Join host AC Maxwell on Threesome Talk as he candidly explores the world of consensual three-way sexual encounters. In today's episode, AC delves into the different types of threesomes, from MFM to FMF and everything in between, providing insightful perspectives on the dynamics and considerations involved. With open and honest discussions about the potential complexities and rewards of participating in threesomes, this episode prompts listeners to question societal taboos and consider the empowerment of exploring their sexual desires. Whether you're contemplating a threesome or just curious about this increasingly common practice, this engaging and informative conversation offers valuable insights and considerations for navigating the realm of sexual exploration. Tune in for a thought-provoking dialogue that challenges preconceptions and celebrates sexual autonomy.
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Welcome, dear listeners, to the Swingin' Single Podcast with your host, A.C. Maxwell. Today, we're diving into the titillizing world of couples seeking that extra spark in their relationships through the expiration of threesomes. So, yes, I know, everybody, I know. Yes, I know. We all love a good threesome, everybody. Yes, we do.
But strap in, singles and and couples alike as we embark on a journey of open communication trust and exploration it is all about finding that perfect blend of excitement intimacy in today's episode so grab a cup of your favorite beverage and get ready to join the conversation on couples navigating the path to a th to a Threesome Experience. Because here on the Swingin' Single Podcast, we believe in embracing love, pleasure, and creating connections that ignite the soul. So stay tuned as we dive into the nuances of this spicy topic. So let's swing in.
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But anyways, let's talk about threesomes. But before that, we're going to talk about my, you know, my website. Swingandseeingopodcast.com. Get all things AC. See where I'm going to be. See what I'm going to be doing. All that stuff and crazy stuff that I have and all that other stuff that happens for us crazy swingers. Yes. So let's see. Also, if you. Oh oh i don't know what the hell's going on but anyways that's my thing like i got technical difficulties up the butt here i don't know what's going on hopefully you can hear me uh and all that stuff so i don't know maybe you can, do.
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Thank you for joining my podcast. All right, anyways, let's talk about it. Go to swingandsinglepodcast.com to celebrate anything. Clubs, if you want, clubs, swingers, if you want me to come out, do a live show, do any live tapings with you, do any interviews for your guests and all that for you, call me or email me at swingandsinglepodcast at gmail.com. You can get a hold of me and all that stuff. So do that now. Do it often. All right, so check it out. So today we are talking about threesomes and all that stuff. And you know me, AC.
I've been in plenty of, plenty of threesomes, not with the other two females, the one that everyone likes, but, you know, with those other ones, with the couples, where I'm the bull for the couple to make sure that lady is pleasured and all that, and all that. Hold on, I got a Tinder meet. Yes, we are. But anyways, and just like that, we're back. So are you interested in exploring a threesome? I don't know. Or threesomes? You never know. Remember, threesomes can be had by everyone, singles and couples alike.
Whether you're considering it or just curious, here's the essential information you should know before diving into it.
Now, remember, I always say this, gentlemen out there you want you so desperately want that that second chick sitting on your face while your girl blows you or vice versa you want to fuck that other woman but guys guess what there's a problem with that and the problem is well your wedding lady as much as she loves you and all that she might later on uh want to have an extra dick with her and oh boy can you handle that gentleman can you have another man pounding your girl after you got pounded by a chick you got to pound out a chick uh i don't know you know that's up to you but remember i have been in swing for 26 years and i've seen it all done it all, and I can tell you that people's, you know, desires and wants change over time.
So she might love having that sex with that other third female, but, you know, later on in life, she comes on like Erica, and she says, you know what, honey? I want a nice schlong for me. I want to ride it like a bull. I want you to watch. I want you to participate. And guess what? You're going to have to do it. Now, if you can't do it, then don't do the threesome. Anybody online and TikTok haven't done a threesome, let me know. Shout it out. I also will provide links to additional articles for more in-depth insights on threesomes on my website at swingingsinglepodcast.com.
Tips on learning, planning, finding a third partner, and that gave me your first experience. Now, I think finding your partner is getting pretty easy with the advent of social media. I remember when I first started swinging, you had to go to clubs, and you had to go to seedy adult bookstores to get the swinger magazines, and you had to send a pororoid and stuff like that to them, and through snail mail, and you had to wait days and days, maybe even weeks to get any answer or anything like that.
So anyways, so, you know, you know, uh, while threesomes are familiar topic for many, it's briefly defined what we entail, what they entail regarding sexual activities. A threesome, shout it out people, uh, involves three individuals engaging in sexual activities, you know, together. The most common configurations are two males and one female or two females and one male. However, threesomes can take various forms of beyond these traditional setups, which we'll explore further in this article. Now, let's talk about poly.
