@Hotluvrs- I’m able to keep mine off of my bed, whether the door’s open or closed and keep them out at night without any crying at the bedroom door (knock on wood), but jump on a msft teams call and I have one lap cat and another puffball walking between my feet, licking away with that sandpaper tongue. When I had the dogs, they wanted to be in the bedroom, but slept on the floor, mostly.
BT