jimandlynn98

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Personal pics disappeared

sls_WayneC wrote: sybianrydr wrote: partyforthree49 wrote: I opened our personal pics for some people and they said it showed zero pics. I looked and it was empty. All gone. I uploaded 20 pics in there to replace them. I saw all last night…

pics upload then disappear

We just attempted to upload 3 pictures, and they don't appear anywhere as "pending approval", they just vanished. Is this normal now?

Home button not working?

Does anyone else have the issue that clicking on the home icon gives a 404 message that the site isn't available? I noticed in the address bar an =1 is added and when we remove it the home page appears. Are we the only ones with this issue?

Guns and ammo

"Something tells me you enjoyed the George Zimmerman trial decision but hated the trial of the 3 convicted in Georgia" Actually Zimmerman is, in our opinion, a piece of human garbage who provoked that whole incident. I wasn't able to watch…

Guns and ammo

"Kyle murdered two people when he should have been home doing teenager stuff. He became a willing combatant when he walked the streets like Charles Bronson with a rifle he didn't purchase." Its obvious you did not watch the trial for yours…

Guns and ammo

Most people did not watch the trial, and that is where the whole part about him crossing state lines with a rifle, and being driven by his mother with said rifle comes in. The people who still believe that should watch the trial and see wh…

Holiday Season

Family gatherings tend to put a damper on opportunities for adult fun, but that doesn't mean we shut down. Sometimes the obstacle is with the other potential partners.

So, whatcha drinking

Estate bottled Old Bardstown is a new bourbon favorite. On a whim we purchased a bottle while visiting Ky. and should have purchased more than one.

Split roast

We both enjoy it very much. It is her favorite position for mfm.

Granting ourselves permission not allowed?

Trying to figure out why we are unable to grant ourselves permission to view our own galleries. Nothing in the TOS says its not allowed, at least not what we read, and it would be way quicker and more convenient to just open our galleries…

Approving pics broken?

Wayne, is there a way to see what pics you approve were deemed inaccurate? We had a 100% rating until yesterday then it dropped to 99%. Unless we know what we did wrong we are likely to make the same mistake on future pics, so some sort of…

Says 407 messages but actually zero????

Maybe instead of locking the thread someone on the staff can change the topic so that everyone knows the topic deals with a certain thing. By doing so it would hopefully eliminate duplicate threads complaining about the same problem. I loo…

Says 407 messages but actually zero????

We scrolled to the bottom and clicked the load more contacts icon which produced a few conversations that were showing as unread. So we deleted all those, clicked on the load more contacts icon again and found more "unread" messages in tha…

So, whatcha drinking

Believe it or not, Jameson pairs pretty well with ginger beer or ale. I mostly prefer my drinks neat but every now and again I like to step out and try something mixed. Lynn is pretty well set with peach schnapps, coconut rum, and ginger a…

Hosting a couples party - Do’s Dont’s

We visited some clubs in the Manchester area of the UK, and they all have what they call "Dress down time" where the men and women all shed their street clothes and either wear a towel provided by the club or lingerie, usually at 9pm. We s…

My Wall

Maybe there should be a way to turn your wall off if you don't need or want it. I see the X up in the corner of the wall area, but clicking it doesn't remove it from my screen. Also, I seem to have two pending unread support thingys that I…

Hot Date/Event Display

Its downright laughable that anyone would "make things abundantly clear" by stating it isn't sls that restricts hot date viewing, its the poster. Since all the hot dates were visible prior to the change, and the poster was still required t…

Hot Date/Event Display

Adding to that, Allen you state that it is the hot date posters that determine what folks they are looking for. While that is correct at face value what you aren't allowing for is the hot date poster a choice in a case where a couple or si…

Hot Date/Event Display

Allen, one could argue that the new policy is a slippery slope. If the website restricts, either directly or indirectly, who can view a posted hot date based on age or couple/single parameters, whats to stop them from subsequently restrict…

