Join host AC Maxwell on the Swinging Single Podcast for an in-depth review of the exotic and luxurious Desire Riviera Maya Pearl Resort in Cancun, Mexico. In this special episode, we delve into the unique experiences and offerings of this renowned adult-only destination. From the stunning views of the Caribbean Sea to the sensual atmosphere that envelops every moment, we explore what sets Desire Riviera Maya Pearl Resort apart as a top choice for those seeking a liberating and indulgent getaway. Whether you're a seasoned traveler or considering your first adult lifestyle adventure, this detailed review will provide insights and highlights to inspire your next unforgettable vacation. Tune in and embark on a journey of passion and exploration with us as we uncover the allure of Desire Riviera Maya Pearl Resort.swingingsinglepodcast.comswingingsinlgepodcast@gmail.comhttps://www.desireresorts.com/en/hotels/mexico/puerto-morelos/desire-riviera-maya-pearl-resort/?partner=9477 affiliate=5701 utm_source=google utm_medium=organic utm_campaign=gbp_listinghttps://x.com/DesireResorts
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We are coming to you live on this beautiful Saturday here in Upside Down Down Pineapple Studios and we got a review to do. I got to do my little swinging vacation earlier this week and I went to Desire Riviera Maya Pearl Resort and it gets two cocks, hard cocks up, two thumbs up, whatever you want to do.
I recommend everybody that is a couple sorry everybody sorry single gentlemen sorry single females but it is couples own resort and if you're a couple that don't like single men well this is a great place for you because there won't be a single male around other than the workers but you will have nothing but beautiful looking couples uh running around naked, half-naked, whatever, fucking in the cabanas, doing all that stuff. But first, remember, go to swingandsinglepodcast.com.
Go see All Things AC. Then go to swingandsinglepodcast at gmail.com. Send me an email. Hey, if you want to be a guest on my show, that's fine.
You want to come interview me right ahead uh email me we'll set something up i'm always available for interviews i'm always available to interview you if you're only fans you want to get out there you want to get more uh publicity you know pr uh just give me a shout me shoot me an email we'll set something up and all that so you know you could do a lot of stuff with me and all that stuff so uh also And remember to shave those cock and balls so you know with them everybody so i decided to take my partner to you know to something outside we usually go in state we don't usually go out of the country if we do go out of the country it's not going to be anything you know no swinging but i wanted to check out desire because everything everyone's telling me desire how great it was and all that stuff and i'm the type of person where i want to see it i got to see it to believe it i don't want to see you know secondhand you know information doesn't really work well with me because of the fact that one person's bad time could be another person's good time so you know i wanted to check it out for myself so we got on there we got a room uh i did this in a month in advance got the plane tickets everything and it's a short it's a less than two hour flight from where i'm at in texas so it's a great you know it's not too far so this is basically if one day you know one one time i want to get away for the weekend i got i can call up one of the girls say hey you know you want to go to cancun you want to go cancun see see what they say and we can go and it's only less than two hours away by flight and all that stuff we got our room the room was well to me i really didn't care too much about the room because the fact that i didn't want to be in the room, I wanted to be outside, getting a suntan, looking at the people, watching people have sex, maybe have sex myself outdoors, because you can't have sex outdoors, it's awesome, over by the hot tub and all that, so, you know, I really wasn't too concerned about the room, but first, let's get, before I get ahead of myself, let's get there, so you get to the airport in Cancun, you through the immigration process which was very easy all i had to do was scan my passport it spitted out a ticket keep the ticket because you're going to need that to exit and you just walk right out no one asked you why you're here or anything like that it's kind of weird i was like is this it and the lady there was like see it is and i was like okay so you walk you wait your luggage, which was a long wait.
So don't be in a hurry when you're going through Passport because you're going to be waiting around for your luggage anyways. You get your luggage. You go through the out. They might tell you they want to check you or not. Just keep going straight. Go straight out the doors.
You're going to go to where all the people are, the taxi cabs cabs the transportation companies and all that and you're going to get bombarded by people begging you to go with their service and stuff like that you're going to get all that stuff i so i recommend you pre-book transportation from the airport to the resort which you can do that you could do it on your own or you could do it with the hotel i did it with the hotel very simple so i had to go find go through all the weave you know leave the uh crowd because there's a shit ton of them there's gonna be a lot of people they're gonna be asking you all kinds of stuff they're gonna try to sell you trips and things like that they're gonna you're gonna get bombarded by being sold stuff when you get to cancun so you find so we found the the guy who we're supposed to find we waited about 25 30 minutes to get our transportation here so when he gets back we go on this nice we got a nice suv he takes our luggage also remember they don't have venmo cash app things like that so you can't tip that way.
