Member Interest Levels

-I would like to see a list of who is searching for us and the level of interest, maybe if they actually access the profile . I wouldn't want a list of people just searching or looking at pics, if the access the profile page that would be on the list .

But what if they look at our profile, and THEN decide they aren't interested?

We see they looked at our profile and write to them to say "Hey, I see you're interested in us," but they really aren't (at least not after looking at our profile).

That could create all kinds of awkward situations.

We look at lots of profiles and decide not to go any further with the vast majority of them. Something they said in their profile, not interested in their looks, no photos (or no face photos)... any number of reasons. If we had everyone of those people contact us, it would be a royal pain.

If they look at your profile and they are interested, they will send you a message.

I would like to see a list of who is searching for us and the level of interest, maybe if they actually access the profile . I wouldn't want a list of people just searching or looking at pics, if the access the profile page that would be on the list .

I am very interested and excited about this new feature!! My sls notebook of yes, no, or maybe is annoying and time consuming. Anything that makes my work here easier translates into more fun time with partners I'm actually interested in :)

That's what I ended up doing... although I have our private picture gallery set up to be visible to "friends". They have to know it and go to the gallery, and it's someone I may be interested in anyway, but I haven't found a better way short of writing down profile names and that's just not something I want to do.

If you want to go back to a profile you saw before; mark it as "FRIEND" and it will be in your Friend list for later review

I think it would be nice to be able to search on the "star" system too. Sometimes I have been perusing through profiles, but don't want to write at that time, so I will mark that profile with a interest star. It would be nice to be able to go back and search for all 2 stars or 3 stars. Sometimes I can't find those profiles again, its weird.

How do you know those person(s) who demonstrate interest in your profile or not.

@slsMark , not necessarily a true block like we can do to individuals, but kinda like on the site search where we check a little box to "Hide No Interest"

I look at blocking someone, and not showing, or hiding interest as two different things.

If we block, we don't see them, and they don't see us unless we unblock them.

Hiding no interests we just don't see them, but they are still able to see us if they want. If we want to see them again, we just uncheck the box in the search.

Also, is there a way to reset an individuals star without having to give them a different one? To put it back to the question mark one.

~N

What that last post says to me is that you wish to have the no interest flag be the same as a block?

Being able to not show the ones we mark as "no interest" from the "Who's on" list would be great.

Why can't I search according to OTHER accounts interests, not just my own? Why do I want to see profiles that have no interest in solo males? What a waste of my time.

I like the star feature but would also like to be able to block the ones that I mark 'not interested' from viewing my profile. And would like for them to automatically not show up on my who's on list. Any ideas on this??

when you view a profile and you are not interested, click on the single star with the red X on it on their profile , that means not interested.
then the next time you do a quick search, make sure you check the box that says "Hide No Interest".
this will hide all profiles you gave a no interest star to. it takes a couple minutes for the star rating you gave a profile to show up.

I just want to know how to eliminate members that we are not interested in from future searches. The notes say it is possible but the same ones keep showing up. I don't want to search through hundreds of profiles I already looked at!

Welcome to the forums Sierra. Forget ratings, it looks like you're sporting quite the nasty sunburn. Ouch! :(

It is private information for only you to see.

ProfileReview - Wayne

can the couple see how we rate them or is it private view for us only?

Do I really have to see MEMBER HAS ELECTED TO BE INVISABLE TO MALE MEMBERS in large RED letters why not make that member invisable to me if they have elected to be so ? seems you already have a program to single them out ? it takes up a lot of room on the list and I don't care to know they are out there if they don't want to be contacted ....whats the point ? I would rather you spend some time coridinating the whos son list with the friends list and the chat light, so I know whos really on the site rather than guessing if they are on?, were on? and how long ago?

lost every thing on the left side of our screen! what,s up?

I agree with you its an of lame

When we rate a profile as "not interested", or if we block a user, we would like to not ever see the profile again in any searches, who's online, anything at all. Why waste our time when we already know we do not want to connect? THANKS!

Would like to have the option ,of seeing who is viewing our profile last... mite indicate interest or just browsing. least you would know you were being checked out ....

"every profile we click that we haven't "rated" shows a star with a red X through it, supposedly indicating "no interest".....

the entire star rating system seems kinda lame, do you really have to look at the star to remind yourself if you are interested in someone in a profile

it would be nice is the profile you rated would be notified they were rated a three star.... maybe only notify if a three star rating was offered....

as of now its just kinda silly, we know who we are interested in by looking at and reading the profiles, don't need a personal star rating to remind us..... "

There is a blue box surrounding the choice of the star that you have made for the member.

There are some additional things, such as searching that should be done to the stars, but I haven't received much response from members that the star system is "lame".

Chrystal

every profile we click that we haven't "rated" shows a star with a red X through it, supposedly indicating "no interest".....

the entire star rating system seems kinda lame, do you really have to look at the star to remind yourself if you are interested in someone in a profile

it would be nice is the profile you rated would be notified they were rated a three star.... maybe only notify if a three star rating was offered....

as of now its just kinda silly, we know who we are interested in by looking at and reading the profiles, don't need a personal star rating to remind us.....

"why are some people marked as not interested when i havent done anything to indicate that .......even my self is marked as not interested "

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I am showing that you have marked yourself with 3 stars, and are not listed as not interested.