Эпизод 154: Почему сравнение уничтожает радость
In this episode, Kel from Expansive Connection discusses the pervasive issue of comparison, its roots in human evolution, and practical tools to manage it. The conversation explores how comparison imp…
Эпизод 153: Ваша неуверенность — ваша проблема
We've talked about jealousy, we've talked about body image. We've discussed learning to flirt and being corageous in the lifestyle. But beneath the surface we all have insecurities about ourselves at …
Эпизод 152: Управление тревогой в образе жизни
There are no shortage of lifestyle sitiuations that will cause us some anxiety! Visiting a club for the first time, going on a first date, being rejected by others, wondering if our partner will 'find…
Эпизод 151: Резорт - Вход в этичное немоногамное отношение
In this episode we review our trip to 'The Resort' which was first introduced by George in episode 137. The Resort is a new opportunity to step into ethical non-monogamy in a new format and market. Th…
Эпизод 150: Является ли образ жизни зависимым?
Can the lifestyle become an addiction? Well, it can if we don't recognize what's going on in our brains. In this episode with Catherine from Expansive Connection, we break down the key components at p…
Эпизод 149: Как стать мощной парой в стиле жизни
What does it take to be 'successful' as a couple in the world of non-monogamy? In this episode we discuss waht we believe to be the four most important characteristics of a power couple in the lifesty…
Эпизод 148: Перефrasing христианской веры и образа жизни
Do you struggle with your understanding of how non-monogamy reconciles with a life of faith? Join us for a thought provoking conversation with Dr Mitch G, the newest member of the Expansive Connection…
Эпизод 147: Безопасный секс с героем STD
One of the most common concerns for those in the lifestyle or considering non-monogamy is the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection or disease. We invited Alan Brock, CEO, and Dr Willia…
Эпизод 146: Как меняются отношения со временем
We all know that all relationships, monogamous and non-monogamous, will change over time. Many of those changes will lead to the relationship ending. But does it have to end? Why can't the dynamics of…
Эпизод 145: Спросите нас (и наших друзей) что угодно
This 'ask us anything' episode was recorded live at our 9th annual group trip to Desire Pearl. Not only did we answer questions but our friends helped us out by contributing as well. Use Promo Code: W…
Эпизод 144: Лайфстайл-коучинг после потерь
As a follow up to our episode 142, we hear from Catherine about how the ending of her marriage is affecting her coaching business at Expansive Connection. Will her clients still trust her as a coach? …
Эпизод 143: Свингинг и полигамия - Мы больше похожи на то, что думаем?
We are joined by Dedeker, Emily and Jase from the Multiamory* podcast to discuss the similarities and differences between the swinging lifestyle and polyamory! We also talk about what exactly New Rela…
Эпизод 142: История Кэтрин - "Мое бракосочетание рухнуло"
This episode gets very real and very personal. Catherine, from Expansive Connection Relationship Coaching, tells her story of how her marriage fell apart while engaged in a non-monogamous relationship…
Эпизод 141: Что новичкам нужно знать и ветеранам нужно помнить
Join us and Meshai from Expansive Connection Coaching as we discuss the six most important things those new to the lifestyle need to know and us veterans of the lifestyle need always to remember: Rad…
Эпизод 140: Вновь в ритме вещей
None of us are immune from having 'real life' issues disrupt our relationship or our current life plans and goals. Health issues, family responsibilities, career changes and relocations are just a few…
Эпизод 139: Наши консультации по Эннеаграмме
In episode 136 Kel, from Expansive Connection Coaching explained all nine Enneagram personality types and motivations. Listen in on this real-time coaching session as Kel reveals the Enneagram results…
Эпизод 138: Описывание образа жизни - Уважительные, Порнографические, Стильные люди
When we hear the word 'swinger' or 'lifestyle' the first time we may think of key parties, sleezy sex clubs, orgies with strangers and lots of perverted people who will have sex with anyone. With how …
Эпизод 137: 'The Resort' - Новый Концепт для Лайфстайл-Отдыхающих
Join us as we chat with the founder of a brand new lifestyle vacation spot in Jamaica- 'The Resort.' This upscale venue gives lifestyle travelers an additional and much needed option for a sexy vacati…
Эпизод 136: Эннеаграмма - Понимайте свой номер!
