What are some guys thinking???

We were on vacation and out of our local area so we changed our profile to reflect our location. We had set up a date with a couple while in town and were subsequently contacted by a single male who was interested in meeting us. (We always get a lot of looks and contact while traveling) Anyway, when we told him we weren't interested he fired back with a reference to us being "Trump lovers" or some such racial crap. Obviously this individual concluded that we weren't interested because of his race due to our negative response to his email.

Otherwise we have had more than our fair share of single guys who message us with "I want to bang her so bad" and other things along those lines. Do they really think that will pique our interest and make us want to invite him to join us? Surprisingly none of those folks were certified. (sarcasm)

We don't block folks in cases like that unless they persist.

Internet tough guys. Easy to be rude and disrespectful when the only fear is some rather useless words, or a suspension of their account. Most I am going to wager are paid monthly.

I gave him a shot but I shouldn't have :)

His email: "how are you tonight?"
My response: "I'm up to no good. I see you peeking at our profile .... I'm not seeing any pictures on your profile? What did you notice on our profile that made you want to contact me?"
His email: "It showed you looked at mine. I like your pics a lot. You seem kind of far though."

I should have just sent him the standard "we are not a match" email right away. I even tried to gently lead him but he didn't take the hint. Instead when I emailed him I let him know that I did look at his profile but I had not contacted him the first time because there were no pictures and very little information in the profile.

Plenty of assholery from guys, gals and couples. Just had pretty much the same thing from an SF who IM'd me out of the blue last night.

The thing to remember is, the assholes WANT to get into internet tussles. So don't let it drag you down, that's what they really want from you. They want to make you as miserable as they are. Send a polite "no thanks, best of luck", and if they get snippy or start asking "why not", don't engage. Just block and move on.

Had a guy hit us up once and say he wanted to fuck her so hard and fill her with cum, which I replied back what if she wants you to use a condom. His reply back was he would rip a hole in it so he could fill her up and then got upset when I said he had no idea what this lifestyle is about

At least your clueless SM managed to put a somewhat introduction and a question into a three word sentence with "Hi there, threeway?".

It is at least a step ahead of the ones who send "wuts up" or "how RU".

LOL.

Look around, not only on this site, but the general population.

Do you see a lot of thought going into, well, much of anything?

Sadly people believe that since they are on a “lifestyle” site they can shamelessly write anything without any consequences, the sense of entitlement is infuriating! I don’t want to pile on the single male stigma because we have met a couple men that Were genuine gentleman, but most single guys seem to prove to us why they are single after reading there initial email to us !

I often wonder what some guys are thinking about when they write letters or responses to letters we've sent.
As I've said in the past, the initial note to a couple is pretty much the only shot at getting either a favorable response, a negative response or no response at all. That said, we recently received a note a member that said, quite simply: "Hi there, threeway?" that was it, nothing else. Our response was "Thanks for the note, not interested."
That elicited another letter from him and I quote "no problem, you're loss" I was surprised to say the least. I was going to write another letter back citing the fact that it was indeed NOT our loss but his and further that if if he might consider going back to school to learn when it is appropriate to use contractions. I elected to delete the letter and simply block him from further contact.
Has anyone else out here experienced this? Someone getting offensive simply because their advances have been rebuffed?