screen
Speaker7: no what is i have to double okay that's terrible that i have to double check because i
Speaker3: i
Speaker6: was gonna go look you oh god i think it's on the call it It should just be
Speaker7: under little
Speaker10: dancer for it. That's usually what all my tags are.
Speaker3: Chuck
Speaker10: must already be watching.
Speaker1: He's quiet
Speaker2: over there. He's looking at that shit.
Speaker3: How
Speaker2: do y 'all have time to be watching this shit? Because when I go on Pornhub every day, right? And I don't know how y 'all are going to have time to do this to get to the video. Because don't you want to get to the video? To get, I mean.
Speaker3: The
Speaker2: video, this usually plays as a like advertisement before on Pornhub.
Speaker3: Oh,
Speaker2: before the video comes up, that little thing that says skip ad. ad you guys yeah skip ad and then you can
Speaker1: click on one of these girls and then you can go into it i'm skipping this is
Speaker6: so you could have that personal interaction versus just watching porn if you just want porn you go to porn up if you want a little personal interaction while you stroke one out or two i got 15 minutes and i got
Speaker1: to get to a meeting all right i don't have time i don't have time to get
Speaker2: personal with people man see that's that emotional attachment stuff up i'm cutting that shit off that's too much work cuts it off
Speaker3: yeah
Speaker2: now let
Speaker1: me ask you this august can you have sex is this is this only masturbation you could have sex the only thing like
Speaker7: you would need to be registered like the other person would obviously like need to be registered with the site so like one of my certified so one of my play partners is registered on there so like he and i haven't done a live session together but we've talked about it like we've chatted about the idea of doing it
Speaker3: i
Speaker6: personally once so this this is a live couple right now
Speaker3: yeah
Speaker2: so we had another person on here eliza on a podcast a few times and she's talking about you got to get certified if you want to be one of her videos so i'm i've been working on the certification myself
Speaker8: here we have a girl oh yeah we got double
Speaker9: penetration
Speaker3: we're
Speaker9: seeing artists for free right now a lot yeah this is just free i don't even have a login i'm not even crazy they're They're just fucking for the internet. Wow. You sound so excited.
Speaker1: This
Speaker9: is free for the internet.
Speaker1: August, let me ask you this. Let's see what else we can
Speaker6: find.
Speaker1: So you're on Chatterbait,
Speaker3: Fansly,
Speaker1: OnlyFans.
Speaker10: Which one do you like? OnlyFans is my big one. I do
Speaker7: some others. So like I do independent content sales as well. So like that's like a whole. What
Speaker1: the fuck is that? So
Speaker7: that's a weird category. I don't typically. So it's a little bit. It's a unique one. And it is out of much. Is this from Germany? No, no. So when I started, so backstory on me. I've only been on the OnlyFans site for maybe about two years now, a little bit less than. I, beforehand, when I was younger and I first started being a stripper, dancer, and I was doing content sales, essentially it would just be people would just
Speaker3: hit
Speaker7: me up directly. So like for customs, for photos and stuff. And I would send them to them directly. And so it's kind of,
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: don't do as much of that because I don't like people to own my images in the same way. but if someone is willing to pay the premium to own the image at that point,
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: do have a premium fee where they could essentially own
Speaker3: the
Speaker7: image.
Speaker3: This
Speaker6: is a girl that you can control her vibrator
Speaker3: by
Speaker6: how much money you give. I have one of those. So you can pay to make her vibrator do different things.
Speaker3: Oh,
Speaker6: nice. August, how long have you been doing this?
Speaker7: So seven years.
Speaker3: what
Speaker2: what if if the professor wanted to start his own chatter bait box thing whatever
Speaker3: what
Speaker2: could i mean on average what's a good year you want to see the professor um
Speaker3: i mean
Speaker7: so so one thing i always explained me uh like what do you mean like financially speaking is what's a good yeah
Speaker2: yeah what yeah what could someone make in a year on average that's
Speaker10: that is so that's a really difficult thing for to answer honestly it depends on who you are how much you're willing to do
Speaker8: How much you're willing to do. It's like a big
Speaker7: thing that I also tell people is like your experience in it. So I have, I have experience in marketing outside of this. Like I've done social media marketing, advertising. So like I come from a whole, like people don't realize how much of that work goes into it. Like I spend a lot of time promoting myself and using social media. Like if, if any of you guys were to ever have me on like Snapchat or Instagram, it's like, I'm, I feel kind of annoying for how much I post because it's like, you have to constantly be putting out
Speaker3: things
Speaker7: so people see you to streamline them at that point to your content because if they're not getting stream or if you just log on to chatterbait and start a live stream with love like you probably will not make that much money you will make
Speaker3: a
Speaker6: couple that right there is where you start to lose me because then it seems like mass production
Speaker3: why
Speaker7: do you feel so so it's not so
Speaker6: one thing
Speaker7: i would say is i mean particularly i'm very passionate about the direct support of cause so like i i would not make if i was on porn hub or red tube i wouldn't make a living off of that
Speaker3: i
Speaker7: just wouldn't for how for how the website takes from the creators and how how the producers and all of that, I get to make my own stuff.
