Join host AC Maxwell for another exhilarating episode of The Swinging Single Podcast, where nothing is off-limits and everything is explored with unapologetic candor. In today's episode, AC recounts his electrifying Friday night at a swingers bar, offering an intimate glimpse into the world of adult play and sensual exploration.Alongside his captivating storytelling, AC provides invaluable advice sourced from Reddit users on navigating the intricacies of the swinging lifestyle. Delve into topics such as dealing with wife poachers, understanding the desires of wives who want to halt their participation, embracing the allure of sexy BBWs, and the exhilaration of experiencing a first MFM encounter.Prepare to be both enlightened and entertained as AC Maxwell fearlessly delves into the intimate and thought-provoking aspects of the swinging world, offering guidance, uncovering insights, and embracing the complexities of human desire.Tune in to The Swinging Single Podcast with AC Maxwell for an unfiltered look at the world of adult play and relationships.swingingsinglepodcast.comswingingsinglepodcast@gmail.com
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welcome to the swing and single podcast i'm your host ac maxwell and today coming to you live from the upside down pineapple studios here in the heart of texas we got some swing club talk and we got some reddit advice reddit has been lit this past week and there's a lot of people that need my advice out there that they need help and here ac i'm here to help and you know that's what i do all the time i help everybody out to get them the fun things that they need what they can do stuff like that where they can go how to get that sexy third for a partner or swap with couples that's what i'm here for and that's what the reddit readers need because there's really some messed up stuff going on so get a bottle of lube gentlemen get some tissues ladies remember to sit on your man's face squirt over it make him a waterfall make him a place where you sit down uh and if you're two ladies well 69 each other eat that pussy at the same time so get back sit back relax and get ready for the swinging single podcast with your host ac maxwell the swinging single podcast with host ac maxwell is intended for entertainment and educational purposes only the opinions views and content expressed or shared on the podcast are solely those of the host ac maxwell and any featured guests or contributors and do not necessarily represent those of the podcasts's affiliates, sponsors, advertisers, or partners.
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Thanks forever to get to game bird on sls stream must be having a lot of good all right we're gonna get right into it because you, there's a lot of help And I don't want to be here forever It's Friday night here in the great state of Texas A lot of sex going on A lot of fucking humping and all that great stuff Remember, gentlemen, shave your cock and balls But first, remember, before you shave your cock and balls Go to swingingsinglepodcast.com Check out all things AC where It's going to Las Vegas. You know, my annual Memorial Day weekend trip to Las Vegas is coming up pretty soon.
I'm very excited about that. Hopefully hit up their zombie-fested green door and all that stuff, so you never know what's going to happen. You never know. If you're going to be on Las Vegas, hit me up. Go to swingandsinglepodcast.gmail.com. Maybe we can meet up.
Maybe we can do we could do a podcast together who would that be exciting for all of us and everybody who is uh going to be out there so if you're out in vegas the memorial day weekend come say hello and hang out with me i'll be at whispers doing new shaking my cock and all that great stuff anyways today we're going to talk about my trip to lovely lovely colettes uh on a friday night and what fun i had there and we're and i've been noticing reddit has been lit up with a lot of shit you know they got wife wants to stop playing the first plan male female male threesome wife wife poaching you know wife poachers are the worst people on the planet i'm going sorry i'm sorry to say single men are not the worst wife poachers are the worst people uh and stuff like that you know We'll be right back.
White poaching, you know, white poachers are the worst people on the planet. I'm sorry. I'm sorry to say single men are not the worst. White poachers are the worst people and stuff like that. You know, we got two of those white poacher stories to tell you. But anyways, let's get into it. So it's Friday night last week and, you know, got stuff. I do my little podcast and I decide what I'm going to do and all that great stuff.
And I decided to go out to, uh what did you call it go to colette's you know usually my usual friday stomping stomping grounds you know and i get there you know uh like always early and no no maybe i didn't get there i think i got there yeah i got there around 10 you know it wasn't early i actually got there an hour later so you know it's pretty good and all that stuff walk in there's a good crowd there's a supposed there's a supposed meet and greet there so that's also good so you know i kind of come to it where you know whenever there's a meet and greet uh i'm going to be going you know colette's but friday night's probably gonna be staying away from colette's you know and all that stuff.
Anyways, so I go there, give them my money and all that great stuff, you know, check in, show the ID, everything. Got my briefcase, my satchel of condoms, lube and all that stuff in, Troy Trees where I can clean up and all that. You always should clean up in between partners, guys.
Don't be going from partner to partner with your dirty dick sticking in because, know all that stuff so i go there hang out there's a lot of people there i met some other there's another dude there that had stinky breath but that's all right uh not a lot of people talking you know just people walking around having a good time you know you know it's a couple couples there uh so i hang it out go back into the room go back to the porn room watch the porn you know funny thing about colette's is that they never seems to never change the damn porn it seems like it's the same porn run over and over and over again so in a year from now i'll probably go there and it's the same damn porn going there and all that great stuff so you know try to change the porn you know once in a while something in the mood if it's a hot wife night have it where there's girls getting gang banged and shit like that don't do anything stupid where you know you're having you know couple on couple do the hot wife do us a favor get those hot wives all hot and bothered and get them going and all that stuff anyways so i'm back in there watching minding my own business and you know uh a friend of mine i know was there she you know we meet her played a little bit and you know all that stuff she was looking like ziggy stardust she had like fucking the makeup plastered on her face like it was unreal it's like i would have to take a chisel to get the makeup off of her and all that stuff and i'm not that big on makeup or anything like that excuse me and i don't know why she's she's a fairly attractive woman i don't know why she put so much makeup on but she looked like ziggy stardust you know the guy david bowie back in the 70s and all that and it was quite amazing sight to see but anyways you know we had a little fun and all that stuff and and we're done and i'm in the back and i'm sitting there in the back where the porno is playing and she says i'm gonna go back to the bathroom i'm gonna go clean up i'll I'll be back well you know she never came back actually when i left i saw in the parking lot smoking a cigarette another and that's kind of a turnoff for me nowadays is smoking cigarettes you know smoke a damn what do they call it a vape or whatever but jesus christ you know smoking cigarettes i can't believe people are still smoking cigarettes today but okay whatever to each their own so she's over there smoking i and i saw her i said goodbye and all that stuff i'll see you when i see her so i go uh to back so i'm sitting in the back room waiting for her to get back because i thought she was going to come back so she never comes back anyway so i'm sitting there by myself one couple comes in a you know nice looking woman short here real short here Thank you.
