Welcome to the Swinging Single Podcast with your host, AC Maxwell. In this episode, we embark on a fascinating exploration of the states with the highest concentration of swingers. Join us as we uncover the top swinging hotspots, diving into the unique dynamics and vibrant communities in each location.Additionally, we address questions from Reddit users seeking advice on approaching single men at swinger clubs, offering insightful tips and strategies. Furthermore, we shine a spotlight on where single men can find single female swingers, delving into the nuances of navigating the swinging landscape as a solo participant. Tune in for a comprehensive discussion that navigates the intricacies of swinging and provides valuable insights for singles in the lifestyle.swingingsinglepodcast.comswingingsinglepodcast@gmail.comhttps://www.dispatch.com/story/news/2024/07/12/ohio-swingers-myths-lifestyle-tell-someone-swinger/74364107007/
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Welcome to the Swingin' Single Podcast with your host, A.C. Maxwell, broadcasting from the legendary Upside Down Pineapple Studios in the heart of Texas. So for over two decades, yours truly has indulged in the swingin' lifestyle as a single male. And on today's episode, we are going to talk about the horniest state in America, the United States. Yes, the good old United States of America.
What state, according according to the usa today newspaper is the horniest state or the swinging estate in the united states and the answer might shock you also i'm going to help out some reddit users and give them some advice on starting and swinging and all that so sit back relax grab your spouse have her sit on your face pull those pant side, maybe butt fucker or whatever you want to do. But get ready for the next edition of the Swingin' Single Podcast. The Swingin' Single Podcast with host A.C. Maxwell is intended for entertainment and educational purposes only.
The opinions, views, and content expressed or shared on the podcast are solely those of the host AC Maxwell and any featured guests or contributors and do not necessarily represent those of the podcast's affiliates, sponsors, advertisers, or partners. Any information provided is given with the understanding that it does not constitute a contract, engagement, or formal advice. The content of the podcast is protected by copyright and other intellectual property laws.
That dick in my head Smack my ass, make it red Teary eyes, but I ain't sad Let's do yoga on the bed Fuck me deep in the head Mouth open, pussy spread Boy, just do what I said Let's do yoga on the bed Fuck me deep in the head Smack my ass, make it red Boy, just do what I said. Let's do yoga on the bed. Let's do yoga in my mouth. Every room inside the house. And I paid off all the neighbors, so I'm down for getting loud. How much calories is seeming I don't even want to count. But I'm working on your day. That's what I call working out. Oh, it's fitness and life. Oh, yeah. All right. Here we go.
Getting ready. All right. Remember, go to SwingingSinglePodcast.com to go see all things AC. Then go to SwingingSinglePodcast at gmail.com if you've got any questions, concerns, or you want to do a live showing, or you want at a club, or you would love to do an interview.
It's all up to you what you want to do but those are the things you need to go to remember go to full swap radio see other swingers like myself like ac and all that you'll get to see all our beautiful work that we do to help bring sex in the swinging lifestyles to you so like i said today i'm going to talk about the horniest what i call the horniest state in the union the usa for all those people outside the country uh i came along this awesome article um in the usa well actually not the usa today but the columbus dispatch newspaper and it says something that's unbelievable which i actually i know for a fact it's going to be true anyways because i am from the area i'm from the great lakes legion and it's a great lake state that says it's ranks in the top 10 state uh of one of the uh sluttiest states in america so So, you know see all that then later on i'm going to talk about reddit i saw an interesting uh post and it was talking about connecting with single guys at the club when i read it and i go well this person really needs some my help because as a single guy i think i'm an expert in this and how you can connect with a single guy.
So, you know, we'll talk about that. So let's get started. So the title of the article says, The study ranks Ohio as a top 10 state for swingers. How to tell if someone is a swinger. All right. Now, coming from the Great Lakes Legion, I think the best swinging states I have been into, and I have been to many, I've been in over 25 states in this lovely country, and I have seen and done a lot in those states.
and i can by far say indiana ohio pennsylvania are some of the top swinging states where a lot of swingers are from and a lot of swingers do a lot of swinging uh and some of the best clubs are in those three states. You could put Illinois in there. I can't put my great state of Michigan in there because it's very let down how bad the clubs there are. There's really no on-premise clubs or anything like that and stuff like that know, I can't put Michigan, my state I'm from, on that map.
But I can say Pennsylvania, Ohio, and Indiana are probably the top places where I would go for swinging action. So the article says, things are heating up in Ohio. Yes, it is into March, and it's getting into April, and it's baseball season started right around this corner, and the springtime temperatures bring springtime nudity, and summertime temperatures bring summertime fucking. Thank you. into April, and his baseball season started riding around this corner, and the springtime temperatures bring springtime nudity, and summertime temperatures bring summertime fucking.
