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Hey there, pineapple people, and welcome to the swing nation podcast we are your hosts northern guy and southern girl and we are back with another full length episode of the swing nation podcast yes uh just returned from bliss cruise yeah uh and this is going to be, I'm assuming, part one of at least two, if not three, of our Bliss Cruise. Yeah, it was quite the... Experience. Yeah, it was. We, just a little sneak peek, we named it the... The Anal Cruise. The Anal cruise.
This is the anal cruise. Mm hmm. Uh, yeah. So if you remember that way back, you know, in February, yeah, we went on our last cruise. Uh, it was not the best experience for us. Um, the weather was bad the first two days. Uh, and then I got sick. Yeah. And it was only a four day cruise. So it's like bad weather day one, everybody was seasick day two, a little bit better weather, but still too cold. And then day three, Dan gets sick and it's, it's all downhill from there. Yeah.
So like when we got off the February ship, we were like, at least we have April, which we honestly felt bad for a lot of our friends had never been on Bliss and chose that one to go because it was a little bit more affordable. It was only four nights, so it's easier to get away when you have kids. So we really hated that their experience was that rough. I mean, we didn't have a great time. It was just not our best. We were not at our best. So we were very excited to go into April.
And honestly, we totally redeemed ourselves.
Yeah then if you want to go way back in time the cruise before the april cruise was the november of last year bliss cruise where lacy forgot her medicine and we kind of the first few days of that were a great cruise but the ending was a little rough it was and so we have had not the great bliss experiences the last two cruises no honestly after february i was like maybe we're just not like maybe the cruises in our even though we love them it just it seemed like every time we try to do it it just it wasn't working and so honestly a couple times in february i was like maybe this't.
Maybe we aren't cruise people. Maybe not. Maybe we're not swinger cruise type people. Yeah. And so I was excited to go into this, but honestly, we didn't put a lot of pressure on us and maybe that's why it ended up. We totally redeemed ourselves. It ended up being amazing, but maybe that's why it turned out being really good.
I don't, I don't know want to read something before we jump this is a little sidetrack but before we jump into it because like one of the nights on the cruise i'm you know i'm a redditor i stalk reddit y'all know that yeah and i have somebody had posted like a snapchat a snap snap shot of you know some some of the major podcast. And I want to read to you, shout out to Angela on Reddit. Oh, God. We can never figure out if she hates us or if she likes us. She flip-flops.
She flip-flops, which I think I like that because she's neutral. I guess she's honest. Yeah. Sometimes brutally. So this was her response. So as the week went on, this was playing in my head. And so, like, this is, I don't think there's ever been a more honest review of our podcast. It's like three sentences.
So, listen, it says, Swing Nation, last Thursday, Lacey goes to Secrets, complains about the drive, doesn't take her meds, eats at the Italian restaurant next door, gets drunk again, films some TikToks, fucks a couple who helped her with her luggage, and complains there's not enough time for orgies when Dan DJs. Is there a pattern here? Isn't that perfect? Yeah. Is the pattern you getting drunk or you getting drunk and complaining? And forgetting my medicine. I always complain.
So anyway, yes, Angela, you summed it up. The same things happen here. I'm usually either hungry, horny. I think somebody commented that. Listen, if I'm going to be feeling a way, I'm going to tell you. And the good thing is this is our podcast, so I can say the things that I want to say. She has said things. She's criticized us pretty harshly a lot over the years. But a lot of times it's right on. She's said some nice things, too.
So I don't know what side she's on but uh i don't know but she knows that is very true i'm always bitching about the drive i get drunk i forget my medicine yeah yeah welcome to our life yeah oh okay to dance life all right so going into april cruise we have this almost um bad taste in our mouth about the last two cruises and so you know that's kind of where we walk into this now another thing i think is worth mentioning I'm not going to speculate here because i don't know for sure so this is dan speculating right this is my thoughts and opinions i have no actual facts to go on okay um but there was a lot of industry people on this cruise that aren't normally on a Bliss cruise.
Yeah. My suspicion is because this cruise didn't sell out. Yeah. I don't know that to be true or not true. That's my suspicion. A lot of them were added last minute. And even some of them, we didn't even know we're going to be on it until we got on the ship. It was sort of like a running joke that if the ship went down, the lifestyle was fucked.
Because basically most everyone that has a play in the lifestyle business wise was on the ship right and i only bring that up because that changed a little bit of the dynamic of this cruise so we went into it um we only brought i think what was it eight couples on this cruise besides us yeah so we were going into it thinking and then we scheduled like one or two things of content and when i say content i don't mean only fans content i'm talking about like interview we did an interview with malcolm we did some tours of the playroom and stuff we you know normal stuff we didn't know only fans but uh compared to what our normal workload is because you had said i did too much in the last cruise and i felt the same that we did too much we had tried to go a little lighter on this yeah i think some of the reason i think february for me didn't go well is i felt like going into it we there was a lot on my plate and so i was internally panicking before there was any reason to panic so i think that kind of derailed me from the beginning so i was happy that this time there wasn't we did have our normal you know we work closely with bliss as far as like bringing you behind the scenes and stuff and then my normal TikToks that I make in the room and all of that so like we had all of that planned but outside of that there wasn't a whole lot but knowing that there was so many industry people there was also another thing to think of when we were going in like we needed to be on our best behavior we can't be showing our ass in front of all these people Dan is a little under the weather he has a swinger flu or something we don't know but his voice is a little shot so we're i'm going to try to carry most of the podcast so if you're wondering why i'm doing most of the talking we appreciate you okay so what i was going to say is there was a lot of people on this cruise industry type people and i'll name some uh i'm not going to name them all i'll probably forget some but uh there was bob hannaford from naughty events so naughty new orleans there was um james uh and carmen and carmen from secrets uh so they're owners part owners i don't i don't know exactly how secrets is split up and his son jr about james jr uh was on the cruise um and then there was john and jackie melfi john and jackie melfi from colette uh our partner and ep bobby who uh we're also partnered with in a in a marketing called momentum marketing uh firm uh there was representations from sdc there was representation from sls slash swing.com um caliente caliente representation uh the sanctuary the owners of the sanctuary were there right and then plus all the normal um all the different travel agencies and stuff that are on most bliss cruises and there's probably other club owners and other group organizers that were on the cruise that i don't know or didn't you know interact with personally test from naughty i'm sorry ncsf yeah from ncsf was there so yeah there was a good amount of people there right uh which is not usual for a bliss cruise so usually when we you know when you have industry come together that happens every year at naughty new orleans um and not to say a lot of industry people go on bliss cruise um but not not this many and not kind of organized in the way that it was in this cruise uh so that was you know we learned about that just like the week before going on the cruise days before going on the cruise so we're like oh this is this is interesting okay all right so that's kind of i think a fair foreshadowing yeah of uh this cruise kind of give you a scenario what we were walking into all right so now let's get into what actually happened lacy was hungry yes lacy was morning no i did just kidding.
