Awww! these answers are wonderful. I truly believe everyone should try the lifestyle once, AFTER a strong, happy, healthy and committed relationship is formed.
Thanks for all the great answers!
Couples: Do you save anything for each other only?
Well our love for each other, of course. We don’t contact other partners of the opposite sex alone or in any forum where the other can’t see and be aware of it. No internal cream pies for either of us by anyone but each other.
38 years here and wouldn't trade her for anything....!!! my soulmate !!!
Well we have not done much but kissing on the mouth and sex without a condom. Are ground rules also states together or not at all.
She experiences much more sexually - penetration and positions. Love Isnt the same but passion and lust is higher.
Not intentional, but probably just anal sex. The Mrs isn't always up for it and if/when she is, it's more of a trust issue.
The only thing we save is love, nothing else.
Yes ... in the world of recreational sex, I would never have intercourse without a condom. I also do not kiss other men, which admittedly makes no sense, but when it comes to ground rules, they don't have to make sense.
The other things are more broad based ... strictly recreational/physical with nothing personal/emotional. I do not do one-on-one, I am not looking for a relationship, a date, or even a "friend." I don't do drinks, dinner, dancing ... or even much in the way of conversation. It's not that I do not want to get to know them ... I deliberately want NOT to get to know them.
No its all about having fun. The only rule that we have since single men because part of swinging is that i the man have to have a woman to play with before my wife can go off with a man.
it sucks to have this rule but nothing is couples only anymore.
Nope.