And it's not just the sweltering temperatures. Oh, I, you know, I don't disagree with that one at bit. When it comes to the swingers' lifestyle, Ohio ranked among the top 10 places interested in swinging, or the practice of exchanging partners for sex. Now, you might ask, how?
AC, how they know this is possibility well you know the government's listening to you on your cell phones yes if you have a cell phone guess what good old big brother's listening to everything you might when you don't think it is off when it's off you think it's off but guess what your cell phone's listening to you right now someone in the NSA is probably listening to my podcast right now I hope they're enjoying it but anyways all those dick pics and nude pics you send to people guess what some guy at the NSA is jacking off to them right now so yeah so you know they're listening so but go back to how they know your IP addresses probably the most searched places Ohio has one of the top 10 places to search you know people searching for sex all right so adult novelty toy outlet joy love dolls perhaps experts in the field analyze google trends data for a 12-month period to reach its conclusion see google see you think that you know people think, you know, people think we're a free people, but we're really not.
We are really not that free as people would think. We have the illusion of freedom. But we're really not because guess what? We're a slave to the Internet. We're a slave to our cell phones and all that stuff. So, but anyways, the study tracked search inquiries such as swinging lifestyle, wife swapping, and sex parties to find that many Ohioans were both curious and intrigued by the swinging community. Now, I'm guessing this means that it's not one of those, whatchamacallit, where they're not really going to these sex parties. So maybe they're not, they're just curious. They're looking it up.
Maybe they see something and they go, oh, okay, let's check this out. All right. Anyways, so how common is swing lifestyle in Ohio? Well, that's a mispray. He says, how common is a swinging lifestyle in Ohio? But anyways, this study found that Ohio's monthly search volume per 459 was per, was 459 per 100,000 people. So for every 100,000 people, 400, almost 500 people looked up swing. Landing the state at number 10 in the country for those searching in swinger terms.
So it's not even the top state so you're number 10 ohio congratulations you're number one in college football but you're number 10 in swinging what are some myths and misconceptions about swinging while too largely taboo some members of the swinging community are pushing for. Here are a few common myths according to swinging couples. Now, I don't understand. Okay, I understand you want swinging to be normal and no one judge you for it, but you know what? Can we all just be adults here? You're going to be judged no matter what.
You could be a swinger, not a swinger, and you're still getting judged. Come on, girls, ladies, you dress how you dress, you get judged by other women and other men.
You could be a swinger or not a swinger and you're still getting judged come on girls ladies you dress how you dress you get judged by other women and other men you could be a swinger or not swinger it doesn't matter like i said stop trying to make everyone accept your lifestyle and just live your life why do you care what your neighbors think of you do they pay your bills do they come to you are they going to bury your body when you're gone to make sure your last requests in your life are fulfilled? No, they're going to be fucked.
Your work is going to fucking put an ad out looking for a new person to replace you. That's just the life. It is not being rude. It's not corporate greed. It's just the way. Life goes on. Right now, someone's dying. I'm going to move on with my life. I'm not going to cry about it. I'm just going to go move on and all that. So I'm not worried about do other people accept my lifestyle. When they find out I'm a swinger, I don't give a shit what they think. But you know, the other thing is I don't go out advertising. Other than this podcast, I don't go out and advertise it.
Other than the swinging ads I put out, no one knows. I don't talk about it with my friends and family because I don't need their acceptance. I need my acceptance. I need to love myself. If you can't love yourself, ladies and gentlemen, no one's going to love you. So I don't know why the swingers and all this want to be accepted by everyone.
Just be by yourself and your partner your spouse those are the main that's the main person you need the acceptance from so swingers are only focused so some of the myths swingers are only focused on sex well yeah i i kind of agree that's not a myth i think that's pretty much a truth because guess what so that's what swinging is i'm sorry that some of the young millennia gen zers can't or zoomers i call you can't handle the fact that people are here for sex yeah but this is what the article says often the people that you meet don't you don't always have sex with them of course yes that's true just like in real life just like if i was vanilla i was want to have sex with everybody you must just make really good friends, and you can be open with them.
Yeah, that's one thing that's good about the swing. You can meet some really good people and all that stuff. So, you know, you can meet some great people. Actually, think about it. Sometimes you might be able to meet these people and be, you know, be business opportunities later on in life, said Sam Hopper, who co-hosts the Bed Hoppers podcast alongside his wife, Carolyn. They said they told USA Today that they seek to create friendship with benefits, okay? I'm just looking for benefits.