Okay, so we left. So we got on the ship on Sunday. So we drove, obviously, we all know I hate that, but we're not going to get into that. So we left Friday night and drove like four or five hours Friday night. I guess another thing that we didn't mention is we had secrets.
weeks two weeks before this yeah it was a pretty quick flip coming back from secrets and then going straight to bliss yeah like a week and a half yeah so um so we left friday drove you know a couple of hours slept it's about a 12 hour drive so we can get you know half done that's ideal so we did that and then we got up saturday morning and drove the rest of the way in we got to fort lauderdale about 4 30 and we immediately went in and saw i know my status which if you don't know they are an sti std testing company that we work closely with a friend and sponsor of the podcast yeah yes we've made great friendships with them so really we were not doing any we weren't getting tested we weren't we were just seeing them for because we were excited to see them then they were there so we went hug their neck super excited they partnered with bliss so they do like a bliss panel they were very busy so that we love to see that we love to hear that so excited for them they were pretty busy but it was time they were basically wrapping up but we did get to hug their necks and say hello and then and then after that we went to the topless travel meeting if you don't know we are a sub affiliate of topless travels.
So when you book your bliss cruise with us, you actually are also booking with topless travel. So if you go on a bliss cruise or Hedo or whatever it is, you get the benefits of booking with us as well as benefits of booking with topless. And just like side note, I met hundreds of people on the bliss cruise that We're like, we're here because of you, but we only brought eight couples on the cruise with us. Yeah.
So I would say if you've Googled Bliss and found this podcast, please use our link, swingerssociety.net, and book with us. You get an extra swag bag. You get to be in a group chat with us.
Sometimes the group are more lively than others it's kind of hit or miss you don't know but we're definitely there we do pre-cruise zoom calls so we try really hard to give you something and you don't pay any more money so yeah but it benefits us it helps cover our costs to go so we greatly appreciate it and there's so many people that we meet that are there because of us but did not use our link so anyway shameless plug so we went to the topless travel meeting which is nice you know like party mark frisky business all of the uh rachel's is it not rascals anymore it's rachel's rebels maybe she's in there so a lot of people that you see in all of the topless they're all there so that was lovely after that we had we're hungry so we went to outback and um ate and i had one drink not drunk walked right out of outback and completely busted my ass in front of a couple well and i thought it was just like a random couple going to outback no they were like you love your podcast yeah or you should have made a tick tock out of that they said something so embarrassing honestly i'm lucky i didn't really hurt myself because i hit pretty hard and you know if you've listened to the podcast for a while you know that lacy tends to hurt herself uh in and around bliss cruises She tends to have to go to the medical bay.
Yeah on board bliss cruise so Day one when we arrived to the hotel then go eat and we're walking out of the restaurant and Lacey Falls On the pavement.
I'm immediately thinking oh my gosh Is she like breaks her ankle or twist her leg i got very lucky and i had so i had platform flip-flops on and i guess i just stepped off right i was not drunk at all i had a full meal and one drink i wasn't i think it was just the way i stepped somehow i did not break any skin did not break any bones i got very lucky i definitely was sore the next day and i even saw that couple a couple times on the cruise and they were so sweet they were like i'm shocked you hit so hard i mean i i don't know but you did give yourself a couple good bruises yes of course it's not a swinger party you survived yeah so after that we went back so we stayed at the embassy suites there in fort lauderdale that tends to be one of the main hotels for bliss cruise um it's kind of the topless travel hotel that's where they have their pre-cruise meet and greet so we usually stay there and it's a great hotel it's kind of right in the middle of everything lots of food lots if you forgot anything there's pretty much everything close by and so we um we got ready so we got the theme is like i don't know there's not a theme it's it's like cocktail hour yeah you know so you'll see people and everything from like cocktail dresses to like slacks and a decent shirt yeah i just wore like a little black dress and dan wore some jeans and a black button-up simple it was a great party i felt like it um it died off earlier than it normally does normally we like shut it down at 12 30 and it definitely seemed like it was a little bit like yeah so i can remember if you think back to the february cruise and the february cruise pre-party i can remember during the plea the pre-cruise party that that pre-party was wild and like you said there was a a crowd in there that stayed all the way to two o'clock i mean that club was pretty well it's only to 12 30 baby oh anyway yeah yeah but i remember there was energy all the way till they shut the music off and i can remember thinking on the last cruise oh my goodness the energy this is probably the the wildest pre-party we've ever done for i think because like 1100 people on the february cruise were there was their first bliss cruise it also was a much younger crowd yeah i think so i really think that had to do with it i mean at some point there was very little people on the dance floor so we walked out and just stood out there and just talked to people which we met some like great people people that weren't even going on the bliss cruise they were just just hanging out.
They came to the party because they were local. I mean, I had a great time. The energy was definitely not like February, but still fun. Party Mark tried to get us to go to Trapeze, Fort Lauderdale, which honestly, I wanted to go. They were going to go at 1230.
