What is a Hotwife!?

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Welcome to the Swing and Single podcast where we explore all aspects of modern relationships and sexuality. I'm your host, A.C. Maxwell, and today we're delving into the topic that is sparking curiosity and conversation. What exactly is a hot wife? Join us as we navigate through the intricacies of the hot wife lifestyle, discussing its evolving definition, the reasons behind its growing popularity, and the dynamics that come to...

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By listening to the Swinging Single podcast, you acknowledge that you have read and understand this disclaimer and agree to its terms shave your cock and balls gentlemen the swinging single pod all right ladies and gentlemen welcome to another fine episode of the swinging single podcast i'm your host ac maxwell today we're talking about hot wiping because you know what i'm finding out a lot of couples don't know what a hot wife is and we gotta get down to the nitty-gritty and tell these couples and these newbies and all this what a hot wife is because just because your hot wife is beautiful does not make her a hot hot wife and we'll tell you what makes her a hot wife but before that i want to talk about doobie energy guys you're at the club you bust a couple nuts the dick can't rise to the occasion anymore but other people want to still want to fuck get some doobie energy that's doobie d-u-b-b-y and go to doobie.gg and put in chrome promo code swinging single to get your 10 to 15 off and help support the swinging single lifestyle podcast and i appreciate it also i created a new website it's the swinging single podcast.com you get all the fun pictures maybe if i decide to take pictures because i'm not very photogenic and also i have put out all my podcasts i'm gonna put all the podcasts that i took off down because people complained about it i'm gonna bring them back up because fuck it you know what fuck it because We'll see you next time.

all my podcasts i'm gonna put all the podcasts that i took off down because people complained about it i'm gonna bring them back up because fuck it you know what fuck it because that's how i say it but anyways let's get on starting with the hot wife if you got any questions put it in live on twitter uh x or whatever you want to call it instagram facebook if you don't have any questions put it in the comments i can answer it for you and all that wonderful, great stuff. So today we're going to talk about hot wife and what it is.

So having navigated through the realm of hot wifing, I can attest to the potential confusion surrounding the term hot wife.

Like I said before, for the past couple of years, maybe a year and a half, I have found that hot wife, people who think they're a hot wife are really not hot wives the hot wife in the swing of lifestyle is totally different what a lot of people are thinking because a hot wife in the lifestyle has a little fun with males and all that so we're going to talk about that so in this podcast aims to dispel any uncertainties you may have regarding the true essence of a hot wife it's worth noting that hot wifing is another term used interchangeably with hot wife.

And occasionally you may encounter the variation of hot wife. Yes. And I think that's where it gets confusing because I go to Colette's Colette's every other Friday or a couple of Fridays a month. We'll have hot wife night. And it's basically just couples looking for other couples to play with. Whereas Mee your truly's AC knows that hot wifing has nothing like what they have on at Colette's or anything like that. It's where lovely couples, the best kind of couples search out for men to please their sexy, beautiful wives.

All right, gentlemen, I know your wife's probably beautiful and very sexy but we are not we are not hot wife you're that's not hot wife material if she's not playing with other men and all that stuff so you can disagree with me all you want all right that's fine but i'm correct on this one and we got to stop doing this hot wife for anybody because not everyone's a hot wife. Not everyone's a swinger either. So to begin, it's essential to understand that the concept of hot wife is more about mindset. Oh yeah. Desires. Oh yeah. And the lifestyle rather than physical appearance. Right.

So what they're saying is, it's not about how she looks. Okay. Let's face it. We got some. You can have a lot of ugly people in a room. But if she takes on two or three dudes and the husband watches with the husband permission and all that, the husband joins in. She is what we would coin a hot wife. OK, maybe she's not so beautiful. Listen, you might be like, oh, how horrible are you saying that about women? Well, you know what? Not every woman is beautiful. Not every male is beautiful. All that stuff. Some people will think I'm fucking handsome and sexy as hell.

Some people will think I'm fucking ugly and stupid looking and everything. It's okay. People have their preferences. Remember that guy's preferences. All right. So like I said, being a hot wife is a mindset. Ladies, if you want to be a hot wife, you got to have that mindset that you are the bomb. You're the bitch. You are, you had, you're the boss bitch or whatever you want to call it. And you, you alone have the ability to be a hot wife with other sexy men that you want to take into your bedroom and have their cock slip into that lovely, juicy, wet vagina you have, the desires and all that.