Then if friendship is actually one of the benefits of the sex to me, I'm not, you know, like'm i'm a real swinger i'm here for the sex i have expectations when i go places i have expectations all the time and i don't know why people i was talking to a group of guys and they said i don't understand why you guys sit there say you have no expectations what's wrong with having expectations now when i go out i get it when i go to the club i go to collette's tp to Colette's, TPC or whatever, I'm expecting to get laid. I'm expecting to have sex, meet people, have sex.
If I don't have sex, I don't cry about it. I go home, jack off, and then go to bed and enjoy my night and start my day all over again. But, you know, that's just me as a single guy. I know I'm a prick. I know you guys, couples don't like that. Oh, my God. He's so disrespectful. Yeah, well, you know, whatever. It's my life, like I said. I'm the one living it. Thank you.
a prick i know you guys couples don't like that oh my god he's so disrespectful yeah well you know whatever it's my life like i said i'm the one living it not you you don't pay my bills you pay my bills you can tell me how to live another myth it is it's easy to dive into the lifestyle the hoppers said that it took a while for them to adapt to the community it took us a long time to find people that we liked you-huh just like in any relationship or any friendship you're gonna have to it's gonna take time simon said the host events were those interested in the lifestyle can come along and find people to hook up with at a later date and later that night when we're our event has ended who the fuck wrote this i don't know i don't know if this is god can i read can come along i'm gonna put this up so you can see because i'm i can't be crazy can come along and find people to hook up with at a later date or later that night when our event has ended i don't know what does anyone do any editing in journalism anymore but anyways so it's not easy like i said if you just read reddit you just go experience a lifestyle guess what homie it's not easy at all um so you know you gotta take your time remember this couples and singles swinging is stay next week.
You don't have to swing every single weekend. You can swing this week, next week, whatever. Swinging is always going to be there. You don't have to go every weekend. You're going to get swinger burnout. A lot of these new couples, they do that where they don't have any kids or The kids are gone and they start going every weekend. And after a while, you don't see them anymore because they burn out. You do burn out. It's just like anything in life. You're going to burn out. All right? Swinging will fix your broken relationships.
That is so fucking, it's never, it will never, that is the biggest, that is a horrible myth. And that's a bad myth for the lifestyle because a broken relationship is broken no matter what you got to fix that foundation put some cement in those cracks seal it up and then you could possibly think about swinging so allison moon author of getting it a guide to hot healthy hookups and shame-free sex previous told usa today that swinging won fix a broken relationship, but it can add new adventure and excitement to already solid ones. I agree with Ms. Moon.
I agree that it can bring new adventures and excitement and all that. It's just depending on the people that you play with and the two people that are doing it, the husband and wife team, or the two men team two lady team, you know, it just depends on how you look at it. Because like I said, swinging is always, you know, it's fun to talk about, hey, you know, let's go out, let's meet another couple, swap, have sex with them and so on and so on.
But actually doing it is the scary part in this very worrisome part for a lot of people because of people because you know the fantasy is always better than the reality because in the reality what happens if you say hey honey i would love for you to go have sex with another woman let's have a threesome she does it and your wife fucking loves it and she now she wants to do it all the time whereas you didn't have that great of a time it wasn't your union the two girls were paying more attention to each other than they were you and now you're like well whoa you're like whoa wait a minute this is supposed to be about me not it was supposed to be about me us or whatever and it's the wife gentlemen you are always going to lose to your wife if you open up to say like you start opening up your relationship where you both state separately We'll be right back.
So gentlemen, you are always going to lose to your wife. If you open up, say it like you start opening up your relationship where you both date separately, your wife is going to get more action than you. Because I always hear this, a lot of couples have open relationships. This is why I don't like open relationships because of the fact that the woman is always going to get more action. And I mean, it doesn't matter what the woman looks like. She will always get more. The husband will always get less. Because you know what? The husband's less desirable in the lifestyle.
More people in open relationships desire the women more.
So women are going to get all the likes, all the questions, and all the answers, and all the sex that they she wants while you might get a little flow of women interested in you and a lot of jealousy comes about with this and all that stuff and the relationship sours and if you have a broken relationship guess what you're headed for a divorce court because it's not going to work out you can't do it like i said you got to have two people that understand what do you want do you want to swing do you want to open a relationship do you want to be poly and stuff like that i the funny thing is i see poly i see a lot of young people in the poly relationships i don't see a lot of 40 and 50 year old 60 year old people in poly relationships because you know what i guess after a while you learn that shit it's hard to please one person how can i please all about everybody so you know that's pretty young but the open relationship where you date separately and all that stuff jealousy can hit rear its ugly head a lot because the fact that one person's getting all the attention while the other is not in a swinging relationship you know you might open up that pandora's box where they really like it and they can't stop a good friend of mine they i i played with them as a couple we don't play anymore because of the fact that the husband was out playing around with someone she told him don't be with or don't do anything with and he did it anyways and now they're not swinging anymore and that was a very secure couple see how it doesn't matter you've got to be able to communicate it just depends on the people and i really you know i hope they work it out i hope they don't nothing happens but i hope they get back on solid ground they don't have to swing anymore but i'm just rooting for them to make it and get it get out of this rough patch so moon noted that opening a relationship works best in an already established relationship that's stable honest and communicative yes communication is the key number one key communication yes that's i agree moon she's a i would take her advice you gotta be honest hey you know i saw honey this girl was hitting on me can i ask her out honey there's a guy at work or there's a girl at work.
