In today’s episode, AC Maxwell tackles some of the most common challenges couples and singles face in the lifestyle. We explore the discomfort some couples feel when single males approach them, the frustration of couples dealing with single females who focus on the wife rather than the husband, and the issue of single guys who seem more interested in solo play than genuine connections. Join AC for an open, honest discussion on setting boundaries, managing expectations, and fostering respectful, enjoyable experiences for everyone involved.swingingsinglepodcast.comswingingsinglepodcast@gmail.com
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Welcome to the Swing and Single Podcast with your host AC Maxwell, broadcasting to you from the legendary Upside Down Pineapple Studios here in the heart of Texas. So for over two decades, I have embraced the swinging lifestyle as a single male, and on this show, I'm here to share my wildest tales and experiences with you. So today's episode is going to be all about Reddit. We're going to help some Reddit users get some answers to some questions that they need. Talking about single wife poachers.
is going to be all about reddit we're going to help some reddit uh users get some answers to some questions that they need talking about single wife poachers single males at resorts does it make millennials feel do does it make millennials are just not as sociable with things so so on and so a note to single guys and single guys are ban a bane and the club's existence so we're going to have a lot of hateful single guy talk today in which a lot of you couples love Thank you.
and soul a note to single guys and single guys are ban a bane on the club's existence so we're gonna have a lot of hateful single guy talk today in which a lot of you couples love because you know small dick energy and all that stuff so with that guys so grab some lube gentlemen grab those tissues for cleanup if you got your spouse with you have her sit on your face shave your cock and balls for that special lady, get cozy, and settle in for some uncensored, eye-opening stories on The Swinging Single Podcast. The Swinging Single Podcast with host A.C.
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I hate you up, but I'm stuck, trying not to come off crazy If it were up to me, I'd be calling you mine already But I'm in bed, texting girls, thinking about you baby Don't know what to say Probably shouldn't tell you this, but fuck it Here's my confession I'll be right back.
What to say Probably shouldn't tell you this But fuck it Here's my confession I'm kinda hooked on you And I'm both for an obsession Yeah You might be Someone I could love Or you're just somebody I fucked once Oh yeah You could have been someone i fucked once or fucked many many times but yes get it going on in the swing single podcast i'm your host ac maxwell go to swing and single podcast.com check out all things ac see where i'm gonna be do stuff like that also go to swing and single podcast at gmail.com if you got any questions hell you want to come on the show you want to bash single male because guess what today is the favorites of all couples is to bash the single male and we're gonna bash single male today because of the stupidity that some of them have and all that stuff and we're gonna talk about and also gonna defend single males single male so if you think it's gonna all single male suck.
No, you don't know me that well because I stick up for our single males because you know what? We get a bad name because of small dick energy couples out there and single females. Yes, there's some single females out there with some small clit energy and all that stuff. Anyways, so let's get going. So, you know, I'm Reddit. I love Reddit.
I'm on Redditdit i'm looking at the post on the swingers post and other groups and all that stuff and i'm noticing one common theme you know in july is a lot of hate a lot of hate towards single guys starting off with my awesome hot wife hotel takeover in plano texas where you know all the single guys that were attendants were called average to below-average single guys and all that stuff. So, you know, I was like, oh, okay, well, I didn't know I was below-average. I guess when a below-average couple says I'm below-average, I guess I must be below-average.
It's like the pot calling the kettle black and all that stuff. So one ugly person calls another ugly person ugly and all that stuff.
But anyways, so I noticed that more and more single male hatreds popping up on the reddit feeds and all that so i was like okay check them out look at them and all that stuff which you know some of them was um what do you call justified some of it's not justified it's just justified that you're just a small minded person or anything so today like i said it's gonna be a lovely day for a lot of you because it's all about well it's not gonna be some we're gonna have some other things that about other bashing single men and all that stuff but anyways let's go into it let's get into it so i found this lovely uh statement here and it says we are a 60 plus couple married for 40 years congratulations on being married for 40 years and we're interested in hook and booking a vacation to secrets caliente or paradise lakes we need some suggestion regarding which resort has the least amount of single males in attendance on any given day we have zero interest in single men and find the potential of being approached uncomfortable our concern after reading numerous posts is the number of single males that seem to attend these resorts we have read a few posts that mention the creepy single guy who won't take no for an answer or the gallery of single men hanging by the new pool stroking themselves uh let's see do any of these uh resorts offer a couples and single women only event wow does one resort tend to draw a larger single men crowd are we over analyzing this all right so i'm reading this and from single male point standpoint which i, you're fucking overanalyzing it.
