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By Mr & Mrs Jones's Swinging Adventures

Somos um casal casado há muito tempo que está aprofundando nossa relação através do estilo de vida do swing. Intendemos que nosso podcast ressoe com aqueles que têm experiências de vida e valores similares que estão ou podem entrar neste estilo de vida. Não um recurso "como fazer", mas mais um recurso "o que se passa" que gera uma conversação autêntica entre casais para ajudá-los a encontrar seu lugar neste estilo de vida. Gostaria de nos acompanhar?

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154 Episodes

Episódio 154: Por que a Comparação Roba a Alegria — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Apr 30, 2026· 01:12:47

Episódio 154: Por que a Comparação Roba a Alegria

In this episode, Kel from Expansive Connection discusses the pervasive issue of comparison, its roots in human evolution, and practical tools to manage it. The conversation explores how comparison imp…

Episódio 153: Sua Insegurança é Seu Problema — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Apr 15, 2026· 01:01:07

Episódio 153: Sua Insegurança é Seu Problema

We've talked about jealousy, we've talked about body image. We've discussed learning to flirt and being corageous in the lifestyle. But beneath the surface we all have insecurities about ourselves at …

Episódio 152: Gerenciando Ansiedade na Vida Diária — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 31, 2026· 53:54

Episódio 152: Gerenciando Ansiedade na Vida Diária

There are no shortage of lifestyle sitiuations that will cause us some anxiety! Visiting a club for the first time, going on a first date, being rejected by others, wondering if our partner will 'find…

Episódio 151: O Resort - Uma Porta de Entrada para Não-Monogamia Ética — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 18, 2026· 01:00:13

Episódio 151: O Resort - Uma Porta de Entrada para Não-Monogamia Ética

In this episode we review our trip to 'The Resort' which was first introduced by George in episode 137. The Resort is a new opportunity to step into ethical non-monogamy in a new format and market. Th…

Episódio 150: O estilo de vida é aditivo? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 4, 2026· 01:12:41

Episódio 150: O estilo de vida é aditivo?

Can the lifestyle become an addiction? Well, it can if we don't recognize what's going on in our brains. In this episode with Catherine from Expansive Connection, we break down the key components at p…

Episódio 149: Como Ser um Casal de Potência no Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Feb 10, 2026· 01:10:05

Episódio 149: Como Ser um Casal de Potência no Estilo de Vida

What does it take to be 'successful' as a couple in the world of non-monogamy? In this episode we discuss waht we believe to be the four most important characteristics of a power couple in the lifesty…

Episódio 148: Reframando a Fé Cristã e o Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jan 27, 2026· 01:24:57

Episódio 148: Reframando a Fé Cristã e o Estilo de Vida

Do you struggle with your understanding of how non-monogamy reconciles with a life of faith? Join us for a thought provoking conversation with Dr Mitch G, the newest member of the Expansive Connection…

Episódio 147: Sexo Seguro com o Herói dos DST — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jan 15, 2026· 01:29:45

Episódio 147: Sexo Seguro com o Herói dos DST

One of the most common concerns for those in the lifestyle or considering non-monogamy is the risk of contracting a sexually transmitted infection or disease. We invited Alan Brock, CEO, and Dr Willia…

Episódio 146: Como Relações Mudam ao Longo do Tempo — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Dec 29, 2025· 01:15:45

Episódio 146: Como Relações Mudam ao Longo do Tempo

We all know that all relationships, monogamous and non-monogamous, will change over time. Many of those changes will lead to the relationship ending. But does it have to end? Why can't the dynamics of…

Episódio 145: Pergunte-nos (e aos nossos amigos) qualquer coisa — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Dec 15, 2025· 01:23:11

Episódio 145: Pergunte-nos (e aos nossos amigos) qualquer coisa

This 'ask us anything' episode was recorded live at our 9th annual group trip to Desire Pearl. Not only did we answer questions but our friends helped us out by contributing as well. Use Promo Code: W…

Episódio 144: Coaching de Estilo de Vida no Após-perda — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Nov 25, 2025· 01:05:00

Episódio 144: Coaching de Estilo de Vida no Após-perda

As a follow up to our episode 142, we hear from Catherine about how the ending of her marriage is affecting her coaching business at Expansive Connection. Will her clients still trust her as a coach? …

Episódio 143: Balançando & Poliamoria - Somos Mais Semelhantes do Que Pensamos? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Nov 11, 2025· 01:29:39

Episódio 143: Balançando & Poliamoria - Somos Mais Semelhantes do Que Pensamos?

We are joined by Dedeker, Emily and Jase from the Multiamory* podcast to discuss the similarities and differences between the swinging lifestyle and polyamory! We also talk about what exactly New Rela…

Episódio 142: A História de Catherine - "O Meu Casamento Desmoronou" — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Oct 27, 2025· 01:39:52

Episódio 142: A História de Catherine - "O Meu Casamento Desmoronou"

This episode gets very real and very personal. Catherine, from Expansive Connection Relationship Coaching, tells her story of how her marriage fell apart while engaged in a non-monogamous relationship…

Episódio 141: O que Novatos Precisam Saber e Veteranos Precisam Recordar — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Sep 24, 2025· 01:05:24

Episódio 141: O que Novatos Precisam Saber e Veteranos Precisam Recordar

Join us and Meshai from Expansive Connection Coaching as we discuss the six most important things those new to the lifestyle need to know and us veterans of the lifestyle need always to remember: Rad…

Episódio 140: De volta ao ritmo normal — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Sep 10, 2025· 01:02:55

Episódio 140: De volta ao ritmo normal

None of us are immune from having 'real life' issues disrupt our relationship or our current life plans and goals. Health issues, family responsibilities, career changes and relocations are just a few…

Episódio 139: Nossa Sessão de Coaching Enneagram — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Aug 26, 2025· 01:16:12

Episódio 139: Nossa Sessão de Coaching Enneagram

In episode 136 Kel, from Expansive Connection Coaching explained all nine Enneagram personality types and motivations. Listen in on this real-time coaching session as Kel reveals the Enneagram results…

Episódio 138: Descrevendo o Estilo de Vida - Pessoas Respeitosas, Pervertidas e Cool-Ass — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Aug 13, 2025· 01:07:44

Episódio 138: Descrevendo o Estilo de Vida - Pessoas Respeitosas, Pervertidas e Cool-Ass

When we hear the word 'swinger' or 'lifestyle' the first time we may think of key parties, sleezy sex clubs, orgies with strangers and lots of perverted people who will have sex with anyone. With how …

Episódio 137: 'O Resort' - Um Novo Conceito para Vacacionistas de Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jul 30, 2025· 01:16:36

Episódio 137: 'O Resort' - Um Novo Conceito para Vacacionistas de Estilo de Vida

Join us as we chat with the founder of a brand new lifestyle vacation spot in Jamaica- 'The Resort.' This upscale venue gives lifestyle travelers an additional and much needed option for a sexy vacati…

Episódio 136: O Enneagram - Conheça Seu Número! — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jul 15, 2025· 01:25:44

Episódio 136: O Enneagram - Conheça Seu Número!