Join us as Kel from Expansive Connection explains the Enneagram system which offers numerous benefits for personal and professional development by providing insights into motivations, behaviors, and r…
Эпизод 135: История происхождения - Погружение с Куртом и Викки
This 'Origin Story' format episode features our friends Kurt & Vicki and highlights another unique journey into and through non-monogamy. Perhaps their story of working through issues will resonate wi…
Эпизод 134: Столкновение с страхами "что-если" в немоногамии
Are you considering trying non-monogamy or perhaps learning how to navigate the swinging lifestyle environment? Are you paralyzed by the 'what-ifs?' What if my partner falls in love with someone else?…
Эпизод 133: 10 Атрибутов Успешных Свингеров
So you think you've got what it takes to be 'successful' in the swinging lifestyle? From our 11 years of experience, we share what we believe to be the most important attributes a person or couple mus…
Эпизод 132: Наши различия делают нас лучше
Why do we usually react to the word 'different' as something negative? Our differences can help us to learn more about ourselves which can lead to individual growth as well as strengthen our relations…
Эпизод 131: Найдите свою племя в сообществе We Gotta Thing
What makes the WGT community unique? We are not a dating site. We are not like a Facebook group. Nor are we similar to a Discord server, a Slack channel, a Zoom meeting or a WhatsApp conversation. Wha…
Эпизод 130: Все о отношениях типа 'Swolly'
Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us to help define that 'squishy' term that is a result of some combination of 'swinging' and 'polyamory.' She then discusses pro's and con's of what …
Эпизод 129: Успокоение голосов внутри моего головы
You're awake again at 3:00am. You can't go back to sleep. You calculate how much sleep you'll have if you go back to sleep right now. Then, while staring at the ceiling, a voice inside your head decid…
Эпизод 128: Достаточно с ананасами! Как建立联系在野外
We are contantly bombarded with lifestyle symbols and the promises they bring of attracting lifestyle couples to us in our day-to-day lives! From upside down pineapples in the grocery store, to black …
Эпизод 127: Доверие - Что Это Не Является
What is trust not? Trust is not a feeling that someone else creates in us with their actions. Some of us think we can trust people only when they are doing what we want them to do so we don't feel unc…
Эпизод 126: Разные вкусности зависти
Fearing or experiencing jealousy is one of the biggest reasons couples either don't try the lifestyle or don't last in the lifestyle. Why is that? It's more complex than we realize! Join us as Catheri…
Эпизод 125: Лайв-празднование 10 лет podcastинга!
Please join us in celebrating 10 years recording the We Gotta Thing podcast! This is a very special episode recorded live with a group of our closest friends at the Desire Pearl resort. We thank all o…
Эпизод 124: Обработка отклонений в образе жизни
Meshai from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us as we dive into the topic of being rejected in the lifestyle. We all experience the negative emotions when rejected by others and Meshai helps us to …
Эпизод 123: Многозначность слова 'Connection' в образе жизни
Why do we want to connect with others? What are some ways we connect with others? What types of connections may we experience? How do we stay connected? What happens if we become disconnected with oth…
Эпизод 122: Нон-моногамия требует работы - сколько вы готовы вложить?
Jason from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us this month to discuss the 'non-quantifiable' work involved in exploring non-monogamy. Based on our WGT episode 100 in which we discuss the quantifiabl…
Эпизод 121: Истории происхождения - Марк и Бет Канадцы
Listen in as our friends Mark and Beth share their unique journey into and exploration of non-monogamy! We also review our Virgin Cruise out of Barcelona and discuss our first local lifestyle meet and…
Эпизод 120: Преимущества и вызовы немоногамии с расширенными связями
Kel from Expansive Connection coaching joins us to discuss some of the benefits and challenges one may encounter when choosing to explore the non-monogamous lifestyle. Kel shares from her perspective …
Эпизод 119: Значение консультирования в мире немоногамии
Having experienced counseling ourselves over the past few months, we invite Catherine from Expansive Connection to talk with us about how those in non-monogamous relationships benefit from getting gui…
Эпизод 118: Жажда Ривьера Майя и жизнь без ванили
Listen in as we review the brand new "The Eden" section of Desire Riviera Maya! We also enlist the help of many of our friends in a live recording from the resort to share how they challenged themselv…
Эпизод 117: Нон-моногамия — это взрослый вид деятельности
Most of us have mastered being 'adult-like' in all aspects of our lives. We are experienced at life. We are parents, spouses/partners, coaches, employees, teachers, leaders and friends. We've become a…
Эпизод 116: Как уязвимость улучшает вашу жизненную дорогу
Being vulnerable is not easy and may not come natural for some, espcially when exploring the lifestyle. We tend to wall off our personal lives because we're worried about people knowing too much about…
Эпизод 115: Вы слишком добры?
