🎙️ New Podcast Episode: Vegas Swinging Adventures with AC MaxwellThis week on The Swinging Single Podcast, AC Maxwell shares his candid and unfiltered experience exploring two legendary Vegas swinger clubs — Red Rooster and The Green Door.What it’s really like in a club filled with mostly older couples in their 40s and 50s.The struggle single guys face in a couples-dominated scene.The infamous “zombie male” phenomenon at The Green Door and why it’s equal parts funny and frustrating.A wild group room encounter that didn’t go as planned (awful blow job alert!).How Sunday night redeemed the weekend with an unforgettable hotwife encounter.If you’re curious about swinging in Vegas or want an honest look at the lifestyle’s ups and downs, this episode is a must-listen.Bonus tip from AC: Before you hit the club—shave your cock and balls! Trust me, it changes the game.🎧 Listen now: [insert podcast link]#SwingingSinglePodcast #VegasSwingers #RedRoosterClub #GreenDoorClub #HotwifeLife #SwingingLifestyle #SingleGuyProblems #AdultLifestyle #PlaySafe #ConfidenceTips
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Welcome to the Swingin' Single Podcast with your host, A.C. Maxwell. For over 20 years, I've been navigating the swinging lifestyle as a single male, experiencing all the excitement, challenges, and everything in between the sheets.
This podcast is my honest and unfiltered take on that journey, a fresh set of eyes, diving deep into real stories, lessons learned, and practical advice for anyone exploring or curious about the lifestyle whether you're a new season single or partner join me as i share my experiences bust the myths and help you swing your best in the zero rating world so let's get real keep it respectful and keep swinging single the swinging single podcast with host ac maxwell is intended for entertainment and educational purposes only the opinions views and content expressed or shared on the podcast are solely those of the host ac maxwell and any featured guests or contributors and do not necessarily represent those of the podcast's affiliates, sponsors, advertisers, or partners.
Any information provided is given with the understanding that it does not constitute a contract, engagement, or formal advice. The content of the podcast is protected by copyright and other intellectual property laws. We'll be right back. We are exploring each other passionately, but you're not alone. He's in the corner watching us play. Love's the touch, see my inhibitions give way.
Watch me, girl, and watch me ignite ignite Every touch turns me wild tonight Hands on my hips, lips on my neck You are deeper inside me than he's ever been Deeper, harder, lose control Our little secrets, keeping up slow Thank you.
lose control our little secrets keeping up slow hey hey welcome back to the swinging single podcast your guide to exploring the swinging lifestyle with honesty some humor and a little bit of naughty fun actually a lot of naughty fun I'm your host ac maxwell and today i'm bringing you a wild recap from my recent trip to las vegas sin city baby where i hit up two of the hottest wearing clothes on the weekend adventure the red rooster and the infamous green door but first before you do all that go to swinging single podcast.com go check out all things AC see what's going on see what you want to do anything like that all that great stuff if you have any questions or anything like that hit me up at swinging single podcast at gmail.com if you want to become a guest you want me to do an interview you want me to do something with you you can co-op what are they can create content all that great stuff yes just just email me At swingandsinglepockets At gmail.com And we can make something work out But today's episode Is about my weekend in Sin Sin City, Las Vegas All the greatest times I'll be back there Memorial Day weekend for my annual baseball tournament and go there.
And while I'm swinging on the base pass, I'm going to be swinging at the nightclub. So Vegas is known for its parties. And let me tell you, swinging in Las Vegas is no exception. So buckle up, folks, because I've got stories for you.
Some fun, some awkward, and a little bit unexpected yep unexpected like you know well i don't know whatever it is what it is you know it's vegas anything can happen to vegas those saying is what stays in vegas vegas what happens in vegas stays in vegas well guess what herpes and shit like that stds will come back with you so make sure you wrap it up and gentlemen shave your cock and balls just in case you never know if you might get lucky anyways so all righty Thank you.
and shit like that stds will come back with you so make sure you wrap it up and gentlemen shave your cock and balls just in case you never know if you might get lucky anyways so all righty so i get there friday night got an early game at 8 a.m so i gotta get there and you know get some rest because i gotta be i'm not a spring chicken anymore so i roll up it's saturday night i roll up to the red rooster now the red rooster is like in the middle of a i don't know a neighborhood it actually it's Saturday night, I roll up to the Red Rooster.