Join us as Kel from Expansive Connection explains the Enneagram system which offers numerous benefits for personal and professional development by providing insights into motivations, behaviors, and r…

Episódio 135: Origem - indo mais fundo com Kurt e Vicki — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jul 8, 2025· 01:04:35

Episódio 135: Origem - indo mais fundo com Kurt e Vicki

This 'Origin Story' format episode features our friends Kurt & Vicki and highlights another unique journey into and through non-monogamy. Perhaps their story of working through issues will resonate wi…

Episódio 134: Confrontando os medos de "o que se passaria" com a não-monogamia — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jun 27, 2025· 01:18:51

Episódio 134: Confrontando os medos de "o que se passaria" com a não-monogamia

Are you considering trying non-monogamy or perhaps learning how to navigate the swinging lifestyle environment? Are you paralyzed by the 'what-ifs?' What if my partner falls in love with someone else?…

Episódio 133: 10 Atributos de Sucessos em Swinger — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jun 20, 2025· 01:03:58

Episódio 133: 10 Atributos de Sucessos em Swinger

So you think you've got what it takes to be 'successful' in the swinging lifestyle? From our 11 years of experience, we share what we believe to be the most important attributes a person or couple mus…

Episódio 132: Nossas Diferenças Nos Fazem Melhores — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
May 28, 2025· 01:14:34

Episódio 132: Nossas Diferenças Nos Fazem Melhores

Why do we usually react to the word 'different' as something negative? Our differences can help us to learn more about ourselves which can lead to individual growth as well as strengthen our relations…

Episódio 131: Encontrando Sua Tribo na Comunidade We Gotta Thing — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
May 13, 2025· 01:32:19

Episódio 131: Encontrando Sua Tribo na Comunidade We Gotta Thing

What makes the WGT community unique? We are not a dating site. We are not like a Facebook group. Nor are we similar to a Discord server, a Slack channel, a Zoom meeting or a WhatsApp conversation. Wha…

Episódio 130: Tudo sobre Relações 'Swolly' — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Apr 23, 2025· 01:19:16

Episódio 130: Tudo sobre Relações 'Swolly'

Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us to help define that 'squishy' term that is a result of some combination of 'swinging' and 'polyamory.' She then discusses pro's and con's of what …

Episódio 129: Domesticando as Vozes Dentro da Minha Cabeça — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 21, 2025· 01:18:49

Episódio 129: Domesticando as Vozes Dentro da Minha Cabeça

You're awake again at 3:00am. You can't go back to sleep. You calculate how much sleep you'll have if you go back to sleep right now. Then, while staring at the ceiling, a voice inside your head decid…

Episódio 128: Basta com os Abacaxis! Como Estabelecer Conexões na Selva — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Feb 17, 2025· 01:09:54

Episódio 128: Basta com os Abacaxis! Como Estabelecer Conexões na Selva

We are contantly bombarded with lifestyle symbols and the promises they bring of attracting lifestyle couples to us in our day-to-day lives! From upside down pineapples in the grocery store, to black …

Episódio 127: Confiança - O Que Não É — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jan 29, 2025· 01:09:38

Episódio 127: Confiança - O Que Não É

What is trust not? Trust is not a feeling that someone else creates in us with their actions. Some of us think we can trust people only when they are doing what we want them to do so we don't feel unc…

Episódio 126: As Muitas Sabores da Jealousia — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Dec 30, 2024· 01:19:12

Episódio 126: As Muitas Sabores da Jealousia

Fearing or experiencing jealousy is one of the biggest reasons couples either don't try the lifestyle or don't last in the lifestyle. Why is that? It's more complex than we realize! Join us as Catheri…

Episódio 125: Uma Celebração ao Vivo dos 10 Anos de Podcasting! — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Dec 10, 2024· 01:36:17

Episódio 125: Uma Celebração ao Vivo dos 10 Anos de Podcasting!

Please join us in celebrating 10 years recording the We Gotta Thing podcast! This is a very special episode recorded live with a group of our closest friends at the Desire Pearl resort. We thank all o…

Episódio 124: Lidando com Rejeição no Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Nov 30, 2024· 01:05:18

Episódio 124: Lidando com Rejeição no Estilo de Vida

Meshai from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us as we dive into the topic of being rejected in the lifestyle. We all experience the negative emotions when rejected by others and Meshai helps us to …

Episódio 123: As Muitas Significações de 'Conexão' no Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Nov 7, 2024· 01:25:19

Episódio 123: As Muitas Significações de 'Conexão' no Estilo de Vida

Why do we want to connect with others? What are some ways we connect with others? What types of connections may we experience? How do we stay connected? What happens if we become disconnected with oth…

Episódio 122: Não-Monogamia Demanda Trabalho - Quanto Você Está Disposto a Investir? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Oct 29, 2024· 01:20:57

Episódio 122: Não-Monogamia Demanda Trabalho - Quanto Você Está Disposto a Investir?

Jason from Expansive Connection Coaching joins us this month to discuss the 'non-quantifiable' work involved in exploring non-monogamy. Based on our WGT episode 100 in which we discuss the quantifiabl…

Episódio 121: Histórias de Origem - Mark e Beth Canuck — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Oct 4, 2024· 01:38:54

Episódio 121: Histórias de Origem - Mark e Beth Canuck

Listen in as our friends Mark and Beth share their unique journey into and exploration of non-monogamy! We also review our Virgin Cruise out of Barcelona and discuss our first local lifestyle meet and…

Episódio 120: Os Benefícios e Desafios da Não Monogamia com Conexão Expansiva — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Sep 16, 2024· 01:18:48

Episódio 120: Os Benefícios e Desafios da Não Monogamia com Conexão Expansiva

Kel from Expansive Connection coaching joins us to discuss some of the benefits and challenges one may encounter when choosing to explore the non-monogamous lifestyle. Kel shares from her perspective …

Episódio 119: O Valor da Consultoria no Mundo Não Monogâmico — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Aug 20, 2024· 01:28:04

Episódio 119: O Valor da Consultoria no Mundo Não Monogâmico

Having experienced counseling ourselves over the past few months, we invite Catherine from Expansive Connection to talk with us about how those in non-monogamous relationships benefit from getting gui…

Episódio 118: Desejo Riviera Maya e uma Vida Menos Vanilhada — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jul 29, 2024· 01:17:29

Episódio 118: Desejo Riviera Maya e uma Vida Menos Vanilhada

Listen in as we review the brand new "The Eden" section of Desire Riviera Maya! We also enlist the help of many of our friends in a live recording from the resort to share how they challenged themselv…

Episódio 117: Não-Monogamia é uma Atividade para Adultos — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jun 20, 2024· 01:14:51

Episódio 117: Não-Monogamia é uma Atividade para Adultos

Most of us have mastered being 'adult-like' in all aspects of our lives. We are experienced at life. We are parents, spouses/partners, coaches, employees, teachers, leaders and friends. We've become a…

Episódio 116: Como a Vulnerabilidade Aumenta Sua Viagem de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
May 8, 2024· 01:06:28

Episódio 116: Como a Vulnerabilidade Aumenta Sua Viagem de Vida

Being vulnerable is not easy and may not come natural for some, espcially when exploring the lifestyle. We tend to wall off our personal lives because we're worried about people knowing too much about…

Episódio 115: Você é muito gentil? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 26, 2024· 01:19:13

Episódio 115: Você é muito gentil?

