Strap in and strip down for a sizzling new episode of the Swinging Single Podcast with the ever-charismatic AC Maxwell! Today, we're striking a pose and spilling the secrets behind taking tasteful nudes that not only capture your confidence but also tantalize the senses.Join AC as he navigates the enticing but sometimes murky waters of nude photography. Whether you're snapping a sexy selfie or posing for a partner, this episode covers the dos and don'ts to ensure your intimate images are shared safely and received with respect.From finding your angles and playing with lighting to understanding the importance of consent and trust in sharing personal images, AC doesn't hold back. Learn about keeping your privacy protected, the legalities surrounding nude photos, and the role of digital etiquette in an era where a picture is worth a thousand words—and potentially a million shares.Plus, AC will share stories from listeners and offer advice on how to handle unexpected leaks and the importance of owning your body image in a judgment-free zone.So whether you're a seasoned shutterbug of sensuality or just curious about capturing your own allure, today's episode will arm you with the knowledge to snap nudes with confidence and class.Don't miss "The Swinging Single Podcast"—where we bare it all, one topic at a time.
Transcript
Hey everyone and welcome to another fabulous edition of the Swinging Single Podcast. I'm your host AC Maxwell here to sparkle a little extra excitement into your swinging or single life. Today we're diving into the topic that's sizzling with self-love and confidence.
That's right, we're unraveling the art of taking a nude photo that makes you look and feel absolutely fantastic whether you're a seasoned selfie snapper or curious newcomer to the world of the tasteful nudes this show's got you covered we'll share tips on finding your best angles using light to your advantage and how to really embrace and showcase your unique beauty so lock that door get comfy and let's get ready to shine a light on the most sensational subject there is you here on the swing single podcast it's all about celebrating who we are and loving the skin we're in stay tuned as we capture the essence of allure one snap at a time remember this podcast isn't just for singles but for anyone ready to add spark to their life.
So whether you're snapping for your eyes only or you have that special someone waiting to admire your photographic masterpiece, you're in the right place. Strap in, folks. It's time to turn up the heat and let those confidence levels soar on the Swinging Single Podcast. The Swinging Single podcast with host AC Maxwell is intended for entertainment and educational purposes only.
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But if you don't want to spend that money, you want to, you know, take some nudes anyways, come here and listen to my show, The Swing and Single Podcast, Shave Your Cock and Balls, gentlemen. So this guide helps you learn how to take nice photos of naked people or yourself by showing how to be ethical and good at using your camera.
Now, maybe you're a maybe you're being one of those guys like that i offer erotic massagers to cup women in this lifestyle yeah they're trying to get laid but anyways maybe you can start a side hustle gentlemen ladies and take nude photos and tasteful nudes for couples this is useful for both experienced photographers and people who want to model these tips will share well help uh you take photos safely and creatively make sure everyone feels comfortable and okay with the process so if you want to take some nude photos of someone you want to start a business uh you know nude boudoir photos and all that you know you're gonna you gotta think sure make sure you're gonna be uh professional about it you know guys especially you because you're creepy you know you're gonna be seen as creepy as fuck so you gotta be professional you gotta get some good words out there so you gotta decide what you're gonna do with these boudoir photos and how you're gonna do it and if you're gonna be a business or anything all right so what to remember in this always make sure the person being photographed agrees and feels comfortable make sure they're over the age of 18 in fact i would just go to make sure they're over the age of 21 um because you do because if it is under the age of 18 you show any nipple you show any vagina guess what that's the child pornography and you're gonna get in trouble so I would just be safe and just say 21 and over make sure you see their ID just card everybody just say and you know what it's a good way to kiss the woman's ass because if you're asking her she's 40 years old you're asking to see her ID and you just say oh well you look young and you know what she's gonna love you forever anyways even though she's gonna give you a hard time about showing her id anyway so just make sure you do it 21 and over you know just to be safe this creates a safe space for taking nude photos because we gotta remember being naked in front of a stranger is you're really giving your your safety to that person you know it's hard for some people to get naked in front of people a complete stranger uh even Even though you don't need to be able to do it, you need to be person you know it's hard for some people to get naked in front of people as a complete stranger uh even though you know it's professional and all that stuff so you know it is kind of hard so you make sure you know you create that safe space and that's why women thrive in this type of photography because people are more um they're more uh you know willing to give women the benefit of the doubt of being safe even though women can be very bad people too and all that as we've seen throughout life but you know it's always good to have a woman with you maybe if you're you know a couple maybe you're a swing couple guess what great way to make a side hustle is you know start your own little boudoir photo agency and start taking pictures of the couples and all that, make sure they have really good tasteful nudes for their online profile.
So, you know, they can get the most out of online dating. So include and celebrate all body type, body types to make photos that to make people feel good about themselves. Listen, we understand you all have these so-called preferences. And you know, I always say with parentheses preferences you know a lot of people say it's a preference but it really is not it's them being shallow and very disrespectful to other people i like all women it don't matter you know the color or the size i like all women skinny the fat i don't care i care more about how the person treats me than anything.
So I like seeing tasteful nudes of big, thick women and all that. Because sometimes we don't, you don't see that because they're scared to show their body off. They're not confident in their body and all that. Same thing with men, you know, same thing. Guys got to realize most of the bodies in the swinging lifestyle are dad bods.