So if you're prepared to dole deeper deeper let's start by examining the original interpretation of the term hot wife yeah so unraveling the origin definition of a hot wife initially a hot wife was defined as a married woman who engaged in sexual relationships outside her marriage with explicit encouragement and approval of her husband yes and i still do believe that's still here today and that you can be a hot wife still today i don't think it has changed that much but we're going to find out has it changed we'll find out for many this traditional definition remains the definitive interpretation of a hot wife dismissing the newer contemporary definitions like i said the younger people are coming in they're changing definitions like i said they don't want to be called swingers they want to be called ethical non-monogamous people all right more power to them but let's keep some things traditional like hot wifing because it gets very confusing and if you look up hot wife porn on the internet you're going to get a woman who is banging multiple men with hubby there so some sources also suggest that an original hot wifey scenario involves a one-sided open relationship where the woman has extramural sexual encounters while the husband remains monogamous.

That would be more of a cock-holding relationship. I have a friend that is a cock-hold. He doesn't fuck other women, but his wife fucks a bunch of dudes all the time, anytime she wants. He's there sometimes. Sometimes she goes out on dates and she fucks the guys and goes home with the pussy full of cum and, you know, they do whatever they do. Maybe he eats it out of her. Maybe he just fucks her. Nice little lube. You know, there's nothing better than cum lube.

Anyways, so now that you grasp the fundamental meaning of the hot wife, let's proceed to explore how this definition has evolved and transformed over time. Now, we have to remember, I know I'm an old school type swinger. I'm going to have to remember that things are going to change. You know, as I get older, as time has passed, people are going to be more accepting of the swinger lifestyle. People are going to change definitions all the time.

And I'm going to to go kicking and screaming to be honest with you but hot wifing to me is what what is the original one so what's the evolution of the hot wife concept that has happened over time prepare to delve into the evolution of the hot wife phenomenon the term hot wife has gained increasing popularity within the swinger community often being embraced as a symbol of empowerment that many women proudly embrace now this is something i think all women should start doing they should start embracing their sexuality and all that and they gotta start embracing that shit they are 100 running the show in the swingers lifestyle there would no be there would not be swinging lifestyle if there was no women or the women weren't participating.

Women sometimes take a backseat to the husband's desires because for whatever reasons, women are too afraid to speak up. Say, Hey, I want this. I want that. You're going to do this. You're going to do that for me. Oh, we're not going to swing women. You have to take the power back. You have the power. You have the pussy. You have the power. Whoever has the pussy has the power. It's like, uh, I don't know, some superhero shit. You got pussy, you got the power.

So the pussy has the power it's like uh i don't know some superhero shit you got pussy you got the power so women have to embrace this so consequently uh let's see this shift has led to a broader interpretation of the original definition raising giving rise to a various interpretation and adaptations of hot wife lifestyle now there are women out there that say you know i'm beautiful so i'm a hot wife all right yeah that's great you are not technically a hot wife if by definition you just call yourself whatever you want that's fine but remember when we talk about hot wife people are going to get the term confusing and like as a single guy if you say if you're we're dancing or we're talking at the club we're shooting this shit and you say yeah i'm a hot wife too i go to me that like raise my gets my dick hard and i'm like okay this girl's down the Thank you.

If we're dancing or we're talking at the club, we're shooting this shit. And you say, yeah, I'm a hot wife, too. I go to me that like raise my gets my dick hard. And I'm like, OK, this girl's down the fuck DTF. And you find out later that, no, she's not really down the fuck. She's only down the fuck with another couple because she's not not a real hot wife. So this is where the thing can get into trouble where single men here find out that's a hot wife or single men go to a hot wife party And it turns out to be not a hot wife party.

It turns out to be a bunch of couples with hot wives and all that. So we have to get this definition down and we got to stay, stay in Pat because we can get in trouble with this. So furthermore, the hot wife label has expanded to encompass a wide range of sexual scenarios and lifestyles beyond the traditional concept of a married woman engaging with others while her husband remains monogamous. All right. So, like I said, I never saw a hot wife to be monogamous. I always thought a hot wife would be someone who husband likes to watch this girl fuck like me. I would be, it's a stag vixen.

I always tell girls when I meet them and we talk about you know forming a swinger partnership i always tell them i'm in a stag vixen i love watching you go to a club and fuck men in front of me i love chasing down guys say hey fuck my girl for me and all that so you know i don't want any confusion when we there. Cockholding to me is where I would never fuck another woman. Now, just because I'm a stag vixen, does that mean I'm never going to take a fucking fuck another girl? No, I will fuck another girl. But that's not my number one priority when I go.

