Get creative

Do you ever see the BUBBLE HEAD action in the parking lots? I do!

I drive my wife shopping and wait for her in the big parking lots, sometimes 80% empty. Except for the two cars parked alone. I keep my distance and see one driver get into the other car. Then after the small talk I see the BOBBLE HEAD action. Does anyone do the BOBBLE HEAD action in the shopping centers parking lots? Lonely cheaters during the day. B J's and muff dives and not get pregnant.

One position I like is to take her from behind, lying on her (either) side. I guess it’s a “spooning” position. I’ve noticed that in this “side position” some women are able to control their vagina more and like long, slow strokes where they can squeeze and release the dick more and get “bumped” inside very well, without being bumped too hard. The position also makes for her husband’s great viewing of my dick stroking her, great closeup videoing, great clit licking access for him, allowing him more participation and them both more “face time together, kissing and whispering, while she’s being fucked nicely in a relaxed position. So it allows more intimacy between them, if that’s what they would like. She can hit multiple orgasms while being pampered in this way. It is really very intimate for all three, as it improves mutual enjoyment. This position also makes dvp easier, too, if that’s what she wants......usually not so much from that position. I guess you could say it’s a win/win/win.

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If a girl seems to really be enjoying herself then some guys may simply not think to ask about a different position. A lot of those same guys are probably more than happy to accommodate the Mrs if she were to ask.

I do know that, I myself am much more likely to cum in missionary but certainly don't mind any of the other positions mentioned. Sometimes guys have a curved cock and certain positions work better for both parties versus others.

Do you think that it may be because you are watching? They may think that the missionary position gives you the best view. Perhaps they are thinking that you are going to 'direct' for them. Why not just make a comment to the guy . . . "Ok, the egg timer went off, time to flip it over so the biscuit doesn't burn" :)

I know my wife certainly enjoys herself much more when her partner wants to fuck her in more than just a missionary position. She also really enjoys getting on top and riding a man. She can also take it anally when sitting on top. I know she's surprised many a man when she just sits on him and he finds himself in her ass. She likes a lot of variety in positions when having sex. That being said, we do run into guys who just seem to know how to have sex one way. They don't become long term friends.

cacpl_26 that's it exactly. it seems she has to "bring it up" as it were or no one does (sort of I do cue her so it does not come from me).

2inUPMichigan the last guy who said he was "adventurous" it was not so much in the bedroom as well he wanted to do things in public that get you arrested and on a list in these parts. BTW I don't just mean "outdoors" but in very public places. We took a hard pass on that one. I guess that word can mean different things to different people.

I personally think it is the men that you have been meeting because I definitely have not found that to be true at all.

My profile says I am looking for adventure so maybe that is why I find men that like to change things up?

I understand now. Perhaps they're not sure she likes variety? Maybe if she moves once they'll get the hint. Hopefully. We've never had anyone not switch things up, but lately I've been the one to mention that I need to move.

It might be a statistical blip or even somehow unconsciously selecting less adventurous men. It's certainly nothing like my experience. It's been some time since I added a new guy...no, actually it hasn't, but it's been a while since I added someone that was totally new to me and didn't have someone else I knew well there calling some of the shots, but I'm pretty sure I emphasize my appreciation for variety with anyone I'm even considering having coffee with.

Could you try that?

It's not about her not suggesting different positions or "taking charge" as it were but it would be nice if the guys would take the initiative. Back in the late 90's up until the mid 2000's when we had to take a break due to life happening (loss of our baby sitter, moving, etc) she never had to suggest a change or at least it was rare. Now it seems like guys are concerned if they even suggest a position change it might end the encounter. Like I said maybe it is the guys she has been with recently but it would be nice if she did not have to guide everything. Everyone involved should speak up and that includes the other guy.

I'm really trying to see if anyone has a "reason" this is happening and suggest guys (or ones in our recent experience) might need to get a little more creative. I know it cannot be every one out there but seriously what gives?

She is just as capable of switching positions. Does she know you want to see her in a different way?

It physically hurts me (the Mrs.) to be in any position for too long so I'm usually the one to change things up after a while.

So I enjoy watching my wife with another man and she enjoys herself as well. One thing we have noticed since we got back to being active in the lifestyle is a bit of lack in creativity when it comes to positions. Now we understand we are all older, not as flexible, and maybe not in such as good shape as when we were say 30 but still is missionary all you have in your playbook? Not that some guys have not suggested a change but as much as guys complement her on her ass almost no one seems to want to go doggy style or even one of my favorite to watch (and should be a guy's favorite as well) woman on top. Maybe it's just the guys we have been with recently, age catching up with folks, or perhaps they are waiting for her or even me to suggest a position change but personally I don't get why this is happening. BTW I'm not talking overhead monkey style while hanging from the rafters acrobat style but how about flip her over and have her get on her knees or tell her to ride you. You know just something simple.