They're not perfect bods, you know, you got these 50 year olds now, they're taking TRT, the testosterone, they're acting like they do it all natural, it's not natural, motherfucker, you got, we know you're on roids or you're on something, because it's just not, a male body does not produce that much testosterone at the age of 50, and all that, and it's okay, if you want to, you take that shit, that's fine, I take it it but i'm not doing it for bodybuilding reasons i'm doing it for other reasons for my sexual health and all that stuff so you know but i'm not going to sit there and cry that some 50 year old looks fucking great i'm gonna be like good for him that guy good job and all that so anyway so we got to celebrate all body tops don't worry about like i said if you have a dad bod or a mom bod it's okay in fact you're probably the you are the norm in the lifestyle you're not the outlier the outliers are the skinny ass six-pack ab girls the six-pack men those are the outliers and you go to places like secrets where you might see a lot of them but But guess what?
You know what? They spend so much time at the gym. What else are they doing? You know? So just ask yourself. Don't worry about the body type. Just enjoy your freedom of expression and your nudity.
For photographers or anyone taking nudes, start with simple poses like laying down in the relaxed way to help get comfortable in taking and being in nude photos all right google this stuff look at nude poses look at things from porn like look on twitter stuff like that you see girls taking nude pictures and all that do you like that pose do you like how her gut work looks or her ass work looks or her titties look or her vagina looks does it look like she's got a uh, what do they call it? Vagina and the stomach look like one thing. I can't remember what it was, but does it look good to you?
Gentlemen, same thing. Does his photos look good? Does him looking underneath his cock and balls and you see his face, is that a good look? What's a good nude pose for a gentleman for a guy look at it what looks good and ask maybe some girlfriends you know if you have some girls that are friends are open to looking at nude dudes or something like that or couples and they'll ask what is that a good pose for a guy and all that because like i said people are going to look at your photos and they're going to look only at your photos they don't give a fuck flying fuck of what you put in there.
You could put that you're a serial murderer and you're Jeffrey Dahmer. They won't even read it. They'll fucking look at your pictures. Oh, he's got an 8-inch dick, honey. Let's go. We'll email him. They only look. But you do have those outliers that actually do look at the profile and all that. So that's good if they do that.
If you don't, well, that's your problem i said start with something simple look online see what's out there try more complex ideals like taking unplanned photos or using water to make your nude photos look more interesting now this is where uh you can have two if you're a couple you got both phones use both of your phones do you know have one phone that's doing the main photos and do one that's just doing, you know, it's on like every five seconds, it takes a picture. Every 10 seconds, it takes a picture.
Cause you know, those, those relaxed unfiltered poses will actually probably be some of the best pictures.
If you are starting a business, you're a couple, you start a business, do do the same thing one of them just takes pictures of you two working together and stuff like that and you'll see stuff like there's a couple of them on twitter that i look at i follow and they do a lot of good stuff and some of the best work is when you see the photographer and the girl together how they're working together and some of those are the best pictures that they have so try more complex like taking unplanned photos and using water water is always good now if you got a river or stream by your house that you can be naked in and where no one's going to cause a problem because nudity is against the law all right i would go for that because those are always really good ones or if you have a nudist resort you can go do a nudist resort uh thing try to stay away from everybody else in the nudist resort and all that because you know you don't know how they're going to react to anything stuff like that so you know just be be careful of what your your surroundings are when you're doing outdoor nudist resorts you got the mountains you got mountain trails stuff like that i like all the the stuff that's outdoors is very good i don very good.
I like when couples do pictures from the outdoors because you say, oh, these people are adventurous. They're fun. We might be hiking one day. She might just pull her pants down and say, bend over and say, fuck me, put your seed in my pussy and stuff like that. So you never know what's going to happen. All right. So just look at that.
Let's see what else keep learning by going to different classes looking at famous nude photos and working with others who take who like taking these kinds of photos all right so you you there's classes you could take photography not not necessary for the nude but you could just do them for just take good poses where's a good place sunset what time is the best time to get your photos and all that now you might go ac this is a lot of fucking work just to take a new picture but i'm telling you it will benefit you in the end because like i said people look online if you are going to do the online swinging dating you are going to have to have some good photos all right you might not be if you ask yourself are you really that hot are you a 10 and if you can be honest with yourself say no i'm probably a five or a six good nude photos will bump your score up i always say when a cut when a girl enters a swingers club, she's a 10.
They're all 10s, no matter how ugly, how beautiful they are. The moment they leave that club, they go back down to reality. To being that five or six. They're no longer that 10 anymore. Because guess what? Now you're competing outside that club. You're competing with vanilla, the vanilla world.
And there's a lot of fucking tens in the vanilla world all right so we just got to be smart and if you're thinking about doing the swinging online where you're meeting couples offline gotta have some great pictures especially if you're not that you know good looking of a couple listen i'm not the best looking dude so i gotta have some good pitches. I got to have some great pictures, especially if you're not that, you know, good looking of a couple. Listen, I'm not the best looking dude. So I got to have some good pictures.
I got to put a good, I got to put a good canvas on when I go to the club. That's why I stopped doing online dating because I don't think people, my personality is to what gets them because you know, I have a great personality, but the problem is they only hear or see my pictures. They don't see how I write or anything like that. They don't look what I write. So when I go to the, that's why I like going to the clubs better because you know what? I got my shit together. I'm clean shaven. I got my hair comb. I'm smelling good. I got a nice suit on. I got my cock and balls shaved and all that.
