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Everybody is so sensitive these days .. You are right it seems like people just pick at each other . I will tell you what we like . Attitude , character , personality , etc ... These things seem to make everyone look better . Does that mean we are going to sleep with them ? Of course not , but we can still get along and flirting and have a good time . NGSB I do the same thing, just step away occasionally them come back later . Hopefully you come back sooner than later to flirt some ; )

Ms. Rabbit. I was not meaning anything by the post except that it seems that the forums are less fun these days because it seems that a lot of people just want to find stuff to argue about rather than them being a place to come to to flirt and goof around. Our whole society has just become argumentative and rude. I think that it may be time for myself to back out of the forums altogether. I come here for fun and entertainment. I just don’t like them anymore.
As u know I think u are goodness sexy and hope to get to meet y’all in the future. I could care less if somebody thinks I’m fat or whatever. I just really don’t care too much. Some think I’m sexy and others think I’m disgusting I’m sure. No offense meant. Much love to all.

SB

Rabbit, unfortunately many will jut see the difference. They have been programmed by society and nothing will change their minds. It’s just sad that they may be missing out on some amazing people.

Fokker, Thank you for pointing out that any kind of shaming is hateful and also hurtful.

PP- neither Scamp nor I said thin=fit. We usually post “thin/fit” to imply that we prefer thin and/or fit people.

Not all thin people are fit and not all fit people are thin. I’m quite certain that there are many women with 50 more pounds than me that could kick my ass in a marathon.

It’s absolutely fine to have a preference. It’s perfectly fine to state you have said preference. It’s not fine to shame those that don’t fit your preference.

Can you see the difference?

~rabbit~

Prty hit the nail on the head. My wife is a size many would judge as unfit on the surface. But she is the fittest strongest person I know. She works out more than most of the gym rats we know.

We're also on board with Fokkers. Stop labeling folks and just accept them for who they are. If you're not attracted to them so be it. But calling them names just devalues them as people.

Sometimes I disagree with what Rabbit or Scamp post, usually I agree. They usually present their feelings and opinions as just that - theirs. It may not be what you think or agree with, but it’s theirs and as such deserves some. Level of respect.
Lifestyle folk are supposed to be open minded., but I have always found that when it comes to weight and body type most aren't.
That’s fine, that’s your opinion. I do agree with them that it’s not right to body shame anyone. If it’s not your thing, it’s not your thing. Just because someone is a BBW or a ‘stick’ doesn’t make them less appealing or sexy. .maybe we need to stop labeling people, it’s hateful and honestly it’s not very attractive.
Take it as you may, but we don’t care what anyone’s body type is, if they look good, if we can joke with them, if they show us respect... we’ll thats what we find attractive.
And honestly has anyone seen R & S pictures; they are incredibly exotic, erotic, and pretty damn hot.

Why would you think that thin makes fit?? It doesn’t always go that way. There are women out there that are just naturally heavier but also just as fit as a “thin” person. Just saying.

I’m sure I’ll regret posting this.....

SB? Are you actually saying it’s ok for people to make fun of me because I’m thin? That I should ignore it and not be offended?

If so, do I get to call heavier people names too? Does it go both ways?

It’s ok if I post about how I prefer thin and fit people that take care of their bodies and I think fatties are gross?

Respect goes both ways.

~rabbit~

My gosh u have to be a trained politician to post anywhere in these forums in order not to offend someone. I think our society anymore is just too easily offended. The forums are just getting not so enjoyable anymore. Just my opinion.

SB

Wow, hard to understand what exactly you are trying to say there Ray, but I think I get the gist.

You are trying to say you didn’t offend anyone? You’re wrong, You offended me. I’m a thin woman. I do not like to be called a “stick”

Putting someone down in an attempt to build up yourself or anyone else is always wrong.

Just. Stop. Doing. It.

Like what you like, love who you are, fuck those you are attracted to and accept all others as unique individuals.

~rabbit~

Saying you prefer women with curves and a few extra pounds is stating a preference.

Calling thin women “a stick holding bones” is offensive.

Do you not see that?

We all judge and we all have preferences but there is a way of stating yours without insulting others.

~S~

Scamp I didn't offensive any one if u born extra bound or thin nothing can do about it I like both but I like extra bounds more that's my opinion I dont know what's u opinion about kind ppl u want to have sex with I dont judge

I think I made myself pretty clear. Body shaming takes many forms and all are equally offensive. Should I not be allowed to call out someone who is being rude just because his form of body shaming doesn’t offend you?

I don’t understand why people who openly admit they are offended when shamed about being overweight think it’s ok to shame other women’s bodies. Think about how it makes you feel to be called BBW and then ask yourself why it’s ok to call women stick figures.

Why not try treating all women with the same respect you want for yourself, or for your wife if it’s the male half posting?

~S~

Scamp....why read this topic if you correct everyone’s opinion on their thoughts?? I’d advise you just read what you’re interested in. Like BIG beautiful women (BBW) is flattering??? I don’t think so. I’d be pissed if someone called me that.

"I love the extra pounds and little curve not stick holding bones"

So you think it's ok to body shame thin/fit women but would probably lose your shit if anyone dared referred to an overweight woman as fat or worse.

Do you not realize that your comments are just as offensive?

~Scamp~

I love the extra pounds and little curve not stick holding bones

We welcome BBW's. Everyone has their qualities and this lifestyle is not about judging each other. Let's have fun and enjoy the lifestyle for what it is..

however some have that superman/black adonis complex and reject any men under 6" and wonder why they are alone inmho

i love bbws

I’ve been with all the “types” and have found that sexy is an attitude and confidence. I have never limited myself with a “type” or “preference “. I like a sexy and fun lady. I don’t want to miss any great experiences by limiting them.

SB

I’ve been with “skinny” ladies, fit ladies, average size ladies and BBWs. Hands down, the BBWs are soooo much better overall. IMHO, A BBW who is comfy with herself is a FAR better lover. ;-)

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We just have to get passed the mindset of judging. Women are just beautiful period. But of course you have those of different opinions.

Thank u so much

All I can say is glorious to your profile photos Northgirlsouthboy