Are you the type of person who puts the feelings of others above of your own? Do you want to have a stronger voice when someone suggests something you don't necessarily want to do? You are not alone! …

Episódio 114: É só um beijo? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jan 31, 2024· 01:04:11

Episódio 114: É só um beijo?

We explore the perceptions and realities of what, exactly a kiss can mean to those in the lifestyle community. Does granting a kiss commit me to a sexual experience? Why do some couples have a 'no kis…

Episódio 113: As Realidades dos Resorts de Roupas Opcionais — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jan 4, 2024· 01:25:42

Episódio 113: As Realidades dos Resorts de Roupas Opcionais

Listen in on our live recording from Desire Pearl where our guests discuss their unique perspectives, perceptions and realities of the term 'clothing optional.' Most of us struggle with self-confidenc…

Episódio 112: Uma Origem - Scott & Kelly — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Nov 8, 2023· 01:15:00

Episódio 112: Uma Origem - Scott & Kelly

Join Mr & Mrs Jones and they interview "Scott & Kelly." This couple's journey into the lifestyle sounds like many other origin stories but then takes a bit of a turn when a family member shares some u…

Episódio 111: Encontrando Quem Você Não Estava Buscando — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Oct 11, 2023· 01:00:02

Episódio 111: Encontrando Quem Você Não Estava Buscando

As newbies we started our lifestyle journey looking for people to connect with and then explore sexually. Back then it was all about the excitment, the taboo nature of the lifestyle and a boost to our…

Episódio 110: Uma Origem - Chris e Nancy — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Aug 28, 2023· 01:24:10

Episódio 110: Uma Origem - Chris e Nancy

Chris and Nancy share their amazing and unique story of finding the lifestyle through a period of intense emotional exploration after being together for more than 20 years. We've learned that no relat…

Episódio 108: Navegando o Tempo de Brincadeira de Férias — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jun 30, 2023· 01:01:45

Episódio 108: Navegando o Tempo de Brincadeira de Férias

Many couples ask about how to 'successfully' navigate a clothing optional resort. How do we find couples like us? How do we socialize with others without them thinking it's an invitation to play? How …

Episódio 107: Nossa Experiência com o Grande Michel Temptation — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
May 22, 2023· 01:10:37

Episódio 107: Nossa Experiência com o Grande Michel Temptation

In advance of our group trip to Temptation Grand Miches in the Dominican Republic we visited the resort to experience it ourselves. Through construction delays, supply chain disruptions, hurricanes an…

Episódio 106: Navegando pelas Clãs no Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 28, 2023· 01:04:36

Episódio 106: Navegando pelas Clãs no Estilo de Vida

We hear story after story about the difficulties many (and mostly newer) couples in the lifestyle experience when encountering 'cliques' while attending events, visiting clubs or attending parties or …

Episódio 105: Histórias de Origem - "J&B 2.0" — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Feb 26, 2023· 01:13:36

Episódio 105: Histórias de Origem - "J&B 2.0"

Listen in on our conversation with our friends "J&B 2.0" as they share their particular story of how they discovered and began exploring the lifestyle together! They are funny, smart and very real as …

Episódio 104: Escolhendo um Evento de Estilo de Vida com Cate da PCAP — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jan 29, 2023· 01:29:36

Episódio 104: Escolhendo um Evento de Estilo de Vida com Cate da PCAP

Finding lifestely events and then choosing which event is the best fit for your approach to the lifestyle can be difficult and often confusing. Listen in as we chat with event host Cate from Libertine…

Episódio 103: Confrontando Medos de Primeiro-Tempo nos Resorts Desire — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Dec 21, 2022· 01:27:06

Episódio 103: Confrontando Medos de Primeiro-Tempo nos Resorts Desire

Listen in as our event guests discuss working through their individual fears, anxieties and challenges at a clothing optional resort during our week together at Desire Pearl Resort just south of Cancu…

Episódio 102: Você Precisa de Seu Próprio Sh*t — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Nov 7, 2022· 01:35:26

Episódio 102: Você Precisa de Seu Próprio Sh*t

We sit down with four of our lifestyle friends and share real stories about what it's like to experience hurt feelings during an event and how to dissect, debrief, discover and confront the root cause…

Episódio 101: Falhas de Negociação — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Oct 12, 2022· 01:24:33

Episódio 101: Falhas de Negociação

We discuss four distinct behaviors we consider to be deal breakers to moving forward and possibly making new lifestyle friends and connecting with potential play partners. Sharing opinions on politic…

Episódio 100: Você está disposto a fazer o trabalho duro? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Aug 31, 2022· 01:01:22

Episódio 100: Você está disposto a fazer o trabalho duro?

Finding your tribe, making lifelong friends, connecting for sexy playtime and growing your primary relationship are just a few ways to define 'success' in the lifestyle. Many may mistakenly believe yo…

Episódio 99: Capturando Essa Energia de Nova Relação — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jul 31, 2022· 01:14:40

Episódio 99: Capturando Essa Energia de Nova Relação

New Relationship Energy (NRE) is that sexual buzz we feel when we first meet and connect with a couple or individual. We discuss navigating this heightened state of emotional and sexual feelings by pr…

Episódio 98: A Necessidade de Comunidade de Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jun 21, 2022· 01:44:32

Episódio 98: A Necessidade de Comunidade de Estilo de Vida

As the idea and exploration of consensual non-monogamy continues to grow we have noticed the need for organized community. The different flavors and diverse approaches means that one size does not fit…

Episódio 97: Nossa Coisa Não Pode Ser Sua Coisa — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
May 25, 2022· 01:07:06

Episódio 97: Nossa Coisa Não Pode Ser Sua Coisa

To quote Mrs Jones, "we should be an example and not a blueprint." It may seem natural to adapt our 'thing' into your lifestyle journey but that could be a mistake. Giving yourselves an opportunity to…

Episódio 96: Coaching Não-Monogâmico por Expansive Connection — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Apr 24, 2022· 01:59:37

Episódio 96: Coaching Não-Monogâmico por Expansive Connection

Catherine (one of our favorite humans) and her team from Expansive Connection join us to discuss how they have created a unique method of coaching non-monogamous people! Not only do they offer a 'judg…

Episódio 95: O Estilo de Vida É a Vida Real — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 29, 2022· 01:10:36

Episódio 95: O Estilo de Vida É a Vida Real

We often hear couples suggest they are taking a break from the lifestyle due to 'real life' issues. We also hear some say that 'real life' is getting in the way of their lifestyle activities.  In thi…

Episódio 94: É inveja ou ciúme? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Feb 16, 2022· 01:21:42

Episódio 94: É inveja ou ciúme?