The courtesy of a reply

We answer all messages when we determine the sender has taken the time to read our profile. If it is painfully obvious they have not taken the time to read our profile we don't feel obligated to take the time to respond. We aren't compatib…

Hot Date/Event Display

A few last arguments from us about the folks you can no longer see on the hot dates. We have, over the years, met folks at local parties and hit it off and wound up having some great sex with. Those folks turned out to be either below or a…

Hot Date/Event Display

To answer Wayne from 7 hours ago. Yes. Both of those recommendations would be appreciated. Setting the default age range to our profile age range preference, and using the last distance searched as a default, or at least adding a way to se…

Hot Date/Event Display

Mayhem, thanks for clearing that up about the age thing. Yes, we have also noticed that any change isn't going to be undone, regardless of the complaints. Its a shame really. The previous version was much easier to navigate. We were able t…

Hot Date/Event Display

Thanks Tips, and we agree. Those of us who choose to take matters into our own hands since the staff probably wont do a thing and set our age preference to 18-99, though we are not open to 18 year olds nor 99 year olds are lying and "wasti…

Hot Date/Event Display

Now, my question is, if I or anyone else have an age preference, why would folks want to be deceptive and outright lie and waste someone's time? Because age is a preference for most, meaning we like to look at all the available dates, not…

Hot Date/Event Display

Hey Allen, since you are defending the changes, we will address you directly. Age is a "preference" as you stated in a previous post. The changes have made age an "absolute". Every swinger we know makes exceptions for age based on any numb…

Hot Date/Event Display

Wayne, since you are reading this thread can you ask the developers to allow a person to modify a hot date after it is posted? The new system which most everyone dislikes only allows deletion of an existing hot date. As a persons situation…

Hot Date/Event Display

What it seems Wayne means when he writes he doesn't understand all the complaints is that he isn't going to DO anything about all the complaints. I don't know how to contact customer service but judging by the posts here it is futile to do…

Hot Date/Event Display

So, you cannot edit an existing hot date you created anymore? Also, where can you expand the distance when looking at the hot dates? What is going on with this site? Each change makes it less user friendly, or perhaps its just us.

So, whatcha drinking

Next suggestion is a vacation to England. You can throw a bottle or two in your checked baggage no problem. Plus, England makes for a great vacation.. they have some really good swing clubs.

So, whatcha drinking

@VA, have you tried liquorama dot com? I have found they have most anything and will ship it to you if your state law allows it. That's where we found crème de noyaux to make pink squirrels.

What are some guys thinking???

We were on vacation and out of our local area so we changed our profile to reflect our location. We had set up a date with a couple while in town and were subsequently contacted by a single male who was interested in meeting us. (We always…

IM Messages

My chat shows a reconnecting message, and there is a line at the top that states messaging is for paid members only with a link to the membership area. We are lifetime members.... ?????

When couples look for SM

Re: 2out, You missed a golden opportunity to have some fun. You know, provide the number of, say, the local jail, crisis intervention center, or some other business entity as her "contact info".

When couples look for SM

Just wanted to say that not all women who ask for pics don't want dick pics. When we are looking for a potential sm playmate we pretty much require dick pics, the more the merrier. First off, they get her very hot. Secondly, she wants to b…

New Years wishes?

Find a few suitable guys to fulfill Lynn's mmfm fantasies. Being pretty picky this is harder than it should be. Plan a few "playcations" and visit clubs out of state. Back to England to re-visit the wonderful swing clubs in Manchester and…

Bi Sexual Men

We agree with you Pixie. Being brand new to this forum (not the site or lifestyle though) we really didn't want to read through all the replies to see if this had been said before. Be honest. That shouldn't be too tough for any of us, and…

Muscle Car or Motorcycle

Why not both? I have a '72 Monte Carlo with a stroker motor and two bikes. Who cares about gas mileage in a muscle car? That's what the bikes are for, right?