You know, you got a lot more people where they're having, for whatever reasons, I honestly think it it's shit it's probably with the economy the way it is and how bad it's gotten i think it's even better to have a you know threesome um to you know be able to live because so many people are down on the dumps and you don't you don't have a lot of money things like that and i just you know maybe the people in pali are having have a good thing so uh and that hello uh c star yes hello how you doing all right so however threesomes can take various forms beyond these traditional setups which we'll explore further in this article like i said uh like i said like i said uh poly poly maybe have better people hello car how are you doing so the reasons to consider a threesome what are some of the reasons other than you're horny these possible possibilities are in this when it comes to reasons why having a threesome can be appealing uh here are some of the most common motivations uh shared in no particular order so these are not in particular orders if you have any orders if you want to post it online tell me i'll shout it out all right it allows one person to be the focal point of sexual attention from two others now that could not always necessarily be true you know we got selfish selfish people out there where they would do whatever they want to do with someone else it's supposed to be the main focus on the guy but then the girls get into it and the girls are all about themselves or it could be about the girl and you know what the guy could be uh all about themselves so you never know uh but that but usually one person is the focal point just like when you go to a gangbang that one woman is the focal point of everything.
All right. Anyways, for those also, for those who are bisexual or cares about exploring bisexuality, that threesome provides a safe space to explore such desires. Like if you're a female, that's the most commonly accepted form of what people are looking for.
They are looking for the, you know, that, you know, that extra vagina for them you know the guys enjoying the guys into it so you know everyone's into it and it's a way for the female their sexuality just like when she's in college when she has her all her little craziness in college for guys it could be also safe because where do guys go if they are feeling bisexual they they want to explore that side? Well, and they're with a partner, they have a girlfriend, or they're married. They don't know where to go.
Hopefully, the female will be okay with it, with him exploring his bisexual side with her. So hopefully, that is all good. But that's also a good threesome is a good way for that male to explore his bisexuality with another bisexual male. Maybe someone who's experienced that can teach them a thing or two. Threesomes can inject a significant level of excitement into sexual encounters compared to one-on-one experiences. Yes, it could be. They go off, have a, go on vacation. They have a great threesome. Now they're at home banging away daily all the time.
And that happens all the time in swinging you know people don't think about it but yeah swingers have good sex lives if they're real swingers and they're really good at it they can really have a great sex life welcome adriana and wasi mora whatever that is uh also the tad new taboo nature of threesomes can add an element of thrill a mystery it also involves engaging activities that go against the style of the norm so it's like fuck the society you know give the middle finger to everybody saying hey whatever we're gonna do whatever we want to do you know what today's society is there's very little morals anymore and people do whatever they feel feels good they'll suffer the consequences later on in life you know a lot of the young women are single because you know they have a high body count they were banging a bunch of dudes they were doing all kinds of stuff what they should have been doing uh instead of trying to find a man but oops oh so sorry now they're they got a high body count some guys don't want it ac i don't care higher about account the better i feel as long as you have a high body count when we're together and you i get to watch you have sex with other men and couples but that's uh for another topic so engaging in a threesome can unleash a unleash your inner wild side and provide an avenue to embrace your naughty impulses yeah it could teach you a thing or two it can tell you hey you know i like this i want to have this all the time we could do this once in a while we could do it once months every couple months or whatever.
But it can bring in your inner, it can bring out your inner slut for men and women. Don't sit there just thinking it's for women. No, men. Some men need to come out. There are a lot of fuddy-duddy men out there. You know, I talk to a girl. Her husband never takes her out or anything like that. So she wants to go out and have a good time. And I'm like, okay, I'll do that, baby. Don't worry about it. All that.
Oh, more that oh more tender nice all right so I'm on tender doing all this stuff anyways uh so you know it could bring out the inner slut opens up the opportunity to excitement with new sexual experiences fantasies and curiosities in a safe and consensual setting hello Samir and Enrique now listen guys swinging can open up a whole new different uh you know it brings out the strange there's nothing like having that remember when you had that first now if you're not a nervous wreck but remember when you have that new vagina and all that you have all those new people coming in you have that new taste of flavor that new smell the new uh way you're doing stuff you can have a lot of stuff and it's really great it feels good that strange feels good strange vagina strange penis feels great guys we all know that it's that level of excitement it becomes you know you got that seven-year itch where you're always talking you know you don't know what's going on and things like that but you know it is i don't know it's just one of those things where i love it because you get that that's that rush of newness and all that stuff and honestly some of my swinger partners i get bored of because after a couple times of doing them you just get bored of them also it allows for exploration and discovery of different kinks and interests among all parties now like my only kink is swinging i like watching my girl uh my partners when i take them to a club to bang other men and other other couples uh i don't have like no uh tying up kink no ash fetish kink anything like that i just had that regular straight up sex kink simply put threesomes are fun exciting and can lead to a plethora of enjoyable experiences yes but it can also lead to a plethora of miserable experiences now don't forget a lot of people always talk about swinging swingers have a great marriages and all that stuff that is true but there's also it's 50 50 there are swingers that have horrible marriages they're doing it to save their marriage it will never swinging will never save your marriage if you're thinking that this is could be a possibility that swinging can save your marriage no it will never save it you got problems in the foundation you got to fix the foundation swinging can enhance your relationship and make it better but swinging will never save your relationship all right so don't do that guys i know there's so many people out there that think like that well if i just swing i get some new pussy around or I get a new penis around.