Are you the type of person who puts the feelings of others above of your own? Do you want to have a stronger voice when someone suggests something you don't necessarily want to do? You are not alone! …
Эпизод 114: Просто поцелуй?
We explore the perceptions and realities of what, exactly a kiss can mean to those in the lifestyle community. Does granting a kiss commit me to a sexual experience? Why do some couples have a 'no kis…
Эпизод 113: Реальности отелей с optional clothing
Listen in on our live recording from Desire Pearl where our guests discuss their unique perspectives, perceptions and realities of the term 'clothing optional.' Most of us struggle with self-confidenc…
Эпизод 112: История происхождения - Скотт и Келли
Join Mr & Mrs Jones and they interview "Scott & Kelly." This couple's journey into the lifestyle sounds like many other origin stories but then takes a bit of a turn when a family member shares some u…
Эпизод 111: Найдение того, кого вы не искали
As newbies we started our lifestyle journey looking for people to connect with and then explore sexually. Back then it was all about the excitment, the taboo nature of the lifestyle and a boost to our…
Эпизод 110: История происхождения - Крис и Нэнси
Chris and Nancy share their amazing and unique story of finding the lifestyle through a period of intense emotional exploration after being together for more than 20 years. We've learned that no relat…
Эпизод 108: Путешествие по времени для игр на отпуск
Many couples ask about how to 'successfully' navigate a clothing optional resort. How do we find couples like us? How do we socialize with others without them thinking it's an invitation to play? How …
Эпизод 107: Наш опыт с Grand Miches Temptation
In advance of our group trip to Temptation Grand Miches in the Dominican Republic we visited the resort to experience it ourselves. Through construction delays, supply chain disruptions, hurricanes an…
Эпизод 106: Правление кликов в стиле жизни
We hear story after story about the difficulties many (and mostly newer) couples in the lifestyle experience when encountering 'cliques' while attending events, visiting clubs or attending parties or …
Эпизод 105: Истории происхождения - "J&B 2.0"
Listen in on our conversation with our friends "J&B 2.0" as they share their particular story of how they discovered and began exploring the lifestyle together! They are funny, smart and very real as …
Эпизод 104: Выбор события образа жизни с Кейт из PCAP
Finding lifestely events and then choosing which event is the best fit for your approach to the lifestyle can be difficult and often confusing. Listen in as we chat with event host Cate from Libertine…
Эпизод 103: Столкновение с страхами новичков в отелях Desire Resorts
Listen in as our event guests discuss working through their individual fears, anxieties and challenges at a clothing optional resort during our week together at Desire Pearl Resort just south of Cancu…
Эпизод 102: Ты должен владеть своим делом
We sit down with four of our lifestyle friends and share real stories about what it's like to experience hurt feelings during an event and how to dissect, debrief, discover and confront the root cause…
Эпизод 101: Разрушители сделок
We discuss four distinct behaviors we consider to be deal breakers to moving forward and possibly making new lifestyle friends and connecting with potential play partners. Sharing opinions on politic…
Эпизод 100: Вы готовы к тяжелому труду?
Finding your tribe, making lifelong friends, connecting for sexy playtime and growing your primary relationship are just a few ways to define 'success' in the lifestyle. Many may mistakenly believe yo…
Эпизод 99: Использование энергии нового отношения
New Relationship Energy (NRE) is that sexual buzz we feel when we first meet and connect with a couple or individual. We discuss navigating this heightened state of emotional and sexual feelings by pr…
Эпизод 98: Необходимость сообщества образа жизни
As the idea and exploration of consensual non-monogamy continues to grow we have noticed the need for organized community. The different flavors and diverse approaches means that one size does not fit…
Эпизод 97: Наше дело может не быть вашим делом
To quote Mrs Jones, "we should be an example and not a blueprint." It may seem natural to adapt our 'thing' into your lifestyle journey but that could be a mistake. Giving yourselves an opportunity to…
Эпизод 96: Консультирование по немоногамии от Expansive Connection
Catherine (one of our favorite humans) and her team from Expansive Connection join us to discuss how they have created a unique method of coaching non-monogamous people! Not only do they offer a 'judg…
Эпизод 95: Стиль жизни — это реальная жизнь
We often hear couples suggest they are taking a break from the lifestyle due to 'real life' issues. We also hear some say that 'real life' is getting in the way of their lifestyle activities. In thi…
Эпизод 94: Это зависть или ревность?