You are really not what is great about the lifestyle. You sit in your post, you say that just a single male approaching you is uncomfortable. So if that's true, do you think this is probably the best lifestyle for you? Now, I'm not telling you to get out of the lifestyle. I'm just saying think about it. Sit back and think about it. If single males make you that uncomfortable, maybe, just maybe, you don't need to be in the lifestyle. Maybe you should find, you know, start your own club, start your own group where single guys are not allowed. You don't have to worry about them.
You have to smell them.
you don't need to be in the lifestyle maybe you should find you know start your own club start your own group where single guys are not allowed you don't have to worry about them you have to smell them you don't have to see them because you know small dick energy and i'll say it i'll say it again i do believe if single males this couple here has small dick energy and other couples that agree with them have small dick energy because the fact that a single guy makes you that uncomfortable tells me a lot about you also talk about the creepy it's only creepy when a woman finds that person unattractive let's be honest how many times you see a really hot you saw if brad pitt let's just say he goes to secrets george cooney or whatever or fucking tyrese or another hot-looking dude guy, and you're over there making out with your hubby.
He's on the other side of the pool. He's watching you and jacking off. You really think that couple's going to get pissed off? No. It just all depends on who is watching that couple. Now, I've been to Secrets many a times.
I I worked at Caliente I've been the Paradise Lakes now I'm a people watcher if any of you know me who have actually had more than a two-second conversation with me or has met me before they would know one thing I love the people watch because you know why if you people watch you really get a good feel of the people and you really know who is there to play and who's just there to watch and not partake. And I'm here to partake. So I want to know who's to partake in and who's not.
So I don't have to waste my time on people that are not into the lifestyle or just, you know, they just wanted to see what it's all about.
So I hardly ever see guys just whip their dicks out out jerk off and stare at a couple or stare at a woman and any of these resorts so what i think happens is one couple sees it might happen once now i'm not saying it doesn't happen now i bet you it does happen but i don't think it happens as much as people lead lead on to be i think it's some one of those things where it's an isolated incident you know once in a while some guy gets really drunk but you gotta also remember that guy could also be part of a couple i've seen a lot of couples especially at secrets where they get the wife get hammered she goes back to bed back to the hotel room.
The gentleman stays in the area, and he's out fucking swinging his dick everywhere, trying to fuck everything, while the wifey's back in the hotel room, passed out drunk. I had a good one when I first went to Secrets. There was a couple. She got hammered. He took her back to the room.
He comes back to the hot tub, and lo lo and behold he's swinging his dick and trying to fuck all the girls finally he gets one couple to agree to play with them they go back to their hotel room hotel room the woman gets up she must have woke up from her drunk stupor comes in where's my husband and she starts banging on every single door fucking looking for her at two in the morning looking for her husband because he's out swinging his dick now people probably think that's a single guy but it's not he's married so you know you got to be very careful between knowing if the guy's single or he is with a couple but the girl's just gone because a lot of times that does happen at secrets but anyways those guys that whip it out i want to know also here's my thing if he walks over to you and you're just sitting there and he's jerking off okay yeah punch the son of a bitch i would punch the motherfucker i would say hey stop doing that go away and if he doesn't i'll punch the son of a bitch in the face that's just me if he's if you're on one side of the pool and he's on the other side of the pool and he's doing it, I don't think you have really any place to complain about it because you are in a public area.
If you don't want people to watch you or you want certainly certain people to watch you, you're going to have to move it somewhere else where those people are at, you know, and I'm sorry, swinger couples, if that hurts your feelings or you think I'm wrong. But if you go voluntarily go and play in a open forum, you don't get to choose who you who watches you. You don't get to choose that, unfortunately. But however, just say like you get a room and you want to invite a couple of people back to your room to watch you. There you go. You get the full control of people watching you.