I'll be happy. No, it's not going to happen like that, guys. It's not. Unfortunately, 26 years of experience tells me so. So, you know, I'm not an expert in no way, shape, or form. So, you know, you just decide for yourself. So how do you find partners for a threesome? Now, this is easy.
When considering to engage in a a threesome with it's important to note that willing males are typically more readily available compared to females duh how's that why is it you know we all know that and you got to remember when you put an ad online you're going to get hit on by a ton of single guys uh you know you know, just ask a single woman, they get hit a ton of by single guys and other couples and couples and even single women, they all hit each up on. So you just got to have the patience.
If you have no patience and you're looking to do this as fast as possible, I recommend just going to a swingers club, go to a swingers club, Google swinger club, uh, wherever city you live and see what the nearest one is read the reviews read what's going on find out what is going on and you can get you know you know some action that way you might get some hits now you'll find people that are there who are already willing but if you need a connection well then it's going to be tough you going to have to have patience because like I said, there's a lot of flakes and fakes out there.
Remember this, the reality, the fantasy of swinging is always better than the reality. When it comes down to doing it as a couple or a single, you get stage fright, you get scared and you don't do it.
And you know, you have a lot of people that pull out, so to speak, no to speak no pun intended but you know it's easy to find a single male i will agree 100 it's easier to find a single male it's harder to find a you know a what what do you call a unicorn a single female that's very difficult to do all right while finding the female partners might be a bit more challenging it's not impossible with the right approach all right listen gentlemen listen to this you want to find another female for your threesome don't ever talk to the lady have your wife do all the work ladies couples ladies you listening you have to do all the work because guess what if that guy's talking to that other girl about having a threesome with you and there might not be in the swingers lifestyle guess what your husband is creepy and she don't want nothing to do with him now if you're at a swinger club even then i still gentlemen stay the hell away from the wife's let your wife do the work you're that girl girl who's having wants that she's talking to is going to be more comfortable talking to your wife or girlfriend than she's going to be talking to you about sexual stuff.
All right? So just let the girl. That's my best advice for if you are trying to find a female partner in your threesome. Let your wife do all the work. Ladies, you've got to do all the work because you're less creepier than men. And men have a bad reputation about this stuff. Okay, we know that. Okay, don't worry. If you're shy, ladies, don't worry. You're just going to be okay. Trust me, you'll be all right. I see some of the most introvert people become very talkative and very extroverted in a matter of minutes at a swinger club and stuff like that. All right.
So, you know, welcome to all the viewers on my podcast, watching my TikTok stream. Hello, how you doing? All right. So, you know, you can find a female partner. Just don't be creepy and don't sit there and look and ask her about it. Now, I have seen couples pull single women out of nightclubs, regular vanilla nightclubs, and go home with them and have a threesome with them. It's because they listen to AC. The lady did all the work. She laid all the groundwork and all that. And it happens.
So it is you can get a female also remember you got technology you got tinder i'm on tinder i i see women on there all the time that are married who are in a swinger lifestyle who are looking for side dick and all that stuff which husband don't know i know you ladies i see you i'll call you out you know if you ever get nasty with me anyways no i won't i won't do it i don't care but i'll fuck the shit out of you, though. I'll call you out. You know, if you ever get nasty with me anyways, no, I won't, I won't do it. I don't care, but I'll fuck the shit out of you though.
I'd tell you that I'll bang the hell out of them. Uh, anyways, you have couples there looking for females to play with. That's a great place. Tender swinging websites, SDC swings, uh, swinging, sing, uh, swinging, uh, lifestyle.com, SDC.com, uh, quiver.us, whatever it is. I don't know. But you can go online and do it. But like I said, if you do it online, guess what you're going to have to do? You're going to have to have a very high amount of patience. All right, here are some suggestions on potential partners for a threesome.
Meeting a stranger at a bar can be an option, especially if it aligns with the hot life lifestyle or desires desires for threesomes there are people out there that don't know about swingers they don't know where to start so you know one day they're at a nightclub they're having a little much too much drinking there bada boom bada bing the opportunity presents and she's getting tag teamed by two dudes in the back car or in a hotel room or you know you and your wife are having a threesome with a nice hot female that was at the bar so you know who knows it can happen trust me in vanilla bars it does happen a lot so finding so consider creating a profile in a swingers website clearly stating your preferences and what you're seeking if you are not seeking single men block the single men you are although all the websites i do believe you can block the single guys.
I prefer that. What I really don't like is when I go on there and I see these couples who have, in capital letters, no single males. All right. When you have capital letters online, that means you're yelling. Listen, we understand. You don't want no single guys. You got small dick energy maybe. You don't want your wife to enjoy her sexuality. I get it.