So I'm good to go. I'm looking good. So they see that and they might be interested in me now. But if I only show them pictures, well, you know, they might not look like what they see in the pictures. Because, you know, maybe I got shorts and t-shirt on. I look like shit. I look like I got triple chins and stuff like that. Or my cock looks like it's two inches big. Stuff like that.
So, you know so you know you just gotta be understanding it's a lot of work to be in the swinger and lifestyle it's not just fucking easy it's easy if you're just gonna go to the club and go fuck that's easy but if you're gonna be like these guys who say they live the lifestyle 24 7 they hang out with people in the lifestyle outside of the lifestyle it's gonna be a lot lot of work all right so you got to invest heavily in some good nude pictures they don't even have to be nude it could be in a bikini it could be in shorts it could be something it could be something like um teasing like you might see you have a hand bra or something like that or you don't see your private parts but you got to have some good photos out there so people can see so the basic of taking good photos being respectful and making great photos making sure everyone is okay with it consent and feeling comfortable taking naked photos like for personal albums or artsy shoots really needs everyone to agree and feel all right about it all right because guess what's going to happen you're going to post these and guess what they're going to be on there forever i recommend if you have a job that you care about or whatnot block out your face i don't ever show even if someone asks you can we see your face say no don't fucking show them a face picture put something on there you know have it have it where you only see the backside or the front side you see from the neck down, things like that.
And if they ask you to email you, can we please see your face? Say no, thank you. If you want to see our face, let's meet up. But I guarantee you I'm good looking because you know what? It's not worth it.
None of this is swinging is not worth losing any of your fucking jobs or over it sucks that it's that way in a society but i'll think it get better in the end as the years go on but right now you know there are asshole people out there they see you oh i'm gonna fucking they don't you say no to them well i'm gonna get back at them they're gonna do something so i would always recommend blurring out the face of your photos and never ever, even if they ask you to see your face, say no, thank you.
And if they really like you, they really care and they really want to meet you, they ain't going to give a fuck what your face looks like anyways. And if they do, they're not obviously before you. So, you know, move on.
So if you're thinking about taking those kinds of photos or sending them the most important thing is to make sure the other person is okay with it a lot of times you have guys sending out their nude photos of their wives and the wives have no idea about it not okay make sure your wife knows about it and all that like with the photos i have on here none of you can't see their faces you only see their asses and i asked them can i put this on my uh feed oh yeah I'll see their asses. And I asked them, can I put this on my, uh, feed? Oh yeah, fine. No problem. All right. So no problem. I'll do it.
And I only do it once in a while, but you know, but if they have a problem with it, I say no, or I do an AI generation. I show them this. Oh, okay. That's like, cause it, the AI don't look like fucking anything.
I do AI of my pictures and they're fucking they're fucking they don't even look like anything like me i'm like what the fuck does ai think i look that ugly but anyways so this is just not about following the rules it's about being respectful respectful all right and like i said you got to be communicating you got to be respectful always ask the person if they're cool with sending or getting a new photo, the unsolicited dick pic, which was a lot of women and couples complain about. I don't know why guys look, think that sending the dick pic will work, but this is the problem.
If a gentleman or actually a little boy, cause little boys send dick pics unsolicited.
So if they do it 10 times times they send their dick to dick pic to 10 couples online and one couple says oh we like that and they hook up with that couple guess what that brain and that gen that little boy is thinking if i just keep sending dick pics out someone will take the bite take the bait and fuck me so that's why they do it because it only has to work once for a person to think that this is how you do it same thing with women women are the same way we just don't want to um talk badly about women because you know women are the one the unicorns the ones that are very much uh chased in the lifestyle but women do it too and couples do it to if you send the unsolicited dick pic it only takes one couple to say yes for that person to understand or that couple to say you know what this is the way to do it i hate to say it but that's it but make sure everyone is cool with you saying getting uh getting and sending new pics i try to tell women don't send new pics to me because you know i just don't want it and i really don't give a fuck a nude pic i would try to see you nude in person in my bed you know nude pics don't do anything to me talk clearly about what's okay and what's not before you start taking pictures you know do you want to show you spread your pussy lips and so you can see the inside of your pink pussy or brown pussy whatever color your pussy is you know do you want to have pictures of your face i recommend do not block out your fucking face just block out your fucking face it'll take a lot of things um make a lot of things better uh let's see what else what else you know are you have close-ups are you going to have full body half body things like that so you got to talk about what you're going to do you know action shots you're going to do action are you going to show a cock inside your pussy or vice versa or anything like that cum shot things like that never make someone feel they have to take these photos listen if you're going online you don't have to take nude photos you know I wonder what the rate is for success if you have non-nude photos versus nude photos but being okay with it should happen all the way through not just at the beginning remember people feel differently about taking these photos what's fun for one person might make another person nervous like I said jobs people want to fucking there are crazy fuckers out there and you risk that these crazy fuckers will try to find you where you live and find your work and send your shit to the work.
That's why, you know, just don't show your pictures. Don't show your face. I mean, don't show your pictures. Show your pictures, but don't show your face. Just block it out. Even on your online swinger profile as a couple. I don't know how many times I see couples with their real names on there. You got to stop. Don't do that. Don't make up a name. You got AI, go to an AI generator, look, type in, write a good name for a swinging couple in their 30s or 40s or 50s or 20s or whatever it is and come up with that name. Use that name. Don't use anything else.
