Is it weird I like bi men in couples but not as singles?
Having a supportive woman present gives many men *permission* to … suck and fuck each other. Makes unfamiliar vulnerability easier, feel safer.
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Bi Couple Says they will play straight
We like to share, that’s our thing. So we only play with guys / couples that are comfortably bi. Too many “bi-curious” guys turn out to be “straight-desperate”. But they have this bucket list, you see, and threesomes are at the top…
what if u know someone has an std
Are you referring to HIV or HPV or … what? It makes a difference. You make this couple sound dishonest. Are you sure that is the case? People who bareback are obviously risk-tolerant. Some just risk it, honest.
Bi Sexual Men
And vice versa!
Guys: Please stop saying you're straight when you're bi
It takes balls to come out in a small community. And you do pay a price with shallow people. Good riddance. You may have to look farther afield to meet compatible people. Or look in new places. It would be easier if everyone was as honest…
Guys: Please stop saying you're straight when you're bi
Our basic policy is “Just Say No To Bi Guys With Straight Profiles”. Even if they say they are really bi. Just say no. Many guys can’t tell the difference between bi-curious and straight-desperate. If a guy is so uncomfortable with his sex…
Factor people may miss regarding safer sex.
@eroticamazon Kindly imagine that the person you are addressing has gone through nursing school, and worked for years in hospitals, nursing homes, clinics, and hospice. Please reread your words in this context. Thanks.
Factor people may miss regarding safer sex.
Yes, some here see this strictly as an issue of biology and epidemiology. I see it as an issue about honesty and personal integrity. Pretty basic. IF someone chooses to have safer sex, do you let them? Or do you take that choice away from…
Factor people may miss regarding safer sex.
People make similar statistical arguments about HIV now. Undetectable = Untransmissible, they say. U = U! Just as safe as anyone else, right? So no one else’s business. Right? I find this entire argument to be unpersuasive. For the same re…
off topic, but can use some help!
The lifetime membership is cheap (or was a few years ago).
Bi Sexual Men
We date bi guys. We have high standards for things like honesty and integrity. Have to. Lots of 'straight' guys say they can't be honest about their orientation. Ok. Plenty of others can. And frankly, if you can't tell the truth when you a…
is open minded code for bisexual or bicurious
Re" "open minded" Many people here drown in fear. They are too afraid to even ask for what they really want. Even though the profiles are 100% anonymous. My two cents: If a person is this frightened, how much fun will they be in bed? And w…
Bi and new here - help please
A4A lets you search for bisexual and straight-curious guys too these days. I know of no sites no sites specifically for bisexual men. The OP is basically a bottom seeking a top. He certainly can find that here on SLS, but he may have to wo…
Your Favorite MFM Play
We had a great threesome last christmas day with our regular guy. Started early, went late, lots of fun in between, with breaks for naps, food and showers. He and I are both comfortably bi and vers, so ... Permutations and Combinatorics. W…
Bi and new here - help please
Don't look for m2m on SLS, primarily a straight couple's site. Look on adam4adam, or one of the other men's sites. Try a gay bar. Try LGBT events. I think Rommel said: "When hunting ducks, you go where the ducks are".
Hotwife help
My lovely wife and I share our lovemaking with a friend or two on a fairly regular basis. We share everything. Sometimes one or another will sit out for a bit, watch, offer support, hold hands, fetch water, blow kisses. I get to watch her…
BiCurious FTM in Hawaii - any forum readers in the Islands?
Wrong island, alas.
is open minded code for bisexual or bicurious
For "straight" guys, "open minded" sometimes means "desperately horny".
Bi Sexual Men
Devil's advocate, again. I avoid people who can't be honest, but I also try not to judge. I have the luxury of being openly bi, cool spouse, no kids, liberal city. Some guys are terrified of being publicly outed. Genuinely Scared. They don…
Bi Sexual Men
The basic question is: why do people lie about X in their profiles? And the basic answer is: they think they will get more sex that way. They fear the truth will make people avoid them. And often, they are right. I'd rather be rejected for…
Fake couples
Many "couples" here are husband-only projects. She stopped playing years ago, or never did. Newbie couples flake all the time. One or the other will get cold feet. Nerves.
What are you reading (erotica, biography, textbook, comedy, thriller, etc.)
Yeah, I have read a lot of Simmon's stuff. I am reading Chasm City right now. Hard Sci-Fi is my preferred popcorn. Science is my preferred meat and potatoes.
What are you reading (erotica, biography, textbook, comedy, thriller, etc.)
