about done with single males

Ncalcouple;
Please justify that recent statement in the context of this discussion, when it’s clear that the discussion is about finding quality males in a particular area.

Question:
“Back when swinging was about the ‘delicacy of a woman’s pleasure’, what group of people initiated the addition of males into the lifestyle?”

Answer: Couples

It was couples who allowed males into their bedrooms. It what was wives who wanted an extra male without an extra woman. It was husbands who wanted to watch their wives have multiple men and be the center of attention. Couples, couples, couples!!

For every egotistical, snob like, arrogant, condescending, backyard thinking, nose-in-the-air and head-in-the clouds having, ignoramous of a male or female, there is a couple of the same cloth.

Couples run these parties. They charge the males the amounts, go complain to them.

Point the finger somewhere else. You blame single men for everything I’ve noticed, yet you don’t speak about the single men that some of these wives praise and keep to themselves. You don’t speak of the single men that helped save broken marriages. You don’t speak of the men that are outstanding and respectful, and have a great reputation in this way of life.

Not wishing anything on you or your wife, but if you ever became a single male and continued in this lifestyle, I honestly believe that you would catch the same, if not worse hell, that you give.

I hope you can say that your wife never slept with a single male. All men she’s been with were married, and not separated or getting a divorce. Lol

Hell some of the couples once met in the lifestyle as SFs and SMs. What do you say about that?

You knock single males but without single males and single females you wouldn’t be able to make a LS couple.

You didn’t come out the womb married, and there really is no need for that type of bashing of others just because you started in the lifestyle already in a relationship.

With your “years of experience”, I suggest you use that to help singles make more connections to become couples. Like you and your wife.

HV

ncalcoupleVeteran
Las Vegas, NV, Us

Single men have destroyed swinging. Swinging used to be about sex now its about making $$$$$$ off of single men.

Charles Town, WV, Us

lol Nef

Meaow

:-)

New Orleans, LA, Us

"I’ve actually talked to some couples about the Ohio-PA area, and the consensus is that the quality of males, in their area is poor."

A few years back, there was this guy, NickatNite, I think his name was. He lived in Ohio. His exploits were the stuff of legend. Yet much to the dismay of SFs and couples alike, a young filly enticed him into moving south. I can't help but think that his absence has contributed to the lack of quality of which you speak. Yes, I understand there are stil quite a few voids in need of filling since young Nick left home...

'Course, it could all just be an urban legend...

BT

I’ve actually talked to some couples about the Ohio-PA area, and the consensus is that the quality of males, in their area is poor.

However, it would be good to clarify if it’s the quality of LS men “on SLS in your area” or the quality of LS men in your area “in general”. There’s a difference.

If you’re just using SLS to find your guys, and you’re not having luck, try other avenues/sites. I lived in Missouri for 2yrs and a site by the name of clubforeplay (.c)om was a hit in that area. It’s reach was from Idaho to PA. Ppl that weren’t on SLS were on that site, among others.

SLS isn’t the only site. Kasidie and SDc are two others as well. Different sites just do better in different areas. Also those two sites, will give you travel alerts if a potential playmate is traveling to your area.

So try new avenues before throwing in the towel.

If you find out that’s it’s the LS men in your area “in general”, you still have options.

As a female, the good old “bar pick up” may be where you find your most success. I’m not saying that it’s your cup of tea or if that’s something you do normally, I’m merely saying that for your area you may have to try something different.

Hopefully all hope isn’t lost.

HV

Sinking Spring, PA, Us

Today I started writing ways my cat is better than a single male.
1) When I call he shows up.
2) Loves to snuggle.
3) Doesn't ask me if I will lick his balls. He prefers to lick his own balls.

Sinking Spring, PA, Us

I'm no longer looking for a FWB at SLS. Clearly I won't get what I want online. It will have to be in person. My single female profile will expire soon and I won't renew. I just spent 2 months looking for a nice, compatible man. I wasted a ton of time. Most guys only wanted more pix and to sext...Help them jerk off. The better looking the guy, the bigger the jerk. No shows. Cancellations at the last minute. Pushy guys. A major stoner. Guys who lied about penis size or age or weight. The bigger the promises, the bigger the disappointent. I want an experienced Dom anyway. Local events and places seem like a better bet for finding a serious guy in person... Someone who is respectful of me and my time and APPRECIATIVE.

Fairfield, CT, Us

Cutigers

I FULLY agree!!!!!!

No decent man is truly single. He either is married or has a girlfriend. Or a couple girlfriends. He is just using this site as an additional way to get laid. Couples don't want the creepy guys of course.

I'm a single male who half heartedly participates in the LS and I get more pussy than I can handle. The male half loves to watch me fuck his wife. It is easy. And I'm 50.

To all the single guys out there don't make this your only pit stop.

Lubbock, TX, Us

I thought there were so many couples wanting couples, that not many wanted a generic single male.
I did not realize there were many guys playing single who were not.

Lubbock, TX, Us

I thought there were so many couples wanting couples, that not many wanted a generic single male.
I did not realize there were many guys playing single who were not.

Lubbock, TX, Us

I thought there were so many couples wanting couples, that not many wanted a generic single male.
I did not realize there were many guys playing single who were not.

Lubbock, TX, Us

I thought there were so many couples wanting couples, that not many wanted a generic single male.
I did not realize there were many guys playing single who were not.

Wyomissing, PA, Us

I usually play with couples for MMF, or alone with the female, if it's a couple my wife and I already know. We have a couples acct. here, too. Seems that when the couple already knows me, what I have to offer, that I'm reliable, etc., other opportunities open up. It can be hard to convince people I'm not cheating. My wife and I are willing to do the video on KIK together, and that seems to help put some people at ease.

BryisfunRegular
Etters, PA, Us

Lol. All my pics are me. I've seen some that show like 10 yrs old

Charles Town, WV, Us

Is that why you’re using some random person from the 70’s in your profile?

ncalcoupleVeteran
Las Vegas, NV, Us

video with people you dont know and have no idea what they are going to do with that video?

Charles Town, WV, Us

“Some people don't like kik but great way to verify by video.”

Annnnnnnnd...........

For letting the others watch hot times happening.

:-)

~Allen

BryisfunRegular
Etters, PA, Us

Some people don't like kik but great way to verify by video.

Apopka, FL, Us

As a single male, I can assure you that I would show up. There was one time I didn't show due to health reasons that put me in the hospital for a week. When I tried to make contact again I had bee blocked. I'm still looking for a couple for a MFM or a fmf. Find the very erotic, more so than one on one. But not having much luck

ncalcoupleVeteran
Las Vegas, NV, Us

Talk on the phone before you meet. Anyone who calls you will show. Its very rare that we have a no show after we talk to them on the phone.

landr2bMember
Birmingham, AL, Us

We've had our share not not show up. Lately we've had a couple of guys email/test/messenger to get to know us only to disappear without letting us know their not interested. At least let someone know you're not interested anymore. This type thing is what gives good single guys a bad rap with the rest.

BryisfunRegular
Etters, PA, Us

888, everyone I've chatted with has been very nice. I definitely believe you. I'm looking forward to it.

Charles Town, WV, Us

Bry, I doubt you’d be anything less than pleased meeting them.

~Allen

BryisfunRegular
Etters, PA, Us

Wkendfun, ty I did some major adjustment to my profile. Hopefully it helps. Yes please reach out anytime I'd love to go. I'm always up to meet new people regardless what happens.