Whereas a cockhold, if I'm a cockhold, I'm not going to fuck any other girl. Only person that I'm going to stick my dick in is going to be my beautiful wife, my cock coldest wife. So like I said, it's important to avoid confusion when encountering individuals who are labeled as hot wives, all right? So you got to be very careful doing that. And as their lifestyles may not align with the original definition. Like I said, you might find a girl, a couple might say, we are a hot wife couple, but that might only mean that she's very beautiful, and there's a lot of fucking beautiful women.

When I was at the Kraken Resort during Labor Day, and it was fucking beautiful, I mean, I'd never seen so many fake tits in my life in one area, but damn, was I fucking hard as a rock walking around my dick hard everywhere. We fucked me and my friend that I took, we fucked, uh, fucking for four hours, maybe fucked another couple had people watching us coming in the group room, watching us and, you know, enjoying the show. Now, where was I with that? Okay. So this complexity can make it challenging to disconcern the true essence of hot wifing.

However, it is our, my hope at least, or our hope as a swing community that this podcast will provide clarity and offer a comprehensive understanding of the contemporary hot life lifestyle. All right, so like I said, we got to change. I got to change with the times. I understand that. So, you know, I'm trying to be better. Before I delve deeper, it's essential to address a common question regarding the hot life lifestyle. Is a woman in a hot wife lifestyle engaging in infidelity with her husband or boyfriend? So what is the problem?

What's the conundrum of hot wifing and infidelity the answer to this question lies in the intricacies of individual perceptions and definitions of infidelity the conventional understanding of infidelity encompasses emotional or sexual unfaithfulness with another person considered a breach of commitment within a relationship so this is where it gets really you know very murky very gray not really black and white because like i said if i am in a relationship i say to my girl you can go out and fuck other men it's no big deal all the thing i ask is that we do it together or if you are out and some guy hits on you you want to fuck him i gotta watch on video or something like that so you know to me that wouldn't be infidelity now infidelity would be where i don't know you're fucking anybody but you're fucking a bunch of people and i don't know about that would be the infidelity so that's where you know the question lies what's the what's the gray what's the black or white to dissect whether hot wifing constituents infidelity is crucial to examine various examples and scenarios within the hot wifing realm so for instance individuals with limited exposures to the swinger lifestyle may view hot wifing as a form of cheating particularly if they are unfamiliar with an open relationship now anyone who is not who is vanilla will say this is cheating i don't know too many swingers that think hot wifing no matter if they are newbies or their veterans think that hot wifing is actually cheating but we gotta look at some people might some people think you know hot wifing is disgusting and it shouldn't be they don't want to have anything to do with how they don't want single men in the fucking lifestyle so they're kind of you know whatever it is so in contrast many hot wife couples firmly believe that their engagements outside the relationships are not considered cheating as they have the explicit consent and encouragement of their partner to pursue extramural relations that's what I always tell my girls you are more than welcome to fuck who you want to fuck as long as I am there and long as I know about it I want to be there because I love I love this you know the moans the groans I love you know the reclaiming of your pussy and all that I love all that stuff and that's why I want to be there also i want to be there for safety we can live in a fucked up world where people are crazy and you know you got to be very careful now you think well at a swinger club you're safe no you're not at safe at a swinger club you know i worked at some of them there are people who will they still roofie people at these clubs and at resorts swingers resorts i couldn't believe it i cannot never believe why do you need to roofie someone at a swingers work hell they're there to fucking hell they have that have a great time but you know what they still do so it's also for safety however there are also couples who receive hot wifing as a form of infidelity i think i had not met one i don't know maybe i have met one but they never said it the term never came up so i don't really know if this is going to be true or not but research and online polls and fucking other articles about hot wifing have said some people believe it is cheating even in the swingers lifestyle so moreover some hot wife couples uniquely incorporate the element of deception or secrecy into their encounters feeling their sexual fantasies and adding exhilarating sense of risk to their experiences now yeah you could do that because you know it's something sexy it's you know it's role playing stuff like that deception and secrecy I always talk like a past podcast I talked about keeping it secret you know you don't want everyone to know your fucking business I know people who are you know they're not you know they're just there they want to party they want to fuck they want his his wife to get fucked real good maybe by a big dick get her pussy stretched out and he don't want the whole his buddies to know that or the family to know you know some people are not willing to tell everybody their business like a lot of people are Thank you.

And he don't want his buddies to know or the family to know. Some people are not willing to tell everybody their business like a lot of people are. They go on TV. They do everything. They tell their family and friends what they do and shit like that. Some people are not. Excuse me. So that's just the way they keep it quiet from everybody else. They're going to keep it quiet from everyone else. It's not that they're ashamed of it.