Have you experienced lifestyle play partners getting a little upset when you choose to spend time with others? How about hard feelings when one of you seems to be enjoying the lifestyle more than the …
Эпизод 93: Что если мы выведены?
This is the most important topic that nobody wants to talk about! Chances are this won't happen to you (as it did us) but we still want to help prepare you just in case... We reflect back on our exper…
Эпизод 92: Снимки из Желания Перл
Listen in as our guests share their Desire Pearl 2021 snapshots in a recorded-live conversation from the resort! Some are thoughtful and meaningful, some are sexy and others are downright hilarious! O…
Эпизод 91: Опять отвергнуты - Почему они не любят нас?
This month we discuss why other couples reject us when reaching out from a lifestyle dating site and how to improve our chances of success in the future. This episode complements our episode 62 "Putti…
Эпизод 90: Важность доверия в образе жизни
We discuss the importance of trust from four different angles: trusting your relationship, trusting each other, trusting other couples and trusting who you are becoming in the lifestyle. Also, I (Mr J…
Эпизод 89: Увлекательное групповое игра
Group play can be fun but also tricky! In this episode we explore the benefits and pitfalls and share our perspective on how we approach and navigate playing in larger groups. We also recap our very f…
Эпизод 88: Искусство избегания ошибок
No matter how long you've been in the lifestyle you are going to make mistakes. So we've come up with a few tips to help you minimize those mistakes and make your play experiences more meaningful and …
Эпизод 87: Нормализация через экспозицию
In this episode we discuss how our perceptions change to our reality the more we are exposed to actual events. All of us have pre-lifestyle perceptions, newbie lifestyle perceptions and even veteran l…
Эпизод 86: Быть Би-Чем-то в Лайфстайле
There are perceptions in the lifestyle that a woman must be 'bi-something' to attract and connect with other couples. On the men's side of things there is a double standard and a stigma attached to be…
Эпизод 85: Как будто в первый раз
Perhaps you have not had your first play experience yet or haven't had one in a very long time due to the current pandemic. Preparing for that first play experience creates a lot of build up, anticipa…
Эпизод 84: The Let Down - Мы все еще можем быть друзьями?
Do you struggle with if, when and how to tell other couples you're not interested in meeting? What about after you've played and you've lost interest? What if they ask you why you aren't interested? W…
Эпизод 83: Борьба действительно реальна
Not only does real life often get in the way of engaging in the lifestyle, but simply staying sexually connected as a couple is a struggle. Add a global pandemic to the mix and you have the perfect st…
Эпизод 82: Диалог о совместимости
We believe there are three important components of compatibility that we need to consider when trying to find connections with people in the lifestyle: General Compatibility, Safety & Health Compatibi…
Эпизод 81: Язык образа жизни
In this episode we discuss the idea that there is a unique language spoken by those in the swinging lifestyle. We believe this language is comprised of four distinct elements: the language of speaking…
Эпизод 80: Найдение истинных друзей в образе жизни
We talk a lot about all the special friendships we've made in the lifestyle and many of you express frustration over finding the type of connections we describe. In this episode we offer tips on what …
Эпизод 79: Можно ли себе позволить такой образ жизни?
It's not a secret that engaging in the lifestyle can be expensive! In this episode we discuss budgeting tips for your lifestyle adventures and why we prioritize spending money on us as an investment i…
Эпизод 78: Как я знаю, что она заинтересована в мне?
Men are programmed through all aspects of life to avoid showing interest in other women. But now we are in this lifestyle where other women expect us to show some interest. This is so confusing! How a…
Эпизод 77: Я никогда не представлял бы, что когда-нибудь...
Before entering the lifestyle or becoming experienced in the lifestyle we never imagined doing some of the things we've actually done and things we've learned about the lifestyle. We share how our per…
Эпизод 76: Будь Истинным - Признание всех аспектов тебя
As we are mired in the current pandemic many of us are being pulled back away from our social and sexual mindsets. When we are concerned about our jobs, our children, our families and our health we ne…
Эпизод 75: Сопротивление проблемам мужского выступления
Erectile Dysfunction and Performance Anxiety are often misunderstood by many in the lifestyle. Numerous couples experience this issue but don't take the time to acknowledge, openly discuss, research a…
Эпизод 74: Здоровье, благополучие, гормоны и образ жизни
As we all focus on staying well during this pandemic we thought it a good time to talk about a few health related issues and how they impact our lifestyle journey. "Mr Night" is a certified Family Nur…
Эпизод 73: Противоположности притягиваются?