Now the Red Rooster is like in the middle of a, I don't know, a neighborhood actually. It's just like in the middle of a neighborhood in Las Vegas and all that. Just, if you drove by it, you wouldn't even know it's a swing club or you wouldn't even know if it's a club at all. It looks like just a regular business or stuff like that. It looks like, to me, it would look like a place where they have automotive, you know, a mechanic shop and stuff like that.
It's a house, you know, it's unassuming, so you really don't know. For those who don't know, this club has a reputation for being upscale, fun, and frequented by a lot of seasoned swingers. I was excited, what would the Vegas crowd be like?
Now, I've been to Vegas before, and i already know the crowd is going to be mixed it's going to be locals and it's going to be uh tourists and one thing i gotta say all right i know people don't like single men having opinions but i have an opinion on the red rooster and i think they should remodel the damn place it looks like someone's grandma looks like from 1990 i think i think we looked it up it was a 1990s the red rooster opened up and i do believe they really need to modernize it a little bit it looks like grandma and grandpa still live there and all that stuff don't get me wrong now it's a great place to go a lot of fun and all that stuff but like i said you want to attract the younger crowd and these younger kids these younger cats coming up in the swinging lifestyle are very picky very needy and all that stuff they're not like us we're us veterans that are gen x that just whip the cock out whip the pussy out we're ready to fuck anywhere any place these guys need some ambiance and all that and like i said i would if i was owning the club i would take some money and start investing and start redoing stuff now you don't have to do it all at once you could do one room at a time stuff like that so i get there in my rental car and all that stuff i get there it's not a bad drive from where my hotel was i'm staying at the hotel over by fremont street you all know what that is i don't have to explain to you what it is and i drive there about 25 minute drive not nothing too big so walking in i immediately noticed the vibe the club was filled with sexy older swingers now if you looking for, if you have any problems against any older 40-plus swingers, this is not the club for you because you're going to get a lot of 40-plus, mostly 50, older, late 40s, 50-year-olds, 60-year-olds, and 70-year-olds in this place.
You know, like I said, if that bothers you, just like when they, like I tell couples that don't like single men.
If single men bother you at the club, then don't go to a club that allows single men wait till they have couples only so lots of the couples are in their 40s and 50s some small you know you always got those petite ones then you got some uh biggies you know you always got the big ones and nothing wrong with that enjoy all and all types really you got mom bods dad bods you got well you got some guys on tht or trt all that stuff you got women there was a woman there with the biggest set of tits i don't know how her back does it god bless her her back must have must hurt i feel bad for the stretching those tits like fucking double g's or disease whatever the fuck i don't even think they have a number for her tits but anyways there was definitely a diverse crowd in terms of body types and personalities also mix of races black and white and hispanic was there i didn't see any asians so maybe they were i don't know which i always appreciate i always like a good group of parties and all that with diverse crowds because you know tonight something might take my fancy that i usually don't get so you know you never know it's not just the young and shiny here it's seasoned couples who know what they want that's another good thing they know what they want now single male gotta talk about the singles so speaking of singles oh man there were too many single men in this place now i always said every club if i would say every club should allow no matter if it's friday or saturday night based on discrimination based on anti-discrimination laws i think they should excuse me i think they should let single men in now before you go fucking blow a gasket couples i'm saying single men 10 or less at a time i would say how about this do one single male for every five couples so if you got 10 couple you got two single males you got 15 couples you got three single males and so on and so on and you stop at 10 you cap it at 10 no matter what you cap it at 10 but here at the red roosteroster, in the green door, they don't cap it.
All single men are welcomed. All that stuff is great. So there is a lot of single men there on a Friday, Saturday night.