Can I go out there and hit that? So anyways, fun fact. A married couple in Ohio made headlines in 2015 for swapping sexual partners as they hosted swinger parties with their suburban neighbors, as reported on ABC News. The couple, Tony and Diana, made an appearance on the A&E rallyally Series, Neighbors with Benefits. I saw that. To try to summon a new couple. After the show, they distanced themselves from the lifestyle and stopped hosting Swinger Party in favor of a more ordinary lifestyle.
See, you can always be in the lifestyle, and you can always leave the lifestyle, but guess what you can always do? You can always come back. You guys don't have to be lifestyles 24-7 for the rest of your life. You can do it for a year, take a year off, do it a year, take a year off, do a year, whatever. Do a month, take a year off. Do a month, take a year off. It's up to you. You don't have to be. But I remember that A&E special. If you go on demand, it's still there. If you Google Neighbors Google Neighbors with Benefits, you can still get online things. It wasn't that great of a show.
It really didn't paint swingers in a great light, which a lot of shows don't paint swinging in a great light because, you know, the people they pick are not the greatest, best representation for swinging. To get a real great representation of swinging, the people would not dare go on the national television and talk about it. Those are the people that you want, but those are the people that are not going to go on it. You don't want someone's, like, desperately trying to get on TV because they want to be on a show with swingers. That's a recipe for disaster for the swinging community.
All right. so we know ohio's 10 where else is swinging popular in the u.s here's a roundup of the top 15 states ranked by monthly average search volume for a swinger lifestyle per 100 000 people two of ohio neighbors rank in the top five i told you and let me guess miss wow i'm i was right and wrong on one but however number let's go number 15 number 15 the volunteer state tennessee at 435 437 searches per 100 000 people so tennessee they got nashville they got a the red room i don't i can't remember it's's in Nashville. It's a great club. I've been there before. It changed names.
But another great place to go swing. I believe it's a great place and all that. Chattanooga's a good. Memphis. Memphis, I stayed one night in Memphis on a Friday, and there was nothing there. There was nothing there, so I don't know. Number 14, home of the NCAA men's basketball national champions, Connecticut. Connecticut has 439 searches per 100,000 people. All right, Connecticut. Never been in, I've been to Connecticut, never been to a swimming club. This is an interesting one.
Rhode Island at number 13 rhode island has 453 searches per 100 000 been to rhode island all that stuff never been swinging number 12 my favorite state in the union florida florida has 453 uh searches per 100 000 now florida is state. Now, the reason why I say that, it's number 12 on the searches. But remember, people from Tennessee, Connecticut, Rhode Island, all other 49 other states come to Florida for vacation. So you get a lot of swingers that are on vacation, and they like to go to those places, and they want to have sex when they're on vacation, and they do swinging stuff on vacation.
So, you know, Florida gets an influx of tourism. That's what makes Florida probably the number one state for swinging. Las Vegas, number one city, probably for swinging because all the tourism there, too, and all that. And great. So, Florida, you know, you got the rooftop in Hollywood, Florida. You got Secrets in Kissimmee, Florida. You got Caliente, Atlanta Lakes, Paradise Lakes, and Lutes, Florida. All those great places to party and have a good weekend. Number 11 is Maryland at 458 per 100,000 people. Number 10 is Ohio. Number nine is Nevada, at 460,000 per 100,000 people.
You know, Nevada's got the Red Rooster, the Green Door, which is zombie heaven. You got Whispers, which is a great place to go. It's couples only.
You don't have to worry about any any swinging richards there you know i know how so a lot of you couples don't want those swinging richards around because uh you know i don't know your small dick energy or you're just not into single men or you're scared of them you know you we might steal your women yes we might number eight south carolina 438 per 100 000 people been to south carolina except never swinging that is number seven it's south carolina's partner to the north north carolina at 498 searches per 100 000 been there never swung in those states number six virginia for lovers virginia is for swingers now at 501 searches per 100 000 now number five we're gonna get to the top five let's see number five new jersey and new jersey has 512 searches per 100 000 people all right so that's new jersey been there families from there never swung in there some good swinging in there though i heard a lot of good clubs there but never i should have went when we were staying in new york new york city manhand we should have went but oh well number four which i'm surprised because you know there's not a lot of places there and it's my home state number four michigan 526 churches per 100 000 people i could not believe that um i don't know i maybe we do a recount i don't know anyways but for michigan like i said i would never expect it because there's really not a lot of clubs.