And then Trapeze is open until 4, so you still could get a couple hours originally i was like yeah we're going at some point i was like maybe not yeah so this is what happened you probably had had a few drinks at this point and so you promised party mark and dj frisky that you were going to go yeah i did not want to go no and um miss frisky did not want to go yeah and then so i told her well if you go i'll go yeah and so me and her made a pact that if if if one was going to go the other was going to go well then we go up to the room to change or whatever right before we're supposed to leave and you're like baby i'm actually tired and i just want to go to bed in my head i'm thinking well that's what i've been trying to say all night long is that going out and partying especially with party mark he has a little bit of a reputation uh that precedes him i'm like i do not want to get on the ship already hung over and not feeling well no it was a smart decision yeah so we ended up not so you backed out and then i see miss frisky the next day on the bliss cruise and she don't want to even want to talk to me she's like you promised me she's like i will never trust you again like she was mad at me she was mad yeah so we went back to the room and we were hungry so i ordered us door dash ihop and because it was not like a hotel taker but they could bring it to your door you know they didn't have to drop it at the front desk so while we waited on our food um we had sex and this is where the term anal cruise started so we had anal sex and you came in my ass well so i think to give the full yeah you want to, but this is the first time the week leading up to bliss cruise.
Right. So just a few days before this party, we were fucking, you know, just at home on a random Wednesday night, we're having sex. And you like to get out your Hitachi wand, you know, when you're, when you're, when we're fucking each other, your magic wand, whatever they're calling it these days. And you like to use that while I fuck you. Well, you're doing that.
And then out of nowhere of nowhere you're like put it in my ass and i was like oh okay and so i did that and and when i did that you had an orgasm that apparently a type of orgasm you've maybe not experienced before it was different i don't know it was different uh i felt like i could move my body i was so relaxed but you so you came in my ass so just for context we have had some anal sex in the past i don't actually had some anal sex with like daddy mike quite me and you have had anal sex maybe twice before yeah for before this period Yeshua had never came in my ass.
No one had ever. It was a little virgin to come ass. So.
sex maybe twice before yeah before this period of time but you had never came in my ass no one had ever my it was a little virgin to come ass so we're fucking i come you come in my ass this is like maybe three or four days before before blitzker yeah so now all of a sudden i'm a changed woman this is like immediately after you were like i don't know what that was but we're doing but i liked it and i want to figure out how to be able to do that more yeah so i think we even tried like one other time before we left for the cruise it didn't work didn't work i couldn't get like relaxed enough so now now we you know we're on the cruise we had had a couple drinks i was relaxed i had my wands and then so you fucked my ass and i came which again like a whole i feel like a whole new world has been over i i see i see the world in color now yeah and people listening are going to be like looking at their wife and they're going to be like see i've been trying to get lacy to have anal sex with me since we met each other it was like a me thing like i had and i don't even know i couldn't even tell you the wand definitely helps me i have to get to like a certain level of like turned up like it kind of reminds i wasn't on any kind of gummies i can't take them because i'm drug tested for adhd medicine anymore but it kind of reminds me of like when you're on like a gummy and you're like just very relaxed and just kind of like i don't sort of kind of like if i could get my body to that stage where i can let you give it to me and then i can take it but i have to get there first and i i can't really predict when that's going to happen but it ended up happening quite a bit on this group let's just say that so anyway we had anal sex you came in my ass then we ate our i-hop went to bed and went to bed and it was glorious it was so much better than going to trap you so that was our that was our saturday night we haven't even got on this so this is how like we're going into the cruise so we're in a really really good spot yeah yeah i mean we're having butt sex i mean it doesn't get life doesn't get much better than that right so we get up sunday morning again we're not in any rush to get on the ship i know some people you know they get to do like one or two lifestyle things a year and they are ready to go they're on that ship in their bathing suit at the pool the moment they can that's not us we take our time we got on about 1 30 we ended up having to go to cbs like right before and get a couple of last minute things we got on the ship about 1 30 checked into our muster station we went to our room we kind of we carried on one bag so we dropped that bag went and grabbed some lunch and then we came back and we packed the swag bags which again we only had like eight so it was pretty simple so i packed the bags while you posted a tech talk yeah one thing on this ship that was very confusing is normally on a cruise the room numbers are like a hotel room right it's on the first floor it's one one two one two one one two one one three one four right and then two and then three and four right on this cruise there were certain floors like we were on the 11th deck whatever you call it yeah but our room number was 15 something it was very confusing there was two or three decks that had these extra numbers yeah and i don't know why luckily we only had eight bags and we did it together because if i had to do that on my own i would have never figured it out yeah there was two or three bags where we had to like figure out because the numbers were like 15 16 we had to figure out like what deck has 16 numbers on it we ended up doing it though it wasn't as hard as we thought it was but it was a little confusing so we went to um the pool after we delivered our swag bags we didn't put bring our bathing suits like in our carry-on so they were our bathing suits hadn't been delivered so we just kind of like went in our clothes and we kind of walked you know walked around kind of checked everything out and it looked like it was about to rain so we went to the top deck and i made a tick tock for dan to post just saying you know like as the ship was leaving port you know we're leaving excited to be here and then after that um we went in and kind of rested because we had to be um ready by like seven to do tick tocks in the solarium so by this point it's like five or so so by the time we got in and i got ready it was basically time so one of the benefits of working closely with bliss is they give us the opportunity to go into the playrooms before they open to the public and film so a lot of what you see behind the scenes is actually before they open and so we'll go in there real quick film do a tour film a couple tiktoks just so that way people can actually see what they're getting themselves into before they book a bliss cruise and we're super grateful for that we're happy that those those videos always do really well and i think it you know it's we've been trying to do this for a while and i think when we first started doing this there was a lot of pushback to it but more and, we're experiencing where clubs want this kind of content to be able to put up on their website and stuff like that.
