Join host AC Maxwell on The Swinging Single Podcast as he provides a comprehensive guide to finding swingers meet and greets, both inside and outside the conventional swingers club scene. In today's episode, AC Maxwell shares insider tips, personal experiences, and expert advice on how to navigate the swinging lifestyle beyond the club environment. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just curious about exploring non-monogamous relationships, this episode offers valuable insights into building connections, discovering social events, and expanding your swinger circle. Tune in to discover new ways to connect with like-minded individuals, forge meaningful relationships, and embrace the diverse avenues of the swinging community with AC Maxwell as your trusted host.
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welcome fellow swingers and curious listeners to another exciting episode of the swinging single podcast i'm your host ac maxwell and today's show is all about uncovering the secrets of finding swingers meeting greets and exploring alternative avenues to connect with like-minded individuals beyond the traditional club scene so join me as we dive into the world of swinging discovering the best places to mingle with swingers and unlocking the possibilities for forming meaningful connections within the swinger community whether you're a seasoned swinger or a newbie eager to explore this episode is sure to open your eyes to a new realm of possibilities so sit back relax and get ready to embark on an adventure as we discuss where to find swingers meet and greets, along with exciting alternatives to enhance your swinger lifestyle right here on the Swinging Single Podcast.
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Any questions or concerns regarding this disclaimer, please contact us at swingingsingleogmail.com. By listening to the Swingingsingle podcast, you acknowledge that you have read and understand this disclaimer and agree to its terms. Shave your cock and balls, gentlemen. Oh, yeah. Shave those cock and balls, gentlemen. Do all that good stuff for all those sweet ladies out there. They appreciate it, I guarantee you. But first, let's go to swingingsinglepodcast.com. Go see all things AC. You want to see what I'm doing, if I'm doing anything. I don't update it.
You know, like I got a life, so, you know, I don't do too much updating. This ain't for the sale. This ain't for the game of the money. I'm just doing it for fun and maybe meet new swingers and have a lot of good sex.
Also, if you want to have anything, you want to go to swinging single podcast at gmail.com maybe you own a club maybe you don't want to have a party and you want me to host or something like that give me a call send me an email and we'll talk about it all right so today after you shave and cock and balls gentlemen we are going to talk about swinger meet and greets not at a swinger club because i get a lot of information and a lot of talk about where can i go to meet swingers because we don't want to meet swingers at a uh swingers club or we live in a out in the middle of bfe i'm living out in the middle of montana there's no swinger clubs here so i need to find my wife needs to get some cock i need to get some pussy we need the party so guess what we're gonna find out where you can go and all that stuff on this episode of the swing and single podcast so if you're looking to meet other swingers attending the swingers lifestyle meet and greet is among the best ways to do so but what exactly are these events and how can you locate swinger meet and greets in your vicinity well let's dive into the world of swingers meet and greets now swinger meet and greets are fun and they can be a lot of fun some can be very great and some can be very shitty so you know what you're really doing a crap shoot when you are going to a swinger meet and greet so but also you know what guess what you get there you got people there that are also swingers themselves so you know guess what you're all there for the same reason have fun enjoy stay safe be protected so for those unfamiliar with swinger meet and greets these gatherings are organized by both novice and experienced swingers to socialize and connect so unlike the potentially high pressure atmosphere of swinger clubs meet and greets offer a more relaxed setting these events take place at various venues like local bars hotels hotel pools parks restaurants and sometimes even at swinger clubs on designated nights now i've never seen a swinger meet and greet at a park i don't know maybe if Maybe if you go on FetLife with those people, you'll probably see one.
Restaurants, yeah, I've seen some at restaurants. I've been to some at restaurants. Hotel pools are very big. Local bars, hotel ball, hotel bars are very popular too. So in some cases, meet and greets may occur on party buses or during outings to sporting games or vacation destinations. Yes, with social media, now you have ticket holders who are swingers and would also love to meet other swingers, maybe tailgate at a place or before a football game or whatnot. Maybe you have some alumni coming in for the game, and they're swingers too, so you all can get together.