So you don't have this problem. It's like when I was at the Hot White Takeover in Plano. They were complaining about the single guys were able to watch in the public play area. Well, it's the public play area. It's not couples only.
There was no sign that says couples only the owner of the club the security all said this is the public area everyone's welcome they didn't say all right couples only or whenever couple wants only couples everyone has to leave who's not a couple they didn't say that but when i'm at secrets i don't see that a that i don't see i haven't seen it a lot i maybe see it once or twice but the gentleman has always been away from that couple now i heard couples i know couples that they've been to places where guys will just start stroking it right in front of them right next to them uh when i was at caliente i was by myself and a couple sat next to me and you know they stay if you've been to caliente you know the conversation pool it's probably about 30 feet long you know it's pretty big and this was on a weekday so there was really no one there so and i'm away from everybody because you know what i know where i'm not wanted and the couple's there they didn't have any interest in a white single dude at all so i sat on the other side and this couple came they got in and they were walking and walking and i never thought anything of it because i don't think there would be sitting next to what they would never do what they did couple sat next to me and she's right next to me he's on it so we had her like an oriole she was the creamy white filling and when she sat next to me nothing we just talked for a little bit they started playing he's fingering her and you can see in the water because you know it's only about four feet deep three feet deep whatnot we're sitting on the edge he's fingering her so i said all right you know i'm and i'm rubbing myself no problem you know then he noticed and he got upset about it but he to me i was like why are you getting upset that i'm doing it because you're doing it too but also you sat next to me i didn't sit next to you i was sitting there i was there for 30 minutes before that couple got there but they got upset and you know long story short they said oh yeah okay you're right they apologize and all that stuff and we had a fun time together i ended up fucking this girl but you know they kind of got upset because i was jerking off because they didn't think you could do that and i was like well i'm underwater i wasn't like out open sitting on the edge i'm sitting on the seats at the conversation pool and i'm jerking off so i wasn't really you know standing up where everyone could see me only person that could see me would be them that was sitting next to me anyways so you know that that was the one time that had that happen that's Thank you.
you know standing up where everyone could see me only person that could see me would be them that was sitting next to me anyways so you know that that was one time that had that happen that's the only time i ever had that happen so you know if you are there and you are just scared of having a single guy and it makes you uncomfortable you know for a single guy to come approach you even say hello and all that i don't know i don't know if that's the lifestyle for you because unfortunately couples we're here to stay we're not going nowhere you're always going to have single guys and like i said if if that's a big deal you know go to places that don't allow single guys and all that stuff.
And some of the comments they have in here have been very rough and all that. And it was just a weird thing. Now, when you are in the staring thing.
Now, the problem, I don't have mind people staring like if i when i bring my partner i don't care about them staring or anything because what are they gonna look at you know you want them to be on their phones looking on their phones they're gonna stare at you because you know what listen i'm gonna tell you this the minute they stop staring at you there's something wrong with you think about that ladies think about it you the ladies in the 40s and 50s you get older you know other crop of women comes up so you get older people pay less attention to you that's just the way life is you know are we gonna deny that happens where people stop paying attention to older women like i said when i see meet single women and that they're older i always assume that shit they probably get a lot of people talk to them and they don't and i'm i feel bad for it because like this woman's beautiful she might be 45 50 years old 55 years old but still she's fucking still beautiful mom couples want one of them so you know the staring is creepy sometimes but it's only it's only creepy when you don't find that person attractive i have couples that stare at me when i'm at a club and it's just like uh at first it's awkward but then it's like okay well maybe they're interested in me maybe they like me or maybe there's looking at someone behind me who knows you never know We'll be right back.
i'm at a club and it's just like at first it's awkward but then it's like okay well maybe they're interested in me maybe they like me or maybe they're just looking at someone behind me who knows you never know because you you always so what i always do if i see a couple stare at me like a lot and when we're at a club or anywhere i always turn around and look around my surrounding see it could it be anybody behind me because you never know it could be you know have you ever had that one time where someone waves at you and you wave back and you're like who the fuck is this person waving at me you just and you're being friendly waving back at the person and you find out they're waving to the person behind you and you go oh wow if you feel like a real asshole a fucking not like an asshole but you feel like an idiot and you're like damn but yeah so it can happen so people are gonna stare i don't know why people are so uptight because it's okay for bill and mary to stare at you because they have a pussy with them is that is that i would just like honesty i would just like couples say hey you know what we don't like single guys because they don't have a pussy they don't have a woman with them i my husband can't fuck the dude he He has nothing to fuck, so he's got to sit there on the sidelines.