For sure. So on this night, we did TikToks in the Solarium, which if you don't know, is usually on like a cruise ship. It's like the 18 plus or 21 plus type of area. It's very spa-like, usually glass ceilings, a swimming pool hot tubs they basically just make that into a playroom so they um they kind of close it off and they put beds and stuff like that in there and so it's actually a really neat playroom we yeah the solarium play rooms on bliss cruise are probably my favorite playrooms.
Specifically, this ship had a very, the way the, you know, the solarium on the last ship was cool because it had like this tropical kind of vibe. But it was smaller. It was better decorated, but not as much space. This one didn't have all the crazy jungle stuff in it, but it had a good amount of room. Yeah. Specifically, it had those nice big orgy bed spaces. Which we love. Which is our favorite. So this night was naughty, nautical, which I loved. We had never done any kind of nautical type.
And we've done like pilot. I'm trying to think. We did something with mermaids that a lot of people did. Like under the sea. Yeah. And a lot of people did like the sailor type thing. But I did mermaids. But this is the first time we've ever done this theme. The funny thing is Dan and half of the ship had the same shirt on. Literally half of the ship. I mean, all of us wives were on the same page, basically. It was really funny.
Maybe you had to be there, but every time we'd walk, there would be like another. It was like, hey. We even at one point got a picture of like 10 guys together. Obviously, we can't share it because. They're not public people. They're not public. But there is one that maybe Dan can share Thursday when this comes out of him, James, the owner of Secrets, and Russell, the owner of Bliss. And we all have the same shirt. Yeah, it was pretty cute. Now, another funny.
So partly why that's so funny is because Lacey, for this night, had gone on Etsy and found a girl to, make her this probably one-off, you know, one-of-a-kind. It's not one-of-a-kind. One-of-five or something? Well, no, it's for sale. I just asked her to make it without the crystals because it was a little out of my price range. And I loved the outfit and I really, really wanted it, but it was like covered in Swarovski crystals. And I was like, that's ridiculous. I don't need all of that.
So a message here, I'm like, hey, can I get this outfit, but without the crystals to kind of make it more my price rate? It probably is one of a kind. I mean. Right. So my point being, you had a custom made to your body outfit and then you went and bought me the first t-shirt you found on Amazon. It wasn't the first. Yeah.
good shirt yeah I'm just saying yeah half the ship thought it was a good shirt so after that we went and had dinner and we had dinner with the Reno couple you've heard us talk about them over the years um we went to Reno in January to celebrate their birthdays super excited that they were on the ship they're a super fun couple to hang out with we had dinner with them and and then after that it was um we went to the party so a lot of the party for this ship was in the sky lounge which is kind of like a pretty awesome location but But the way that the new owners of Secrets are doing it is...
Blizz Cruise. New owners of Blizz Cruise.
New owners of secrets are doing it is uh bliss cruise new owners of bliss cruise it's a lot so instead of having like one big party like at a hotel takeover they have a whole bunch of smaller parties so you find the music that you like so if you like edm you find that a lot of times i'll have country sometimes i'll have music that fits the theme uh they'll have a piano bar so just like whatever you're into they'll they'll you can find that we tended to end up in the sky lounge most of the time more so than normal and i don't know why usually we kind of chase the edm party um but for whatever reason on this cruise the edm party never really seemed to be a popping party yeah it seemed like the main party in the solarium was always the main part you know with the most busy party lounge you mean or yes in the sky lounge sorry well and I also feel like a lot of times in the sky lounge they're playing EDM type music yeah i actually saw somebody complain on something facebook or something about too much edm but uh we tend to find dj frisky his music and then also philly phil there was several other djs that i feel like we barely saw there was another female and i think she was really good but for some reason we just never really we saw some of her like especially on glow night but not a ton otherwise right i guess we were sort of just drawn to those two djs not on purpose but they just kind of they are both kind of friends at this point too so yeah so we partied and danced in there and then at some point we ended up in casino, which we spent a lot of time in the casino.
This trip, we don't normally, that's not normally our scene. But the owners of Secrets tend to be there. A lot of the industry people. Yeah. So this is where we saw Russell, the owner of Bliss.
We saw James, the owner of naughty new orleans were there so it was like and then that's this we saw yeah the bar in the casino seemed to be that hangout spot for most of the industry people yeah kind of throughout the cruise for whatever reason and it was kind of like on a main walkway too so we tended to like if we'd walk by and they were all there we just kind of got sucked yeah so we we ended up hanging out with them for a while um at some point we got back to the club i was actually flogged for the first time by carnival risque she asked me um if she could flog me and i said sure and it was i actually enjoyed it it.
She didn't, it wasn't hard or anything. So it was, um, and then after that we, you and I went to the playroom, just the two of us. Which is becoming a trend at the beginning of the cruises. I think the first night we almost always do this and I, I kind of like it.
It's kind of a way to ease into it and give us like some us time yeah but also it's us time but it's a little sexy because there's a bunch of people having sex around us so yeah it's you know it's kind of a good way now i also say on previous bliss cruises you know when we have 10 20 30 couples we usually have a group of our friends and we tend to fall quicker into the orgy every night um kind of mentality on this cruise because really the only couples we knew that you know we were sexually active with we knew several of the industry people but the only couple that we really knew that we were you know played with was reno couple uh and so you know we got some good quality time with them which super appreciative of but we were we're kind of in this weird, a different space for us where it's, there wasn't a group of friends to where there was like built in orgies every night, which can be good and can be bad.
You know, it kind of forces us out of our comfort zone and makes us kind of like learn what it's like to be not podcasters, you know, it makes us have to like work a little bit harder at the connections which is honestly a good thing for us um i do know that like for some reason i was a little bit distracted in the playroom this night and i don't know why i think there was just like kind of a lot of people around us so we ended up stopping going to get milk and cookies and late night snack and then went back to the room and finished fucking before we went to bed so i was some for some reason distracted yeah you kept saying things like look at me or something like that i'm like well we're in a fucking playroom i'm pretty sure we were on an orgy bed with like six other couples even though it was just us that was playing and it's like the only way i can look at you is either like stare you in the face or close my eyes i don't know why I was feeling that way because I wasn't feeling insecure.