Only during the summertime you have North Haven Noodle Resort and you've got Cherry Lane Noodle Resort, but there's really not much there during the wintertime, so I don't know. Number three, the little state of Delaware. That's shocking. 537 searches per 100,000. Never been to Delaware. Probably will never be in Delaware at all. Number two, no surprise, New York. 590 searches per 100,000. Yeah, New York I would say yeah because of a lot of the people. I am shocked.
There's one state left off and we're just doing internet searches we're not talking about actual swingers we're talking about people googling it and i'm surprised this one state didn't come up but the number one state that searches up swinging is the state i said i mentioned earlier in the top three that i thought it's in the great lakes legion it is the quaker state pennsylvania 660 searches per 100 000 people and i'm shocked because what's the one state that's left off california california has a lot of people so you would think that they would search it you know look at up porn and stuff and even if they're not interested in you know, swinging, you can jack off and do stuff to it, you know, watch it.
But apparently, they're not in the top 15. Pennsylvania is number one.
Like I said, Pennsylvania, like I said before, Pennsylvania, Ohio, and Indiana, to me, as my expert advice, has some of the best swinging there in the country the clubs there they had one club in harrisburg i don't know if it's there anymore they still have dj's island and beaver falls outside of picksburg north of picksburg great club great ownership and all that stuff so you know i had a lot of when i was living in buffalo i had a lot of great time because i would go down to ohio and pennsylvania for go swinging and all that. And I had a great time. So props to the Pennsylvania people.
You guys are horny and love swinging. So those are the top 15. So how do you tell if someone is a swinger? Sex education expert Amy Nugent identified a few telltale signs for those active in the swinging community they don't always indicate someone is into the lisa but those these may be some common symbols for swingers all right now these are one how many they got one two three here's one the pink flamingo garden gnome or papa's grass in the front log uh no that ain't gonna be i don't know if they would but here's the biggest Thank you.
flamingo garden gnome or papa's grass in the front log uh no that ain't gonna be i don't know if they would but here's the biggest one upside down pineapple displayed in the front yard patio mailbox yes if someone has an upside upside down pineapple which if you have a shirt on with the upside down pineapple and you're not a swinger you might want to take that off and you gotta ask yourself why would you want a shirt with the upside down pineapple i guess maybe it's cool looking or whatever but i don't know so you have the upside down pineapples that's the international symbol for swingers right there we all know that it used to you know we always talked about other things or symbols you know how you can tell a hot wife she's got an ankle bracelet on and stuff like that uh toe rings on their, whatever.
But the upside-down pineapple, I'm going to say, is the international one for eight-year swingers. Black rings on the right hand. You know, they have those little black silicone rings. I saw that a long time ago starting and all that. So you would see if they had a black ring on the right hand. They're swingers.
Large the home well only way you're going to know about this if they're in the home and the large mirrors in the home i would say yes about 20 years ago but today with the narcissistic and how people are fucking want to post everything online i don't know it could just be they like seeing themselves but that could be an indicator now here's another here's a good one i like this one a hot tub in the backyard so if you have a hot tub guess what ladies and gentlemen you might be a swinger all right but those are the one two three four five things miss amy nugent says you can identify there might be some telltale signs that your neighbors or your uh family members are swingers if they have a hot tub in the backyard so i guess i gotta get a hot tub in my backyard gotta get some large mirrors in the rooms i know home i don't want those mirrors why would i want to see my flabby ass fucking i don't know anyways but that's the horniest states in america according to the usa today columbus dispatch and all that and i hope you enjoyed it i hope you were not shocked by or you might be shocked by the other you know the 15 and i like i said i'm shocked california is not even in the top 15 i thought california would be in the top 15 because they're so liberal out there that they would be into this kind of weird shit i guess just interested in burning teslas and shit like that you know uh who knows anyways so hope you enjoy that now let's get on let's move move on into Reddit.
Reddit is our greatest thing since sliced bread. I'll tell you that. I love Reddit. You know, Serena Williams did a good job marrying a guy who created Reddit because, you know, he's got to be a billionaire more over than once. But, you know, this is great. So, you know, I like to do, I like to help out the Swinger community. I like to sit there and, you know, give them guidance, you know. Guidance that's not, you know, what would you call it? Leading into trying to get them in bed. Because a lot of people, couples will do it with other couples. Couples, swingers will do it with other couples.
They'll tell them stuff to falsify their greatness and, you know, try to get them in bed. You know, lure them into bed.
