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welcome to the swing nation, a podcast by swingers for swingers, where we look to educate others and push back on the negative stigmas and misconceptions associated with our lifestyle.
Come with us and share our pineapple journey as we travel the globe, interview the experts, learn and grow together join the nation hey there pineapple people and welcome to the swing nation podcast we are your hosts northern guy and southern girl and uh today's episode we going to give you a little recap of last weekend at Trapeze and the hotel takeover in Charlotte. It was a busy weekend. Yeah, Lacey ran us around the country.
And then once we get through that, we're going to give you, Lacey asked some questions on Snapchat. And overwhelmingly, people wanted to know about discretion in the lifestyle.
very overwhelmingly so we're gonna we're gonna get into can you be discreet how can you be discreet some uh tips and tricks on discretion and we'll go over that stuff yeah so first off we're gonna talk about last weekend so i have this habit of saying we are doing too much we're too busy we're all over the place but then yet i continue to schedule things for us to do it's kind of been a trend in our relationship since the very beginning yeah i don't know what's the deal with that i don't know i have fomo i guess yeah so we knew we were going to be in atlanta on friday night um we had a vanilla party that we needed to attend so we really knew that this was like our at this point we had no other plans for december so we were like this is going to be our swinging weekend because if you know anything about us, we typically do one weekend a month.
If you know us, you know we love Trapeze Atlanta, so obviously if we're in the Atlanta area, we always try to go. Right.
So there was much debate over what we should do with this weekend because, again, we knew we were going to atlanta for this vanilla christmas party so dan wanted to stay in atlanta for the weekend yeah and just go to trapeze which honestly i was fine with however and next week we're going to do or week after next i'm not sure how to fall but we're going to do a full hotel i'm not hotel takeover a club review of trapeze it is by far our favorite club we've never done a review of it so that is coming hopefully if our schedules can line up with liz and we can do we're going to do one as well though even if we yeah you're right yeah so we'll talk about that in a minute but so um but they have what's called the diamond club which is a v.
And used to, you could just upgrade and you could go back there. It's quite pricey, but it can be done. We had been told that you could no longer do that. So we would have to just go and just be a part of the club and not be a part of the VIP, which we're a little spoiled. We've never been there and not been VIP. So honestly, neither one of us really wanted to go if we couldn't get that. Now, we were on the waiting list to get a membership to this Diamond Club.
However, they had not gotten to our name yet. Right. We weren't up the bat, so to speak. Correct. And we were far enough down that looking at the calendar, we knew that there was not a chance that we probably would get the call before that weekend. Right. There was like 16 people ahead of us. Yeah.
So we were like, so it was basically like, do we wait it out and see if we can get a Diamond Club membership or do we just plan something else right so i decided or well we decided lacy decided let's go to one of our favorite hotel takeovers which is lifestyle connection that's what you heard last week something that we've always been going to prior to the podcast prior to us being out of swingers we have a lot of good friends there i really that we hadn't seen since before the summer, some of them.
Yeah. So I made the executive decision that we would be in Atlanta Friday night. Right. And then we would drive to Charlotte, North Carolina on Saturday. Which is a great idea. I mean, it's a solid plan. In theory, it sounded like a really awesome plan. Yeah. I mean, it's about a four-hour drive. It wasn't terrible. It's not ideal. Right, but you're missing. So, some of the logistics, you know, we have dogs. Correct. So, yeah, it wasn't like we just drove straight.
We had to come back home, you know. Let the doggies out, feed them, play with them, let them run. Yeah, so there was a lot of other issues regardless. So leading up to this weekend, we get the call that it's our turn in the Diamond Club. And they were just like, hey, next time you're in town, just let us know and you're ready to go. Which, to be fair, I think we had some friends pull some sprints. Maybe. Maybe pull some sprints. Thank you.
And they were just like, hey, next time you're in town, just let us know, and you're ready to go. Which, to be fair, I think we had some friends pull some sprints on that. Maybe. Maybe pull some sprints on that. We don't want to call anybody out. We're just saying they called us, okay? We're just going to leave it at that. Which, if somebody did pull some sprints, thank you. They called us. Thank you to those people. So, they called us the week that we were going to Atlanta.. So we were like.
And Dan went, I told you so. I freaking told you so. At this point, we've already booked our Hojo Takeover. We've already got the podcast scheduled. We are taking donations for toys. Outfits bought. Like there was really at this point no going back. We had to go to this Hojo Takeover.
I don't even know if we had decided to do the toy thing yet but we had definitely talked to steve and christy and said hey do you want to be on the podcast we had made arrangements for that we'd paid for the room there was enough emotion that it would have been hard to somehow they got us on the party floor they pulled some strings you know so like it was a whole thing yeah we were too committed to the hotel takeover so i was like hey well we're gonna be in atlanta friday night so let's just go I don't know.
We were pretty committed to the hotel takeover. So, I was like, hey, we're going to be in Atlanta Friday night. So, let's just go in true lazy fashion. Let's just go to this party and then we'll bebop over to try to be us. Not knowing how far away it was. Right. No clue. Yeah. And then we'll go ahead and we'll upgrade and we'll stay an hour or two and then we'll head back to our hotel. Easy peasy. Easy peasy. Except for the hotel was 40 minutes away from Trapeze in Atlanta. Right.
The vanilla hotel party was on one side of Atlanta. Trapeze is on the west side. So we were on the east side of Atlanta for this hotel or not hotel. Correct. Holiday party and And then we had to go for 45 minutes to the other side of Atlanta. But somebody left the Viagra and the condoms and everything in the hotel, so we did have to go. Two minutes. It was 10. Okay. 10 minutes out of the way. So anyway, long story short, it was a crazy weekend.
We're going to get into it and try to tell you all about it but leading up to this we knew we had a crazy busy weekend dan was like i told you so i told you so like he always does he was right it was way too much we were exhausted um just a lot but in this is what we do this is how we roll this is This is what Lacey does. You go along with it. Yeah. Okay, so you want to jump into Friday night? Yeah. So, again, started out with a holiday party, a vanilla holiday party. Yeah, just normal.
