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Just go to jace.com, answer a few quick questions, and a licensed doctor reviews your information and ships your medications straight to your door. Keep yourself and your loved ones prepared, no matter what comes next, at jace.com. All righty. Welcome to the Swinging Single podcast with your host, A.C. Maxwell, broadcasting from the legendary Upside Down Pineapple Studios in the heart of Texas. For over, you know, 20 years, I've embraced the swinging lifestyle as a single male.
Yes, as a single male, but one of those creepy single males you see at the club on a Friday, Saturday night, jacking it to your sexy asses. And now, on this show, I'm here to share my wildest tales and experiences with you so grab some lube some tissues for the spouses out there get naked sit on his face gentlemen shave those cock and balls get cozy and settle in for some uncensored eye-opening stories on the swinging single podcast the swinging single podcast with host A.C. Maxwell is intended for entertainment and educational purposes only.
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Talk about it, discuss it, share some stories that I have of cockholding some couples in my time as a Swingin' Single male, a Swingin' Single Richard, a Swingin' Single Dick, in this wonderful lifestyle known as swinging.
But first, remember, go to Swingin'Single swinging single podcast.com see all things ac maxwell uh go to swinging single podcast at gmail.com check me out there send me emails say hello um give me some show ideals that you want me to cover as a single guy i know a lot of single guys are not in the lifestyle uh you know lifestyle you know whatever it is and all that you know we're excluded mostly in the lifestyle and it'd be nice to hear something uh you know something coming from a single male anyways also remember if you're gonna be in kansas city next weekend february 21st through the 23rd come check out Crazy Winter Nights.
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So with that, let's get started with cock holding one-on-one guide. Why men like it and how to cock hold them in, ladies. You want to do it properly. You don't want to do it any different other way. You don't want to be that person and all that. So what is cockholding? You know, what is it? Do you find cockholding fun? Do you find cockholding intelligent or anything like that? I don't know. But cock holding is basically where, you know, where you as a wife or significant other or girlfriend will have sex with other men.
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Remember, gentlemen, shave those cock and balls. Cockholding entails the involvement of a couple and a third party who engage in sexual activity with one of the partners.
Although cockholding can encompass individuals of any gender or social orientation, it commonly involves a married couple, a married couple a couple in a relationship or just a boyfriend a girlfriend or whatever and a man outside the marriage who engaged in sexual activity with the wife or their other spouse whatever many resources addressing cock holding tend to overlook alternative scenarios all right key terms to familiarize yourself with that include the woman is sometimes also referred to as cock holders. Remember, this is not, this is not stag vixen. This is not hot wifing.
This is cock holding. So the woman is referred to as a cock holders. You know, I dabbled in cock holdry a little bit when I started out and doing all this stuff because I wanted to, you know, I wanted to find a woman that was really into this type of lifestyle and all that stuff. So, you know, I really wanted to find that lady. And I was looking for cock holders, not knowing that I was not a cook. I was more, I was a stag vixen. I was a stag. Whereas, you know, well, we'll talk about it later. Why I'm not a cuck. All right.
The husband, the partner of the cuckoldress is known as the cuck or cuckold. The additional male participant is termed the bull. So the guy who's banging your cuckoldress is the bull. In this scenario, the husband is being cucked by the wife and the bull. So now you might be like, oh, I don't know, I can't have orgasms, but this is interesting, I want to try this out, and I want to think about, you know, but it's cheating, I'm having sex with another man. So let's talk about, is cuckolding cheating?
Cuckolding does not constitute cheating because the cuckold, the individual being cucked, is aware of and consents to the arrangement, and they may even initiate the wife's participation. The cost of the world is the cost of the world.ed, is aware of and consents to the arrangement. And they may even initiate the wife's participation. The cuckolded partner may be present in the same room, possibly engaging in self-stimulation, observing from a distance or listening in. Now, that would be a definition of what I like.
I love finding my partner, getting her dressed up, dressing her all slutty and all that stuff, taking her out, finding men for her to fuck as I also participate I'm in the same room I might be jacking off while they're doing it and but later on I'm gonna join it's gonna be a threesome whereas a cuck would sit there and just jack off and you know be the pathetic little self that he wants to be all right i'm observing from a distance i'm not listening in because i'm there in the room i'm never outside the room i'm never away i don't tell her go fuck that guy while i'm out front dancing or having a good time i'm like let's go and i'll watch and make sure because you got to make sure your girl is protected at all times because you know there's a lot of bad people out there so and all that Here we go.
protected at all times because you know there's a lot of bad people out there so and all that uh anyways so at times the cuckold may not be physically present i'm always present he may be informed of his wife's upcoming sexual encounter with the bull or received a detailed account afterward this dynamic often involves an aspect of humiliation wherein the cuckold just informs her husband of the bull's perceived superiority over him i had a couple like that when she would come visit me on the weekends i would you know he would send her over to me uh and we would have sex is when i was in buffalo new york as an older gentleman a woman.