in the back room waiting for her to get back because i thought she was going to come back so she never comes back anyway so i'm sitting there by myself one couple comes in a you know nice looking woman short here real short here um gentlemen sitting they sit in the front couch in front of me i'm in all the way in the back of the back couch and i'm just sitting there hey and just no doing nothing just hanging out i'm not bothering anybody not jacking off or anything they you know and they start playing a little bit you know i can't really see what's going on because I'm in the back and that chair in the back is broken you're sink down you're almost like squatting and all that pretty much in that back couch there's no big deal another couple comes in a beautiful Latina couple or Latina woman comes in she's in her garter belt stocking stong she's in her lingerie and he's looking fucking hot and they're sitting over watching and all that stuff and they decide to sit now usually what they would do usually what couples usually do is they'll sit away from any single male you know they don't do that but not this particular time i'm sitting there by myself the rest of the couch is full all couches are three-person couches which should be the norm in a swingers club but hey whatever and she sits next to me sits down and they both sit down next to me and they just proceed to she goes down on him sucking his cock and doing all that stuff she he's not doing nothing to her it's just she knows she's getting the the full uh it's a full thing you know it's like a full uh nothing's going around all right anyways i'm having a flashbacks to friday it was a good friday night for me anyways so i go i'm just sitting there watching enjoying you know and they invite me to play with them and she goes over there pulls down my pants and starts sucking on me and all that stuff and she's doing a decent job now i'm gonna be i'm gonna be honest she wasn't at best at a cock sucking but you know it is what it is so you know i just have to be smart about it and all that stuff anyways so she's going down on me give me a blow job i'm feeling good can't believe happening because, you know, a lot of times this doesn't happen.
It's just, you know, me by myself. So anyways, so she's doing it on the cock. The couple that was in front of me now is sucking the husband. Is now getting his cock sucked by her now. I'm like, oh, that's awesome. Good. So he's busy.
Maybe we'll start fucking in a minute and all that stuff and after a while i kind of got bored i'm gonna be honest i got bored because it just wasn't that her cock sucking skills were not up to par uh you know don't get me wrong i'm not gonna kick her out of the bed i'm gonna you know help out but anyways so she goes back over to her husband starts sucking him off some more and all that stuff and, you know, taking a break, watching. And I got my cock out. And then the couple on the couch, she signals me over and she wants me to suck his – she wanted to suck my cock and I let her do it.
She was a lot better at sucking dick, sucking cock. I'm going to tell you that right now. She made me cum. It didn't take that take that long but you know and she swallowed all the whole load husband wanted her was talking to her talk about suck that cock take that load suck it all suck it clean and all that stuff and then she did a really good job and the other the latina girl me and her were talking she's like hey is a good night for you i go yeah it's good night two nuts's pretty good, and all that great stuff. And it was late. It was midnight.
So, you know, as a single guy, you get two nuts off on a Friday night where there's not a lot of people. That's a win. That's a big win there. You know, a lot of guys sit there. They don't have no patience. They don't know what to do and stuff like that. One guy was sitting over there staring at us and all that stuff.
I wave him i go you know see you know see what you know happens you never know get that cock out maybe you got a nice big dick and she wants some of that or she doesn't want any of it you just don't know so you know whip it out do whatever and he's getting his cock sucked by the same woman the couple that was in front of me so that was great so she was servicing the men in the room at the time uh i and i finally decide you know i gotta go to the bathroom i got piss and all that to clean up get my baby wipes clean off the dick and everything make sure there's no residual anything there get the dirt out get get the germs off and all that stuff and i don't see my friend anywhere so like i said I didn't I didn't stay around too much longer I took off and left like I said after two nuts you know it's kind of like ah you got to go anyways so you know I leave I'm walking out to the parking lot and there's Ziggy Stardust there sitting smoking her cigarette and all that stuff and I told her go back in it was like a lot of fun you know I think the problem is is that she is an older woman and she is overlooked a lot and the funny thing about that i want to i saw something on tiktok and i want to you know i'm gonna play it if i could find it i wonder if i did it and it's like one of those things i always talked about in the lifestyle that the older you get You become invisible almost and all that.
So let me see if I saved it. I don't know if I did. I hope I did. Oh, yeah, I did save it. So, you know, let me see how I could just play it out loud. So, like I said, my friend is older. She's probably in her 50s. Not bad looking, but not also good looking either. She's like an in-betweener. And I always feel bad for her because she always wants to play. She's a real core. She wants the fucking dick. She wants pussy. And we were trying to get her pussy. Like I said, it's hard to get pussy. You know?
It really is sometimes to get pussy pussy is really hard sometimes and even for couples especially if you're just looking for a woman to fuck and for her it's even probably harder because you know the looks are not what they were when they're 20 and all that stuff and people turn into invisible eveners' lifestyle, older we get, the more invisible we can get. Like a lot of people are saying, no, that's not true. You can become, you know, you're still attractive and all that. They go, well, no, because you know what? Older we get, the more invisible we get.
I'm talking about when I was young, shit. You know, I would always get to be the first one in. You the first one in. First one to email, first one to call. Now, I'm lucky if I get a call. You look at the ads, young, hung, and tall. Well, that's not me anymore, so I can't really do anything. So it's one of those things where you just got to accept it.