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: get to decide exactly what image is out there of myself. I get to decide exactly how I'm profiting from it. The people who care to get to, so RedTube, the way that that disconnect, financially speaking, doesn't do well for me. So like, that's why I do Chatterbait on occasion. I'll make the, whatever money I make off of Chatterbait, it's disconnected. Versus on my OnlyFans, like I have, my average viewer on OnlyFans spends over a hundred dollars a month on me. And that's not the subscription, that's extra stuff they're throwing on top the subscription is 20 a month they're choosing to send me extra money they're choosing because they have that connection and i don't
Speaker3: as
Speaker7: far as the mass production getting people there like yes it's a streamlined sort of thing because i have to you got to market stuff unfortunately at the end of the day but i feel as though the content that i'm able to produce through those platforms is a lot more genuine genuine and curated than anything you're going to find on any free porn website august is like the lavar ball of only fans i
Speaker1: like Take it, August.
Speaker6: Control your fucking shit. And hey, I'm not judging anyone, and I'm not saying there is a, there's a something for everyone.
Speaker3: Take
Speaker1: it from someone who they tried to fucking boot out of there or whatever. Control your own shit. It wasn't until I started controlling my own shit that I could do whatever the fuck I wanted to in this. Control your shit, August. I like it. Oh, yes. Continue.
Speaker3: For
Speaker6: me, it just gets, I'm a little bit different than Chuck D because when, you definitely are. If I'm going to pay. good things ladies good things when it comes to paying money for something i don't want mass produced i'm paying for that personal oh you want that personal pervert touch
Speaker3: see
Speaker7: so his values is what i hear david sticks true so there we go that's a good answer to that then i i totally respect that is the thing though at the end of the and like for me personally like Like my shit isn't. So the images I share on Reddit or FetLife or CND, those aren't the ones on my OnlyFans. My OnlyFans is completely different images. She keeps that pre -load for the only fans. Oh yeah, no, God no. Why would I? None of the images that exist on my OnlyFans exist anywhere else on the internet. No, I do not do a crossover like that.
Speaker3: See,
Speaker6: I give you credit for that. I think that that is a good artist. Yeah, no, because that's, so
Speaker7: that's what I can, this is my artwork. I like erotic photography. Same with, so same with like the conversations I have and stuff so even a big thing i do in my i do custom so like earlier you guys want to hear what i filmed earlier today that was for my work
Speaker3: yes
Speaker1: of course um
Speaker7: a customer asked specifically for like he's was into like the whole like professor you know student fantasy so he asked for a video where i used his name i essentially recorded myself like getting an email from the professor asking for extra credit and you know showing like masturbating she
Speaker1: went all in did you have have one at school girls of course of course
Speaker7: i had the little
Speaker3: but
Speaker7: um but point being so that that is a custom video that now he owns he's the one who owns that it has his name and it is a custom nice
Speaker3: see
Speaker9: and
Speaker7: so he paid so he paid a premium on top for that extra experience but like so for me there is you're not wrong there is a huge part of only fans that's mass produced there's a whole side of people who don't even answer their own messages like that is a side of things where people pay and other i don't do that i personally i take too much pride in my work to do that i don't like that in genuine inauthentic experience so it's i would say be careful of who you're engaging with if that's like from a for the viewers listening if you're asking as a customer like look into the people you're engaging with
Speaker3: if
Speaker7: it's a super popular thousands of followers type creator yeah she's probably not going to be the most like personal experience for you
Speaker3: but
Speaker1: if it's august she's gonna carve out 20 minutes
Speaker8: and
Speaker3: that's
Speaker6: why i like i like that's why we support artists like august and eliza who are more into it versus the mass produced just you know i think that's august that's good do you
Speaker1: like dancing or the streaming thing better what's your what's what's
Speaker3: um
Speaker7: i it's hard to say there's a favorite
Speaker3: so
Speaker7: i've been
Speaker3: i
Speaker7: like both for different reasons dancing gets out a lot of my social energy so like for a period actually so
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: spent a big portion of the summer dedicating a lot of time to like only fans creating I was doing like a lot of photo shoots video shoots the whole deal
Speaker3: and
Speaker7: I ended up taking most of the summer off from the club
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: am a huge extrovert and I missed the fuck out of talking to people like it just was but at the same time I so like me personally like I don't
Speaker3: there's
Speaker7: a big drinking scene I'm not much of a night owl like I don't drink a lot I I don't like to drink a lot. I'm not necessarily,
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: try not to be a night owl. And that all kind of goes into the club scene. And so I try and keep right now for my own reasons, I try and keep it to be like something I do like,
Speaker3: you
Speaker7: know, every couple weeks, maybe once a week versus the rest of my time being streaming.