They had a kid and all that. And she, for whatever reasons, you know, she did what she did. And I would cuckold him. He would sit back and watch me fuck his wife. And he would be jacking off in the corner and all that. He would later, sometimes, you know, like I said, I'm bi-friendly.
So, you know, he wanted to play with my penis and all that after I came inside of his wife and all that so they wanted me to breed her and all that stuff so you know he would take care of all that he would clean me up he would clean her up after I came inside of his wife and all that so there was those times when you have those uh you know type of couples in there and all that great stuff so it was kind of it was it was interesting at the time you know it was something new to me i never had was the never cucking anybody or anything like that as i thought i don't well i don't like the cuck holding and anything like that because i don't like the you know the labels the label of a bull i'm not an animal i'm a human being treat me as such because a lot of couples will start treating the bulls like they're fucking they're they are animals and all that that's all they're good for and all that you know what if you ever got to know me i'm pretty smart i know a lot of stuff outside of cuck holding or outside of the swingers lifestyle so you know what treat me like such so let's see what else additionally a larger penis often plays a role cuck holding couples frequently seek out well-endowed or physically imposing individuals for the wife to engage with further intensifying the husband's humiliation this dynamic may also incorporate racial elements although once some couples prioritize the bull's penile size over race uh now race i always see like a lot of cuckold couples always have sex with the they only look for black bulls uh you don't see too many of them with any white bulls or Latino bulls or anything like that.
Now, there are a few couples that it's all about penis size. It don't matter what color your penis is. If it's eight inches or more, she's down for it and stuff like that. That's why also I'm not into cuckolding because I'm not a well-endowed gentleman. I'm just an average-sized guy who likes to fuck and could fuck for hours and fuck for days if I wanted to. But, you know, I don't sit there and have that life. Your child wakes up in the middle of the night with a high fever and the pharmacy is closed. You could wait agonizing hours just to get a doctor's appointment.
Or you could prepare ahead of time with Jace Medical. Jace makes it simple for families to stay ready with kits like the Jace case, ready-to-go supplies of prescription antibiotics and essential medications for travel, emergencies, or everyday life. With Jace, you're investing in more than health.
You're investing in true true peace of mind knowing you're prepared for the unexpected it's vast it's affordable and it could be life-saving just go to jace.com answer a few quick questions and a licensed doctor reviews your information and ships your medications straight to your door keep yourself and your loved ones prepared no matter what comes next at jace.com large penis we're a cuckold couple maybe a stag vixen would be more is more my speed because stag vixen is just a woman looking to have fun with the husband's permission stuff like that we can go we'll get into that stag vixen later on some other time but you do have a race play in here uh sometimes which now it's hard for me to really be okay with it because i see a lot of only fans couples you see couples where she only fucks uh black bulls online or on film and all that and i don't know how i feel about that because you know what you're getting paid for it because your people are being charged for your your prescription you're charging 10 bucks 20 bucks whatever you're charging and how much are you paying the guys that's something is the pussy the payment because to me i have my only fans because i want to make money i'm in for money you know a thousand know, $1,000 a month, $10,000 a month, $20,000.
It goes a long way. So, you know, you really want to start thinking about, you really start thinking about, is this really bad for these people? And like I said, I don't, if I see a cuckold couple and she's only banging certain types of dudes, I don't really pay. I'm not going to pay a monthly description to see it because, you know, I want to make sure she if I saw her out in a bar, I could fuck her. If I could fuck you, I'm going to subscribe to you. If I can't fuck you, fuck you. I don't want to. I don't want to spend my money on you.
The differences between gay and straight couples, for instance, according to sex researcher Justin Lemire, gay participants viewed the bull's race as largelyential. Lehmere also highlights the prevalence of BDSM dynamics with cock-holding among straight couples, which may not be as prominent in the context of gay couples involved in cock-holding. See? Gay couples, they just want to fuck. What? Straight couples? Well, we look at the race, we've got the penis size, stuff like that. Who has it better?
straights in instances where bdsm elements are introduced the husband may be restrained in bondage and compelled to witness the bull's interaction with his wife even if physical implements are not utilized the wife assuming a more dominant role still falls within the realm bdsm and i know a lot of couple couples where the wife is it's a female-led relationship with them the husband's just there maybe when they do they are doing it sorry man i can't know i'm trying to figure i don't know how to get to stay in the work and all that stuff so i don't know i'm trying to get i'm online with sdc and swing of lifestyle.com and i'm on the chat and uh no one can hear me or anything like that and i just don't know how i can get this to work i've been trying for for weeks to get it to work and it's not working it works when i download it when it goes into because I i save it live and when it goes into my profile in sdc it work you can hear it but i guess i don't know i guess maybe it's because of the i don't know it's all fucked up anyways so how prevalent is cod coding so let's get on with it-holding has become more mainstream, potentially due to its popularity as a porn category and the increased accessibility of porn.