And I don't think in the Swinger Lifestyle we accept accept a lot of stuff but this woman talks about how she's 57 years old and she feels like she's invisible and this is what i feel for my my single older swinger females i feel bad for them sometimes because even in the swinger lifestyle yes it happens people do see become less because i have a lot of older 50 year old women are beautiful like i think they're beautiful but yet no one talks to them when they go to a club like why the fuck would you not want to talk to pussy's the same fucking that good pussy still it's probably still a good pussy you know i don't know but anyways let's listen to what she has to say maybe you agree maybe you disagree as we get older let me tell you a short story of how i first experienced this so i'm 57 now this was probably when i was about 55 i was walking through a mall and all of a sudden i just got this weird sense that nobody saw me i just was there and i was walking looking at stores and looking at people and different things but nobody was looking at me and all of a sudden it occurred to me oh people used to look at me I mean men used to look at me um you know even women would notice me and all of a sudden I just felt like I wasn't relevant anymore like I didn't really matter and nobody noticed me And it was the weirdest, emptiest feeling.
I felt overwhelmed with a feeling of sadness and depression. It occurred to me I wasn't as outwardly, I guess, vibrant and attractive as I used to be, if that's what I was. But that's what it felt like.
i felt like i just kind of faded into the woodwork like i wasn't that special and nothing was really you know nobody's really noticing me i was just kind of there neutral yeah so that's what my friend is experiencing right now that she's struggling to find women to play with and decent men to play with also she can go out you can go out find a lot of dick at a swingers club actually you know what i don't know i don't i have to take that back i don't know if you can because these guys sit there they all want even the ugliest dude that walks in thinks he's going to get the hottest chick in the plant on in the club i don't know what reality these guys live in but you know like the stinky breath guy good guy like i you know i love talking to him i'll hang out with him again if ever comes up but he's got to take a fucking brush his teeth or take a breath minute or whatever but he was in there and all the women he was you know like not bad-mouthing but he's like oh that ain't good i don't really care about that i'm like you know you're here to get laid you're about to be married you know you you want to go out you said you want to go out and explore before you get married do this now who cares what they look like and you know he had an excuse for everything so you know even the good look even the ugliest dudes think they're hot in this lifestyle for some odd reason i don't know you gotta look at your work i got like when i do i look at my worth i'm five foot eight 160 pounds six inch cock i got a fucking little tiny gut i'm not fucking the adonis you know i'm not young anymore i'm 48 i got salt and pepper hair all that stuff so you know what i have to understand the hottest looking The woman in the club may not be looking for me because she's got other hot young studs trying to bang her and shit like that so the lady talking was talking about how she felt invisible now because the older she gets and that is so true and that's my friend when i took her to the club no one was really paying attention to.
They weren't looking. Maybe because she looked like Ziggy Stardust, you know, with the makeup and everything. And a lot of the girls, all the girls didn't have really a lot of makeup on, so that was pretty good. But, you know, the dress she was wearing was not that great. It wasn't flattering for her figure. She has a nice figure. And she doesn, she will, she'll wear skin tight, not skin, like dresses that are more skin tight, not floppy out, look like a like she's pregnant or anything like that, like a maternity dress or anything like that.
But, you know, you gotta that's something she has to wear that we all have to wear. There's gonna become a time where we're becoming irrelevant and, you know, hopefully it doesn't hit everybody See you next time.
time where we're becoming irrelevant uh and you know hopefully it doesn't hit everybody as bad as everyone else but you know you never know i don't know you just do what you got to do and see what happens because you never know what's going to happen and all that great stuff so hopefully she went back oh she was walking back in when i was leaving the parking lot and all that stuff so hopefully she went back in had some fun i don't know if she hooked up with any women she hasn't called me hasn't text uh i haven't texted or anything like that usually anytime i see her if we do hit end up at the same club uh which is you know once a month maybe once every other month and stuff like that but that was my night so like i said i had a good night she might have not had a good night but hey you know she came with me so she squirted and the other thing is she says she squirts a lot and she says she's embarrassed about that i'm like listen you can't be embarrassed by shit like that if you're going to embrace this lifestyle man embrace it just enjoy the fun that it's gonna bring you know if you squirt you square on someone, fuck, you know what?
It's collateral damage, baby. If they don't like it, fuck it. Next man up, next woman up, all right? But that's my Friday night, and unfortunately, I'm not going to go tonight because there's never, ever back-to-back nights at Colette's that are good.
You know, you have to wait a week or two to go back anyway so that was my awesome weekend now we have to talk about reddit and over this past week i reddit has been blown up with questions and questions about a lot of shit and i just can't believe some of the stuff that's happening and all that stuff and you know what i gotta talk about it all right so wife wants to stop playing oh that's already in trouble but hey you know let's see what it says i 55 male white 49 female not back into the lifestyle not back into the lifestyle we have done a few mfms a couple times she has played alone when we got back into the lifestyle we made boundaries it was supposed to be joint fine meaning she was supposed to find a woman or a couple to play with so now she got her fantasy out of the way and she wants to stop should i go out alone or just stop okay well for one is that part of your boundaries is she okay opening up your relationship and then you have fun and she doesn't she got it out of her system she didn't like it obviously because if she liked it she probably would want to stay in it but she probably doesn't like it for whatever reasons i don't know what your wife looks i don't know what the looks i don't know the uh whole her whole situation with her body you know she might have body uh issues uh issues and all that so i don't know her whole situation with her body.
You know, she might have body issues and all that. So I don't know. So you got to figure out your boundaries. What is it okay with her that you play with other people and all that stuff? Because if she's okay with it, then you can keep doing it. I have no problem.
No one should have no fucking problem with that because guess what it's not your life people i know a lot of couples go if he's about playing he's cheating oh she don't know listen hit a couple's personal life is none of your damn business i don't know why we want to get in people's business who can i like i said when i go take a girl to the club i'm not fucking i give a shit if the guy is married or not. It's not my problem. My problem is making sure that girl has the best time of her life. That's my only problem. Alright? I don't understand these couples.
