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It's a discussion that often pops up in our bi event groups. So many people worried that listing themselves as bi male will reduce opportunities. As with other replies - we've found the opposite even in semi-rural Maine. Not only has it in…
The positioning is a little tougher than porn makes it look but once all 3 (especially the woman) know their part and a rhythm gets going, it's fun. She loves it. For me, I find the sensation very different from frotting. Not in a bad way…
See you soon! So needed.
As there's no edit a quick addition. We are always happy to chat and very open books. It's purely our take on risk management after doing this for a while. We know a lot of people who spent many very unhappy years closeted, married or not,…
Somebody mentioned a married guy not being honest with his partner as being 'less risky'. Our take is the complete opposite. So few married guys get regular testing in case their partner finds out. So, for the most part we avoid because of…
She loves hers. The only downside is it's tricky to give oral at the same time - hand using a dildo it's much easier to do both. But(t), situational and great fun regardless.
You know by now, but we'll see you there. Literally the other side of the country for us, but so worth it. We've not yet come back from an event and not thought..."well crap. That happened and wasn't it fantastic?" A chunk of it you can't…
We'll reciprocate with pics :). 4 weeks to go and we can't wait. This will be our 5th BFF and each time we come back thinking it can't get better, yet it does the next time.
A male friend from a couple we played with was into sucking my cock and as it feels good, why not? Then I started to reciprocate and with a little mental adjustment, started to enjoy it. I now love the feel and texture of a thick, hard, co…
For the no sex thing - and now, apparently, a new no nudity rule - at EDR, it currently applies to non-private events. So BFF, for now, is pretty much unaffected. Given all that I'd no longer visit EDR outside of a private/membership event…
My take is that topping is 'work'. Bottoming, once able to accommodate fairly comfortably, is easy. To top you have to worry about keeping it up, possible cleanliness of the bottom etc. Bottoming? You get to lay there and enjoy. FWIW I thi…
The two bi events that we attend (bi Hedo and BFF) are full of tops, bottoms and vers. A lot of travelling, but so worth it. Local dating...it's crazy tough in Maine. And with Maine 'bi' people we've mostly found the same - oral only. Some…
Oh for an edit feature to not make 3 posts when I think of extra things. Also in October Hedonism in Jamaica has a complete bi takeover (and a partial takeover early in the year). You mentioned October - great crowd makes it a fun and ofte…
Also wanted to add that for Exotic Dreams Resort on a 'normal' day (ie no bi group or event) be careful with MM bi play. The owner has made it very clear it's not welcome in a couple of communications. However...rumors are around about a m…
@2Bi3or4some - see you there! It's always an amazing time
What a mind blowing week that was. So, so much sex. So much. And all with really good people too.
She loves watching me with others - male or female. As do I with her. She'll often masturbate as she watches me.
Ugh was my initial reply bloated. I could have just said "I love kissing people of either sex". @Mayhem8. I'll try to find a guy to kiss at the next Chix party just to fix that :p
@Harleycouple12 - properly bi males, locally to us, are still super hard to find. Most will do oral only. Some even just like to give and not even receive oral. Our take for sex these days is that ideally, if it's safe, clean and consensua…
Bi is picking up in openness and people being willing to admit to it. Hedo(nism 2) is JA is a good example... 2+ years ago they hosted their first 'bi week' with a group from FL. A small group initially with 20 rooms reserved I believe, wh…
We love it with the right people. New 'dates', especially if single males and they can't provide a fairly recent testing history, we often usually insist on condoms. However, in 4 years of heavy bi play mostly bareback, we've had zero issu…
Kissing another guy I'd always said was a no for me as I didn't find it a turn-on, but love kissing women. Then...I tried it during a spontaneous, wild and unplanned foursome in the grotto at Hedo and ummm...liked it. Since then our limits…
The issue is the problem was never fixed despite Wayne's arrogant replies. Caching images are bad code. There are easy ways to prevent them. Shouting that people need to continually clear caches isn't the answer. If their coders need help…
"The message counter is fixed. I have personally verified that it is fixed and working properly. If you still see "undefined", you need to have your browser reload the page." No. No it isn't. I find it both insulting and amusing that SLS s…
We just updated the profile to fix a small typo. Other than very small changes, our bio has been the same for a few years. So, reviewed and accepted many times for the small changes to keep it current. Rejected this time. I'm still not sur…
20 years too late and using a 20 year old format and styling, so we'll pass. 2c
"Please post a link to the page causing the 404 error." My initial post contained details of the exact page. The submit button on profile edit. Not difficult to find if you're familiar with your own site. But then I also received a 404 on…
Just in case those running the site are not aware - hitting submit on profile edits currently produces a 404. It could be it's a known thing and being worked on, but just in case. I'll just put it down to one of the many issues since "impr…
"Jim, I’m not defending, I’m adapting, just as you and everyone else should be, instead of complaining to deaf ears. " Ummm...no. You could not be more wrong and from every post you make you most definitely are 'defending'. Nobody should e…
The problem is that complaining will achieve nothing although it's the only option other than leaving the site. The people dictating the changes, and those employed by them, are far too arrogant to admit something is wrong. They would rath…
Wow. It's pretty much unusable now. Thumbnails show as being too suggestive for the app (I'm not in the app). Events are literally impossible to find. Distance from home now resets every time. And it doesn't even look better. It looks like…
I sent a support ticket and the reply said that there's nothing wrong with the new IM system and suggested that I must be at fault. As it also asked what problems I was having, here's my copy/pasted response... So you're genuinely clueless…
IM is a buggy piece of crap. Why remove the mail? It wasn't perfect, but at least mostly worked. Time to look at other Lifestyle dating site options.