Consequently, it is frequently mentioned in popular media, and numerous cock-holding guides are available. Although we strive to provide the most comprehensive information on this topic, individuals who may have never previously entertained or disclosed cock-holding fantasies may now be exploring or discussing the possibility of engaging in real life cock-holding experiences after encountering representations of it online. However, this does not imply that everyone is accurately pursuing cock-holding.
While participants, sexual educators, and individuals with a cock-holding lifestyle note a perceived increase in interest, there is a lack of reliable data regarding the prevalence of cock holding experiences and the number of individuals who identify themselves as being in a cock hold relationship that is going to be true because you know what who wants to sit there admit that they can uh satisfy their women you know who wants to do that so it's one of those things where, you got to sit there and go, OK, so you want me to satisfy your woman and you want me to do all this.
and so you know it's kind of embarrassing for some guys it's going to be something like well oh you can't so you know you just want to be able to it's going to be hard to get information with cock holding because you know you're admitting that you got a small penis presumably that you're not a good and bad and you can't please your wife and stuff like that so So, you know, sometimes it's just like, okay. As for prevalence of cock-holding fantasies, a study by Justin Lee Miller revealed that 58% of heterosexual men have entertained fantasies about cock-holding.
In contrast, only approximately 25% of women reported have been similar fantasies. It follows that men are more inclined to broach the subject of cock-holding with their female partners. Cock-holding may appear unconventional to some individuals due to the elements of humiliation and objectification associated with it. Involving both the wife and the bull, the complexities of these feelings can be intriguing. However, there are some reasons why individuals might choose to explore this lifestyle. And like I said, I'm not into that humiliation stuff.
I don't understand why some people want to be humiliated.
I'll see you through your whole process of cock holding stuff like that i'm not i'm just like it doesn't you know it just doesn't register with me why you want to be humiliated and all that but you know what i don't judge you i i some of the best people i've met have been cock holds and you know they're really great people and all that so so you know but like i said it said, it just doesn't, I don't understand the whole humiliation part, the BDSM part and all that stuff, but hey, like I said, this is why I'm here, I'm here not to judge you or anything like that, and it's great, if it works for you, good, I'm glad it works for you, because, you know, a lot of swinging couples don't work out, so I want everyone to be able to work out, have a great time, and if they decide to go their separate ways in lifestyle, that's fine.
But don't get divorced or anything like that. That's one thing I always worry about is people getting divorced and all that stuff. All right. So witnessing or knowing what your partner is engaging in sexual activities with someone else, particularly if the other person offers something you cannot, can evoke simultaneous feelings of arousal and embarrassment. Now, I have to say, sometimes, you know, when I'm at a club, I'm with a girl, we're fucking four or five times. I came four or five times. You know, she comes a lot, too. I'm pretty much done for the night. It's like 1 a.m.
I just want to go home, but she's still ready to go. Her engine's revving. She's still wet. She still wants more. I appreciate a man stepping in for me and banging out a couple more for my girl to have fun and have her feel may be fulfilled. So I can see why, you know, offering something. I cannot do that because I'm tired. I want to go home and stuff like that, you know, but it does arouse me. Maybe I could get one more up and fuck her again, but I'm not embarrassed about it. There's no embarrassment for me that, okay, shit, I've been fucking all night. What have you been doing?
I'm not embarrassed about that. If you've been fucking all night and after the 10th fuck, you can't get hard anymore. There ain't nothing wrong with that. You fucked 10 times. Good job for you, man. Good, good. Go out and do it. Uh, and all that stuff.
So, you know, know i don't know so violating social societal norms can be also be a source of arousal as feelings of shame and guilt associated with taboo behaviors can lead to obsessive attraction to them for certain couples the uncertainty surrounding the paternity of a child if the cockroach becomes pregnant by the bull can add an element of sex i have known couples like this i have known couples who participate in a swinging lifestyle. They fuck the bull, the guy, and she's pregnant. And, you know, it can be a little tricky. I have no desire for that at all.