And this could cause a problem as in the couples were mostly playing among themselves and not really interested in the single guys myself included i was you know sitting at the side of not doing anything the single male energy was almost invisible like ghost mode activated there was no one they have a group room where people usually go and there's only one couple in there playing uh on saturday night they were playing a little bit it was the first time there they just did it they just kept to themselves then you know a couple guys asked and they they were nice they let the guy sit next to him and all that stuff they didn't fuck around or anything like that with any other guys so later on she you know a lot more guys come in she gets overwhelmed they go up to the couples only section another couples comes in one couple comes in and they start playing all right i definitely tried my know, walking around, dancing, saying hello to couples, smiling at them, not look creepily, maybe to strike up a conversation or see if anyone was game to play that night.
But the night was kind of dead for single men. Couples were more couple-focused, locked in their own fun, all right? But your boy AC always happens to find something. So somewhere late in that night of that single, no-go zone, I met an older couple. Now, when I say older, I'm not talking about 60s.
I'm talking about in their 50s who were more open to chatting and honestly that was a breath of fresh air because a lot of times when you go you say hello they look at you like what the fuck you talking to us for they don't want to have a conversation with you they don't even if you don't want to fuck or anything like that they still don't want to have a conversation with you because you know it's always nice because a lot of people do travel into las vegas where are they from minnesota north dakota and you need to find out then you start thinking about all the people you met have you met one person from every 50 all 50 states stuff like that that's what i do i look and all that and you know it was great so we started talking you know bullshitting do all that stuff so we ended up heading to the group room group room and yeah things got naked sound promising right right so you're thinking oh i'm gonna get laid you're gonna have ac's gonna have fun he's gonna tell us about how you fucking gave this girl back shots and blew her ass out but no well she only was down to give oral for the first thing all right so that was it nothing no sex no penetration no anything like that which was normally which normally i'm all about but this this was hands down one of the worst blowjobs i've ever had in my life ladies and gentlemen and that's saying a lot i mean this lady literally just clicked her tongue on my cock head.
It's like she was licking an ice cream cone just with the tip of her tongue and all that. So no suction. There was no rhythm. Just weird little tongue clicks. It was so bad that, no offense to anyone, I just got bored very quick, pretty quick. Thank you.
little tongue clicks it was so bad that no offense to anyone i just got bored very quick pretty quick and you know it lasted for about 10 very painful minutes because i could see there wasn't even a arousal i was hard don't don't get me wrong i was hard but there's like you know sometimes you get that you pre-cum you're gonna come and stuff feeling nope never got any of that feeling from this woman from this blowjob so after those 10 painstaking minutes i politely excuse myself saying oh i gotta go to the bathroom and stuff like that and i got the hell out of there put my clothes back on i got the hell out of there as soon as i got my clothes on they got their clothes on and they left too so it was no big deal so all right not bad i got something maybe someone is saw and got excited and want to play with me some more maybe who knows so the rest of the night at the red rooster well here's the problem it was much dead for me.
Single guys got no love from the couples that night. And that's just the reality sometimes at these clubs. And gentlemen, you're going to fork over a lot of money. Maybe sometimes you're just going to be holding your hand in your dick. Things like that. And that's one of the realities that single men have to live in.
That they they go to a club they might not score or they might fuck five different women who knows it's all depends on the vibe all depends on you how do you look how do you dress i mean some of the guys that were there there were a couple guys that were dressed nice and that i would let them play with my girl if she was there because the way they dress then there's other ones that look i don't know it's like couples of even guys and couples do they even try anymore are you trying to you know look repulsive i think what happened is their wives are good looking and they don't have to try because their wives are good looking well i don't know but i would just you know think that i would be more in tune with what i look like and stuff like that but i guess i don't know but remember to shave your cock and balls guys all right be gentlemen shave those cock and balls for the girls so you know it's pretty much dead night for the rest of the night i think i think i took off around one o'clock you know, I had to get up early for a baseball game again.