Yes, there are endless possibilities for swingers meet and greets all get together yes the endless possibility are endless possibilities for swinger meet and greets all over the country all over the world take a great swig of coke all right anyways so at local establishments meet and greets might reserve either the entire venue or a specific section for attendees in other instances the event may simply involve a casual meetup at a bar without any specific area designated now you gotta be very careful some of these swinger meet and greets when i first started going a lot of swinger meet greets were at local vfw halls and stuff like that because they were cheap to rent out people didn't want to buy a place but a couple wanted to you know i don't know what that is a couple wanted to a couple wanted to you know host a party so they would just rent out a vfw hall maybe the husband or the lady herself were foreign uh veterans and they could rent them out for cheap maybe i don't know 40 bucks a night i don't know and nails were pretty good but the problem with that i didn't like I didn't like that it was uh it was off premise where meaning you can't fuck when you're there you got to go to a house or whatever go in the car and fuck and do stuff like that you don't want to be fucking in the car because it doesn't really bring out your a game and you want to as a single guy you always want to bring out your a game so it's really not counterproductive or anything like that so you know I really didn't like going to bar meets and greets and stuff like that because you couldn't do anything there.
Or you had to go to someone's house or you had to get a hotel room, stuff like that. So in other instances, the event may be simply involve a casual meetup and a bar and stuff like that. Like I said, when you're at a bar, you don't know who and you do one of those. You don't know who's a swinger and who's not a swinger.
So you might, you know, you might say something to the wrong person you know what i'm saying and there you go so i don't know so guidelines so additionally there are smaller more intimate meet and greets arranged by individual couples within the lifestyle community often with just a few couples in attendance guidelines for maybe a swinger meet greet. The rules for swinger meet and greets can vary widely based on the venue and whether a specific location has reserved. Some events may have dress codes while others do not enforce such regulations.
I don't think anyone enforces a dress code anymore. I'm going to go to Collette's hot wife party tonight. And I'm guaranteed there's going to be dudes with T-shirts and raggedy old-ass jeans walking around, and I get yelled at because I come in and looking nice and all that stuff and yada. So it's like, come on. Enforce the damn dress code. Sorry, guys. Burping. So if you meet and greet, it's hosted at a non-exclusive establishment. The usual rules of that setting, such as those at a bar or restaurant, will apply. You can't be showing titties. You can't be showing ass, pussy, stuff like that.
You can't be whipping out your dick, guys. So it's advisable to check with the event organizers or venue hosts to understand any specific guidelines in place. Back in Michigan, there was a bar, a couple that would host a, God, I was off of Connections Online. This is how long ago I'm dating myself. Connections Online, they would host parties in Dearborn, Michigan at a bar. Now, the whole bar was taken over by us, so there was no outside people at the bar attending this bar. So, you know, you got to see a little titty, TNA once in a while.
Remember that if a meet and greet is held at a public location, there is a possibility of non-swingers being present. Yes, you don't want your girl around non-swinging people, guys or girls, because of the fact that, you know, they might assume that, oh, you're a swinger, so let's fuck. And they'll, you know what, they'll take liberties with your girl. You know, so I just, you know, when you're at a bar, be very careful of what you're doing and what you're saying to people. So when attending the swingers meet and greet, the experience may vary based on the location and the nature of the event.
At a bar or nightclub meet and greet, you will encounter the usual scene of people enjoying themselves, socializing, conversing, and flirting.
The primary distinction lies in the crowd's open-mindedness and easier socialization with individuals who are specifically there to meet other swingers now this could be very good for a new couple that don't know nothing about the swinging lifestyle they can learn about it without having that you know sex in the air that the you know the smell of fucking you know in the air that you would get at a regular club so you know maybe this maybe bar a little meet and greet would be good for uh newbie couples so in non-exclusive venues like bars where the entire place is not reserved for the event you may also encounter non-swinging patrons who may not align within with your lifestyle true in such cases there may be a designated area for identifiers such as stickers to help recognize the couples attending the meet and greet now we i had that and you always had those big mouth couples that would tell oh we're swingers and all that because oh fuck now everyone knows and stuff like that so it's important to gather all the needed information from the event host especially if it's your first meet and greet private swingers meet and greets and events at swimming clubs might be might have more relaxed rules regarding nudity and public affection, and at times.
These gatherings may include dancing and icebreaker games to facilitate introductions. Now, the reason why you want to be asking for all these rules is because, like I said, you need to know what you can do and what you can't do. You don't want to be that couple that gets kicked out because you're showing off too much leg, too much ass, too much titty. Your husband whips out his huge, humongous cock out so all the ladies can see. Things like that. You don't want to have that happening to you.
Because, you know what, it's going to suck for you, for me, and all that, because now your party is going to get done.
