In this episode of The Swinging Single Podcast, AC Maxwell discusses a bold and often taboo topic: why some couples consider incorporating group intimacy experiences like gang bangs into their relationship. Far from simply being about the act itself, this episode dives deep into the importance of open communication, enthusiastic consent, mutual boundaries, and how exploring fantasies can strengthen trust and connection between partners. Whether you’re curious, cautious, or considering this step together, AC Maxwell provides respectful guidance on navigating this lifestyle choice safely and joyfully.Topics Covered:Talking openly about fantasies and desires with your partnerSetting boundaries and ensuring enthusiastic consentHow group intimacy can build trust and connectionSafety, respect, and maintaining relationship healthAddressing concerns and managing jealousyTips for couples interested in exploring group experiencesConnect with AC Maxwell: [email protected]
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Welcome to the Swingin' Single Podcast. I'm your host, A.C. Maxwell, broadcasting from the legendary Upside Down Pineapple Studios here in the heart of Texas. For over two decades, I've embraced the swinging lifestyle as a single male, and on this show, I'm here to share my wildest tales and experiences with you, the lovely audience. So, gentlemen, shave those cock and balls, grab some losing tissues, don't be a slob, clean up after yourself. And for those spouses out there, pull those panties to the side. Sit on his face.
Shade those cock and balls, grab some losing tissues, don't be a slob, clean up after yourself. And for those spouses out there, pull those panties to the side, sit on his face, sit on his cock to get cozy and settle in for some uncensored, eye-opening stories on the Swinging Single Podcast. The Swinging Single Podcast with host A.C. Maxwell is intended for entertainment and educational purposes only.
The opinions, views, and content expressed or shared on the podcast are solely those of the host ac maxwell and any featured guests or contributors and do not necessarily represent those of the podcast's affiliates sponsors advertisers or partners any information provided is given with the understanding that it does not constitute a contract, engagement, or formal advice. The content of the podcast is protected by copyright and other intellectual property laws. I said, knock, knock. Who said? Leader. Leader who? Leader up against the wall, we'll have a gangbang. Yes, we will.
Because the gangbang is decent to tell. When I was younger, I did my pride. I used to gangbang all the time. But now I'm older, I'm turning gray. My only gangbang once a day. Knock, who's there, Eisenhower, Eisenhower who, Eisenhower wait for the gangbang, because the gangbang gives me such a pill, when I was younger, I used to gangbang all the time, knock knock, who's there, Charlie Pryde, who? Charlie Pryde, her legs apart at the gangbang. Yes, he did. And she got the gangbang. He was in such a trouble when he was younger. And he was constantly. He's the gangbang all the time. Knock, knock.
Who's there? Urine. Urine in who? You're in for sloppy seconds at a gangbang! Yes you are! You're in there! Knock, knock! Who's there? Gladiator! Gladiator who? Gladiator before the gangbang! Gladiator before the gangbang! We'll be right back. Gladiator! Gladiator who? Gladiator before the gangbang! All right, hello and welcome to the Swingin' Single Podcast, your go-to show for all things adventurous, consensual, and pleasure-positive in the world of swinging and open relationships. I'm your host, A.C.
Maxwell, and today we're diving into a topic that some couples might find taboo, yet it's increasingly part of consensual adult play. The ideal of a husband or boyfriend allowing his wife or partner to experience a gangbang.
Ooh, you know those terrifying, you got a bunch of cocks coming at you and all that stuff gentlemen get don't get no pussy their husbands don't get no pussy they gotta watch their wife in ecstasy and all that stuff oh boy it's gonna hurt it's gonna hurt gentlemen no it ain't gonna hurt gentlemen it's gonna be actually fun watching your wife get gang banged and all that stuff have her see her in pleasure have her come so many times that shit you're gonna lose count and all that stuff but yeah we're her in pleasure, have her cum so many times that, shit, you're going to lose count and all that stuff.