You know, a couple of swingers love newbies there are a couple there are couples out there that are veterans that can smell a newbie out and once they get that they smell like sharks and all that so you know it is what it is so the question is connecting with single guys at the club my wife would like to find a couple of other guys to play with while i watch and direct them i told them that i was on a telegram group but i said i'd like to uh you know tell the guys how to do my girl and all that and people like i don't want to be told what to do in bed and oh god whatever it's just crazy she is a bit of a sub and has a fantasy for that dynamic there is a club we like to go to but we have never really interacted with any of the single guys before if i just walk up and ask them hey you want to come play with my wife would most of them be like sure thing or do they prefer to be courted in some way too all right that's the question now one thing i say or do they prefer to be courted in some way, too?
All right. That's the question. Now, one thing I can say, or do they prefer to be courted in some way, too? The answer is no. Guys don't really need. I know guys are out there saying, oh, guys are out there, oh, I need to be courted. I got to have a connection myself. Those guys, guys are liars.
We don't need a connection to have sex with anybody you know i don't know how many times i got to listen to guys and couples they talk about connections they need a connection with someone i'm like oh god i'm honest i don't need a connection with your wife i don't need a connection with you i don't need a connection with anyone i'm the stunt cock i'm the go-to guy you need to get your wife off no one else can you come to ac because ac is going to get her off because i don't need that connection i love sex i love having sex and i don't need that connection now okay this is just my advice don't get mad i'm just saying guys I don't need to be courted by you.
We could talk, have a good time. But if you say, hey, you want to fuck my wife? Yeah, I'm down for it. So some guys do prefer to be courted in just basic stuff. You're at the club. We all know. We're at the swinger club. We all know what we're there for. We're there for sex. All right? So you don't have to be coy about it. You don't have to be like, oh, well, you know, I don't know if I could, what I got to do to get single men interested in your wife. Just if your wife is hot, every guy is going to want to fuck her. All right?
If your wife is decent-looking, 99% of the guys will want to fuck her. And if she's ugly, well, now, you know, there are ugly people out there. I don't know why people get upset when I say this. You're going to have trouble finding single guys to fuck her at the club. So I don't know.
Let me see if he got he posted any pictures no nothing all right so i'm going through his reddit profile there ain't no pictures so i can't really tell i'm just going to go on assuming that his wife is good looking she ain't going to have no problem finding willing participants you are not going to be a hard have a hard time finding willing participants especially the club uh you never know but there are guys that do you know they only want to fuck tens they don't want to fuck anything below a ten those guys go home a lot by themselves without getting laid because they have that i i found another single guy that actually agreed single men cannot be that picky in this lifestyle be picky.
We can't sit there and say, well, we're not going to do it because she's not hot enough for me. Well, you know what? If you're going to have that attitude to single men, you are going to strike out a lot. I don't have that attitude. I like women. I like pleasing women. I don't care their age or how they look. I like pleasing women. I like taking care of them, making sure they're happy. I don't know about you. But, you know, if that's bad, all right, then I'm bad. I'm a horrible human being. But you know what? Couples love me because I get the job done and all that.
So for me, I don't need to be courted by you for other guys yes they probably need some court but the courting is not what you would think it's not like you're going to take them out to dinner wine them and dine them in 69 no you're not doing none of that it's just you know have a conversation hey how you doing what's your name what's your sign stuff like that basic stuff treat with respect. We know we're just a cock, but you can show some respect. A lot of couples in the lifestyle don't show any single guy any respect because that's the way it is. And I know that.
I know they're going to give me a hard time a lot of times when I'm there because I don't bring anything to the table, so to speak.
But, you know, being respectful is always nice like i said i don't care how the woman looks it's how she treats me she treats me like a human being yeah we're good to go she treats me like i'm a piece of meat that i'm just there for her pleasure now then we might have have some issues you know there all right so he says do i just walk up to him hey you want to come play with my wife uh would it be a sure thing no it's not always gonna be a sure thing I'm going to show you husband i'm gonna walk up to a guy say hey hey buddy uh what's your name all right teddy nice to meet you teddy my name's uh ac uh my wife over there is you caught my wife's eye and i just want to know if you'd be interested in going over there talking to them and if and if all thing goes well you would you be interested in you know possibly playing with us uh in the one of the back rooms and you know you just get you and you go from there you just be straight out honest to go and just be honest with them say hey you know i love my wife wants to be get has sex has a threesome with two men so you know you know i want to give her that fantasy so if you if you want to come talk to us we're there you can come talk to us if not, no harm, no foul we'll catch you on the flip side you got 50-50 yes, they're going to go with you and hang out for a while maybe you'll have a threesome or they're going to say no, They're going to pass.