No problem it no problem and you know what guess what it doesn't matter if you write it in caps guys are still going to email you because guess what we're stupid no one you know actually couples are stupid too because no one actually reads a fucking ad what they do they just look at the pictures and if he has a big cock oh we're going to jump on it if he's you know if she has a nice pair of tits and ash she's skinny we're gonna jump on it no one reads these damn profiles so when you do that you just show your ass and all that like i said i have a couple's profile like i keep a couple's profile with a couple girls that i uh that i'm partners with and i look when a couple emails as i look do they have their ad?
And if they do, I tell them we're not interested in them. If they don't, we're all good to play, stuff like that. So if you're interested in engaging with male partners, be prepared to be for an influx of potential participants eager to join. Now listen, you might see all these hot looking guys, these guys with sick pack abs. Guess what? Most of them are fake.
Most of them are just there to get jerk off material uh to get pictures from you and stuff like that never send pictures nude pictures to someone you never met with never played with before if you never met them never played with them before don't send pictures because you know what they're fake probably fake people listen i tell people i'm not sending nudes to you and they said thank you and they never hear i never hear from again you know why because they were fake they were never interested in meeting up the husband is gay or something like that and they get off on getting straight men's uh nude pictures fine whatever you know it is what it is but you got to be very very careful okay you don't want to you know send nude pictures to the wrong person either you never know who you are sending those nude pictures to you could be sending to a teenager remember that there's a possibility it could be a teenager too so you know when you are getting ready to do this just make sure you send send g-rated pictures if they need to see a nude picture of you they're not worth playing with because you know what i i hate it when couples send me nude pictures dude i just want a picture of your wife i want to see her face and i want to see her send the full body is she a bbw i love bbws you know that if you go to uh swing a single podcast.com you can see my bbw pictures me would be some bbws and all that stuff i like skinny girls i like medium-sized girls I like thick girls I like all women as long as you treat me well I love all women I don't care but you know just send me a picture of her body and all that so I can see and start fantasizing about how fucking great she tastes and all that don't just send me nudes all that or taking 20 cum shots on her face some people do that so I'm like okay I don't need none of that I'm at that age where I just want to see the outline and that's it after that I'm I'll see able to gauge, get hard for it and all that.
But make sure when you're in there, if you're a couple, you don't want single guys, make sure you sign up on a website where you can block the single guys, and so they can't even click on yours.
And I love those too because i like that too because then i don't have to worry about wasting my time because i don't know how many emails i'll send i'll send 100 emails i'll get one or two responses you know no one ever has the audacity or the courtesy to say no thank you which will only take one second but okay well anyways so also another way exploring a swinger club is an option another option allowing you to connect with other like-minded individuals even if you're unable to find a third party you may come across couples who are open to group encounters now listen this is the best advice i can give you just go to a swingers club because one everyone's there for the same reason sex all right you can't ever you got to know where a swinger club is at to go to one.
You're not going to stumble into a swingers club. Maybe in Europe where, you know, it's open and it's free and all that. But not in the United States. You never know where they're at. You have to know where they're at. So if you're walking, so if you're worried about your mom and dad or anyone like dad coming in and seeing you or coworkers, guess what? Your coworkers actively looked it up too. You don't have nothing to worry about. They're there for the same reason sex. You know what?
It might make for an awkward moment on Monday morning, but they're there for the same reasons and they can't say either. Cause guess what? How would they know you were there? Hmm. You ever think about that? Exactly. They were there. They have as just as much as lose to lose as you do. So don't worry about it. If you see coworkers at these swingers clubs, I know a lot of people, Oh, what if you see someone? I have seen someone seen people from my work. And I said, you know what? You're there for the same reason. I'm here for the same reason, so let's have some fun.
Now, we don't hook up with each other. We stay away from each other, but guess what? Monday morning, no one says anything. No one knows. Now, maybe when I quit, maybe they know because they tell everybody, but then I would be like, how do you fucking know that they're swingers? Because I'm a smartass like that.
So my best option, the best option is definitely a swinger partner as a swing club just go to one google it just google swingers club in topeka kansas whatever chicago you know new york you know la whatever and you'll come up to a pick one and go to it now don't go just to one so if you have one bad experience at one go to another one there might be there might be better no two swinger clubs are alike if the search is for a female partner one potential avenue could be look within your wife's or girlfriend's social circle given their existing familiarity some friends may be open to exploring sexual spiritual irritation now this is where i say ladies listen up you have to be very careful what woman if you decide to do is i do not recommend going this route even for guys i know you know guys who let their friends guys let their friends fuck their wives i know there's guys like that who have done it uh i never i will never do it personally because it just brings bad bad mojo to the whole thing.
Ladies are worse because women will start seeking and start desiring what that woman has. So she's fucking her husband and your husband bangs your girlfriend like she's never been banged before. She is going to start coming around a little more, start being a little more flirtatious in front of everybody and all that with your husband and all that. So you got to be very, very careful. Do not just let any fool in your bedroom just because she's a girlfriend of yours. Your best friend, eat it. Don't. Because it ruins relationship. It can ruin your friendship. So you got to look at it.