But, yeah, we're going to talk about gangbangs, reasons why you should let your wife get gangbang. And remember, gentlemen, shave those cock and balls. And before you do that, go to swingingsinglepodcast.com. Check out all things AC.
And if you've got a problem with me telling you to go let your wife get gangbang, you can go to swingingsingle single podcast at gmail.com and email me those angry voice those angry messages about oh i'm wrong about gangbang and stuff like that or i'm wrong about everything in general it's okay i can be wrong but i'm usually i'm right anyways so let's get to it let's get down and dirty because i don't want to be here all day and all that stuff. So maybe you just heard the term gangbang. Have you? Is this the first time you ever heard about it?
Hopefully, if you're not living in Iraq, under a rock, you probably heard about it before or anything like that. Or you're curious about why some men not only accept but actively encourage this kind of encounter for their wives. Today, I'm going to talk you through some deeply personal and thoughtful reasons why a man might be comfortable with and even excited by his wife's participation in the gangbang.
And I tell you what, gentlemen, I get happy, I get hard as a rock, and I get giddy when I talk to my partner about watching her get gangbanged or at least have sex with another man in front of me.
It is awesome because you really see her sexual pleasure come out you see her sexual naughty side her slutty side whatever you want to call that and all that stuff so you really get to see that in all that stuff let me fix this shit because i don't see like i hear not s like i'm hissing well let's explore emotional psychological and physical dimensions what goes on inside the minds and hearts of couples who embrace this experience and why it can actually strengthen relationships when approached with trust, boundaries, and respect. And hopefully you get some respect and all that stuff.
No, we show respect to each other. So reexamining the trust and openness in the relationships. Let's start with the cornerstone, trust. You've got to trust your partner. And like I said, communication is the key in swinging. It don't matter if you're doing gang bangs. It don't matter if you're just doing hot wifing. It doesn't matter if you just do couple swapping. If you and your partner cannot be honest with each other and not communicate with each other, your swinging lifestyle is not going to work.
It to end badly hopefully it doesn't end the divorce hopefully it just ends in a miserable time for both of you in the swinging lifestyle but you still remain married and stuff like that all right so communication is the key trusting your partner is the key i don't know how many women i probably fucked that were lying to their husbands uh that they knew about me their husbands didn't know about me or whatnot but like i said on the show before it's not my that's not my place to worry about your relationship status and it's not your place to worry about other people relationship status you might care i don't care because there's nothing i'm going to be able to do to change that relationship status so i might as well just move on with my life and be happy so for many men allowing their wife to get gangbang represents an extraordinary degree of trust and openness like i said it's gonna be you're gonna have to trust your wife to be doing this stuff because sometimes you know the communication is not there and guess what wife thinks open season for her to spread her legs for any man and all that stuff so this isn't about surrendering control or giving up their relationship it's about strengthening it by trusting your partner's autonomy and honoring her sexual freedom like i said guys here will be when you are honest with your wife and your wife is honest with you and you're able your wife's able to come to you and say hey i want to get gangbanged hey i want to fuck 20 women i want to be in an all-girl orgy, something like that, no matter what it is, her being free to be able to express herself to you will fucking strengthen your relationship.
You might not like that she wants to get dicked down by a bunch of fucking hung studs. You might not like that, guys and girls. But you will love the fact that she's able to come to you and say that and be trusting of you not to get angry not to get upset not to get jealous all right it's okay to be jealous that she wants to get dicked down by another guy or have an all-girl orgy without you there shit like that it's okay but you're going to love the nuances the the new life that you're going to lead because you're going to be able to tell her anything.
If she can tell you that she wants to get dicked down by 20 guys or have an orgy or swap partners and stuff like that, can you imagine how everything else is going to be easy in life, the communication there? So, you know, it's just better for you. Encourage your wife to be open. And, gentlemen, don't get upset if she don't say something that you don't like, okay? Just letting you warn you, gentlemen. So witnessing her explore her sexual expression in a safe, consensual environment can deepen your connection because it's based on radical honesty and respect.
