Fake Poeple

The fake profiles I’ve encountered were normally created the same day they contacted me or very recent. They immediately want to chat via KiK and ask for dick pics

I've had a 99 no 90....wait wait make that 85% success rate talking on the phone. I had to include the Bi guys that call an make excuses as to why the lady can't come to the phone. Even had one guy show up in my hotel lobby telling me his wife wasn't feeling good but since he was there anyway he offered to give me head. Ha!!

With text it's been like less than 50%. Maybe its that I don't like texting. I have sent text people up until the morning of or a couple of hours prior while getting ready and then no more answers back to my texts.

So phone is better for me because I can weed them out according to what I hear or when the direction of the conversation goes to tell me what you would do to my wife or GF.

Agreed. Emails, texting, even a phone chat really doesn't mean a whole lot, though it can certainly help you rule folks out. You can't feel a vibe over the phone. There's no equivalent to meeting in person for making a decision to play.

I would venture a guess that close to 99% of the profiles on SLS are fake. By "Fake" I mean:

Single guys posing as couples or women.
Guys, women and couples who will no follow through with plans to meet.
Outright phony profiles set up to boost numbers. Probably not too many of these though.

Pictures posted or exchanged don't prove a damn thing. Anybody can post or exchange pics from somebody else's profile or that somebody else sent him or her.

Texting regardless of the platform i.e. Skype, KIK, phone texting also doesn't prove a damn thing.

A phone call is second best to video chatting. Beware of voice changers. Listen to the tone of voice.

Meeting in person is best but can be a bi waste of time. We filter out almost all who we have been disinterested in before meeting.

Please do.

Cheers Rabbit, if we ever make it down that way we will be sure to look you two up!

To each their own on how to weed out fakes.

RK, give us a call sometime!

Kinkykd, let us know when you are in New Orleans and the first drink is on us.

;^D

~S~

Now their are the ones that will go to the phone but all they want to do is text, then it again can be a fake !

Hey that guy has it right, it is the Russian’s ! Lol

I can see their point, if u will not talk by phone then their might be a issue ? Plus I think u get a better idea if u may click or not by talking, it is just much more personal.

RonKathy, trust me, I'm anything but shy in my own bed. I'm not sure how nat wanting talk on the phone translates to being sexually shy but it certainly doesn't ring true for me. Besides, you can talk on the phone all you want, that doesn't guarantee someone will actually show up. Hubby has spoke with single guys on the phone before we've met and that's his choice. He's much more of a phone person than I am though.

Come to think of it, we've never had anyone ask for a phone conversation. I still say a quick meet is the best way. If they don't show or aren't as advertised, oh well, night out with the hubby!

I don't think you can completely outrule people who don't want to talk on the phone. I've never talked with any of our ls friends on the phone, I'm just not a phone person. I hate it in everyday life lol. I think arranging a time to meet briefly in public is the best route.

Oh babe...90% of the profiles here are either fake or married men having some ideas about his wife swinging. And out of the other 10%, about half are wanna be couples and will show up to be voyeurs. There is no way the husband is going to let his wife get fucked and much less have an orgasm.

there is a lot of fake profiles on here if some one looks at your profile many times and wont even see hello they are just looking for pics to jerk off to or when they say lets meet and back out every time they are fake!!!!!!!!!!

What SiandMax said. Perfect distillation of the issue.

When I think of "fake" profiles I think of things like the shills for porn websites or escorts, catfishers looking to grab email addresses or set you up to give them money etc. The recent NY Tinder actress this summer who famously scammed a couple of hundred guys into meeting her in public for some TV dating competition is a great example.

But just because someone doesn't jump on your dick doesn't mean they're fake. It just means they're not into you. They may not realize it until they've had a fair amount of interaction, either with messages or photos. Or they have VERY exacting requirements for playmates. And like it or not, ghosting someone has become the norm in society at large (frankly, it's been going on for decades). Whining about it won't change anything, it just makes you look like a wuss.

@drew,

Email customer service with your complaint and delete your post as it does violate the TOS.

~S~

You need to delete that post. Calling out a specific member by name like that is against the TOS and can get you kicked off the site if management wants to get froggy.