You know, be honest. It's like you're not going to hurt my feelings when couples tell me, well, you know, I already know. I already know the answer is that's the answer. There's no pussy for the gentleman to fuck, so they don't want to have anything to do with me. Maybe the woman feels bad because her husband doesn't have anything or so on or anything like that. Thank you.
gentlemen the fuck so they don't want to have anything to do with me maybe the woman feels bad because her husband doesn't have anything or so on or anything like that i know that but you know what you got to come out and be honest just say hey we just don't want single men because they don't have a girl single men couples don't act any couples act the same fucking way as a single guy if you ever fucking notice it you ever really pay attention and if you don't believe me, go. Go to your club. Don't play. Just people watch. Watch how couples act and how they do things. They act the same way.
They do the same creepy things that guys do, but they have a pussy with them, so it's okay. Women grab other women without asking, without permission.
They will stare at other couples and same thing you're welcome a full nudist male you know fl food florida and all that you're welcome bud you know like i said i stand up for single guys i don't like couples diss us when it's not warranted now sometimes it's warranted nudist male but you know right now but if you but a couple does the same exact shit that single guys do it's just that they have a pussy so you know they're okay they're told they're okay it's okay that you have a pussy with you so your creepy shit's okay but johnny over there who's looking at you the same way he's a creepy because he's not good looking maybe he's overweight whatever it is so like i said stop with the being hypocrites it's okay just to tell us the truth you know it's like when the in all that stuff just tell us the truth work i'm fine with it you're not gonna hurt my feelings i've been turned down by a million couples i'll be turned down by a million more you ain't gonna hurt my feelings because i'm too short i'm not fit enough my cock ain't big enough stuff like that but you know what i don't like when people lie about stuff when they talk about single guys all the time and all that it's just like this couple the thought that having a single guy say hello to you or even have a conversation is uncomfortable you gotta remember that single me i'm a wealth of fucking information so even though don't play with single guys, but you want to know where the club is in the town, I could fucking, you can call me up and ask me, hey, you have any suggestions how to approach couples without getting rejected?
that's going to be tough because it depends on how you look all right this is a shallow industry and this is shallow lifestyle it depends how if you are a good looking dude you're not gonna have much trouble are you a black guy you're not gonna have much trouble if you're just an average looking guy how big's your cock and all that stuff it's all going to but number one thing is being funny you know any good jokes make a good joke uh you got you got to be able to talk to people without always going to sex you know when you first talk to a couple hey how you doing oh you know have you been here before yeah we come here all the time oh you've been to that club too so you go here go there you start talking talk about your jobs being being able to talk about stuff like that so that's some ways you can you're going to be able to now i'm sorry but you are going to get rejected and if you can't handle that rejection too well then you know you'll be it's going to be rough for you and i don't recommend you going into the lifestyle i would just recommend you doing whatever you got to do okay but don't go into lifestyle if you're scared of rejection because you like i said i get rejected like i said i got rejected a million times you'll get you're going to get rejected once or twice you could be a very good looking dude even very good looking dudes get rejected even guys with fucking 10 12 inch cocks get rejected buddy and it's it's amazing so you know you just got to be you know find your niche find your groove what are you good at i can talk and bullshit the best with the best of them and that's how i get in and all that stuff i also people watch so i'm also looking at people seeing who is friendly who are not friendly because you go to a club you'll see guys you'll see couples and single guys are very unfriendly to people and i and i don't know how you can be so angry when you go to swimming clubs it's like you're gonna get laid hell that should be the best thing about it right but anyways but back to the single couples and hanging single guys just be honest with single guys you don't want to be if it's like i said if they if you have no interest in single men just put that out there just hey i have no interest with single men but remember that single guy he can have a lot of insight into other places like me you give me a city i could tell you all the clubs where to go nudist resorts stuff like that uh and all that and people don't think like that they only think oh he's a single guy he's only after one thing yeah i'm after one thing sex i i don't lie about it i don't put i don't sit there say oh i'm here for a connection and all that i never needed a connection to fuck a woman all i need is a willing consent and a wet hole and i'm good to go and all that so you know but i found that post very interesting because just the way they said now maybe they're just not saying they don't want to play with single they don't want to have to reject single guys because they're they're afraid of reject rejecting them and having a confrontation and saying no some couples it's hard for them to say no that's another thing you got to worry about with couples if they don't know how to say no you're gonna they're gonna get themselves in a lot of issues but anyways so if you're a couple don't be scared to say no to a single guy we've been rejected a hundred times before you we are you know ways of breaking the ice that's good if you can break the ice it's like g.i joe initiating the conversations the hardest battle you know once you initiate that conversation's like G.I.