Now, you can either be an asshole like a lot of swinger couples where we don't fuck any single men. We don't like them're creepy yada we only play with single women and couples so basically what they're saying is i'm not letting my wife fuck another person unless i got someone to fuck too and all that that's what they're really saying all right let's be honest this is the honest show i could take the heat you disagree with me swingingcasts at gmail.com or come on my fucking show and I'll interview you. Tell me why I'm wrong about that. But, excuse me. So, I forgot where I was going with.
But being, but, okay, for her being able to express herself and have that freedom will strengthen you and all that.
Yoururities will go away many men find their insecurities challenged but also diminished when you trust your partner enough to let her experience pleasure with multiple partners you cultivate a relationship dynamic where jealousy is minimized and confidence in each other blossoms i'm not saying you should make your wife do a game bank i'm saying you should allow your wife to be her let her explore her sexuality don't confine it because you're insecure that another man might fuck the shit out of your wife listen you're not the best lover she's ever had i'm gonna tell you that right now there was a guy named tom likas back in the 90s early 2000 i used to listen to detroit radio and women would call up and bitch at him because he was like a fucking real Mel Chauvinist's pig and he would tell women they're useless and shit like that they only care about the money you know things that happen now and women would call up and they would say is your husband the best fuck you ever had and like clockwork they would all say honestly no so guys if you married her the chances are she if she was not a virgin when you met her she probably had someone fuck her good before you now you won the prize so don't worry about it why are you worried about it and when you start swinging even if you just fuck other couples guess what guys the male's gonna fuck your wife and i guarantee you she got off better from another partner than she did you.
Now, she might lie to you and say something like, oh, no, you're the best. But I guarantee you, she's probably trying to spare your feelings. But don't worry about it. That's what's so awesome. If you let her go and let her explore herself and be able to communicate with you her wants and needs, you will survive this, and you will be better for it. You will be awesome. More fun will be had for you and all that. There ain't going to be no problems. You know, problems financially maybe, but not, sorry, communication-wise. This is not easy for everyone.
Notice I said many men, not all, but it's a powerful motivator to build communication skills, transparency, and emotional maturity. It's about redefining what intimacy means between you two. But like I said, if you allow your wife to be open to you, and even you don't want another guy inside your wife, let her be her.
Let her express herself express herself because guess what maybe you never have another man inside of her maybe she never fucks another guy but she knows she could talk to you about it and she'll feel safe and her swinging experience will be a lot better your swinging experience will be dictated by your wife if your wife has a miserable time at a club or at a hotel takeover a house party you are going to have a miserable time swinging you don't trust me 28 years i've seen a lot i've seen a lot of couples come and go and when the woman is fully free sexual freedom to do whatever she wants those couples are the happiest the longest 10-year couples in swinging the ones that are have a like a crutch on them where you can't do this you can't do that they're not that happy and they don't stay in the lifestyle that long now think about other past episodes where i talked about broken rules boundaries where couples go in with a shit ton of list of boundaries know this know that then by time they're in five years ten years deep into swinging they have no boundaries anymore they're all the rules they can do whatever they want they can even go off with and play with another person at a club by themselves they don't need their husbands with them anymore or their wives with them anymore so it's just all about you know the intimacy that you're going to get between you two by being able to open up to your wife and say honey what do you want because that's what i ask every partner what do you want do you want two girls two men uh do you want gang bands you want glory holes you want public sex stuff like that and i always ask them that because i care more about them because i know as an experienced winger if my partner has a great time i'm going to have a great time listen she might fuck five guys that night i might jerk off and watch and Thank you.
Because I know, as an experienced swinger, if my partner has a great time, I'm going to have a great time. Listen, she might fuck five guys that night. I might jerk off and watch, and that's it, which is totally fine. But you know what? Next week we go to the club, I might fuck five women because she wants to return the favor. So you just don't know and all that stuff. Now, is it that easy? No, it's not easy as I'm talking about.