So, you know, find out what you need when you go in there you know because it'll just be better for you have a great time so what about the etiquette at swingers meet greets because it's not a club you're not fucking in the back or anything like that you are actually at a regular hotel bar or whatever and you're seeing what's going on so upon arrival is advisable to check in with the host if there is no one if if there is no if there's one and acquaint yourself with the venue then it's time to approach other guests even if it may be challenging for shy individuals introverts you know it's hard for us introverts to get into the swinger lifestyle but we're there remember everyone present is there to socialize with other swingers that's what i always tell people when they go to the club remember all those people at the club don't be shy because guess what they're there for the same thing sex if the location is open to public uh taking the time to recognize the participating swingers can prevent any awkward encounters yes you don't want to go up to some a couple who are not swingers and say hey you know is your wife down the fuck it's gonna be awkward and i'm sure it has happened many, many times, you know, we're human beings.
We're going to fuck up. So if you hit it off with another couple, don't hesitate to exchange contact information and inquire about the clubs they frequent and potential future meetups. Some meet and greets may have planned after parties.
The Dearborn couple would do that too at a hotel often held at local swinger clubs serving as an opportunity to continue the socializing in different settings all right remember discretion discretion db discreet do not talk about other things and all that you know with other people uh because like i said people are private i don't tell no what i'm swinging or anything like that you know but you know you might but that's you that is you do not put your beliefs that hey everyone knows all everyone from my mom to my grandma knows that i get gang banged or whatever i fuck other women for more private for more private after parties often hosted in a couple's hotel room or if you decide to adjourn to a hotel room with another couple, it's important to be aware of the potential for sexual activity.
Now remember, if you are going to a swinger meet and greet, and a couple invites you back to their hotel room, they're probably thinking you're going to be fucking. So don't get too freaked out when, you know, they come out butt-ass naked, dick hard, everything, ready to go and ready to fuck.
So now that you have a grasp of what a swinger meet and greets entail and what to anticipate at these gatherings, let's dive into the methods of uncovering these events below our various avenues and approaches for finding local and out of town uh swinger meet and greets now you might travel so you need to find out where the swingers are I have to do this when I travel you know I put in an ad or whatever say hey I'm, hey, I'm going to be in the area, such a state, looking for other couples and single females, or looking for guys to fuck my partner and all that.
So, places where you can meet people. Online is always good. Now, the only thing with the online, you're taking a crapshoot if it's going to actually turn out. I usually find what I would do, I used to always do the personal ads, see if it could get anybody. Couldn't get another one. I just find out where the nearest swinger club is and go there. Order swinger meet and greets. You can do this on swinger forums. You can avail of numerous free swinger forums online, some of which have dedicated sections of announcing meet and greets. Reddit is very good.
Even on forums without specific meet and greet areas, these events can usually be mentioned in the general discussion segments. You could go to the paid Swinger website membership sites like SDC, swinginglifestyle.com, quiver.us, or cassidy.com. So leading online Swinger membership platforms regularly feature announcements for swingers meet and greets, making them a prominent resource for locating such events. Yeah, you could go there. They'll tell you everything. SDC is very good in posting. Now remember, the problem with that is the place has to post. They don't automatically post.
So you don't know. If they don't post, you're not going to know know which i always thought was stupid because i think you should post if especially if you're starting out uh hosting and all you got to post and let people know you're out there because it's not like you just walk into a house oh look honey it's a swinger party no you have to know where you're going swinger chat chat rooms. If you are part of a frequent or frequent swinger chat rooms, keep an eye out for any references to meet and greet. Or you can just go call or email swingingsinglepodcasts at gmail.com.
I can give you all the information, can help you out. I am a world-traveling swinger. I've been all over the world.
You can also inquire with other members if you are aware of any upcoming events in your facility swinger clubs always a good place if there are clubs nearby it's beneficial to join their email list as they often organize swinger meet and greets several times a year and places like that now you gotta remember uh now they're talking about that social media platforms like social media serve as another avenue for discovering announcements about swinger meet and greets keep an eye on swinger related groups and pages for that uh for those events notifications like i said go to reddit reddit's very good at this they do a lot of swinger meet and greets and stuff like that uh they will talk about or you can actually meet people and all that the word of mouth as you become acquainted with swingers, you are likely to learn about swinger meet and greets through them.
Don't hesitate to inquire with other swingers you know about any upcoming events that they have heard about. That's one thing you got to really do. As a single guy, you got to find that one couple that likes you and wants to be around you and think you're a great person so you can finally do things with them. And they can get you to places. They can get you into places. They can vouch for you, stuff like that, all right? So places to connect with local swingers beyond the swinger club, all right? So you're at the swinger meet and greet.