So now, if you listen to the show, you know how I feel about the Green Door Club or the Green Door, the famous Green Door in Las Vegas. every single um stereotype about single men must come from this place. Because I've never seen a club where guys hound the couples. You know, you always hear stories, oh, these couples will tell stories of all these guys, single guys, they all followed us around all night. In reality, about one or two guys would follow them around.
Here, the whole fucking the whole fucking club i mean there'll be 20 guys following a couple around all right now someone told me that's a sex club it's not a swingers club but it's a sex club okay so it's a sex club great but there i guess you gotta know that going into it that your people are gonna follow you around so if you are a couple you know you indulge yourself in a single guy once in a while, this is not the place for you, if you're looking for a gangbang, this is the place for you, if you're not, head to the Red Rooster, or go online and find someone online that you want to take up time, all right, so with that, I decided to take, Try my luck at the next Las Vegas staple.
All right. The green door, the famous green door, you know, you see it in the porns and all that stuff. Now the green door has this reputation for being a little funky, a little wild, and honestly creepy, but in a good way. If you're into that vibe. Now I always say it's creepy.
it's another place that can probably use a good uh fixer-upper you know i don't know why people don't invest in their clubs i don't know why people don't want to make their clubs better by you know reinvesting in it and making it nice so couples will come back but anyways so as soon as i walked in i noticed the scene right away the zombie male show was on full effect you know and i like calling it listen i love the single men but you know this is funny like this is a good laugh even for a single guy i can laugh and i can appreciate the humor and all of it that these guys are walking around following every couple as they go everywhere and all that stuff guys everywhere they're looking desperate you know and some of these guys look like they couldn't get laid in a whorehouse with a fist fistful of 50s or 100s and all that stuff so they're desperate they're trying to get some action but nobody was wanting to offer up their pussy to the men literally dudes wandering around like around like zombies, hoping for a miracle that never comes.
Now, sometimes a miracle does come in more. There's one or two girls that would fucking fuck every single dude in that place. But this is not the time. Or, you know, couples go there looking for a certain type of guy. All right? So it's kind of almost hilarious and tragic in the same breath.
The guys want it, but and couples not so much the busy place that night uh was the couple's room where a lot of couples stand now they they actually did make some improvements they tore down the wall put up a fencing there so guys could watch the couples in the couple's room and all that stuff i guess and you do all stuff now what i like about the'm going to tell you, I'm going to give props to the green door. You can whip your dick out and jerk off anywhere.
I don't like clubs where they restrict guys. It's okay for a couple to do it but a guy, a single guy, if you're in a porno room, they want you to keep your hands off your dick because that's for whatever reason and all that stuff. I don't like that.
That's not right because you're in a porno, you're watching people fuck, why can't you jerk off, if they don't want you to watch you jerk off, why the fuck, you know, why are you in a goddamn swingers club, all right, that's all I'm just saying, I'm just saying, if you can't, if you're a couple, you can't take watching a guy jerk off, I don't know what to tell you, man, get over it, get over yourselves, all right? Remember, concentrate on your girl, fucking her. You don't lose your heart on it.
So, I don't know. Let's see. I loved it. It was great, again, to watch those zombies and get great material. Because as a podcast host, that gave me the great material to talk about.
You got find humor even in the little grim i do love the black guy that would had his he walked around he would take his shirt he took his shirt off and just walked around with his shirt off you know and all that stuff great body and all that but it's just like how cheesy and how fucking stupid do you gotta look but the sad part is it probably worked or it it probably does work. You know why? Because he does it. I saw another one do it. Where the fuck was I?
I saw another dude do that where they had their shirt off when they got to the club. And they just walk around with pants and a shirt and topless. I can't fucking remember now. And all that stuff. So Saturday night's a waste watch get my material watch these guys beg for pussy and no one gives it up to them so i'm two o'clock i'm done i gotta go home and go to bed gotta go back to the hotel so it's sunday night i'm not giving up just yet i gotta head back to uh back to te I got a 1 a.m.