It's very hard because like I said, you're going to, gentlemen, you're going to have an all range of emotions like, oh, I'm not good enough for you and stuff like that. Just like your woman would if you say, let's have a threesome with another woman, your wife might be like, well, I don't know, but am I not good enough for you anymore? So stuff like that. So you got to be very careful and all that stuff because you just don't know how they're going to take it.
But you got to be reassuring to your wife that no matter what she says it's a safe place safe space so let's talk about expanding sexual horizons and shared fantasies one compelling reason is the expansion of sexual horizons now like i said a gangbang is three or more people so you can have five guys four guys and i'm not talking about the burger place all right it could be a gangbang can be as many men as you want you set the limit sexual fantasies often include group scenarios for some men watching or knowing their wife participates in a gangbang fulfills a deep-seated fantasy of exhibitionism maybe cuckolding without the humiliation or various other pleasures, you know I don't like cuck-holding.
I don't like being, someone called me a cuck. I didn't like it because I don't like being humiliated. I'm not a beta male. I'm pretty fucking, I've got an average endowment, but I can fuck and eat pussy better than the most, most guys.
I know I make a lot of women squirt with the tongue and the fingers at the same time going up and down in the clit and pussy and all that so you know i don't get the cock holding thing i like stag vixen hot wiping whatever all right so here's a detailed example i want to give you guys imagine your wife radiant and confident surrounded by tentative, eager partners in a consensual setting. Doing acts that excite her physically and emotionally. Seeing her so desired and playful can be profoundly arousing and even humbling.
Tapping into primal aspects of sexuality that aren't about possessions, but about celebration. Can you imagine that? You do something like swinging and it just brings your wife out and open maybe she starts wearing her she walks around the house naked more she wears a thong and pant a thong and bra around a little more maybe she initiates sex with you more who knows you know you got a lot of things that are possibilities here and all that stuff so you be smart. It's a chance for couples to live out fantasies that might otherwise remain fantasies. Now, I caution you.
Sometimes fantasy is meant to be a fantasy. It doesn't always meant to be reality. It can destroy you, like I'm telling you. I don't sit there and sugarcoat it. Like I like i'm saying i'm telling you be very careful before you do any of this swinging gang bangings all that couple swapping be very careful this is what you want because i'm gonna tell you right you go to i would start off small i would do a threesome with another guy threesome with another girl i would couple swap i would work my way into a gang. I would not just go straight into a gangbang because you don't never know.
Your wife might really get involved, enjoy it, and she might be doing shit that she never done with you and stuff like that. You might get jealous. So first, test the waters. You know, dip a toe or two in before you start doing this gangbangs. All right, so turning the imagination into reality while adhering to strictly negotiated boundaries. That's one thing. Come up with a list of boundaries. Allowing her to encounter means inviting a world of variety and novelty into your relationship.
It's a statement that you're secure enough to share in that experience, to witness pleasure beyond yourself, and to feel connected through that openness. All right, doing a gangbang is very, We'll be right back. to witness pleasure beyond yourself and to feel connected through that openness, all right? Doing a gangbang is very unselfish of you. You are giving your wife everything she wants and you get very little in return, right? You're not getting a pussy. You're not fucking another man's wife.
You're sitting there with your dick in the hand, being the moderator, making sure she's protected, making sure guys are wearing condoms and not slipping them off when they're fucking. You're there making sure, mixing her drinks for her so she's fully hydrated. That's another key. Women, when you're on a gangbang, you're doing a gangbang, make sure you're hydrated and all that stuff and all that. Hello, SDC world. You know, hello. You could say hello.