So, okay, you have, all right. So let me say you have this acquaintance that you see once. It's not really a friend. Ask her. Ask her to do it. That's fine. Because guess what? In the end, you're not going to see her anymore. Probably anyways, you are, or you're only going to see her once every couple, you know, a couple months anyways. So do that. Don't ask your best friend. I know your best friend's probably hot. You're hot.
You both, you know, probably made out together when you're a guys were in college or whatnot but remember this she's going to start she likes it enjoys it she's going to come around more she's going to want to do it more and more now maybe you're interested now if you're interested in having a poly relationship with your girlfriend go ahead but like i said poly relationships don't to me honestly are for young. Once you get into the 40s and your 50s, it gets boring. It just doesn't become feasible because, you know, people start branching out.
You got now instead of one person, you got three people in there.
So, you know, you got all this stuff in there and it's just going to be too much for you and all that so that's why i think you know the younger people have better times with the poly because of the fact that they had the more time the more you know patience for it once you get older you don't get if you're in search of a male partner anything's the option one option would be to explore your husband's or your boyfriend's circle don't do it i won't never do it i just say stay away from inner circles don't let swinging and uh your personal life get involved because then you have a lot of I'll talk to this sexual arrangement here are some of the most prevalent ones you may encounter alongside uh descriptions uh of the different types of threesomes commonly found in swinger lifestyle so you have the male female male this abbreviation refers to a threesome involving two males and one female where the male solely engaged with the female and not with each other all right so this is the most common one a lot of guys i've done this a million times you know one guy takes one in the other guy takes the other in she might suck both your cocks at the same time she'll be on her knees servicing one while she's handing job in the other one goes back and forth vice back oh back and forth back and forth you know one of those things where she's doing this and doing all that stuff so you never know all right anyways so that's the most common one uh have i done it with a bisexual male yes i have not had sex with bisexual but i have probably have done threesomes with guys who are.
Or yes, I have because I know these guys are bisexual. If you find a couple that's bisexual, both the male and female, you're going to be okay. Just allow yourself to breathe and tell them your rules. Tell them that you don't want to have anything to do with the male. You don't want no male touching you or anything like that, and everything should be fine.
Now, if they decide they don't want to play with you because of that well then go whatever go fuck off or whatever it's their loss not yours all right so just remember just lay out the ground rules gentlemen and you don't have to worry about swords crossing so here i most significantly use okay so here's another vibrant uh variation so we had the male female male now we got the opposite we got the female male female this abbreviation that uh donates a threesome involving two females and one male where the females only engage in the male all right so this is one of the most common male fantasies i think because you know every guy wants have the two girls you know and all that ac has not had two women at the same time by myself i always had a share you know you got a couple and all that so you know it is what it is so this abbreviation you know the male female uh female male female threesome it's probably the biggest highest fantasy of all now it wouldn't be a big fantasy the uh i don't know you know you would have to be female female male threesome for the bicurious anyways so you also now you have to be talking about bisexual side of threesomes yes you could have bisexual threesomes you have the male male, female.
male threesome for the bi curious anyways. So you also have, now you have to be talking about bisexual side of threesomes. Yes, you can have bisexual threesomes. You have the male, male, female. This abbreviation is used for a threesome of two males and one female where the males interact with both the female and other each, each other. So all three of them are playing around. I'm bi friendly.
I am not bisexual, which I mean is that I am okay with male touching, uh, doing double penetration on a woman uh things like that you know i could a wife could be right of me i pop out of her vagina husband puts me back inside that's okay none of that's going to affect me nor anything like that like i said i don't i'm not into guys i don't do butt play i don't do oral sex on men stuff stuff like that so i'd like i said i'm bi-friendly and all that then you have the female female male which is a threesome which has two females and one male and the females engage in both the male and the other female so you got that those girls you know that's one of the most common themes i always see where the you know uh the couple is into you know the female and they're all three of them having fun having a great time stuff like that and that's one of the most you know you know one of those one of those that everyone enjoys yes the round of applause everyone loves and enjoy all right so now when you have the threesome what can you do in areesome?
There are some things you can do in a threesome, man, have fun. Like double penetration. Ladies, have you ever wanted to be penetrated at the same time, double penetration? So that refers to a scenario in which one male engages in the vaginal sex with the female, while the other male engages in anal sex with the same female. I did this one time, long time, my first time I ever did it.
You you know in fact some of the most of the times i don't do it a lot uh i have done it when i was probably a young man i think i was 23 24 i just got out of college i met this i was in michigan i just met this couple and they lived down the irish hills over in brooklyn michigan over in that area and they were smoking hot and we did double penetration. I had her butt. He had her vagina and all that. Because I was smaller than him. So it was only natural that she would probably want me in her butt because it wasn't going to hurt that much. It's all that.