They all want to get up in your business. Listen. If you read Reddit, you will know it's probably not a good idea to mix emotions in this. This is just sex. Swinging is just for sex. Swinging is sticking your dick into another woman's pussy and having another man stick his dick inside your pussy. That's all it's about. You fuckers are messing it up when you want to put your feelings into it. This is not dating. Stop it with this dating rhetoric and all that shit because you're just hurting yourself. Alright?
So, but if she's okay with it keep doing it buddy and you don't have to tell no one no one if you want to tell people you're married and she don't want to do it it sucks that she doesn't want to do it anymore but that's just her now if you need to do it i don't know what are your fans tell her your fantasies tell us you want to have two girls at once and once that's out of your system you'll be done you know you're 55 man there's time there's a time for you to grow up and be a man and say okay it's not my life you know what you could also do try to see she'd be into nudism because she might like enjoy being going around tanning nude going to nude resorts and stuff like that and you guys can still have fun but just have fun together see there's a lot of alternatives have fun together go to a club together and don't fuck anybody tell her that i take a lot of girls and we never put we never fuck around with anybody we just fuck each other because it's just hot and hot and sexy people get turned on watching other other people fuck.
All right. So that's one. All right. Not much I can say. Actually, let's go see what other people say. See if anyone says anything. Based on your post history, it looks like you need to work on your marriage before you worry about swinging. Yep. I told you, if you have found cracks in your foundation, you're going to break and it's going to be gone.
Hey, you need to fix your own house before you deal with getting involved with other couples swinging is amazing for couples that are completely grounded and singles you forgot to put singles in there and have concrete sound foundation yep uh you should stop you know before you you knew that before you posted worry were you expecting people to tell you to go at it alone like i said If you are going at it alone Make sure she knows about it Don't fucking be doing it behind her back If she knows about it, that's fine But anything You know, I don't know Like I said Swingers are very judgy people I had one couple on TikTok say Swingers we know.
I go, bullshit. I go, they're most judgmental. They judge you all the time based on your looks and everything that they're going to fuck you or not. So yeah, swingers are the most judgmental people. When I go out to a vanilla bar, I'm not judging everybody saying, hey, yeah, he's going to fuck my girl. No, I'm not. Cause it's not, that's not the right place. Swinger club is. So swingers are more judgy than vanilla people. Let's see what else. If you two agree with you going out solo, I hope you realize the mountain that is ahead of you. Of course. It always sucks to be a single guy.
Being that, you will be viewed as just another single dude. Yeah, you're going to be a single dude. You got no pussy. Even if you got a couple and your guy goes by himself, he's going to be a single dude.
So, know does she want you both to stop you know what that's another thing he didn't put she might want to stop but she might not care about if he keeps going out some women are just like that they're just not they're pretty much asexual you know if i got in a relationship and i was married and i'm a 50 year old man and my wife is asexual where we don't have sex, she's not interested in sex with anybody, even someone else, I would be like, fuck, a man needs sex, a woman needs sex, unless she's asexual. But if it's the truth that he's just horny, I don't know, man.
He's got to do what he's got to do. Going solo would like to be kind of tough if you aren't putting yourself into the right situations. Of course. I haven't tried the whole app hell, but from what I've heard, it can be a bit of a bloodbath. Like I always say, it's a bloodbath for couples, single women, and single guys. Stop it with the fucking.
If you have a club in your area or within driving distance, go to that and enjoy the time there don't worry about the apps you're not gonna find anything there it's all just fakes and flakes and she doesn't mind you going out alone i don't see the problem at all i guess the question is more will you enjoy it as much as you're on your own i enjoy it a lot on my own but also not a fucking moron and I don't sit there and just whack my dick in front of a couple that I have no clue that are the end to it. You know, that shit has to be preserved for a win.
All right, let's talk about more single guys, but in a good way. First plan MFM. Hi, friends. My husband and I are starting to plan our first MFM with someone we've played with before at a lifestyle resort. All right. This time feels different. More planning the play versus spontaneous play. Yeah, a lot of couples want the spontaneous plays. And I'm going to tell you, the best play is always the spontaneous play. The shit that you don't expect to happen happens. So I prefer spontaneous play.
That's why, you know, even the apps suck because, you know, you're meeting, you know what you're going to do. We're planning to book an Airbnb. Any advice on how to get play started? Hmm. Well, drop to your knees, pull down his pants, and put your mouth on his cot. That's a good way to do it. Try a sexy board game. Strip poker, strip twister, whatever. Do a game, you know? We've heard stories of single guy getting hit there after we've already started to play. Well, I don't know what the fuck that means.
So that means, like, the guy gets there, the couple's playing, and the guy finally shows up. Those are the guys you don't fuck with because, you know, if a couple tells me, AC, you need to be here at 8, I'll be there at 7.55. I'm always early. I'm not late. If I'm going to be late, I tell them. I'll text them because you never know. Traffic, whatever. Babysitter issues, whatever. But I never say I'm going to show up and I never show up or I'm going to show up and I'm always going to be late. If I'm with my partner, we say, hey, we're at the hotel. Like say we're in Vegas. We're at the hotel.
Hey, come to our room.
And two hours two hours later you come guess what you're not fucking my girl because you disrespected us by saying our time is not viable while your time is more valuable than us all right and god only knows what you're doing fucking another couple whatever so there are guys that will do that they'll show up you know they know when people start fucking this is like in houston everyone starts fucking after 12 all the fucking creepy dudes start showing up at 12 because that's when they start fucking they do the single mail walk they go from the they pay their interest fee and they go straight to the back of the room they go to see if anyone's fine the single mail walk and all that stuff so you do have those type of guys and if you do end up with one of those type of guys just calmly tell them to leave we're not interested uh and all that now this is a play partner you played with before so you should be more at ease and more comfortable saying being open communication hey we don't know what to do we have never done play plan play we'd always done spontaneous play maybe you guys should go out to a bar or dinner go have dinner she wears a nice skirt dress no panties you know you pick him up or he drives or whatever you get done with dinner you know you two slip in the back while hubby drives and you sit on him or eat your pussy or do something.
