Welcome to the Swinging Single Podcast with your host, AC Maxwell. Join us for today's episode where we delve into the intriguing world of the Hotwife terminology within the swinging lifestyle. Discover the nuances, dynamics, and misconceptions surrounding this aspect of the lifestyle as we break down what it means to be a Hotwife.To enrich our discussion, we are thrilled to have the knowledgeable Ms. Adventurous Ally on the show. Drawing from her experience and expertise, she provides valuable advice and insights to Reddit readers navigating the realm of Hotwifing. From communication tips to relationship dynamics, Ms. Adventurous Ally offers guidance to help you navigate this unique aspect of the lifestyle with confidence and understanding.Tune in as we explore the Hotwife lifestyle, debunk myths, and offer practical advice to empower listeners on their swinging journey.swingingsinglepodcast.comswingingsinglepodcast@gmail.comhttps://swingershelp.com/decoding-hotwife-lifestyle-terms/
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go to swinging single podcast.com go see all things ac also if you got any questions concerns or just want to talk go to swing single podcast at gmail.com and i'll answer and maybe we'll talk so today we're going to talk with sensational ally a little bit but we're going to talk about decoding hot wipe lifestyle terms now you're brand new to the lifestyle do you know the terms to the in the lifestyle probably not probably not no i think you know like the basics so what are the basis what do you do know never mind i don't know you don't know what's full swap i can i can assume that means assume i can infer infer then that y'all just it's a full swap of wives and husbands there you go well that close enough.
It's where a couple will go with another couple and swap wives and swap husbands. Good job. All right. Do you know what soft swap is? Again, inferring. Is it? Just guess. There's no right or wrong. This ain't a test. Is it like one partner? Like just wives switching? No, it will be where you and me will go to a room with another couple, but we just fuck each other. We don't fuck each other. So that's soft swap. So, let's go.
like just wives switching or no it will be where you and me would go to a room with another couple but we just fuck each other we don't fuck each other so that's soft swap but did you know there's 101 terms in swinger lifestyle i didn't know you're gonna have to learn all these as a youngster you're gonna have to learn every single one of these terms okay yeah but we're only gonna be talking about hot wifing today. Now, do you know what hot wife is? No. Can you take a guess? Infirm. Having a hot wife. Okay, you're close. You're close.
It's not totally wrong, but in the content you are a little wrong. Yeah.
But tell me what, uh how old what's the ballpark age are you over 21 or under 21 and over 18 over 18 she's over 18 she's not you're not quite 21 yet right so she's very young so she's a newbie how in the world did you find the world of swinging because we met at a swingers activity an event yeah how in the world did you discover over exposure to the internet at an early age um not that early but just just exploring a lot um been a little too curious about things i probably shouldn't be but are you a were you a horny teenager oh yeah that's what it all starts somewhere yeah all right so you're a horny teenager so you got your start in swinging just like i got i was a horny 21 year old guy and i just wanted to fuck so i swinging was a great avenue for me so all right so that's basically what you you're a horny teenager you want to fuck or you want to do stuff or you want to watch yes and you just found swinging because the internet's there because that's how i found swinging too because i thought that shit was only for jerry springer and porn yeah so i didn't really think people actually did it anyways so we met at a swinger uh event what were you doing there how did you you were by yourself correct i was you were by yourself so how do you decide as a young under 21 over 18 lady to decide to go to a place where you're going to see dicks tits pussy ass how do you decide well i'm just going to go there well you know it all stemmed from boredom okay um i was on reddit i was scrolling I found a place I saw I saw the event and I was like hmm maybe I'll go and I also have some friends who are in the lifestyle they host parties and they do all that but I've been to like one how old were you when you I was I was 18 okay yeah I was 18 but I never participate this thing I'm a big watcher I like watching Thank you.
was i was 18. okay yeah i was 18.
uh but i never participated this thing i'm a big watcher i like watching so i never participated um and i went because this one person i was talking to off of reddit was like oh we can check this event out and i was like hmm well let me check it out on my own before i go with somebody who expects me to do something with them that is uh for a youngster that was a smart idea i can tell you that right now yeah and i think i came on like a week day and that's to where we met early yeah an early week day and then i was just i was watching and then that's where we met. Did you see any action?
I have horrible memory. I think we saw a little bit, a little bit, but it was very, like, I think we saw someone in a glory hole. You saw someone in a glory hole? Yeah, we saw a couple in a glory hole. Yeah, it was really just that one couple. Did you get turned on? A little bit, yeah. Just a little bit? Okay.
All right okay all right so wow it's pretty amazing so i don't so you what if you had a fantasy what's the one thing you want to get out of all of this if anything other than just watching if you just want to watch that's fine but i want to know what would you want like if you're gonna have a dream scenario what you want a dream scenario oh i mean i'm not even sure honestly i i really just the thing that trends me on the most is the watching and then just you know doing little things while i'm watching like just masturbating or maybe using a toy or something that that's fun but dream scenario i can't really think of a specific there's no fantasy you ever had that you wanted to do nothing in specific no honestly i'm very open-minded i have no i think i've told you this once but i don't come to anything with expectations or anything like that.