You don't want to go to the swinger club because, I don't know, maybe you're worried about, you know, I don't know, someone from work seeing you, things like that. Whatever the reason is, you don't want to meet or you don't have a swinger club by you. That's another possibility because, you know, you've got a lot of land out in the United States or out in Europe, and there might not be no one near you. So this is a way that you can connect with local swingers in your area without the swinger clubs.
So let's begin by examining why swinger clubs may not be the most effective option for meeting local swingers. We will then proceed to explore where you can find opportunities to connect with swingers in your local area. Then we will dive into specific locations to encounter them and strategies to ensure invitations to private swinger gatherings.
Now remember, this iser just because you go to a bar you're at a bar your local watering hole and one couple's friendly to you do not mean they are swingers you have to work look for cues and all that stuff because i'm telling you right now you're going to embarrass yourself or you can possibly do something that could fuck a lot of things up if you assume a couple couple's friendliness is more than friendliness um i guess okay so be be very careful of who you're talking to remember all that, all that stuff. Anyways, so that being said, all right, so where am I? All right, so then we will dive.
So we'll find opportunities to connect swingers in your local area.
We're going to dive into into specific locations encounter them and strategies to ensure invitations to private swing gatherings prior to identifying the optimal places to meet local swingers allow me to briefly elaborate on why certain clubs aren't always ideal setting to connect with local swingers many swinger clubs attract a considerable number of swingers to their events with a significant portion traveling from distant locations to attend especially you're out in the middle of nowhere you know your middle of america you have to travel you know we're not all blessed to be living in major cities given the prevalence of out-of-town swingers in the club scene it can be challenging to connect with local swingers in this setting like i said i had a uh when i was working at caliente i had a couple that was from minnesota way up in the butt fuck of minnesota nowhere near minneapolis way up there over the canadian border they were swinging fucking beautiful woman i god i wish i could have fucked her that fucking security card block cock blocked me so he could get that pussy but anyways they had to find local swingers and it was tough for them and she was always complaining it, that there's no swingers in the area.
Well, I say, well, that's because you aren't looking in the right places, and I helped her with the forums and all that, and they started swinging more and more, and I haven't heard from them for a year or two now, so I'll never probably see them again or hear from them again. So, we have a lot of out-of-town swingers. It can be challenging to connect with local swingers in this setting. All right? So if you had a club and you really like a couple, oh, yeah, they live in fucking Midland when you – Texas, when you live in New Orleans, stuff like that. So you can't really do the connection.
So while swinger clubs offer a platform to mingle with swingers from various regions, they might not be the most conductive environment for meeting local swingers in your vicinity. So depending on your location, you may need to journey to a different area solely to access a swingers club. Now that we have addressed that, let's explore effective ways to meet local swingers in your vicinity.
Embarking on an online search is among the best methods to discover the and engage with local swingers the intent has provided swingers with numerous the internet has provided swingers with numerous avenues to connect with like-minded individuals below are some platforms where you can initiate your search for local swingers so you go social media platforms right websites such as Facebook, uh we host groups tailored to swingers uh telegram i don't know if you want to do kick anymore i don't know if that's dead but you can do kick all that stuff conduct a search on these platforms for relevant uh swinger groups opting for larger more active communities as well as many groups as many groups in your area as possible you could do that, there's swinger websites.
Joining the swinger websites featuring forums and chat rooms can also be fruitful in finding local swingers. Now, if you are impatient, you don't have the time to put into it, don't do any of this. The reason why is because a lot of people, the fantasy is better than reality.
A lot of people, a lot of than reality a lot of people a lot of women a lot of men go god i would love to uh have sex with another woman with my wife god i want to have two men at once stuff like that i want a couple swap that'd be awesome you know meet a couple we swap well the reality of it is when it comes down to it, guess what? They back out. You don't hear them. They ghost. There is so many. I mean, I think if I'm talking to 10 different couples online, I may meet one of them. Just one. Not all of them.
I ain't going to meet all of them because most of them are just women trying to get off because they want to talk about sex and all that stuff. Two, it's just another dude trying to talk We'll be right back. to meet all of them because most of them are just women trying to get off because they want to talk about sex and all that stuff too it's just another dude trying to talk about sex get dick pics from you because he's gay or something whatever and he's trying to get off so you know it's hard when you are doing an online because there's so many fakes and flakes.