You know, something like that. Think of, you know, try to be creative as much as you want. Hello, tall. I'm Baird. I'm from Houston. How you doing, tall? And all that stuff. So, you know, can you hear me? Okay.
and all that stuff so you know can you hear me okay anyways so you know there's things you could do dice games stuff like that so you know it might be could be spontaneous but you know go out to dinner check it out have a good time and you know don't worry too much you know you get it you're to get into your head too much and it's going to be a shitty experience and you're not going to like the plan play because plan play is fun too it's just that you know the best experiences i always had the most i love was the spontaneous ones were here i'm by myself i'm no one was talking to me and all of a sudden i'm knee deep and pussy and I'm out of bed with five girls five guys and we're all fucking and having a great time yada so you know those are the best times anyways let's see what else we got so that's his first plan let's see what anyone says this is how we do them we start playing we don't start playing before the other guy shows up yeah that's what's what you want to do.
Usually we just create a sandwich out of the wife and start kissing her. All right, cool. My partner usually makes it quite obvious when she wants to start playtime, yeah. But you got to remember, some women are not good at doing that because they're just intimidated by that. They you know, how to say things and stuff like that. So I don't know. Uh, intimidation is big. You know, you gotta be very careful and all that stuff. So, uh, so you always gotta know the lady, the couple that's there. Is she comfortable with being the fire starter? Some people are not. Uh, let's see what else they got.
By the time we get together for the main event we can't keep our hands off each other no one has to start anything it's happening when they walk through the door yeah that's true too you know you should be able to if there's a real connection there there's real something there you can find something there and you'll have fun all right so just you know go with it go with the flow you know don't be scared to put your hand down his pants or whatever just go for it now another serious this is a very serious topic that we got to talk about because a lot of pieces of shit out there a lot of couples are pieces of shit out there and you know this is the problem that a lot of them have uh because of the fact that, you know, they just can't control themselves.
They talk shit about single guys, how we're horrible human beings, we're creepy. But then we have these couples that are what I call wife poachers. Those are guys, couples that, you know, they'll meet another couple and they'll try to get the couple, the female out of the couple away from the husband to do what they want. And I'm seeing more and more of this on SDC when I see couples have, they have an ad. They're looking for hot wife couples, cuckold couples and all that. They want couples where the husband just watches and they'll participate because they're wife poachers.
They don't want to, they're too damn, they don't have no't get a girl a single woman on their own which i always tell people you can get a single girl couples it's just the dudes ruin it because they run their mouths they talk to the other girl and they don't understand that let the wife handle it she will take care of everything the wife has to understand uh that she is the one that's going to happen with her and only with her. Unless your husband has a magical dick, which I always say, come on, the one penis policy couples, send me your dick pics.
I got to see these magical cocks where it just memorizes a woman that she never wants another cock again. She wants pussy all the time, but she never wants another cock. I got to see these cocks. I know. Sounds very gay, but I don't care. I got to see these magic cocks that these men have where the wife only wants his penis and no one else. Because that's got to be a fucking amazing cock. I just got to see it. So, you know, we got these white poachers, and it's becoming more and more of an issue in the lifestyle, as I'm seeing it. So, is my wife being poached? You're asking, probably true.
I'm guessing the short answer to my question will be, just talk to the couple. Be direct and ask them if they are interested in both of us. Yes, that would be true, but let's see what he says.
So, for context, we have started chatting online to a couple we hit it off really really well she is by and looking to explore her by side but all comments have been around us swapping as a couple all right great so all good recently the group chat conversations have focused on my wife even when my wife makes a spicy comment about getting with the husband there is no reciprocal comment back about me playing with his wife all right because it's probably the husband who is chatting with her and the husband you know you know doesn't want to get involved with talking about his wife maybe he doesn't like his wife fucking other men all right so i don't know the chat is great and is a real turn on but it feels like i'm being sidelined a bit in other conversations we have had it's more of a free for all with everyone suggesting that they would like to do to each other i felt included but with this conversation recently yes less so the wife has expressed disinterest in women but it's been strongly indicated that a full swap would be an option so does what does everyone think are they poaching my wife or am i being jealous i'm being jealous i don't think they're poaching your wife i think you don't know how to handle it.
I got sad, sad news for all the men out there. Other couples don't give a shit about you. It's your wife.
I can take the ugliest fucking dude on the planet, give him a hot looking wife and he will be the most popular person at the swing club he will get more action than everybody else we've seen it i have seen ugly couples you know you got you got those couples where the husband is ugly and the wife is beautiful and you scratch your head how the fuck did he get her especially with that two-inch cock but they're the most popular couple at the club or at the resort why because of her she's hot this is a lifestyle that is surrounded by the women the women run this lifestyle the men are just there for the ride the sooner you learn that the better off you will be as a couple.
Too many couples want to act like it's a, you know, the husband matters. The husband doesn't matter. The husband is going to be the, I met some husbands that are the biggest cocks on the planet. Biggest a-holes, narcissistic motherfuckers. And yet, they get a lot of action because guess what? They got a smoking hot wife. And good for them. Here we go.
and yet they get a lot of action because guess what they got a smoking hot wife and good for them so because like i said that's going to help them get out get some ass and all that so you know it is what it is like i said but i don't think you're being poached buddy i just think you just got to be more up front say hey i'm fucking your wife we're swapping partners stuff like that you got to be more more have more communication then just ask like you said at the beginning just ask them say hey what the fuck's going on you say me and my wife are not fucking you're not taking my wife from me she's not going off to a room and fucking you, they're not going to do anything, we do everything together, that means if she's having sex, I'm having sex, so we're going to swap partners, and they say no, then you know what, you kick them to the curb, and if your wife wants to still talk to them, then you've got to get yourself, check your wife, because that ain't cool at all.