We were dressed up. It was a red carpet evening cocktail dress attire, so we were pretty dressed up. Yeah. With Luke's Nazi, if you've seen some pictures on my instagram um it was me in the gold dress i'll probably post that again when this comes out so you can see me but yeah i mean it was just your normal everyday party we um scooted out a little bit early yeah we we uh saw who we had to see, shook hands, kissed babies, and then...
And then left and made the 40-minute drive across Atlanta at 10.30 at night. The five-minute drive to the hotel first. Five-minute hotel so somebody could get Viagra. You've got to be prepared. You know what's going to happen? I was like, do you really have to have it? He was like, yes. So we went back to the hotel, grabbed what we needed to grab, and hit the road. I guess we probably left about 10, no, 10 maybe? 10, 10, 30.
Yeah, so, I mean, it was probably 11 a little after by the time we got to Trapeze. Again, we're going to do a full review. We're just going to kind of skim over it tonight. But basically, we love Trapeze Atlanta. It is by far our favorite club. It is a good three and a half, four hours from our house. However, if we had to have a home club, I would say that Trapeze Atlanta is that. Yeah. So we got to Trapeze. Yeah, like 11, 1130.
Once we got once we got there, we said, hey, you know, Liz, who's their manager, gave us a call and let us know that we could upgrade tonight. And so we got to sit down with Liz and talk to her. sat in like an office like it was quite professional yeah quite expensive for the money that we dropped we should have been sitting at a table yeah um if you know anything about diamond club and trapeze that matter, we've done reviews of chemistry in the theater group. They are $60 clubs.
They serve their purpose. They're wonderful. I have so much fun on them. But Trapeze tends to be, or is, in fact, a little bit more expensive. For average tonight, it's going to be a couple hundred dollars. Yeah. So, yeah, full disclosure. So, I don't know what the normal entry fee is. It depends on the night. I don't know. I think of what time you get there. But a couple is probably around $100, $150 or something like that. And if you upgrade, you're looking at $300, $350.
$300, $350 to upgrade.
But the good thing about Diamond Club is is they serve i mean they serve you restaurant quality food sit down not a buffet down yeah you know it's so if you think about it it's dinner it's drinks it's the whole night you know so yeah it is expensive but it is a nice um a very nice club especially the diamond club so upgrading to diamond club we basically paid a flat fee to be members so when we go we don't have to upgrade we just pay like the entry fee which is like 50 bucks it's not terrible um diamond club is kind of pricey you have your own personal lockers of course we had to get a swing nation um right podcast um plaque for our locker yeah so we we i guess we're full disclosure.
So it was $2,000 for the Diamond Club for a year. And then it was $300 to get a locker with your name on it. I mean, like, look, if you're going to spend $2,000, what the hell is $2,300? Yeah, yes. I mean, like, we're going to do it. We're going to put our damn name on the locker.
we paid the two grand and then we uh paid the three hundred dollars for the the locker uh but to put the swing nation on it you know we'll write that off right that's a that's a write-off that's a write-off um but yeah so in in the price of the diamond club when we can get more in this and definitely go over it next week or whenever we do that podcast but it goes down each year that you're in i think it eventually will get to 1600 right if you go there often it's definitely worth it i mean if you go what did we say 10 times a year yeah i think it's around 10 times is where you be balanced out and you can also bring couples back with you um which is pretty pretty fun yeah we had been kind of relying on friends to bring us back.
What's it called? Were you right on somebody's coattails? There you go. Yeah. Yeah, we had been doing that to our friends for several years. Like years, yeah. Yeah. So we were like, all right. So it was time. I guess we'll finally pay our way back here. We'll use this only van money for good. Yeah. So yeah, so Liz was wonderful. She got us all signed up, got everything paid. And like I said, it was late. We really wasn't going.
We weren't going there to, like, have a wild night or play with a bunch of people. We really just happened to be in the area. We might as well go over and get all this taken care of. Right. I mean, we really just wanted to make sure we had our spot. Yeah, because we are going back the 18th, 17th, 18th of December, and we wanted all of that to be squared away before then. Yep. So, yeah, that was great.
So, like you said, since we were there, I think we went back, and I think we had some food, right? You ordered some food? I did. It was a very light crowd. Usually Friday nights kind of are. I mean, we've been a few Friday nights, and I've never really – we've always had fun because we were with our little group. Before that. So, we had a great conversation with Liz. Yeah. We talked to her a little bit about TikTok, a little bit about our podcast. We're hoping that she'll come on. We'll see.
We gave her some cards. She seemed interested in coming on the podcast, so I shot her an email. Eventually. Even if it doesn't happen this next weekend, we'll make it happen. We'll make it happen. And then maybe in the future, we'll do like a swing talk. I would love it. Takeover trapeze. I feel like that's like our place. I know it's not our place, but I feel like it would be nice to kind of bring all of our friends there and kind of show them the roads. But yeah, Liz was wonderful.
If you ever need anything, if you're interested in in diamond club highly recommend a phone call to her she was great right awesome uh yeah so then we went back we got some food i don't what did you get what did you get um yeah so they have a menu in the back i got like a chicken slider we had had a light dinner early and so if it was free i was gonna get it you know um so yeah we had a small we had a drink i think we each only had one drink because we were getting up early we had to drive back um so we just had one drink i had a chicken slider like i said before and the crab was very light we've never been there i would probably not recommend a friday night no so yeah A Saturday night.
Again, we'll go over trapeze in depth. But on Friday nights, they do allow single males in. So, if the single male thing is your thing, Friday night probably is the night. I didn't really see. You want to go. But I don't know. For whatever reason, this night was pretty dead. I think even extra dead. Because we had been there on Fridays before. And I thought it was busy. Yeah, it was definitely. But it was also like midnight. So, I don't.