I just am an open book. I want to see whatever I can see. I like learning. I like meeting new people. That's my main thing. I like meeting new people. What's your go-to porn then? When you're at home, you've got to jack off. What's the go-to porn you're going to watch? I would say amateur stuff. Okay. What about amateur stuff? I just like, you know, I don't like the whole, like, fake big tits and overproduction. I just like a natural, like... Anything amateur could just be some big titty girl or some thick lady jacking off and then you'll be fine with that? Preferably couples.
like just saying guys alone too okay but um the lesbian stuff doesn't really do it for me too much okay but now if it's like couples like together i do like that um i honestly when i'm horny i just open that up and i and i choose the first so there's no go-to no like there's no i don't know threesome, foursome. I'm also a big Twitter user. So that Twitter porn, when you're just on your timeline. Jesus Christ. And you just see all the videos on there. Okay, so there's no, anything gets you off. Anything amateur is good for you. Here's this.
I like older and younger younger videos i do like older older guys okay so did you hear all that older guys out there you just heard a thousand hard dicks get hard right now without viagra oh god yeah uh let's see what else do you have any fantasies about being tag teamed by two guys i am curious about it but loki kind of scares me like it seems exciting but i feel like it's all also overwhelming what about with another woman then how about having a threesome with you a woman and some other guy it's the same concept it just overwhelming i feel like it would be overwhelming to actually be in it to watch it would be fun but to actually be in the action i I think it would be.
What's so overwhelming about it? I don't know. It's like, you know, I feel like there's always somebody who is like. Left out? Left out or. See, that's how you know if you deal with a professional couple or an amateur couple. Okay. Amateur couples will leave someone out. Yeah never, ever leave anybody out because they know how to do it. So you're going to have to go with someone with experience, but you'll be down for that. I would be open to it, yeah. Well, then there you go with that. And we'll start talking about Hot Wife. Okay.
Because a Hot Wife, if you must not miss a sensational Allie, Hot Wife is a, okay, it started off as a married woman. But, you know, in 2025, you know, people don't always get married.
So I opened it up to a couple whose wife or spouse or partner, life mate, whatever you want to call them, is having sex with other men with with your approval and they're not doing it with women or anything like that but they're just doing it with men okay so it's like a stag vixen you remember what i talked about yeah same thing like that exactly the same you know we go out we find guys that fuck you i watch whatever you go off the back by yourselves with them you want and do that and you have all the fun so that's what a hot wife is okay now a lot of people mistake hot wife for a hot wife as your wife is hot yeah and it's not going good because when you have a hot wife party which is a party this weekend in houston about for women that like black men.
So if you're into that, you might want to go to that party. Anyways, but it's here in Houston. But, you know, you really got to know the terminology when you get into the lifestyle because you're going to be like, what the fuck? Yeah. And like I said, I did a show on 101 swinger terms, and I didn't even know half of them. I never even heard of it. I go, why the fuck, why can't we just have soft and full swap when I first started? Because when I started, it was full, soft swap anyways.
All right, so there are a lot of terms related to hot wifing that you probably never came across in your vanilla life. Oh, yeah, I'm sure. Vanilla days, and some of them can be a little confusing.
Like I said, hot wife is confusing because a lot of swingers now think hot wife is oh my wife's hot so she's a hot wife well unless she's getting her getting her back blown out by a bunch of dudes she's not a hot wife all right to help better connect with the community well me and you will break this down okay all right yeah we're gonna break it down some of the most common terms okay we're not gonna go deep into it like did you know what a dragon is no a dragon is a single bisexual male oh yeah i was like huh yeah because i never even knew that i was like fuck i just learned that so you learned something new doing research for the swig and single podcast let's be honest buying cannabis shouldn, sketchy, or low quality.
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My pussy juices are are flowing i want to have sex with her oh my god that's well i'm making fun of swingers because swingers go i need a connection i'm like i don't need a connection to fuck you yeah i don't need one so but that's how swingers are today so we'll talk about that so hot wife the We already went over it. Let's start with the most basic term. A hot wife is a woman who indulges in sexual relationships outside of her marriage relationship with her husband's knowledge and consent. Now, I usually see it as a man. She's only fucking men. Yeah. But we can throw in women in there, too.
She's fucking other women. So, you know, if you want to do that. Is there anything else you want to throw in there? She's fucking other women so you know uh if you want to do that is there anything else you want to throw in there she's fucking animals oh lord do not fuck animals that's disgusting yes all right she can do this with with solo adventures so she can do it by herself or with her husband now which one okay you're in a hot wife life relationship what would you want to have you want to to have your husband there, or would you want her to be solo? She's riding solo.
Nah, I want my husband there. You want him there. Why? Why would you want him there? Because you're really helping a lot of couples out there who are trying to get into this lifestyle, but they're trying to, they don't know what to do.