So my recommendation is to bring cash. Now, don't bring a lot. Bring like $100, but bring $100 in ones and fives. You don't need to do anything like that. Remember, one US dollar is like 15, 20 pesos down there. So it's a good tip. A dollar is a good tip for them and all that stuff. So you want to do that.
So bring your cash with you small bills nothing large not a lot of money they got paypal but they don't have cash app and demo which i was kind of upset i was sad because i wanted to tip the people but i don't carry cash anymore because it's 2025 no one takes cash anyways they go to a baseball game you go to a sporting event go to the movie theaters they don't even take cash anymore so and all that stuff and some restaurants don't take cash too either so it's like okay but anyways so find out we get in the nice you know nice suv we drive there we get there it takes about 25 30 minutes to get to the resort uh desire riviera mia pro resort takes you that time great time you walk up it's a beautiful resort you walk in they don't you never touch your luggage from when you give it to the guy at the car all the way up to you gets to your room you don't touch your luggage they have it the bell the bell man will take care of everything you never touch it so you go register they ask you a bunch of questions you give them their passport you put your credit card on files for anything that happens stuff like that then they go to a person that's going to try to sell you something now you you can do it but i was only near three days i didn't want to bother with spending an hour to listening sales pitch.
So they're going to try to sales pitch you stuff and things like that, which is, you know, which is whatever. And, you know, you decide, do you want to do it? I chose no. They didn't push me. They didn't do anything like that.
They offer whatever else they they have they have a boat ride during the day and all that stuff like i said we were not interested we're only there three days we want to get our tan on and get our fuck on we don't want to do anything anything like that we just want to get our tan on and fuck on and that's it they were very nice very uh very respectful they tried to get us to go on they try to talk to us to go on to the Desire, the other Desire Resort, because there's two Resorts in, two Desire Resorts in Cancun.
They told us, oh, you know, this one's more laid back. It's older couples. It's quiet. We go, and we're like, yes, that's what we want. We want to be quiet. We don't want to be loud. We don't want to have any, you know, problems or anything like that.
So it was a great place for us, what we want we want to be quiet we don't want to be allowed we don't want to have any you know problems or anything like that so it was a great place for us what we're looking for i guess the other desired resort is the party hotel with the younger crowd or whatever so if you want to go party go to that one if you want to relax enjoy the spa enjoy the pool enjoy the fucking by the pool and all that stuff you go here the food awesome everything's all inclusive now there are some things you have to buy like in the restaurants if you want added lobster stuff like that you might have you might have to pay for it but everything else is all inclusive you don't worry about it there's no bill or anything like that the spa great spa you get jerked off at the spa all that kind of stuff they have couples where you get your massage pedicure manicures body scrubs all that i got a body scrub because i want to get all the dead skin off before i started tanning got that done before i went tanning and all that stuff so you get so you can do that that is all you have to pay for that that's not inclusive with your room and all that but you have to pay for it all right so we get there they tell us everything then they show us to our room if your room is ready you can go to your room if your room is ready not ready you can either you know go to the pool get your drinks or whatever start doing whatever you want to do there then they'll let you know they'll come and find you i don't know how they do it they recognize everybody but they come and find you until your room is ready but we went to the spa we got we got a pedicures i got Thank you.
let you know they'll come and find you i don't know how they do it they recognize everybody but they come and find you tell you your room is ready but we went to the spa we got we got a pedicures i got my body scrub and all that stuff great spa awesome place you know it's built for romance and it's built for having sex and all that stuff so you having sex there is okay all that stuff uh and all that they have erotic couples massages things like that so it's really good Thank you.
So you having sex there is okay, all that stuff, and all that. They have erotic couples massages, things like that. So it's a really good bonding experience for you and the wife, your partner, or whatever it is, you know, whatever you want to do. It's a great bonding experience, so I would recommend going to this place. So we do that. Our room is ready. We go to our room. Like I said, I didn't really care about the room because I don't want to be in the room.
I want to be out partying, doing stuff. And, you know, being in the room is not what I want. Anyways, so we get our, we get to the room, we get our stuff ready. We bring our towel. I got my, uh, robe, go in the robe. I'm naked. She's naked. We're all naked.
We get to the, uh, uh pool area now here's the only thing that really sucks about it you have to get there early to get a chair so if when you get there make sure you go to see the cabana boys the cabana men and make sure you can get a chair they'll put a towel out for you and they reserve it for for you. The beds, they have quite a few cabana beds, too. The second day we were there, we got a cabana bed. Cabana beds are the way to go. They're very comfortable.