Maybe I was just wanting to connect more. And it's kind of hard to do that in the playroom. So we went. Now, I don't know how long. Are we at a break yet? Yeah, we're about to a commercial. Okay, so I want to talk about this.
So I really realized on this first day that I was having genuinely a good time okay and i know that like shouldn't you always have genuinely but did we have butt sex probably not in the no we went back to the room i think probably we pretty much did every single night um but like i genuinely like for instance i was like yeah i was very YOLO you know like yes vlog me yes let you know um I was very much just like genuinely happy and genuinely having a good time I felt good in my body you know I've recently lost some weight and I've also changed my medications over the last years and now I'm on hormone replacement and I can remember thinking I feel like I'm a delight you know like and I'm like I feel like in the past I I'm like I probably came across very uptight because I felt uptight you know and like in here I just genuinely had fun and I feel like this is like the first time especially on a bliss cruise that i had felt that way in quite a while now do you think it's because there was only eight couples and not 30 to this time i would say there was times where we spent you know time we had dinner and stuff with the group but a lot of times it was just me and you or just me and you and reno couple like there wasn't a group always around us i think it was a combination of my my my pellets are just at the peak i think it was i me and you were really in a good place we didn't disagree one time on this entire ship i think i felt good in my body like i felt confident i think i mean I think all of those, I didn't feel a lot of pressure to, to host a ton of people.
You didn't have me working a ton. So I think it's just like a combination of it all. And whatever it was, was magic for me. And my goal is to continue that throughout the year.
And, um, so I, I just really wanted to, I'm like, I probably came across like a stick in the mud to so many people over the years because i just genuinely was like struggling and i for once really really felt just good just really really good so i think that's worth noting notating all right well i think on that note let's take a little break and hear from the partners and sponsors of the swing nation podcast and then when we get back we'll talk about what happened on day two but the first full day of bliss cruise yeah all right we'll be right back guys Lacey, people are always asking, how do we get to a party or an event that you guys are hosting like how do we find these things where where do they exist yeah because we're pretty open about where we're gonna be so if you want to find these places you need to check out swingerside.net right so you can go to swingerside.net sign up for a profile most of our friends most of the people that are attending our events all are on there and have profiles so you can message them link up with them before a party get to know some people please become a diamond member okay so this is the way that we are able to throw events or it's a way we're able to have staff really it's the the community that keeps those membershipships on swingerside.net that really keep this whole thing running.
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Or or if you just want to support us support what we're doing uh and help us pay our staff please go sign up and be a diamond member yes it's super helpful for us uh and you can do that by going to swingersociety.net correct uh and sign up today hopefully you come become part of our community and we hope to see you at a future event yeah thanks guys lacy one thing i don't leave home without when going to a swinger event is my ed medication that is correct performance anxiety is 100 a real thing um having sex in an orgy room with um 100 people in there is way different than having sex at home in your bedroom it It is.
So I like to have what we call a little insurance policy and have some of that ED medication in my pocket. Shameless Care is who I use for that. And they actually just came out with a new product called the Shameless Duo. Yeah. Which is a combination medicine that has Viagra and Cialis in it so that, one, you can be ready whenever, but also it's got that dose that you can take when you're, you know, as you're getting ready to go to the playroom and you need that to kick in. Yeah. So I love it.
I mean, I used it at Hedo for the first time and that, that combination pretty much switched to that. Haven't you basically what I use all the time now. Yeah. So if you're looking for ED medication, if you're new to the lifestyle and you're going to an event, you might want to get some and have it just handy in case you need it kind of thing. And the really cool thing about Shameless Care is they don't set you up on a reoccurring plan.
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All right, guys, welcome back guys welcome back welcome back thank you for listening to our sponsors lacey loves our sponsors all right when we left you we had just finished having butt sex for like the third time um after fucking in the playroom just the two of us uh and that brings us to waking up on the cruise ship for the first time yeah so this is monday morning now i will say so a few notes now you vlogged yes throughout this cruise yes which is probably the first time you've done that that i can remember no i did it in february you did okay uh so it just probably wasn't that great because we weren't having that much fun no so anyway if you're curious about a bliss cruise go go back and look at lacy's what's your the tag on tiktok or instagram for you for that it's like miss swing nation i think miss underscore swing underscore nation that's both tiktok and instagram i think yeah so go back and you can watch like kind of a day-to-day recaps of everything that we do which is great and then we also took some other horizontal video yeah that i need to splice that together and do like a youtube vlog of this trip so stay tuned uh watch our socials and stuff i'll post that as soon as i you know i'm not sick in bed yeah uh so anyway we wake up on the cruise ship.
This is one of my favorite things about Bliss Cruise. Yeah. Or I guess cruising is general is we always get a balcony suite. Yeah. And we always leave the window and the door open. Yeah. And so like you go to bed listening to the ocean. You wake up to the nice sunny sun in the ocean. The ship is not rocking. You're not sick. Yes.
So we woke up in paradise up in paradise yes we really did so um this morning they have like where you can have complimentary breakfast delivered to your room so we tried it this day it was the only day we did it it was just okay it was like an assortment of muffins and like i don't so you're right you could do that and i think it was like ten dollars no it wasn't it was if you got the premium this was free oh it's free yeah because of our room type i don't know baby yeah i don't know either yeah uh but anyway you were so you were you were so happy about this you were so happy about this at hito i don't know why i feel like on bliss cruise it was just the same as it was on hito and you like loved it at hit life, babe.
Just let me have my life. You seemed indifferent about it on Bliss Cruise. Yeah, it wasn't that great. I'm indifferent about it anyway. Just let me have my small things. Okay, baby. Okay. So we had that food, and we kind of relaxed. No big, huge rush for this day. We got up and got ready. We went and had pizza, which, you know, obviously my favorite.