You know, it kind of looked like other people had kind of been like already been playing and was wrapping it up people had probably already gone home yeah by the time we got because yeah it was probably after midnight by the time we uh upgraded and got back into the diamond club yeah it was pretty late we sat and talked to this for a while so yeah i mean it was pretty low-key um we thought heck we we driven 40 minutes we paid $2,300 back on somebody's having sex yeah uh so we went back into one of the the if you've been a diamond club you know what we're talking about there's a a big I guess you'd call it an orgy room yeah I guess uh and it has like a stirrup chair which is kind of it's Dan's favorite my personal favorite chair and then there's a couple beds that are pushed together so we went back there there was really nobody I think there's some people playing there's a room that has a pool table there's some people back there playing Thank you.
is kind of it's Dan's favorite my personal favorite chair and then there's a couple beds that are pushed together so we went back there there was really nobody I think there's some people playing there's a room that has a pool table there's some people back there playing pool but not really much going on back there um so my favorite room was wide open so me and Lacey went in there and uh had a little fun for a while yeah just the two of us another couple did come in there and they were not my cup of tea personally and I like was looking at dan with those eyes like get us out of here you know because like i was like give me five more minutes you honestly like when people come in like that there's like a thousand room or not a thousand but there's plenty of open rooms so like we knew what they were doing right they wanted to play they wanted wanted something.
Well, they could have just wanted to watch, but yeah. They didn't. They wanted to play. They wanted to do something. You don't just walk into a room and sit right next to a couple. If you, I mean, I'm just, if you know, you know. They didn't. Anyway, so I'm like looking at Dan. I'm like, hurry up. Hurry up. Let's get out of here. Hurry up. Hurry up. Becky finished. We finished. We finished. And then, yeah, we cleaned up and went back to the hotel. Yeah. I mean, it was really.
We'll be right back.
all right let's get out of here yeah so we we finished we finished our we finished and then uh yeah we cleaned up and went back to the hotel yeah i mean it was really we were only there for like an hour if that we ate we fucked and when we left yeah i mean that's really we had said before we got there we had to be out of there we had an hour and a half and that was it um because we were going to get up at 6 6 30 the next morning so we knew we had we just couldn't stay um we purposely didn't drink very much i think i had three drinks on night two at the i don't know christmas party yeah i had maybe one or two i didn't like i had a tiny little drink in trapeze so yeah we we knew it had to be a pretty mellow night um and it was yeah so yeah we went back to the hotel room slept and like lacy said because she planned this excellent excursion weekend for us we had to i think we were up at six o'clock in the morning uh to drive to charlotte i literally didn't even unpack my bag i just slid on the leggings i wore there and the t-shirt i wore there and we got back on the road no makeup no nothing like literally we just We'll see later.
Yeah. There was never any time to do any of those things. Ran by the house. Went the dogs out. Fed them. Played with them for like an hour.
and then we were back on the road to the hotel takeover yep so we did normally we would get to a hotel takeover four or five six o'clock but because we were doing the podcast um we definitely had to get there early yeah we had arrangements with uh steven uh to do it at two o'clock yeah so we got there early we immediately set up our room um we so i'd hope to take over as we talk about it you can host shop rooms and we chose to not host one but we still kind of did it was just like an unofficial shop room yeah so we decided that during so you heard this in the last podcast but lsc hosts a shop room prior to their ballroom party.
So it's like, what, seven to nine or something like that? Something like that, yeah. Yeah. So we were like, all right, we'll bring shots for people. We'll open our door. We'll let people come in. And then if we get sick of it or if we run out of shots, we'll just close our door and go to the party. But I'm getting a little bit ahead. So we did bring stuff to do that.
So we we kind of set up the room we were setting up the room we have a banner for a podcast and stuff we did all that great get all that set up and then we met up with um with them and sat down and did the podcast yes which they did an excellent excellent job yes they're super cool couple super cool group hearing the i think the whole behind you know like how they got started with just like a group of friends that were meeting at a bar and then super interesting and then the bar like you know started to close down for you know just the way their group evolved into now which is you know probably the biggest hotel takeover group in our area yeah um was was pretty interesting it really was and y'all i know y'all helped us with the donations they were so touched i mean i don't know if you could really hear it in the podcast but like they were tearing up like you could see the passion like they don't just do this to like make money they genuinely want to help these kids um and it was heartfelt it felt good to be a part of that so So thank you.
Thank you to everybody that helped us with that. Well, yeah. And it was inspiring to me to hear the story about, essentially, they started doing hotel takeovers to raise charity, money for charity for children, which is, again, you know. Not even me, who thinks that swingers are good people, would not have thought that. Right. I mean, I just didn't. I just assumed it was, oh, well, we can make money and we can have fun with our friends. Right.
That i assumed yeah so we went to walmart right so we so yeah which was a nightmare yeah so we got you know you guys raised i don't remember close to eight hundred dollars um and then we said we'd match up to a thousand and we said well screw it we'll just we'll just chip in the a thousand so that gives us 1800 um i don't know why we didn't just write him a check in hindsight that's probably what we should have because you wanted to make a tiktok yeah well no yeah there's some truth well and and they were collect i didn't know if they would be able to get you know it was nice to see the toys like i mean a check yeah i would have been fine but it was really fun to see um and and i'll have to pull the picture and and i'll again put that on instagram too but he actually i don't know if you saw this but on their their group livestock connections facebook page they put a picture of the first christmas they ever did that and then this year's and like you should see the difference like it's like five six seven times the amount of toys um it was like well first of all walmart it does is a disaster in december anyway you have four buggies of stuff and we were just literally just throwing stuff every single v tech toy that walmart has we bought multiple um and what was crazy is people were like judging us like as we were pushing the carts through walmart they're like i guess i underestimated how much toys two thousand dollars worth of toys is like i thought it would be like okay two buggies worth of toys it was you know two buggies look at i sound like i'm from the I'm revving off on you It was four Four like Overflowing.
Like toys falling off because it's a dump truck full of toys. Yeah, like Dan, I was like, we were trying to keep up with it at first. And Dan was like, okay, that's $100. And it was like. Half a buggy. Half a buggy. And I was like, no, Dan.
I was like, I need you to get five of each or three of each or whatever um so i think we counted the first buggy and then we're like all right so that's if that's that much we need four buggies yeah um and then we ended up having to go through the express checkout which was a nightmare right so again walmart christmas time slammed now we have four grocery carts full of toys so people judging us around us thinking we're spo're calling our kids I don't know if they thought like we knew about a deal or like because people are looking at us like why are you grabbing all those toys like are they on sale right like I think they thought we knew something that we didn't know I think they thought we were spoiling our kids because like multiple people like I'm gonna go with home with you like we had to like overly share this is a charity this is a charity like i felt very very judged like you know that family of course i'm in a pineapple i'm in my pineapple onesie which i was trying to stay away from you so like i'm in a pineapple suit where we got four carts of toys we're pushing it around walmart i think they had two like two normal lanes open and the rest were those stupid self checkout lanes stood in the self in the regular checkout for 30 minutes yeah so before i finally was like we're not doing this so i got in the self-checkout and then initially we had two carts and we were going to check those out and go back and get two more while i'm standing there i'm like you might as well just go get two more carts while i'm waiting so lacy leaves goes and fills up two more carts and then come back and i haven't even moved not even an inch i was like nope we're not doing this and i the people were like uh and i was like listen i will sit here and ring all of these up i mean we just we had to go this point it was pushing five o'clock right we were supposed to have dinner with friends at six i had not even show showered, y'all.