I've yet to encounter fakes here. Just because someone ghosts you doesn't mean they're fake profiles. Maybe they're just assholes.
Professional photos doesn't mean fake either.
Here's a rule of thumb. If they don't want to meet, they don't like you, or they aren't ready for that step. Assuming the profile is fake is a bit....arrogant.
Active conversations over an anonymous text program (kik) is just as good as voice. I absolutely WON'T voice verify. We set up a public place meet. They show, great. They don't, we have a good time anyway.

It is a pain in the ass being a new guy cause your mark a fake or just overlooked .
Never understood why you would come on here as a fake what do you get out of it.

It's the Russians.

We've only been here a few months, and, even though we've chatted with dozens, we haven't met a fake so far. I'm wondering if they mostly target singles. One thing we stay away from is pics that look too good to be true, both the professionalism of the pics and the flawless bodies. But then again, we aren't searching for perfect bodies.

Was talking about this in another thread and a few silly couples wanted to jump on me because they have no respect for single guys in the LS so they don't think our time and $$$ for a membership is just as valid as theirs.

Anyway yea you can go through the telephone route. I did that on a few dating sites. I would talk to a woman for about a week or 2 on a dating site then it was time to move to the phone. If they didn't want to move to the phone I cut them off. But BEWARE of the phone people because I still got bullshitted several times with single women via phone before I figured it out.

• A HUGE indication that you're dealing with fake ass people is they NEVER will actually talk to you. They will text, text text but they will NEVER speak with you live. When they text they make up all these excuses why they can't speak, yet they are still asking for cock and fuck pictures. Beware of that to. If you can't hear a male and female voice, you're probably dealing with a fake.

Another thing that I FIRMLY believe in. I believe in "XXX" photos. Something that's ALWAYS happened to me with fake bullshitters on these sites. THEY NEVER have any XXX play pictures. I'm not talking about a guy standing around with his dick in his hand. Or close ups of a woman giving a BJ or close ups of insertion missionary or doggie style. That can just be a guy with his girlfriend posing as a couple she's clueless, or a husband wife his wife and they are just game players or she has no clue he's even on here. Every couple I've met had those pictures you could tell a 3rd or 4th party was in the room, they were comfortable at play while someone was taking pictures from different angles a ways off not close up like I described. Some couples have 100s of them while other couples and real people have just a handful. You don't need 100s but 5 or 6 and you know they are legit players.

Now some of you may disagree with that, but its just been MY OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE of who's real who's not.

As to what is a FAKE?

FAKE =Any person male, female or couple that comes on these sites and have ABSOLUTELY NO INTENTION OF EVER MEETING ANYONE, ANYWHERE, ANYTIME, yet they claim they will but before so want you to entertain them with stories and pictures over and over again. Basically they want to live out their fantasies vicariously through these sites. It could be a gay or bi guy just wanting to collect dick pictures. It could be some guy that loves interracial porn just collecting interracial swing pics. It could be a husband wanting his wife to play but he's really to chicken shit to do it but he wants to collect pictures. To me those people are total fakes.

Oh one last thing you all need to be careful of. Its a theory by many real swingers (I read a profile tonight) that only "real swingers" visit these sites (and everyone should post face pictures). BULLSHIT. Its several people who come on these sites just to out people, see who you are, ruin or career, embarrass you at work, black mail you that type of thing if they got wind some how you play.

Just my 2 cents everyone. Good luck to you all and have fun!!!!!!!!

There are more fake profiles then you could imagine.... also if you look up alot of the list of people that are supposively going to attend alot of the club parties is usually the same fake peofiles.. they donit to get a lot of suckers to dish out money.. hoping they meet the perfect people on these sites its pathetic and sad.. your best bet is to message people and when you do find the real ones the will ask you for an email or phone number to make an initial hook up.. other wise i suggest you attend some of the local party clubs and find real.live action... oh and by the way go for the clubs where they alllow single males alot of other ones are couples only... there are also numerous house parties amd hotel parties if you can swing that!!! =) peace and go do some fucking for all of us!!!!

I have come to the realization that the quickest way to determine the sincerity of people after an initial period of getting to know them is to request to speak with them more directly such as a phone call. The fakes usually ghost and you likely never hear from them again.

@geeraider - So, who is faking you out? The single females or the couples?