Monday flight. 1 a.m. So I'm like, fuck, what am I going to do? Because the action really doesn't start until, I don't know what time, about midnight. So what I remember seeing a sign that said Hot Wife Night Sundays at the Red Rooster. So you know what?
I said I'm going to go back the red rooster so i head back to the red rooster rooster to see if the weekend vibe shifts and thank god i did i got lucky well i kind of got lucky finally stuck up struck up a conversation with a busty hot wife who was eager to have some fun and what i mean lucky i mean i oh i kind of got lucky was i got a blow job from a lovely hot wife that was there now the sad part of it was i got there i think yes i was the only person there for a while then two couples walked in a couple more single guys walked in and that was it for all i know after i left around 11 o'clock because i had to get to the airport get to my flight i don't know what happened after that but it was only you know two two couples and a bunch of single guys hanging out and like i said i got lucky i went in to watch the one of the hot wives go into the hot tub, and guys would sit on the side of the hot tub, and she would blow them.
I was one of those lucky men. So she gave me a blowjob. So good, it was like redemption from Saturday's disaster. Trust me, her blowjob was 100% better than the previous girls. She sucked it all out of me really deep and with enthusiasm. That's another thing.
A lot of girls, ladies, have some enthusiasm when you're sucking our dicks you know it makes us feel good just like when we eat your pussy we got our fingers going in there and all that stuff we're doing all that stuff so you know you can you can show some enthusiasm stuck on our dicks spit on it maybe i don't know all right i wasn't shy about showing my appreciation it ended with me coming all over a beautiful face it was one of those moments where everything just clicked after that i was ready to call it the night i busted my nut there ain't no reason to wait around because there ain't no one else playing i think the one couple they took off somewhere or they left i was happy satisfied and ready to share these stories all with you and all that great stuff.
So, you know, so that was my weekend, so I had to get on the trip and all that because, like I said, I had a 1 a.m. Monday flight, all right? So just my thought and thoughts about the Vegas trip.
What's the takeaway from my Vegas swing-in weekend the single scene can be tough in these couples heavy clubs you know which i don't mind i love it i love being a single guy i don't sit there go oh my god i need to get a girl so i get more access to pussy you know who say that guys who are ugly guys with no personality say that shit because they can't get laid on their own i think i got a great personality i could talk to anyone about anything i can bullshit about a lot of stuff you know i have game so i don't have to worry about it a lot of these other dudes and all that they got to worry about because they have nothing all right but anyways if you're a single guy understand the landscape couples often stick to each other and i can see why we are kind of creepy especially older more set in their routine couples oh excuse me don't take it personally it's just it's just what it is you can never take rejection personally you know i see a lot of couples take it personally i see other singles take it personally so what they don't want to fuck with you don't don't know singles take it personally.
So what? They don't want to fuck with you. Who cares? It's their loss, right? If you don't want to fuck with me, you're a loss. I was going to make sure your pussy was eating out. You squirt out my face and you fucking think of me every time you get your pussy eating out. I'm on your top five list. Anyways, second, Vegas Swinger Clubs had their unique energy. The Red Rooster was upscale to a point and quiet, but the Green Door was raw and crazy in its own way. Oh, shit, in its own way.
Both gave me experiences I'm still thinking about. Good, bad, and downright weird.
And finally, no matter how things go, keep your confidence remember my number one tip shave your cock and balls gentlemen before hitting the club it's a small effort that pays off in spades and i hope you enjoy that little trip down memory rain lane for my swinging in lovely vegas and if you go to vegas perfect place now there's other clubs out there in vegas one is whispers you got this is a club and all that you go there whispers w-h-i-s-p-e-r-s and you got the same mountain resort i don't know nothing about it because it's only singles you don't have to worry about no single men only couples only i mean you don't worry about no single men or anything like that then there's also another club i don't know if it's the flirts las vegas stuff like that so i don't know google the stuff before you go in there and all that stuff so you know if it is open or not there's one other club that was on the news because it actually was a very nice club i went to her last um memorial day weekend and it was a brand new club very nice good uh good things uh i can only say good things about it i think i did a podcast about it but i think they got in trouble because it's literally in the middle of a neighborhood so people got pissed as usually people do when you have a sex club in a family neighborhood.