I still did not have any makeup on. Like, we had not stopped. We had not slept. We had not stopped. I was frustrated. Three hours. I think we got three hours of sleep. Yeah, we didn't even. We had not even had food. We had breakfast at 6.30, and that had been it. So, it was kind of a shit show. I mean, it ended up working out. The tree looked super full, and they were super happy. And to be fair, those were the nicest.
Once we finally did get up to the self-checkout, the nicest Walmart employees I've ever experienced in my life. Well, you know why? Why? Because he worked at Chick-fil-A. He kept saying, my pleasure, my pleasure. And I finally looked at him as I'm ringing up 100-something toys. Did you used to make a Chick-fil-A? And he was like, yeah.
I was like, you to be the nicest walmart employee i've ever met and you they don't deserve you you were that i mean like so shout out to charlotte north carolina walmart yeah wherever that was but somewhere near uh what's the name of that um carowinds carowinds um amusement park like five miles from there wherever you are thank you yeah um so anyway that was just sort of a shit show we we managed it we literally could not have put one more toy in the car it was completely full right um if you haven't seen our tiktoks where we showed please go back and look at it it's quite comical dan in this pineapple suit and like literally there's there's i had a real pineapple in my lap because we had bought one to take pictures and there was literally nowhere to put it.
Yeah, so Lacey drives a Kia Sorento and that Kia Sorento could not have held another. It was full, full. That's why I need a new car. You're not, yeah, okay. That's a whole other issue, y'all. That's an inside joke.
But but it was we made it through walmart in time we got back to the hotel and we unloaded all of those uh all of those toys uh and yes the christmas tree looked excellent and we made it in time um to go and meet up with our friends for yeah we had to um, very quickly, like kind of drop the toys off, ready um yeah very very quickly um we also did so shout out to jersey our couple from hedo they had shown um us at thanksgiving they had put out a bucket of fireball by their front door and said get your booster shots before you walked in is kind of like a joke on the covid booster shots we don't not being political just not being political but it was funny right you know it was funny um so we me loving fireball we had to do it um so we got a hundred syringes like the party syringes for jello shots and i filled me myself and i filled up a hundred of those and that was our shot so while all of this is going on we're getting ready he's decorating the room i'm also filling a hundred i think we're on tiktok live for a while there it was it was crazy town but nonetheless we did it we got no we went i got my makeup hair done we went down there is a mexican restaurant in the hotel um we had dinner with some really good friends that we've never played well i guess you played with her you big whore.
Yeah. But we just had dinner. We had to catch up. We hadn't seen them in a while. Probably since March. So that was pretty nice. And then it was like go time. It was time to get ready. Then it was party time, yeah.
So we went back up, put on my christmas wear and open the doors and open the doors and we had not really we had done some advertising that we were going to this i pretty much put it out on discord that was about the only ever advertising randomly talked about it online um y'all showed out we literally everywhere we turned somebody was like love your podcast Bye.
sometimes um y'all showed out we literally everywhere we turned somebody was like love your podcast love your tiktoks yeah it was it was quite humbling to say and there was at least two or three couples that this was their first event ever and they had heard about it through us on yeah i mean they said on the website sit 60 brand new couples their their first time ever swinging, ever anything, were there. That's a huge number. Yeah.
I mean, I'm not saying we took credit for even half of those, but there was a handful that we know. At least, yeah. It was a really good group. We passed out our shots. Yeah, I mean, we were. We went through them like that.
We vastly underest underestimated how far i think the shot room was supposed to go for two hours i think we were in there for about three hours talking to people and yeah so you know yeah like you said they went through all of the hundred syringes and then we had lacy had bought one of the uh fireball kegs If you haven't seen that yet. As I should. We should probably post a picture of that on Twitter, too. But it's like, what, like two and a half gallons or something of Fireball.
So we had to break it out. So we had brought that as kind of like a backup and some shot glasses. And so we broke that out and started filling up shot glasses. But it was good. So many people that knew us had seen our.
And also some people that we had never met, they our banner we was really good like networking we really got to talk to like a lot of good people and share our journey our story what we're doing it was really nice we eventually though made it down to the ballroom and it was party time yeah we kind of had to we had to shoot them out we were like guys come on we gotta go yeah everybody was like stuck in our room it was like a good 45 minutes after the ballroom party had started and we're like all right guys we gotta we gotta go get down to the party yeah like i was kind of looking forward to it because as much as i love being on tiktok and love doing the podcast and stuff it does become somewhat work doing these events and stuff.
Cause you are, you got to be a professional, you got to talk, you got to shake hands, you got to take pictures, you got to be kind of on point. And I was kind of looking forward to it. Cause I thought like we didn't really advertise it. Right. Yeah. I thought we could just like dance. We thought we could blend in. No. I was peeing. I was just in the potty, and some girl goes, I love your podcast. In the bathroom. In the bathroom. I was like, thanks. I mean, don't get me wrong.
Super grateful for this sport. A thousand percent. It's just, it's different. It's hard to explain. Well, I think it's all happened so fast that so fast that you know like we're not used to it at all and then like yeah yeah it's weird and strange i don't know how you know i guess maybe we sound arrogant by talking about it like this but it's just being very honest like very just um super grateful like so grateful can't even really describe how grateful but it's definitely been an used to. Yeah.
For sure. And it's, you know, it is interesting because we talked to like Christina and Mark about it. And it seems like we're all going through kind of the same thing at the same time. Like, you know, they used to go, you know, they're used to going to events and nobody knew who they were. You can act as crazy as you want. Yeah. Nobody cares. Relax and have fun. And now, now it's just a different now. It's just different, yeah. But not a bad way. No, not bad, different, just different. Yeah.