You could talk in the chat, ask me questions, shit like that, but anyways and all that so you know, you gotta you know, be smart about this gangbang, like I said, sometimes it's just not for you, it's not for your wife it just might be too much so, enhancing the emotional intimacy and the communication, the big C, we're not talking about the other big C, we're talking about the big C in the relationship communication another major reason is the boost in I'll see you next time.
intimacy and the communication the big c we're not talking about the other big c we're talking about the big c in the relationship communication another major reason is the boost in emotional intimacy that comes from the necessary communication and negotiation if you do do this swinging all that you have to be able to communicate you've got to be able to tell your man, this is what I want. And ladies, you run this fucking lifestyle. I get so sad and so tired of these dudes telling you what to do when hell, you're the one that, you're the reasons why we're all here.
You're fucking, your milkshake brings all the boys to the yard, ladies. So you've got to stand up for yourself and say, this is what I want.
But you've got to do it in a way where you make you regard your husband's feelings honey i want to have a threesome with a girl i want to have a threesome with a man you're you are more than man enough for me but i just want to experience that because you know what just being a center of attention i'm an attention whore honey just being a center of attention i would just love that for once in my life but you're man enough for me same thing with you guys when you talk when you tell your girl you want to have another threesome with another girl you better tell her that shame shit honey i just you know what i'm always working hard i'm doing all this stuff i'm the boss at work i just want to be the center of attention or you're not the boss at work and you want to be the center of attention and you want to do something that's really nice that will make you feel good and all that stuff and that's all of what you want to do you know so you want to you know make sure you just don't fucking say i want to fuck other women i want to fuck other men it's not gonna it's not gonna make anyone feel good it wouldn't make me feel good if I just started out doing this.
So, you know, I'm just saying, you know, be careful how you communicate and all that stuff. So, preparing for a gangbang scenario forces couples to talk openly and honestly about desires. What do you want out of this? The limits that you have. Are there guy limits? Are there other condoms? No. Stuff like that.
Bound kissing coming on your face swallowing cum coming your pussy stuff like that and the feelings that you might happen your wife might be overwhelmed with all the attention she's going to get because she's going to be the only female in the room where maybe five guys dicking hard dicks you You know, we talked about that last week about men trying to attend the gangbang. Make sure you have a, you know, you got your dick hard enough, guys. Things like that. So that level of communication deepens emotional bonds in ways most everyday couples never experience. Think about it a little bit.
Think about it, just think about it. Do you have better, you're a swinger. Do you have better communication than your vanilla friends? Things like that. The husband of the son of theinging is the most judgmental lifestyle. I've never been judged more swinging than I have in my personal life, than my vanilla life. I get judged more swinging than any other area of my life. And that's okay, though. I didn't learn to accept that I'm a single guy. I'm that creepy single guy that looks at your wife for five seconds, and I'm forever creepy.
But you're going to have to support her without any judgment.
Same thing ladies you're gonna have to do the same thing this goes both ways it's 50 50 while the wife gains confidence in expressing her needs and exploring her sexuality without shame this might also boost her confidence in her desires for sex and being desired by other people you know you get a lot of women who don't feel desired during their 40s and 50s like no one cares about them that no one wants them because in all reality when you go out in the real world the young women the 20 year old ladies are the ones everyone's chasing even the 50 year old 60 year old men are chasing out their young pussy the 50 year olds or 40 year olds get less and less attention they even when they get fake boobs they can still get don't get the much attention as they want so this might help boost her confidence and her sexuality and her i don't know what you call her her just her overall confidence in everything her life and everything this might help her this year the emotional journey is often reported as one of the most rewarding outcomes of consensual group play.
The emotional safe space created can carry over into all aspects of the relationship. And like I said, you've got to be very careful, gentlemen, what you want to do. You want to do a gangbang? Ladies, you want to do a gangbang?