You can lay out, do all kinds of stuff there. There are two sides. There are one side of the pool where the bar is at. It is the loud side. A lot of noise, a lot of music, a lot of games they're playing, stuff like that.
The part by the hotel rooms is the loud side a lot of noise a lot of music a lot of games they're playing stuff like that the part by the hotel rooms is the quiet side there's not a lot of motion just talking no loud music or anything like that so pick which side you want to be on it's a beautiful pool it's nice and large it's warm you don't have to worry about shrinkage, gentlemen. Well, some of you might have to. Anyways, you got to walk up bar. So you really don't have to go nowhere.
They have people walking around, taking your food orders. You could get food there. They have a pizza maker there. You get pizza. You get anything you want from the restaurant brought to you to your table or to your lounge chair, your cabana, and all that. So you have that, all right? The chairs there are very comfortable, but like I said, I recommend getting a lovely cabana bed if you can. Reserve it beforehand.
Now, the problem we had there is the beach was not nice because during this time, during the summertime, Cancun gets into the way by seaweed. So there's a lot of seaweed everywhere. You can smell it. It doesn't smell great, but it's okay. It's not going to ruin your time.
And if it does ruin your time, well, there's something wrong with you because there's a lot of naked people a lot of beautiful naked people walking around naked having a good time all that stuff and you're shouldn't be worried about those type of things you should just be having a good time don't worry about the smell or anything like that so you have a restaurant the main the one restaurant is open pretty much all day is there right next to the pizza guy so the pizza is pretty good too it's not that bad so you go to the restaurant i think during lunch and during uh lunch during lunch and during breakfast it's buffet style you get up you let let them seat you you sit down you know you can order something or you can just go to the buffet and get something food is decent the food ain't the greatest but the food ain't bad so you know don't worry about it uh above that first restaurant is a sushi seafood type place there's three different restaurants the one restaurant i just talked about it's like the buffet style restaurant above that restaurant you have a sushi place with fish and all that stuff remember now when you go to these two places these next two restaurants i talk about you're going to have to have sleeves on ladies you can't have your tits hanging out because they have a dress code you got to wear pants too i wasn't able to go to the sushi place because of the fact that I didn't bring any sleeve shirts and I didn't bring any pants because I'm on vacation for three days.
I don't want to be putting on pants. It's fucking hot, so I don't want to be wearing pants. But anyways, I wasn't able to go there, so I can't give you a full review of the sushi. There's a restaurant right in the front of the resort. You've got to have pants and the sleeves to get inside.
But if you want to eat outside you can wear whatever you want to wear so we had to eat outside and that was a good decent food too like i said it's not the world it's not going to be like blow to me i don't really care you know the food is the food it's not going to blow you away by the great quality of it, but it's not going to be like, oh, this is not worth it. It is worth it. It's pretty damn good food and all that stuff. So, you know, it ain't that bad. So you got those foods.
So you can get food from all of them. Now look at the hot tub. Now there is a hot tub there, and that's where the hot tub has. It's pretty big. It's warm. Not like a hot, hot tub. It's just very hot. They got cabana beds all around them, and that's where your adult interactions are supposed to happen. So during the day, you can see couples go on the beds and have sex. During the day, we didn't see any.
Only until it started to rain would people go into the hot tub because it rained the first day we were there and people were in the hot tub and all that stuff having fun and talking and bullshitting. We talked to a lot of people and all that. So that's where a lot of people will start having their play at night. that that's where all the plays at happens because the bar, when the bar closes in the main pool, the bar in the hot tub opens up. So people conjugate from one bar to another.
So when the bar later in the afternoon opens up in the hot tub, that's where everyone starts going.
But during the day, you'll see people sometimes will go in there uh depending on the weather and having sex our second day there me me and my partner were fucking and three or four other couples would join us and start fucking and all that all that stuff so that was great so people were having sex it wasn't like a club in texas where you know you gotta wait till one in the morning till people start fucking people started fucking 12 noon two o'clock stuff like that so our first night there it rained everything was soaking wet we were talking to the couples and one thing i can say about the people that go to this place maybe because they're on vacation or whatnot they were very friendly towards everybody you know there was none of this you know oh you're not the cool kid so we're not going to talk to you and stuff like that you're you're you know let's just find out all about you the first question they're always going to ask you where are you from you know where are you from where are you you know how long you've been married why are you here and stuff like that because a lot of people celebrate birthdays celebrate your anniversaries going here and all that stuff so it's pretty cool that you know these people are very friendly so it really gives you that good vibe of openness and all that stuff now you hooking up with other couples that's on you but a lot of couples you know talk to other i saw more girl-on- girl action than I have seen at clubs in Houston, Dallas, Austin, and all that stuff.