But we got to dance and have fun and dance with our friends, dance with some newbies. I took some pictures with some. Now, their DJ is on point. Oh, yeah, for sure. I don't know. I can't remember his name, but LSU.
I feel like it's the same one every time or at least it seems to be but yeah their music they're like that situation is always great um so much fun dance it was a thousand degrees in that ballroom but it always is it's just a lot of people yeah that's the yeah the down if there's a downside to those parties it's that stinking ballroom has the ac cannot keep up with but there's a hallway that you go in and kind of cool off yeah so you could like go in and you dance for like 20 minutes and then you get all sweaty and you're like go outside and like cool off a little bit and then go dance and then yeah but uh it's fun we had a good time um and then it was time to move up to the party floor um which is basically just an extension of the ballroom they'd have a dj up there right so around midnight everybody the ballroom kind of winds up and then everybody goes back upstairs again we ended up in our room we never really mean we we mingled a ton with people but not i don't know how to describe it i don't feel like usually we're like in and out of rooms and like and I feel like we were kind of stationary most of not would you agree with that yeah no you're right so normally pre-tik-tok podcast we were we'd hang out with our friends and then like we'd go around and like to our friends rooms and hang out this time yeah we ended up back in our room and then the flow of people coming in and talking to us started again and yeah we really just started to do that more of the whatever like like you said like work like socializing like talking to people talking about our podcast which was fun right yeah it was totally fun but we didn't do a lot of like normally we like dance in the hallway and like dance on other couples and that's kind of where you progress to going back to their room or your room and we just we didn't do that because we were in our room talking to people yeah i think like you were saying i think we spent a lot of the night talking about the podcast talking about tiktok talking about you know only fans and some of the other things we're you know answering because people are curious about all that stuff so many questions so yeah so yeah we didn't we had so much there's so much of that going on I don't think we really had time to find a couple and flirt with them and try to like yeah so we ended up just going to bed yeah like we had three hours of sleep and had not installed Monday we were right so I think it was around 1 30 2 o'clock I think me and you looked at each other and we're like I'm tired and you're like I'm tired and I'm like do you want to try to like because we did have some friends there and you know we did have asked me and i'm like hey do you want to go try to find our friends and see and you're like i just want to go to bed and i was like i was kind of hoping you'd say that because i just want to go to bed too yes nothing against them i mean i love them it has nothing to do with would have loved to connect it with them again it was just me and you were just done we were done yeah so yeah so we um and there was one couple that we had played with previously that i was like really really wanting to play with but we were just we were busy and exhausted and it just didn't happen so we had a full weekend of swinging and we didn't swing at least you.
Lacey didn't want to fuck me that night. Babe. Y'all. Full disclosure. You know we keep it real. Your girl was done. We got back in the room. Get back in the bed. And I think, you know, we kind of just like laid there. Like we were looking at our phone. Right. Like just decompressing for a little bit. And then Lacey was like out. And I was like, babe. As soon as I fell asleep. He's like, hey. I'm like, baby, we're going to fuck, right? And you're like. I'm like, are you Thank you.
for a little bit and then lacy was like out and i was like as soon as i fell asleep he's like hey i'm like baby you're we're gonna fuck right and you're like do we have to i was like yeah and you're like but i'm so tired i just fell asleep leave me alone and then he got like his feelings hurt because he's like you don't want to fuck me you know it's just no then i was like then I was like, come here, woman. We did. We ended up. Give me that booty. We ended up fucking.
But for a second there, he had it was a little bit. His feelings were a little bit hurt. But really and truly, I was exhausted. It had nothing to do with anything other than I was exhausted. I'm just not used to you telling me now. I know. I know. I just wait till you fall asleep. I don't get what I need anymore. You just take what you need. Consensually, of course. Consensually, always. Here's my prior consent. So really, I mean, that was...
I'm just waiting until you fall asleep and you don't get what I need. You just take what you need. Consensually, of course. Consensually, always. Here's my prior consent. So really, I mean, that was it. I mean, it was a crazy whirlwind of a weekend. I told Dan I would never plan two events in two states in two days. I gave you my word-ish. I don't want to say I told you so, but. I will try not to do that again. I fucking told you so. You did, and you were right.
It it was too much it was way too much but we did have fun we did have fun i'm glad we got christmas party taking trapeze honestly that was great sex i mean i don't know i had a good time there and then it was great to catch up with our friends sorry we fell asleep on you if if you were looking for us at the end of the night no we messaged them the next thing it's like i think they went to bed too it was all good yeah yeah so i mean like so i think this is like a really good um like dan and i always end up having sex at the end of the night and that's never just like i wasn't disappointed after the weekend that we didn't swing with anybody were you no no i think it's like you said it's just the way things went um but no definitely i mean i think that's like a honestly trapeze that was you were the hottest girl in the whole place so thank you baby i have no problem fucking the hottest girl but i mean like i think that's like a really good thing to tell people because there's been many a times that we've went to clubs and only fucked each other.
Like, Colette's in New Orleans, we only had sex with each other. And don't get me wrong. You do feel pressure sometimes, right? Well, we do because we have to come back and talk about it and there's nothing to talk about.
Well, I think even prior to TikTok and podcasts, when you pay money to go to an event and you get dressed up, everybody's hoping to find somebody and connect didn't have set you know i mean but like i think i think maybe some of the times we've made mistakes is because you're trying to force something that isn't there right i think it's like a good like somebody that's newer in the lifestyle we are experienced we've been doing this for a while and we we didn't we didn't close any deals all week right so it happens it's not the end of the world i think it is smart though if you you know if you go to a club if you go to a party whatever and you're looking around you're like you know what i'm not really feeling any of these couples here and you don't have to force something that happens is there's nothing wrong with just going and having fun with your significant other.
I love being watched honestly like that's one of the top things that I do love about swinging I mean don't get me wrong I enjoy like meeting new people and experiencing that but I love being watched and like putting on a show so I'm cool with it.
Yeah no and yeah we've we've honestly we've probably done that yeah equal to or more than we've played with people and usually when we play with people it's our friends it's the people we know it's people we have relationships with it's easy we don't have to like we make we make new friends and we eventually sometimes play with them you know we have played with people the first day we met them before. But that's the rare. You know, those are the one-offs.