So if you don't have patience, do not do any of this. Just forget about it. Go listen to my other podcast because none of this is going to be any meaningful to you anyways. I always, if you have no patience, I have very little patience anymore. I'm getting older. My patience is wearing out. So I don't bother with online stuff. I post, I have a profile online, SDC, Swing Lifestyle. That's because I'm a lifetime member. If I wasn't a lifetime member, I would just let it die and never see it again. So that's something you have to think about. Do you have patience or do you not have patience?
So you can join the Swinger website. You can answer a bunch of ads that are on there. Don't get your hopes up. Now, if you are a very, very attractive couple, in shape, maybe 30s and 40s, you're going to get hit on a lot. If you're a single woman, you're going to get 10,000 emails a day. Single men, eh, not so much. Maybe one or two, depending on the cock size and your color.
So you might not get, you might not think it's really good now if you don't have patience for that shit like i don't there are things you could do to stop it you could join the site join sdc great site join cassidy great site just go in there to look where the club who's going to the clubs well who's going to the club now do they always go to the club that they say they're going to the club no because you'll notice that there's couples will post they're going to every single club on Friday night, which is impossible. Or it's very stupid because, you know, clubs are not open that long.
So you've got to ask yourself the patience. Do that. Just find out where swinger meet and greets are. Find out who's going to what clubs if you don't have patience.
Now, if you have the patience patience you don't mind it because you're not in a rush because you're smart you're not doing stupid stuff like you're rushing into this stay stay tuned so joining swinger websites featuring forums and chat rooms can also be fruitful in finding local swingers so as you navigate the groups and forums be on the lookout for any swingers mentioning plans to visit a particular bar or nightclub, often aiming to gather a group for the outing. You'll see a lot of those. There'll be a lot of couples now. I see a couple in SDC. They're always doing something in Katy, Texas.
They're doing something in the Woodlands. I don't know. I don't pay attention to it because they're not single guy friendly. So friendly so i'm just seeing that it's a possibility couples you can so upon spotting a nearby meetup introduce yourself in the chat and or inform and express your intent to attend your with your partner have a face covered picture do not post listen i always tell people i don't don't online of your face. All right. Because you're going to get in trouble one day. You're, you might not want someone to see it. All right.
If you don't come across mentions of local meetups, inquire if anyone is aware of nearby bars or nightclubs popular amongst swingers. There are places like that.
There are places where swingersers go so active participation in these online groups and forums enhances the chances for identifying local swinger gatherings attend as many of these events as possible expands your network and raises the chances of being invited to offline gatherings not explicitly advertised online it's harder for single guys for me it's a lot harder because i a single guy, and a lot of parties that maybe be at a house or offline, they don't want single guys in there. So it's kind of difficult sometimes. So if you're a single guy, you already have to have patience.
Like me, I had all the patience in the world when I was younger. Now not so much, but I live in a town where there's a ton of swinger clubs, and can have fun whenever I want. So look at the mingle with nearby swingers. Consider joining exclusive swinger house parties where you can meet like-minded individuals in a private setting. Securing an invitation to these gatherings can be done by actively engaging swinger groups and online chats. The ultimate goal for a single swinger male is to be invited to a house party. If you're a total fuck-up, you cannot not get laid at these places.
House parties just seem to cultivate, let's everyone fuck and have a great time. When you're at a swinger club, the music's loud, people are not talking to everybody, so that. When you go to a house party, the music's soft, the drinks are flowing, people are talking, and guess what? Later on in the night, people are fucking. So, gentlemen, if you can find a house party, go to it. Don't go to a swinger club. Go to a swinger's house party. You'll thank me later. Couples, same thing. Swinger house party newbies.
If you are too overwhelmed by a big crowd or anything like that guess what a great place to go will be a house house party not a lot of people not loud not smoky nothing like that and you get to have fun all right so attend local meetups and socialize with swingers to increase your chances of being invited to these coveted private parties. And it's hard to get it. Some places, you know, I can't find a house party here. So by establishing connections with fellow swingers, you will find yourself receiving more invites to exclusive events in your area.
Once you build a network of swinger acquaintances, contemplate hosting your own private seminar gathering. Don't hesitate hesitate to ask for invitees ask your invitees if they know other couples who might be interested in attending this in uh this this not only allows you to expand your social circle but it also provides an opportunity to curate an attendee list additionally participating in local swingers meet and greets organized by various clubs and online platform is another way to connect with nearby swingers.