Joe. Initiating the conversation is the hardest battle. You know, once you initiate that conversation, you're good. You're good. You're going to be in there good. All right? Anyways, so I just thought that was weird. Anyways, so that's one. Let's see. Okay, so we talked about single males.
let's talk about wife poachers and it says this title says single female wife poachers single female wife poachers keep asking for my to do things with them after i explained that my husband and i only play together so a bit of a rant here we have been spending time at the clubs a lot good job and have noticed that there are single women looking to hook up with just me even though i am with my husband and after they are told we come as a pair good this couple's gonna make it because they're staying in their ground they got their boundaries they're sticking to their boundaries there's not oh they're just not saying fuck the boundaries.
I have no problem having some girl time, but I'm clearly with him. I state that we play together only, that we believe that each gets some or none. No one does, et cetera. And these women still ask if they can at least kiss me. It is starting to get a little annoying as I am clear that I only play if he does as well. So they're going to have to what she should do is a couple out there. Listen, what you should do is, OK, you can kiss me. You have to kiss my husband first. If you're OK, because my husband first, then you're allowed to kiss me.
That's the only way I'm going to kiss you right now, honey. And that's all you got to do. And people will respect it. And if they don't respect it, guess what? What happens? You learn to stay away from these fuckers. Also, there are some single women in the club but they don't seem to approach each other as often as they approach the women with husbands and then proceed to exclude the husband. I'd like to know what club this person is going to because I really want to go to a club with a lot of single women because it seems like there's a lot of single women.
Now, remember, just because they're single women are there does not mean they are actually single. There is a rise of women who are maybe being in an open relationship or they're just cheating on their husbands at home and they go by themselves. I have met a few single women, quote single women, who are in their lifestyle, but their husbands either are away because they travel or they do something else. They're not truly single.
So one of their rules could be they can't have any penetration but she can fuck other women so maybe that's where some of this is coming in now i don't know they could all really be legit single they don't have a spouse or anything a partner at home so the other night after explaining that we come as a pair only a woman then started that she is not into guys. We said, no problem, have a nice night, and as we began to walk away, she jumped up from her chair asking for a kiss. It just seems disrespectful to me, and I was wondering if this was a problem for anyone else.
Now, let's talk about this. If this was a single guy, did this, got up out of his chair after he was rejected by the couple and said, can I have a kiss? Everybody would be up in arms. And we'll see. What do people say on Reddit? First time we've ever seen a post someone complaining about being approached by too many single women. I kid. Honestly, I've never witnessed what you're talking about.
I have because I've been doing it for a lot but i have seen it and stuff like that i like the fact that this couple is setting their boundaries and they're staking to their boundaries so many couples will just throw their boundaries out the door because it's a single woman they're saying no we're not going to play with a single woman unless you play with my husband you can play with me but you gotta play with my husband so that's good uh all that said i do think that single women in a lifestyle are insanely unfair paths for bad behavior i love that guy who's this guy uh buck rides out he's right single women if they're single by at the club by themselves they could do whatever they want to do and they get away with're not ever, ever thrown out.
I had never seen in 28 years seen a woman thrown out of a club. I've seen couples thrown out of clubs. I've seen a lot of men get thrown out of clubs. I've never seen a single woman that came by herself get thrown out of a club after a bad behavior, but I want to know. Send me an email, swingingsinglepodcasts at gmail.com. Let me know.