Don't use your real names and don't tell these other couples you hang out with you might think they're your friends but you know what they're not really your friends trust me i have seen many people get burned from other people in their lifestyle because they stopped swinging with them or there was some miscommunication and they're fighting so you know be safe be smart when you're doing these nudes don't show any pictures i mean don't show any faces sorry always put how they feel first and be ready always put how they feel first and be ready to change what you're doing all right you might have to change maybe they don't want that close-up of their asshole their brown eye who knows some guys like the their pussy and brown eye together so i don't know how to make great looking photos that respect the person.
So if you are taking photos of your wife or you got a client, this is how you should do it. Taking really nice photos that don't make anyone feel uncomfortable is about finding a good mix of looking good and being respectful. I would say, you know, lingerie is always good. Little thong bikinis are good for women.
Men, you know, a little banana hammocks things like that something that doesn't show your goods but shows you know enough sure the human body can be really interesting but it's up to the person taking the photos to not make it something that is meant to be and here's how you can do this the most important thing is to respect the person in the photo they should always feel good about how they're shown. All right. Show them the pictures. You know, you got those little playback buttons on those cameras. Show them the pictures. Look at that. If they like it. Yes. Keep it. They don't like it.
Just delete it. Think about why you're taking the photo. The reason for the photo should be right and not make anyone feel bad.
You taking these photos you know to present yourself to advertise yourself to other couples all right things like that hold on um and all that never make someone feel they have to take these photos all right listen like i said you don't have to take nude photos or any photos at all on for online profile for swinging you don't have to you can put a nice one of you dressed up at your company's party or whatnot and all that that's fine you're good to go like i said i don't have the data to say couples who put nudes versus couples that don't what's the rate i would think that even if you're if you're a listen you know if you're really hot if you're a very hot couple and there's a there's a quite there's a few out there where the man is good looking and the woman's good looking they're gonna get fucking hit on online on those swinging websites swingers lifestyle sdc quiver um cassidy they're gonna get hit on no matter what nudes or no nudes they're gonna get hit on but for us that are not that blessed with that great good looking jeans we have to do a little advertising all right but we don't have to take these photos you do not even if you're like a drop dead dead ugly couple you don't have to take these photos you're fine just regular photos all right you're fine with that don't sit there say ac's telling you to take nudes no i'm telling you it's up to you i'm just giving you a guide if you want to do these things so being okay with it should happen all the way through not just at the beginning remember people feel differently about taking these photos these photos.
That's where the cameraman, camera woman's job is to make you feel good. Oh, you look great. You're doing, they're looking fantastic and all that. Sometimes, you know, they don't do that. And you're like, what the fuck? You know, you want to really get a good, good camera man or camera person.
That's what you're going to be be doing you're going to make that person feel like they're a million bucks they're the best woman best looking woman around you're the best looking man around always put how they feel first and be ready to change what you're doing don't be set on one thing you can do multiple things it's not going to be one of those things where you can't just do it you can be able to change up be able to make the quick change all right all right how to make great looking photos that respect the person all right uh let me see all right so taking really nice photos that don't make anyone feel comfortable is about finding the good mix of looking good and being respectful.
Sure, the human body can be really interesting, but it's up to the person taking the photos to make it look something like the mint. Here's how. The most important thing is respect a good person and all that. Think about why they're taking the photo.
Focus on something and showing something beautiful or interesting, not just because someone is not wearing their clothes so remember it's all about perspective it's really important to act professionally and talk clearly with your model or your wife or your husband about your ideals and what you want the photos to look like now you'll get some women that will have great ideas of what they want listen to them guys don't pressure them into anything or they don't do the don't do this pose do that pose and all that you know just listen to them they'll be fine this way everyone knows what's going on and the photos end up being respected as art all right yes nude photos are art all right you see them in art museums around the world you see it all the time the human body is art like said, I don't understand how these people have gotten into this world where only skinny, you know, size zero women are the best looking women and guys that are over six foot with six pack abs chisel test are the best looking people in the world.
I like, like I said, real men will love all bodies. Real women will love all bodies. It's not just looking at one and saying that's the only one i want all right now a good way to make a good photo i think i really like these type of photos using black and white for classic look all right switching to black and white and new photography makes the photos look more artsy so if you're trying to do the artsy nudes and you're not just doing the raunchy, what is it, what the hell is that, swank magazine photos, this is the place, this is what you want to do. Do the black and white.
Those are very good. Without color, you focus more on the light, dark, and the shape of the photo, which can make you feel more emotions.
Black and white photos show textures and shapes well all right so if you are a little you know subconscious about your body you don't like it fully try black and white they will make you look better they make the photo look timeless like it could be belong to any time period all right using high contrast in black and white can make the photo feel bold but still classy the goal is to capture more than just the body it's about capturing the feeling and when I'll see you next time. All right. Using high contrast and black and white can make the photo feel bold, but still classy.
The goal is to capture more than just the body. It's about capturing the feeling. And when people see that photo, they go, Oh, I really liked that photo. That's a great photo. And they're going to remember you. They're going to recognize you. And they're going to be more willing about maybe to actually reach out to you as a couple and say, Hey, we really like your, your wife's and your husband. We really like your photos and all that.
we would like to talk to you about maybe meeting up for a drink and all that so you can have that possibility black and white can be a little better than the color pictures because the way the contrast is with the black and white so making a comfortable encouraging space setting boundaries and building trust it's super important to talk about what's okay and what's not before you start taking new photos. Like I said, are you going to do the tasteful playboy type where you're just showing the vagina? You're not seeing, you're not giving her a test or exam of her pussy.