A couple, a good couple of them, a friend of mine, she told him, don't fuck around with that girl. He fucks around with that girl. Now they're not swinging anymore because of his stupid ass, you know. So you just got to be very communicative with your partner and say, hey, I feel like they're poaching, trying to get you away from me. I don't like it. And if she loves you, she'll be like, fuck them, you know. You don't, you know, fuck these people. This is a production of the U. I don't like it. And if she loves you, she'll be like, fuck them. You don't, you don't, fuck these people.
There's other couples, guys. Trust me, there's other couples out there. There's new couples. There's going to be older couples. There are all kinds of couples. There'll be more couples out there for you to play with, not just what you have right now, not rights in front of you. Not everyone is into dirty talk with the other dude, the other wife, or the other husband. Just wait until you meet in person. Yeah, I agree. You never know. Are you expressing your own desires in this group chat? All right. I think you answer your question expertly.
If they reassure you, but the gal still shows no interest, it'll probably be bail. Ask your wife to step back a little on the chat and see what happens. If it's you chatting and you get nothing back then you might be right but i'm just saying i don't agree with that i think that like i said the women are the the main focus and i just think when two dudes you're gonna talk hey you know not a lot of guys like hey man like me i go like hey you're come over and fuck my wife and that big old cock of yours or whatever? I can do that. Some guys can't do that. A lot of guys can't do that.
They can't say, hey, talk dirty to my wife for me and stuff like that. How much conversation do you need before meeting and playing? We want at least a woman to talk on the phone for the four of us. I don't give a shit about that. I've been in these chats. My wife is guilty of it, and so are the people in the other couple. Guilty of what? One chatting more than the other when the others aren't both present. Like on Telegram, I get out of Telegram groups because it's always five or six assholes that are bogarting the conversation. They don't let no one else talk.
They always talk to each other and stuff like that. It's just awful. All right, so, you know, so your wife might just be a chatter. So, you know, I don't think, I don't think you're being poached. Not yet, at least, you know. Maybe you, maybe later on you, she is being poached. I don't know. All right, let's move on because that's a sad time. Actually, no, let's go back to a move on with someone that got wife poached.
First of all, know all right let's move on because that's a sad time actually no let's go back to a move on with someone that got wife poached first experience with a wife poacher oh i now am online on a platform with joint with a joint male female profile mostly looking for group situations for my adventure for adventure friend female of course this always gets a lot of excitable single men who's basically 95 percent of the time never actually show up that's so true you gotta vet your single guys just because he has a big dick don't mean he's gonna show up but that's another story and why and it's why we're checking out different platforms strategy etc anyway this young guy with a cute but tame mirror selfies and lots of hints in his profile about how deep and sensitive he is makes contact in the dms so i respond do you want to come to the blow bang awesome no clear answer he wants to know about threesomes meeting the woman for drinks seeing more pictures assisting that i show her his profile It gets pushy and weird and off topic fast He is somehow angry Fuck em seeing more pictures assisting that i show her his profile it gets pushy and weird and off topic fast he is somehow angry fuck him block him move on why is that a conversation why do i have to i don't know why are people people are too nice just block the fucker she has lots of other lovers so i'm not trying to keep her for myself all right and we have three sons pretty much when we want this profile is not about that in any way we don't need to troll for strangers for that and if we did he wouldn't qualify all right and that's even before we got all flustered and demanding before he got all flustered and demanding okay what the fuck are we talking here then my insight is that he doesn't intend to be a poacher but he is probably lacks brains and impulse control and is basically lonely insecure and feels entitled to female attention all right let's see hold on i got a message oh she looks pissed anyways no someone else the little girl look anyways Thank you.
let's see, hold on, I got a message, oh, she looks pissed, anyways, no, someone else, the little girl looks, anyways, uh, pretty much, okay, this probably lacks control, and it's basically lonely, Instagram feels entitled to female attention, which he doesn't get, now, I don't know, how the fuck do I, I don't know, I can't judge the guy, in a way that makes him two steps away from incel red pill manosphere I mean he is on the sites and then can't help himself what the fuck I don't know who's worse the single guy that he's talking about or this fucking guy he has fantasies about joining an anogamous orgy all right who doesn't a lot of people do but it a fantasy, just like he fantasizes about being tall, hot, and hung like a porn star, in reality, he doesn't want to join his erotic event, he wants affirmation and a devoted submissive girlfriend, anyway, what the fuck, I don't know what the fuck, anyway, my point is what I'm guessing, poaching is probably not many people's intentional sport.
But just how they end up acting because they're impulsive, hormonal idiots and eagles who can't keep a relationship in real life and think the internet will solve that by letting them hide behind self-granulizing profiles. Okay, whatever, fucking. All right, whatever this dude is, he's a fucking idiot. This has nothing to do with wife poacher.
You'll fuck him for one you're not married you can't poach you're not in relation with this woman you're just fuck buddies you fuck buddies who like to have threesomes and shit so stop it so you're first off your first wife poacher he's not a wife poacher so change change the fucking title, two, why are you indulgent in this idiot, why don't you just hit the black button and move on, why are you keep indulgent, so like I said, I think you, both of you are incels, and have no business being in this lifestyle, I don't know, I'm, you just made me mad reading this stupid shit, I thought it was actually a wife poacher shit, but no, and I don't know.
I got to calm down. Calm down, AC. Calm down. All right, let's get the fuck out of this fucking idiot, stupid wife poacher. Let's see. Do. Okay. We love it. All right, here's one here's one let's see hope oh okay that's not so long would love opinions on this situation all right just need some validation i guess that i'm doing the right thing my husband and i play together we have played separate once with one couple we felt comfortable with i personally would see now that could be a wife poacher incident right there. That's not fucking... What I read last one was not a wife fucking poacher.