We've all heard the term 'opposites attract' when talking about relationships. Does the same hold true when finding connections in the lifestyle? Do we search for people just like our partners or do w…
Эпизод 72: Голоса внутри моего головы - Не будь своим собственным блокером
We are all guilty of creating false narratives and making up those stories in our heads as we consider approaching another couple in the lifestyle. Sometimes we don't even give the other couple a chan…
Эпизод 71: Проблема поцелуя и рассказывания
In this episode we discuss the issue of 'Kissing and Telling' in the lifestyle. How do you feel about couples sharing personal details about a private play experience? Do you share details with others…
Эпизод 70: Жажда 2019 - Рефлексии от Дам
Listen in on our conversation with a resort full of imperfect but beautiful ladies! The ladies of Desire discuss what they've had to realize and overcome in order to enjoy and grow into the lifestyle.…
Эпизод 69: Согласие - больше слов
We all agree consent is a bedrock principle in the lifestyle but most conversations around this topic focus on verbal consent. We'll talk about using our words but will also consider two additional d…
Эпизод 68: Стиль жизни «Социальная сексуальность»
Topic- Some people are either put off by the term "swinger" or have misperceptions of what it really means today. We've decided to use the term 'Social Sexy' to describe how we view and engage with ot…
Эпизод 67: Глаза широко открыты - Красные флаги образа жизни
We discuss identifying red flags in other couples and how to respond when you see them. We also talk about red flags that pop up within your own relationship and how, if left unresolved can lead to yo…
Эпизод 66: Открывайте свой стиль жизни Трайб
When first considering reasons for entering the lifestyle making lifelong friends is not normally the goal. But after getting used to connecting with people and having some sexy playtimes we begin to …
Эпизод 65: Золотые правила образа жизни
Discussion topic: We often focus on rules and guidelines "inside the bedroom" but in this episode we discuss what we consider to be the golden rules of the lifestyle outside of the bedroom. The import…
Эпизод 64: Расизм в образе жизни
Join our conversation with Bomber and The Belle from the Black & Kinky Podcast as we discuss the issue of race in the lifestyle today. As a black couple they share their perspective, experience, opini…
Эпизод 63: Химия образа жизни 101
In this episode we discuss what "chemistry" in the lifestyle means to us and how it's different from attraction. Is chemistry between others instantaneous? Can chemistry with others fade over time? H…
Эпизод 62: Выставление себя на всеобщее обозрение - Профили образа жизни 2.0
In this episode we talk with the creators of the brand new lifestyle website Double Date Nation, Dave and Andi. The four of us discuss our ideas and share our opinions on how best to create and optim…
БОНУС Эпизод 61: Вы знаете Джорджа?
George has been hosting elaborate and sexy lifestyle events all over the world for 15 years. Since we've attended several and get many questions about these 'mysterious' lifestyle gatherings we though…
Эпизод 60: Что такое возраст?
Discussion Topic: In Part 2 of our judgment series we are joined by our "much younger friends" to talk about how age factors in to meeting, connecting and even playing with couples who are much older …
Эпизод 59: Суд над образом жизни
Discussion Topic: We all have experienced being judged. However, we don't often reflect on how we judge others or why so many people in the lifestyle still tend to judge. We discuss how we are wired…
Эпизод 58: Из твоего комфорта в рай
Discussion Topic: The swinging lifestyle is a place we go to grow our relationship. But to experience any kind of personal or relationship growth we must step out of and beyond our comfort zones. Lis…
Эпизод 57: Целевые образы жизни - Что ваше "Why"?
Discussion Topic: Does being in the lifestyle mean a race to full-swap? Will we find ourselves always wanting more? Why does trying the lifestyle seem like a risk to our relationship? Will we become a…
Эпизод 56: Семь привычек высокоуспешных swingerов
Discussion Topic: Using Stephen Covey's Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, we align how those same habits can make you successful as a couple in the swinging lifestyle. Travel with us to Desire …
Эпизод 55: Найдение нашего счастливого места в образе жизни
Discussion topic: In this episode we catch you all up to date on what we've been going through since we were "outed" as lifestyle podcasters 18 months ago. Through all the turmoil we lost our "happy …
Эпизод 54: Драма в образе жизни
Discussion topic: Most agree we'd like to avoid any drama in a lifestyle experience. But is this a realistic expectation? Is drama such a bad thing? Do we know what drama really is and is not? How s…
Эпизод 53: Проблема с осмотрительностью
Discussion topic: In this episode we discuss the tension between wanting to be discreet yet at the same time wanting to know as much as possible about others. Too much discretion and nobody knows you …
Эпизод 52: Предпочтения в игре - Новички или Вeterаны?