You know, the swank magazine ones back in the nineties where they used to spread their pussies out and all that. Are they going to do that?
No, you don't do that maybe you just want to do something in lingerie too all right you should agree on what you'll do with the photos and make sure everyone feels okay about it you know why are you taking these photos you're doing it to put a good foot forward you want to take something good you know sometimes women just do the photos to make themselves feel sexy because you know maybe they're not feeling that sexy anymore they had three four kids you know they gain a little weight things like that their boobs are not as perky as they used to be but you know what they do a boudoir photo shoot they look good they feel good the pictures look fucking excellent and boom it's a big boost to her ego and a big self-confidence boost too and now she's feeling sexier and feeling great and now you're benefiting you as a husband is benefiting from her sexiness and now she's dtf down the fuck whatever so before taking photos make sure the place is private all right remove anything that might make the model feel uncomfortable like like dildos.
You don't want to have a bunch of strap-ons, dildos, or two-headed dildos anywhere. Make it classy. This helps the person posing feel safe and lets the art shine. When I was at Secrets, when I first started going Secrets around before COVID, they used to have a little room where they used to do boo-wah photo shoots and all that.
don't have it now they got rid of it i don't know if they the lady stopped doing them and all that or she just couldn't get enough people but i thought that was a good way where you know what they should have done they should have told women when they check in say hey you guys can do or couples actually couples say hey you know we got complimentary photo shoots for you where you know you take you get like five photos you know and you could do all this great stuff i thought that would probably be a good way you know maybe bring people in i don't know but they used to do that i thought that was a great way to get people in the into the resort choosing the best place privacy and being comfortable all right now like i said i love the outdoor outdoor ones are very fun and all that that you can do all right so make sure but when you do outdoors it can be very tricky because you got to have a nice private place do not go where's a lot of families going because if you got your tits out and a bunch of group of family come over well you know you get in trouble your pussy out or cock out you know you're gonna get in trouble so picking the right spot for the photo is key for making sure the person posing feels relaxed and worry-free i've seen some of the best photo shoots are usually in like a type of loft type of a building you might choose a place because it's private looks nice or just feels good you know you got a nice loft good uh lighting all that we're good to go You're in charge of making the place match what you need and feel comfortable.
Remember, you are the one getting your photo. You are the one that has to feel comfortable. So ladies, gentlemen, you got to feel comfortable. You tell that person, this is what I want. This is what I need. And if they can't do it for you, then you don't go with that person. You go with someone else because there's someone else that would do it. Same thing.
Husbands, make sure your wife wife feels good if you're taking photos with your iphone and stuff like that your cell phone uh make sure you don't download it to the cloud so everyone can see it but make sure you are doing you make your wife and feel comfortable using a private area lets you get ready in peace you know have a dressing room if you're starting the business up of these type of photo shoots have an area where the lady or men could get changed in a peaceful way and they don't have 20 people looking at them checking in to make sure everyone feels good whether they're dressed or not is a good idea when sexting the focus is on being careful with getting permission taking your time asking questions finding good angles that make sure everyone feels safe and happy ask the person what they want do they want close-ups of their cock and balls do they want close-ups of their vaginas do they want close-ups of their ass their tits their face stuff like that and as you become a seasoned photographer you're going to know some of the best body you're going to know all right for a thick girl this pose looks better for a skinny girl this pose looks better for a medium-sized girl this pose is better and all that you're gonna understand the guy's body you know does looking at is a up-close picture of your cock and balls a good photo i would say no like i said i don't understand the cock and balls you know guys are now putting like um what do they put the tv clickers next to their cock so they can see how big it is or a soda can and shit like that that's not fucking tasteful you know you know i guess if a couple doesn't really give a shit you know they're just looking for girth and size i guess that would be good but you know like i said guys should take good photos too i don't know why guys don't so celebrating all bodies positively so in new photography it's very important to show that all bodies are beautiful this helps everyone feel good about themselves no matter what society says like when i first started swinging we had to use poroi cameras and there was no way you could do a selfie of a poroi camera and it's hard to show your cock you're just an average dude you want to get the best per you want to get that good fluff so your cock is nice and got some blood in there so it looks good doesn't look like it's a fucking baby cock and all that so it's kind of hard to do new photography by yourself so it's always better to have someone with you that you trust and you believe in to do these new photos like i said we had to send poroids out to couples from the swinger magazine when i first started there was no internet there was no anything like that that was yet there and all that thank god for the internet thank whoever thank al gore for creating the internet and stuff like that so this helps everyone feel good about themselves no matter what society says like i said we have this thing where skinny girls are the are what we strive for but you know what i love it i'll take a thick girl over a skinny girl any day because you know they just i don't know i just think i just think they look good i like big asses big thighs and all that tits i could care less about small medium small fucking flat chested triple e's whatever i don't care this is never it never cared so show different kinds of beauty around you you know there's like i said in the swinging lifestyle the majority of us are mom and dad bods we have extra fat we got extra skin and we got stretch marks we got baby marks we got all kinds of stuff you know we get old or you know things happen and like i said you 20 year olds that don't want to play or party with 40 50 plus years old guess what one day you're going to get the 40 and 50 and you're going to feel upset because those 20 year olds now don't want to play with you so you just got to remember your future you're looking at your future when you go to the swinger club because that's your future you're not you think it's not going to happen to you but it's going to happen to you you're going to get stretch marks girls you're going to get floppy titties and all that stuff now you might get fake tits and all that and a mommy bod but you're still going to have those scars you're still going to have those scars and you know when a woman has those uh has gotten a tummy tuck because they usually get the tattoo around off their scars and all that so they put the disguise it but we know smart men like me know that's you had a tummy tuck and it's no big deal like i don't give a shit why do i why is why do i care if you got uh any of that but just remember your days are coming too you're going to get old just like us so embrace it and just enjoy the swinger lifestyle don't worry about your age and all that let people show how they are and tell their stories through their poses celebrate the beauty and strength in every type of body you know everybody is worth something we sit there and we worry about oh does he have how tall he is how big his dick is how how many abs can you see oh how big is her ass how big are her tits and all that how skinny is her waist you know and we forget every person is unique every person has feelings and all that and we got to be able to say hey stop with this oh it's a preference bullshit it's not a preference well i don't know we know it's bullshit when we sometimes a lot of people do have some people have preferences but some people just have biases you know where it don't matter he's under six foot i ain't fucking doing there i've seen some guys who are five foot five with fucking fucking big ass cocks you know eight ten fucking inches but couples will never see that because they're like because the girls are like i want i can do tall okay great so you have a bias against short people oh it's a preference no it's a bias but okay we can talk about that later enjoy everyone's body don't sit there and limit yourself to one group like the couples that only play with black men you're limiting yourself to one group there are other great fucking people that out there that could fuck and party and do just as better or just just as good or better than the those guys but you're limiting yourself to the great group, that one group, and you're taking away every other guy out there that, you know, could possibly be.