Have you experienced lifestyle play partners getting a little upset when you choose to spend time with others? How about hard feelings when one of you seems to be enjoying the lifestyle more than the …

Episódio 93: E se Fôssemos Revelados? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jan 17, 2022· 01:27:15

Episódio 93: E se Fôssemos Revelados?

This is the most important topic that nobody wants to talk about! Chances are this won't happen to you (as it did us) but we still want to help prepare you just in case... We reflect back on our exper…

Episódio 92: Fotos instantâneas de Desire Pearl — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Nov 30, 2021· 01:28:21

Episódio 92: Fotos instantâneas de Desire Pearl

Listen in as our guests share their Desire Pearl 2021 snapshots in a recorded-live conversation from the resort! Some are thoughtful and meaningful, some are sexy and others are downright hilarious! O…

Episódio 91: Rejeitado Novamente - Por Que Eles Não Nos Gostam? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Oct 31, 2021· 01:26:05

Episódio 91: Rejeitado Novamente - Por Que Eles Não Nos Gostam?

This month we discuss why other couples reject us when reaching out from a lifestyle dating site and how to improve our chances of success in the future. This episode complements our episode 62 "Putti…

Episódio 90: A Importância da Confiança na Vida de Todos os Dias — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Sep 23, 2021· 01:38:38

Episódio 90: A Importância da Confiança na Vida de Todos os Dias

We discuss the importance of trust from four different angles: trusting your relationship, trusting each other, trusting other couples and trusting who you are becoming in the lifestyle. Also, I (Mr J…

Episódio 89: Aproveitando o Jogo em Grupo — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Aug 29, 2021· 01:32:41

Episódio 89: Aproveitando o Jogo em Grupo

Group play can be fun but also tricky! In this episode we explore the benefits and pitfalls and share our perspective on how we approach and navigate playing in larger groups. We also recap our very f…

Episódio 88: A Arte de Evitar Erros — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jul 25, 2021· 01:22:11

Episódio 88: A Arte de Evitar Erros

No matter how long you've been in the lifestyle you are going to make mistakes. So we've come up with a few tips to help you minimize those mistakes and make your play experiences more meaningful and …

Episódio 87: Normalização por Exposição — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jun 23, 2021· 01:19:32

Episódio 87: Normalização por Exposição

In this episode we discuss how our perceptions change to our reality the more we are exposed to actual events. All of us have pre-lifestyle perceptions, newbie lifestyle perceptions and even veteran l…

Episódio 86: Ser Bi-Algo na Lifestyle — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
May 18, 2021· 01:32:10

Episódio 86: Ser Bi-Algo na Lifestyle

There are perceptions in the lifestyle that a woman must be 'bi-something' to attract and connect with other couples. On the men's side of things there is a double standard and a stigma attached to be…

Episódio 85: Sente-se como se fosse a primeira vez — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Apr 26, 2021· 56:23

Episódio 85: Sente-se como se fosse a primeira vez

Perhaps you have not had your first play experience yet or haven't had one in a very long time due to the current pandemic. Preparing for that first play experience creates a lot of build up, anticipa…

Episódio 84: O Desilusão - Podemos Ainda Ser Amigos? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 29, 2021· 01:22:40

Episódio 84: O Desilusão - Podemos Ainda Ser Amigos?

Do you struggle with if, when and how to tell other couples you're not interested in meeting? What about after you've played and you've lost interest? What if they ask you why you aren't interested? W…

Episódio 83: A Luta É Real — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Feb 21, 2021· 01:16:30

Episódio 83: A Luta É Real

Not only does real life often get in the way of engaging in the lifestyle, but simply staying sexually connected as a couple is a struggle. Add a global pandemic to the mix and you have the perfect st…

Episódio 82: A Conversa sobre Compatibilidade — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jan 21, 2021· 01:20:01

Episódio 82: A Conversa sobre Compatibilidade

We believe there are three important components of compatibility that we need to consider when trying to find connections with people in the lifestyle: General Compatibility, Safety & Health Compatibi…

Episódio 81: A Linguagem do Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Nov 29, 2020· 01:25:53

Episódio 81: A Linguagem do Estilo de Vida

In this episode we discuss the idea that there is a unique language spoken by those in the swinging lifestyle. We believe this language is comprised of four distinct elements: the language of speaking…

Episódio 80: Encontrando Verdadeiros Amigos no Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Oct 30, 2020· 01:21:09

Episódio 80: Encontrando Verdadeiros Amigos no Estilo de Vida

We talk a lot about all the special friendships we've made in the lifestyle and many of you express frustration over finding the type of connections we describe. In this episode we offer tips on what …

Episódio 79: Podemos nos Affordar o Estilo de Vida? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Sep 27, 2020· 01:09:08

Episódio 79: Podemos nos Affordar o Estilo de Vida?

It's not a secret that engaging in the lifestyle can be expensive! In this episode we discuss budgeting tips for your lifestyle adventures and why we prioritize spending money on us as an investment i…

Episódio 78: Como sei que ela está interessada em mim? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Aug 30, 2020· 01:36:23

Episódio 78: Como sei que ela está interessada em mim?

Men are programmed through all aspects of life to avoid showing interest in other women. But now we are in this lifestyle where other women expect us to show some interest. This is so confusing! How a…

Episódio 77: Eu Nunca Imaginei Que Eu... — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jul 26, 2020· 01:34:57

Episódio 77: Eu Nunca Imaginei Que Eu...

Before entering the lifestyle or becoming experienced in the lifestyle we never imagined doing some of the things we've actually done and things we've learned about the lifestyle. We share how our per…

Episódio 76: Seja Autêntico - Reconhecendo Todas As Faces de Você — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jun 28, 2020· 01:05:59

Episódio 76: Seja Autêntico - Reconhecendo Todas As Faces de Você

As we are mired in the current pandemic many of us are being pulled back away from our social and sexual mindsets. When we are concerned about our jobs, our children, our families and our health we ne…

Episódio 75: Confrontando Problemas de Desempenho Masculino — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
May 25, 2020· 01:34:55

Episódio 75: Confrontando Problemas de Desempenho Masculino

Erectile Dysfunction and Performance Anxiety are often misunderstood by many in the lifestyle. Numerous couples experience this issue but don't take the time to acknowledge, openly discuss, research a…

Episódio 74: Saúde, Bem-estar, Hormônios e o Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Apr 22, 2020· 01:38:35

Episódio 74: Saúde, Bem-estar, Hormônios e o Estilo de Vida

As we all focus on staying well during this pandemic we thought it a good time to talk about a few health related issues and how they impact our lifestyle journey. "Mr Night" is a certified Family Nur…

Episódio 73: Opoisos Atraem-se? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 22, 2020· 01:29:06

Episódio 73: Opoisos Atraem-se?