These gatherings are usually held at bars, nightclubs, or even hotel boutique rooms on a regular basis, providing the casual and welcoming environment potential partners. So if you cannot find, if you cannot find local meet and greets, actively engage in online swinger communities to raise awareness about organizing one yourself. Initiate a swinger meet and greet at a local venue, ensuring a suitable setting for mingling and conversations. Now, if you're going to do this, do it a month or two in advance. Do not do it just on a Thursday.
Don't think, I'm going to host one on Thursday and throw it Saturday, that Saturday, because it's not going to work. You're not going to be able to have enough time. A month or two is good promotion for a swinger meet and greet. So building a month may take time, so don't be discouraged by low initial turnouts. With constant promotion, your event will eventually attract more attendees over time. That's what I say. If you're hosting, you're not fucking. You're hosting. You are making sure all your guests have a great time. Because if you're busy trying to get pussy, guess what, gentlemen?
People are going to know it. And they're not going to want to come to your host because house parties, because, or your meet, swing, or meet and greets. Because you're more interested in the pussy than you are in hosting. And then making sure everyone's having a great time. Couple, same thing. Don't be interested in fucking around. Your last thing is you fucking around. You have to make sure all your party guests are having a great time enjoying themselves that you can have a great time and enjoy yourself. So, let's see, what else?
Embrace the opportunity to forge new connections in the swinger community. The more swinger friends you have, the richer and more fulfilling your experiences within the swinger slice cell will become. A final piece of advice I can give you guys is keep in mind that it's always show respect for a privacy of the local swingers you encounter. Do not, you know, take pictures, shit like that, post them online.
Couples, be very aware aware when you go back to someone's house this is not a reason why i like fucking at swinger clubs if you go back to someone's house nanny cans are big you don't know if you're being filmed they do film single guys too you don't know you're being filmed by a couple in their bedroom because guess what sometimes they do film and i found that out the hard way i found mike a couple i was playing with for a year film every fuck session i had with his wife in their bedroom by their nanny cam so just be very careful that's why he said a swinger club you know you're not being filmed all right so avoid discussing swinger related topics with them in public settings if you see one at the heb kroger publics don't walk up tolix, don't walk up to them and say, hey, remember me?
I fucked your wife at the swinger club. Or you ate my girl's pussy at the swinger club. Whatever. So save these conversations for appropriate times and locations within the swinger community. So that's just my little take on, you know, discovery swinger meet and greets. Where to find other swingers and stuff like that. I hope you enjoyed that. Gentlemen, shave your cock and balls. I'm getting tired of telling you that. I'm tired of seeing Bush on you guys' balls. The ladies do not like it. I'll tell you they don't like it because, you know what, they're too afraid to tell you.
But anyways, let's talk about things that are just fun. Swinger. Facebook. So I got a couple things, a post I save that some people say. I won't say the name, but they're in the lifestyle. They say gangbangs are where it's at. Just saying. If you just listen to my other podcast, my podcast before, I talked about gangbangs, why women love them and all that. And they're getting a lot of fans. Only 20 comments, though. There's only 20 comments for this. Let's see what someone says. Oh, okay. Nope, that was me. I commented. I actually commented on that one.
But it was only 20 people, so no one really said anything or anything like that. All right, so let's see what this is. All right, so someone says, do you have issues with your wife is only into ladies? She has no desire for other men. How do you approach that at a club where most are couples? Just looking for ideals. Thank you. Well, dude, you should be happy that your wife is only into other women because guess what? You don't have to worry about no big dick coming around and giving that big dick energy to your wife. All right? So be happy.
Now, I would question if your wife ain't into other men, is she a lesbian? I don't know. I always said there have been lesbians that swing with their husbands because, you know, it's a marriage inconvenience, not love or anything like that. So let's see what some advice people give them. But I don't know. I don't know. with their husbands because, you know, it's a marriage inconvenience, not love or anything like that. So let's see what some advice people give them. But I don't know. I don't know what to tell the dude.
I go, you should be happy, you know, be happy that, you know, your girl don't want to pressure you into fucking another dude. She wants to fuck other women. Now, I would want to know, is she into letting you fuck these women too? Are you, is she down for the threesomes and all that? Or is she just, you watch. Because if it's just watching, AC says, hell no. I don't want to, I don't, sex is like a sport to me. The fact that I don't play a sport to sit the bench, I play the sport to play. And I want to play. So, let's see what people say.