Lots of obviously my favorite lots of pizza lots of pizza we went to the pool um we hung out for a little bit you know i love the pool it's a great way to meet people but it's not really made for swingers you know like if you go to secrets and they've got that a huge pool and it's totally made for swingers bliss it's not This is like a regular vanilla ship and they try to make it into it.
I'm of the opinion that Russell needs to get with Royal Caribbean and build a swinger cruise ship that is purpose-built for swingers. Yeah. Or for lifestyle.
I mean, they could use it for other, you know, some of these topless cruisespless cruises or things gay cruises yeah it could be used for multiple things um but you know get rid of the slides and the rock walls and the tennis courts right yeah put a nice big pool that's way steep yeah because one was like almost six foot so you can't really stand in that the other one you could stand and it was very small so i mean we stayed out there for you know a while you know got drank a few drinks enjoyed the sunshine the pool games were going on which is you know always fun but we just yeah the pool is fun it's just way too crowded it's way too you can never find a seat you can never even when you're in the pool you know you're basically stuck in this little tiny you know you're not soup everybody and you're all crowded on next to each other which i like being crowded but not that crowded yeah because it kind of forces you to talk to people and honestly some of our favorite connections we have made in this i will say what i mean how we met reno yeah i mean definitely do it if you're going on a cruise but it's just it can be it's a you're smooshed in there also the deck is like so hot it was burning our feet so you had to like run to your shoes you know it just there's not a lot of chairs that's definitely not my favorite part of bliss is it worth going and doing some yes but i would not want my entire days to be up unless i had like a chair kind of near the DJ where I could sort of like.
Yeah, I think it was last cruise. We actually ended up with chairs. Yeah. Near the pool. And that was pretty fantastic. Yeah. Yeah. So if you could get one of those chairs. Neither one of us is one of those get up at four o'clock in the morning to go get a chair kind of people. We're not those people. So we got out of the pool. We got some french fries. We went back.
That's when the guy said i'm i was like my hands were full so i was eating the french fries like off the plate like with no hands and this guy's got this guy on the elevator was like i've got a french fry you can scoop up or something like that i was like another thing to know because i remember that and you were a little tipsy at that point and probably why you were being silly you we did have drink packages for the first time on this bliss cruise so we probably did drink more but we didn't really get that drunk but maybe one time i was i stayed kind like a little tipsy but not yeah i didn't get trash but you think that maybe helped make you a little more loosey-goosey for the trip?
Maybe, but I mean, you would think if we had the drink package, we would have been like just chugging them. We weren't. And we really weren't. And we were doing like very easy. Honestly, I don't know. I didn't go back and look, but I doubt we even paid for our drink package in the amount of alcohol.
But I did go and look, and we spent the same amount on the February cruise that we did on this this cruise that was only a four-day cruise yeah yeah interesting um so we i mean we didn't i think we just kind of were like we i guess when you drink when you're paying each you feel like you need to make it worth it you know and i feel like we just sort of like kind of sipped it wasn't't like. Right. Now, the last night, we'll get to that night, we went out with a bang.
But for the most part, we just sort of kind of stayed in that. I'm not tipsy to like a little tipsy sort of area. Range. Yeah. So we went back to the room and I think we got back to the room about three.
On this night, we had a pretty busy night because we had something at five and we had something at six so that meant and it was formal night so it meant that I needed to be completely ready before that five o'clock thing because that meant like I needed to be able to put my dress on and be ready by seven when our things were over so I got completely ready but then just like threw a romper on so we went to the topless travel meet and greet and this is if you book with us and or topless travel you can come and it's really it's really anybody it's really anybody so you can bring your friends everyone they don't turn people away if you didn't book with them but it's just like a nice place to like meet everybody meet all the sub affiliates meet all the topless travel girls and couples that are there um party mark is there um you get free drinks which are which are lovely if you didn't get a drink package you can you know hit up the free drinks um so yeah it's just a nice relaxing not super overly crowded but nice meet I will say, you know, Topless Travel, we've been partnering with them for a few years now.
They are, you know, they're the top seller of Bliss Cruise. I think they're one of the top sellers of Hedo, a great group of people that really care about lifestyle travel and really go above and beyond to take care of their customers.
And I think this is, you know, there's there's no obligation you know i don't know who knows how much they pay for this meet and greet and free alcohol for everybody and all that stuff but it's just another one of those ways that it where it shows that they're going above and beyond um to take care of their people and and also during that meet and greet they always you know shout out all the employees and the staff and they thank everybody you know that booked with them and uh there really are a top-notch organization and one of those in the lifestyle that if you're looking to go on a trip i would highly recommend um booking with topless or booking with us through topless yeah so like for instance uh mandy works for us y'all all know mandy everybody gets taken very good care of by mandy mandy works very closely with rj at topless so if you've ever you know had to deal with topless you probably know who rj is so like if you're looking for a specific room type or just something if you get with mandy she will she will help you get in contact with rj so that way we can still you know they good at, you know, if, you know, I think November of this year is already sold out, right?
But if for some reason you're trying to get on that November bliss cruise, Mandy and Topless are really good about when people cancel, you know, pulling in those rooms and trying to get people on the ship last minute. We had friends get on November like two years ago, like two weeks before. So if you really want to go on a ship that's sold out, definitely get on the waiting list with them. They'll take care of you. So reach out to Mandy. Admin at swingersociety.net is her email.
Yeah, that's probably the best way to get a hold of her. Our very first ever affiliate meeting on a Bliss Cruise.
So, like, I mean, very first, like, industry-type meeting, which was an affiliate meeting on Bliss bliss cruise so like i mean very first like industry type meeting which was an affiliate meeting on bliss cruise you know when we go to naughty new orleans and stuff they have a lot of industry type things this was the first so that was nice we got to you know see the owners of the sanctuary which we mentioned before a lot of the different um anybody that's kind of associated with like a lifestyle business was.
So it was nice to put faces to names, all of those things. So that was good. Yeah, super good. I love, I love industry. I love lifestyle industry. You know, we've been doing this tick tock thing. We've been kind of in this space for the last four years now. I think it's something that's growing.