Yeah, I mean, my whole thing is I would go into the lifestyle as, a partnership i like the i like the fact that you know he can help me choose a guy he can um vet him for me there you go um so you don't have to do any of the leg work he could yeah see how it is he can watch if that's you know obviously if that's something he wants if that he's like, oh, I mean, I'll help you choose and you can go fuck him. Go ahead. That's fine. But, you know, if he likes watching, it's a win-win. What about safety? There are crazy people out there. Yes. Even in the swinger lifestyle. I'm sure.
You've seen him at that club. Yes. So, you know, you tell me.
I mean, like I said, you vet them together, ask them questions if they're open to it if they're not then that's a little suspicious in itself yeah so this is another term you might not know yet probably not this is all part of this umbrella called ethical non-monogamy have you heard that before i have heard that before do you know what that is i don't know the exact it's just that you know how couples get married they're monogamous they always have sex yeah this is where you we both know we're gonna have sex with other people okay but we're gonna stay together yes so that's ethical i guess it's ethical because you know what's going on yeah whereas i would just cheat on you and you would cheat on me yeah what's going on so that's the whole thing that's the thing ethical non-monogamy is swinging it's just the younger you you're your zoomers like you your gen z has to change every fucking thing and make it into a new word because swingers sounds like grandpa grandma or fucking oh yeah i.
So there are many different variations of hot life relationships, remember that, including where sometimes the woman has sex with another man while her husband is present, or she can go out on solo dates with single men or cruise the town and try to hook up with strangers.
I know couples that try to do that, like the woman tries to pick up a guy at the bar oh yeah it's like it's a game yeah yeah i see that her husband can choose to wait at home or enjoys knowing he is out having fun and will bring back the hot details to share with him you ever see the twitter one where she comes home with a pussy full cum oh my god and the guy eats it out you have like i have seen something you probably have so countless arrangements could fall under hot wife because there's plenty of flexibility uh that's just my phone oh for couples to decide their own business it's baseball season so now every time a baseball team scores i get an update on my phone oh my god i go yeah i didn't want that shit i go and i gotta change it but you know but hey it's opening day happy opening day baseball season's back you know all you baseball fans out there the nfl draft is less than a month away now so all good times all right anyways so that's the hot one now do you know what a vixen would be i don't know the actual definition i just kind of i over this age hey listen listen i know you just got out of high school but jesus christ you don't need to you just take a guess vixen is like i'm gonna fuck it up don't worry about it you're brand new to the lifestyle you're gonna fuck up a lot of things i'm gonna tell you that is like the woman yes um she's the woman of the She's the woman of the relationship.
She's the woman. Okay. Yeah, that's all she is. The vixen. See, there you go. Woman. Many people use the term vixen as just another word for a hot wife. Okay. You might not like the word hot wife. Yeah. It's like you young people don't like the word swinger. Uh-huh. So a woman like you, though, I don't really like that term hot wife. It's kind of degrading. I like vixen better because that's a little sexy and, you know, whatever. Yeah. That's what they would do. Vixens tend to enjoy the hot life lifestyle together with their husband.
They are a confident, sexy couple that both enjoy having the lady show off in front of other men. A vixen's husband is referred to as a... Stat. you go look at you i'm learning yeah there you go the vixen's husband's stag so if you so if you hear of a stag vixen relationship if you're scrolling through uh sdc swings lifestyle.com or cassidy or whatever other swinger nope swinger meeting place you're at and someone says they're a stag-vixen couple, guess what, single gentleman? That's right up your alley. That's who they're looking. You're looking for you, all right?
So the stag, a stag is the other half to a vixen and was born out of necessity to differentiate hot-life husbands who enjoy sharing their partner but are not submissive or into humiliation like the cock hold. You know what a cock hold is? Yeah, yeah. Cock hold is a weird thing. I guess it's cool. You understand the concept, right? Yeah. What do they do? It's like when – it's kind of – it's looking like a degrading type of thing. Yes.
Like, they let their wives get fucked by somebody else, but it's like a – And their wife – The wife is like, oh, like, you know, he's fucking me better than you fucked me type of thing. Wait a minute. You know a little too much about that. I've seen a few videos. Yeah. Yeah, that's what it is. So I never really – you know, me personally, I never got into cock-holding or anything like that. It's too degrading.
No, know it's like i'm not i'm mad enough to fucking give you an orgasm i just i just want to sit back relax and watch you know i'm too submissive for that i can't do that yeah it's kind of hey to each their own to each own yeah so they like it but like i see those videos they're like making for your dick is so small and stuff and she's got the big dick and she's got his little dick in her hand talking about how you're pathetic and all that i just never got into that stuff or anything like that so to the hot wife the stag is always her main you gotta pay attention to this because if you get into a stag bixen ratio i don't want to hear any funny business the main priority and the number one man in her life all right because sometimes shit happens and someone like you said earlier someone gets left out all right remember that so your man is your main priority all right for the stag he enjoys the voyeuristic aspect of watching his sexy wife perform and impress others all right knowing that other men find their wives desirable is a common motivation for many stags and that's what i love the most because people desire my wife you ain't gonna get this girl unless i let you have her yeah you can't have her so that's what that's a big turn on for me that people have desire sexual desires for my wife especially you know as you get older you're gonna see it when you as you are you're young so everyone's gonna be there's gonna be a hundred hard cocks at the club trying to bang you but when you get the 40 50 range those hard cocks come start coming down in reality yeah because i know some single women are in their 50s i'm like god damn you and they're good looking i'm like yeah shit i'll date them yeah and if they weren't fucking crazy but i would like i said i would date them they bring something to the table and i'm like you know you must get a lot of when you go to the club a lot of people talk to you and like no and it's been all of them like why why don't they talk to you do you have resting bitch face or something but then i'm sitting back and i'm thinking as i get older and older i've seen it the older single woman gets, the less desirable she is for a lot of couples.