You know, like fat dudes. Okay, well, some fat dudes could probably eat some good pussy better than I could. So, you know, you can't celebrate everybody. And like I said, if you don't want that, that's fine. But don't have that bias where, well, he's fat. He's not that good looking, so I'm not going to bother with it. Because you never know. That person might be the best fucking friend you ever have in your life. You just don't know. That woman might be the best person you ever meet. And you're like, might give you the best fucking blow job, the best fucking lay.
We just don't know.'t know all right showing all kinds of bodies helps change how we see beauty and makes everyone feel about good about themselves it's about making a difference with the photos we take like i said those photos when you're online are going to be your canvas that's all they're gonna see so getting started easy poses for new models and photographers the classy lay down pose a great first try diving into new photography you might say try out the classic lay down pose first set the camera on a tripod and adjust the light to shine nicely on the person this pose will chill but looks classy it's chill but looks classy showing off the shape of the body in a nice way you can try arching your back a bit to make the lines of your body look smooth and natural so here's how to nail down this lay down pose practice in front of a mirror to see which poses look best that's a good idea make sure your camera is steady tripod don't use your hands or i guess It's not ipads don't they have that steady you know if the camera's shaking it can steady it for you get the light right to show off your best bits or tits find somewhere comfy to lay down usually a bed bed a nice couch now if you're gonna do a couch make sure there's no stains on the the fucking couch.
Put down a nice little blanket or throw a thing, something on there. Or one of those fuzzy rugs. You could go lay on the ground. Find somewhere comfortable to lay down. Lay around with how you position your arms. Play around how your legs and all that what looks best to you. All that. Try arching your back a little to make your poses look even better. All right. So those are some of the ways you can nail down the lay down pose. Practicing. You notice what it said? Practicing, practicing and all that. I know. Practice. We're talking about practice. Well, practice makes perfect. All right.
So 10 easy nude poses for starters. Here are some. So jumping into nude photography, exciting, but can be a little bit scary. Here are 10 poses, easy poses for beginners to make sure of themselves and to make photos look cool and simple. We got the classic lay down pose. That's pretty easy. Two, sporty pose. Shows off your muscles and strength. So that's where you're flexing and all that. You can do that. Number three is the outside photos. Use sunlight in the outdoor spots for a natural vibe, but make sure there's no families or anything in the body around. Go deep into the woods.
Four, laying flat. A super comfy and often very flattering position. Now you got the lay down pose, which is on your back, or you could do the laying flat, which was you turn over on your stomach and you're laying down flat like that. Five, moving shots captures the energy and motion of your body. I like that. I'd like the ones where the girls are, are booty shorts or they're in thongs and the cameraman is behind her and you can see her ass jiggle. Those are great. So that's a movie shot. Six, reflections. Make the photo deeper and more artsy. Seven, hands up.
Opens up your body and feels freeing. Like you have your hands up, both of them, like you're happy and all that. Eight, sitting down. Keeps you grounded. It can look cool in different ways. Nine, with friends. Shows interactions and can tell a story. That'd be awesome. You have a bunch of, you got a naked woman and you got a bunch of guys clothed. That'd be kind of cool. Ten, using your hands.
Bring your viewers eyes so use your hands while starting these poses feel free to try new things and make the poses your own new photography is awesome because it grows and changes as you and your model gets better and more creative from feeling shy to feeling strong getting comfortable with new photography means turning your shy feelings into feelings of power starting to feel okay with being vulnerable can actually make you feel really strong here's how you can start feeling more empowered be okay with feeling a bit awkward at first of course it's going to be a bit awkward so if you are a new photographer or you are a new swinger and you or you go to a photographer because i don't know maybe your husband can't take good pictures or you can't take good pictures either and you want the real classy classy pictures you go to a new someone and at first you might feel awkward with that person it's okay you're going feel awkward nude in front of people for the very first time and if you're singing and if you're a swinging single vet or a swinging vet you might be okay with being nude fuck it i don't give a shit who sees me naked i'm happy with my body i'm good so it might feel awkward for the newbies a little bit but i think for veterans in the swinging world i don't know it might be okay but you know what there might be veterans out there who are still insecure about their bodies and it's okay too you're just gonna you just gotta do what you gotta do so think about the why you're a bit scared of being vulnerable slowly get used to being in front of the camera with every poses you know not everyone lives in front of a camera the new generation that's coming up will be very open to cameras because you know what?