Speaker3: But,
Speaker1: you know, streaming, you're at home in your own comfy confines. But out there, you got to dance with some ugly motherfucker sometime. time and you gotta feel like how ugly
Speaker3: motherfucker
Speaker1: that stink you gotta do that if you pay the money right i don't have to do shit i don't want to at the end of the day right but you sometimes you don't know you know what i'm saying the dudes over there you're getting the private vip and um
Speaker3: no
Speaker7: no and you're not
Speaker1: wrong about that
Speaker7: i would say the thing is is honestly because here's the thing people don't talk about either um people hidden behind a screen say fucked up things
Speaker3: so
Speaker7: as far far as like so that's a so like yeah okay maybe a person's not the most attractive or maybe they don't smell the best the chance that they're actually so like you know i've had people be rude to me in the club honestly not that many though like 99 of the dudes i run into at the club are just happy to see me very positive um i would say that lowers to about 75 online 25 of the men that i deal with online straight up are there to like want to insult me
Speaker3: want
Speaker7: to say me like are genuinely like mad like angry at me they want to say things about how they hate women and like, you know, like whatever. Do they pay you for that? Sometimes. And that's the other thing. So like that's, that even gets into another side. So we, the kink side of things I think is interesting. So like I have my own
Speaker8: personal
Speaker7: limits, but like
Speaker3: great
Speaker7: example, there is a customer I have who has admitted to me on my site and stuff and I've done videos from, he's like, I like seeing women get tortured. That,
Speaker3: he
Speaker7: straight up is like, I enjoy seeing women get tortured. That is what I like. And it's like, did he go into detail about what he was of course of course he went into like he wanted particularly like there's like pussy torture there's tit torture like there's different he wanted to see me like burn myself and there's only fans has pretty strong pink limits and obviously i have my own like i don't
Speaker3: i
Speaker7: don't like to disfigure myself you know at the end of the i'm not going to burn myself or give myself a scar or something that's not really my side of things so like what he was asking for wasn't something i personally was considered like worth it there's other things that i've done though that are like
Speaker3: i
Speaker7: don't necessarily judge the person but are weird so like probably one of my weirdest ones i mean being so yeah
Speaker3: we
Speaker1: want to hear weird i um i
Speaker7: did a throwing up video for a customer oh so it's like
Speaker3: oh
Speaker7: i've never heard of people have vomit kinks and particularly a lot of times it goes
Speaker3: wait
Speaker1: did they make you eat something specific first like
Speaker7: nothing thing specific they just said that they wanted
Speaker3: enough
Speaker7: you know and essentially i had to gag on a dildo until i threw up
Speaker3: so
Speaker7: and like like that weirdly enough though that particular customer every other interaction we have he's so polite like absolute jump very nice to me pays very well obviously for content like that like it's you know very
Speaker3: not
Speaker7: cheap to engage with something like that um but yeah give us another weird one give us another one oh god i'm trying to think of some some good ones
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: get a lot of I have a
Speaker3: duct
Speaker7: tape thing going on right now and there's a particular a lot of times there's a particular reason that things end up streamlining so I did a collaboration video with a play partner friend of mine where he had my mouth duct taped he had me bound and like gagged essentially while he fucked me and since that video has come out and like that video is what I'll do for advertising so like there's a picture of me with just the duct duct tape on my mouth that's out there that's for advertising since that one's been put out a bunch of dudes who have duct tape fetishes have streamlined to my page so like that i also did earlier today was i had a video where the dude just wanted to see me duct tape myself and try and talk to him
Speaker3: it
Speaker10: wasn't even like these are little domers
Speaker1: out there
Speaker10: man there's some crazy motherfuckers
Speaker3: yeah
Speaker10: so i would say
Speaker7: those are some of the weirder ones i like i said i have my own limits and only only fans is a little like only fans is not what i would say is particularly particularly kink friendly you can get away with like like i said like the duct tape idea you can get away with
Speaker3: bondage
Speaker7: and stuff anything that's considered what
Speaker1: about like piss that's where it
Speaker7: so only fans does not allow any urination it does not allow any um lactation and any blood and that includes weirdly enough no scat no scat um
Speaker11: weirdly
Speaker7: enough blood does include period blood which i think is an interesting one because there's i mean
Speaker3: i
Speaker7: think that one's an interesting one but like so even so like that is something that happened to me once before as i was filming a video and i got my period and then we were like well i guess this video is useless
Speaker3: you
Speaker7: know it's like weird and like it's not i mean that's a whole different story
Speaker3: it's
Speaker7: not useless
Speaker6: you could sell that so is there other sites that are more open to that like you were talking about that are there other places dedicated for more of the kink like extreme stuff that people still pay yep so fansley
Speaker7: is the big one that's pretty friendly and so that's what i i was so what i was talking about earlier about revamping i
Speaker3: essentially
Speaker7: i opened up my fan fans it's available what i'm trying to curate right now is a different experience between my only fans and my fans is
Speaker3: because
Speaker7: i want my fans to be more focused on the stuff that only fans doesn't allow and not have such a crossover of material it's its whole thing but yeah so fansley allows
Speaker3: uh
Speaker7: i mean i don't i have i've read through the rules a couple times i'm trying to think if there's anything i don't know if they allow scat i'm not 100
Speaker3: well
Speaker1: what are you gonna do on what will you do? No, God,
Speaker2: no.