right let's go let's give some hot wife advice on reddit the hot wife dynamic question wife and i have been role-playing and discussing the lifestyle for a little over a year good job good communication she always played into my fantasy but we never really discussed people or rules or dynamics. Well, we recently met a guy organically at a bar that my wife was attracted to, and during conversation it was obvious that he would not take his eyes off her. Of course not.
We were sitting at the bar having drinks and conversation, and his focus was so intense on her that it was obvious obvious he had strong attraction it was almost like it wasn't there but not in a rude or uncomfortable way i even left to use the bathroom and watched him flirt from across the bar it was very hot so after getting home and fucking and discussing and she finally came out and said it really excited her to get all that attention and is interested in doing something with him.
We got his number. Okay. The guy probably thought, oh, okay. But she is not comfortable having sex, only touching, kissing, and blowjobs. Her blowjobs are next level too. Well, she wants her pussy to be the only for me, only for my dick for now.
totally okay with this and think is a great dynamic so my question is any other couple start out that way and have wives that will play but just not have sex would that lead the other guys on or or would a guy be okay with getting a vj well when i ever say ever say there's no such thing as a dumb question, we have a dumb question. What guy will turn down a BJ? Gay guys will always take a BJ. Regular guys will always take a BJ. So yes, this guy will be okay with the BJ. You got to set your rules.
Remember, he is there for your pleasure.
He's the toy in your Troy test, test chest he's the one that has to do what you tell him to do all right it's not the other way around if he doesn't accept your dynamics then you move on and find another guy that'd be like yeah i'll take a blowjob from your wife fuck it all right now if you do it right you don't pressure your wife your wife You find a guy who is into it who will not pressure your wife into fucking because you got to be very careful because a bull as they call them can ruin your experience by being pressure pushing stuff like that so you want to find a guy who's like all right i'll take a blowjob no problem and anything like that so call this guy up set up a date say hey come on over my wife wants to give you a blowjob, no problem, and anything like that.
So call this guy up, set up a date, say, hey, come on over. My wife wants to give you a blowjob, and that's it. All right, or meet at the bar, have your wife blow him in the car while you drive around town or something like that. So, yes, everything's going to be okay. It's a great way to start out. You're starting out slow. You're not doing everything at once.
That's very very good you'll be successful probably in this uh lifestyle let her go at her own pace you push your wife too hard she will push back and you might not like how she pushes back oh and all that stuff so you know good luck on that remember just go with your wife just listen to your wife how she talks if she's into it all right find out what she's into find do your rules your boundaries and all that she's not into it after you she blows some guy you know it was a fantasy you lived it good job and move on with your life don't ruin anything because of it all right best advice i'm going to give you have fun let's see another one i'm wondering how many different sexual encounters you typically have in one night when you go to a club female male or others so do you actually go with the intention of interacting or do you go for the fun atmosphere and just see how the night unfolds and what comes your way we always start from enjoying the vibe and having a good time but secretly we're always hoping there will be some action if i'm being honest you know what i like this couple because they're honest they're not sitting there oh we're going there for the connection we want to hang out they want to see someone see someone fucking.
They want to do something fucking. And that's what swinging is all about. Fucking swinging. All roads lead to swinging. I mean, all roads leads to sex and swinging. People don't get into it just to hang out and meet friends. Why would you?