It's just that the fucking let's face it society doesn't doesn't think what we do is very uh sexy or appealing and all that stuff so you know we use it also as sexual fantasies oh she always has a fantasy to do two guys at once to do a black guy do a hispanic guy do an asian guy whatever it is all those sexual fantasies can come true with your hot wife lifestyle so ultimately the perception of hot wifing as infidelity hinges on the preferences and desires of the individuals involved now i've i have seen where someone said a guy husband said hey i want my wife to fuck other men i want to do the hot wife's lifestyle cock hold lifestyle and all that so great buddy good luck you come down to it he didn't like it because, you know, she, you know, had a little more moaning with the other men and all that stuff than he, than she had with him.

And he got very upset about it. So it can, you know, if you, you open gentlemen, if you want your wife to fuck other men, you got to be able to deal with the consequences of your wife actually having a great time with another male. Remember, you shouldn't be jealous about that. You might get jealous, but you shouldn't be because you made that happen. You facilitated that orgasm that she got. It's a win for you. All right. That dude kick his fucking ass when he busts his nuts. Say, OK, thank you. Bye.

We don't need anymore kick him out and fucking reclaim that pussy for yourself fuck her hard fucking blow a huge ass load inside of her where she fuck it's oozing out for days and she's cleaning up fucking for days uh of your come bada boom bada bing it's over you're you're the man you gave her you don't have to be jealous of some fucking guy he's's got an eight-inch dick, but he's got a fucking two-cent brain. And a lot of guys in the lifestyle are like that. They got fucking huge-ass cocks. They got eight, nine, ten inches.

But their fucking personalities are like a fucking ant, small and stupid. Got nothing to talk about except for their cock size and their fucking. So preferences may vary within couples, with one partner considering it cheating while the other does not. Maybe some of these guys do like knowing that their wife's cheating on them. I don't know. I never heard of it, but you never know. Now let's cheating on them. I don't know. I never heard of it so, but you never know.

Now that we have explored the intricacies of infidelity with the hot wife lifestyle, let's further investigate whether hot wifing is considered a fetish, a kink, or a lifestyle. I think you could say it's all three. I don't think there's any, well, it's definitely a kink. Oh, it's definitely a lifestyle. No. Would I live it 24-7? No, I wouldn't live this lifestyle 24-7. So understanding hot wifing, is it a fetish, kink, or a lifestyle? To delve into the question of whether hot wifing is a fetish, kink, or simply a lifestyle, let's first establish definitions for these terms. All right?

A kink is an unconventional sexual interest that deviates from societal norms. So under that, would swinging as a hot wife and a cock cold couple, would that be a kink? I say yes. A fetish involves a specific object or behavior that is necessary for sexual arousal. Do I need to watch my girl fuck other men to get hard and get aroused and fucking look at them and go, oh, yeah? No. So it's not really a fetish. I don't buy it as a fetish or anything like that. But on the other hand, a lifestyle encompasses the way an individual lives and the activities they enjoy such such as swinging.

So I would say fetish out, kink and lifestyle in. So hot wifing can encompass all three categories for different individuals. Now, like I said, this is just for me, guys. This may be for you. Maybe, shit, maybe you're a husband that only can get aroused when you watch your wife with other men or other women. You know, that's something that you have to think about. So if you're thinking about what is this, and you're not in the hot wife, you're just listening to this podcast because you're bored, and you're thinking, is this a kink fetish or a lifestyle? You make up your mind.

Like I said, I'm just here to give you some information, entertain you for an hour, and move on with life. So all three categories could be applied. It just depends on the individual. It may be considered a fetish for some, a kink for others, and a lifestyle choice for many. The classification largely depends on the preferences of the couple and their interpretation of the hot life lifestyle. So, I agree with that. So, exploring that lifestyle, in the realm hot wifing, various terms are often used to describe different roles and dynamics within the lifestyle.

Understanding these terms can provide insights into complexities of the hot wife dynamic. A vixen. A vixen hot wife engages in the lifestyle with her husband, who may participate or watch.

Threesomes are common in couples where the wife identifies as a vixen a vixen hot wife engages in the lifestyle with her husband who may participate or watch threesomes are common in couples where the wife identifies as a vixen now that's what i would be that's it and that's the kind of lifestyle i want no i don't want to sit there just watch and not do nothing i want to watch let her have fun then participate when at the very end and all that or even has shit will double double split roast my girl and all that so yeah you know that's a vixen is what i look for a stag the stag refers to the husband of a vixen hot wife who derives pleasure from sharing his wife with other men the stag is typically the central figure in the vixen stag relationship all right i would think the vixen is the central because it's her pussy and that's what we're all there for to enjoy that pussy See you next time.

in the Vixen-Stagg relationship, all right? I would think the Vixen is essential because it's her pussy, and that's what we're all there for, to enjoy that pussy, and hopefully that's good pussy. Over the years, man, I have some really good women that I have been with that couples. Not a lot of single women, because like I always said, single women are kind of crazy in the lifestyle, but I have a lot of couples I have been with and a lot of good women that have, you know, great pussy. And I thought they were essential. They were the essential priests.