Speaker3: How
Speaker2: about lactation? Will they allow lactation on fans? Fans will allow lactation.
Speaker3: You
Speaker2: like that shit, Chuck? Hey, man, I had some before. It's nutritious. It's very sweet. Do you like it, though? Hey, I don't mind it. It's just a little kinky thing for me. I like it, you know? You like smokes. When was the last
Speaker1: time you had some lactation?
Speaker3: when's
Speaker2: the
Speaker1: last time yeah um i was uh oh jesus christmas
Speaker3: what happened
Speaker1: even come on you gotta you don't remember what that tastes like you don't remember what that tastes like
Speaker3: no
Speaker1: i had something like 2020
Speaker8: i
Speaker2: was 19 it was a it
Speaker3: was
Speaker2: a high school she got pregnant when she was before we graduated high school so
Speaker3: you
Speaker2: won't stop me
Speaker1: from getting some lactation chuck you remember Remember that?
Speaker3: Why
Speaker7: were you a hater?
Speaker2: Oh,
Speaker1: yeah, that's right.
Speaker3: Why
Speaker7: were you a hater? Why'd you stop him from getting back to you?
Speaker2: Well, man, I don't know. You know, the professor, he gets, he's a little kinky himself. Let the man be
Speaker8: sneaky.
Speaker2: This was with the pregnant girl, right, professor? Yes. Yes. And it just, she was out there. How many months was she? How many months was she?
Speaker3: Come
Speaker2: on. I mean, I could have delivered that
Speaker1: thing in the morning. You know what I mean? Exactly.
Speaker3: and
Speaker2: I know how the professor is when he starts getting into it he starts breathing all heavy like you know and I didn't want her to get hurt oh
Speaker3: yes
Speaker2: oh he did her he did her well I
Speaker7: heard that part I was like it just okay because I've been pregnant and I'm not a hater but whatever you want to do with your body I cannot imagine
Speaker10: wanting to go to a party when I was pregnant like just personally There was just someone pregnant at the Halloween party. I've just seen a pregnant
Speaker1: woman. Y 'all got me
Speaker8: flabbergasted.
Speaker3: Yeah.
Speaker2: I've just
Speaker11: seen
Speaker2: a pregnant woman. Hang around the professor long enough. You're going to be tackle -blasted all the time. He's done some weird kinky shit. I don't know if he's got me beat, though. On
Speaker7: that note, I was going to say, I doubt he's got me beat on that one.
Speaker6: All right. Hold on. We've got to find this one out. The professor. Professor, what's the kinkiest,
Speaker6: you're competing against August here. So, Professor, what
Speaker1: do you got? I'm not competing against anyone because I got to. I don't have to sit and go through my holodecks of kinkiness.
Speaker6: We want to hear what the vanilla professor, what the kinkiest thing he's ever done. I would need
Speaker1: to get back to you on that. That would have to sit and think. You had me going through 30 years of kinky shit. All right. So, I couldn't tell you. I've done some Chuck
Speaker6: What's the kinkiest thing you've ever done
Speaker2: Kinkiest thing
Speaker3: I
Speaker2: don't know man I mean y 'all tease me a lot about You know the ass licking stuff
Speaker3: Maybe
Speaker2: we tease you about
Speaker6: a lot of things I've
Speaker1: done some things that I'm not going to tell you guys about To be honest I
Speaker6: mean
Speaker3: Yeah
Speaker6: maybe He's afraid of being outed But to their professor Maybe, but I'm not going to
Speaker1: tell y 'all. But August, let me ask you this. What do you like better? The kink world
Speaker3: or
Speaker1: the lifestyle world? Oh, shit.
Speaker7: Okay.
Speaker3: See,
Speaker7: I feel like that's not even... I think I can't even say that I would
Speaker10: like one better than the other. I... Why? You got to pick one. Why?
Speaker3: You
Speaker1: have to pick one because it's the game. You have to pick one. I hate this game. I did not... This is what I do.
Speaker3: This
Speaker1: is what I do.
Speaker7: Well, no, because I don't... They're a Venn diagram, bro. You can't, you can't separate them. So like even, okay. So for example, my like
Speaker3: main
Speaker7: person that I tend to go to parties with and like one of my main people I tend to go to parties with, we are engaged in a heavy kink relationship. So for me, it's like, it's very much a
Speaker3: Venn
Speaker7: diagram. And same with like, I, okay. Okay. I will say one thing. Parties, I prefer lifestyle parties. I don't like kink parties as much.
