Wife

There is a wide gulf separating fantasy from reality...it’s often ignored during the process of wishful thinking.

Tramp

I read the OP, then read the OP's profile, then read the other postings from bottom up. Was about to post a message, but then I saw that RabbitScamp had already said exactly what I was about to say.

Totally agree, NOT BUYING the OP!!!!!

Member since 2010, no pics, all about the male’s fantasies including some really basic stuff that most teenagers have experienced, a lot of bi male fantasies and your post is asking about how to get the wife interested?

Sorry, not buying it.

~S~

your profile reads like it's all about you and what you want, even tho you say you have ed issues.
does your wife know you have this profile? have you talked to HER about it?

What makes a marriage boring is only having sex with your other half for thirty years. get naked go to orgies and have fun fucking other people. you guys will be grinning like high school kids.

everyone secretly desires to have sex with someone other then their other half.

Definitely don't surprise her by ending up at house party to surprise her. You are already online. Be sure, if you haven't already, involve her in writing the profile and taking pictures. Talk through options of which fantasies you all want to try first. Take it step by step. Most people don't know how they will react with their first experience. You may think you are ok watching her but you don't know until it happens. Be exceptionally deliberate. Now it would be a good idea to go to a party or club the first time out just so both of you can meet real people. Online stuff can be very frustrating. Just be sure that both of you are doing this together and always communicating non-stop.

Our take - talk to her.

Not sure how to start this. However, over the past few years like most couples the spark has diminished in our sex life. As you get older, that sometimes happens but the desire is still there. In addition, I have an off and on issued with ED.

In the heat of passion, she has mentioned when asked (as I am fucking her with both a dildo and my cock) that she would like to try two dicks at once. I have noticed that this gets her really excited and extremely wet. I have also noticed that she finds certain women very attractive. She seems to have a thing for the actress who plays wonder woman to the point where I had to buy her the DVD. Very unlike her. I also think that she has some curiosity about other women. First noticed this years ago when we were at a nudist resort (had a weekend place there) and during a drinking game, another woman sucked her nipple and I had never seen her nipples get that hard before or since.

I have the feeling that she has some hidden desires that she is reluctant to act on. I would like her to enjoy herself sexually and hope that if she becomes comfortable with another couple she can explore her sexuality.

Looking for a local couple to get to know her and help her explore.