Because, you know, I don't want to raise another man's child no one should have to all right i know a couple back in michigan they were you know she was looking to get pregnant she was doing the breeding kink she was fucking other men and she got pregnant by not her husband but by someone else and they ended up being a thruple now i don't know if they worked out because i don't talk to them anymore but it was just the weirdest thing i ever saw in my life because i didn't understand the whole like i was like i don't want to raise another child and all that stuff so why you know why would this guy want to and and it was working out for him so it was good it was a really good thing for them uh you know i can't say you know if it was good for me or what i would it be good for me.
I was like, hell no, it would never be. It would never be. I never had a breathing. Now, I do like a good, you know, watching a cream pie where the cum comes out of a girl's pussy and stuff like that. That's cool. But raising another head and getting pregnant by someone else, no, that's not going to fly with me, not flying with the AC. So engaging in intimacy with your partner after she has been with another person can be a thrilling experience. With some individuals feeling a sense of reclaiming their partner or enhancing their self-perception as a superior partner. Yeah, reclaiming is fun.
That's what I love the most. After she's done, I always got to save one for the chamber. so when she's done fucking other men and women at the club or at the hotel takeovers or whatever, you know, I got one and I put the last cum that goes inside of her is me, my cum, my, my seat and stuff like that. So, yeah, I can see that is reclaiming as the best, one of the best aspects of cock holding or hot wifing and stuff like that. It's Dag Vixen.
Kyle Copeland can be perceived as giving the man a sense of control over a situation his wife being intimate with someone else that would typically be beyond his influence and could lead to emotional turmoil this sets cock holding apart from acts of infidelity additionally cock holding involves aspects of voyeurism where individuals observe others engage in sexual activity and exhibitionism where individuals are sexually observed by others yeah you know when you go to the group room at the club you're a voyeur you want you're fucking you're doing stuff with your partner you're voyering then you're voyering and you're exhibiting them you know you're watching the people or you're doing the deed and all that and people can see and they'll talk and gab for the, the appeal often lies in the opportunity to have sexual encounters with an attractive woman without any emotional attachment.
Of course, that's one of the biggest things, and that's what I think, this is what kills single males in a lifestyle, that a lot of single males are not swingers. They are guys in between relationships that don't fully embrace swinging lifestyle are just looking for an easy fuck now if you got a guy if you're a gentleman right now you got an eight go get a ruler make sure you measure in inches if your penis is eight inches or more you're going to do very well in the swingers lifestyle but the problem is are you a swinger are you able to get hard with people watching?
Like I said, I brought girls to the club and they would find a partner that they liked and we would go off into the back. And when they go in the back, he's unable to perform. Why? Because I'm there. There are other people. To me, you should be able to, if you're a're a swinger you should be able to perform especially if it's the first time the night you know it's not like you've been fucking 24 7 but it's the first time you're you're having anything and you can't stay hard for my girl i like i like i said i don't know if you i can classify as a swinger, especially if it's just me in the room.
It's not like I've seen guys who can't get hard because they're in a group room. There's a ton of people watching. Okay, I get that. You're shy. You're gun shy. Stuff like that. But when you're... Your child wakes up in the middle of the night with a high fever, and the pharmacy is closed. You could wait agonizing hours just to get a doctor's appointment. Or you could prepare ahead of time with Jace Medical.
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Just go to jace.com,com answer a few quick questions and a licensed doctor reviews your information and ships your medications straight to your door keep yourself and your loved ones prepared no matter what comes next at jace.com you're in a room by yourself and i bring you in and you can't get You can't fucking penetrate her. Well, then, you know, I don't really see you as a swinger. I think you're just a dude that's just looking to get laid. The easy lay. Because I'm going to tell you, it is the easy lay. It's not that hard.
If you are a good-looking guy, you dress nice, you know how to dress nice, you know, you're going to get laid at a swingers club.
If you act right, you don't be, you know know that creepy dude that just lingers and all that you know smile talk to people say hello you know see what they engage like i said you will do fine you will do well but if you're a swinger you truly embrace the swinging lifestyle like i do you would be into you know it's not it's just more than fucking these attractive women now not all women are going to be attractive I'm going to tell you that right now there's a lot of mom and dad bods out there there's a lot of ugly people in the lifestyle you know you just got to be able to figure out what you want are you a just a single guy looking for a easy piece of ass or are you a single swinger that's looking for threesomes, foursomes, orgies, gangbanks, glory holes, porn theaters, stuff like that.
So the taboo nature of cock-holding can also attribute to its allure. However, due to the presence of racial dynamics in some cock-holding scenarios, these men may feel objectified and exploited based on their race and perceived physical attributes. Now I've seen black guys who say I'm not your fucking fantasy, I'm not your taboo. And I have nothing but respect for those dudes. Then there are the black guys who don't give a shit, they're just getting their nut off, and their profile name has BBC in it, because they can't think of anything because they're not really bright.