Speaker3: my
Speaker7: sex life would not be as thrilling if i took out kink and only had the lifestyle though i would not enjoy my sex life in the same way like i think my sex life
Speaker3: i
Speaker7: would enjoy better if i only had kink versus a lifestyle
Speaker3: my
Speaker7: like social life and what i like doing for parties and who i like engaging with i tend to enjoy lifestyle people slightly more than kink
Speaker1: but
Speaker7: i
Speaker3: love
Speaker7: both and for for different reasons you
Speaker2: just kind of skirted around i know aren't
Speaker7: i good at that
Speaker2: august have you ever have you ever been out in public and one of your customers recognized oh yeah
Speaker7: i took a selfie with a dude on the bus like a month ago
Speaker1: okay all right all right wait what did he say did he just come right he looked really
Speaker7: nervous at first and then he came up to me um
Speaker3: i i
Speaker7: have see at this point so i've been involved in the community like the like not just content but being a dancer in the cities for so many years i mean like that's even like so like i am very sociable around the city so like that's even happened i've been at a concert and looked over and been like oh i was dancing on that dude like three weeks
Speaker3: like
Speaker7: i should just be happening and like that's why like i don't
Speaker3: like
Speaker7: i make the joke i'm undoxable at this point like my whole family knows what i do my
Speaker1: church
Speaker7: follows me on instagram like everyone Everyone in my entire fucking life knows what I do. And it's just is what it. So like as far like, yeah, I'm very open with it. People recognize me in public. I'm like, oh, hey, hi. It happens more often, though. Like the whole it's funny that the username. So like the little dancer thing. So on CND, on FetLife, I'm little dancer. That has taken on like a life of its own in a funny way is like people will come up to me in public and use the username. They're not like, oh, are you August? They're like, are you a little dancer?
Speaker3: I'm
Speaker7: like, oh,
Speaker3: hi,
Speaker7: I guess that's me.
Speaker3: You
Speaker1: know what? that's what people know you as out in public now. If people run out to me until a while, I'm Mr. White Chocolate.
Speaker6: Exactly. It is what it is. Alright, so we're going to play Dirty Secrets. Uh -oh. I'm going to ask you a question. You're going to get options.
Speaker3: And
Speaker6: then there might be a follow -up question to that one. So, number one. Most scandalous place you've hooked up.
Speaker3: The
Speaker6: options ChatGPT gives is public,
Speaker3: like
Speaker6: a bathroom, stairwell, parking lot, public -ish. So balcony, hot tub, beach at the night,
Speaker3: or
Speaker6: private. You've never, you've been lame vanilla. Which one would you pick? Oh, I've been public. We're
Speaker1: all going
Speaker6: to pick public. Public.
Speaker3: Yeah,
Speaker9: all of
Speaker6: us. Yeah, we're all going to pick public. So now rank.
Speaker3: All
Speaker6: right, so professor. Everybody
Speaker9: in the world has been public.
Speaker6: No, there's a follow -up then. Okay, so everyone picked public. So the follow -up, Professor, is
Speaker3: risk
Speaker6: rate at 1 to 10,
Speaker3: with
Speaker6: 1 being the lamest and 10 being... I've done a lot of... I've done
Speaker1: multiple 10s. Yeah,
Speaker6: multiple. I've done multiple. I can't even count how many 10s I've had. So the Professor thinks he is maxed out the scale. There's nothing left for you to do. There's no more...
Speaker7: Oh, okay. Wait, no. I'm going to put myself at a 9. I'm going to put myself at a 9. Yeah, that's not it. For the sake of not saying that I've maxed myself out, I will put myself at a 9. but
Speaker3: can
Speaker7: always go harder what's
Speaker1: your what's your best public experience best
Speaker7: but okay best
Speaker10: craziest yeah what is your best
Speaker1: public experience
Speaker3: craziest
Speaker10: either one
Speaker6: which one you want to tell us yeah what's the crazy the question was what's the most scandalous scandalous um
Speaker3: i
Speaker7: had a threesome in my high school uh swim locker room bathroom like bathroom
Speaker3: why
Speaker7: do all
Speaker1: these people nowadays do this in high school i thought i was doing it big in high
Speaker6: school you were too busy in the in the basketball boys shower i was
Speaker10: doing dumb shit in high school locker room not the basketball apparently
Speaker3: the
Speaker1: swimming well what happened wait was the three with two girls and a guy yeah so it was like me
Speaker7: and another girl and a guy
Speaker3: damn
Speaker8: another
Speaker7: scandalous one and this one's more from like a i think legally speaking this would have gotten me in more trouble if we'd been caught um i fucked one of my exes on a on a like uh whatchamacallit you know those walking bridges across mississippi like the ones that don't have cars but they're like they got train bridges and stuff we fucked on one of those one time just like looking over the mississippi but technically it would have been trespassing combined with public nudity so i'm like legally speaking it's a little questionable
Speaker3: i
Speaker6: think you would get more than public nudity probably
Speaker7: you're right that's
Speaker6: more than what is
Speaker1: the part yeah you're gonna get a couple other charges i would probably say public wise like in that vein i once fucked at a professional sporting event in the suite okay behind the glass so you could see why the game was going on second quarter two minutes 30 seconds left to go right before halftime so that was pretty open
Speaker3: in
Speaker1: the public so you could see
Speaker3: i
Speaker1: a lot of time in this week so chuck has been in those sweets too
Speaker3: what
Speaker6: are you talking about
Speaker3: all right
Speaker6: chuck your turn what's what's the most scandalous place you've had sex at
Speaker3: hmm
Speaker2: I
Speaker3: would
Speaker2: probably say at my workplace on the desk at night. Yeah.