But anyways, so that was the first time I did DP. But there's also, additionally, DP can occur in the context of a threesome involving two males, two females using strap-ons. You see a lot more of that on porn now. You see it on Twitter where, you know, two girls are using strap-ons. Some guys, I can't remember, Josie something, she's a Detroit fan, I know that. She was a big girl, now she lost a lot of weight. She's looking better with all the weight loss. But anyways, she used two, her and her girlfriend used strap-ons on some guy. And I was like, wow.
So, you know, double penetration can be for both the male and the female. Or one male and one female using a strap-on where vaginal and anal sex is simultaneously. Or one penetrates vaginally while the other anally. Now, you have double vaginal. Now, when we talk about double vaginal, that means two penises or one dildo, one penis or two dildos going inside the same hole. That's a lot more difficult to accomplish because of the fact that, you know, you got not a big size and you got this little size thing, you know, and you're trying to stretch it out. A lot of women end up liking that.
Now, I have not had, I've done it a bunch of times, not a lot, maybe less than 20 times, but every time I've done it, the woman has loved it because it really stretches her out and gives it a good stretch feeling, even though, you know, when she might, you know, she might want that stretched out a little bit. So, heteroflexible is a term that describes individuals who typically engage in sexual activities with the opposite sex but are open to occasional same-sex encounters. It reflects a if-it-feels-good-do-it mentality. All right. Hello, all my TikToks.
Voyeurism and extrobatism involve either watching others have sex or being watched during sexual activity. In threesomes, it is common for one participant to observe the other two engage in an intimate act for a period. That's what I like to do. I like to watch sit back and relax for a while let her have her fun, let her have her orgasms let her go to pound town on some other dude and I come in and help out later on. Every threesome experience is unique due to the varied dynamics each person brings.
The types of threesomes can significantly impact the sexual dynamics, whether involving two males and one female or two females and one male or same-sex participants who are bisexual or bicarious adding to that complex threesome.
It is crucial to acknowledge that each threesome encounter with different individuals will vary not every experience will match previous encounters with some being highly enjoyable while others may fall short of expectations anticipating adversity in these encounters can prevent disappointment yes remember they're all going to be different not they're not all going to be the same guys i'm sorry to say you have a great you had a awesome threesome last week this weekend the threesome might suck and that's going to suck for you but anyways sexual pleasure can dwindle if routines are not altered just as with one-on-one sex engaging in same threesome dynamics repeatedly can lead to monotony it is essential to experiment explore new kinks and maintain an open mind to keep things exciting that's why i like having different guys i don't like having the same old same old come in and come out of uh the party because i like what having that person uh having that person with a different man different size cock different color cock like that.
So compromise might be necessary in threesomes due to deferring preferences among participants. When there are conflicting desires, finding common ground can ensure a satisfying experience for all involved. However, it is equally important to prioritize personal enjoyment and refrain from compromising if it compromises personal boundaries. Effective communication is crucial before a threesome. Discussing individual preferences, boundaries, and limits with all parties involved is essential to avoid misunderstandings and ensure a mutual enjoyable experience.
Skipping this step can lead to uncomfortable or unwanted situations that could have been prevented through open discussions so avoid using that anyone in the threesome can intuitively understand your sexual preferences the third person involved is unlikely to be as familiar with your likes and dislikes as you as with your regular partner elsa how are you doing effective communication with this individual is essential as they cannot read your mind yes i cannot read your mind so when i meet a couple i hate it because i don't think i'm doing a good job they don't tell me anything i need directions it's like i don't have gps to the pussy if i had gps for the pussy i'd be the greatest man alive but i don't i when it's new it's hard to tell so i gotta pay attention to the breathing and stuff like that and you know sometimes you get a girl that will say left right up down faster slower stuff like that some women don't say shit at all those ladies are the pain in the ass because you don't know so discuss your preferences with the third party before the three so begins if they do something you are uncomfortable with during the encounter speak up and communicate your boundaries similar similar if they engage in any activity that you typically enjoy but not in a way that pleases you provide guidance on how they can adjust their approach for your satisfaction ensure that all participants feel empowered to express their feelings during the threesome open and honest communication is key for everyone involved anticipate some level of awkwardness in your first threesome even after discussing desires boundaries and limits questions such as positioning physical proximity and managing logistics can contribute to the initial discomfort embrace the awkwardness as part of your new experience and potential for excitement.
Reflecting on these moments can even become a shared source of amusement in the future. Prevent anyone from feeling like an outsider in the threesome. It is common for one individual to feel excluded, particularly in a new arrangement. So take note of anyone feeling left out and make efforts to involve them more actively.