I personally would prefer to play separately, so I asked my husband about having an open relationship, and he didn't go for it. He wants us to do this together, which I respect. You know why? Okay, honey, you're going to get all the attention, no matter what. If you're very good looking, got a good body, you're going to get a million emails. Your sad husband will be over in a corner jacking off, praying to get anyone to talk to him. So, I don't blame him for being, not wanting to play separately. I don't blame him one bit. not wanting to play separately. I don't blame him one bit.
So I'm on the dude side. I stated, I started talking to a guy on field and him and his wife have an open marriage. Talk to the wife first, see if it is true. They play with couples, but are allowed to play separate if out of town. Hmm. That reminds me, that talks like, okay, we don't play separately, but when they're out of town, they can play separately because they can get away with it. He lives several hours away. Fuck it. Why are you going to deal with some dude fucking several hours away? Fuck him. Go find someone that's closer.
But we'll be in town for work and ask if I want to meet up for drinks and more. Don't meet up. I told him we don't have an open marriage and play together so we can meet me and my husband together and maybe do an MFM. Okay. He said, sure. But then yesterday he asked if I could come alone to meet him and that he desperately wants me one-on-one. All right.
If you go by yourself You're just showing the world You're showing me My list wants me one-on-one all right if you go by yourself you're just showing the world you're showing me my listeners ac everybody that you have no respect for your man your man is not telling you not to fuck anybody else your man is saying i don't want to do i don't want you to go out alone because guess what your man probably cares about you loves you and wants you to be safe i'm going to tell you just because they're a swinger and you meet them out of the bar, doesn't mean that guy can't fucking force himself onto you and rape you.
Or even worse, fucking kill you. There are people, there are sick people out there. And you don't know. This guy lives several hours away. You don't know his fucking relationship. Did you talk to the wife? Hopefully you did. Whenever someone says that, I go, okay, let me talk to your spouse then. You know what? Like I said before, I don't give a shit what your relationship is. If you're out here cheating, if you're out here fucking and your wife don't know about it, your husband don't know about it, it's not my problem. But don't lie to me about it. Just say, yeah, she don't know.
And I'm cool with it. I don't give a fuck. Now go fuck my girl and make her fucking cum. Alright? So he wanted the three male, female, male. Now he wants Thank you. And I'm cool with it. I don't give a fuck. Now go fuck my girl and make her fucking cum. All right? So he wanted the three male, female, male. Now he wants just you one-on-one. Hmm. I was like, I can't. And he said, you can keep a secret. See right there? They're not in an open relationship. His wife, they're not in an open. Because if you're in an open relationship, you would never say that to anybody.
You would not say, oh, well, you can keep a secret, because he's keeping secrets. I was like, if you're asking me to do what I think you're asking me, I can't do that. That's great. So far, lady, you are respectful. You respect your husband. I'm happy. Let's see how this goes.
he proceeded to pressure me into considering it saying life is about experiences and that my husband is depriving me of something that i want by not wanting me to meet people see how this goes he proceeded to pressure me into considering it saying life is about experiences and that my husband is depriving me of something that i want by not wanting me to meet people on my own all right this is a white poacher last one was not this is a guy trying to poach someone else's wife sure i do want that but i'm not going to fuck some guy anyway just against his wishes against his wishes yeah because guess what if he finds out it could ruin your fucking marriage Thank you.
I'm not going to fuck some guy anyway just against his wishes, against his wishes. Yeah, because guess what? If he finds out, it could ruin your fucking marriage. Is it really? Is that cock? Like I said, I don't understand. Is that cock that great where you want to ruin a marriage? I know you got those one penis policy couples where that cock is amazing that she don't want another man. She only wants cock because she loves cock, but it's only his cock he loves. I say cock all the time. And it's just amazing. All right. Not happening.
I asked the guy if he could cheat on his wife if they weren't in the lifestyle, and he said, you don't want to know the answer.
So yeah, like I said They might be in the lifestyle But I'm telling you right now They if they weren't in the lifestyle and he said you don't want to know the answer so yeah like i said they're in the life they might be in the lifestyle but i'm telling you right now they she does not know he's fucking around or maybe you know what maybe because he travels for work he has he says he's a couple because people will talk to couples more but then she never travels with him and then he talks to another girl and does this shit and gets laid this way. Piece of shit single dude.
This is why I had trouble fucking getting laid because of assholes like this. All right? So I kept saying I'm not going to do it, and he said, okay, he will drop it, and he has, but now I am unsure of even doing an MFM. We have had some hot sexting and nice conversation.
I was extremely attracted to him before this, but I'm kind of even doing an MFM We have had some hot sexting And nice conversation I was extremely attracted to him before this But I'm kind of turned off by him Him asking me to lie to my husband Get rid of his fucking ass Stop texting him Delete the numbers Block the numbers if you have to Alright That's my thoughts Thoughts Would you run away from this Yes I would run fucking away from this guy And if I was your husband I found out your husband that he was talking his shit way with you, I would fucking go beat his ass too.
Because you said no, he's pressuring you. And that's, you know, that's like trying to convince you to have sex with him. He's like fucking essaying you and shit. Edit. I'm not going to proceed with the MFM and won't be talking to the guy any longer. Just wanted to hear it from others, I guess. Thanks for all the fun. Smart lady. Whoever you are, lady, extreme pickle, you are a smart lady. You will, you and your husband will be in a lifestyle for a long time. Just remember, include your husband in a lifestyle.
I know you want to go out, tell your husband, be honest and say, Hey, I want to get as much cock as I want. I want to fuck a lot of guys and stuff like that. Your husband sounds like he's loving. He was willing to let you have a threesome with another guy. So I'm sure he'll be able to let you fuck whoever you want to fuck. Just have him there. Because guess what? It's fun for him if you're having fun, too. Remember that. It's not fun sitting at home knowing that you're getting your fucking pussy back blown out and he's not there to enjoy anything. He doesn't hear a story.