You know, it's like when couples, they put their first names in there, and they talk about being outed, and I'm like, don't fuck, don't put your first name.
Or you put, now I see more guyswc big white cock in their names like how unoriginal are you bbc is very unoriginal that's stupid and all that think of something think of something you you got ai just google ai and do ai thing say something like uh what's a good uh screen name for a big dick man i know punch out 10 15 20 names pick one of those but bwc bbc bbc come on man think of something better for your name you know and don't put your full your real name on that too either so you don't get it because you can't really bitch about being outed if you do that.
I just don't understand couples, people that do that. I don't know. What the hell? So, I don't know. Anyways, are women interested in cock holding? So, we know the guy's going to be interested because he's going to fuck. And men are just whores. You know that. Are women into it? Certainly, some women are.
For some women, the appeal of cock holding may stem from the opportunity to engage in sexual activities with individuals other than their partners without posing a threat to the relationship this can elicit feelings of attractiveness and desirability the taboo nature of the experience and the potential of incorporating it into your relationship dynamics can contribute to its enjoyment this can also be a downfall too because i know a lot of you know there's swingers there's swingers, you know, when you're out at work, you're a five.
But when you go to a swinger club, ladies, you become a nine or a ten. And that's just reality of it. So when that happens, you might start thinking that you're over nine and ten in the real world, but you're really just a five. And like I said, I know people hate hearing this, but, you know, you got to remember you are attractive in that club. But we'll see you next time.
really just the five and i like i said i know people hate hearing this but you know you gotta remember you are attractive in that club but once you get out of that club it goes back to the real world real reality and you know we just got to remember that now there are some women who do and they know it like single i've met a few single women that know all they all those people care about is their pussy they don't care about them as as a human being if they stop fucking them they won't ever hear from them again but then there are some that think they're fucking they're five foot four 300 pounds thinking they're tens because every time they walk into a club couples are trying to fuck them the single guys are trying to fuck them well that's just not reality and i'm gonna hear i'm here to tell you listen you can hate for who, who I am.
I don't care, but I'm not, I don't care. I don't want to be loved for who I'm not. I want to, and all that. So, but for a lot of women, it could make them feel more attractive. It could be, it's a good ego. Can you imagine? Think about it. Your first time a girl looks at you, you're getting naked and she's smiling from ear to ear. That feels good.
Now think about it as a woman, as a woman you know you had a couple kids you got a mom bod and now all these men are desiring you and you can have them how does that make you feel it makes you feel good like i said it is it's a big confidence booth when women are doing swinging and it could be swinging it doesn't have to be cockle it just be swinging in general that find you sexually attractive.
Alright, so research by Lee Miller indicates that women who entertain cock-holding fantasies are more inclined to envision themselves being sexually involved with someone else, while men are more inclined to take the role of the server and the situation. Alright, so now we're getting to the definitions. Cock-holding versus hot-wifing versus swinging versus open relationship versus other activities, relationships.
relationship styles and fantasies like i said this is where we get like when i first started swinging it was uh what was it was one soft swap or full swap it was none of these all these different definitions now we got a shit ton of different definitions i'm sorry people but we got a lot to go through We got a lot of definitions to go through now. All right? So, you know, I'll try to help you. Cuck queening. I think that's how you say it. I don't know. It involves a reversal of traditional gender roles seen in cock holding.
In this scenario, the man engages sexual activities with other women while his wife abstains. So his wife faithful to him only him she don't fuck any other man or woman she only fucks him but they go out for fine women for him to fuck this is not i have seen more couples engaging this and i don't know and like i don't know if the woman what's what what's going on in those relationships is the woman fully into it and all that stuff For more information, visit, they have been. So that's good. I don't want a woman to do this stuff because her partner says, well, you're not fucking another man.
But I can fuck another woman. I don't want that because that's not swinging. That is just controlling. You're just being a controlling asshole to your wife.
If your wife says, you know what, I really don't want to because that's not swinging that is just controlling you're just being a controlling asshole to your wife if your wife says you know what i really don't want to fuck other people but damn i don't know something about you when you're fucking a girl i love watching you fuck girl good do it i got resources do the go to swing and single podcast.com go to swing and single podcast at gmail.com i got resources for you cut queens that want to get into the lifestyle now cut queen is a lot harder than you think okay it's not easy because you got to find women who are able to do this with you and also couples that are being willing to do that with you because now you're telling the guy well you're not gonna fuck my girl but my man's gonna fuck your wife i had a situation at paradise lakes when i brought my a sexy latina there and we met this young couple they they were down the fuck dtf we liked them they were talking so they said we were going upstairs goes and they go do you want to play with us we go yeah let's go now they said let's play with us all right.
