Submissive or Dominate
I'm Dom, she's sub with me, but will switch with a true submissive. We're looking for subs to play in and around San Diego.
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I'm Dom, she's sub with me, but will switch with a true submissive. We're looking for subs to play in and around San Diego.
Sea Mountain just reopened at its new location about a month ago. We went about a week ago on a Friday night and it was dead. 3 couples and one left early. No luck.
We'll be there 2/22-24/2023. Will anyone else be there then?
Yes, we went last week on a Friday night around 8 PM. There were three couples there; we were the fourth. One couple left immediately. Another couple went to a playroom for private play and left shortly after. So it was just us and one oth…
Sounds interesting; I hope you get more replies. We're new to SoCal and would like to know where the hot clubs are.
My gf and I are considering trying SMI and would appreciate a review from anyone who's been recently.
My gf and I are also interested in any reviews of those who've been. We are thinking of going.
I got mine as soon as I possibly could and am now fully vaccinated. No side effects. None. Phew!
I got mine as soon as I possibly could and am now fully vaccinated. No side effects. None. Phew!
PrtyPals, that sounds interesting. We'd love to hear more.
Bi, straight, gay, I'm much less concerned with how a guy labels himself than I am over what he expects regarding play. And if a guy sucks my cock and wants to say I'm bi because I enjoyed him giving me a bj, that's fine.
Great comments. Thank you
Thanks Mario609. I guess that leaves me with one option only.
TallMark45 Yes you will likely enjoy it, just read all the horny bi guys post always looking for a cock to suck.... Where do I find these posts?
This by VaBeachCouple33 sounds right “ It's been explained to you. Everyone here realizes that "curious" means something specific. But since it's the only choice offered between Straight and Bi, it is forced to stand in for all of the in-b…
Argh! I just moved and am without a partner. Was hoping to meet new people. Now hopes are dashed! Meeting is difficult. Regardless, I don’t see how to play in the age of Covid. What are people doing?
Can straight guys who just love to be sucked join?
Hey Mr/MrsSmith! Thanks for the tip. But first I have to say great profile pic. Gives new meaning to "packing". Back to the T and ED matter, I'm moving to CA at the end of the week! I'll have to see someone out there.
RonKathy, great attitude. I can see why you are successful. Forum topics for us folks "of a certain age" are very helpful and encouraging. Sex and fun do not stop at 60! 70 is the new 40, MIRITE?!
Thanks RonKathy and Houston! I was hoping to avoid the Dr, but guess that's not possible. Dr. Empty stomach. Beets. Got it! ;-)
Circumstances have forced me to move, leaving my partner 3,000 miles away. I can't seem to figure out how to change my profile from a couple to a single male. Any suggestions? Help!
This sounds like an awesome place! I'm moving to SoCal next month and I will put Sea Mountain at the top of my list! Are single men allowed?
So I'm getting to that age where erections are softer, less reliable, even tho appetite and libido are as strong as ever. I'm going to look into Viagra or other drugs. What's involved, do I need a prescription and what should I figure on s…
Getting old sucks, and not in a good way unfortunately. Thanks for posting as aging is a topic that effects us all. And the irony is that even as I get older (less attractive/desirable) I find myself still looking for younger women! Ha! If…
When we started out swinging, we got punked too. Anyway, I now report any suspicious profiles to SLS. You all should too. SLS needs to do more to police fake profiles.
Webegood and MusicalPair, great stuff! Way to live the fantasy!
Guys, have you tried Grinder to find straight guys who want a blow job? Can straight guys use Grinder to ask for oral pleasure (assuming they only want to receive and not reciprocate)?
On the whole I'd say women; however, I did get a superb bro job once. As the guy was sucking me I remember thinking "this is maybe the best blow job I've ever received." And I've had some great ones!
So guys, have you tried Grinder to find straight guys who want a blow job? Can straight guys use Grinder to ask for oral pleasure?
TallMark45 and C1b1: I think you have the right attitude. It's not about labeling it's about fun! If someone wants to suck and the other wants to be sucked then why not? So long as it's clear up front what each wants and expects.
male504fun, yeah, I get that. If a nice guy wants to suck me without reciprocation, who am I to deny? That would be downright rude!
Spurr, Ragtop and hotcpl76, thanks for your replies. At the risk of ruining the fun, Kinsey found we are all on a spectrum of straight to gay on a 0-6 scale with 0 being exclusively hetero and 6 being exclusively same sex. I enjoy having m…
Thanks for the replies! My partner enjoys watching me get sucked. Cum to think of it I like it too! ;-) I love seeing her turned on.
Friedman, daacars, thank you. That’s good to know. Very helpful. I appreciate your responses.
When you suck a straight guy, do you expect him or his partner to return the favor? Does anyone enjoy giving a straight guy a bj even tho you don't get a bj in return?
Very sexy. We want to try it.
Seconding what CTBiGirl and Maripaz posted! Watching my partner fuck another woman is so hot!
Just wanted to offer support to you and good luck in your search. I think polyamory is great, especially when it works.
We live in a small town, so we're almost always "out of town". He he he!
Great thread. We'd love to entertain a Hotwife. Nothing hotter than a woman with a libido who wants to play independently or with her hubby watching.