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RonKathy wrote: No, both older at 71 and 68 ..so for us we encourage both to work out at gym daily, cardio and free weighs always..20 minutes of a sauna daily, plenty of hydration drinks daily like soursop or coconut waters.. we play pickl…
MIDLIFE CRISIS??? Not sure if that’s what this is because I’m a little older for it, but I’m just not satisfied with anything lately. I use to love small parties because hubby could find who he was interested in and I could do the same or…
I have a hubby and a Dom. You don’t have the same relationship with your Dom as you do with your hubby.
Hubby wasn’t into bdsm and was okay with me finding a Dom as long as everyone agreed. I found one and after one year, was collared. Was play at home, go to munches and dungeon parties. But the swinging LS is for hubby.
I’m collared but not to hubby
I was a BBW (hate that term), or should I say a curvy beautiful woman. Lost a ton of weight so it will be interesting how I’m approached now. I’m hoping i had fun and it had nothing to do with my weight and more to do with my personality a…
To find more people involved, I would try fetlife
I always thought that having a poly relationship was having not only a sexual relationship but also an emotional relationship as well. A lot of the people in BDSM have poly relationships and they work out great if there is trust and open c…
Going to miss this year but hopefully we’ll be there next year!
Taking our first cruise on Harmony April 7, 2019 out of Ft Lauderdale with a vanilla couple. Help.....lol
Why would you think that thin makes fit?? It doesn’t always go that way. There are women out there that are just naturally heavier but also just as fit as a “thin” person. Just saying.
Scamp....why read this topic if you correct everyone’s opinion on their thoughts?? I’d advise you just read what you’re interested in. Like BIG beautiful women (BBW) is flattering??? I don’t think so. I’d be pissed if someone called me tha…
This is our first party with Dave and Kimi too. Can’t wait to meet everyone and have fun!!
ncal......this is a swinger site. Unless you’re talking on a political forum, please leave the politics out of it!! Everyone is really getting sick of hearing it. Keep to the topics. Thank you
Omg scamp you read way too much into this and obviously whatever I say is going to be wrong in your eyes so I’m done.
Ohhhh scammy didn’t know I took that out. Thanks for letting me know so I could put it back in. Lifestylers love hearing we are real, normal people. And no hard feelings taken here from anyone. I understand this is a forum and people can s…
I’m sorry that you took my post SO WRONG Scamp but I don’t remember saying anyone was fake or judgmental. I’m just saying that HWP means a lot of different things besides being FAT and in this particular post it seems if you’re not skinny,…
This topic always gets to me. I don’t even put my weight because, frankly, it’s none of anyone’s f**** business. We love meeting people in the LS and have turned down quite a few because we don’t click. I can’t remember ever being turned d…
I have to say how hysterical this whole topic has gotten...in fact we look forward to reading this bullshit everyday and even get drinks to enjoy the show. Please keep it up!!
im Just saying, do you know how many people out there that have had a cold sore? Guess what that is? And even if they don’t have it anymore or haven’t in years and go down on you, guess what you could have? Most of the time it’s spread at…
You just made my point....we’ve only been in the LS a few years and know of several people that have it but don’t say anything. It’s horrible but they play all the time. What I’m saying is you THINK you know the person but do you really??
Imagine the people that don’t have certs and don’t tell people and keep on playing. I’m learning that people just don’t get tested or tested for the right things because they don’t want to know and have to have the talk. You want to “belie…
I love this post and reading what guys think. I have been starving myself for years trying to be the prefect weight and with a thyroid problem it's very hard to do. I think I've tried every weight lose program out there. I have never had a…
I like the addition. One thing I would add is the view date. That would really help. Thank you
I'm really getting a lot out of these forums...a lot of advise from others on just about everything. DP is definitely on my "to do" list when I find the right SM I feel like it would be very erotic but also a very intimate thing so haven't…
(Because I can't say.... Always looking)
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I'm fairly new to swinging and have only been doing it since August but I just don't get how many bi girls there are. I just can't imagine going downtown on a woman myself and love everything about a mans cock. For me it's a challenge to s…
I'm fairly new to swinging and have only been doing it since August but I just don't get how many bi girls there are. I just can't imagine going downtown on a woman myself and love everything about a mans cock. For me it's a challenge to s…