Yeah. For couples, yeah. For a lot of couples and for a lot of guys. Okay. Like, when you go, when you start, when you finally get into a club legally and not, you know, and not be in there and illegally. Oh, good. Yeah. You will see, you'll notice that shit, too. So, it's kind of, it's sad. Yeah.
Because I'm'm like i don't care about a woman's age as long as she's over 21 you know at the club so i don't know but it is what it is some stags prefer a more dominant role so that would mean they direct the action and maybe even enjoy a threesome which i would be directing and doing a threesome yeah because i that, you know, I gotta finish in you. So, I'm the only man that finishes in her. All right. So that's the stag vixen. Now I got something for you. Something that you might be. Okay. A cuck queen. A cuck queen. That's the opposite of a cuck hold. Yeah.
So that's a woman that likes watching her man fuck other women, but there's no humiliation in there. Yeah. So it'll be just you going there watching me fuck another woman. No? No. You don't like that? No. But you said you're a voyeur. I like watching other couples. I don't want to watch my man fuck other women. Well, then I guess you're not a cuckold. And speaking of a cuck queen, speaking of cuckolds, a cuckold is a husband enjoys his hot wife having sex with men instead of himself. See, I can't be a cuckold because I want to fuck my wife. Yeah. I don't want to not fuck her. Yeah.
Because there are some cuckolds that don't fuck their wives. Oh, no. I met a girl off of Tinder just, I think, right before Christmas. Okay. And she was telling me she don't fuck her husband.'m like really i go that's not i heard stories well they did they had kids together but she was she don't fuck them anymore or anything like that okay okay so sure are you sure you're a cuckold he goes yeah he likes eating cream out of her pussy and all that. I'm like, oh, okay. Floats his bow. Yeah, whatever. Many cuckolds, but definitely not all cuckolds, like the submissive elements of hot wifing.
So if you're a submissive guy, you might be into the cuckold lifestyle. Some even enjoy certain degradation and humiliation aspects. No, not me. There are many different flavors of cock-holding. The hot wife may be an equal who is playing on her own or superior and free to do what she pleases outside of the marriage, which she was. She would go out on dates and fuck guys and stuff like that. Many men enjoy being cucked because it provides them the freedom of not having to control or take care of anything. That sounds lazy. A little bit. I don't know if that's true, but okay.
It gives their ladies the freedom to enjoy the pleasure they desire. Yeah. You can just keep your phone out. It's okay. Remember remember there are many variations of cuckolds ranging from simply being a witness to actively being humiliated to the cook cuckold being forced to stay home and and having to hear all about it later what fun now here are some couple things what's a? I've heard the term. I'm trying to think of the context I heard it in. I'm not sure. Alright. The bull. A bull refers to any man who is having sex with a hot wife who isn't her husband or partner.
He is generally an alpha dominant male and knows that he is there to deliver great sex to the hot wife and didn't leave and that is his Let's go.
partner he is generally an alpha dominant male and knows that he is there to deliver great sex to the hot wife and didn't leave and that is his only purpose see now i had a problem with a lot of bulls that where they don't want us to leave they want to stick around and talk to us yeah we go out we find a guy to fuck you he fucks you i want him gone i don't want to i don't want to know his name yeah i don't know i don't care about his career i don't care about how many kids or is he married just get the fuck out let me take care of my girl now yeah too friendly yeah i guess so but you know that's that's just me i just want you we're there to serve a purpose your your cock is there to serve my woman yeah once you're done get out and go we'll talk to you later but we don't want to talk to you right now yeah that makes sense all right so that's a bull now this is a new one i learned this year too buck do you know what a buck is if you don't know what a bull is probably won't know a buck no yeah i'm not sure all right so this is what it's be honest.
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If you're just a stag-vixen, me and you are going to look for what we would call a buck. Oh, I see. I don't know why. It's a fuck.
It's a whole family tree right now a whole yeah you gotta have like a diagram yeah you gotta have like a venn diagram almost like so a buck understands the stag is being generous by sharing the amazing vixen experience with him bucks are very respectful and grateful towards stags for being able to share in the physical connection and understand not to infringe any emotional connection when When I fuck a woman, I have sex with a couple, I always make sure I say thank you to the husband. Okay. Yeah, I just say, hey, thank you. Even like when we're at that place. Yeah. I say, hey, thanks, man.