Like I said, it's a crapshoot. Single men are not that difficult. The problem is couples don't know how to deal with single men. Like I have no problem when I take my girl to the club. I have no problem telling single guys to back off. No, we're not interested. I have no problem walking up to a single guy and saying, hey, my girl is interested. Would you be interested in having a threesome with us? I have no problem with that. That's what you've got to be. You've got to be able to communicate your wants and needs.
If you're a couple there, you can't communicate your wants and needs, then it's going to be tough, man. You've just got to be firm with single guys. It's like children. You've got to be very direct with children. You've got to be very direct with single men. I can take instructions. We can take instructions.
There are some douchebags that can uh and all that so you know those but don't judge everybody based off that which you will anyways so you know those are one of some of the things that you're gonna so you know let's see jello's hot lady says i would think that if you're trying to control the scene and d them in a way you should be having a conversation additionally are they not to be treated like humans i agree they should be treated like humans like i said we're there for sex you know who where when i i guess with social media when did it stop being about sex and more about this weird stuff i don't know i just the back of the days i don't know so it says let's see did he respond in any of them atlanta gangbang guys i'm sure they'd be down for that only thing i would be worried about is the directing what to do set boundaries and and what you want to out of the experience i don't think they're i don't i don't think he's like gonna actually do like what you it sounds like i think he's gonna be like hey fucker harder yeah honey you like that you know stuff like that i don't think he's gonna like okay move your ass up in 90 degree angles and spread your legs a little more i don't think it's gonna be like i think it's just like hey he's gonna dictate he's gonna tell you what he wants like he wants to see hey man get on top of a pounder uh faster slower whatever you know i think that's what's gonna happen i don't think it's gonna be actual like directing directing like porn where you gotta spread your legs so you get the cock going inside her pussy and stuff like that uh i let it happen naturally and watch directing can throw out the moment and the vibe yes and no it can throw out the vibe for amateur but for a professional like me it's not it's not gonna throw out the vibe i'm able to do stuff like that that's why i'm good at porn but i'm sure you'll have plenty of people wanting to participate by watching with you.
Yeah, I'm sure they both do. So, yeah. So that's just one way. Listen, if you're going to meet, if you want a single guy and you're at the club, just approach them. Don't be shy. We're very, you know, contrary to popular belief, we're not there to steal your women. And if a guy is there to steal your lady, then fuck it.
He's already already gonna be fucking out anyway so it doesn't really matter and all that stuff so last one before we get on out of here guys remember to shave your cock and balls go to swing and single podcast.com to check out all things ac all right support me and then when i say support i just mean by clicks not by money you know i'm not selling anything dating in the lifestyle recently single after 20 plus years of marriage we were in the slinging lifestyle on and off very limited experience over a long period of time but i'm not ready for a serious relationship good but i'm open to it if i meet someone good for you my questions are there app sites like bumble or march for lifestyle friendly people that want an actual relationship all right this is difficult because i hear see so many single women in the lifestyle say they want a relationship but their body and their actions tell me otherwise they say they want a relationship a relationship is what it's compromise of two people so you have to be able compromise is the key word a lot of single women in the lifestyle do not want to compromise they want everything their way because guess what when they go to the club they go to the resorts they're online every guy swiping right on them every couple's hitting on them tell how beautiful they are and how they would treat them right Thank you.
Thank you. Bye-bye. they go to the resorts they're online every guy's swiping right on them every couple's hitting on them tell how beautiful they are how they would treat them right they get this false sense of reality in their heads and they get to do what they want to do now when you're in a lifestyle when you're in a relationship with someone no matter if you're vanilla or're a swinger, you have to take the other person's consideration into account. I do not like seafood. I hate seafood. I don't like it. I date a lot of women that love seafood. Guess what AC does?
AC will take them to a seafood restaurant. You know why? Because they like it. It's just like when I tell a couple single women in lifestyle, I don't want you fucking that guy. I know him. He's not a good man. I'm not controlling you. I'm just saying, take my advice. Take me into consideration. My feelings into consideration. But they don't. A lot of them see it as oh, you're controlling me. No, I don't want to control you. I want to unleash their inner slut in you. I want to do that. But I know people in their lifestyle. I know bad people when I see them.
99.9% of the time you ask me, can I go fuck him? It's going to be a yes. But that Thank you.
people in their lifestyle i know bad people when i see them 99.9 of the time you ask me can i go fuck him it's gonna be a yes but that 0.1 percent time where i just get the creep the vibes of he's not a good dude he's you know he's just saying what you want to say to get laid no and it's not controlling but like i said you have to be able to compromise and for this guy i if my advice to him would just be a swinger don't worry about finding a lifestyle friendly person it will come because guess what there are some great women in the swingers lifestyle that are know the game know that you know that a lot of things are being told is bullshit they know they're not a 10 because you know what guess what every lady that walks into the club and the resorts is a 10 but once you get out of that 10 once you get out of that resort guess what you go back down to reality which you might be a six but you think you're a 10 you got an attitude of going to work.