We've all heard the term 'opposites attract' when talking about relationships. Does the same hold true when finding connections in the lifestyle? Do we search for people just like our partners or do w…

Episódio 72: Vozes dentro da minha cabeça - Não seja seu próprio bloqueador de c*** — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Feb 16, 2020· 01:37:24

Episódio 72: Vozes dentro da minha cabeça - Não seja seu próprio bloqueador de c***

We are all guilty of creating false narratives and making up those stories in our heads as we consider approaching another couple in the lifestyle. Sometimes we don't even give the other couple a chan…

Episódio 71: O Dilema do Beijo e Contar — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jan 14, 2020· 01:29:05

Episódio 71: O Dilema do Beijo e Contar

In this episode we discuss the issue of 'Kissing and Telling' in the lifestyle. How do you feel about couples sharing personal details about a private play experience? Do you share details with others…

Episódio 70: Desejo 2019 - Reflexões das Senhoras — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Dec 15, 2019· 01:35:19

Episódio 70: Desejo 2019 - Reflexões das Senhoras

Listen in on our conversation with a resort full of imperfect but beautiful ladies! The ladies of Desire discuss what they've had to realize and overcome in order to enjoy and grow into the lifestyle.…

Episódio 69: Consentimento - Mais do que Palavras — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Nov 11, 2019· 01:31:35

Episódio 69: Consentimento - Mais do que Palavras

We all agree consent is a bedrock principle in the lifestyle but most conversations around this topic focus on verbal consent.  We'll talk about using our words but will also consider two additional d…

Episódio 68: O Estilo de Vida 'Social Sexy' — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Oct 20, 2019· 01:35:43

Episódio 68: O Estilo de Vida 'Social Sexy'

Topic- Some people are either put off by the term "swinger" or have misperceptions of what it really means today. We've decided to use the term 'Social Sexy' to describe how we view and engage with ot…

Episódio 67: Olhos Abertos - Sinais de Risco de Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Sep 22, 2019· 01:26:49

Episódio 67: Olhos Abertos - Sinais de Risco de Estilo de Vida

We discuss identifying red flags in other couples and how to respond when you see them. We also talk about red flags that pop up within your own relationship and how, if left unresolved can lead to yo…

Episódio 66: Descobrindo Sua Tribo de Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Aug 18, 2019· 01:32:38

Episódio 66: Descobrindo Sua Tribo de Estilo de Vida

When first considering reasons for entering the lifestyle making lifelong friends is not normally the goal. But after getting used to connecting with people and having some sexy playtimes we begin to …

Episódio 65: As Regras Douradas do Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jul 21, 2019· 01:36:56

Episódio 65: As Regras Douradas do Estilo de Vida

Discussion topic: We often focus on rules and guidelines "inside the bedroom" but in this episode we discuss what we consider to be the golden rules of the lifestyle outside of the bedroom. The import…

Episódio 64: Corrida na Vida de Luxo — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jun 16, 2019· 01:34:03

Episódio 64: Corrida na Vida de Luxo

Join our conversation with Bomber and The Belle from the Black & Kinky Podcast as we discuss the issue of race in the lifestyle today. As a black couple they share their perspective, experience, opini…

Episódio 63: Química de Estilo de Vida 101 — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
May 20, 2019· 01:23:15

Episódio 63: Química de Estilo de Vida 101

In this episode we discuss what "chemistry" in the lifestyle means to us and how it's different from attraction.  Is chemistry between others instantaneous? Can chemistry with others fade over time? H…

Episódio 62: Colocando Você Mesmo Aí - Perfil de Estilo 2.0 — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Apr 21, 2019· 01:46:23

Episódio 62: Colocando Você Mesmo Aí - Perfil de Estilo 2.0

In this episode we talk with the creators of the brand new lifestyle website Double Date Nation, Dave and Andi.  The four of us discuss our ideas and share our opinions on how best to create and optim…

Episódio Bonus 61: Você conhece George? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 28, 2019· 01:17:28

Episódio Bonus 61: Você conhece George?

George has been hosting elaborate and sexy lifestyle events all over the world for 15 years. Since we've attended several and get many questions about these 'mysterious' lifestyle gatherings we though…

Episódio 60: O Que o Idade Tem a Ver Com Isso? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 10, 2019· 01:35:49

Episódio 60: O Que o Idade Tem a Ver Com Isso?

Discussion Topic: In Part 2 of our judgment series we are joined by our "much younger friends" to talk about how age factors in to meeting, connecting and even playing with couples who are much older …

Episódio 59: Julgamento na Vida de Luxo — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Feb 17, 2019· 01:13:12

Episódio 59: Julgamento na Vida de Luxo

Discussion Topic: We all have experienced being judged.  However, we don't often reflect on how we judge others or why so many people in the lifestyle still tend to judge.  We discuss how we are wired…

Episódio 58: De fora da sua zona de conforto e para o Paraíso — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jan 14, 2019· 01:37:03

Episódio 58: De fora da sua zona de conforto e para o Paraíso

Discussion Topic: The swinging lifestyle is a place we go to grow our relationship.  But to experience any kind of personal or relationship growth we must step out of and beyond our comfort zones. Lis…

Episódio 57: Objetivos de Estilo de Vida - Qual é o Teu Porquê? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Dec 11, 2018· 01:21:03

Episódio 57: Objetivos de Estilo de Vida - Qual é o Teu Porquê?

Discussion Topic: Does being in the lifestyle mean a race to full-swap? Will we find ourselves always wanting more? Why does trying the lifestyle seem like a risk to our relationship? Will we become a…

Episódio 56: Sete Hábitos de Altamente Sucessivos Swingers — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Nov 5, 2018· 01:13:49

Episódio 56: Sete Hábitos de Altamente Sucessivos Swingers

Discussion Topic: Using Stephen Covey's Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, we align how those same habits can make you successful as a couple in the swinging lifestyle. Travel with us to Desire …

Episódio 55: Encontrando Nossa Felicidade no Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Oct 8, 2018· 01:28:47

Episódio 55: Encontrando Nossa Felicidade no Estilo de Vida

Discussion topic: In this episode we catch you all up to date on what we've been going through since we were "outed" as lifestyle podcasters 18 months ago.  Through all the turmoil we lost our "happy …

Episódio 54: Drama na Vida de Casal — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Sep 16, 2018· 01:45:15

Episódio 54: Drama na Vida de Casal

Discussion topic: Most agree we'd like to avoid any drama in a lifestyle experience.  But is this a realistic expectation? Is drama such a bad thing? Do we know what drama really is and is not?  How s…

Episódio 53: O Dilema da Discreção — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Aug 19, 2018· 01:21:13

Episódio 53: O Dilema da Discreção

Discussion topic: In this episode we discuss the tension between wanting to be discreet yet at the same time wanting to know as much as possible about others. Too much discretion and nobody knows you …

Episódio 52: Preferências de Jogo - Novatos ou Veteranos? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jul 15, 2018· 01:28:54

Episódio 52: Preferências de Jogo - Novatos ou Veteranos?