Discussion Topic: We share sexy stories from our trip to Desire Pearl and discuss the benefits and drawbacks of sexual play with newbies and veteran couples in the swinging lifestyle. Spoiler alert: w…
Эпизод 51: Неудобные встречи в повседневной жизни
Discussion Topic- Whether it's your very first play experience or you've been swinging for years awkward encounters will always be a part of your lifestyle journey. We share some awkward lifestyle mom…
Эпизод 50: Воспоминания о нашем путешествии по образу жизни
Discussion Topic: In this episode we celebrate the milestone of reaching 50 episodes by reflecting on our lifestyle journey thus far. We are learning a lot and having a loads of fun but it's the peopl…
БОНУС Эпизод 49: Миссис Джонс и Кэт - Что Мужчины Должны Знать о Жизни на Свинге
Discussion Topic: Mrs Jones is joined live by "C" from the Swinging Downunder podcast to discuss what the two ladies believe men need to know and understand to be successful in the swinging lifestyle.…
Эпизод 48: Что идет первым? Конфиденция и храбрость в образе жизни
Discussion Topic In this episode we discuss the difference between being courageous and being confident as you enter and navigate the swinging lifestyle. Many people say "just be confident" and you'll…
Эпизод 47: Реальная жизнь сталкивается с развлекательным образом жизни
Discussion Topic- In this episode we discuss how we see the lifestyle bumping up against real life. Personally we are becoming more "out" as swingers, more and more mainstream media is reporting on s…
Эпизод 46: Сохранение связи во время игры
Discussion Topic- Connecting with your play partner while trying to maintain a connection with your own partner is a balancing act many find difficult to achieve. This month we discuss the challenge …
Эпизод 45: Закрытие сделки - Переход к игровому времени
Discussion Topic- Navigating this lifestyle can be awkward at times, especially when trying to transition from conversation to playtime. We discuss our experience in this area and share some tips to …
Эпизод 44: Эволюция образа жизни
Our New Online Lifestyle Course is Live!Our new online lifestyle course called Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey is now available! We've created 6 modules and over 40 lessons to help you move into the…
Эпизод 43: Семь сексуальных грехов для группового секса
Announcing our special projectMrs Jones and I are developing an online lifestyle course called Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey to be released in December 2017! We've created 6 modules and over 30 le…
Эпизод 42: (Не Такие) Большие Ожидания - Избегание Разочарования
Discussion Topic: Setting expectations is something we (and many couples) struggle with in the lifestyle. With expectations usually comes disappointment. Disappointment can lead to leaving the lifes…
Эпизод 41: Лицензированный консультант (и развлекалка) разбирается в зависти
Discussion Topic: Way back on WGT Episode 3 we discussed Mr Jones's struggle with jealousy when we entered the lifestyle. In this episode we welcome Catherine, a licensed professional counselor AND s…
Эпизод 40: Разрушение мифов о курортах с optional clothing - Desire Pearl 2017
Discussion Topic- Many couples approaching the lifestyle consider clothing optional resorts as a first step on their journey. This episode we tackle some commonly held beliefs and fears regarding clo…
Эпизод 39: Найдите свой флирт в образе жизни
Read our latest newsletter here and then Subscribe to our newsletter here! Keeping up with the Joneses We update you on our new business ventures and Mr Jones makes his request to Mrs Jones for his ho…
Эпизод 38: Найдение той ускользающей четырехугольной связи
Read our latest newsletter here and then Subscribe to our newsletter here! Keeping up with the Joneses We recap the highlights of our experiences at Naughty in N'awlins 2017! Our WGT Meet & Greet and…
Эпизод 37: Наши м世ы сталкиваются - Раскрытые как подкасты о образе жизни
Discussion topic: This month we stray from our regular format to talk about being "outed" as podcasters in the lifestyle. We discuss what happened, how it impacted our lives, how we managed the fallo…
Эпизод 36: Друзья с преимуществами - настоящий единорог реальной жизни?
