No matter what the definition, as many do in time, this term (cuck) may have taken a different meaning from its original definition. No matter...
And no judgement implied herein as we think that whatever you and your partner like, so long as it includes you and possibly others (which are consenting adults) is fine.
My compliment to the gentleman who is there for his wife, despite his medical issues, stands.
Technically a cuckold is any man whose wife has sex with other men. Some include humiliation but that isn’t the core definition so no reason to be defensive of the term.
~Scamp
This is not a cuckold situation but the wife is meeting a guy at a bar this week, I'll join them after an hour or so. She likes to get comfortable with a new guy on a one on one basis before we move forward. I think that cuckolding is fun. If that's what you want, go ahead and enjoy. That's what the lifestyle is all about.
To the AsianMilf Man:
There is nothing 'cuck' about you. (And there's nothing wrong with being 'cuck;' if that's who you are.) You are indeed an understanding and giving spouse for your wife. Yours is a case where dipping into swinging before your cancer hit, allowed you the foresight to be that smart kind of husband that you are. My hat off to you, sir.
Mr. JackMichelle
Our past swingtime in the beginning was never really hardcore. The sex was definitely hardcore but we didn't play that often. We met and played with couples and a few SMs occasionally. Then I (him) had a fight with cancer. I won that fight but then was, and still, can't get an erection. So since then we've invited an SM to join us occasionally so the wife could play again. It's easy because we were into it before plus I don't want her to do without. It's definitely not a Cuck thing but I still enjoy watching her and joining in the play in a limited way. What also makes it fun is that she really lets go and has fun putting on a show for me.
@ TallMark and billnsuzie Thanks for you kind comments. This all happened about 20 years ago. Ive long ago gotten past it and it causes me no emotional pain to talk about it. It sure is a lot easier to swing when you have a hotwife though LOL
Sometimes these forums tend to rip scabs off even unintentionaly Sorry about your experience with drugs and your wife.
@Cutten, I have never been around anyone that had such strong addictions thankfully. Understand why she is your ex. I have never taken an illegal drug and never been drunk, maybe kinda drunk 30 years ago once or twice.....I never played with anyone who was not of sober mind..Living as a woman gives me a high however.....Mary Jo....
@ TallMark: The point I was trying to make was that I was not a cuck to my ex-hotwife. I was her enthusiastic partner in all our swinging adventures. IMO a cuck hubby or bf is submissive to his wife or gf and her lover/s whims and sexual desires 24/7/365. I related my nearest cuck swinging experience, but it was actually a kinky swing experience for all 3 of us. I didn't let her go....she became a hopeless alcoholic and drug abuser. She refused my help and professional help/counselling to save our marriage. She left me in 1998 when I took away her safety net in a last-ditch attempt to force her to get help . After a little over 20 years now, she's still an in-denial alcoholic drug abuser who blames me, our daughter, her family and everyone and anyone else she can blame for the pain and misery she brought upon herself. She denies she ever brought pain and misery one smidgen of hurt or pain on everyone who ever loved her.
Oh My, how did you ever let her get away, a wife that wants a cuck husband, I would cuck for her forever...
My ex hotwife and I loved mmf threesomes, especially with bisexual men. I always participated fully and voluntarily. My biggest thrill was in watching wifey's boldness, excitement and thrill at being a total whore for our lover and me and her utter delight in being used as our whore. I certainly did some things that cuckold men do, such as licking and sucking our lover's cock before during and after he fucked her, as well as licking our cum from her pussy. But I did it all voluntarily and enthusiastically and as I pleased as opposed to being told to do it. So to me cuckold means that the hotwife and or her lover dictate to the hubby or bf, no pun intended, whether he participates or not, as well as making him submissive or obedient to their desires. IMHO, a man can be considered a cuckold if his wife or gf unashamedly fucks other men on her own as she wishes and he willingly, even eagerly accepts it even if he is not present and he has no say in when and where she meets her lover.
The cuckold-like experience I had was when wifey and I went to meet a bisexual married guy for drinks at a local sports bar. We all hit if off immediately and wife was quite taken with him. Apparently while I went to the restroom, he told her of several fantasies he had. We loved blowing men's minds and dicks and fulfilling their fantasies as best we could. A bit later while he went to the restroom, she told me he wanted her to "make" me suck his cock to get him hard for her. Then he wanted to fuck her in the back seat of his car with his doors locked as I stood outside and watched. In addition, he wanted to do everything outdoors. Of course I was all in for sucking his cock and watching him take her. She added a twist of her own by telling me that she was going to have him drive her to our home with me following in my pickup truck. She said she'd put on a slutshow for me. And that she did. Everything was sort of already scripted so I played along. Our home was very secluded, so playing outside was super private. We'd done it several times with other men. I was right behind them as they parked in our driveway. She got out and had on only her panties and heels. As I parked they were making out against the hood of his Mercedes with their hands all over each other. She told us to strip naked. We did. She told me to let down the tailgate of my truck, then told him to sit on it and spread his legs. She leaned over and started licking his cock and motioned for me to come help her. I went down on him as she stood up and sat next to him. He was kissing her neck and playing with her tits and pussy as I began to suck and lick his cock and balls. It took less than 2 minutes until his 8" dick was diamond hard and they were both in heat. He told me to stop, then he took her by her hand and to the back seat of his car.. Her panties were dangling off one of her ankles with her sexy high heels kicked up in the air. First he ate her pussy until she came. Then he fucked her long and hard until they both came. I played with my hard dick buck naked and barefoot on my driveway. At he end, the windows were so fogged up that I couldn't see anything, but I could hear their moans and gasps of orgasm. I expected that he would get dressed and leave to get home to his wifey. But when they got out of his car, she told me to sit on my tailgate. They both went down on me and she gave way to him, then sat next to me as we kissed passionately and I licked and sucked her tits and played with her steaming pussy. I came in his mouth in less than a minute. He didn't swallow and she stood up and embraced him and told him to give him her husbands cum, which he did in a deep french kiss. We had hoped to meet him again and have him help me fulfill some of my wife's submissive fantasies, but we ever saw him or heard from him again.
PAgentlemaninAZ describes it right. Stag/Vixen is our form of play. Humiliation is not an option, and will never occur.
MsMolly nailed it, I think.....
We agree with MsMolly
At a guess, anyone who has any experience at all with MFMs will make a distinction between cuckolding and simple threesomes. Like, oh, one's kind of a fetish and the other is just a play configuration.
I am a married male and i have a cuckold fetish. I want to watch my wife fuck another man with a thick cock. also i want to suck the cock that fucks my wife. i don't want a relaitonship with a man or to kiss, or hug him naked. also i want to join in sometimes and do things like kiss my wife's pussy while she is being fucked and kiss her pussy after her lover has come in her or on her. not so much in to being humiliated or tortured or bullied. a bull will have to be very respectful with my wife and respectful to me as her husband. it will be up to my wife when and where she fucks other guys and not up to the bull or to me.
Yup, altogether different in our mind. We love threesomes, but not at all cuckold.
They are two completely different things. ~N
How many make a distinction between a cuckold relation and a simple 3 sum?