They were the person I'm trying to pleasure and get a call back from. Now, the bull. A bull is a man who engages in sexual encounters with a hot wife, usually without her husband's involvement. The relationship between a hot wife and a bull is primarily sexual.

I have seen where the bull has crossed the line and it became more of a relationship type thing i'm not into that i use a bull fucker bust your nut get out don't bother us we don't care we're not going to call you ever again if we see you and we need someone to fucking another cock the fucker we might pick you again but that, adios amigo. We don't need to really care about anything that you have to say. We're just here to use you. You use my wife's pussy. We use your cock. All right. A buck. A buck is a man who's involved with a vixen in the hot life dynamic.

Brought into the relationship by both the vixen and the stag.

A buck is respectful and appreciative of the invitation you know i have been never heard of a buck before this is the first time when i was reading a bunch of these articles that the buck came up twice i i'm not a bull a lot of people consider a bull to be well hung i'm not well hung i'm just an average joe all right a buck would be me because a husband i always try to talk to the husband or try to make contact with the husband because the husband is the one who really is going to allow me to be with their wife, their wife and all that. So that is something that you have to talk about.

Sorry, had a text. All right. Cock cold. a cock hold is a husband of a dominant hot wife who takes pleasure in being humiliated by her sexual encounters with other men this dynamic involves the husband relay machine control to the hot wife all right yeah this is like where guys will you know they would sometimes suck the dick of the bull to get him hard or whatever. Whatever he's doing, he would eat the cum out of her after the bull came inside of her and all that. So they would do a lot of stuff and they like that humiliation. They have a small penis usually and all that.

I know one, there's a couple in here in Houston. They have a Twitter and he calls himself a cock hold. He wears one of those chastity things on his cock and all that. And when I talk about cock hold, I always talk about the cock hold is a guy with a small penis, micro penis, saws, under four inches, shit like that. And this guy, look at his dick and go, this dude has a bigger dick than a lot of the dude black guys that are fucking his wife.

And I go, how does he think he think he's a cock hold is it because he's white guy or something and i'm like does he not know his dick is fucking bigger than a lot of those guys fucking his wife so and his what they're a young couple so i don't know maybe they're just a little confused but you know or maybe he just likes to be humiliated by other men pounding his wife hard and like you go on twitter and see it's pretty cool and like they're really good I really love enjoying their videos and all that but I always just thought it was weird that his dick was bigger than most of the guys that his wife is fucking and yet he's talking about how a cock hold he is and what a good cock hold he is now this is another term I heard you know you got the hot wife what about the hot husband this term describes a husband in an open relationship often encouraged by the other wife to engage activities with other women I'll see home with the kids and all that.

So that's great. So something I knew I learned, buck and a hot husband. So, with this understanding of the terms and dynamics within the hot wife and lifestyle, can one gain insight into the diverse relationships and roles that exist within the unique form of intimate expression? In today's context, a hot wife is recognized within various sexual lifestyles, kinks, and fetishes that allow a woman the freedom to engage in sexual activities with other partners as popularized by the swinger community. Also, it's been popularized by videos, movies, porn videos, all kinds of shit.

Only fans, all these girls. Hot wife Marie sets up her Only Fans account, and she's banging a bunch of dudes, you know, shit like that. so i think I'm, I'm just guessing that the hot wife lifestyle will become even more popular. And that's why we got this confusion of what the hell is a hot wife and yada. So this term encompasses scenarios where a wife or girlfriend is shared with others by the husband or boyfriend, typically referring to a married woman, but also a peclical to girlfriends. So if you're a girlfriend, you're not married, you can still be a hot wife. Don't worry about it.

People are going to, who gives a shit? You don't have to tell your people your marital status and shit like that. A hot wife is often encouraged by her partner to explore sexual encounters with others. The broader definition of the hot wife now includes a diverse range of women challenging traditional notions.

So exploring hot wife practices let's see the hot wife lifestyle has evolved into multiple sexual practices centered on the key element of the human woman's autonomy in seeking sexual relationships outside her primary partnership here are some prevalent hot wife practices seen today all right now these might not be all of be all of them. I just had to narrow them down. You know, we only got an hour or 50 minutes. So the male, female, male threesome, which is involving two men satisfying the woman sexually, either with or without the husband's participation or presence. So that's MFM.