Fist bumping, whatever. And that's it. Just general respect, yeah. So that's a buck.
So a bull, listeners, is is for cuckolds a buck is for stag vixen relationship people like i said i don't understand why we got so many terms in a lifestyle now but okay we'll go with it it gives me a great uh time to talk a cougar you should know this because this is vanilla yeah like just an older lady who likes younger men there you go refers to any confident mature woman and is not limited to a hot wife however many hot wives are desired by younger men who enjoy being with the lady who knows what she wants from his young and virile body. Virile body, I'm sorry.
If you're looking to attract younger men for your hot wiping, make sure you talk about being a sexy cougar in your profile. So are you going to put that in your profile? You are like older men, right? Yes. Do you ever think they would come? I'm going to tell you. Let's do you. Do you ever think you'll be into younger men when you were like my age? No. No?
You're going to be into the 70 year old dudes i mean possibly but honestly realistically nah for right now you don't know we can't tell the future yeah i'm never say never yeah i wouldn't say never because when i first started i was very selfish when i started swinging i only want if there was no pussy for me i like the typical swinger couple. Yeah. No pussy around, we're not doing anything. Pussy around, we'll do something. Now it's like the total opposite now where, you know, I could really care less about having sex with other women. Listen, if you want me to fuck another woman, I'll do it.
Yeah. But if you want me to, but my main goal is for you to get laid. And I want to watch do all the cleanup and shit like that so it's it's changed so you might change your your pattern there when you get a little bit older who knows all right now this stuff you should know because this is basic and you watch twitter and your porn cream pie yes that's when you get, what's the, um. Ejaculation. Come in. When you get cummed in, yeah. This refers to the fluids left inside of a lady after having unprotected sex to completion.
Some cockle husbands enjoy being made to clean it up as part of their reconnection routine. I don't do that. I don't like that. I don't like that. Well, you might, you never know. I'm talking about some other dude. Yeah.
Some other dude to you i'm not gonna do it some other guy can clean i don't want anyone besides my partners come inside of me i'm that type of person i know but what happens so we go out i come inside you have someone else and someone else wants to clean it up that's something i'd have to try before i get my full opinion oh so you gotta try it all right cool cool that's hey good with me gangbang you know what a gangbang is you've seen plenty have you been there when uh that one girl's there have you been to a have you seen a gangbang yet at that place i think so that one night that one girl was that technically a gangbang i don't know what one girl that um she just had a whole bunch of guys uh yeah yeah jerking one off sucking one a group of men who's who sexually enjoy a single lady one after another and sometimes all at once yeah one after another is usually what we call train like one guy fucks her he's done next guy gets in that's a train okay a gangbangs one is you got a cock in hand cock in another hand cock in your mouth cock in your pussy the lady decides on the rules and boundaries all right and the men must follow those what would be a rule you're going to do a gangbang.
What would be your one rule? What's the number one rule? So you got to start thinking about this. Don't come inside of me. All right. And don't touch my ass. You don't want your ass touched? Why? Not in a gangbang scenario. Like, I mean, don't go in my ass. How about that? They can, I mean, like no anal yeah sorry i'm it's been a long day oh i'm sure it has yeah uh-huh all right so usually the lady's husband will be more of an event organizer making sure she stays safe and comfortable during the gaming and does not participate in the sex acts so that's what what a husband, that's the host.
I always say hostess and hostess shouldn't be having sex with people. They should be making sure their party goers are having a great time. Just me. Now, here's one. This is what you're going to be. A unicorn. What's a unicorn? That's usually like the, I don't know if it's gender specific.
is it usually like the lady a couple tries finding it's it's gender specific uh it is a female single female okay yeah because you're supposed to be so rare and i'm thinking they're gonna need to change this because i'm seeing more and more single women in the lifestyle yeah which is not becoming rare anymore when i first started you can never i never it took me years to see one single woman. A legit single woman. Now, I've seen women go to a club by themselves, but they're married and all that, and their husband sends them out to get fucked. I see, I see.
But I like a legit single, she's not married, and stuff like that. It took me three years, so I was like 24. Oh, wow. My first, yeah. So, a single lady in the swinging lifestyle who tends to play to play with couples now a lot of couples will not call a straight woman a unicorn they it's a bisexual single woman okay so it just depends on what you want to call i any single woman to me is a unicorn yeah i don't really care some couples do say no it's not uh it's not a uh unicorn she's not bisexual because there are straight women in here are you bisexual i would say i am you are Thank you.
No, it's not a unicorn. She's not bisexual. Because there are straight women in there. Are you bisexual? I would say I am. You are? I'm very fluid. There's that word. You know she's young, people, when she uses that word. Well, you know. They are similar to hot wives, but there are some distinct differences.