Discussion Topic: We share sexy stories from our trip to Desire Pearl and discuss the benefits and drawbacks of sexual play with newbies and veteran couples in the swinging lifestyle. Spoiler alert: w…

Episódio 51: Encontros Incômodos de Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jun 18, 2018· 01:23:54

Episódio 51: Encontros Incômodos de Estilo de Vida

Discussion Topic- Whether it's your very first play experience or you've been swinging for years awkward encounters will always be a part of your lifestyle journey. We share some awkward lifestyle mom…

Episódio 50: Reflexões sobre o Nosso Caminho de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
May 21, 2018· 01:30:03

Episódio 50: Reflexões sobre o Nosso Caminho de Vida

Discussion Topic: In this episode we celebrate the milestone of reaching 50 episodes by reflecting on our lifestyle journey thus far. We are learning a lot and having a loads of fun but it's the peopl…

Episódio Bonus 49: Mrs Jones & Cate - O que Homens Precisam Saber Sobre o Estilo de Vida de Balanço — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Apr 25, 2018· 01:17:17

Episódio Bonus 49: Mrs Jones & Cate - O que Homens Precisam Saber Sobre o Estilo de Vida de Balanço

Discussion Topic: Mrs Jones is joined live by "C" from the Swinging Downunder podcast to discuss what the two ladies believe men need to know and understand to be successful in the swinging lifestyle.…

Episódio 48: Qual Chega Primeiro? Confiança e Coragem na Vida de Roteiro — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Apr 11, 2018· 01:29:56

Episódio 48: Qual Chega Primeiro? Confiança e Coragem na Vida de Roteiro

Discussion Topic In this episode we discuss the difference between being courageous and being confident as you enter and navigate the swinging lifestyle. Many people say "just be confident" and you'll…

Episódio 47: Vida Real Encontra o Estilo de Viver que Balança — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 11, 2018· 01:32:06

Episódio 47: Vida Real Encontra o Estilo de Viver que Balança

Discussion Topic- In this episode we discuss how we see the lifestyle bumping up against real life.  Personally we are becoming more "out" as swingers, more and more mainstream media is reporting on s…

Episódio 46: Mantendo-se Conectado Durante o Jogo — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Feb 11, 2018· 01:18:12

Episódio 46: Mantendo-se Conectado Durante o Jogo

Discussion Topic- Connecting with your play partner while trying to maintain a connection with your own partner is a balancing act many find difficult to achieve.  This month we discuss the challenge …

Episódio 45: Fechando o Negócio - Passando para o Tempo de Jogo — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jan 9, 2018· 01:30:17

Episódio 45: Fechando o Negócio - Passando para o Tempo de Jogo

Discussion Topic- Navigating this lifestyle can be awkward at times, especially when trying to transition from conversation to playtime.  We discuss our experience in this area and share some tips to …

Episódio 44: A Evolução do Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Dec 10, 2017· 01:27:43

Episódio 44: A Evolução do Estilo de Vida

Our New Online Lifestyle Course is Live!Our new online lifestyle course called Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey is now available! We've created 6 modules and over 40 lessons to help you move into the…

Episódio 43: Sete Erros Sexuais de Swinger — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Nov 7, 2017· 01:01:59

Episódio 43: Sete Erros Sexuais de Swinger

Announcing our special projectMrs Jones and I are developing an online lifestyle course called Navigating Your Lifestyle Journey to be released in December 2017! We've created 6 modules and over 30 le…

Episódio 42: (Não tão) Grandes Expectativas - Evitando Desapontamentos — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Oct 19, 2017· 01:02:18

Episódio 42: (Não tão) Grandes Expectativas - Evitando Desapontamentos

Discussion Topic: Setting expectations is something we (and many couples) struggle with in the lifestyle.  With expectations usually comes disappointment.  Disappointment can lead to leaving the lifes…

Episódio 41: Um Psicólogo Licenciado (e Swinger) Desmantela a Jejúria — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Oct 1, 2017· 01:34:46

Episódio 41: Um Psicólogo Licenciado (e Swinger) Desmantela a Jejúria

Discussion Topic: Way back on WGT Episode 3 we discussed Mr Jones's struggle with jealousy when we entered the lifestyle. In this episode we welcome Catherine, a licensed professional counselor AND s…

Episódio 40: Debunking Myths sobre Resorts de Roupas Opcionais - Desire Pearl 2017 — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Sep 11, 2017· 01:35:20

Episódio 40: Debunking Myths sobre Resorts de Roupas Opcionais - Desire Pearl 2017

Discussion Topic- Many couples approaching the lifestyle consider clothing optional resorts as a first step on their journey.  This episode we tackle some commonly held beliefs and fears regarding clo…

Episódio 39: Encontrando Seu Flirt no Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Aug 14, 2017· 01:15:33

Episódio 39: Encontrando Seu Flirt no Estilo de Vida

Read our latest newsletter here and then Subscribe to our newsletter here! Keeping up with the Joneses We update you on our new business ventures and Mr Jones makes his request to Mrs Jones for his ho…

Episódio 38: Encontrando aquela Conexão de Quatro Vias Elusiva — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jul 23, 2017· 01:27:04

Episódio 38: Encontrando aquela Conexão de Quatro Vias Elusiva

Read our latest newsletter here and then Subscribe to our newsletter here! Keeping up with the Joneses We recap the highlights of our experiences at Naughty in N'awlins 2017!  Our WGT Meet & Greet and…

Episódio 37: Nosso Mundo Colide - Revelados como Podcaster de Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jun 19, 2017· 01:21:40

Episódio 37: Nosso Mundo Colide - Revelados como Podcaster de Estilo de Vida

Discussion topic: This month we stray from our regular format to talk about being "outed" as podcasters in the lifestyle.  We discuss what happened, how it impacted our lives, how we managed the fallo…

Episódio 36: Amigos com Benefícios - O Verdadeiro Unicórnio da Vida? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Apr 11, 2017· 01:26:08

Episódio 36: Amigos com Benefícios - O Verdadeiro Unicórnio da Vida?

