Join host AC Maxwell on the Swinging Single Podcast as we explore the fascinating landscape of the growing popularity of swinging in today's society. In this episode, we delve into the dynamic scenario of single men and women embarking on a resort adventure together, where one partner finds themselves unsure about delving into the world of swinging.Through engaging discussions and expert insights, AC navigates the complexities and challenges that arise when one partner is hesitant about exploring non-monogamous experiences while in a social setting where exploration and openness are encouraged.Furthermore, our host sheds light on the delicate and intriguing topic of a hotwife being duped, unraveling the layers of trust, communication, and boundaries within the context of swinging relationships. Discover how unforeseen circumstances can test the foundations of trust and consent in the swinging lifestyle.Don't miss this insightful and thought-provoking episode as AC Maxwell guides us through the multifaceted dynamics of swinging, relationship uncertainties, and the compelling narratives that shape the ever-evolving world of alternative lifestyles.swingingsinglepodcast.comswingingsinglepodcast@gmail.comhttps://www.qcnews.com/news/u-s/north-carolina/its-everybody-swinger-lifestyle-grows-in-popularity-in-north-carolina/
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Welcome to the Swing and Single Podcast. I'm your host AC Maxwell coming to you live from the heart of Texas at the Upside Down Pineapple Studios here in Texas. And today we got a good talk about how the lifestyle is growing in popularity.
I found an article actually from North Carolina talking about the Queen City itself that more and more couples are becoming non-monogamous or swinger whatever you want to call it just say people are getting it on with other people in multiples of three four six eight ten twelve whatever so gentlemen shave your cock and balls get a bottle of lube get some tissues ladies. Ladies, grab your man, sit on his face and sit back, relax for another steamy edition of the Swinging Single Podcast. The Swinging Single Podcast with host A.C.
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Got to get it on. Got to do something. Let's go. Keep it swinging. Shave those cock and balls, gentlemen.
But first, make sure you go to swing and single podcast dot com and go to swing and single podcast at gmail.com so you can talk to me got any suggestions or anything like that something you want to call want me to cover on my show give me a email or anything like that or you know just leave a message on any multiple of my social media platforms guess what i got them all twitter tiktok whatever i have them all so all you gotta do is find me on there and you'll be all set so let's get into it so when i first started swinging swinging was not that popular and at all it was behind you know you had to go to a cd uh a cd adult bookstore We'll be right back.
popular and at all it was behind you know you had to go to a cd uh a cd adult bookstore you had to go there buy a swinger book you had to write letters actual write letters i'm talking not talking about you know i'm not talking about you know sending emails there was no you had to write a letter on a piece of paper pencil pen put get an envelope mail it to the place and they'll send it to the people and all that stuff and you hope for a response now you had to wait weeks and weeks for a response and all that so you know it was tough but as technology evolved internet evolved now it's pretty much right on time right then and there you can get going you 10 o'clock you decide you want to have a threesome foursome by 10 30 you'd be having a threesome a foursome with someone right now so as the popularity grew social media got in movie started uh you know movies i blame movies uh glorify swinging which they shouldn't do because it's not to be glorified and everything like that.
But, hey, whatever. Also, the other people, the social media glorify swinging and all that. People try to make money off of swingers and all that. And there was a discussion on Reddit about just that content creators, are they ruining swinging and all that.
And, you know, I'll say, yeah, they are ruining yeah they are ruining swinging but hey whatever but this is about the popularity so i came across an article um it's in north carolina they talk about the queen city which is charlotte or something like that i don't know is it charlotte i have no idea but it says it's everybody swinger lifestyle grows in popularity in north carolina now is it growing and growing in your state maybe so maybe not maybe you have not a lot of people maybe you have people leaving your state for other states and all that stuff so you know who knows so it says they could be your friends co-workers or even your pastor at church swingers tend not to talk about their lifestyle but the underground movement is growing yeah a lot of people talk about the swing and you know you see a lot of people online now think about it like this i always have to you know check myself even though you got people online talking about their swinging talk about how they tell their family members and their kids and all that for every one of them there's a hundred of them that are totally discreet they don't want no one to know they don't care if anyone knows they want to be between be between them two or herself or himself all right so not everyone's talking about just because you see it on social media all the time people trying to get clicks people trying to make money off of swinging and all that not everyone you know talks about so people do keep it underground and i still and it's still underground movement and all that oh it's everybody it's everybody danielle said By day, the Lincolnton is your quintessential small town.