A unicorn is different from a hot wife because they tend to be single compared to hot wives being married a unicorn often plays with other couples a hot wife usually plays with single men so there you go that's the difference all right so those are just the basic hot wife terms so you learned something here today you might so do you think you might be a hot wife as you get old when you settle down? Never say never. I mean... But if...
you learned something here today you might so do you think you might be a hot wife as you get old when you settle down never say never i mean but if if someone say let's get married but i want you to fuck other men would you be like fuck yeah okay i'll do that yes if they watch if if they yeah yes you're gonna have yes you're gonna make the rules honey you got the pussy you make the rules so yes so yes you would be down for that okay wow that's very nice and of you you'll be believe you'll be surprised how many women wouldn't be doing that they don't yeah because i like i said i'm all for i don't really care about fucking other women if i get it i'm taking it but like i said when we go out my goal is partner, whoever I'm with, to have some of the best sex of her life so she wants to come back for more.
And it's not about me. It's about her because that's what swinging lifestyle is. It's all women. The women run the lifestyle. Unfortunately, a lot of women don't speak up for themselves. I'm here to give their voice, those women, a voice. All right? So I'm just saying, you know, you've got to do what you've got to do. All right, so you'll be interested in a hot wife relationship. It'll be a stag vixen, probably. Yeah, closer to that. Yeah, because you have to find books. No bulls, but you're going to find books. Yes. Got it.
Or some books yes got it or some unicorns does that does that apply yeah i i say you know the definition is for men but i think if your wife if you go out and have sex with women and men equally i think you're still a hot wife okay some people might disagree i don't know all right so those are the terms for basic terms so now you know now we go on to reddit your favorite your favorite reddit is pretty goddamn good i'm gonna tell you that i really like reddit they have some good there's a swingers group and they're always asking advice so at the end of my you know i always want to give some advice yeah either good or good or bad.
Take it or leave it. So, you know, I came around since we're talking about hot wives. And this guy, now this guy, he posts is either it's about dick or black people. You always dick size and black people always does it. But he comes up with an interesting point.
I want to hear okay all right so i'm going to read his thing now i have to tell everybody i'm reading it for word for word for what they put i can't help it they don't know fucking proper grammar oh lord okay i'm ready the only thing holding okay so it says unpopular opinion most wives and swinger couples would prefer a hot wifing dynamic here's his post the only thing holding them back is a sense of obligation to be fair to their husband but if they didn't have to consider what they would enjoy being able to pick partners that suited them without having to take one for the team so hubby can get laid.
It's a consistent reframe on here. The male partners are usually less impressive than the female half and how tough it is to find an equally hot couple to connect with. If a woman could just play on their own, they would be picky without having to worry about whether the hot guy they want as a female partner for the husband, for their husband. It seems that swinger dynamic dominates over other kinds solely because the male ego and female sexual martyrdom to be exact, exempt, I don't know, E-X-T-A-N-T. I don't know what the fuck. And that's it. So that's what he wrote. Now, what do you think?
So he's saying that his unpopular opinion, I need to recap this. So his, okay, we'll break it down. His unpopular opinion is that most swinger couples, wives in the swinger couples, would prefer a hot wife dynamic. Now, we talked about it, where she fucks other men and women with the husband knowledge but she's not you know whatever yeah so let's go back to where she says the only thing holding them back is a sense of obligation to be fair to their husband i mean i i see the i see what he's getting at but also So it's truly a situation by situation type of thing.
Like, I don't, I wouldn't say it's like an unpopular opinion. It's just what fits for you. No, I'm going to tell you, it is a very unpopular opinion in this world. Oh, really? Yes. Okay. Because I do kind of agree with him. Oh. Because the obligation, that's why I'm talking about this. Yeah.
Like I said, like i said earlier women run this lifestyle okay but their husbands they they cow down to their husbands without expressing their real feelings oh i get what you mean yeah okay because you see a lot like you get a woman drunk she'll tell you the truth yeah uh and i and when i worked at caliente the nudist ringer resort a lot of 99 of those women were drunk and they would try to hit on dudes but the guy was not having it because there was no other pussy for him yeah so their rule some of the rules the rule is no pussy for me no dick for you so whereas with me i'm like no pussy for me Okay no dick for you.
So whereas with me, I'm like, no pussy for me, okay, dick for you. Pussy for me, okay, pussy for you. And that's why I agree. I agree with that statement. Some women do feel obligated to their husbands. Okay, that makes a lot more sense. Yeah. Yeah. So that's why it's unpopular. Okay, but let's keep going.
If they didn't have to consider what they would enjoy being able to pick partners that suited them without having to take one for the team so the hubby can get laid now this is one another thing i think swingers lie about taking one for a team you know what that's what that means like just in general yeah like yeah just tell me what that means. What do you think it means? Kind of like a sacrifice. You're doing what? Yeah. Let's be honest. Buying cannabis shouldn't be complicated, sketchy, or low quality. That's why I want to tell you about mood.com. That's M-O-O-D dot com.
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That's M-O-O-D.com to get started. So a lot of couples will sit there and say, we never take one for the team. And my thing is, bullshit. You have taken one for the team.
Everybody in swing will take one for the team and i will and my thing is bullshit you have taken one for the team okay everybody in swing will take one for the team because you it's hard to find that i call them unicorn couples where the woman and the man are just fucking equally hot like the guy said in here the woman will be hot the man will be butt fucking ugly yeah and you've seen it at the clubs you see where we go then the opposite the man will be good looking but the woman will be butt-fucking ugly. And you've seen it at the clubs. You've seen it where we go. Then the opposite.