Generally speaking, the couples we play with, they're friends of ours. We have a relationship with them. You know, not a poly relationship, but they're friends of ours that we've, you know. That when we go somewhere. Established trust with, yeah. So, yeah. And I think that's just our style. And we've talked about that.
about i mean we talked about that with hito uh we felt pressured to play with people and then we eventually were like no we're just gonna it's not we're not here to just hook up with as many couples as we can we're here to make some connections meet some cool people and have fun and i think you know once we get to that point and realize that that's what we want to do that's when we can relax and have the most fun yeah correct all right so moving on so that that pretty much wraps up last weekend um it was a crazy weekend it was a fun weekend um thank you uh to lifestyle connections and and everything you guys did for us uh everybody that donated to the toy drive thank you guys so much we appreciate you um and uh liz thank you for uh getting us the diamond club access and we look forward to seeing you next weekend i know right excited yeah so um moving along we knew this podcast probably wouldn't we didn't have any hot amazing juicy gossip or sex or anything so we knew we needed to kind of add something to the end of this so i went to my snapchat um like i usually do and say hey guys we have a little bit of time at the end of our podcast tell me what you want us to answer like a quick little q a um thought i'd do you know three four or five questions maybe tops um and i was shocked to say the least.
Every single person said, talk to me about how to be in the lifestyle, but remain private. And what's crazy is I even said, I'll shout out your name, you know, like, cause we've done that in the past. We're like Meg 227 or Meg, you know, we won't even say, ask this question.
And people were like, here's my question, but but please don't use my name and i'm like damn makes me it made me feel like i was like invading people's privacy and i was like no no no i won't use your name if you don't want me to but overwhelmingly people wanted to know how to be in the lifestyle but no one knows yeah which is it's an interesting question and i think it's interesting for us because you know we've been in the lifestyle for seven years and it's only been the last you know whatever eight months ten months whatever it's been now uh that we've been public with it and it's never been discretion is never like if i said you know like oh i'm worried about becoming a swinger because i'm worried that you know people will out me or they won't be discreet like that's never really an issue like so i went back to my snapchat because like you know i was driving to dan's and like i was pondering these questions and i was like so why are y'all asking this is it because dan and i and christina mark and all the other swing talk creators are so public and we are sharing our journey of being public like with our careers and our families like the scrutiny that we are facing is that why like have we created a problem like to we made people feel like being public like this requirement or like a requirement and like if you go public this is all the bad things that are going to happen so like i even went back and asked that question and overwhelmingly got well no i'm just concerned about my job and my career it would ruin my career you know so anyway long story short we took some of those questions and we have kind of came up with some talking points to just have it.
Me and Dan are just going to have an open conversation about some of these and just kind of talk about. Yeah. So I think bottom line up front for everybody that's listening, for everybody that asks these questions, you 100 percent can be in this lifestyle and be discreet about it. Right.
100 percentreet our until we posted our first tiktok no one had a clue nobody that we were swingers now like my hairdresser and like my best friends were like might have been curious oh well i get it that makes sense but nobody was like i think they only see our swingers you know like whispering behind our back never um the thing about it is is like we never talked about it in public you know like no if you don't want people to know you don't talk about it yeah and you know and i've said this i don't know how many times now but but swingers it really is fight club right like the first rule of being a swinger is you don't talk about being a swinger uh or you don't talk about you know the people that you know are so you know people are very protective of the lifestyle um and nobody would call somebody out no like i've seen like on tinder locally in my community like a couple of i'm gonna say a few couples that if people knew that that's what they were looking for, like people's jaw would drop.
But I'm not going to tell anybody about that. Just like I've seen people from my hometown that have saw us on there, and they're not going out and telling people, I saw Lacey and Dan on Tinder. It's just almost like an unspoken rule. It's just not something that you do. Yeah. But the caveat that there's a difference between being in the lifestyle and being on TikTok and being on OnlyFans. Huge difference. And being on all these other social media platforms.
We have multiple friends that are in the lifestyle that we don't ever mention their names like or if we do we change their names we don't give any identifying factors like their privacy is very very important to us they have grandchildren and they have careers and like like i would be devastated if i messed up and out with somebody like devastated right so yeah so but if you start posting swing talk videos with you and your wife or you and your husband uh you know and using that swing talk tag people you know from our personal experience episode one or two whichever one it is people are going to find out so that's that the difference.
You can totally be in the lifestyle. We know couples that have been in the lifestyle 20, 30 plus years. Nobody knows. Nobody knows. They've been able to keep it under wraps. But there's a difference between TikTok and the lifestyle as far as outing yourself. Correct. And there's ways to protect yourself. So we're just going to talk about like a few talking points. So somebody asked me about NDAs. Have we ever been asked to sign one? Right, which is a non-disclosure agreement.
And I think this question comes up because what's that TV show? You on Netflix, it was a high-profile couple. They were like a fancier couple in a rich neighborhood.
This is like if Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie were swingers that they might have you sign up so in that they did have an NDA um I have never been asked to sign one nor nor have I ever has it ever even been mentioned that I've never even heard of anybody been asked no yeah so again yeah been in the lifestyle for seven years played you know with a lot of couples as a single you know now with lacy nobody has ever even mentioned an nba it's not a thing that exists commonly in the lifestyle now are there couples that maybe ask for that because because they're in some kind of high profile situation and they feel like they need that maybe i'm sure there is i'm sure there is yeah but that being said we've also we've met quite a few high profile couples correct that are in positions that maybe they should be asking for that uh and they never did or mentioned it or so it is pretty an unwritten rule that you keep people's identities private in this lifestyle.
Nobody needs to sign paperwork to do that. I've never heard of too many people having problems with swingers getting in fights and then outing each other on the internet. That's just people just don't do it. Yeah, I mean maybe in some circles I've just never personally been involved.
Also, a lot of people asking about how do you maintain a successful career and this finger like honestly until i exposed myself on tiktok nobody had the clue at my company and like people like how do you keep your work from knowing you don't fuck a couple on saturday night and go to work on monday and talk about That's how you don't, you don't tell anybody. I know that might be hard because sometimes you'll want to be like, Oh my God, guess what idea?