They take every fucking, they don't live in the moment. They live in the camera. They go to concerts, they'll film the fucking concert on their phone. They got a million, million inch screen in front of them and they'll try to watch it on a five inch screen.
Just, just how that new generation is is so i think once the new generation starts getting in more and more into swinging they'll be more into being in front of the camera and doing poses and they'll be very confident in that whereas us older people are gen x and baby boomers we're not that confident because we didn't live our life through a camera cheer on every bit of progress and try more bold poses when you're ready go at your own pace this is like swinging you're going at your own pace you're not doing everything there cameras will be there tomorrow you don't have to do every fucking pose or anything like that you could do it you could wait a week month or years before you do anything the big win is when you feel really good about accepting yourself this turns the shy feelings into a big proud message of loving who you are doing this you're just not you're not just making cool art but you're also loving yourself more and growing as a person this can actually help guys if you have your wife that's very might be insecure with her body schedule a boa photo shoot with them with someone take her say hey i want you to do this buy some lingerie we're not going We're going to do nudes.
We're going to do laundry.'re not going to do nudes we're going to do lingerie we're going to make you feel comfortable feel good and that might set her off to feeling good about her body because you know you love her body but she doesn't love her body we're and we're all like that guys we're same way well i don't like same way. I can lose a little belly fat. I can get toned up a little bit. And when we do feel good about our bodies, the sky's the limit. We're feeling good. And that's what you need to do.
So if you're a gentleman and your wife has a little body issues, try to set up a nude photo shoot with a professional. Not you, but a professional.
Because a professional will know how to get the best out of your wife and all that so that that would be a great anniversary gift you know or a birthday gift say hey we're going to do this I want you you know you go out lingerie shopping we're going to buy a couple lingerie outfits for you to wear and the person's going to make great photos of you and your wife will get a confidence boots and she'll feel good about herself and when your wife feels good about yourself she's going to make you feel good like i always say if your wife feels as if you're at a swinger club if your wife and your wife's having the fucking time of her life you're going to have the time of her life you might not like who she's playing with but guess what you're going to have the time of your life because she's going to pay it forward 20 fold and all that.
And if you can get her to be positively about her body, feel good about her body, guess what, gentlemen, it's going to positively affect you on the positive side and the great side.
So here's some tricks to take cool new photos, real moments, snapping true feelings for awesome new photos, all about catching real feelings taking a picture especially a selfie should be about keeping it real selfies are not that very classy i don't know i don't look at a selfie oh that's hot candid shots are super good because they show what's really you without any fake smiles or poses a little bit of backlight can make your photo pop but don't go too crazy with it the best photos happen when there's a good mix of light and dark showing your body shape when snapping nude selfies sometimes the pics that look the most real like a quick snap from life are the ones that hit the hardest here are some tips of rocking nudes use sunlight for a warm soft look try taking pics with mirrors for a fun spin make sure you clean your fucking mirror we don't need to see your uh stains on your mirror clean that mirror find the right amount of backlight to make your body look awesome without losing any details keep your space tidy for the best look like i said we don't need to see your dirty ass place.
Remember, people will look in the background and say, well, what the fuck? It's like that one lady that she was on the BBC reporter in Britain. She was doing a news interview and she had her fucking dildo on her shelf and the whole fucking world can see it. So make sure you keep your place tight. Go for real unscripted moments that show off your true self and vibe. You know, yoga stances. Ooh, I'll see you next time. you keep your place tight. Go for real unscripted moments that show off your true self and vibe. Yoga stances. Women that take yoga, this could be good for you.
Flaunting that body. Yoga positions are perfect for showing off your body's best in nude photos. Think about what you want to show off. A pose with your face can make it personal or aim for ones that curve your body just right. To look extra good, pick poses that stretch you out, make your legs look longer, and your middle back sleek. If you're all about capturing confident, empowering shots, remember confidence is everything. Pick poses where you feel on top of the world.
For a complete look look try a pose that lets you show off everything the ideal is to make photos that cheer and show off by choosing photos that play up the camera you can make cool respectful nudes that are pure art and that's what you want to do you're showing off your body you are showing off to people you are that person so bathroom scenes getting artsy with water now you could do like a river and stream i like those those are outdoors but you know what you got a bathroom you got a nice bathroom you can do those nice bathtub ones so shower shower shots are a steamy way to get super dynamic nude photos the running water sort of dresses the body showing shapes and adding texture to your shot playing with lights is fun too you can make the water sparkle on your skin before doing shower shoots make sure everything's comfy and safe and whoever's in front of the camera check that hair and makeup can handle the water so the look stays through the shot a quick prep list would be make sure everyone's cool with the plan get the water temperature right so it's comfortable you don't want to fucking have cold ass water and you'll be shivering and you see your goosebumps and all that set up lights to make the water really shine have towels and rolls ready for quick warm-ups or breaks like i said make sure the warm is not cold make sure it's lukewarm to warm and all that so adding fun props like a a toy can spark up the shoot.