Speaker1: It's a good one.
Speaker3: Yeah.
Speaker2: Workplace is always fun.
Speaker3: Yeah.
Speaker2: I really enjoyed that one. That was pretty fun. I just went back there, actually. In my mind. In my mind. All right.
Speaker3: Here's
Speaker6: the next one.
Speaker3: the
Speaker6: biggest I shouldn't,
Speaker3: but
Speaker6: I will trigger.
Speaker3: So
Speaker6: meaning it's meaning like, you know, you shouldn't, but it's kind of a weakness and you're going to, if you get put into that spot. So the options it gives is being watched or an audience. I think they're lame to be honest with you being ordered or controlled. Teased plus denied. I'm like, all those are, are a fun set. That sounds pretty basic. So, so let's just ask like, August, you kind of lit up there a little bit. You knew where this question was going. So what's your trigger with that? You really know you shouldn't, but you will every single time.
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: mean, I don't, I don't, it's hard to find, like, like definitely on the, I'm not even, I don't even know if it's a particular action or if it's, because I'm trying to think in what realm, like, because there's things I would do. I'm more so thinking like things that would make me do whatever. Does that make, I'm trying to, does that make sense?
Speaker6: Okay. So that's, that's the follow up. So it actually did the follow up to the question was now what's one word or tone that flips you.
Speaker3: So
Speaker6: that's what that it was getting to exactly where you were going.
Speaker7: See, like, it's funny because the being being the
Speaker3: being
Speaker7: challenged a little bit. I'm I'm very competitive in a sexual way, if that makes sense. So like when other people like if someone's good, like the denial thing. So if someone's going to tease me and then try and act like they're in control, it pisses me off. And it kind of works as the reverse psychology. if someone teases me and then they're like oh no you don't get this then i'm gonna be like no fuck you i do want it i do get it and so i i have a very like
Speaker3: i
Speaker7: don't know and it's particular people though i will say i think that's also worth putting out there it's not like anyone well
Speaker6: that's why you're more of a dom than a sub i'm assuming that's that king okay i heard all that
Speaker1: king that's all i heard was a bunch of kings you like being the dom i've got
Speaker7: particular people I'm submissive for but for the most part I would describe myself as more of I think I'm a little bit more dom leaning I'm bossy
Speaker3: I'm
Speaker7: also spoiled so yeah
Speaker3: professor
Speaker6: do you have uh do a word or a tone or something that could get you from not really feeling like sex to just let's do this other than the breeze hitting you
Speaker3: I
Speaker6: do not I was gonna say anything would it's it's not a good Good question, I feel like, for most guys. It is not a good question for me. Yeah.
Speaker7: Fucking small. Not a good question. Oh, you walked in the
Speaker6: room. You want to have sex? A little too much eye
Speaker7: contact, you know? Shit.
Speaker3: Took
Speaker7: your top off.
Speaker6: You know, Chuck, we shouldn't assume, because Chuck sometimes can be a little more, you know, reserved. So maybe he... Chuck, what will get you from bad mood, I don't want to have sex, to
Speaker3: let's
Speaker6: do this? Gosh,
Speaker2: I don't know. I would probably say...
Speaker3: I
Speaker2: mean it can be like an action
Speaker3: right?
Speaker2: like
Speaker6: you know some girls you could just whisper good girl into their ear and no matter what's going on they're ready to go yeah that's a good one I
Speaker3: don't
Speaker2: know I mean it can be I ain't gonna lie it won't take much
Speaker3: I
Speaker6: was waiting to see what he pulls out of his ass but in the end he couldn't do it
Speaker3: I
Speaker2: was trying to pull something out of my ass but it's like, nah, it won't take much. But that person has to be something that, you know, I mean, it's got to be all that in the back. What's
Speaker6: a kink that you didn't expect that you would love,
Speaker3: but
Speaker6: you love?