Small, small southern town. Its main street is a constant motion lined by colorful storefronts. The steeples casting shadows over everything in between. But by night, there's a secret shared with a trusted few.
Hitting between the walls of a local a local hotel how many people in your life know what you do that you do this queen city asked danielle well as far as the vanilla side of my life none none know this she said today in broad daylight danielle is going is doing something only few in in a community do she is talking openly about her experience as a swinger oh there's the drama she's going to open up so right now for some reason she thinks it's a good good thing to open up about you know swinging and all that i don't know like i said i keep it quiet i don't think i keep everyone on breath i always give them like when i talk about my stories the people are the people names are changed and all that stuff i don't tell anyone's real name and shit like that uh because you know you just want to make sure they keep you know you keep that discreteness um uh amongst us and like i said i'm not into telling the whole world that you know other than this platform I don't know.
you keep that discreteness amongst us. And like I said, I'm not into telling the whole world that, you know, other than this platform, what I'm doing and all that, try to keep my, you know, self sane and all that, not going insane and all that. Everybody has different reasons. Actually, I can tell you, everybody has different reasons for me and my husband. It was just not that we weren't happy. It was more of what excitement can we add, she said. And that's a lot of people say that. I think a lot of people start out because it's going to be exciting and all that and all that great stuff.
And sometimes it keeps going. The momentum keeps going. And sometimes the momentum dies out and people leave the lifestyle. A lot of people do leave the lifestyle just because you're in the lifestyle. Don't mean you have to stay in the lifestyle forever. You can go out and, you know, decide the same for us. We ran its course. We're done. Hopefully it doesn't affect your relationship where you're in trouble. You go, you know, you break up a marriage, things like that and all that kind of stuff. But, you know, you know, be safe, guys.
Remember, once you open that that pandora's box it's going to be hard to get that pandora box shut again all right swinging is not a new concept it exploded in the u.s during world war ii the term wife swapping was introduced to describe a non-monogamous lifestyle danielle uses the term lifestyle to describe it and says despite the definition it much more than sex. And that's the number one reason why Americans fuck up swinging. It is all about sex nowadays. Maybe OK, maybe in World War Two. I'm going off to war, guys. Take care of my wife. Well, now there is no.
Well, you know, there's war somewhere. Is it something going on? A lot of our soldiers, a voluntary army, they go off to war, they come back. But a lot of people don't serve in the military anymore. A lot of the people that swing are not in the military. It is all about sex. It has evolved into being all about sex. And that's why the Europeans have it, right? Because, you know, you go to Europe, it's all about sex. They're not sitting, they're not busy trying to make connections and all that. They're trying to make connections with their penises and vaginas. I don't know.
And that's why the Europeans have it, right? Because, you know, you go to Europe, it's all about sex. They're not busy trying to make connections and all that. They're trying to make connections with their penises and vaginas. But they're not trying to make connections mentally and physically and all that stuff. Because they know the husband and wife, that's the person you're physically with. That's the person you're emotional. That's the person you had the feelings and the love for.
Well, here, now it seems like Americans want to have the love, the feelings, all love for we're here now it seems like americans want to have the love the feelings all that stuff with another group of people whereas i believe that really hurts a relationship because now you can catch feelings for someone else and all that so you know i might be wrong you know what there's nothing you know i might be wrong but i just feel like if i had a partner i don't want my partner being emotionally connected to someone else Thank you.
there's nothing you know i might be wrong but i just feel like if i had a partner i don't want my partner being emotionally connected to someone else i want her to be emotionally connected to me and me only if i were to define the lifestyle i would say that you are walking into a group of people that are probably going to find lifestyle lifetime friends who have zero expectations and probably think you are the hottest thing on earth. I mean, honestly, she said, okay, let's break that down. Yeah, you might meet lifetime friends. Good. Yep. That'd be great.