So if you're on the Swingler website, you see we're looking for MFM. That means male, female, male threesomes. All right? I have been many times have been at the club where a guy, a husband, a hot husband, would pull me and another man away and say, hey, would you like to fuck my wife? We would split roast a girl while he watched. You know, he got stuff for her, got her lube or whatever, condoms for us and stuff like that. Nice gentleman.

So there has been times like that i would let's see i was at tpc hempstead and it was i think a wednesday night yeah it was wednesday night during the summertime i went there i was bored so i said i might as well go and lo and behold you know nothing was going on people were just talking bullshit no one's fucking so finally someone starts fucking and this sexy ass lawyer comes in she starts talking to me asking me all kinds of stuff, you know, just bullshitting. I said, you know what? You happen to dress nice. Every lady loves a sharp-dressed man. So she was talking to me and all that.

So the man came and said, hey, would you guys like to come and fuck me and go in this room?

So we went in this room with him, and me and this guy, never met the other guy in my life life he's over there making out with her we're taking turns on her pussy she's sucking our dicks and all that taking turns sucking our dicks and it was a great time she's fucking beautiful i wish i could see her again nice juicy pussy nice and wet very moist she really loved it and all that she was great you know bust the nut and got the fuck out of there but that was a how it's sometimes a lot of times it works it doesn't mean that a male female male threesome doesn't always mean it's the husband theme wife and another man it could be two different men and the female and the wife is just there um watching the second one is dating outside know, some hot wife women encourage, engage in sexual relationships are also encouraged with other men while their partner remains at home with varying levels of disclosure afterwards.

I have known couples, a lot of couples, you know, they're happy with this, uh, thing, you know, they have young kids or they have kids that can't, they, you know, can't leave at home alone. So you know go out let her go out and have fun you know she goes out friday night she goes out fucks around does her thing and comes back home no no no problem nothing to nothing to be ashamed about he goes out saturday fucks around the same thing you know they can go out together you know when they could babysitter. Because you guys remember, babysitting is fucking a lot of money.

You're looking at $25, $30 an hour for some of these people they want and all that. So it's kind of crazy how that is. So sometimes you just have to compromise. Well, we can't afford $25, $30 an hour every weekend, but we can do it once a weekend or once every week.

And, you know, you, honey, to a club I know I have a friend couple she does that her and her husband does that she goes out and she goes you know she goes to TPC hangs out there has fun does whatever goes back home all everyone's happy they go out together sometimes when they got a babysitter shit like that so you know it's it, it is what you have. You have to make it work. So dating outside of a relationship might be one of the only solutions. Because you know what? You don't want to bring some strange dude or strange dudes to your house. You never know, especially if you've got kids.

I have had a threesome. I was living in Buffalo, New York. And I got, you know, Buffalo's not heavy on swinging. It was tough living out there. I had to go to Pennsylvania, Ohio, just to go to a swing or something. But anyways, I actually scored on Craigslist before. They blocked everything. So I was there. This was about 2002, 2003, Craigslist. Answer ad. Guy says, come on over. Fuck my girl. All right, no problem. Young couple. Lovely, lovely young couple.

We're over there're over there me and her are fucking husband's just sitting there in the corner jacking off he's naked jacking off watching me eat his girlfriend his wife's pussy and all that i'm eating her ass i flip her over put her on her stomach i start eating her i spread her ass cheeks start eating that asshole right so i'm doing this i put my cock inside of her. We're fucking, I'm pounding on her. And all of a sudden I see out of the corner of my eye, this little kid staring at me as I'm pounding the wife. And I'm like, holy shit. I freak out. I jump off the bed.

I dive outside the bed to get away. Cause then you don't know they had their kids there. They had, they were doing this while their kids were there. And was just I was like whoa so I'm sitting there I got a fucking heart raging heart on and this little kid I don't know if it was a girl boy I can't remember because I was so scared is looking at me then finally the boy the guy gets up puts puts the kid to bed and he's and he's like hey just keep on going just keep on going and the and his wife, okay, come on. Fuck me more. I'm like, Holy crap.

So that is why I say, you know, you don't really want a stranger to come to your house sometimes, you know, if you're in this hot wife lifestyle. So, you know, you got to make it the best out of it because you might have something like that. It does make for a good story. She had a great pussy, nicely trim pussy. But still, it was kind of crazy that some little girl out there or some little boy out there remembers me pounding his mom. And daddy was watching. So the third one is the reclaiming of the hot wife. This is what I love. This is the best fun right here.