Why don't you just go to the regular bar, spend less money, you know how much it is to get in a club now, it's like a hundred bucks, so you're telling me you want to spend a hundred hours to meet people, and not do anything with them, no you don't, you just, you're lying to yourself, because you feel better about it, by saying you're looking for a connection, where basically what we really are, we're all whores, and we feel guilty about it, so we lie about connections all right because there's a lot of people at the club who i see on this friday saturday night they might talk for three minutes and yet then uh a dicks in one and dicks in the mouth and a and a pussy a mouth's not a pussy so i don't know why you keep lying to yourself swingers but you want to see action all right when i go i'm hoping to get action hoping to get laid why not that's what the whole point is i love it if you don't like sex then i don't know why you're in this lifestyle and you probably never had really good sex in the first place you know it's you know but you know you do what you got to do to get through the day people if it if you need to tell yourself it's about a connection go ahead ahead if you need oh sorry if you're like me you don't need a connection just wants to have fun and enjoy life and if i meet great people on so be it.
I wish I have. I met a lot of great people that I still contact today and all that. So when I go, I'm always hoping to get laid. But like I said, your thing is your thing. And there's no hate in it, you know, it's whatever you need to do. You know, I'm not here to bash you. I'll support you on it. I'll, you know, do all that stuff. I'll defend your connection with other people. People yell at you about it and stuff like that, and vice versa. You should respect. I respect you, your dynamics.
You should respect mine.
But a lot of people don't because i'm a single guy but the minute i become a single a couple oh now i'll get the respect that i'm i'm deserving stuff like that so you know it is what it is like i said i'm just here for the party i'm just here for the gangbang another one hot wife advice after our first hot wife encounter we feel bad uh-oh i felt bad for relishing the powerful orgasm i had during our hot wife encounter on sunday my spouse says he's okay with me having fun he had fun observing me does the guilt disappear should i approach it in a different way well your first thing should be your husband, your partner, whoever you are with, was happy that you had those powerful orgasms.
They were like, well, fuck this. There was no problems. He didn't say you're a whore or anything like that. He enjoyed your powerful orgasm, and that's what it's all about. Making the hot wife happy. Making the husband happy. The bull, whatever, made your husband happy too. Does the guilt disappear? The guilt will disappear once you stop feeling guilty for nothing. You did nothing wrong. You did what your husband, your partner, or whatever, wanted you to do. Hopefully you wanted to do it too.
Alright? So it will disappear. Yes, it will disappear. It's the job of your husband or your partner, whoever, to make sure it disappears. To reassure you that everything's okay. Did he fuck you harder than he ever did before after you guys did this? There's some little telltale signs where he says he's okay with it. Should I approach it in a different way? You really haven't described how you approached it in the first place, so I can't really tell you yes or no. But enjoy it.
You had an experience. Do you want to do it again? Does your partner want to do it again? That's the question. Did you guys talk about it? Did you dissect it, break it down? Because this is about your first time, right? But like I said, other people in the comments are telling you life's too short for guilt. They're correct. But they're not you. They can't tell you how you should feel. You should feel how you want to feel. But just remember, your husband wanted this. He enjoyed it.
He's fucking happy. And you should be happy too. You got some fucking cock. So, I don't know know people just enjoy it here's another one let's see probably five minutes this might make you losey let's see it she says she's enjoys it more than i do uh-oh me 32 and my wife 29 started started with it for the first time while I was overseas. It was exciting and something new. Now, after 14 months after the first time, she found a new guy and she hit it off.
She fucked like three times in a month and she is hooked. She likes it a lot. I don't think I can handle that and was mean to her. Mean to her.
Not fair and completely wrong for me for me yes but i'm writing this to warn every guy who has that thought and wants to try it the hot life lifestyle be careful i didn't it would happen to me i didn't think it would happen to me but as soon as she starts with it she gets hooked it makes me feel not appreciated and not good enough she loves me the bits and never wants to leave me we know but it's a big toll on our relationship if anyone wants to talk about it and share their story happy to chat send me a message all right so like i told you guys before this guy did not listen to the swinging single podcast 14 months ago i was podcasting 14 months ago and I always said the fan to the Swing and Single podcast.