But, you know, does the friendship wear off? What if they stop swinging? Do you keep those friends when you stop swinging?
the most part group meetups are not random they are organized months in advance by a social club yes of course a lot of places don't have swinger clubs they have social clubs and all that stuff where you can go you know once a month they rent a vfw hall they rent a hall whatever they have a party now those are difficult to organize because you got to have someone dedicated because there's always something people always complaining about something something's going wrong they want they want this they want that like i said running a club swing a club you might think it's glamorous but in reality it is a lot of work and there's a lot of pain in the ass because you gotta remember one couple might like this but another couple might not like this and complain and bitch about it and all that stuff so you gotta you know you gotta really be able to keep people happy and be able to do that so if you're not a people person don't join don't try to start your club because it ain't gonna work out for you club organizers in the charlotte area who wanted to stay anonymous say they have over 1500 members and the number is growing yeah i want to see is that number growing uh because and how many of those 1500 people show up per year is it you have a new couple coming on saturday and they check it out and they never see them again are they considered members but I would like to see those numbers but you know it is what it is talk about the people that are in the club Queen City News asked the club organizer people anywhere from 25 years old to 75 years old you've got people that are looking for a place to go where they can totally dress the way they want in a safe environment I agree you want to be able to be you go to a swingers club it's probably the most safest place for a woman anywhere you go to a vanilla club you and your wife or your girlfriend dresses like she would at the swingers club there's gonna be problems and that's it's sad but that's just reality of it and you're going to have problems because you know guys other people women other women get jealous guys get horny and stuff and they look at your wife as a piece of meat but when you go to a swing club the woman is all in charge she's the one that decides everything nobody is going to judge them and meet like and meet like friends he said uh i hate it when we said we don't judge swingers judge we owe his judge come on to maintain immunity the club books are entire hotels couples from across the region show up mingle and then head their separate ways in the morning so basically it's a hotel takeover they do and all that stuff so okay privacy is key that that's why we do the entire hotel we won't do an event unless it's a hundred percent private and we do make guests sign waivers so you can't break confidentiality so if you do see your child's fifth grade teacher you can't say anything because you could ruin someone's life it is very private another organizer said i like that they do that but what stops if like i said the fifth grade teacher what stops a couple from outing their fifth grade teacher like is there penalties under law or something like that i want to know is there a law in charlotte or north Carolina despite the unspoken and in the written agreement to keep private meets um private meetups private swinging in north carolina might be more proper than you think literally i started with google search years ago danielle said researchers with joy love dolls looked at google analytics and found that for every 100 000 north carolinians 498 people inquire about swinging each month with a population of 10.7 million that's over 53,000 people showing at least some interest in the lifestyle a month we had preachers now whether or not that goes against what you believe i don't know but we had had preachers we've had people who go to the party on saturday night and go to church on sunday that works for them danielle said yeah that you see that all the time when you know people go to church and on sundays after they partied up in swingers club on a saturday night as a society monogamy has been ingrained in our culture or breaks that mold for some couples.
Queen City News asked licensed clinical mental health counselor, Dr. Cherie Johnson. From what we know is research and what we hear from those that we work with is not feeling satisfied in monogamy or wanting aspects of monogamy, but also feeling like there's other aspects of their lives that they are missing out on. She said so, you know what it could really be is what she's saying is some of these people got married really young. They never fucked around and now they want to fuck around plain and simple. I just broke it down for you. Let me repeat. The couple got married young.
Didn't fuck have many fuck partners before they got married, now they want to have some fun, and now they're going to start swinging. Good for them. It works, it works. In her career, Dr. Johnson has worked with several couples actively swinging or thinking about it. Pleasure and belonging are probably two of the most known ideals behind why people bring out swinging. But there are a lot of dynamics to what makes people decide what is something that they Thank you.
why people bring out swinging but there are a lot of dynamics to what makes people decide what is something that they want to do she said from her experience she says swing has had a variety of impacts on couples that has that she has worked with some thrive with a deeper understanding of trust and respect others fall fall apart. Yep, I tell that from day one. Swinging can enhance your marriage, it can keep your marriage the same, or it can destroy your marriage. Hopefully it enhances it or it keeps it the same. On an individual level, Dr.
Johnson says like anything that involves pleasure, too much can become addicting. I totally agree with Dr. Johnson. You see couples that are addicted to this lifestyle, that they're at the club every Friday, Saturday night, or they're at every hotel takeover. They live the lifestyle 24-7. And you know what? At one point in my life, I thought I was addicted to, or I think I'm addicted to it because, you know, I just got to, you know, separate family life from the swinging life and all that stuff.
So we have absolutely seen that there are individuals who can get into something like this and then really struggle to stop or struggle to find pleasure back into normalized situations because the level of pleasure that they are now experiencing.