Remember, men are visual. We need to see to get all that stuff. Anyways. All right. So here's one. One, no respect for your husband. True. Two, no respect for your dynamic. True.
Three, I would hazard a guess his wife doesn't even know about their dynamic and he's using it as an excuse to cheat three correct those are those are good read those are all good reads all the things i said uh let's see okay does anyone reply yeah i had that thought too that she might not even know that the op said that good uh right now we're gambling your marriage for one dick and one night stand if you love and respect your husband you should have blocked that guy a long time ago i agree she should have fucking said when he says well i want to meet you one-on-one now if he says okay bring your husband that's let's let's do a split roast of you okay uh original poster said this just happened last night i haven't really spoken to him since yeah okay whatever uh let's see uh honestly this i was going to go on about this guy is cheating scum but he's a lying single male with no wife at all it's common enough that it's a meme at this point this guy absolutely disgusting and you are falling for a scam you should think about your husband's boundaries sounds like you don't have the same understanding if you had to come to reddit for this obvious case of single guy pretending to be a couple asking you to cheat scum uh like i said i i don't know he might be married but like i said he travels so he access to pussy.
Don't have to worry about the wife finding out about it other than the STD or something. So, you know, you do what you got to do. Like, come on now, girl. This is textbook. You are secretly hoping people on this subreddit would tell you to go for it or something weren't you. If my wife suggested an open match, I would divorce her. Even after 20-plus years of swinging, I don't care. I would be out, gone. I have the same feeling as this guy. I don't understand. You're swinging. You already have an open fucking marriage. You get to fuck who you want.
I get to just, now you're denying me the privilege and the right to see you have fun. fun like why do you not need your husband there to have fun like i said be honest fuck people be honest with your partner say hey i want to do this i'm sick of the one penis policy i want to fuck other men i'm not a lesbian like you want me to be if you're so scared of another guy fucking me then obviously obviously you are a small dick. Energy. I don't understand it. I just don't understand people not being open with their partners. I want to fuck other women. Let me fuck other women, honey.
You are enough for me, but fuck, man, I want something different. It's nice.
She knows that the hard boundary for me, and it would be would be very very loaded question coming from her that would mean a whole lot more about our relationship than just wanting extra dick and if that if she had a guy lined up on top of that yeah the divorce would turn into a legal war zone no i wasn't hoping people would tell me to go for it and he sent pints of him and his wife but he can but you could be right yeah of course he were the i wonder if the pictures were nudes or anything like that you know sometimes i don't know but hey whatever yeah run not sure why you continue talking to a guy that is not respectful of your boundaries and your husband yeah so a lot of she's not getting in the way i she thought she's gonna probably get some good stuff but all she's saying all a lot of people are saying is that she's not respectful to her husband.
Why would you allow someone who has no respect for your husband to be around your husband? It's your job to protect him. He also has no respect for his wife who is willing to cheat on her. Like I said, I'm guessing that they're not swingers. They don't swing, but he travels, so he gets to fuck around and all that stuff. I don't know uh let's see one more let's go okay here's some body image stuff looking for couples where the woman is a bbw supporting my wife's sexual exploration hi everyone hi everyone Thank you.
hi everyone hi everyone I'm here looking for advice tips or shared experiences that would help my wife feel more comfortable and free as she explores her sexuality she's a beautiful BBW if you don't know what a BBW is a big big beautiful woman Thank you.
and free as she explores her sexuality she's a beautiful bbw if you don't know what a bbw is a big uh big beautiful woman a big woman fat whatever and while we're just getting started in the swinger lifestyle for now the focus is entirely on her smart very smart all right good i like this guy so far one of my biggest fantasy is to see her enjoying herself without limits feeling confident desired and safe i want her to want her i want to be there to support her fully not just as a spectator but also someone who cares deeply about her emotional and physical well-being during this journey all right so far this guy's talking good we're particularly interested in connecting with couples where the woman is also a bbw so my wife can feel greater sense of ease and identification buddy there's a lot of couples out there that bbws that have groups and all that you just gotta google them you'll be fine we're looking for intimate and respectful things settings maybe small meetups with two to three couples or a couple plus a single male where the vibe is open-minded and body positive we are based in south florida so if you anyone knows local groups events apps or communities that are friendly to bbw women and the focus are on comfort connection and exploration we truly appreciate your input all right all right so you just got to go to fet life go to fet life there's a lot of stuff on fet life for bbw's guys who are chubby chaser, stuff like that, you can go there, don't limit yourself to one app, go to all of them, there's no shame in doing all the apps, also, you know, you want a single guy, go to a dating app that does BBW, the BBW dating app, there's some there, you can go there and check it out there, all that stuff, so there's a lot of stuff you can do, buddy.
You know, it's just not, you know, it's just not that one spot. So you're going to be fine. Like I said, you have a great attitude. Who's this guy? C.E. Venable Lee. I can't say anything. So you're very good, you know, and all that stuff. Uh, so like I said, AC here, he likes BBWs, too. I like all women. As long as they're good to me, people are good to me, they don't treat me like shit, like I'm a dickhead or anything like that, I'm all good, you know, and all that stuff. So, you know what? Just go to FetLife, Google BBW groups, and you'll find them everywhere, buddy.
You will find them everywhere. All right. The music you you know it's time to get out of here remember to shave your cock and balls gentlemen go to swinging single podcast.com check out all things ac if you're gonna be in vegas memorial day weekend hook me up at swinging single at gmail.com we can meet up have a party, do a little podcasting, interview you, or whatever. All that great stuff. Gentlemen, remember to shave your cock and balls. The ladies will appreciate it. Ladies, sit on your man's face. Your man's face is your favorite seat, ladies. And keep on swinging, everybody.
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