You saw a lot of girls making out with other girls here and all that stuff. So if your wife is by, she wants other women, this is a good place to go because, you know, you're going to get a lot of action here because it seems like that's what really happened, goes down a lot of times there.
Uh uh i didn't have time to really pay attention because i'm fucking we i was fucking a lot i was shooting dust by the end of the week uh the end of the three days because we were just fucking so much and all that stuff because you know it's kind of it's a turn on you see these people incredible bodies you see a lot of women with mom bods you can see a lot of women with fake breasts big asses looking around nice vagina looking ass but nice vaginas not a lot of bush uh on these women you see guys you know good cock size looking good you know they're taking their trt they're taking their testosterone all that stuff you know and you got you got tall short fat skinny you got all the gamut you got everything you want every body type that could possibly turn you on is there and they're fucking friendly they'll come up and talk to you if you say hello to them they'll say hello back and all that stuff it's not like a typical it's not like a typical swingers club where shit you you got to be in the clique if you're not in that clique they don't want nothing to do with you if you're not hot they don't want nothing to do you're you're not young enough you're not old enough stuff like that so but the typical age range if you're looking at age is probably the 40s and 50s and 60 year olds that were there not too many younger couples you know like there were there were some there's like two or three at your point that were under the age of 30 but you know if you're looking for that old younger the younger crowd you kind of have to go to the next one i guess because the desire riviera maya pro resort is for us older people that just want to relax and have a good time and talk and bullshit and fuck and that's why like i said i there's not a lot you can say about anything bad about this this uh resort because the fact that the staff is fucking friendly as shit so you know they are very for anything you want they're gonna find it for you you know i don't know about drugs i don't know about weed or anything so if you're a pothead i don't know if they'll get you weed or anything like that i didn't ask i don't smoke smoke, so I never bothered, but I'm sure there's probably a ton of shit people there smoking weed and all that.
But they give you everything you can possibly want. They'll bring everything. That's why I said make sure, so when I go, we are going to go, I am going to go back. We're going to go back. I'm going to make sure I bring $100 in ones. Just bring ones. You don't really need anything other than ones.
If they do something give you something to do something give you one just think about it 15 20 pesos for a dollar it's pretty good and all that stuff so anyways the staff is great friendly loving you know they kind of lead some of those women on there to kind of lead you on and think that they have a chance with you the fuck but i don't think they're allowed to fuck the customer uh the clientele there so i don't know you can try but i don't know Thank you.
Some of those women on there kind of lead you on and think that they have a chance with you, the fuck, but I don't think they're allowed to fuck the clientele there, so I don't know. You can try, but I don't know. I'm sure they get hit on all the time. The food, decent food, not world-class, but decent food. It's worth the price that you pay. The people that go there, not stuck up. Maybe they're stuck up when they go home, but when they're there, they are open-minded, very friendly.
Anything is possible. But you got to remember, now here's the caveat of this whole thing. The people that go there may not be swingers. People that go there just may be looking to hang out and do stuff. They want to be nude. They're nudist. Or they want to try something new. They don't want to go out and swap with you and all that stuff. So you got to remember, respect people's boundaries when you're there. Don't assume they want to try something new.
They don't want to go out and swap with you and all that stuff. So you've got to remember, respect people's boundaries when you're there. Don't assume they're swingers just because they're there. Just ask, hey, are you swingers? What are you, you know? And don't worry about offending. If they're offended that you ask on that and they're at Desire's Riviera Pearl Resort, then that's their problem. That's not you. That's them. That's a dumb problem because you know what?
We're all there for a reason. Just trying to have a good time. Right? So, you know, that is it. That's great. Use the spa. The spa is going to cost a lot of money. I mean, like a couple's massage is going to cost you $500 plus a tip. All right? So this ain't the most cheapest place, but it's also one of the best places I've ever been to, you know? Hands down, beats out secrets because guess what? Secrets, you got to pay for everything. You fart, they charge you. Water, they charge you.
Fucking everything, they charge you. Hair, they don't charge you for nothing. They charge you. You pay. Whatever you pay, you pay. It's all-inclusive. So that's one. Only thing that sucks is getting through the damn Cancun airport because you've got to dodge all those damn people, and it gets annoying after a while, dodging the same people asking the same questions about, do you have transportation?
