Now what?

Hilliard, OH, Us

I'm fortunate to have total control over when I cum. It can be 3 minutes or 3 hours. Women always tell me when they've had enough. It starts with some dirty talk like "I want to feel you cum now.". Don't ignore that when you hear it. It means "Thank you for your stamina, but I'm done now."

CopNkittenVeteran
Phila, PA, Us

ain't no way I'm sucking someone for an hour! 15 minutes is long enough for me

TallMark45Veteran
Tempe, AZ, Us

I think women who desire the man to cum in their mouth suck cock with more passion hence reducing the time it takes him to cum, I know when the desire for him to cum in my mouth increases my passion of sucking increases...Mary Jo

TallMark45Veteran
Tempe, AZ, Us

Depending on the guy but 15 minutes is good for me, I want him to cum by then....Mary Jo

Barrow, AK, Us

An HOUR!?!!!! Holy Cow! My pillow princess neck gets tired after 20 min.

If things are going on too long, I will say I need a breather, or "let's get some water" is always a good reason to take a break.

Denton, TX, Us

I ask him if he is getting close, and if not, I either suggest a different position, different activity (such as masterbation), or a break. Usually this is after I have been sucking his cock for over an hour and my lips and neck are getting sore.

Williamsburg, VA, Us

Generally, Differential Equations. Higher math is endlessly amusing during boring sex.

Oh, wait, you are ONLY required to have boring sex with your spouse.

I never saw it written where you have to silently endure boring sex with a LS partner.

SPEAK UP.

Use your words.

New Orleans, LA, Us

Ok. You be cheerfully promiscuous and I'll be the giddy slut.

~rabbit~

Phoenix, AZ, Us

I greatly prefer the term "cheerfully promiscuous." It captures my attitude so much better than just "slut." ;-)

New Orleans, LA, Us

Good lord Molly. You are such a slut!

Not that that's a bad thing.

~rabbit~

ncalcoupleVeteran
Las Vegas, NV, Us

If the man is not fucking you the way you want, stop him or tell him to slow down or whatever. Women are always in charge of sex.

My wife loves men that are "trainable"

Phoenix, AZ, Us

It definitely happens and, yeah, masturbation is my solution too. Not only is it effective, but I like watching, so bonus.

Phoenix, AZ, Us

Pfffft. ;-)

Not the droid I'm looking for, but since you piped up, tell me what you do if things are feeling good but they've been feeling good for a really long time and you're not close to coming.

I'm guessing tapping out isn't in your repertoire, so what do you do?

Phoenix, AZ, Us

Multiple generations of mayflies have lived and died during the blowjob you're giving or he's been fucking you so long that it's time to schedule your next pedicure and he shows no sign of stopping, coming, or changing it up.

What do you do?