Gentlemen, if you're having a threesome with your wife with another female make sure you pay a lot of attention to your wife do not forget she's in the room i repeat i repeat it again do not forget she's in the room actively make sure you are touching her kissing her talking to her do whatever you got to do to let you know she's there because guess what a lot of guys forget and i seen it i worked at club security i worked at swinger resorts and that's the biggest fight you are paying attention to that person and not me so if you want to have another threesome with another woman gentlemen you better shave your cock and balls and pay attention to your wife when you're having that threesome so encourage communication and suggest different positions or activities to ensure everyone is engaged in the experience be attuned to potential feelings of exclusion especially in scenarios involving two bisexual females and one straight male or two straight males and one female.
Rotate participation and ensure everyone has a chance to be involved actively. Now, some guys wouldn't care. If your wife is going down on another girl, you probably enjoy it. You don't give a shit if they're paying attention to you at all. You're just enjoying a view and jacking off. But, you know, some guys are different.
Some guys guys are not built that way some of us do want to be paid attention to so exploration of voyeuristic dynamics can also be an exciting component with partners taking turns observing and participating in different configurations to maintain inclusivity and shared enjoyment so now this is a big part how to navigate the challenges of homophobia and testosterone in male threesomes unfortunately some males exhibit extreme homophobia so do some females they're just better at hiding it especially when coupled with heightened testosterone levels and scenarios involving two males in a threesome this combination can create tensions and lead to conflicts even more minor interactions sparking potential confrontations in instances where one participant displays strong homophobic tendencies it may be advisable to reconsider engaging in a threesome with the person alternatively a sequential interaction akin to a girl pulling trains where one male engages sexually with one female before the next can be a less problematic approach however this arrangement deviates from Thank you.
trains where one male engages sexually with one female before the next can be a less problematic approach however this arrangement uh deviates from the traditional concept of a threesome now so you got to think you know is your husband uh homophobe is he gonna like it you know maybe a train's better for you maybe you ain't gonna get that threesome maybe not with your husband maybe with someone else you meet online or something so while many males are straight and not homophobic welcoming welcoming the inability of male-to-male contact in such encounters there exists a spectrum of sexual orientations among participants some individuals identify as straight bisexual or heteroflexual maybe i'm heteroflexual heteroflexible adopting to the situational dynamics that unfold highlighting the prevalence of non-homophobic males emphasizes the importance of screening potential participants to ensure a harmonious safe rendezvous critically if the female expresses interest in double penetration to prevent conflicts during intimate encounters uh interactions i mean so how do you stop okay so you know just remember we're all there for fun no one's there to you know do anything sinister male-on-male contact is going to happen in a threesome guys i hate to tell you you might touch a leg you might boners might touch so you just just you know just be be honest with you so what about when your girl is getting pounded by a guy and she's making noises that you she you have never made her make so mitigating jealousy and envy dynamics and threesomes despite a consent consensus of open mindedness among participants in a threesome, jealousy and envy may surface unexpectedly.
It is essential to anticipate and address these emotions to maintain a positive, respectful environment throughout the encounter.
Instances that may trigger jealousy or envious reactions include observing a partner exhibiting heightened enjoyment with the third party aha feelings of inadequacy or competition or comparisons based on physical attributes such as penis size yes that's always guys are always jealous of other guys penis a guy with a 10 inch dick is jealous of a guy with a 12 inch dick and so on and so on what i always did when i heard my girl when i took a girl and she was getting fucked real good and then she was having a great time with other people, I would sit there as a call to duty where I want to try to make her make those sounds.
I want to do that and see what I can do for her. I didn't really get jealous or anything like that because I had girlfriends where we were supposed to love each other and all that. And I loved it when she was screaming and moaning her head off. And I wanted to go, I could do that too. And you know what? And I figure out ways. That made me a better lover. So take that jealousy and become a better lover for your wife. Encouraging introspection and communication can help navigate and resolve those emotions constructively.
Fostering a supportive and collaborative atmosphere within their group dynamic. All right.
How can you bring toys let's start bring some sex toys maybe you don't want to have a threesome yet but you want to have that double penetration feeling so let's incorporate some sex toys so incorporating sex toys can enhance the excitement and pleasure of a threesome or in a threesome the diverse range of available toys facilitates experimentation exploration contributing to more engaging and fulfilling experiences for all participants butt plugs maybe your wife wants to try anal but her her asshole is tighter than uh you know you know a virgin pussy so you put a butt plug in walk around with the butt plug have that one vibrating butt plug stuff like that so oh sorry exploring various sex toys tattered for women and men including dual stimulating devices and accessories like bondage gear flogs or bdsm toys can add novelty to the encounter and promote exploration of newfound sensations discussing preferences and selecting toys that cater to individual interests can alleviate the sensual experience and create opportunities for shared pleasure and intimacy.
All right. Oops. Consider integrating sex toys to sustain momentum during lathe-year sessions, offering relief and assimilation during breaks or transition-enhancing endurance and diversifying sensory experiences, contributing to more dynamic and fulfilling threesome encounters so so tips on maintaining hygiene maintaining hygiene this is what be clean guys shave your cock and balls be clean and comfort during threesomes so is it important to consider the need for protecting your bed and furniture while engaging in group sexual activity especially if you're're doing butt sex.