Do you need a stuff like that trying to sell you a damn vacation packages things like that i didn't go do the presentation that they give you you will have to go through you if you want you don't have to but if you want go through the presentation see what you get they give you they give you stuff to do the presentation. It's an hour long. But like I said, I'm not wasting an hour to hear someone try to sell me something. I don't need a package or anything like that.
Like I said, I don't come here. We don't do it often. I don't do it often. We don't do it often. It's hard to find women that can take off on a weekend and stuff like that. So it's hard to find a partner because guess what? It's couples only. Yes, you heard it right. Desire Riviera Mile Pro-Risori is couples only. Sorry, singles. That means single women and single males. Couples.
That means you don't have to worry about those swinging dicks around, swinging riches around, trying to steal your girl, all that stuff, or bothering you, all right, you will have it, facilities there are excellent, the room is clean, they clean that fucking room to the T, it's great, I mean, the rooms are old, some of the rooms are old, one room we're old was old, and it needs to be, like I said, they need to, uh i would remodel it they and all that but hey that's just me i like the newer type stuff uh how can i start swinging in this world well you can go online open up a go to google swinging and see what swingers are by you seeing what swingers I'm sorry'm sorry i got a question from one of the viewers on my sdc uh live stream uh you can go to once you do that google it google swinging if there's a club by you you can go to that club see if they allow single if you're single male see if they allow single male if you're a couple how much it is the price for a couple stuff like that if you have nothing around you you can go on a swingers website uh sdc.com is good cassidy.com is good swinging lifestyle.com is good and open up a profile and start connecting with those people there that's how you can get into the swinging world anyways so the facilities are great it's clean they keep it clean like i said every time you walk by an employee there they're going to say hello to you all right so you know hopefully when you go there you're in a good mood you gotta you can't not be in a bad mood being there i know it's expensive it's a lot of money but you know what it's worth every penny like i said i'm a very cheap person i look at when i buy something or looking to buy something, I look at what value does it have?
Like a new car. I don't understand why people buy new cars because they're just waste of money. You know, I think the average U.S. car payment now is like close to $1,000 a month for one car. I'm like, $1,000?
You could buy a used car and have a payment for 200, 300 bucks a month you want to buy this 100 000 new dollar new car get a high interest rate loan for five six seven eight years now now see it doesn't make sense see but me paying for the amount that i paid for my mental health and just having fun and just being able to being free fucking out in the ocean air under the moonlight on the hot sun and shit like that was all worth it and those people down there they work so hard and you know like i said i wish i would have known that they had didn't have venmo or anything like that so i could tip them because like i said i don't bring cash anywhere because especially when I'm in a foreign country because you know they do take advantage of people and they do rob people and stuff like that you know it still is Mexico it still is a foreign country especially if you don't speak the language luckily you know I speak some Spanish and all that stuff I can speak enough to get by down there and all that stuff.
So, you know, it is what it is. But I would recommend going if you have a free weekend, a week, if you want to stay, if you live far, you know, if you live in Florida, you live in the south. It's a short plane trip to Desire Cancun. It's not that hard. It's not that expensive either.
You know, once it gets gets to the winter time it's more expensive because that's when a lot of people will go because a lot of northerners go because they get away from the cold you know they'll spend their vacations and all that but it's a great time and you know what and i don't i don't think you can go wrong by going to this place you know what i'm'm saying, and if you have a bad time here, then you better check, maybe you better check yourself, because I don't, I don't know how, you know, leaving, I was in a bad mood, I was in a good mood, I had, and all that stuff, I was happy, and stuff like that, we were all happy, and all that, so, you know, everything was great, not in a hurry, and and we're rushing usually i'm rushing to everywhere but no just read back says it's like i was on island time and all that stuff so you know they made they did their job right when i go back i'm definitely doing the massages you know i'm gonna go do those so you know make sure you have money saved up for those because those are gonna be expensive and and all that so you know i hope that this will swade you to go to desire riviera maya pearl resort in cancun you know some of the places the restaurants they're decorated nicely nice chain of layers got some weird looking chairs though they got chairs that look like asses and see through tears stuff like that the bar the night they have a nightclub the nightclub is small the playroom now okay i didn't talk about the nightclub the nightclub and the playroom are together the nightclub is pretty nice they play some great good music i was dancing uh usually i don't dance because the music is really bad here and you know texas because they don't play a lot of good music but they were playing the hits and they were playing some good music here, they had a show before the club opened acrobats, they have a theme for every night so check the website if you're like one of those people that love themes I don't really give a shit about themes I don't need themes to have a good time but if you like those themes check it out and you can dress accordingly and all that great stuff in there and all that so there were some really nice uh people really nice shows there uh and all that now the playrooms now i thought this was gonna be like badass type playrooms where you know you got fucking just great playrooms because of the hotel the playrooms are pretty bad they need the We'll be right back.