Keeping up with the Joneses "Friends" from out of town drop by for a few sexy encounters and we chat about the half-marathon that almost happened. Discussion topic We break down lifestyle friendships …

Episódio 35: Mantendo-se Realista - Desenvolvendo uma Abordagem Saudável para o Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 12, 2017· 01:33:33

Episódio 35: Mantendo-se Realista - Desenvolvendo uma Abordagem Saudável para o Estilo de Vida

Keeping up with the Joneses This episode we share three explicit experiences, a weekend with some "tried and true" LS friends, an evening with our new Texas friends and (queue the trumpets) our first …

Episódio 34: Mr Jones e Eu - Uma Perspectiva Masculina sobre o Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Feb 12, 2017· 01:19:55

Episódio 34: Mr Jones e Eu - Uma Perspectiva Masculina sobre o Estilo de Vida

Keeping up with the Joneses This month we catch you up on our date(s) with a "unicorn", an evening in our swinger pad with good friends, a somewhat vanilla work party at our house and a family event. …

Episódio 33: Quão Profunda é Sua Amor? - Como o Estilo de Vida Fortalece Nossa Relação — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jan 10, 2017· 01:33:50

Episódio 33: Quão Profunda é Sua Amor? - Como o Estilo de Vida Fortalece Nossa Relação

Keeping up with the Joneses This month we catch you up on the sexy weekend we had with a very special couple as the four of us visited the Trapeze Club in Atlanta, Georgia.  Oh, and you'll also want t…

Episódio 32: Swinger Fails - Aprendendo com Esses Erros Inevitáveis — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Dec 12, 2016· 01:26:23

Episódio 32: Swinger Fails - Aprendendo com Esses Erros Inevitáveis

Keeping up with the Joneses Our trip to Desire Pearl is set! Join us the week of November 11-18, 2017 as we bring T&A from The Curious Couple and C&D from the Swinging Downunder podcasts to meet you a…

Episódio 31: Você é tão bonita... para mim - Atração na vida diária — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Nov 16, 2016· 01:21:39

Episódio 31: Você é tão bonita... para mim - Atração na vida diária

Keeping up with the JonesesOur new website is live! Come take a look at wegottathing.com and let us know what you think.  We also share what sexy things we've been up to this month to include pushing …

Episódio Bonus 30: Ansiedade de Desempenho no Estilo de Vida - Nossa Conversa com Jay e Kay — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Oct 31, 2016· 01:19:31

Episódio Bonus 30: Ansiedade de Desempenho no Estilo de Vida - Nossa Conversa com Jay e Kay

Discussion Topic In this bonus episode we discuss an issue that most couples will face, one way or another, during their journey through the lifestyle.  Jay and Kay from "That Couple Next Door" podcas…

Episódio 29: Regras de Vida e Limites - Quando Fazer e Quando Quebrar — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Oct 12, 2016· 01:39:42

Episódio 29: Regras de Vida e Limites - Quando Fazer e Quando Quebrar

Keeping up with the Joneses A lifestyle "happy hour" with "sexy" lifestyle friends, an intimate conversation with "new" lifestyle friends and we share some playtime with "old" lifestyle friends, and a…

Episódio 28: Desire Pearl 2016 - Não há Explicação Possível — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Sep 13, 2016· 01:31:23

Episódio 28: Desire Pearl 2016 - Não há Explicação Possível

Keeping up with the Joneses After a bit of a rant from Mr Jones, we chat about a local date with a new couple that didn't go as well as we would've liked. Topic We talk about our week in paradise! Aft…

Episódio Bonus 27: Diversidade na Vida - Uma Origem para Lembrar — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Aug 29, 2016· 58:43

Episódio Bonus 27: Diversidade na Vida - Uma Origem para Lembrar

Discussion topic Listen in as we chat at Desire Pearl with Jay and Nathan, an Indian couple from Edmonton, Canada, who were brought together in an arranged marriage.  If you think you know what an arr…

Episódio 26: Organizando uma Festa em Casa — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Aug 10, 2016· 01:24:10

Episódio 26: Organizando uma Festa em Casa

Keeping up with the Joneses We share our "creed": who we are, where we are coming from, why we share and the purpose of our podcast.  We also share a sexy tale after a special visit from friends we me…

Episódio 25: Dias Quentes e Noites Loucas em N'awlins — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jul 19, 2016· 01:33:42

Episódio 25: Dias Quentes e Noites Loucas em N'awlins

Keeping up with the Joneses We discuss our evening with J and K from the That Couple Next Door podcast and we thank you, our listeners for voting for us and making We Gotta Thing a finalist in the Ann…

Episódio 24: Os Novatos Sussurradores — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jun 20, 2016· 01:27:06

Episódio 24: Os Novatos Sussurradores

Keeping up with the Joneses Dinner with new friends, hosting new friends in the "Swinger Pad" and a night out with Jay and Kay from That Couple Next Door podcast. Discussion topic We recap our trip to…

Episódio Bonus 23: Temos que Ter um Homem Solteiro - Nossa Conversa com "Tony" — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jun 9, 2016· 01:31:18

Episódio Bonus 23: Temos que Ter um Homem Solteiro - Nossa Conversa com "Tony"

Discussion topicIn this special episode we'd like to share our "single guy" with you all!  We hope that listening to Tony will help couples navigate the single guy experience and help those aspiring s…

Episódio 22: Configurando o Palco - Como Falar com Seu Parceiro sobre Swing — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
May 21, 2016· 01:32:03

Episódio 22: Configurando o Palco - Como Falar com Seu Parceiro sobre Swing

Keeping up with the Joneses Afternoon delight with good friends, Mr and Mrs Jones's reconnection time,  Dan Savage's Humpfest and why you shouldn't drink beer all day before running a half-marathon. D…

Episódio 21: Viver o Estilo de Vida! — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Apr 20, 2016· 01:28:32

Episódio 21: Viver o Estilo de Vida!

Keeping up with the JonesesA vanilla race weekend, a hot quickie with good friends before vacation, sexy fun with the Sapphic Swingers, a trip to Trapeze Club in Fort Lauderdale and a weekend double-h…

Episódio 20: Olhos Abertos: Riscos e Benefícios de Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 21, 2016· 01:20:24

Episódio 20: Olhos Abertos: Riscos e Benefícios de Estilo de Vida

Keeping up with the Joneses- another try at a house party, a visit from our Florida friends, single guy #2 and a "shake down" cruise of our new swinger pad. Discussion Topic- We discuss how we approac…

Episódio 19: Miami Heat: Vida em Alta Velocidade — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Feb 21, 2016· 01:35:53

Episódio 19: Miami Heat: Vida em Alta Velocidade

Keeping up with the Joneses- a visit from mid-west friends, Mrs Jones joins the Vino Ladies and a house party with a communications issue (oops)! Discussion topic- Do You Know George? We do! We share …

Episódio 18: Então Você Quer Ser um Swinger: Transformando o Sonho em Realidade — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jan 17, 2016· 01:43:20