So that means two people to me. So we all go upstairs to the playrooms that they have there and we get ready and we're all naked anyway. So we're all naked. She gets on my, my lady, sexy lady gets on the bed and he gets on the bed and she tells me, oh, well I don't play with anybody. I just watch him fuck other people. And I'm pissed. She's pissed because what the fuck? You said you want to play with us. So they're a type of cuckoo-queening right there. They did it wrong. So we said, fuck you. We left. We fucked. They watched us fuck. But he didn't touch her, anything like that.
Because you know what? Fuck you. You lied. If you would have said, hey, man. If the girl would have said, hey, I don't watch my. Because I'm into it. I'll be cool with that. I want to watch my girl get fucked by another man I want to if she was like hey listen I'm not gonna touch you I'm not gonna fuck you but I want my husband to fuck your wife and all that I'm like okay no problem I'm all I'm down for that but then but they got us under false pretenses and she didn't like it either because she thought all four of us were going to play. She was going to eat some pussy and all that stuff.
So it's kind of one of those things that, you know, it didn't really go well with my partner at the time. All right, another thing. So Cuck Queenie, you know, the woman watches, the man fucks. Awesome. I love that. And hopefully more women get into that. Hot-wifing occurs when a husband actively encourages his wife to be intimate with other individuals, often other men. Notably, this dynamic lacks the humiliation component commonly found in cuckoldry. I'm into hot-wifing. That's my thing. Cuckoldry, nope. Hot-wifing, yes.
Threesomes feature a couple engaging in sexual activities with a third person who can be of any gender. Threesomes are typically focused on mutual pleasure, excluded humiliation, and maybe one-time occurrence. Exploring 18, we can explore some positions. I would Google positions in a threesome. If you are new to threesomes, Google threesome sex positions. If you're going to do male, female, male, or female, female, male, female threesomes, Google them because it'll be easier for you to come up with positions ideal because you'll be stuck in some positions and it's just the same.
Porn doesn't do all kinds of different positions. And porn does unrealistic positions, especially if your dick is smaller than 10 inches because you're just not going to be able to reach the pussy. Another type is swinging. Involves couples swapping partners with other couples. Swinging can range from partial or full partner penetration. Open relationships.
Permit partners to seek and engage in sexual activities outside their primary relationships poly establishes a relationship structure where one or more individuals can have romantic or sexual relations with multiple partners notably humiliation is not a key component of polyamory and some may view this as a personal orientation listen to your so listen to what saying and see if Polly works for you. Polly is not for me. I can barely find one woman I can stand for a while. I don't know how I would be able to get multiple anyways. So, you know. Let's see. Anyway, so.
Cockhole fantasy versus reality. Now, this is the problem. A lot of people, you might think it's a great, oh, man, this is going to be hot, watching my wife fuck a big dick and all that. You might open a Pandora's box, and you might not be able to put it back in. Once the box is open, you can't put the contents back in. So you got to be very careful.
Fantasy fantasy fulfillment while some individuals may desire to witness their partner with others others find satisfaction solely in imagining or incorporating the fantasy into intimate conversations for some the cockle fantasy remains just that and it's not pursued in real life scenarios so maybe sometimes when you're fucking your girl you could talk dirty to her so some considerations exploring the reality of cock holding dynamic entails weighing the intensity of the fetish against potential emotional complexities and the physical risk of stis are or unplanned pregnancy which can arise from such engagements now usually cock holds do not wear they the cock holders is bareback only most that's something that you and your wife, your partners have to talk about.
Are you going to wear condoms or are you going to go full cock hold where the bull is blowing his load inside of your wife? That's up to you, no judgment. Proceed with caution. It is essential for individuals contemplating cock holding to access their readiness and the potential impact on their relationships.
Like for those is uncertain of their partner's resilience it may be wisest to keep cock holding as a fantasy rather than reality like i said before once you open that pandora box you cannot put it back in you know i see many men who oh i want to watch my wife fuck another man they do it wife's fucking everything that will move. She becomes the slut that she was. She's happy. She's horny all the time. She's fucking, she's. Your child wakes up in the middle of the night with a high fever and the pharmacy is closed. You could wait agonizing hours just to get a doctor's appointment.
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Keep yourself and your loved ones prepared, no matter comes next at jace.com fucking wherever she wants to either behind your back or in front of you all right so you got to be very careful is this what you really want do you want to live that lifestyle communication communicate early if cock holding holds significant importance to you it is advisable to communicate the desires early in the relationship to establish mutual understanding and consent from all parties involved like i said i communicate with my partners on tinder or any online dating app that i'm a swinger i'm looking for a partner to swing with i'm not looking for a long-term relationship where it's monogamous i'm all essentially all non-monogamous.