They't know how to get any other way and that is a challenge dr johnson said yeah you see that you'll see a lot of in reddit you'll see where one of the partners wants to stop swinging and the other one wants to keep going and i was i found as weird is that the past couple ones i come upon have been from the male wanting to stop and the female wanting to keep playing so you know like I said you get that endorphins and like I said you get I'm trying to come up with a thing where it affects swingers I think I'm going to call it swinging delusional syndrome SDS swinger delusional syndrome and that's where you go to a club as a couple as a single woman and all that and everyone tells you how great you are how beautiful you are and you and you're thinking you're acting like you're a 10 you're a 10 out of 10 you're a perfect 10 but in reality the reality is that you're a six you know you know i and i and i know you if i think oh this is harsh this is rude you're just an asshole okay i'm an asshole for calling it out and saying you get delusional you know years and years think about a dog if you beat a dog all every single day from it's a puppy to you know it becomes an adult what happens to that dog that dog cowers it tucks his tail behind in between his legs and all that all the time same thing with you know with couples and single females and all that you're told that you're so beautiful you're awesome you start you know it sinks in your head and you start believing it now is there outliers yeah of course there's outliers that there are women out there that know that bullshit that the couples are just telling them how great they are because they want to fucking fuck them you know you got those couples and all that so you know you you got some girls like that that know that and it's and that's good they should know that but i'm calling it swinger delusional syndrome okay still she says the number one topic brought up in sessions with swinger clients is shame and the thought process of being exposed.
Yeah, a lot of bullshit. I think your secrecy is people with normal jobs and normal lives not wanting people to know their lifestyle because sadly, that's who judges. Daniel said, Daniel, I have a disagree with you.
I everybody judges swingers will judge you everything everybody judges you there ain't no difference between vanilla and the swinger lifestyle with judgment because everyone judge in the 6.5 years that daniela has been part of the lifestyle she says she has gained more friendships than anything else good i'm glad she has good you need friends the amount of trust and respect you have in your partner to be able to do this is immersed and if you have an ounce of jealousy in you that's not going to work for you but if you don't and you can do this and have fun together you just flourish she said lincolnton like many other small towns in the carolinas has a secret one is not in broad daylight no longer hidden in the shadow all right so yeah jealousy is it rears his head you know and every couple was going to go through jealousy it's just a matter of time it might not happen today might not happen tomorrow happen a year from now.
But jealousy always comes around because you know what? Something's going to happen and the hubby's not going to like it. The wife's not going to like it. And they're going to get jealous. Maybe you're spending too much time talking to one female, guys, and not paying attention to your wife anymore. Stuff like that. It's enlightening, Daniel said.
All right right and i think that's it so what do you think are there any comments no there ain't no comments no there ain't no comments in here all to it so what do you think you think swinging is popping getting more and more popular i do believe so i think swinging is becoming really popular uh and all that stuff and you know reasons being because of the introduction of social media movies now you know they do the whole uh swinging is great thing and all that stuff i just wish they would in the movies and social media they would portray it the correct way they whenever you see a swinger scene with a couple they're having a threesome or forcing the swapping it's always two hot couples really good looking couples not a body not an ounce of body fat on either man or woman but if you ever go to a swearing club you know it's all the majority is mom bods dad bods 30 40 50 60 year olds i see some 20 year olds get into this and they're always bitch about why where's all the young people at i go swinging is not a young person's uh thing you know swinging is mostly for you know the couples that been around 20 years 10 15 20 years together and they develop the bond and all that stuff and they want to explore their sexuality uh more so that's what you get a lot from and i'm just you know and it's it's frustrating because they get frustrated because there's no young not any more young people and i go well you just got the weight don't worry about it young cats you're going to get day, too.
So you're going to have that awesome problem where you'll be finding a lot of people your age and all that stuff. So you never know. But anyways, let's go to Reddit. I know I'm not going to spend a lot of time today. Remember to shave your cock and balls, gentlemen. Go to swingingsinglepodcast.com to check out all things they see.
So we go to reddit my reddit my reddit then the swingers edition is it totally crazy to think single guy and a single woman could go to couples resorts together i do not in fact it probably happens a lot i'm a 52 year old semi-retired professional give a stat 6-1 180 pounds about nine months out of a 10-year relationship not looking for anything serious right now and not into dating apps get into those dating apps are fun but i've been reflecting on an experience i had years back that stuck with me my ex and i once went to desire and even though we didn't hard swap i really enjoyed the sexual energy freedom and the vibe of the place.