Episódio 18: Então Você Quer Ser um Swinger: Transformando o Sonho em Realidade

Keeping up with the Joneses- We Gotta Thing-o, Naughty stockings, a birthday double blow job, a trip to Pittsburg, new play friends and your hairdresser said what? Discussion topic- we talk about the …

Episódio 17: Com Esta Aliança, Eu Te Balanço - Reconciliando Nossa Fé Com Nosso Estilo de Vida — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Dec 20, 2015· 01:14:23

Episódio 17: Com Esta Aliança, Eu Te Balanço - Reconciliando Nossa Fé Com Nosso Estilo de Vida

Keeping up with The Joneses- Sexy times with special friends and a hot night for just us two!Discussion Topic- We talk about how we reconcile our Christian faith with our lifestyle journey.Snapshots- …

Episódio 16: Você Me Pertence...Senhor — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Nov 22, 2015· 01:33:13

Episódio 16: Você Me Pertence...Senhor

Keeping up with the Joneses- Goodbye Paige and Penn, Halloween party, dinner dates (good and bad) and good friends Discussion Topic- Emotional monogamy and sexual non-monogamy Snapshots- Special guest…

Episódio 15: Se Soubéssemos Então... — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Oct 24, 2015· 01:35:13

Episódio 15: Se Soubéssemos Então...

Keeping up with the Joneses- Another spectacular house party, a visit by our Florida friends, fun at a Meet & Greet and dinner with a special listener Discussion Topic- Here's what Mr & Mrs Jones from…

Episódio 14: Mrs. Jones no Hot Seat! — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Sep 20, 2015· 01:37:22

Episódio 14: Mrs. Jones no Hot Seat!

Keeping up with The Joneses- Changes to our music format; Email us!!; Playtime at home Discussion Topic- Mr Jones interviews Mrs Jones about the past year in the lifestyle Snapshots- We share ours and…

Episódio Bonus 13: O Diário de We Gotta Swinger - Parte 2 — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Aug 24, 2015· 53:09

Episódio Bonus 13: O Diário de We Gotta Swinger - Parte 2

This bonus episode 13 part 2 was originally posted on the Swinger Diaries podcast in August 2015.  Swinger Diaries is no longer podcasting so we are posting this episode to complete the story of our t…

Episódio Bonus 13: O Diário de We Gotta Swinger - Parte 1 — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Aug 22, 2015· 01:14:10

Episódio Bonus 13: O Diário de We Gotta Swinger - Parte 1

Special Episode! In this episode we are joined by Paige and Penn from Swinger Diaries and we all discuss our hot, sexy and fun times together at Naughty in N'awlins! Catch part 2 of this episode on th…

Episódio 12: Quente, Vaporal, Sexy e Picante em N'awlins! — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Aug 9, 2015· 01:37:45

Episódio 12: Quente, Vaporal, Sexy e Picante em N'awlins!

Keeping up with The Joneses- A dinner party, a house party and an apartment party Discussion Topic- Our Naughty in N'awlins experience Snsapshots- Side by side service and the ponytail holder Mentione…

Episódio 11: Desejo Perla 2015 - Fortes de Sexo e Lavadoras de Poder — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jul 11, 2015· 01:17:26

Episódio 11: Desejo Perla 2015 - Fortes de Sexo e Lavadoras de Poder

Keeping up with The Joneses- Desire Pearl: The Resort Discussion Topic- Desire Pearl: The Experience Snapshots- Sex fort orgasm and caught red-handed Mentioned in this episode Desire Pearl Naughty in …

Episódio 10: Chegamos "Totalmente" de Volta — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jun 13, 2015· 01:29:59

Episódio 10: Chegamos "Totalmente" de Volta

Episode 10: We've Come "Full" Circle   Keeping up with The Joneses- Hot (some not) Dates at the beach. Discussion Topic- Navigating back to full swap; handling uncomfortable advances. Snapshots- "…

Episódio 9: Quem diabos você é? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
May 17, 2015· 01:26:30

Episódio 9: Quem diabos você é?

Keeping up with The Joneses- Why yes, we do know George! Discussion Topic- Who are you? Who are we? Our experience with swinger date site profiles. Snapshots- Mrs Jones- Dirty dancing in a vanilla dis…

Episódio 8: O Sexteto é o Novo Quatro! — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Apr 25, 2015· 01:37:54

Episódio 8: O Sexteto é o Novo Quatro!

Boy, do we have a lot to talk about this month.......   Keeping up with The Joneses- A dinner and a "hot" hot tub date;  a night out in Miami; the dreaded vanilla cruise; an awesome house party.. …

Episódio 7: Todos são de Alguma Maneira 50 Shades — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 21, 2015· 01:23:57

Episódio 7: Todos são de Alguma Maneira 50 Shades

Keeping up with the Joneses This month we skip out of a marriage conference early to attend a swinger lifestyle meet and greet.  Are we bad?  We also talk about a local date for dinner. Discussion top…

Episódio Bonus 6: Nossa Conversa com Cooper Beckett — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Mar 5, 2015· 01:06:50

Episódio Bonus 6: Nossa Conversa com Cooper Beckett

In this bonus episode we veer from our normal format to chat with Cooper, host of the "Life on the Swingset" podcast, about his new book "My Life on the Swingset" and other sex-positive topics.  As yo…

Episódio 5 - Troca Suave ou Completa? Isso...é A Questão — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Feb 20, 2015· 01:14:59

Episódio 5 - Troca Suave ou Completa? Isso...é A Questão

Listen in to our conversation about whether or not it's the right time for us to move from soft swap to full!

Episódio 4 - Novo Ano -- Novos Amigos! — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Jan 21, 2015· 01:16:37

Episódio 4 - Novo Ano -- Novos Amigos!

Join us as we discuss (in detail) our swinging experiences at the Sinn-ergy James Bond New Year's Eve hotel takeover and party!

Episódio 3 - Ciúmes? O Que Está Acontecendo Com Isso? — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Dec 26, 2014· 01:02:37

Episódio 3 - Ciúmes? O Que Está Acontecendo Com Isso?

Join us as we discuss the topic of jealousy and other emotions from our own experience as we entered the lifestyle.

Episódio 2: Desejo Perla: Nós Fomos Enganados! — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Nov 30, 2014· 01:00:36

Episódio 2: Desejo Perla: Nós Fomos Enganados!

Join us as we discuss what we've been up to in the lifestyle.  We share an experience with another couple after our first date, our hot experiences at Desire Pearl and our sexy snapshots of our swingi…

Episódio 1: Eu & Mrs Jones — We Gotta Thing episode artwork
Nov 4, 2014· 01:11:52

Episódio 1: Eu & Mrs Jones

Greetings! We are Mr and Mrs Jones and We Gotta Thing! This is the first episode of our podcast and we are so glad you've joined us.  We are fairly new at this and want to share our adventures (the go…

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