Some partners enjoy reconnecting immediately,imately after the woman has become has been with someone else finding that mutual gratifying you know they have sex they have gone she has the greatest orgasm in your life you get on top of her you give her another one and another one and another like your dj call it and another one and she's enjoying it she's loving it she's fucking already planning when can we come back she's like George when can we come back again I want to come back this is fucking awesome and now you're in it you're in like Flint your wife your hot wife your newly formed hot wife is all into the swinger lifestyle you're gonna have a great time as long as you don't fuck it up but you're gonna have a great time and you're reclaiming now is she going home with that bull she going home with that buck no she's going home with you so reclaiming it is like saying this is mine your fuckers are going home jacking off to whatever you got your wife your old wife that you don't like fucking anymore or you're gonna go home to your dog and just think about all the shit that you don't get on a legally basis whereas a daily basis i get to fucking blow my load inside this tight juicy pussy all right also another one is a one-sided open relationship this is like cock holding certain couples within the hot wife dynamic have an open relationship solely on the woman's side catering to her sexual desires while the man remains anonymous now i do this is cock cold but i have found couples who are stag vixens they call themselves where he don't fuck no one he's he's happily fucking his wife but his wife wants to fuck other men and for whatever reason he's okay and he's okay with it that's great more i love that guy that guy's very secure in his sexuality he's very secure in his relationship but he just says i don't have any interest in doing it with any other women because you know what my wife is just way too much you know sometimes a lot of these women have a large sex drive and they need to get it satisfied or it's just no good you know they just their life you know it's like a drug addict when they get try to get off uh you know drugs they have those itches they have those urges and all that so it's just one way where you know he likes watching her have fucking fun he likes going to the clubs and watching her you know be all sexy flirt with other people have a great time so he gets a lot out of it you might go what does he get out of it he gets a lot out of it guys so you know that's cool too number five husband's role in watching or participating from mere observation to active engagement in sexual encounters the husband involvement varies greatly based on individual preferences when i met venezuelan couple it was just me and her you know the fucking teddy she had on those nice big venezuelan tits the big Venezuelan couple, it was just me and her, you know, the fucking teddy she had on those nice, big Venezuelan tits, the big Venezuelan ass.

And he would just sit there naked in the bed, jacking off, watching me go down on his wife, eat her ass, fuck her pussy, come inside of her, blow my load two, three times inside of her. And he loved it. Did he participate? No. Would you call that watching him he was naked so i don't know i would say he was participating too but he just was participating in a different way you have public flirting increasing in popularity this involves the wife flirting with other men in public places while the husband watches potentially into sexual these aeons all right sometimes this yeah i see it lot.

Usually most of the time it does lead into sexual activity, so I don't know. Selective partnering. In some cases, either the wife or the husband chooses additional sexual partners. I love choosing the sexual partners. I love going to a club and finding, hey, you like that guy?

Yeah, okay, come on, and talk to the guy and all that because you know a lot of people when we come to the lifestyle now they're not very straightforward anymore they're very candid they very they talk around shit until they really can get to it me i just walk up to the guy hey my girl likes you thinks you're cute you know whatever hey i want to go you want to take her back on this fucker and they say yes or no the side boyfriend is permitted by the husband the woman uh may engage in affairs outside the primary relationship sometimes maintaining constant secondary relationships I will have been twice or three times a side piece uh one couple when I was in Michigan he was a pilot she was she worked in fabrics or whatever I don't know what the hell I didn't't really care.

Great pussy. And I would, you know, fuck her pretty much once a week, twice a week for two, three, two years actually. Uh, then I found one when I was living in Buffalo, New York, I found another one, real beautiful couple, sexy girl, nice fake titties and all. First time I really had a relationship with anyone with the fake tits.

And we were together about a year a half her husband you know we met at the country home swingers club in ohio and you know we just had a great time so you know it is what it is but you can be a part of that there's nothing wrong with that as long as everyone knows uh what's going on it should be fine you know it's just when people start going behind their back, doing shit like that. I was, we would have a three-way chat. And so they always knew what was going on and all that. And, you know, I had to follow his rules.

We couldn't go to swinger clubs when we were together by ourselves and all that, because we were, she would come on the weekends and spend the weekends with me and all that. So, you know, it was kind of cool, man.

It was like no commitment, but a lot of fucking pussy and good juicy pussy as my fact multiple male partners hot wifey may extend to experiences where the woman is simultaneously or you know being pleasured by several men with varying levels of involvement from her primary partner a lot of guys like doing that two on two on one three on one four on one gang bang on one who, you know, you got a lot of people like that. And that's, I think, multiple partner hot-wifing, I think, is going away.