It was a lasting impression. Lately, I've been wondering, is it totally unrealistic to think that a single man and a single woman who aren't in a relationship could connect and go to a lifestyle-friendly resort together? Of course. It happens all the time. I take people I barely know to a lifestyle hotel and all that stuff, resort.
it's fun go out and enjoy yourself don't worry about if you're a couple or not you don't have to listen you don't owe anyone there at the resort your life story make up shit who cares going you two go and enjoy it you know we don't know how long we got on this planet so enjoy it i know these places are for couples, but I've seen posts here and elsewhere that make me think it might not be completely unheard of. Once again, it's none of their fucking business who, if you're, what your marital status is.
Remember, you gotta remember, I, there was a time when I had new couples that would not fuck with another couple that was not married. Today, if you did that, you had that philosophy, you limit yourself because a lot of couples are not married anymore. They decide not to get married, but they're committed to each other. They just don't want the paper or whatever reason. So, you know, you don't owe them anything. That's all I'm saying. Has anyone done something like that? Gone with the travel partner rather than a romantic one? Yes. And it's fucking, it's a great time because you know what?
Not only do I get to have fun. She's my wingman. I'm her wingman. You know, we both help each other out and there's nothing. We don't have to sit there and say, ask, can we do this? Can we do that? You know, I take care of her. I make sure the men are treating her properly.
The women treating her properly you know and all that stuff and it's fun for us if you're a single woman is that something you even consider i'm sure uh actually i've seen one on tinder uh today that she was looking for a date to desire for august i imagine expectation and boundaries would have to be super clear beforehand but the idea of sharing that kind of experience with someone new is a dream yeah you got to definitely say hey are we going to play together what are we doing and i would recommend that you do go with someone that you do have a sexual relationship with because i think it will just make it all better for you and all that and it'll make it easier for you to hook up with other people if that's what you solely seek i realize it sounds a little ideal idealistic maybe even naive but figure this was the right place to ask here's to hear what everyone else and you know what not one fucking person responded look at that oh wait a minute yeah they did so why can't i see the response yeah oh oh here we go yes but it's rude to go into couples only era and not act and then act like a single okay uh if he's got one more time he's not a single guy and you know what and dude 15 inches guess what even though they're married some dudes act like single guys that wouldn't be the plan ideally we would connect the other couples play together yeah uh most people have covered it but i'll put my two put two or more popular responses together here yes it happens uh bring her with a play partner okay whatever and all that sure if you know a single woman looking good looking good for a travel companion for this ask her no.
No one will stop you. Yeah, just have fun. Like I said, boo, boo, just go out and have fun. All right. Now, remember when I was talking about the wife wanting, one of the partners wanted to stop swinging? The other wanted to swing? Oh, in Detroit, messed that up. That's bad, bad feeling.
All right, anyways, let's get back to swinging the sex wife wants to swing i and i'm unassured my wife has been asking me to go to a club with our two friends a couple part of me wants to do it but i am nervous the other girl her friend is insanely hot uh-oh like instagram model type so yeah i like to smash her but i am still unsure about it i'm like okay with swinging but i'm nervous which then makes me want not want to do it just in the wear spot right now yeah you're gonna be in a wear spot for a while because you know i don't like i always have a thing friends you shouldn't mix your vanilla friends your friends that you have outside with your friends that you swing with because it just makes things complicated now you know there's people out there will say well we have our best friends are the ones we swing with okay yeah but what happens when you stop swinging or what happens when someone crosses a boundary now you have to fucking burn that bridge um if you're still unsure of it don't do it just tell her no i you know we can go together to a club but not with them or anything like that now your wife might not want to go to a club because your girlfriend who's insanely hot is not going so who knows so you just really got to figure it out what you want do you want to swing uh you want to smash your friends your wife's friend because she's insanely hot now are you going to be okay with someone smashing your wife from an insanely well-endowed male that might have a bigger penis than you ask yourself that if you're okay with her fucking another dude, then ahead but if you're not stay the fuck out of swinging all right don't do it because you're just gonna ruin it ah let's see what else we got okay comparison versus cuck where's the line my wife and i have been enjoying the lifestyle for two to three years one of the expressions that was fascinating to us which we had never heard before it was comparison the idea that we could take pleasure in our partner's pleasure even when we are not directly involved sounded very mind-blowing especially after 35 years of marriage where most of all our pleasure had been together once we started playing we both experienced comparison for each other and it added beauty excitement to our experiences my comparison for her started quickly as hers has grown towards me through time we have grown to close close to be close to another couple when i see my wife with the other my thoughts have grown from simply enjoying her deep, her deep and pleasure to imagine how my life feels for the other husband.