Be emotionally ready for all that's going to come because you just don't know what how bad it could get because it can get bad it can get bad uh what else let me get out of here erotic sizing power dynamics and vulnerability there's also a unique exotic erotic energy found in power dynamics and vulnerability for many men watching their wife surrender control in a controlled consensual and supportive environment is electrifying let's talk about controlled you as the husband you as the boyfriend need to stay focused and controlled the environment that's in that room the gentleman there do what you say when you tell them to do it if they can't do it kick their ass out do not allow another gentleman to put your wife into a situation which may harm her you know what i'm saying gentlemen i hope you do also make sure it's consensual make sure just because you're going to a gangbang doesn't mean she's consenting to fuck every guy.
Hopefully, she's done that. She looked at all the guys. All the guys looked the way their pitchers sent. Because we all know swingers lie. They send out pitchers when they're in high school. Pitchers are in their 20s and they're fucking 50 years old. Fat and balding. Or the tits are up here at top.
Then all of a sudden, when they get there, their tits are sagging to their vaginas and all that so you got to be very careful you got to make sure it's all still consensual because like i said some people lie why people lie about their fucking uh whatchamacallit their pictures and their dick size i don't know but they do so you want to make sure it is all consensual also. If not, you can have some trouble. Hopefully the trouble is good. Not good trouble. Hopefully the trouble is she can't walk right the next day. It's about safe vulnerability.
Knowing she is freely choosing to be pleasured and adored by others while being emotionally supported by you. This act can evoke our desires and protectiveness all at once. It shifts traditional roles, often challenging societal norms, but creating a sheer space where you both discover new facets of your sexuality.
Maybe this was a one-off, and you're like, okay, we'll do it, this is your fantasy, this is your fantasy honey we're gonna do it you have it and all of a sudden you're extremely turned down by your wife with multiple men or watching your wife with other men it could be one it could be two it could be fucking ten or i don't know but you get off on it you're excited about it so that opens another door to your sexual repertoire things that you you can do now because you find it exciting you know that but then again it could always be that one where okay is awesome i love you honey you did a great job and you know what that's it you never do it again for the rest of your life it's just a one-off you just wanted that you wanted to check off that box excuse me gentlemen and ladies don't forget to shave your cock and balls gentlemen anyways you just wanted to check off that box and you're done bada boom bada bing you just go on your way with your life so the physical and the aesthetic appreciation physically it's also about appreciating beauty, desire, and sexually form a new perspective.
Your wife, basking in the light of multiple partners' attention, can radiate a unique kind of sexual competence and liberation. Like I said, when I first started swinging, I was 21 years old. Gang bangs were were the whole rage in swinging a lot of guys wanted their wives to get gang banged and all that stuff i would get invited to three four gang bangs per month when i first started because i got a reputation of i can stay hard i can get hard and i can perform and i can follow fucking rules a lot of guys can't follow rules but i can follow follow the rules.
They tell me to do this, I could do it, and all that stuff. And also, I could come multiple times, so I could give loads and stuff like that. Anyways, some of the women that were at the game meetings, I'm going to be honest with you, were long in a tooth. They weren't that good looking. But they had this confidence in them. They would strut around with their saggy titties saggy ass, their mom bods all over. They would be butt ass fucking naked and they did not give a fuck.
They would walk butt naked in front of everybody other women in the room and all that they would just be oozing self confidence and I tell you it was fucking attractive.
I go you know what they're not the best looking women but i tell you what they have the most confidence they're fun they're exciting they smile they're not miserable human beings they're not worried about what the fucking society tells them or tells them what they are they're just out there having fun and i tell you what that's that's the most attractive thing you could be a hot ass supermodel but if you don't have any of that you're not confident you always got to be reinsured and stuff like that it just drives men crazy so i was like yeah i dig it i get it not everyone's gonna be a 10 you gotta have a couple fives and twos in there you know i fucked a 10 before i fucked two five five i mean i fucked two fives so you know that Thank you.
gotta have a couple fives and twos in there you know i fucked a 10 before i fucked two five five i mean i fucked two fives so you know that the sexual energy in the room the chemistry the rhythm it all contributes to a scene that goes beyond the conventional bedroom experience and i can tell you this one thing remember this shabby cock of all guys balls guys but also the stench it's gonna be smell like sex the pussy's gonna stink and shit like that don't worry about it it's all Thank you. Shave your cock of all guys, balls guys, but also the stench. It's going to be smell like sex.
