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Thank you, guys. To be clear, I wanted anecdotal answers to my questions, which, of course, say little about some bigger truth. I think that all answers are very telling in their own way, be they anecdotal generalizations or personal anecd…
Thus far, I've kept pictures of only myself on my profile. None of them is overtly explicit. None of them is with prior partners (even if I have their consent to share). Do you think it is a turn-off, or a turn-on if such pictures are in t…
I mean really down and dirty pro-tips. For example, viewing them as humans with feelings is a given. I'm asking for your personal views (men and women) about trade secrets in threesomes, which may be different from the average. I'm a singl…
Thank you! I think it's a given that I'll communicate with both halves of a couple. I like everyone to be on the same page. My question was geared more towards to sexual act itself. The balance between couples wanting a man to participate…
This is asking for very anecdotal answers, but I'd like to get a feel for the general sentiment. If you are a couple looking for single men, are you exclusively for MFM or MF arrangements? If not, how do you decide one way or the other?
This fantasy has been percolating in my head for some time. It has elements of BDSM and mixes them with the lifestyle. In my life I have had (single) partners with whom I arranged Dom/sub scenes involving some sort of instruction. For exam…
Hi! I think, in fact, that humiliation is a minor part of BDSM. Although it my get over-represented in pop-culture. I want to clarify that humiliation is very contextual. It is actions and words that hit a person's pain-points. For e.g. on…
Hello. I recently posted a picture on my public profile. It is the last one in my gallery (the one with the whiteboard). I consider it more risque than others and the subject matter may be too crude. The theme of the picture is kinky and h…
In my experience, meeting people at the local kink community can lead to connections. In their parlance they have "munches" (food) and "sloshes" (drinks) where you get to meet people in a platonic setting. Usually it is being active and he…
Thank you for the vote of appreciation, and feedback, goodgollymsmolly98226. This is turning out to be a multi-objective optimization problem. I now have my homework :)
Thank you for quoting parts that stood out to you. I can see how they may be interpreted in the way you suggested. I have submitted changes to the first two accordingly.
HollyBlue, thank you for the feedback. The actual cowboy picture is very high resolution. I believe the compression algorithm on the website exploits the low light, which admittedly was an artistic choice. I'll see if I can rectify that. I…
Thank you for the feedback. Can you point out which parts in the description gave you that sense? I am indeed straight, and I understand that an impression otherwise can turn people away.
Hello! I recently replenished my gallery with new material, fresh off a wave of creativity :) I'd like your help in evaluating how it comes across, given what I've written on my profile. Thank you!
I'd appreciate it if you could tell me *why* you liked or disliked something so I can understand where you're coming from. Some conscious choices I made, which are open to feedback as well: - Chose a PG ("app friendly") main picture so it…
Thank you. Your analysis was very insightful. I appreciate direct and honest feedback. I have made some changes. If you see this again, your next critique will be extra-valuable. Things I changed: - Removed redundant galleries, some unflat…
Hello, old subscribers and newcomers to this thread. I worked on the feedback on my original profile and made some changes: - Provided more "tasteful"/formal pictures of myself, - While the public gallery is still anonymous, I cropped in m…
Can couples and women here elaborate on what makes a good first message? Obviously, it's not one size fits all, and everyone's preferences are valid. I would like to see individual opinions on a successful opening. Perhaps if we compare no…
I speak from my experience. What worked for me was CICO. Calories In, Calories Out. Now, keep in mind that the caloric content of food is not very accurate. Nonetheless, energy is the fundamental measure that tells the body what to do with…
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I can sympathize with your view. Reciprocity in standards and values is not at all an unfair expectation.
Thank you! Yes, I have some private pictures with me smiling. Point well made, and point taken, about the format of my experiences section. I will work on that.
I squeeze in a 5km (3.125 miles) run before sunrise. It is cool and quiet. Too hot or humid to run in the evening. Then it is some exercises on a pull-up bar etc at my place. Now that gyms are closed, it is hard to maintain discipline.
I can definitely understand why people would want certs. Especially since there are many more men than women or couples. So the latter two have the luxury of greater choice. It is only natural that they will try to pick the best prospect,…
Thank you. My profile text is spartan because I trying to be concise with my intent. My technical communications habits seeped out of my professional writing, haha. But I see what you mean, and I will make adjustments.
Hello everyone. For context, I am a single male looking for women/couples. Please take a look at my page. Specifically, I am looking for feedback on: - Things I should add - Things I should remove - Tone of writing - What you find most/lea…