And I will also say four years ago or even go back two or three years ago there was a lot of like competition and rivalry and backstabbing and you know that kind of stuff going on i i felt like maybe heard rumors of um i feel like in the last year or so people are coming together and I really felt like on this bliss cruise it was even more evident of that where people really had to you know hey this lifestyle is becoming mainstream if we want to provide the best services for this community we really need to work together to do that um and i think that's really good i like seeing that it was evident i think throughout this cruise yeah i agree um so after that we went to our room and put on our formal wear i had a beautiful dress i loved it uh my mistake was i didn't try it on with my shoes because it was a little too long so in the last minute i had to get dan to like cut my dress not ideal but it was i knew that it would save the night so he just he just hemmed it basically um a little shorter so that way i could wear so i get you know like she's like cut my dress i was like okay yeah i cut her dress and i was like so what is this like a 20 dollar like amazon thing and she's like no this is a $100 dress.
You had me cut it with a pair of scissors. But what else was I going to do? Like fight with it on night and rip it? I don't know. It's fine baby. Just you know just hack up a $100 dress. No big deal. So on this night we did a tour of the dungeon which opinion, was was not that grand. We were rushed. We were rushed. I haven't even looked at it yet. Well, hopefully it came out good. They they didn't have a whole lot of equipment in there and they weren't also set up.
So like a lot of times the the people that were the dungeon bring in. So like there had the riding bench in the St.
Andrew's Cross, but like a lot of the toys and stuff weren't there so i don't really feel like the tour is going to give like a true representation on this cruise though so if you go back and you looked at like the february cruise they were like in a side yeah room yeah so on this cruise they were in like a theater type room and because we haven't done much vanilla cruising i don't know what that is that like for the comedy shows is that for i don't know what that room is used for on a normal ship um but when they have that room on this ship they use it for the dungeon and we probably need to go in there sometime when they're actually doing scenes and stuff i think i have at some point it may be in years ago but my understanding is're doing scenes, you can sit and watch, which I think a lot of people like that because they want to, like, learn and kind of, like, see it.
But it's kind of weird when you're, like, standing over somebody. So in this, it kind of gives you a place to sit. Yeah, but it feels more like a show. Yeah.
And I bet if you're, you know, one, if you're a voyeur and you like being watched, being up on up on the stage with like a bunch of people sitting in a theater around you watching you get your ass beat you know it's probably gonna kind of hot okay so let's make a pact that in november i don't know what it's gonna look like it's that type of room yeah no i say let's just go regardless okay let's just go one night and just kind of take it all in right because you're right when it's all one level and you're walking like through it it's a little you feel like you're invading people's space more correct yes and then like when you have the seats it kind of gives you a place to sit and sort of take it in okay so after we did the tour we went to dinner with the big room which if i'm going to say i have one regret of the whole week is that we didn't do this again.
So we did one dinner as everyone that booked with us. And not everybody came. Some did because we were a large group. Because we actually ended up having Bob, the owner of Naughty New Orleans. We had Bobby, who owns Electric Pleasures with us. Because we had other industry people, we ended up having to be like two tables because they can only fit like eight people.
So I did feel bad that we weren't like, I mean, the other table got to sit next to Bob Hanford, the owner of Naughty, which I mean, we would have totally geeked out years ago if that was us. So like, hopefully they got something from it. But I do kind of wish we would have been able to do this again. Our schedule just was kind of crazy this time. Yeah. So I will say that is having a small group of eight couples, you would think we would have got more time with those eight couples.
Unfortunately, what happened, which is no fault of anybody and wasn't what we planned, but because all of these industry people were on the ship, we got sucked into a lot of these industry dinners yeah we went to a lot of dinners and so that took time away from our group which is unfortunate and i'm sorry if people felt like we didn't spend enough time with them uh that booked with us you know we saw all we saw all of them like this night like we sat you know we anytime we saw we we chatted we got to know a few of them pretty well so it just kind of depends some couples you know will come up and speak to us every time we see them others you know we'd have to go seek them out and that's okay if that's more your jam you know whatever but on this night we did have dinner with everyone we got to sit and chat which was lovely um after um dinner we went and i changed shoes because i knew that i'd be uncomfortable and then we went and danced for a little while in the sky lounge or actually we were in the quasar which was kind of like imagine where they do like a silent disco on a regular vanilla cruise um we i didn't last long in my dress it was just not the most comfortable thing so at some point i went and changed into lingerie which it was like a beautiful honey burdette set that i wore to electric pleasures not long ago and so many people loved that outfit on me which made me feel super confident and beautiful which you know that's a win-win for me um but we danced uh quite a bit and at some point probably around midnight or so we went to the playroom we actually went to the playroom in front of the ship so another one we haven't talked about yet because we haven't done the tour of it yet and we'll talk about it more when we get to that tour but literally on the front of the ship they have like it's kind another one of those 18 plus 21 plus type areas um but they have beds and the breeze is amazing up there it's beautiful um and we we ended up swapping with reno couple for the first time of this trip up there in the front of the ship yeah i will say you know bliss crews always does an outdoor playroom type of space it often ends up in one of like the the tanning type side areas the basketball court or it's ended up on basketball or tennis courts before um this was the nicest outdoor play space i have seen on a bliss cruise and it was on the very front of the ship now i will say on previous cruises that would have been a problem because of the weather yeah this cruise the weather the weather was immaculate throughout there was very rarely that breezy where you couldn't be out on the top deck or even on the top deck in the front of the ship half the time it didn't even feel like we were moving yeah but now the front there was a decent amount of wind up there which honestly when we were fucking was perfect because it made it very like enjoyable weather temperature wise to be up there so yeah i mean we we swapped there was even like a secret hot tub up yeah there was i don't know if many people knew about there was bathrooms up there which was lovely and there wasn't shower we never really saw a ton of couples up there so we ended up going up there this night and then another night to make tiktoks and videos and stuff so it was never really crowded but i would say if you've never fucked on the top deck of a cruise ship in the middle of the ocean highly recommend it agreed it was a lot of fun it was a great agree yeah you know you know reno couples always a good time always so after that we went and had our snacks milk and cookies and then bed and bed and i think that's going to be where we're going to have to leave it for this episode because we're about out of time.