ass type playrooms where you know you got fucking just great playrooms because of the hotel the playrooms are pretty bad they need i okay if there's any criticism they need to upgrade those playrooms because it was just like there was no beds or anything it's just chairs or one big line of chairs and it's really small it's nothing big you really can't do much of anything in there, and we didn't see anyone playing in those playrooms, we saw two couples, both of them were sucking their husband's cocks and all that, but there was nothing special, all the play happened out in the hot tub area and all that stuff, so it was kind of weird and all that, but hey, whatever, just fix that playroom area, set up a, really have some nice different themes and all that stuff, I guess.
But anyways, so that is my review. Like I said, go have and have a great time because it is a great time there. You'll you won't you won't regret going there.
You'll only thank me for going there because all the stuff that goes down there and all that stuff so hopefully you go to desire uh my riviera maya pearl resorts there's two of them i don't think you're gonna you know pick a bad gonna have a bad time at either one of those okay so hopefully you will go all right so it's my favorite time I don't know. you know, pick a bad, going to have a bad time at either one of those. Okay. So hopefully you will go. All right.
So it's my favorite time is going as our time is coming down is going on Reddit, helping out these Reddit people, you know, cause they need help and all that stuff. So I came along one as a single guy. I always try to find another single woman that's either interested in the lifestyle, once again in the lifestyle, or is in the lifestyle, which is very hard, maybe to join up as partners. But anyways, why is it so hard to find women comfortable with swinging lifestyle?
This one poster writes, Hi, everyone.
I'm a 22-year-old Egyptian guy, heteroflexible, and very secure in my my sexuality i've been exploring the swinging lifestyle for a while now not just for the physical side of it but for the openness trust unique connection it allows sounds good man but one thing i've really struggled with is finding women who are genuine genuine interested in or comfortable with this kind of dynamic i noticed that even in communities that are welcoming and open-minded women who want to be would be the center of attention and share that experience with respectful like-minded men are still relatively rare and when it comes to finding balance of trust communication and mutual exploration it's even harder i love the sense of freedom and honesty that comes with the lifestyle i also generally enjoy being part of an experience that's about giving celebrating one's desires and make it a safe or fun for everyone involved this isn't a post looking to hook up i just wanted to share my experience and hear from others especially women or couples who might have insight on why this gap exists and how they navigated it anyone else familiar have faced Thank you.
and hear from others, especially women or couples, who might have insight on why this gap exists and how they navigated it. Anyone else familiar have faced familiar struggles? I'd love to hear your thoughts. Sir, I have come up with this familiar. The problem with me is that when I'm looking for a partner, I'm looking for a partner that brings something to the table other than their pussy.
You know, it's go I always say if you can go with a woman to a club go with a woman to a club because you know what you get access to more and people see you more I have been to clubs where as a single guy I would go in there and no one would notice me I would go to the same club with a woman and lo and behold people started noticing me they would walk up to us and say introduce themselves but they never did introduce themselves when i was by myself when a guy has a woman with him it's more access to pussy i would say i would call it women run this lifestyle i don't know why men deny it but women run the lifestyle but anyways so that's the one of the things i find that i struggle with is that i don't meet a lot of women that don't they have nothing other than the pussy to offer they don't have a career as a career or a job a job is different than a career a job is something you live paycheck to paycheck a career is something you develop uh where you can buy a house, buy cars, do stuff, travel, make a lot of money, make money with.
Not a lot of women in the lifestyle have that. Or I also find out some of them have some mental issues. They've been hurt in the past and they think every man's out to hurt them. I met a woman recently and she has a lot of issues. Long-term relationship, no, it's not going to be there. Short-term, yes, but long-term, no. And the reason why you also can't find women who are interested or would do this is because a lot of single men fuck over single women. Yes, you heard me.
A lot of single men fuck over single women because, like I said, they view women oh she's single if i if i partner up with her i get more access to more pussy they're not in it for them they're in it they're not helping the girl like to they want more access to pussy and that's just the truth the bottom line single men ruin it for everybody else because how they treat single women.