14 months ago, I was podcasting 14 months ago, and I always said the fantasy is not always as good as the reality. Once you put that bad boy, you take Pandora out of Pandora's box. Guess what? You can't put it back in. And his wife can't unspread her legs now. She has to spread them for the guys because she loves it. I mean, how Thank you.
it back in and his wife can't put it can't unspread her legs now she has to spread them for the guys because she loves it she i mean how awesome is it for her she gets to have all the dick she wants all the cock she wants and a husband a guy taking care of everything who wouldn't want what lady would not want that i don't understand why ladies are more into this.
Women would rather go out with girls' night out and go fuck around on their husband behind their back and sit there and be honest with their husband and say, hey, how about we try the hot life lifestyle? Because they can't talk to their husbands. Now, granted, a lot of husbands probably won't be into it, but you never know until you ask, right, ladies? Like I said before, take control of your sexuality, ladies. That's the only way you're going to be happy in the swingers' lifestyle.
Don't let your husband control everything. You have some say. So you let Pandora out. Pandora does not want to go back in her box. Now, you said she loves you. Does she tell you she loves you?
Does she show you show you that she loves you all that stuff is she talking to these guys offline texting them and all that you have to put up clear boundaries like say hey no texting them all texts go through me all meetups go through me that's what I did with my partners when we wanted to meet up with the guy i did all the talking i did all the coordination all that all my wife all my uh partners and spouses or whatever all they had to do is dress sexy shave and look good and suck some good cock and fucking have a good time didn't have to she didn't have to worry about anything else i did all of it so maybe you guys talk about your dynamics your boundaries and all that stuff Here we go.
and have a good time she didn't have to worry about anything else I did all of it so maybe you guys talk about your dynamics your boundaries and all that stuff now is it too late I don't know because I don't know your wife your wife could be totally too late for her where she wants to fuck and do nothing other than fuck so hopefully it's not too late I hate to see a couple fizz out because of this shit but like I said be careful gentlemen Thank you.
so hopefully it's not too late I hate to see a couple fizz out because of this shit but like I said be careful gentlemen when you do it let's see let's see what the people say I just want to thank my spouse right here when he said it was all about me he actually meant it speak up and get out just be upfront about it and she makes better decisions next time I don't know she'll make the better decisions did you guys create rules mine is not a hot wipe but yet one rule i have that i want to have is that she can't have a guy more than twice interesting on that one no matter how good it is i kind of like that know, because we don't really go back to fourths, thirds, and fourths, and all that, once or twice, and that's pretty much it.
Let's see what else. Why is this, this is why you start out with one a month maximum, okay? You will grow and learn to enjoy it, okay? He's already enjoying it, but he just just doesn't like that she fucking talks about this dud all the time maybe it's just new relationship energy that is also very true that it could be a new relationship energy so she's all excited about it his new dick the honeymoon will eventually fade and she'll get tired of him and things will kind of slow down later on.
Yep. Hang in there, buddy, he says. This is why it's imperative to have talked all aspects of this, including things like frequency limits. This is supposed to be a positive sexual add-on for both parties. It's also more likely to encounter a situation like this if it's solo play.
Now, here's the thing thing this guy better not allow his girl to be solo playing because if he if she does i'm guaranteeing the relationship is going to be fucked because now she's going to have that thing where she wants to go fuck him all the time and she's just going to go tell call honey yep i'm going to go over terry's house get click and all that so you got to be very careful when you're doing this, gentlemen. Hot wifing, swinging is no joke. You can fuck up your relationship by it.
But you can also enhance and make your relationship even solid or more solid. I don't know. Whatever. This ain't English class. But anyways, thanks for hanging out with me on this episode of the swinging single the swinging single podcast if you enjoyed hearing about my biggest adventures hit subscribe leave a view and share this episode with your friends interested in no lifestyle i'm your host ac maxwell stay curious stay open and always keep it hot and consensual out there.
Catch you next time, and shave your cock and balls, gentlemen. I don't need you to wake up by your side Chips in the night I wanna be the devil on your shoulder I wanna be the angel when it's over You'll get lucky like a 40th floor Baby, I'm a holly to your joker I wanna be the devil on your shoulder I wanna know We'll be right back.