And I guess it's pretty, you know, so like we talk about SLS and SDC and some of these swinger dating websites. Most of the people that post pictures on those websites don't show their face. Correct. And then there's ways to lock pictures of your face.
face and then like if you start talking to a couple and feel comfortable with them you can open those pictures to them but there's no real good way to like peruse these websites and see who's on there you know i mean like yeah now you know maybe if your mom saw the picture of you with your face cut off like might she know that's you or maybe a co-worker might But know but if your co-worker is on there and your mom is on there well they're also in the lifestyle yeah um and that being said we have talked to couples that have zero pictures and and because you know they won't they'll put in their profile something like we'll send you pictures on upon request but because of privacy concerns we don't post any you know like you're going to have a that's going to make it difficult more difficult you know a couples aren't gonna message you just because you don't have any pictures so that's gonna make it more difficult for you but there there are ways to work around that so that yeah if you don't want any pictures of you there's ways yeah i mean it's just like i think a good rule is up if you don't want anyone to know don't tell anyone like there are times like i said there's times when you dan are like holy what did we just do?
But we can only talk about it with each other. We can't tell anybody. Now we can tell all of you. Yes, now we can tell all of you. And that's something that you just kind of learn. You learn to be private. You learn to not talk about it. And it just becomes what you do. And, you know, so I've also got a lot of things like my wife's a teacher. My husband's a pastor. I don't know. And it just becomes what you do.
And, you know, so I've also got a lot of things like my wife's a teacher, my husband's a pastor, you know, she's a nurse, he's a cop, he can't, you know, there are ways that you can still swing and do all of these things. However, if you are that concerned that someone is going to see you, then maybe you shouldn't swing locally. Dan and I primarily swing when we travel. We've only ever played with two couples and it was really at the same time locally. If we have a free weekend, we go somewhere.
yeah if it if you know if you are in a small rural community and you are you know it and you want to be disc, the best way to do that is probably travel outside of your community to do lifestyle type events. And even your city and state, you don't have to put it where you actually are. I've met multiple couples that are, they put it to the next biggest metropolitan city.
And then once you start chatting with them and they feel comfortable, they're like, well like well actually we're an hour outside of town or wherever um so there's all of those things um also people are very concerned about running into someone at a club i've personally never ran into anybody that i've known have you no i've never had that happen so either um but if they're there and you're there you're probably there for this now i have heard of that happening I have too had that happen.
I think so either. But if they're there and you're there, you're probably there for this. Now, I have heard of that happening. I have too. So, like, I've never heard of anybody, you know, signing an NDA. I have heard of people running into coworkers, running into bosses, running into family members.
The first time I ever went to Minaj, I was with an ex-boyfriend and he saw somebody that he knew from high school and it was like hey how are you you know like it was like a little bit of an awkward conversation but like everybody knew why everybody was there and it was not a big deal you know we just kind of like it's kind of like a ha ha ha we're here it's fight club yeah nobody's gonna talk about it um again that, and we were two hours away from our hometown so um but again i mean like just travel and i i get that a lot of people especially if you have small kids which is another question that we received how do you swing with small kids um i get that going away from a weekend is not it's not easy um and it might be something that you can only do a few times a year I mean like we said we only swing about once a month typically so if you think about it if you do it like once a quarter that's four times I mean that's still fun hell we talk about some of our experiences for months and months after yeah now I will say so you know the swinging with kids things uh me and lacy choose not to do anything at our house especially you know if the kids were you know our home and things like that we don't do a lot locally anyway right now i will say i we do have experiences with couples that have small children that have good friends that they've been friends with for a long time they might you know have friends over for a family barbecue wait till the little the kids go to sleep and then you know slip into the room and lock the door right and learn something like that and you know i get that's not for everybody but at the same you know like you have sex in your house every night with your kids you know like you know if they were older kids probably you don't want to do that but little you know young babies and things like that that's doable and i even actually reached out to a friend to try to get more insight in that they didn't we hadn't been able to connect but i do know that they rely on grandparents and stuff often they actually do a they are actually very active in law and travel quite often um they just plan around it they they don't do a ton of they do a lot of traveling but i think they do play locally so it's probably easier to set up they go with the grandparents or whatever yeah um or hire a babysitter i know they do hire some babysitters um and i've even heard of some uh if you listen to um that next door, they have small children.
We do love them. They're on my bucket list. If you hear me, hey, what's up? Okay. Messages on Instagram. Sorry. That is, sorry. That was a shameless plug. We need to do TikToks.
We're gonna we're gonna keep making tiktoks until the couple next door messages i know like we will hover on a plane and come to you like whoa what i just they're like famous to me yeah which is like really funny because they have a podcast we have but anyway so they um they do have small children if you listen to their podcast they get babysitters. And they have to be very particular about their time.
They like, the party has to start at a certain, like the, when I say party, I mean the like sex. Because they have to be home. Because they got to be home by a certain time. And they actually, she will wear like a regular dress out the door and then change into whatever she's wearing.
So, I mean, to make it work with small children so i know it's possible yeah it's just a matter of how bad you want to do it and like the ways you do it but i just i really hope i was really taken back by all the privacy questions i really hope that like us going private has not freaked the fuck everybody out. Public. Oh yeah. Sorry. I said that wrong.
I hope we haven't freaked everybody out going public because yes, we currently are going through some stuff like with my work and just with life and our, you know, Dan's older children finding out and just, but like, I'll be honest with you overall, everyone that has found out has been extremely kind. Yeah.
I would say, you say you know and again we're not encouraging people to come out of the closet but like I've been surprised at how accepting everybody has been so far yeah and if you go back and listen to one of our first few podcasts where I talk about how scared I was and how devastated I was when people found out and now we're i guess that was probably may it's december now so we're we're a good almost full year pushing it into this and i wouldn't go back like it's been hard there's some been some really awkward uncomfortable pleasurable conversations but i've never felt more alive and more free in my life.
Yeah. In me. I've never felt more me. Yeah. No, and it's, I think, you know, it's one of those, you always, it's always a worse in your head, you know what I mean? Oh, for sure.
Like when you're thinking about something bad happening, you're thinking worst case scenario and every you know everybody's gonna hate me and it's you know like you're thinking all of the terrible things and then when it actually happens it's like well that kind of sucked but it really wasn't that bad no we've also been very fortunate that our families have been very accepting very loving very understanding and i know not everybody has that that same situation.