Speaker3: The
Speaker6: options it gives
Speaker3: are
Speaker6: impact, restraints, or power play. I mean, I love
Speaker7: all of those. As far as what I didn't expect, I didn't expect myself to like restraints as much as I do. Especially, I love restraining other people is really, A man in handcuffs, so hot. It was so hot.
Speaker3: You
Speaker6: are definitely a die -hard. I'm just psychotic.
Speaker3: So,
Speaker6: Professor, are you going to let August handcuff you? Oh,
Speaker10: you don't want to have a little date?
Speaker1: No, I don't do any of that stuff, August. You got to listen to episode three of season three that we do a BDSM test on here.
Speaker8: Oh, you did the
Speaker1: BDSM? Can we just acknowledge that you pulled that out of his ass? I have my BDSM test. test. My BDSM test is really neutral. That's why we
Speaker6: tell him he's vanilla. He came up with vanilla. All that
Speaker1: pain bullshit. No, that ain't for me. Ain't no smacking. I ain't gonna smack your ass.
Speaker3: I
Speaker1: don't wanna do none of that. Maybe a little rev up top. None of that. I don't wanna see it all red and beat up.
Speaker6: I can see Chuck D letting
Speaker2: you handcuff him.
Speaker3: I
Speaker2: mean, yeah, I mean, there's gotta be that trust involved. involved that's that's a great answer
Speaker7: negotiation and trust is very important
Speaker3: yeah
Speaker2: no bring your handcuffs
Speaker3: i ain't
Speaker6: with it oh
Speaker3: so
Speaker6: we had we talked a little bit about good girl so one of the questions is uh the filthiest compliment
Speaker3: you
Speaker6: love it gives good girl you're nasty and you're mine and i'm I'm like, well, that's lame again. Those are terrible.
Speaker3: Right?
Speaker6: I was like, those are so vanilla. So
Speaker3: what
Speaker6: is it? What's the filthiest compliment that actually you love?
Speaker7: Oh, see.
Speaker3: Oh,
Speaker7: that's such a hard one. Okay, I would say I'm very particular about certain things coming from, once again, the right person. Okay, there's two from one particular person that I don't think that most other people could get away with. with but when i've heard them like both of the times that they've been said to me by this particular person will
Speaker3: um
Speaker7: a beautiful freak
Speaker3: and
Speaker7: uh my pocket pussy
Speaker3: my
Speaker7: favorite pocket my favorite pocket pussy specifically
Speaker3: favorite
Speaker2: pocket pussy that one i was i did not expect that was a
Speaker7: body reaction i like in my head i wanted to be offended i was like i'm not a fucking pocket but but then my body reacted for me on that one so yeah
Speaker6: i gotta imagine that has to do with either the the connection that you have with that person somehow,
Speaker3: or
Speaker6: the way they said it in the moment. Because I was like, that one would be one that it's, it would be a hard to land that one right, I feel like. I mean, the professor could probably do it with his smooth undertones.
Speaker3: We're
Speaker1: not going to be allowed to talk when I'm in there, remember? You're not vocal. Ain't going to be no pocky pussy talking. We'll say a few things. We'll get down to the nitty gritty. But we're not going to be talking the whole way through.
Speaker3: You
Speaker1: might catch the pocket pussy at the beginning or the end, but not in the middle. Like we said, vanilla. We've talked about this.
Speaker3: I
Speaker1: don't like it chatty
Speaker6: in there. I'm a talker. I'm a talker.
Speaker3: August,
Speaker6: what's your instant fold move? Like, what gets you just
Speaker3: revved
Speaker6: up immediately? Is it a neck bite, hair pull, a dirty whisper in the ear?
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: like nipple play.
Speaker3: Or
Speaker7: am I supposed to pick between those three? because I hate the pick and I know
Speaker6: you talk about whatever I know you talk about whatever you know no because I was gonna say the better question what has made you lose composure like what action like and that's where it's referring to like neck bites or a hair pull or like so
Speaker7: I would say honestly at the end of the day like like good eye contact especially forced eye contact is a big one so like I'd like a dude and not you don't want someone to be obviously too aggressive unconsensual But like, like I've had dudes like, you know, we're making,
Speaker3: we're
Speaker7: making out and they will like stop and like pull me back and like look in my eyes. That shit will make me like, oh my God, fuck. Now let me ask you that.
Speaker1: Does that work? Let me ask you this, August.
Speaker3: Does
Speaker1: what you just described work during like your OnlyFans sessions if you're just with somebody? Or does that have to be in like a real
Speaker3: dynamic?