I don't see, you know, I think a lot of couples, a hot-wife will pick one guy and that's it and that will be done for the night. Where, you know, you get some of these older ones who fucking, any guy in that club is open dick and all that. So, you know, it's pretty cool. And the last one I want to talk about, number 10, was the part-time hot wife. It's a growing trend where women alternates between periods of being a hot wife and engaging in anonymous phases with her husband.

So once in a while, she goes, itches that itch, and she gets that itch itched, and she's done for, you know, a couple months. Then she goes out, does it again, gets that itch, starts all over again.

And like I said, there's nothing wrong with that good i bless you ladies man i tell you you gotta start you know you gotta start thinking about your happiness your lifestyle and shit because you are leading the way you are the queens of and kings of swinging you know don't let your husband say well we ain't gonna do it you know you can say bitch i'm doing it with or without you so either you can enjoy the ride or you can get off the train so the hot wife lifestyle come copper compresses a spectrum of practices uh compromises a spectrum of practices ranging from mild to extreme with each couple personalizing their experience the increasing popularity of the lifestyle can be attributed to its flexibility and unique dynamics it offers to those individuals basically what i hope you are learning that you can do you call yourself whatever you want to do i have my own what i call hot wife is it right is it wrong no it's not right or not it's not either wrong but you have that ability a hot wife, is it right?

Is it wrong? No, it's not right or not. It's not either wrong, but you have that ability. A lot of swingers just want to be happy. Swingers just want to have fun. They're not going to, if a swinger is upset that you are, you call yourself a hot wife and they think you're disgusting because you're a hot wife, those are swingers you don't want to hang out with. You want to be with other people that think like you.

And I and i seen where you know people have a girl would post she wants to get gang banged at a club and people will post how disgusting that girl is how stay home don't do that shit here you know and it's just crazy that you know you have people like that so exploring the rise of popularity in the hot life lifestyle social media the hot life lifestyle has been significant urge surge in popularity in recent years, largely due to its evolving definition and adaptation of hot wife parties by swinger clubs.

However, besides these factors, there are a number of reasons contributing to the growth of hot wifing. And like I said, you see a lot of new hot wives parties coming out. There's a hot wife party on STC in Austin. I tried to get invited to it.

I got denied denied but it's a private party but it's a hot wife party it's a legit hot wife party where wives are there that fuck other men you go to colette's has on friday nights every other friday mostly they have hot wife party night so you know it is becoming more uh the hot spot in florida has running the bulls which i hear is fucking crazy and wild i've been there one time when it first started and you know there was there was a quite a few people but i hear there's a lot more now so you know i think it's getting i think it's getting more in popularity and all that and all that so moreover women are embracing sexual freedom and exploring their sexuality finding thrill and excitement and seducing and having sexual encounters with new partners many are also realizing that the extent of their sexual desires and the fulfillment that comes from exploring them the hot life lifestyle is becoming a platform for women to take control of their sexual satisfaction leading a new sexual revolution good I'm glad to hear it.

I hope it's going to be like that forever. Additionally, the intensity of the sexual encounters and hot wife relationships has been noted and both spouses finally experienced more satisfying.

While not as prevalent as hot wives or hot husbands do exist with some men design multiple sex partners and their partners in supportive relationships encouraging them to seek sexual experiences outside of their marriage i'm a hot wife relationship in a hot wife relationship there are various benefits for both partners such as increased sexual desires open exploration of sexual fantasies and heightened sexual satisfaction within the relationship and I got that the sexual desires is fucking off the chain.

When, you know, we find people to play around with, when I take a girl to a club and we find people to play around with, it's like natural Viagra. I instantly get back hard. You know, you bust your nut, you know, you go down, you got to, you know, rest.

know rest but you know when i'm watching my girl with another man after i did it after i got done with her i just get instantly hard again i get instantly you know it's like natural viagra for me because the desire is there yeah i want to go again fuck look at that cock going inside of her so in conclusion the hot wife lifestyle is growing in popularity due to its ability to fulfill desires explore sexuality enhance sexual satisfaction for both partners so are you currently involved in a hot wife relationship or consider exploring this relationship listeners swing and single listeners if you are you know go out and do it do your research go online google hot wife and see what comes up with now if you're going to watch videos don't watch videos because those videos are from a lot of those are professional videos where you know it seems easy but it's not you got to worry about your jealousy and all that that's going to take place because you might get jealous because you might have a guy with a 10 inch long and you're there and you're like damn uh i didn't plan on this but you know you never know you might enjoy it you might love this lifestyle so you know it's just one of those things where you got to figure out as you're growing in your in your relationship with your woman so remember gentlemen shave your cock and balls.

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