I know. It's sad. But it happens in the swingers' lifestyle because people bullshit other people. You can't. Don't bullshit people. If a woman is not that hot, don't tell her she's the most beautiful woman on the planet because she's going to get that thinking. Every guy tells her that, she's going to think like that.
But anyways, to find someone in the lifestyle, he's going to have to have'm gonna say you gotta have patience um if you want to date in the lifestyle patience because guess what for every one single woman there are a hundred cocks trying to fuck her and another hundred couples trying to fuck her so what are you going to bring to the table so mr whoever you are on reddit and the swingers group, I would, you know, look at yourself, look in the mirror. Are you balding? How do you look? You got to lose some weight, start losing some weight, start working out. How do you dress?
Dress better, dress nice, smell good, put on some cologne, good smelling cologne, not some shit smelling cologne. You know, take care of yourself because you're going to have to talk to a girl. You got to sell yourself to that woman. What do you bring to the table? Do you bring anything? You know, you got, you got an eight inch cock. Okay. That's something you bring. You got a good job. Okay. Yeah. Do you got a six inch cock, but you got a great job. Okay, good. You got to have all that stuff. You could hone your eating-eating skills, your ass-licking skills, your sex.
Don't last for five seconds. Work on that stuff. You've got to work on yourself. Because these women all have 100-plus possibilities. What sets you different? So he's going to have to do that. So I, you know, tinder for apps sdc.com swing lifestyle.com all depending on where you're at go there do some of their look at the single women like i said have patience you must have patience young one because if you don't these girls are getting i like i said you don't believe me and you know a single girl that's in the lifestyle, ask her how many emails she gets.
They'll get 1,000 within the first week. So she has to go through your shit, all that shit to get to you. All right? And I barely literally see any single women looking for men to date on these websites. So it's always women and stuff like that. So like I said, even though they're single, they might not be looking for you. Read their profile. When you email them, put something in there that looks, you know, that they're looking for. Something that makes you that you actually read the profile. All right. Bumble's good. Just tell them you're a swinger.
you're looking for, you know, something that makes you, that you actually read the profile, all right? Bumble's good. Just tell them you're a swinger. You're looking for swinging people. That's all you got. Be honest with them on those dating sites because you'll get a lot of people that are not swingers.
Don't be fooled by the ones that are fake that want to talk about swinging and just want to talk about, don't ever have any intention of meaning too so don't do that so you can find an actual relationship don't sit there think that you can't you can find an actual relationship it's just going to be very difficult to find start going to the clubs start networking start going to the resorts wherever you live you got a nudist resort swing resort start going there because you might find something there. Let's see, what do people have? We see this quite often on SDC.
Single woman looking for a single man to date. I don't see that a lot. A lot of single women don't put shit in their profiles. It's just like one sentence. Like, okay. I bet it works extremely well. You should have plenty of suitors. No, it don't work well. Maybe I should post it. It doesn't work well. For every one woman I said, you got 100 cocks trying to fuck her and 100 couples trying to fuck her. So, you know, that's just the first week after that goes on. And if she's good looking, holy shit, she's going to have a lot.
We find the most success dating in the lifestyle with hinge they offer non-monomalous profile destinations as well as well you're not just liking but actually able to respond to prompts and showcase your personality okay so hinge i would let me try hinge i'm gonna try hinge and see how that works we date as a couple so it's harder in general and field was just full of really creepy people who would want to start a conversation just We'll be right back.
see how that works we date as a couple so it's harder in general and field was just full of really creepy people who would want to start a conversation just right off the bat saying they wanted a bull for my wife or hot wife me this style whatever yeah thanks for the helpful he responded thanks that's helpful definitely want to avoid all the lifestyle labels if I can. I don't have any special kinks. I'm not planning on choking anyone or tightening them up. No problems with that. That just isn't me. I'll check out Hinge. All right. Someone want to know what the LS stands for? Loving support?
No, it stands for lifestyle. Let me see, anything else? I don't see there's anything really else good. Yeah, but like I said, go on the apps. You can go on the apps, put that you're a swinger. You're looking for non-monogamous relationships, stuff like that, and you'll get people. There are people out there. Tinder has a non-monogamous site where they could click on it so you could do that. I do that and all that great stuff.
But do that after you shave your cock and balls got it so well you know it comes a time when all good things must end and i'm gonna have to get out of it i'm gonna have out of here. So, with that, go to swingandsingopodcast.com and be butt naked. Yeah, you know you like it butt naked.
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