You need to reframe this form as an issue to this is your setup. Remember, I'm reading what people are writing. There's nothing wrong with how you two decide to exist in ENM. I do agree with that with the other post. Be upfront about your dynamics because it's all you're asking from others correct. Now, yeah, just tell people, listen, my wife is only into women. She only wants to fuck you, your wife. We can watch and have fun, all right? Now, I had a count on this, you know, when I had a partner where she only wanted to play with the girl. We said, that's fine.
But your husband's not touching my girl. I can't touch you.
He can't touch her her you two can play and have fun bada boom bada bing and you know it never ends up to an argument we always end up in the back watching the two ladies fuck i he has a lot of fun i just get bored i just go god can someone of these girls come and get done with so funny i have the opposite problem we are a couple and want to swap with the couple but I am not into women and most couples the women only want other women and that's true she is right in the swinger lifestyle bisexual women are the thing it's the it it's the gold standard if you are not bisexual woman you're kind of not really wanted that much let's see what else someone says I think we may have the same issue when we first started, but before we ever jumped in, I spoke to her in depth about it.
Made sure it wasn't her background, her backing away out of fear of it upsetting me. On her being worried I was going to be judging her or whatever it may have been. If it was that she only wanted threesomes with women, we couldn't have joined the lifestyle. And we would have went outside the lifestyle. But she jumped in and saw she was still a bit nervous for the first couple times, but now she is a joint full swap. Yeah, like I said, she might be okay fucking women now, but like I said, five years from now, you don't know what your wife or your girlfriend's going to be thinking.
You don't know about her hormones. A lot of women need to have their hormones. Ladies, if you're out there and you're 40, get your hormone levels checked because a lot of your issues come from your depleted hormones and stuff like that. Just like the gentleman, testosterone and all that.
Get that shit checked, girls checked girls ladies get that stuff checked and see how your uh let me get this fucking thing this cord get your hormones level check make sure everything's going kosher down there and in your body and all that because we want you ladies to be protected man ac loves the ladies you take care of yourself so with that guy also some give the reader is say, hey, man, maybe you don't have to worry too much about it right now because later on she might want men and she might only want men. How are you going to feel about that? That's what I would ask.
So, you know, don't, you know, be cool. It's okay. Enjoy the ride while you got it because that ride might slow down someday or stop. Let's go one more before we get out of here, you know. It's time to go. So, looking for a married man with submissive bi wives. Bi not required if she truly only wants to watch.
We are a hot wife-cockold couple who have been in lifestyle over 13 years single guys are becoming tiring and exhausting vetting through all right so why are we getting i wonder why we're getting tiring vetting through so to fulfill our dynamic we are only looking for husbands the kind that delivers his duty as needed to his wife but wants something extra on the side wife can either watch with the kakoda or not watch it doesn't matter however she should know what you are doing as well as be okay with it not interested in single males shady husbands if you do not fit these preferences above post a comment and if we're if we're interested we'll not set you up a dm all right see now i'm kind of curious why why are they not interested in single guys because they have to take five seconds to talk to them see this is where the problem comes in if you are if you can't find good single men that's on you because they're a lot they're putting good swinger single men out there that can take care of your wife for you you're a cock hold you want that hot wife shit me too i'm a hot wife lover i'm a hot stag if i have a relationship so you know not a lot of women are gonna why why married men what's the difference between the married man and a single man i don't he doesn't put he doesn't put too much in there there so i gotta assume i don't want to assume so i don't so that's one question what's the difference our single guy you know are you looking for diseases maybe you think because a guy's married his dick ain't everywhere and stuff like that because guess what a lot of married people pass around diseases and all that shit to them there's a lot of diseases in the swingers lifestyle guys just because you're married don't mean you're not you're std free you know a lot of those people fucking carry shit so i don't know so good morning guys i fit the description 20 years experience in a lifestyle married it can be and permitted no shady stuff ever uh let's see yeah okay buddy there's probably a lot of shady stuff with you.
We have done it a few times. However, we are more after building quality friendships with couples, even if it doesn't develop past the social aspects. I believe that she is on here, and we host a couples-only chat. Okay, dude, listen. Give them some goddamn advice. Where can they find these? All right. Not married. Totally understandable. Upstanding, respectful business owner, lifestyle dude is here in Central Florida. Okay, great. So this dude over here is kissing ass because, wow, I totally agree about the single guys because I'm one of them, but I'm not one of them. I am better than them.
I'm respectful and all that shit. Okay, dude, listen, you kiss ass. You're kissing the people's ass. I get it. You can't get laid because you're fucking, you know, you have no personality other than your dick wig and all that. Listen, dude, you don't have to kiss these people's ass. They're not looking for you. You're not married. You're not married, sir.