The man will be good-looking, but the woman will be average. You know? Yeah, yeah. So you can't find that dynamic where both of them are hot. Now, do they exist? Yes, they do exist. It's rare. Just go to Secrets in Kissimmee, Orlando, Florida. You'll see a lot of hot couples there, yes. Or go to Caliente. There's a lot of hot couples now, but you don't see them. But you don't always get them everywhere. Yeah. Like in Houston, we don't have that a lot. Yeah, I've not seen that at all. I've seen one, like one, but.
I see a lot of them in Houston, but the problem is you don't see them every freaking Saturday, Friday, Saturday at the club. You might see them once a month. Yeah, they're not consistent. So a lot of people, like I said, they say they don't take one for the team. I go, bullshit. So you're telling me every person you've slept with, every couple you met, you were attracted to them. They've been equal. Yeah. Like you just say, oh, well, I really don't. But you know what? I'm horny. I want to do it. Yeah. They all have. I've taken one for the team.
I'll take one for the team all the time it don't matter to me i mean yeah so it doesn't like i said it's just it's just like the lies that swingers tell themselves that's that's what i do this podcast for because i want the myths like swing like couples would say oh swinging will enhance your relationship i go no you're swinging Swing it can do two things. Make it or break it. Exactly. It can make it or break it. Either it'll enhance you or it's going to divorce you. The foundation's the key. Communication is key. Because guess what? You know what? Think about this.
We go out, and there's a guy. He's good looking, and you want to fuck him. You fuck him, and you're fucking screaming screaming moaning like you never moaned before i'm like why is this woman why is she screaming like this with this man when i fuck her she's like oh and you and people in the dance floor can hear her screaming jealousy hits yeah people get jealous and all that so you know you gotta talk about it you, you know, swinging, you take one, you'll take one for the team and not, it won't always enhance your relationship. If you're trying to fix a relationship, it will destroy it.
If you're trying to enhance it, it will help you. Yeah, it will enhance it. So if you're like, if you have good communications, you're, you're on a good foundation at home, swinging will help it out. So you might change it. Now, you might not be a swinger forever. You might do it for a couple months or a couple years. Be a phase, and you're like, fuck it. Yeah, we're done. Alright, let's get back to this hot white dynamic. It's a constant reframe on here that the male partners are usually less impressive than the female half. I agree with that sometimes. Not all the times.
I've seen some really good looking dudes.
I'm like, God, I'm jealous of that got a big dick got a fucking abs like a motherfucker and all that and how tough it is to find an equally hot couple to connect with so yeah so that's something but that's subjective though to me a good looking woman is different I like all kinds of women a lot of guys don't like BBWs I'm like dude i don't want to fucking date with bb i'm like dude in this lifestyle doesn't matter as long as he treats you well because you don't want no bitch you don't want no girl coming and fucking every guy or fucking every girl and bringing stds home yeah and i seen that happen and it does happen still today all right so he says if women could just play on their own they could be picky without having to worry about whether the hot guy they want as a female partner for their husband.
So what he's saying is that she didn't have to worry about their husband. She can be picky about who she wants to play with, where she doesn't have to worry about the husband as the female of the other couple hot enough for her husband and all that. So that's tough. Yeah, there's a point in that. He's got a good point, but in all that. So I kind of agree with that. Yeah, I would say. It is subjective.
When you have an open relationship, I know couples that date they don't swing or anything they just you have your boyfriend he has his girlfriend i know it's a lot of open when they start doing it the man gets very angry quick because he doesn't get the enough the attention at all that the woman gets yeah like go on tinder it's just the tv gone down you go on tinder you swipe left or right yeah you'll get matches for a woman all the time you do it for a dude you might get one every 20 matches so it it kind of sucks because then you're like oh man she's going out and she starts going out every night while his ass is jerking off at home waiting for her to come home to fuck so that jealousy that can happen there right there so you know i like i said i i think women need to stand up for themselves and tell their husbands hey listen i want to do this i want to try to at least try it you know what i understand you don't want to be with single guys but once in a while let her have a single dude let her have like you go this saturday honey this night's for you find a guy fuck the shit out of him all night all right and that and that will keep her happy that will probably keep her happy for a good year so you probably only have to do it once a year like do it on her birthday yeah there you go have a gangbang for a birthday stop being selfish with your wife and have and give her a gangbang or a single guy or whatever she wants on her birthday, and that's all you probably got to do.
But, you know, whatever. So that is an unpopular opinion. And let's see what people say. Well, what do you know?