The pussy's going to stink and shit like that. Don't worry about it. It's all good. Just have fun, gentlemen and ladies. Don't worry about it. We understand. For a man, knowing his wife is deeply satisfied sexually, experiencing heightened sensations and various pleasures can be incredibly rewarding.
Even if it's from the sid sidelines i know you don't like to have nothing you're a type of guy that has to have another pussy if your wife's having dick you got to have a pussy well sometimes you got to make a sacrifice for the ones we love and if you love her that much you will make that sacrifice as long as you both are consensual she is consenting to it you are consenting to it too i say ladies if your husband don't want to do it don't do it it's going to cause a lot of problems he'll grow eventually he'll grow up and he'll say okay he'll realize that your happiness is a lot more important than swinging and all that stuff so let's see now it's important to stress that this kind of experience isn't for every couple it requires a foundation of trust which a lot of couples don't have clear communication which a lot of couples don't have i didn't say all i said a lot of couples don't have and mutual consent which i hope every couple has if you're even remotely curious start by having honest conversations with your partner guys if you are wanting to watch your wife get gangbang start talking to her now ladies if you want to get gangbanged you want to be a center of attention start talking to your husband now explore what feels right or wrong and always prioritize the emotional.
If approached thoughtfully, allowing your wife to get gangbang can be an empowering, exciting, and deeply connecting experience. One that expands your sexual world and strengthens your partnership in unexpected ways. Alright? So, that's just some of the things I think why you should let your wife get gangbang. Some Some reasons why. Listen, it's not for everybody. Gang bangs are not for everybody. It is tough. It is emotional. It is a physical toll that they take on the ladies.
But if your woman wants it, you have to consider it because, like I said, my mama always told my sister, if you don't do it, another woman would.
And if you don't do it, another man will if you don't do it another man will something like that listen you might not like that saying but it goes whatever you want to say all right let's see what else we got all right so that's game bangs we're going to talk about game bangs and we'll talk about a little more fat life and all that stuff let's talk a little more about let's see profiles what i always tell you people do any of you listen to me you should start listening to me you'll be a lot happier but I always tell profiles profiles in the fucking let's see oh I got a message on there let's see yeah alright anyways profiles they're horrible just look on SDC they're horrible.
Just look on SDC, they're horrible. People lie, show so much shit on there. They put pictures that are old, nothing new, stuff like that. So we got a couple here, all right? They need some help. Tell me what not to put in our couple profile. Well, what not to put, don't put your staff, don't put your occupation you are or anything like that. My husband and I are making profiles on a couple different apps, sites. Tell me instant turnoffs or things we shouldn't include in our bio.
We have seen some that are super detailed with descriptions of interest, hobbies, and others that are straight to business about boundaries. We specifically are looking for couples and like to meet to make sure the attraction is there before playing. We would love to hear what the red flags or instant knows for a while looking at profiles. Okay, red flags, women who post as single women, but yet they'll mention their husbands on there. I report them to the app, wherever app they're on or whatever website. I'll report them because I think it's bullshit. You are doing, what do they call it?
You're frauding the people. You say you're single, but yet you're attached. So here I am excited because there's actually a good-looking single woman in a lifestyle, and you're married, but you say you're single, but yet you're attached. So here I am excited because there's actually a good-looking single woman in a lifestyle, and you're married, but you say you're single. I get it. You don't want your husband to know, or your husband, you just put one on there, and your husband's in there, but you're just looking for a girl. Whatever the reason, it's bullshit. So that's a red flag.
There's something wrong with that girl. Another one, for other single women, they just have a couple of sentences written down. Wouldn't have a woman you've known in your life, especially if you're a Gen Xer or a boomer or anything like that, that can't talk about herself all night.