And I will have some feelings of envy that he is feeling her instead of me and also feelings of rejection, which oddly all strike me in a positive way.
the same time i experienced these emotions i enjoy the emotion and movements and sounds my wife makes as she gives while she receives so my question is where is the line drawn between comparison and cook curious what your emotions are and how do you find all right it stops because you're not being degraded a cook will be told he's not good enough for you the wife will say you got a small cock the bull will also say tell you're not a man and stuff like that that's the difference that's where comparison is not anything like that it's not even close i don't i it might be close to it but it's not curious what your emotions are and how you define it my i just define a cuck as someone who, you know, small endowment, can't pleasure his wife, and all that stuff.
So, I don't know. But that's pretty one, self-explanatory, pretty easy. Now, let's see. And the last one, yeah, we got to get out of here. This is going to be a short one, less than 40 minutes. Bait and switch hot wife, question mark.
This weekend this weekend my girlfriend i met another couple at a lifestyle event they were older than us probably by about 20 years oh no but the wife was really interested in me and they seemed fun we agreed to meet up later and did all conversations prior was about them connecting with other couples male female males etc how they're interested in unicorns but are impossible to find where they live etc nothing's impossible to find you just gotta be able to go about the right way of finding a unicorn so the night seemed fine the wife and i got on great and whenever i glanced over at my girlfriend and the husband they seemed to be enjoying themselves also well it turns out afterwards that wasn't the case my girlfriend tells me that the husband didn't seem interested in her at all couldn't get hard we don't judge totally understand and that she spent a lot of time working on him to get him hard i guess every whatever i saw her blowing him that was what was in her mouth was soft he went down on her a little but not much but she said this his attention was on me and his wife the entire time uh what could have happened there was you're if if they're 20 years younger maybe he got intimidated by that the fact that he's someone probably his daughter age it could have been that uh you know and it could have been that he was drinking too much and he can't get hard some guys can't get hard because they drink too much things like that and he is 20 years older than you so maybe he needed some viagra so when i finished on his wife he showed up out of nowhere hard as a rock and came on her also after after they left my girlfriend told me all of this and honestly we feel as though we were deceived into hot wife situation it's hard to say yes no okay i'm gonna say i'll be devil's advocate no you weren't because the guy was your wife was bobby hot and he just couldn't perform because he was so nervous about fucking said wife now could it possible they bait and switched you yeah and I don't understand why the guy if there's that experience in the lifestyle I don't I would think they would say hey we uh I just want your husband to fuck my girl we can watch what I don't have anything to do with you and I don't think that's what's happened I think he just couldn't get his dick up and it just made everything suck for your wife and all that stuff so I don't know I refrain from sending a nasty text on the I'll see you next time.
just couldn't get his dick up and it just made everything suck for your wife and all that stuff so i don't know i refrain from sending a nasty text on the off chance that we misunderstood or these girlfriend theories but the wife is maybe being forced into this a bit i don't know we're not sure what to make of this but it feels wrong has anyone experienced this before how do you deal with it have i experienced this before uh yeah i took a girl to tpc found a couple wanted a couple to fuck my girl and it was only him that fucked the wife sat there didn't watch didn't get undressed and all that stuff so you know it is what it is edit i'll add that maybe we should have seen this coming when we were talking with them we asked if they kept in touch with couples they've been with and they said not really all right they said they were into hot wife but there was no discussion and that's what we would be doing in fact we discussed that we really like a group dynamic and everyone doing everything with each other and there was no opposition to that but your girl your wife had his cock in your mouth and he was eating her out so i don't know like i said some things just turn guys on some things don't now when you are 20 years later give me a call see if your cock still works like it used to all right and it's tough it really is tough and all that stuff so you know you just got to be patient you know just take it you got the fuck his wife it sucks that your wife got left out of out of it but you know what there's gonna come times when guess what you're gonna be left out of it and your wife is gonna get all the fun so just wait for that time and you'll see how you react and this will just be a distant memory all right with that i'm going to take off i'm getting out of here been 35 minutes of my bullshit so remember go to the swinging single podcast.com go to swinging single podcast at gmail.com to email me come on people email me take a conversation there's people listening for how long i don't know but anyways remember gentlemen to shave your cock and balls don't do anything stupid and keep on swinging and i'll see you on the swing club We'll be right back.
I don't want to stop it, the way that we're rocking, yeah, you, you got me, you got me feeling good tonight. In a haze at our face, but I see you all clearly, come right here, take my hand.
