Are any men interested

Sed,
I don't know about CAN'T, so much as a tendancy towards skinny women...
-not being in posession of soft curves
-not having natural 40DD's
-not having bony hips that hurt if you hit it too hard

"Are any men interested in a woman who is an actual woman and not a stick?"

So.... anyone who's not significantly overweight isn't an actual woman?

"Why do most men get turned off just because I have a few extra pounds?"

Some do, some don't. Those that do, so be it.

"Is today's society that close minded that everyone must be anorexic or spend thousands to look like an airbrushed model out of a magazine?"

Absolutely not. If this were true, 99.9% of women would be repulsive to everyone.

I'm frankly tired of this last bit. I'm tired of women acting like there are only 2 kinds of women - overweight ones and perfect ones. Who the hell is telling you this?

If I were 280 pounds, and complained that my huge beer gut turned women off (don't lie and say it wouldn't), whining that we all don't look like Calvin Klein models and women aren't fair to us etc etc, how far would that go?

Single male listed as a couple alert.

I'm interested, if you are a spankee. Most BBWs I know are intellectually inclined and kind.

I go along with Tennessee Williams. 'Nothing human disgusts me unless it is cruel or unkind.

Joe

I'm not sure I understand this post. You are complaining that guys don't want thicker women. But then your profile shows several positive certs along with you stating your man is smaller.

I've had women on both extremes that could do things the other could not. And none of those things had anything to do with size.

This lifestyle is definitely open to everyone. We all have different wants and needs. And has you've seen, there is plenty of fun out there to be had for you.

In response to the original poster. I am interested in many different shapes/sizes of women. That's one of our driving reasons for being in the lifestyle. We are both in it for the variety.

I can take things that most women get scared of"

why, because you are chubby, that makes you more brave? lol. you generalize and have insecurities with yourself. because of your insecurities you put others down to lift yourself up. this is only a temporary fix. if you do not like who you are, only you can change it.

In a woman who is an actual woman and not a stick?"

lol. i see your point. but may I ask why you feel better in putting me down, does that make you feel more like a woman?

1. i am not a stick.

1. I am as woman as you are. Because you are curvy, that does NOT make you more of an "actual" woman than I am. Trust me.

Bring that sweet ass up to Philly, we have some great food ;)

sweettart, Now there is some food for thought, oops, no pun intended ;)

omega girl..ok.. there is nothing big about you..your heart, yes..size wise..nothing..

Didn't we just go over this in another thread?

Your profile indicated you have several very positive certifications in a relative short period of time. It seems you are doing well in the lifestyle.

In a woman who is an actual woman and not a stick? I am by no means gross and disgusting but I have curves and a very soft tummy. I can take things that most women get scared of and my boyfriend thinks I am the most amazing woman he has ever had in his bed. Why do most men get turned off just because I have a few extra pounds? Is today's society that close minded that everyone must be anorexic or spend thousands to look like an airbrushed model out of a magazine? This lifestyle should be accepting of everyone not just the skinny people because us "bbw's" can do somethings the little girls can't do. Just food for thought.

Oh and as you can see, my boyfriend a "little guy" so I am doing something right. Hmm maybe you should visit and see what it is.