So they're not looking for you so you're already fucked all right uh let's see we'll be there next week it sounds like we could be a fit okay how can you be a fit are you this is why some people are stupid do they not read are you married are you not i don't know these people are weird nothing better than having a bi-submissive she wants to be a hot wife also okay she wants to be oh dude i don't understand these people when they write back they're not writing anything towards the are they i think they're fishing for comments or fishing for likes let's see what this guy says the wife is very open to this okay feel free to dm me why uh oh maybe she's the wife okay uh my bad the wife is open to watching her husband pound this guy's wife okay so okay okay now this is the funny thing is here's another one question could my wife wife and join together i to fulfill our dynamic all right no because that's not what they're looking for if you read the fucking thing.
Single, straight, lives in Florida. You're more than welcome to message me if you choose. All right, dude. Once again, this is why we get a bad name, our single guys. Swingers, single guys. Stop fucking. This guy's just a single dude looking to get laid. This is not a swinger because he can't read. They don't want single guys. They want married men because for some odd reason they think it's easier to find married men for the cock hold. I totally disagree. I just think he don't know what the fuck he's doing. Honestly, I think the poster don't know what the fuck he's doing.
And if you want to get in touch with me, I will teach you how to fucking do it. These couples who have problems with these single guys don't understand how to talk to single guys. When I'm with my partner at a club, I tell the guys when they're done, they bust their nut, get the fuck out of the room now. Bye. See you. You're done. Not like me like that. I just say, thank you, dude. You're done. We don't want to talk to you. We don't even want to know your name.
Oh, well, maybe we'll talk in the club're done again we don't want to talk to you we don't even want to know your name oh well maybe we'll talk in the club no we don't want to talk to you at all you did your purpose you served your purpose i'm her man you're just a tool for her to get pleasure that was it all right we don't want to be friends with you it's even easier when you go out of town because then you really say we're not fucking from here we're not probably gonna ever see you again so don't worry about it ah let's see hi this sounds like my wife she's a bi but 95 of the time she just wants to watch that's kind of fucking boring and if she's filled the vibe might jump in while i play but that's not common okay they don't want your wife to join.
Did you not read? Dude, you got to read. See, this is why I said, there's no difference between single men and the lifestyle that couples. They both fucking don't read. It's like when I see a person looking for a woman or a speed date on SDC. We're looking for black guys. And you get all these fucking white dudes and Hispanic dudes email. You what about big white cock or big Hispanic cock? They didn't say they wanted that shit. They wanted fucking black guys, so stop fucking emailing. Or when they say hung guys, we're looking for hung, fit and hung and young. I'm 47.
I'm not fucking emailing them. But you know you get guys older than me that have fucking emailed them. Oh, if I email them, they see how good looking I am and how awesome I am. The bitch is fucking 27. She don't want to fuck a 50-year-old grandpa. Jesus Christ, these people. Read the fucking ad, people. Great post. My queen is not bi, but submissive with those who choose to play with. We play together and part. Okay, they play a part. Okay, I don't understand. Okay.
Alright, they play together and apart okay they play apart okay i don't understand okay all right they play together apart i'm not really submissive but i can offer my hubby as tribute okay that's pretty good i am by and would like to play as well they don't want to play with you okay i'm gonna go back up read this fucking ad so see who guys are becoming tired and exhausted v through. So, I fulfill our dynamic. We're only looking for husbands, the kind that delivers his duty as needed to his wife but wants to do something extra on his side.
Wife can either watch with the cock hold or not watch. It doesn't say. It doesn't matter. However, she did know. She should know. It doesn't say to play with us with us jesus christ people it just goes to show you it don't matter single couple no one reads a profile anymore they just look at the fucking pictures and the lady uh i'm gonna be honest i looked at the pictures the lady's pretty cute i'll fuck her the wife is very much open to this we travel a lot to florida but we reside reside in Wisconsin. Well, that sucks. It always sucks when you find someone like that. But anyways, let's see.
I'm out of here. I'm going to go have some fun. Hopefully, I get laid. Who knows? But anyways, remember, go to SwingAndSinglePodcast.com to check out all things AC. Shake your cock and balls, gentlemen. If you want to email me, you want me to host something, you want me to host a club night, whatever, go to, call me, hit me up at swingandsinglepodcasts at gmail.com. And also shave your cock and balls, guys. But other than that, keep on swinging and have a wonderful weekend. Go Lions! We'll see you next time.