It's the plant-based, dick-sized dick-sized obsessed idiot yet another terrible take i don't think it's a terrible take terrible it's not horrible yeah uh let's see uh not for me at all i need my husband's participation to get off and i much prefer feminine people overall so she's probably a lesbian okay good you're a lesbian uh not for me i actually prefer i guess the hot husband husbanding if that's the term cut queen it's it's insanely hot for me to watch my husband with other women do i like swinging with other couples yes do we so she don't like to be with other people yeah so to me that's kind of boring that's the two inch their own yeah not in our case i do all the admins so i pick the guy i want as i'm harder to please than my husband the aim is to find a four-way connection with everyone straight and i'm prepared to to work for that.
And wait for that because it's the best. Alright. Well, that's kind of taking one for the team. But, I don't know. I don't think that's swinging. I think that's dating. Yeah. Because that's another thing. Swinging is sex. It's just sex. It's pleasure. Sex. It's just sex. Swinging is not dating. So what this woman is saying, she needs a connection. She wants to date first before she fucks. That's like polyamory at that point. Yeah. We just pick who we like and play with them. She'll go her direction. And I'm out. See, there's the whole point. He's just that couple. It's compromise.
That couple made that man's point. Yeah. That if she could do whatever she wants, she'd be happier. And she said, nah, she prefers a good husband in a committed relationship. Most single guys, especially if they're single and are over 30, are needy, flaky, full of themselves, and most of all, retarded. And they're getting too connected. Wow, look at that guy. So apparently I'm flaky, I'm needy, I'm full of myself sometimes, yeah. And most of all, I think I am retarded, too. I don't know. Oh, my God.
So, and this is the type of dude is why his wife won't fuck a single guy because he says nothing but bad things about him. Yeah, and it's in her ear yes yeah yes see i see i like the younger crowd because they understand me maybe i'm a gen z-er not a gen x-er uh so someone actually commented on that person's post you after three years in a lifestyle i cannot argue this flake after flake to prove it don't forget a lot of them are not good at reading the room a profile or bio either you forget Thank you.
lifestyle i cannot argue this flake after flake to prove it don't forget a lot of them are not good at reading the room a profile or bio either you forget 40s fun 40s for fun 17 you're not that good at reading a bio either sir i've seen a lot of couples can't read my fucking profile god no i wish i could find not even remotely true in our experience my wife gets off on seeing me with other okay but that's not what he's saying he's saying if your wife could just do what she wants to do she'll have fun okay we get it you like being with other you like your husband being with that that's your situation but that's not the majority situation in swinger lifestyle oh so let's see let's read it because he replied back oh he didn't all right not even remotely true in our experience my wife gets off on me seeing me with other women okay so the man's writing it the wife is not writing it so we don't even know it's true she has no interest in solo play at all how do you know have you and she said i don't want that yeah or did you did you coach her and to not want it solo play?
Yeah, you told her and you put it in her ear and made her think. Most of all, couples we know don't have an interest in hot wifing or solo play either. Hot wifing is a different kink than swinging. No, it's not. It's the same fucking thing.
It's what, it's that, if that is what you're interested in, so he says, he replies, the original poster says, the fact that you gave an unprompted speech on dick size without me even mentioning it says a lot all right and they reply back to the original poster look at your profile almost every post is about dick size yeah i agree the dude talks a lot about dick size all right so he replies what i wrote in other boards has nothing to do with this. Okay, good point. The main complaint I hear from women here is about the men that are overweight, poorly dressed, and groomed, and possibly bald.
Could penis size be part of it? Possibly. But either way, you sound super defensive about this and about your wife being held back. I don't know. Whatever. But once again, dudes, why are you fighting on the internet? Just have one reply. They wrote each other like three or four times. They have nothing better to do in their day. I don't argue with people. I just put my opinion down if they don't like it. Tough shit. Yeah. All right. This is purely an opinion.
In my experience days, it's latently false no it is his opinion but it's not false i don't think it's false again it's subjective yes you know it might be you know whatever nah she prefers a good husband in a committed relationship okay that's same shit same shit so it goes back to same we had a couple of full swaps but my wife loves to watch me take pleasure in another person. She compares it to watching me eat a good meal or have a good nap. My wife is very arousal and she loves hearing when I make someone come. I don't know what to think about this.
You know I've heard someone say that recently they're like yeah it turns me on to see my husband enjoy a good meal that I made. And I'm like, what? Oh, maybe because they made it. I get it. I get it. Maybe if they go to the longhorn. They weren't even saying that. They were saying that they just, well, someone said that. But the original post was just her saying, I get turned on from watching my husband eat. Well, that's fucking, does she get wet, you mean?
I'm assuming that's what she meant oh that's kind of cool all right well whatever guys i don't know but anyways i don't know what to tell you guys because it is what it is so remember you make sure you go to swing and single podcast.com go to swing andpodcast.gmail.com to send me some hate mail or whatever. Stuff like that. And, gentlemen, don't forget to shave those cock and balls. Do you like a good cock, shaved cock and balls? You know, I have no preference. I mean, don't be a jungle. You know, keep it neat. So you want it trimmed. Trimmed, yeah. Trim it up. Don't be bushy. Yeah.
But just take my advice, guys. Just shave your cock and balls. It takes everything. Well, no one's been rejected because they had shaved cock and balls. Just trust me. With that, keep on swinging, America and the world.
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