But chat about it first. Chat about it first, B, and keep things smooth. The aim is to share more than just the body, but a feeling or story. Let the water tell its own tale, showing off softness, power, or a bit of playful cheekiness.
Creating art means making viewers viewers feel something deep all through the eyes of your lens so getting better keep learning and trying new things practice a lot and keep and look at famous photos you know the Marilyn Monroe uh some like a hot photo where her dress is shooting up in the air you see a lot you used to see a lot of those poses from women but not anymore to get a really good to get really good at taking nudes photos you should practice a lot yes you should practice a lot so husbands tell your wife that you need to practice your taking nudes so you can become a better photographer for her try to set times which times each week to work on taking photos use a timer keep yourself on track.
It is also cool to look at photos by famous photographers. You can learn a lot about how to show the body in different ways and what looks really cool. Experiment. Use an experiment with different lights, different textures and all that stuff. Different locations. Different times.
It's okay to try different styles and ideals try things you think and like about these tips think about the kind of feelings and natural moments you like in photos try using different things in your photos like special lighting and cool poses i said that make sure the person you're taking photos of feels okay maybe by talking to them or using things like clothes in a new way. You can always do that. Joining classes and watching tutorials. You can always take a class at the local community college or whatever. Learning more about new photography can be really fun.
If you join a class or watch tutorials online, classes let you learn by doing things and you can get help right away. I like doing the in-person class cuz I'm a hands-on learner I'm not gonna learn by watching a video I need to do it practice it so with online tutorials you can learn at your own speed and go back to watch things again if you need to do you get the most out of these things think about doing this find classes that teach the things you want to get better at so try to find a a new photography class or a nude art class. I don't know how you would do that. Go online, Google it.
Use website that has lots of tutorials from easy ones to the more advanced. Try to find some apps. There might be apps that you could do drawings. I don't know. So the best way to get better at something is to keep practicing and checking out different ways to do things. And that goes for you as the poser, as the model. If you're a model, keep doing modeling shit. Keep doing it. Being in a group with people who like the same thing as you can give you new ideas. Swingers. Run some ideals around other swingers.
If you're at the club, say, hey, I want to do some, I got to do some better photography. What do you think? Photos. What do you think? And, you know, if they have something, they have something. They don't, they don't. And it's also a way to break the ice in the swinging clubs. So working with other for new ideals. Working with other people who take photos can help you a lot. Maybe you have a, maybe there's a new photographer in the swinging club. Maybe they'll, they know someone. When you share your photos with them and hear what they think, you can learn new things.
Think about showing your photos to someone else to see what they think. You're going to get feedback from the couples that email you. If you have a certain group of photos and you get a lot of response, those are great photos. You're good.
If you a lot of response maybe you should think about new photos here's how to work make working together well talk clearly with each other about what you expect respect how the other person does things and you can even chat on video and video call to talk about ideals do all that stuff so you're doing all this stuff and you got all these ideals shoot them on shoot them with people like i said this is a good way you're thinking about ways to talk to people at the swing clothes because you're shy talk about you want to do some new photography you'll say hey my wife wants to do some new new poses stuff like that she's a little shy how do how do we get her do you know anybody like i said you got to be able to be open-minded about this.
Your photos are your canvas online. When you go out and you're not online, you go to a club, you don't have to worry about pictures because guess what? The couple is going to see you out there. Whereas when I'm going online and I'm looking, I'm on SDC and I'm looking at hot dates, I only see your pictures. I only see what you put out there. And if they're good pictures, you're going to get a lot of response. If they're bad pictures, you might not get that lot of response that you want. Because I'm telling you, people do not look at the profile. You can write the greatest profile in the world.
No one's going to look at it because they're going to look at your pictures first. And that's just truth. If you don't believe me, if you don't believe that, then you're full of shit because I'm telling you right now, I could put two different profiles. I could put one where I got a fucking eight inch cock. I got six pack abs. I could put pictures of that and put it online. I'm going to get a bunch of responses yet. If I put my pictures on there, if the same profile, just my different pictures, I won't get as many profile pictures because I don't have the eight inch cock.
I'm not six feet tall. I don't have six pack abs and all that. I'm skinny. I got an average size cock and I'm five foot eight. I won't get it. And that's just the way it is. And I understand it. I'm not bitching about it. I'm just saying your pictures are worth a thousand words.
So that profile you write is not not big deal in fact you know i know couples that write two paragraphs and that's it even a paragraph and they get fucking like a hundred emails a month or a week or whatever so taking good pictures is going to be benefits you guys uh and all that so make sure you do that because it'll be better for you anyways so that's my show for today remember to shave your cock and balls gentlemen you'll thank me for it your ladies will thank you for it the other if you're the other men will thank you for it all right so make sure you do all that go to doobie energy drink order use promo code swinging single get that discount so you get that extra push that extra kick when you're at 2 a.m fucking at tpc and all that you gotta get that extra kick get that doobie energy that's doobie.gg swinging single promo code 10 to 30 off so thank you for watching thank you listening.
I hope you have a wonderful day. Keep on swinging people and shave your cock and balls gentlemen. I'm a holly to your joker. I want to be there forever on your shoulder. I want to be the angel when it's over. You'll get lucky like a four-leaf glover. Baby, I'm a holly to your joker. Closer. Will you pull me in a sense from over? I can barely keep all my composure. I can't tell you no games, can't keep my focus. Yeah, did you notice? I wanna be the devil on your shoulder. I wanna be the angel when it's over. You'll get lucky like a fool.
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