You know how many times I worked at the Caliente's resort in their sex rooms and people would do anal sex and shit would be on the beds? Yeah, they would actually have shit to wipe their dicks with it. Oh, it's disgusting. You people are disgusting. And you know who you are, you horrible human beings. It is often overlooked how much body fluids can be generated during a threesome, as well as the use of lubricants to avoid any mess or stains. It is recommended to Thank you. horrible human beings.
It is often overlooked how much body fluids can be generated during a threesome, as well as the use of lubricants to avoid any mess or stains. It is recommended to take precautions to keep your space clean and comfortable. One effective method is to use waterproof bed pads as a first layer on your bed, followed by a fitted sheet. Now, if you're going to have a house party, this is all good advice right here. This way, once the threesome is over and it's time to reset, you can simply remove the sheets and pads for washing, leaving your regular bedding untouched.
By implementing this strategy, you can prevent any bodily fluid stains and maintain the quality of your sheets and mattresses.
But also, remember, clean your asshole, clean your cock, clean your vagina, do all that stuff, clean and you'll be all right so initiating threesome activities so transitioning from conversation to intimacy during a threesome can be a challenging especially for first-timers here are some suggestions to help kickstart kickstart your sexual aspect of the threesome engage in a game of strip poker where sexual favors are bet as clothes are lost utilize icebreaker games designed for swingers to create a comfortable atmosphere for a two male one female trio start by initiating a foot massage scenario to gradually escalate to more intimate activities in the two female one female dynamic offer a massage to one of the women and slowly progress uh from a regular massage to an erotic one so embarking on the threesome experiences may lead to unexpected pleasures and discoveries which is all good it is essential to keep an open mind and be prepared for unforeseen sensations and desires that may arise by maintaining that adventurous attitude towards sex, you can explore new kinks and preferences.
Remember that threesomes are opportunities. sensations, and desires that may arise. By maintaining that adventurous attitude towards sex, you can explore new kinks and preferences. Remember that threesomes are opportunities for exploration and growth in your sexual journey. So stay open-minded. Allow yourself to fully embrace the potential delights that threesomes can introduce into your sex life. So while threesomes can be exciting and fulfilling for many, there may be instances where participating in one feels unsettling.
If you find yourself in a threesome situation that does not sit right with you, it's essential to address these feelings. One possible reason for feeling uncomfortable could be societal norms and expectations ingrained in your physique, your psyche, suggesting that sex should only be involved to individuals. This is common. Don't worry. If you think like this, when you're having your threesome, you're not alone. There's a pie. Millions of people have done threesomes and thought the same thing and all that. It's up to you. Like I said, I'm not here to change your mind. Swinging is great.
Doing this stuff is great. It can be great for everybody who has the mindset. But if you don't have the mindset don't swing despite your desires for a threesome these societal beliefs may create internal conflict and discomfort if the threesome involves in her if the threesome feels in her hereditary and inherently wrong or unsafe prioritizing your well-being is paramount. Mental health, guys, it is crucial to trust your instincts and, if necessary, immediately halt the threesome. You and your partners can then have a candid discussion about the situation to address any concerns or discomfort.
Before agreeing to a threesome, establish clear communication with all participants and emphasize the importance of option to stop at any point during the experience.
Now, it sucks when you have to stop because you're having a great time, you're feeling good, and bam, you got to stop at any point during the experience now it stops when it sucks when you have to stop because you're you're having a great time you're feeling good and bam you got to stop so it's not one of those things it's stopping is horrible so approach uh so approaching your approaching the top of a threesome with your partner can be a delicate matter influenced by dynamics of your relationship and your partner's level openness openness.
I would suggest that you watch porn with your wife or your husband or your girlfriend and ask or your boyfriend and say, hey, here's a threesome. That looks awesome. Would you like to try one? Would you ever do one if we ever had the opportunity? And you see what they say. Sometimes they say, oh yeah, I'll do it or no, they won't. So if they say no, then you probably should not press on for the threesome.
But they say you know they start saying yes start swinging baby because it's on but with that we are going I hope you enjoyed today's episode of Swing and Single Podcast with host AC Maxwell that's me AC Maxwell go to SwingandSinglePodcast.comC. See my latest podcast, anything like that. Clubs and swing resorts. If you need to do a live recording, want to do some interviews, I can come out to your club and come out and do some live recordings, see what we got, do an honest review of your club and all that stuff.
Remember, this is the Swing and Single Podcast through the eyes of the Swing and Single male, A.C. Maxwell. With that, ladies and gentlemen, gentlemen, shave your cock and balls and keep on swinging, America and Europe and the whole world. you'll get lucky like a four-leaf clover baby, I'm a holly to your joker I wanna be there forever on your shoulder I wanna be the angel when it's over you'll get lucky like a four-leaf clover baby, I'm a holly to your joker