If you're a single man and you find that one woman out, you know what, would want to go to clubs and swap partners and do other stuff, you treasure that woman. You don't try to fuck her over. If she wants to fuck another guy, let her fuck another guy. What's it to you? She's going home with you. So let her fuck that guy. Let her fuck that girl. Let her fuck that couple. Because guess what? All in the end, you're going to get laid too. It's not just going to be you holding your dick in your hand.
You're going to get laid too. You're going to have fun too. Just lose the insecurities, gentlemen. All right? So that's another problem. Single men fuck over single women. And single women, you know, after a while, become, you know, they have that trauma. They get those scars, those trauma scars, and they know what's going on. So, you know, it's kind of, you're going to be tough. It's not impossible. You will find, because guess what happens?
Swinger couples break up and they get divorced after a while one of both or maybe all both of them or one of them the woman you know start swinging again she needs a partner case in point we met a couple talked to a couple she was a swinger they were married they were swingers they got divorced they met years later now they're swinging again now they're he's now they're swinging with their new husband it's possible so you just can't give up swinging is not always what you think and swinging is not what the podcasts of other podcasts were saying it's very not like what you think it's going to be.
And it sucks. It's not always, you know, people trying to find trust, communication, explore, mutual exploration. It's not. Most people are just out for themselves. So, you know, as you are a young man, you're 22 years old, enjoy your life. Don't pass up a woman because she doesn't want to swing or anything like that.
Remember, swinging unfilts a little bit of your life don't pass up a woman because she doesn't want to swing or anything like that remember swinging unfulfills a little bit of your life finding that right person that fulfills your you as a whole that's the most important thing so if you can find like i said like yesterday i was talking to someone who says why well you don't you always want you don't want to be you don't believe in non-monogamy i go no that true. I actually do believe in it.
I just think I haven't found the right person to do non-monogamy with. Once I find that person, I will, and she doesn't want to swing anymore, I will be happy not to swing anymore. Would I like to still talk about it? Yeah. Or you know what? We don't have to partner. We don't have to swap with anybody. We can just go to a club and all that stuff and have fun with ourselves.
Or, and go to nudist resorts and have fun ourselves we don't have to have fun with other people because guess what oh in desires i didn't fuck anybody other than my partner now my partner that's another story but you know that's for another day uh anyways so you know what young man keep keep on the fight there are women comfortable uh with it if you're 22 so keep in shape work out watch what you eat work hard get a career make some money and the girls will be there all right what else we got all right Picking couples my wife and i are new to the lifestyle and we're chatting with a number of different couples i usually do the initial screening of course and then show my wife the other couple's picks there was a couple tonight and the combo was going good when i showed my wife her picture she said nope can't do Oh, boy.
I know there needs to be some attraction, but this was a decent-looking man who I don't think had crazy eyebrows. My question, do I let it go? Do we need to approach this differently? It's quality over quantity for us, but I'm not sure if she's being too critical or not.
There have been other couples where the guys I don't think are her type and she says yes to a date i'm confused all right great question all right so question is do i let it go yes you let this one go because it's your wife and you love her and all that stuff you let it go she don't want to fuck she don't want to meet the guy don't don't pressure into it because guess what if you keep pressuring her into things she's going to resent you for it maybe not today but later years down the road she will resent you do you need to approach this differently sure you need to approach it differently ask her what do you like what what ask her what about the eyebrows why can't she talk to someone with those kind of eyebrows what makes those eyebrows a no and you know what the funny thing is a lot of times when they do this they say no it's not what they're saying they're not they're not attracted to the person but it's just an easy way to let them person down and all that stuff it's like when people tell me no all right yeah i know my cock isn't big enough so so it's okay.
Don't worry about it. Things like that. You're not hurting my feelings when you tell me no. So do we need to approach this differently? I would approach it differently. Ask her what she likes. Or you know what? Instead of you doing it, why don't you let her do it? Would that kill you to let her go online and find couples? Or you do it together. Great way to have a little foreplay, you know. You two sit down, get your iPad, you're in bed, naked and all that stuff.
Scroll through couples' profiles. Look at the pictures because, you know what, think about it. She didn't say no to the profile. She said no when she saw the pictures. The pictures matter. Put good pictures out there, guys. Gentlemen, put great pictures. Don't put your dick pictures on and all that. Ladies, put some good pictures on. Make sure you hide that double chin and shit like that. Couples, you say same thing. Have couples. Have pictures of both the male and female of the couple.