So far this year: Green Odyssey - Philip Jose Farmer Where The Hell Is Tesla - Rob Dirks The Gone-Away World - Nick Harkaway Don’t Touch The Blue Stuff - Rob Dirks The Accidental Time Machine Joe Haldeman Dragon’s Egg - Robert L. Forward A…
I want to join a couple as my first bi experience has anyone had luck with this
Same here. Bi Male FWBs are regular part of our play. It is genuinely difficult to meet nice bi men online. Where Nice = ethical, honest, respectful, not cheating on anyone, and Bi = comfortably bisexual, not bi-curious or straight-despera…
bi couples only posting her pics?
If there are no pics of him, we just assume he must be really ugly.
3sum how often?
We have a regular FWB we see 1 or 2 times a month, depending on scheduling.
why so hard to fulfill fantasy of bisexual night for husband
*Couples* who are bi-curious don't waste our time, to date. But Solo guys do not know the difference between bi-curious and straight-desperate.
why so hard to fulfill fantasy of bisexual night for husband
We only meet guys that are bi-comfortable. Bi-curious guys waste our time.
3sum how often?
> How often? We usually see our FWB a couple times a month. A lot like dating. That's our speed. >How to balance varying degrees of desire? No one ever “takes one for the team”. We all want it, or we don’t play.
One word that describes you
sesquipedalian
INCREASE IN COUPLES LISTED AS BI ON SLS
Yes, I have observed this increase also. Much of it is generational. Younger people just don't care. In urban areas, Homophobia is rapidly becoming unfashionable.
Does a total, exclusively bi top really exist?
> Does_a_total,_exclusively_bi_top_really_exist? Some large percentage of men and women (perhaps 30%) get *nothing* from butt play. Their nerves are just not wired for it.
New Years wishes?
Fewer hookups, more quality time with sex-positive friends. FWBs rock!
bi couples only posting her pics?
> we agreed to meet the couple and at the last minute all the sudden the wife doesn’t want to come along Classic Bait and Switch. "Oh yeah, we're an open couple, completely on the same page, except she can't make it, ..." No, no, nope, no…
Hello
> How do guys know that you’re partners are clean? Do exchange paperwork? Before anything. Re: paperwork To get written results, we have to go outside of our insurance policy and pay out of pocket. We can not get written STD test results f…
HPV
> The HPV SHOT does not work in anyone over 26 FDA approves expanded use of Gardasil 9 to include individuals 27 through 45 years old www dot fda dot gov/NewsEvents/Newsroom/PressAnnouncements/ucm622715.htm You have just spread mis-informa…
HPV
RonKathy - are you also against other vaccines? And what do you do to protect yourselves from HPV?
HPV
My lovely wife and I have gotten the Gardosil-9 series. 3 shots. Paid out of pocket. Costco. Not cheap. But much Cheaper than cancer. This is literally a vaccine against cancers - of the cervix, vagina, throat, anus and penis. No-brainer.
Fake bi men
We have had similar issues. Horny solo guys don't know what they want. Most bi-curious guys are really straight-desperate. They have no clue, but they do have this very important bucket list, and 'threesome' is right at the top. We seek so…
Questions about cock size
Women and men tell me they prefer Girth. I get it. Something about being stretched in That Way changes your brain chemicals. It is really an altered state that is not quite like anything else.
Where are all the bi men finding men
Changing your stated orientation from Straight to Bi may scare away the couples with genuinely phobic husbands. I count that as a plus.
Where are all the bi men finding men
If you liked CL, try doublelist
The pleasures this lifestyle offer
Have you considered changing your profile from Straight to Bi? You are more likely to meet couples like ourselves. We would not contact you, out of respect for your stated preference.
bi couples only posting her pics?
We have several pics of each. We would never meet anyone blind.
I want to join a couple as my first bi experience has anyone had luck with this
We are a bi couple. We play with friends, including bi males. Online, we seek bi-friendly couples, - but not solo bi males, or bi-curious males. We have arranged meetings with many guys, and are usually disappointed. Our profile now reads:…
women watching m-m sex
> why do women like to watch men having sex together.And why do they get so wet? Your question contains the answer.
What % of straight men here are bi-friendly?
Typical exchange: >MY PROFILE SAYS 'STRAIGHT', BUT I AM SECRETLY BI... Tell you what. Make up a new, free, anonymous profile that’s accurate, then contact us. Our profile is already accurate. Our pics show what we really look like. This is…
What % of straight men here are bi-friendly?
Typical exchange: >MY PROFILE SAYS 'STRAIGHT', BUT I AM SECRETLY BI... Tell you what. Make up a new, free, anonymous profile that’s accurate, then contact us. Our profile is already accurate. Our pics show what we really look like. This is…