I'm not interested in monogamy. I'm interested in you banging other dudes and me watching and having a great time. So what are the risks and benefits of cockholding? Advantages. One of the appealing experts of cockholding is the potential benefits it offers. Engaging in cockhold kink with your partner can provide viable insights about yourselves. Open communication about your sexual desires may foster a deeper connection and reduce any feelings of guilt or shame. Furthermore, cock-holding allows you to explore new partners and diverse sexual experiences without engaging in infidelity.
It is not surprising that research by Lee Miller indicates a correlation between cock holding and traits such as higher level of sexual sensation seeking, openness to new experiences, self-esteem, relationship investment, satisfaction, and commitment in gay men who practice cock holding. This suggests that cock holding offers several advantages which are not exclusive to mixed sex couples.
All right, so if you're a gay straight some of those advantages and i always think that with the woman it will definitely raise their self-esteem especially if you are a very good looking woman you're gonna have a lot of fun however there are different advantages the experience may not be enjoyable if the focus is solely on performing for your partner rather than finding personal satisfaction ladies listen if you're not into it don't do it at all because you are going to be end up being miserable your relationship will go downhill and you will have that uh i don't know if you call it buyer remorse you will resent your partner your husband your father of your children and whatnot, if you do not want to do this.
You have to be do this. You have to be wanting to do this. This is something you want to try. You always wanted to do this, but you were too scared. But now you got a man that is going to support you. Make sure that is what is happening. Sorry, Danny. I don't know what's up with this. I don't know what's going on. I'll have to figure it out. Why you cannot hear. I just don't know. I don't know. Anyways, so the implications of race in cockling can introduce problematic dynamics.
The individual serving as a bull may feel objectified as they might perceive that the couple selected them solely on their sexual prowess, potentially focused on physical attributes like penis size. The wife, the downfall of the wife, downsides for the wife is participating in cockled scenario may also feel objectified as the experience centers around fulfilling her husband's fantasies rather than her own desires.
Issues can arise in relations where one partner insists on cock-holding or pressures their partner into it, particularly if the other individual is indifferent or unsupportive by the ideal. That happens all the time. You see a lot of couples in swinging.
It doesn't matter if it's cock-holding, hot wife fixing swinging poly uh all that stuff you always get these one person wants it more than others and they put a lot of pressure on these women to do it or the men to do it you know now women are getting more and more into it all right so the reality of cockling may fail to meet initial expectations the individual suggesting the experience might realize that it does not align with their preferences, finding that the fantasy was far more enticing than a theory in practice. Like I said, the fantasy is always better than the reality.
The reality of it, it can fuck up your life. But then again, the reality of it, it can make your life a lot better. So, you know, you got that 50-50.
You just don't don't know so the partner who initially displayed indifference towards cock holding may discover a newfound enjoyment after trying it in some cases a husband may perceive his wife differently or feel betrayed following a cock holding experience regardless of it being initially his ideal this perception can strain in relation indefinitely as jealousy may surface and challenges one's ability to cope effectively like i said you're like yeah my wife's gonna do this fucking hung dude he's like got 10 inches i know she's gonna fuck him and your wife lo and behold is making noises doing things that she's never done with you and now you're pissed off because, wait a minute, she never does that with me.
So what's up with that? So you get all antsy and you get all, uh, all angry about it and all that stuff. So, you know, it's just, don't, it's just one of those things that, like I said, the fancy might be better than the reality of it. Negative emotions akin to those experienced in threesomes can also emerge. Therefore, it is advisable to refrain from the immediate action and first consult a contradictor cock-holding guide like A.C. Maxwell and a Swing and Single podcast openly discussing potential risk with your partner to mitigate adverse outcomes.
Like I said, a lot of podcasters in the lifestyle will tell you how great it is. They don't really tell you the negatives. And like I said, I always talk about the positives and the negatives. I try to be more positive and negative, but there's a lot of negatives. So just be careful when you're doing this, you know? Because you can, you know, really open something that you really didn't want to open in the first place. So how do you, so you're cool with that. You know, the risk and you're, and you still want to move forward. So how do you approach your partner?
It's understandable to feel anxious about discussing your interest in cock holding with your partner as it defies societal norms and carries a taboo reputation in relationships. Yeah. Especially if the girl goes Sunday goes to church. How are you going to beat that? Your partner may not be receptive to the ideal and could react negatively, but the manner in which you approach, you broach this subject, can significantly impact the conversation outcome. Like I said, there's a time and place for everything.