Dan's children have been wonderful finding out. It's like a joke now. It is a joke now. I felt like it's kind of helped our relationship to be super honest with you. What do you think? In some ways, yeah. Yeah. So, I don't know. I wouldn't go back.
and i would say if you are passionate about the lifestyle and this is something that you absolutely want to do you can do it you might if you really are that worried about privacy you may have to jump through some hoops and um travel and and be super discreet but it can it can be done if that's something that you genuinely want to do it can happen so so yeah yeah um so i think we take this last like five minutes we got and maybe talk about some of our upcoming events and plans that work so for anybody that doesn't know we are planning in the current planning stages of a Swing Talk takeover of Secrets Resort, Secrets Hideaway Resort in Kissimmee, Florida, which is just outside of Orlando.
So we're going to have the entire crew there. TikTok girl Christina, Malia, Life of Spice, Kylie.
Who i missing spencer spencer nadine and then us that's six yeah yeah uh so that's everybody yeah and now you know we're in conversation with um frederick that's his name right the owner and his wife barbie they're super great um you know working with them getting all this lined up honestly you know we're sorry secrets we should have started planning this six months out not not like true lacy and damn fashion it's last minute not not a month out with two of those weeks being christmas and new years um but but they've been very man they've been so accommodating um and then so i guess as inspiration from the Lifestyle Connectionist group, we've decided to do charity events in coordination with our swinger events, essentially, right?
Correct. So for Secrets, we found a, an organization called Help Now, and they are a woman's, uh, women and children sheltered for people that are, are suffering from domestic violence.
and they are a woman's uh women and children's sheltered for people that are are suffering from domestic violence and they are about uh 20 minutes from secrets so it's a local charity it's a local shelter um you know they're they're you know pretty much run off donation based you know they don't have a bunch of government funding they're not a big charity uh so we're gonna try to find charities like this everywhere we go, um, to try to just make a difference.
And, you know, having this voice, having all you guys that are listening to us, uh, and then on Tik TOK, and then, you know, it's not just us, it's the rest of the swing talk crew and all their followers. Uh, we're going to try to use you guys to do, to do some good. So we'd appreciate your support with that.
If you go to our websites, uh, the swing theswingnation.net you will find everything out you can go to their website read about what what help now does um read about what they need but we'll be collecting uh donations through venmo through cash app we started a gofundme page yeah since most of us are traveling or flying um they they do need items but realistically it's just super hard for us to get all those items to them so we will present them with a check with everything that's been raised at the end so we would really appreciate your support we are just trying to show um a different side of swingers when you think of swingers you think of like parties and drugs and orgies and And we want to show that we are upstanding citizens and here to help our community.
Yeah, and, you know, it's very common for swinger parties to try to do stuff, you know, like to raise money for things. So we're definitely taking a page from Lifestyle Connections book. Yes, thank you for the inspiration. We're going to continue to do that. I do think it lines up perfectly with our message that we want to push back against the stigmas. We want to shed a positive light on this lifestyle. We want to show people that swingers are about more than just sex. We love sex.
Don't get me wrong. I love dirty, naughty sex. But I can have sex and raise money like nobody's business. Yes, especially domestic. Women that have fled their homes because they're in bad situations I'm going to go ahead and see you next time.
dirty naughty sex have sex and raise money like everybody's business but yes especially domestic you know women that have fled their homes um because they're in bad situations and ended up in a you know essentially a homeless shelter at you know um we're we support that we're we're all about that and um we'd appreciate it if you guys helped us help them and the dates for our secret ship secret trip is a is January 14th through the 17th.
So we would love as many people to come and meet us and meet the whole crew. The rooms are selling out really quickly. So if you know you want to go, I would hop on there. Husbands, if you need a Christmas gift for your wife, you can book a trip.
So far, there's a lot of people saying they're going or um we're even looking at hotel overflow so if that's something that you know you want to do i suggest hopping on there we'll link their website in the show notes so you can have a direct link to them um so yeah that's that's coming up but before then we are going back to trapeze atlanta on december 17th and 18th it is a friend's milestone birthday so it is all about her it's her big day however we will be there so if you are there by all means please say hello please give us a hug right so that'll be tomorrow and the next day oh yeah yeah yes come out thursday so yeah so friday and saturday of this week we will we will be there so if you are there if you are already planning to come, please, yeah.
If you're hearing this podcast. Yes, come out Thursday. So, yeah. So, Friday and Saturday of this week, we will be there. So, if you are there, if you are already planning to come, please say hello. But we are celebrating our friend's birthday. So, we want it to be all about her. Absolutely. I'm going to make it all about her. If you know what I mean. So, that's really our next two events. And then I'm having surgery. Surgery.
i don't know we'll probably do something in march and then we're looking at naughty new orleans in july and then uh front report swears we're talking about doing a pod bash i think that's like next october so i mean we got lots of things in the works for uh 2022 so let me just say real quick i know we're running out of time but people are gonna be like oh my god what kind of surgery are you having oh let me just let me just very quickly um my implants are 16 years old if you've seen my only fans you're probably like what you have big boobs because that's what i get what everybody says that's what everybody says but i do i got implants at 21 when I was a Hooters girl, you know, trying to get those tips.
So I've always been this way. Yeah. So it's time. They're 16 years old. It's time for out with the old and with the new. So we're just taking February off, basically, for me to have that done. So March Lacey 2.0 will be revealed.
Lacey 2.0.0 I guess technically so yeah so we're just going to take February just to kind of let me heal and relax and then we'll be back out there in March so but we'll be here on Thursdays we'll still do our podcast and everything we'll probably record one or two ahead of time so that way i can rest that week but yeah we'll we'll be here all right guys okay that's it that's all we got yeah we appreciate honestly we you know with everything that we've been doing you guys coming out and showing up it's it's been awe-inspiring we are most appreciative so yeah i mean i know we kind of said that the hotel takeover was kind of hard.
But the truth is we wouldn't trade it for what we're doing. It's so beneficial. It makes me feel so good to know that we are helping people and just kind of spreading awareness. So, thank you. Yep. Keep up the good work. I'll trade sex with strangers any day.
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