Speaker1: Like you really fucking with this motherfucker and y 'all did it. Or it's just some OnlyFans. no
Speaker7: so no no so i would say um okay it depends on because they're different like as far as like when i'm dealing with like my uh fans on only fans and stuff like that i think it's a little bit hard because at the end of the day when you're not dealing with a person in real life it's going to be a little bit of a
Speaker3: yeah
Speaker1: no no no no i'm saying what let's say you're doing a song for only fans oh yeah right and you're with somebody and it's straight up just only fans fucking oh so i don't
Speaker7: oh so that's so i i don't just fuck people for only fans that's actually a rule i have i only everyone that I fuck on my OnlyFans I also fuck outside of OnlyFans I don't really do like pure collaboration type stuff like I've been invited I've been invited to do plenty of collaborations there's one or two people I've considered because I am a fan of their work if that makes sense and in that context I would consider it but like I don't just collaborate with people like everyone currently who's on my OnlyFans is like an actual play partner of mine well
Speaker1: this answers another question when you're dancing
Speaker3: do
Speaker1: you ever get turned on dancing for uh yeah man there or is it just
Speaker3: oh
Speaker7: 100 you know i think it's interesting when people ask me that because like i i've talked to a ton of my co -workers and there's definitely a decent chunk of people who it's just a job for them i don't think i would like it if it was just a job for me like i am an exhibitionist i like being watched i like
Speaker3: dude
Speaker7: so like i'm horny at work like most of the time at least a little bit maybe not like maybe not like crazy see i'm catching a
Speaker6: theme here because eliza's the same way she said she's the exact same way she likes the attention attention and she likes showing off so
Speaker3: I'm
Speaker6: seeing an under theme with the ones that really enjoy doing it it's because it gives them pleasure on the back
Speaker7: no quite literally it's like I'm extremely lucky I get to I get I get to like so like I was I come from a dance background so I get to literally like dance and like as like a ballet I was a ballet dancer for many years I get to do actual dance I get to show off for people and then I get to get go home and like come on on camera. Like my, my life is pretty, like my job is pretty decent. It's pretty pleasurable.
Speaker3: Have
Speaker1: you,
Speaker3: have
Speaker1: you ever gone home with someone from the strip club? Hey, what we learn when they don't answer. That's the answer. Damn. Damn.
Speaker8: He's going to listen to this later, and he's going to have such an
Speaker7: ego about it, too, is what I hate.
Speaker8: Oh, man.
Speaker2: It's okay. Hey, hey, Professor, if he was dancing, he'd be going home every night with somebody. Let's be real. All right? Don't be laughing at her.
Speaker3: Don't
Speaker2: be laughing at her. You'd be doing the same thing.
Speaker6: He'd be doing the early shift, go home with someone there, come back for the late shift. Just do, like, the rounds of it. That would be the professor as a stripper.
Speaker3: he'd
Speaker6: have his own VIP room
Speaker3: I
Speaker1: like that well no no we gotta keep going was it just once or was it more than once another pod I love you how
Speaker8: many
Speaker1: hands how many hands would it take
Speaker7: to
Speaker3: count
Speaker7: I'm gonna answer a version of this question I'm gonna answer the version of this question that I want to answer I will say the person that I ended up going home with,
Speaker3: we
Speaker7: are like have been involved for a long time. So I have gotten like a ongoing dynamic out of it. I don't really do it for like one night stand type shit.
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: will hold up fingers for your guys' satisfaction, though. And you better not say shit because I'm being nice to you guys. Down and dirty listeners,
Speaker3: we
Speaker1: have had a great time talking to August tonight. She has been an awesome guest. Thank you so much, August. August. Thank you. Tell all the down and dirty listeners everywhere that they can find August. Where are you at on the internet?
Speaker7: So on CND and FetLife, I am under Lil Dancer. So it's L -I -L Dancer. On all other platforms, so OnlyFans, Fansly, I'll be under Little Miss Dancer Baby. So yes, come find me. Come say hi. Come come with me.
Speaker1: Also, she'll be at the Ozone events.
Speaker3: That
Speaker1: got me. I will be, yeah. Check her out at the Ozone. Check her out at the Ozone. She puts on a great scene session.
Speaker3: I
Speaker7: like showing off, so indulge in my kink and let me show off for you. Enjoy
Speaker1: the cover art. What did you say? The cover art will be of her handiwork? Will. All right. With her in it.
Speaker3: We
Speaker1: appreciate it. Thank you. Appreciate you all. Thank you. Hey, Day. Where can people
Speaker6: listen to today's episode? On downdirtypodcast.com or on any major platform. Hey Dave, what's the best lifestyle website in the world? Well, of course, that's CouplesNextDoor.com, where you can unlock desires beyond the ordinary.
Speaker11: Hey Dave, who made it possible to listen to today's episode?
Speaker3: The
Speaker6: Down and Dirty Production Company.
Speaker11: Hey Dave, who's taking them sexy photos for the cover art? Passionscapes Photography. That's my jam in the background. Dave, who is that? Sounds by Victoria. Oh, I like that. Hey Dave, where can I get some of those sexy outfits from my lady friend? at blitzbyjax.com
Speaker3: Shut
Speaker11: the fuck up. How are you doing that shit again?