Do not just have your woman. Because guess what? If you have nothing but your woman, people assume you're butt-fucking-ugly. Gentlemen. Now, if you have a job that's very important to you, block out your face. But you can show the body in clothes. You know? You went to a baseball game, you and your wife, block out your faces. Let people see that you're not a fucking slob or anything like that. Or you're our slob. Let them see that so they can decide if they want to play with you or not.
Or they want to talk to you. It's quality over quantity for us. I always hear that, quality over quantity. I just laugh because you know what? Basically it comes down to it where all animals, quantity kicks in over the quality. But I'm not sure if she's being too critical or not. No, she's not being too critical. She's just being her. Like I said, take the approach differently. Let her go online. Let her do the work. Sit back and relax. Enjoy the ride, buddy, because guess what?
Your wife controls everything anyways. There have been other couples where guys don't think her type. And she says, yes. You know why? Because she's not threatened by those guys. And she, they have, they don't look fucking weird. To that, to the Thank you. You know why? Because she's not threatened by those guys. And she, they have, they don't look fucking weird. To her, the guy with the eyebrows just look weird for her, and that's it. That's all you got to know. Okay, whatever.
You're going to have fun. Just relax, take a deep breath, and you know what? Just let your wife do it. Let her pick the, you two sit down in bed, get on your iPad, and you let her, and you guys go through, scroll through ads and all that stuff, and you decide who you want to pick. Because you know what? That's how it's going to work. And lastly, before I get out of here, had a very successful MMF. Finally, all right. Finally, we had a very successful bi-MMF.
Wife had been chatting to a guy who was happy to be bi-orally. She chatted all week, and last night we met for drinks. I couldn't be happier.
The guy was very similar to me, and we had a couple of drinks and went back to our place, and I could see the excitement wife's face they started playing in the taxi anyway it was a great opportunity to show wife how bi i'm actually am and she loved it we sucked together a lot and he fucked her well too we had sex two hours and it was the best meet we have had so far yes when you dot the i's and cross the t's you're gonna have a great time.
It's when you just willy-nilly do stuff, you're not going to have that great time. You wanted to buy mail, you found to buy mail orally. And you had a great time. You got to do your fantasies and all that stuff. So I'm happy for you. Good job. Let's see. Wife, I double teamed sucking a friend one night many years ago. Then him and I took turns fucking her. It was a great night. Yeah. A lot of more guys are bisexual in this lifestyle.
They're afraid to come out because of the way the stigma is and the way other couples act towards these men, which is fucking bullshit. It's okay for you to be a bi woman, but be a bi male? No, it's not okay. Uh-uh. Either you accept everybody or you don't accept anyone at all. You stop calling your sucks, saying swinging is inclusive, ethical non-anonymity is inclusive, because it's not. It's exclusive.
Until you allow, until I see guys sucking each other off at secrets by the pool out in the open we're not exclusive we're not inclusive we are exclusive. We exclude people. We exclude single males, single women we exclude bisexual males and all that stuff so stop saying that I don't bisexuality, gay people don't scare me. Why? I don't give a shit what you do behind closed door. I don't care if you do it out in the open. I don't need to look.
The pool's pretty big and I don't need to look your way. I don't need to look your directions. I can wait till you're done to look over there. Man, I'm jealous. You're so lucky. I'm bi and I find it near impossible to have your experience. We are not on swinger sites, but regulars at Desires Pro. Oh, I was just there. It is difficult to find a bi guy or couple where the male is bi. It's even difficult to ask as a double standard in the lifestyle community.
Yeah, and it's hard to really, you know, come out and say, hey say hey are you bi because then you might get there but bi female playing guys are all for it but the slightest hint of a bi male play is uh degenerated deneggated i can overhear it in the six trips we made we had one mff one male female, female, male experience. Yes. Now, if you go to the Zyatties, you can have the threesome with that male. You just got to remember it's going to be with a couple.
Or you can get one of the servers to do it, you know, whatever. Definitely get on, yeah. But this guy, you know, if you want to have that male, male, female threesome, you got to get on websites, dude. That's all there is to it. You got to get on the websites and all that stuff. So, you know, we're going to get out of here. So, you know, get on those websites. We're going to get out of here. Remember to shave your cock and balls, gentlemen. Remember, go to Desires, a website. Check it out.
Go there. Take a weekend trip. It's a short flight there it's a great time you're in and out you can see you can't go wrong you have a great time you'll meet great people and all that stuff so shave your cock and balls gentlemen ladies make your general make make sure you clean those pussies out so we can eat that pussy. And you know what? Fuck it. Just keep on swinging, everybody, and have a wonderful week.