And yet when she does a profile, she can't say more than one sentence.'s another left flag and that'd be a red flag for a couple too one to have like one sentence down there i get it they're they're tedious but you ever heard of this thing called copy and paste you can copy and paste your ad that's what i do it's all my shit's all the same because you know why no one reads a fucking profile who reads a fucking profile no one does they only look at your pics to see how big your dick is and all that. They don't look at anything else. They just look at that. So, you know.
So, you know, it is what it is with that profile. That's a red flag. Short, doesn't say much about them. Red flags, maybe they have to talk about kids, family don't know maybe that would be a red flag it's just it's like i said it's very difficult when you know a lot of these people are fake you know like i said i don't really deal with the online shit only reason i'm online is because i can find out where the clubs are, the hotel takeovers are, and all that stuff. I don't really meet people offline.
If we're going to meet, we're going to be at the club where we know we're there for sex and have a friendship. Things like that. So, that's just me. You know, but, you know, if you want to meet people offline, you've got to be positive. You're going to go through a lot of shit. You're going to have to deal with a lot of shit. A lot of fake. A lot of ghosting. I was just talking to a single girl earlier, Angie, and she was telling me about Thank you.
positive you're gonna go through a lot of shit you're gonna have to deal with a lot of shit a lot of fake a lot of ghosting i just talked to a single girl earlier angie and she was telling me about some girl she was talking to she was gonna hook up with her they're gonna have meat they're gonna have dinner one night and nothing ghosting and you know it's gonna happen i told her well she's a newbie i go that's gonna happen a lot with guys and girls sometimes their husbands don't know they're doing this their wives don't know they're doing this and it's hard to get away when you want to get away like when i tell couples about they want the way the lady wants to get gaming i tell them how many guys you want triple that number invite triple that number because guess what most of those guys will not show up for whatever reason i don't know but you know i don't have a lot of things a lot of red flags but being short talk about family and want to talk about the careers that's it just some things like that also if they're looking for bbc or bwc or bhc or whatever it is if they to use initials, it's like me when I look for guys.
If the guy has a profile that says BBC Henry, he's automatically out. Okay, dude, we know you're black, so whatever. Just like BWC, if they have BWC, okay, so your dick size, the bigger the dick size, the dumber the guy is usually. So I want my girl to be somewhat stimulated by you, so I need someone who has some intelligence to them that can have a career conversation and not to be talking about their dick all day, all night. But anyways, so that's some of the things I look for. Something else, she plays, he doesn't, or he plays, she doesn't.
Those those days are red flags that's mainly a cheating couple or whatever and i seen when i worked at uh caliente i seen a lot of those couples where a girl would go in bring the guy in and guy would go his way the girl would go separate ways the girl never fucks anybody the guy's trying to fuck everything inside but you know it is what it is uh some of the red flags no kissing if they say they're no kissing okay what do you mean you i can stick my dick in your asshole and your pussy and you don't want me to kiss you okay whatever or you know they say they're spicing up their marriage that's another one so you know all those some of those are good but you know it is what it is ladies and gentlemen so that's all for today's episode of the Swinging Single Podcast.
I hope this discussion sheds some light on why some men choose to embrace this boundary-pushing experience. As always, I encourage you to explore, communicate, and respect yourselves and each other. If you have any questions, stories, or topics you'd like me to cover, hit me up on social media or through the website, SwinginSinglePodcast.com or SwinginSinglePodcast at gmail.com. So until next time, this is AC Maxwell reminding you, stay curious, stay respectful, and keep on swinging single. But I don't need you to wake up by your side. Ships in the night. I want to be the girl on my shoulder.
I want to be the angel when it's over. You'll get lucky like a 40th floor. Baby, I'm a holly to your joker. I want to be the girl on my shoulder. I'll see you next time. We'll be right back.