Keeping up with the Joneses "Friends" from out of town drop by for a few sexy encounters and we chat about the half-marathon that almost happened. Discussion topic We break down lifestyle friendships …
Эпизод 35: Поддерживать реальность - разработка здорового подхода к образу жизни
Keeping up with the Joneses This episode we share three explicit experiences, a weekend with some "tried and true" LS friends, an evening with our new Texas friends and (queue the trumpets) our first …
Эпизод 34: Мистер Джонс и я - Мужской взгляд на образ жизни
Keeping up with the Joneses This month we catch you up on our date(s) with a "unicorn", an evening in our swinger pad with good friends, a somewhat vanilla work party at our house and a family event. …
Эпизод 33: Как глубоко ваша любовь? - Как стиль жизни укрепляет нашу связь
Keeping up with the Joneses This month we catch you up on the sexy weekend we had with a very special couple as the four of us visited the Trapeze Club in Atlanta, Georgia. Oh, and you'll also want t…
Эпизод 32: swinger fails - изучение тех неизбежных ошибок
Keeping up with the Joneses Our trip to Desire Pearl is set! Join us the week of November 11-18, 2017 as we bring T&A from The Curious Couple and C&D from the Swinging Downunder podcasts to meet you a…
Эпизод 31: Ты такая красивая... для меня - привлекательность в образе жизни
Keeping up with the JonesesOur new website is live! Come take a look at wegottathing.com and let us know what you think. We also share what sexy things we've been up to this month to include pushing …
БОНУС Эпизод 30: Стресс перед выступлением в жизни - наш разговор с Джей и Кей
Discussion Topic In this bonus episode we discuss an issue that most couples will face, one way or another, during their journey through the lifestyle. Jay and Kay from "That Couple Next Door" podcas…
Эпизод 29: Правила и границы образа жизни - когда их следует соблюдать, а когда нарушать
Keeping up with the Joneses A lifestyle "happy hour" with "sexy" lifestyle friends, an intimate conversation with "new" lifestyle friends and we share some playtime with "old" lifestyle friends, and a…
Эпизод 28: Жемчужина Желания 2016 - Нет объяснений
Keeping up with the Joneses After a bit of a rant from Mr Jones, we chat about a local date with a new couple that didn't go as well as we would've liked. Topic We talk about our week in paradise! Aft…
БОНУС Эпизод 27: Диверситет в Стиле Жизни - Оригинальная История, Которую Надо Помнить
Discussion topic Listen in as we chat at Desire Pearl with Jay and Nathan, an Indian couple from Edmonton, Canada, who were brought together in an arranged marriage. If you think you know what an arr…
Эпизод 26: Организация домашнего вечеринки
Keeping up with the Joneses We share our "creed": who we are, where we are coming from, why we share and the purpose of our podcast. We also share a sexy tale after a special visit from friends we me…
Эпизод 25: Горячие дни и непристойные ночи в Н'awlins
Keeping up with the Joneses We discuss our evening with J and K from the That Couple Next Door podcast and we thank you, our listeners for voting for us and making We Gotta Thing a finalist in the Ann…
Эпизод 24: Новые шепотчики
Keeping up with the Joneses Dinner with new friends, hosting new friends in the "Swinger Pad" and a night out with Jay and Kay from That Couple Next Door podcast. Discussion topic We recap our trip to…
БОНУС Эпизод 23: Мы Нуждаемся в Одиночном Человеке - Наши Разговоры с "Тони"
Discussion topicIn this special episode we'd like to share our "single guy" with you all! We hope that listening to Tony will help couples navigate the single guy experience and help those aspiring s…
Эпизод 22: Подготовка - Как говорить с партнером о сwinging
Keeping up with the Joneses Afternoon delight with good friends, Mr and Mrs Jones's reconnection time, Dan Savage's Humpfest and why you shouldn't drink beer all day before running a half-marathon. D…
Эпизод 21: Живи Стиль жизни!
Keeping up with the JonesesA vanilla race weekend, a hot quickie with good friends before vacation, sexy fun with the Sapphic Swingers, a trip to Trapeze Club in Fort Lauderdale and a weekend double-h…
Эпизод 20: Глаза широко открыты: риски и награды образа жизни
Keeping up with the Joneses- another try at a house party, a visit from our Florida friends, single guy #2 and a "shake down" cruise of our new swinger pad. Discussion Topic- We discuss how we approac…
Эпизод 19: Miami Heat: Жизнь(стиль) на высокой скорости
Keeping up with the Joneses- a visit from mid-west friends, Mrs Jones joins the Vino Ladies and a house party with a communications issue (oops)! Discussion topic- Do You Know George? We do! We share …
Эпизод 18: Так你想成为摇摆者：让幻想成为现实
Keeping up with the Joneses- We Gotta Thing-o, Naughty stockings, a birthday double blow job, a trip to Pittsburg, new play friends and your hairdresser said what? Discussion topic- we talk about the …
Эпизод 17: С этим кольцом, я тебя качаю - примирение нашей веры с нашим образом жизни
Keeping up with The Joneses- Sexy times with special friends and a hot night for just us two!Discussion Topic- We talk about how we reconcile our Christian faith with our lifestyle journey.Snapshots- …
Эпизод 16: Ты мой... Мистер
Keeping up with the Joneses- Goodbye Paige and Penn, Halloween party, dinner dates (good and bad) and good friends Discussion Topic- Emotional monogamy and sexual non-monogamy Snapshots- Special guest…
Эпизод 15: Если бы мы знали тогда...