But like Lacey said, if you've listened to this part one of the Bliss Cruise and you want to do a Bliss Cruise, we'd really appreciate you booking with us.
And you can do that by going to swingersociety.net um these cruises sell out almost a year in advance yeah um so i believe april was the exception to that which was odd this past this one where you just went on was is odd that it didn't sell out but yeah typically about a year out so if you know if you're thinking about the november cruise it is sold out but if you email uh mandy at admin at swingersociety.net she can add you to the wait list so that if people cancel uh last minute we can kind of get you slide you into that yeah and that just to note wonder of the seas like the second largest ship in the fleet yeah i'm trying to organize the largest orgy ever so i need to talk to russell about that like six thousand swingers um some of the stuff that they have planned for that is going to be amazing we have lots of friends on it we have a big group again so i will mentally prepare myself but i think we've learned dan's not going to have me do any work when we have that many people we need to keep our work well i got 18 tour videos planned for that cruise we've never been on a big ship so we there's a lot of tour videos we gotta do it's gonna be crazy get yourself ready so anyway um definitely i mean i think february is getting of 20 what seven now we just i just actually booked that on our way to this cruise so there's still are rooms it's getting close to being sold out getting pretty close and then april 27 and then november 27 yeah and i think they just launched february 28 yes which is going to be the mardi gras cruise so if you don't know that is um so they're you get on the ship in new orleans and it's like a four or five day um cruise and then you come back and you actually get off the ship during mardi gras so like fat tuesday and they're doing a hotel takeover um in the french quarter uh in that general area i do believe the hotel is already sold out but you can get just the passes so you can stay at a hotel nearby or an airbnb or something which honestly in hindsight might have been the better uh way to do it i don't know i feel like after so many days from what i've heard getting around bourbon street during mardi gras is crazy so i think being in the host hotel is the way yeah it's ideal but i'm just saying if you didn't get the hotel it's okay you just the passes for the week it's like 500 so it's like 250 per person so anyway we will be on that people have asked we are booked i booked it while we were on the cruise so we are booked and paid and we'll be there right so if you want to try out any of those go to swinger society.net uh what else is coming up we are going to be in salt lake city utah next weekend yes we will and that is for a swinger society takeover we're going to be there friday and saturday night if you are anywhere near salt lake this is the furthest west we've gone to do a takeover.
So if you're anywhere out there, come see us. And that's going to be May 15th and 16th at the sanctuary in Salt Lake City. We are also doing like a meet and greet during the day for lunch. At the hall pass. Yes. So definitely check out.
If you're not following Swinger Society on socials please check that out it's on on instagram it's swinger society official and we just want to search that i've been posting every day the info for that meet and greet so if you can't look at let's say you have kids and you can't make it out that night you can steal you're welcome to come to the lunch we'll be there in our vanilla clothes and and having lunch with everybody yeah and swear society.net for tickets to the sanctuary um you do there is some kind of process you have to go through to get an approved membership so if you are thinking about going i would go sign up and get your tickets now so that you get your membership approved i don't want to i don't want anybody to get stuck the week of and not get their membership approved and then show up.
Which we did ours, and it took like a day. Yeah, they're pretty quick. They're on it. But definitely, you know, don't wait. Just go get your membership now. Get your tickets now. And we'll see you next weekend at the Sanctuary. I'm very excited. Me too. Yes. It's going to be a good time. And then what else? I think then the next thing after that is going to be Chattanooga, right? Well, no. After that, we're going to be at Splash Houston. Oh, that's right.
So that's going to be Memorial Day weekend, so like May 28th through the 31st. So if you're in the Texas area, we will be at Splash Houston. You've heard us talk about Splash for years. They're just a very well-run hotel takeover.
So if you're in the Texas area and you'd like to come you can get tickets for that as as well as anything we talked about here today at swingerside.net dan and i will be in attendance dan will be djing i just found out i'm djing yeah i literally booked our flights yesterday um so and then dan's probably going to be doing some pool stuff playing games and stuff yeah yeah so we yeah. So we'll be there. So swingersaturday.net. And then after that. Then it's where in Chattanooga.
Then we'll be at our Electric Pleasures event in Chattanooga, which is music festival vibes meets the lifestyle. Best way I can describe it. Right. So if you like music, if you like, especially EDM music, but we're going to be playing a variety of music.
And you want to come to Chattanooga with usanooga with us um go check that out and that's june 1 um get the date so you find the date so yeah come check it out it's 12th and 13th and i think we're like 80 sold out on that one so um if you do want a room in the host hotel don't wait till the last minute go book that as well and we will be releasing day passes closer to town what else uh secrets our separate secret september has like five rooms left or something yeah so if you're hearing this it might be sold out but if it's not sprint yourself on over to swingerside.net and book september secrets that was almost sold out before it even went to the public.
I think it went public with like 15 rooms or less available. Yeah, it went public May 1st. I think there's like maybe five left now. We're recording this May 5th. So when this comes out, there may or may not be rooms. Check it on SwingerSociety.net.
If there's not rooms, you can get added to the wait list by emailing Mandy at admin at Swinger Society or you can always stay in a local hotel and come party with us um and get day passes yep all right anything else for the swing nation listeners i think that's it all right guys i think with that in a world full of apples be the pineapple be the pineapple guys bye bye if you've enjoyed our podcast and want to support us we have a five-star review wherever you're listening if you want to see more of our content you can find links to snapchat twitter instagram only fans and more in the show notes come join the conversation with us and other swinger content creators on our swinger society discord server if you have questions or feedback email them to us at the swing nation at gmail.com make sure you head on over to the swing nation.net and keep up to date on all things swing nation we thank you so much for joining us and we'll see you next time goodbye That's so hot.