If you're already engaged in open conversations about sex, initiating this dialogue should prove slightly easier. We advise, or I advise, establishing a habit of discussing sexual topics, regardless of whether cock holding is an interest to you. So that's good advice. I would say, if you are open to talking about sex, you talk about sex, you know, with your partner, your spouse, now it should be easier. So you talk about, you know, maybe, uh, whatever you want to talk about. Go online, Google, Google some sex topics to talk about with your spouse and see what happens there.
Do not just go straight in the cock holding. Ease her into it. It's like doing anal. You don't want to go stick it in nice and dry. You want to put some lube on it. Get the lube up, lube her asshole up a little bit, lube your cock up over. You want to do that. So tips for men interested in introducing the topic. You could subtly mention the allure of someone being attracted to your partner. You're out to dinner and you go, you notice a person staring at you, a couple staring at you. Say, hey, you know, that guy's been staring at you. He thinks you're very beautiful. You know what, honey?
staring at you, say, hey, you know, that guy's been staring at you. He thinks you're very beautiful. You know what, honey? I think you're very beautiful, too. Do something like that. Be suave. Be cool. If a situation naturally presents itself where someone flirts with your spouse, it could serve as an organic flow. Wow, you know, Teddy was really flirting with you today. Did you like that? And have a smile on your face. Don't cross your arms. Have a smile on your face. Have your arms down to your side. Or maybe put your hand on her hip. Ooh, Teddy was really flirting with you.
We were flirting back with Teddy, so I don't know. Do I have to worry about Teddy now?
And have a smile on your face And see what she says Perhaps consider asking a close friend To engage in light flirtation If your relationship allows for such interaction You could do that but I don't do that Like I said I don't fuck with friends In this lifestyle You're just a fuck toy for me For my partners that's it We're not going to hang out Saturday With the barbecue with the kids Avoid disclosing that you have Researched cock holding extensively Until your partner demonstrates readiness For such information Thank you. That's it.
We're not going to hang out Saturday with the barbecue with the kids. None of that. Avoid disclosing that you have researched cock-holding extensively until your partner demonstrates readiness for such information. So if you have it on your computer, make sure you want to delete your history. So as a woman, you might emphasize the thrill of feeling sexy and desirable to your partner when discussing cock-holding. Commence a general discussion on your mutual turn-ons or fantasies in bed. Focus in on shared desires as a couple. However, exercise caution.
Ensure that your partner does not feel inadequate or perceive lack of commitment in a relationship as a result of your revelations. Now, this is the number one thing guys fuck up all the time. Hey, honey, let's get another girl in the bedroom. Let's have a threesome. And you know what the fucking first thing that lady's thinking? Oh, I'm not good enough for you? And I had that done to me. When I was in my 20s, I would talk about bringing in people, swapping, swinging, and all that. And she goes, what, I'm not good enough for you? That is something you've got to try to avoid.
Don't make your partner, male or female, feel inadequate when you're talking about this. All right. You got to make it where you are making it where it's going to add to the relationship, not take away. So prepare for inquiries from your partner regarding the origin of the ideal, potentially linking it to sources such as movies, literature, or even a comprehensive guide like this coding one-on-one resource on the Swingin' Single podcast. Gentlemen, shave those cock and balls.
Under no circumstances should you coerce your partner into participating in activities they do not willing to consent to, which happens all the time in swinging. I'll tell you that right now, unfortunately. It doesn't happen that much anymore. I really think the tide is turning where more and more people are more receptive to try it. Now, to stay in it, that's a different story. But I think more and more people are willing to try it, check it out, see if they like it. Now, once they go there, check it out, see it, are they staying in there? Maybe, maybe not. Who knows?
That's up for another podcast. So even if ultimately agree, agree, any form of coercion negates the essence of true consent. All right. So, you know, that is something to think about. So that's, so we're going to stop there. I'm going to stop right there because, you know, it's a very long and all that. And our next one is going to be talking about how getting started and all that stuff. So you know what? You've got to get started somewhere. And you've got me, AC, to help you out with that. I'll do that in my next awesome podcast. So remember, gentlemen, shave your cock and balls.
Go to SwingingSinglePodcast cock and balls go to swinging single podcast.com go to swinging single podcast at gmail.com to send me some emails remember i'll be at crazy winter nights in kansas city missouri february 21st through the 23rd come check me out i have a booth doing a live show doing interviews all that good stuff if you're going to be there hit me up we'll get together do some awesome things together if you want with that being said everybody i hope you have a wonderful day keep on swinging and shave those cock and balls, gentlemen.
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