Keeping up with the Joneses- Another spectacular house party, a visit by our Florida friends, fun at a Meet & Greet and dinner with a special listener Discussion Topic- Here's what Mr & Mrs Jones from…
Эпизод 14: Миссис Джонс на горячей скамье!
Keeping up with The Joneses- Changes to our music format; Email us!!; Playtime at home Discussion Topic- Mr Jones interviews Mrs Jones about the past year in the lifestyle Snapshots- We share ours and…
БОНУС Эпизод 13: Мы должны были бы иметь дневник-диарий - Часть 2
This bonus episode 13 part 2 was originally posted on the Swinger Diaries podcast in August 2015. Swinger Diaries is no longer podcasting so we are posting this episode to complete the story of our t…
БОНУС Эпизод 13: Мы должны были бы иметь дневник-диарий - Часть 1
Special Episode! In this episode we are joined by Paige and Penn from Swinger Diaries and we all discuss our hot, sexy and fun times together at Naughty in N'awlins! Catch part 2 of this episode on th…
Эпизод 12: Горячий, парящий, сексуальный и непристойный в Н'awlins!
Keeping up with The Joneses- A dinner party, a house party and an apartment party Discussion Topic- Our Naughty in N'awlins experience Snsapshots- Side by side service and the ponytail holder Mentione…
Эпизод 11: Жемчужина Желания 2015 - Сексуальные укрепления и моющие машины мощности
Keeping up with The Joneses- Desire Pearl: The Resort Discussion Topic- Desire Pearl: The Experience Snapshots- Sex fort orgasm and caught red-handed Mentioned in this episode Desire Pearl Naughty in …
Эпизод 10: Мы пришли "полный" круг
Episode 10: We've Come "Full" Circle Keeping up with The Joneses- Hot (some not) Dates at the beach. Discussion Topic- Navigating back to full swap; handling uncomfortable advances. Snapshots- "…
Эпизод 9: Кто ты такой?
Keeping up with The Joneses- Why yes, we do know George! Discussion Topic- Who are you? Who are we? Our experience with swinger date site profiles. Snapshots- Mrs Jones- Dirty dancing in a vanilla dis…
Эпизод 8: Шестерка - это новая четверка!
Boy, do we have a lot to talk about this month....... Keeping up with The Joneses- A dinner and a "hot" hot tub date; a night out in Miami; the dreaded vanilla cruise; an awesome house party.. …
Эпизод 7: Все что-то в 50 оттенках
Keeping up with the Joneses This month we skip out of a marriage conference early to attend a swinger lifestyle meet and greet. Are we bad? We also talk about a local date for dinner. Discussion top…
БОНУС Эпизод 6: Наши разговоры с Купером Беккеттом
In this bonus episode we veer from our normal format to chat with Cooper, host of the "Life on the Swingset" podcast, about his new book "My Life on the Swingset" and other sex-positive topics. As yo…
Эпизод 5 - Мягкий обмен или полный? Это вопрос...
Listen in to our conversation about whether or not it's the right time for us to move from soft swap to full!
Эпизод 4 - Новый год -- Новые друзья!
Join us as we discuss (in detail) our swinging experiences at the Sinn-ergy James Bond New Year's Eve hotel takeover and party!
Эпизод 3 - Зависть? Что происходит с этим?
Join us as we discuss the topic of jealousy and other emotions from our own experience as we entered the lifestyle.
Эпизод 2: Жемчужина желаний: Мы обмануты!
Join us as we discuss what we've been up to in the lifestyle. We share an experience with another couple after our first date, our hot experiences at Desire Pearl and our sexy snapshots of our swingi…
Эпизод 1: Я и миссис Джонс
Greetings! We are Mr and Mrs Jones and We Gotta Thing! This is the first episode of our podcast and we are so glad you've joined us. We are fairly new at this and want to share our adventures (the go…