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We "own" a few groups that are pretty dead... but there doesn't seem to be a way for the owner to delete them. Or, at least, I couldn't find one the last time I looked. Almost a year ago, we got emails about several of them from SLS admin…
Lots of brand new accounts include kik, skype and other contact information... as well as an amazing number of "violations," such all four sections saying "we'll fill this in later," or being filled in with "uihknjasrthkdmekkuiajkkkld." In…
Your profile doesn't really include much information. More generalities then anything. There's only one line specifically about her, and only one small, dark, generic picture of her. I assume that you have more photos of her in your locked…
If you fail to respond after five days, your ability to "Send New Messages" should be suspended until you respond to who wrote YOU! Makes Sense, Right? Wrong. My time is NOT dictated by the demands of others. Just because someone took the…
Who can we get in touch with voice our opinion on this? Sadly, the administration doesn't seem very interested in implementing few if any user requested features. People have been asking for keyword search for more than a decade. It SHOULD…
Same difference same point. Not at all. A "wink" is designed to send a message to your inbox. It's very one sided and it says "Hey! Look at us!" Take your stereotypical single guy who doesn't read profiles and (now) shotguns dozens or hund…
If there is no interest in a single male joining, then why not just show couple/females if that's all their interested in? Their preference may be couples/females, but they occasionally look for a single guy. It may only happen a few times…
Flirts can be a dime a dozen. It's not a stretch to imagine a new free single guy with no pictures and a total of 12 words (6 of them spelled incorrectly) "flirting" with dozens of couples and women just to get ANY response. If you wanna g…
::shrug:: If three different people interpret something the same way, it's not how we're reading it, it's how you're saying it.
Your your posts have stated that singles can't be part of the swinging world. ("by definition Swinging is couples with other couples.") If your solution is to remove single males, then it's not difficult to follow through that you should a…
It seems to me the easiest solution is not to allow single males. Do you also then plan to not allow single females? While a lot of couples probably wouldn't object to removing single males, you would likely have great howls of pain and gn…
Who pays for the background check?
How about adding the 'viewed profile' feature Man, I hope they don't unless you have an option to opt out! Yeah, it can be an icebreaker, but what if you read a profile and realize "hell no, we do NOT want to meet them!" Next thing you kno…
that like button on facebook wouldn't be so popular A "like" button here would just make it easy for lazy people. How many people on Facebook just click "like" for every post someone makes. "I got a new job." Like. "I had a bagel for lunch…
-I would like to see a list of who is searching for us and the level of interest, maybe if they actually access the profile . I wouldn't want a list of people just searching or looking at pics, if the access the profile page that would be…
"Those who expect to reap the blessings of freedom must, like men, undergo the fatigue of supporting it." --Thomas Paine: The American Crisis, No. 4,1777
-Yet another thing we actually have in common, M, as I don't think I've ever laughed at him or the show. Ditto for Friends. Wait... you mean those were supposed to be comedies?
‘‘Among the many misdeeds of the British rule in India, history will look upon the act of depriving a whole nation of arms, as the blackest.’’ — Mahatma Ghandi, "Gandhi, An Autobiography", page 446
Actually, I don't think it is... I've heard a half a dozen confirmed "sources" for it. Mother Theresa, Ben Franklin, Abe Lincoln, Mark Twain and John Corry (yeah, I've never heard of him either) have all been associated with it. On the ano…
-Police had received multiple calls of "shots fired" in the area. Sending more than 1 unit is considered "Officer Safety". Try locating a specific "shot" after the fact, almost impossible. My uncle was a cop for more than 20 years. I under…
Thankfully, I have no experience with response times from urban police departments, so I will defer on that point. However, with no visible evidence of a gun, I still don't think that the search was appropriate. There are very limited circ…
I disagree that the response was appropriate. IF the police thought there was truly a gun incident unfolding (i.e. sporadic gunfire followed by multiple gun shots), the SWAT team would have dropped on them like a brick wall in 5 minutes an…
-Sometimes you wonder... Welcome to the world of hoplophobia. All it takes is the mention of the "g word" and rational thought goes out the window. There have been cases of where a car with an NRA sticker is pulled over for a traffic viola…
Just an observation... If you distrust the current administration so much, why are you bragging about firearms purchases and stockpiling ammunition? I'm not paranoid enough to think that there ARE plants on SLS saying outrageous things to…
-winks There have been several threads on this. Management has pretty much said it's not going to happen.
-The member you click on should see that someone else is showing interest in their profile But what happens if you're NOT interested after you read their profile?
--naw, no good. think about it. what's been provided is a way to dismiss interest in a cruel way. Obviously you missed the fact that the interest stars are NOT visible to anyone else. You're the only ones who see the interest level you set…
In regard to what 2inVT said.... Check... Phone numbers, dates we met them, things like that all go in the notes. Check... Some people say that winks are great if you're shy... but if you're too shy to write a polite email, how are you goi…
-We don't think the stars should ever be made public!!!! Agreed... If you want to show interest in someone, send an email. It's worth the effort.
The wink and the "see who has looked at your profile" features have been discussed several times. They each have their pros and their cons. Now, as to the star system.... It's certainly simpler and quicker than writing a note, but if it's…
