Fake Poeple

One word...….WHAT?????

I learned something from this thread: Where the 'Unsubscribe' button is. Now if I could just find the 'Soothe my eyes and brain' button.

Reading that makes my head hurt. Sir, if you were scammed multiple times that's your fault. You'd think after the first time you'd be a little more careful.

SLS is a good swinging community. But it looks as if you want something completely different. You know, like a guaranteed (paid) fuck. Why else would you be giving strangers cash or your credit card info?!

I had to look since he is fairly local to us, and he posted in two different threads about fake people and profiles.

I can’t believe you people made me look at that.
I found it disturbing. Ruined my already disappointing night.

So you see a difference between a fairly slim/trim hairy chest vs a baby-butt-bare chest that likely has spent far too much time at the dinner table and far too little time at the gym????…..maybe it is summer coat vs winter coat??? LOL

Good catch caple, can you say ironic?

~Scamp

"I really hate it when people invite you to kik and they just want to collect pictures from you and never meet up. I use encountered that a lot, if they aren't certify trust is off the table" -- Romingaction69

Dude, YOU aren't certified. Based on your own words no one should trust you.

My observation from our experience? If you had reached out to us I would have suspected that you were looking to collect photos and/or stories to get off. Your profile is awful and it appears that there are two different men in your photos.

Can we include as "Fake" the members who have some sort of declaration that they are taking a break from swinging yet log on every day?

Any profiles that came online after they shut craigslist down are questionable. 8 out of 10 seem to be fake.

Butter or nah?

And what's actually fake is the people throwing subliminal messages and not directly going to the source ( the accused )with their questions and concerns instead they write in a Blog and think that that's okay like that is not fake all in it self ... Grow a backbone peoples and be straight up straight forward

It is not that serious people use common sense and your logic and the profile certs . Communicate with the certs with all your questions and concerns . I have reached to many yet received very few responses so I guess the ones that built for this with a stomach for this type scenario as far as actually meeting up and going threw with plan are the backbones to this website....

Amen to that! We old school swingers when you went to club's and talked to people face to face and can see someone's body language!
We really believe 80% of online people have no intentions of ever meeting anybody!

Amen to that! We old school swingers when you went to club's and talked to people face to face and can see someone's body language!
We really believe 80% of online people have intentions of ever meeting anybody!

It sounds as if some of you might be writing folks off a little to quickly. I will never, ever talk on the phone with someone. I'm just not a phone person. I don't want to give you my number and you think it's ok to call me whenever. I hate the sound of the phone ringing, it annoys me. If you want to meet in person, I'm all for that. I also have a couples profile here with my FWB. We've been together for 2 years, play as a couple frequently, but we're not married and we don't live together so you're never going to get the two of us on the phone together. And he will never talk on the phone either. In the two years we've been together we had yet to talk on the phone with each other. I'm not the only one that avoids the phone. I've had couples stop messaging because I wouldn't talk on the phone, or send the a picture of the two of us together. Their loss, we find someone else that is not so uptight and have a great time with them. So, maybe be a little more flexible with folks, give them a chance and have some fun.

"would that be like the single male who has a couples profile that is actually for a group? "

Or....... or....... a 99 yr old swinging female, you just know that's bullshit.

:-)

I love it when only 1 person speaks via email, just part of our vetting process

Weekday, would that be like the single male who has a couples profile that is actually for a group?

@weekdays

Never happen. Your flakey couple may be our great night plus some may abuse the feature to dis a couple who rejected them.

As imperfect as it is, SLS already has certs to help all of us separate real people from fakes.

~Scamp

LIFETIME MEMBERS should be able to put reviews in that other LIFETIME MEMBERS can see on profiles. IE: "This person is bullshit, don't bother".

It's been so common that you can spot them quick. I love toying with them right back. So if you are reading this We Are Real. Reach out.

@55ShadesOfFun

Very familiar, only the guy meeting me wanted to play with me. since his "wife" wasn't feeling well.

We recently had a weird one. Chatted with a couple made plans, the wife voice verified with the "other wife" Then only the male showed up saying he dropped her off at home because she was sick. He didn't understand why we ended our meet right there;.

We recently had a weird one. Chatted with a couple made plans, the wife voice verified with the "other wife" Then only the male showed up saying he dropped her off at home because she was sick. He didn't understand why we ended our meet right there;.