Will, is it okay for a single woman to have have this behavior and if there's a single guy did this x a thing after being rejected by the couple and yelling at the girl to give her a kiss would that be tolerated because i'm guessing no it would not people would fucking bash the that guy over the head if he ever did that and all that stuff most of the time there aren't even single there will be a guy waiting in a corner somewhere we've seen is big increase in single women profiles online that state further into the writing that they're actually a couple yeah i see it all the time i've been saying that for a long time that there will be single profiles which pisses me off because i'm looking for a partner in crime and i see a beautiful woman and she's down to d she's dtf and all that and she's got a husband i don't want a husband i don't want to deal with that i want my own if someone of any gender is not respecting you and and you respecting your no no and is trying to hassle you and to consent let the staff know at very at every event i have i ever worked this is a one-time warning and a removal offense yeah i agree with that she'd be the lady should be and but i'm telling you it would be totally different if it's a man did this and a single man did it and a single woman versus a single woman if you both have your boundaries set which is a case to play together Thank you.
it would be totally different if it was a man did this and a single man did it and a single woman versus a single woman. If you both have your boundaries set, which is a case to play together or not at all, then that should be respected. See, the problem is what the original poster was saying. It's not respected by these single women. These single women are trying to nail her and steal her away from her husband.
I hear that from guys all the time or from couples that guys will tell the woman that she should leave her husband for her for him i mean and i'm like what why would you what guy i i just boggles my mind that as a single guy that they're actually single guys out there that would go to a married woman and say, you should leave your husband for me because I could treat you better. You know, it's like, how do you know you could treat her better? I just don't understand why guys get involved in it.
And another thing I've been thinking, if she leaves her husband for you, what says she won't leave you for another man? So why would you want a woman like that in the first place? I just don't believe. Here's one. It's a power trip, and I kind of get it. My daughter is in the LGBTQ community, okay, and can tell you this is common in the community. Women exerting power over men by taking their women is a well-known kink. All right? So you go to a swinger club and you try to take another man's woman? So let's punch these fucking bitches in the face then, I guess. I don't know.
It's just I don't understand. Why is it tolerated for single women to do this by single men?
No, we got to fucking have a 20-day bashing of single men or 1 thousand posts bashing single men on one subreddit and things like that uh so it's their version of a fu to all the cisgender folks who have wronged them over the years uh whatever dude you know gay community get over it whatever i don't know what to tell you guys you know if you're still hurting from whatever someone did to you 20 years ago and you and your revenge is going to a swing club to fuck a wife of a man so be it but you know what you gotta stay away from those wife poachers wife poachers are the biggest i don't think single men are the biggest problem i think wife poachers are the biggest problems because they're more devious in their actions when a guy goes to the club what do you guys think the guy wants pussy plain and simple there ain't no one there ain't no other reason why a single guy would be there or even a couple or anybody but you when you see a single woman then what could she be there for and how many have had a bad instance With a single woman become emotional Because women are emotional guys So it could get in trouble That's what I always said Don't fuck your friends If you're a swinging couple You want to swing Don't swing with your friends Go find strangers Make strangers your friend But don't fucking fuck your friend That you had since you were in elementary school Because guess what shit's gonna happen if it's a female she might start coming around your husband a lot more especially if your husband puts puts the wood down good dicks her down real good and she's single oh she's gonna come around more and more and she's gonna expect that dick down all right so that's one so that's just wife poaching like ladies leave the if the couple says they only play they play together all the time respect that and i'm just saying hey listen this couple's lucky because a lot of couples don't ever ever get approached by a single woman so i'm assuming they're probably a very good looking couple that that's why they get young and they're very good lucky because them if they're older they're not so attractive a lot of single females would not approach them you know that stuff hey you might be you might be oh that's horrible but it's true uh let's see uh more note to single guys we ended up there on a tuesday night and had a great time actually but not because of any single guys yes we're horrible we stared clear of all of you because none of you acted normal my question is why do you all sit poolside stare at couples stroking your dick all right do you think that is a turn on to let to the women at all is it it's just icky and you look like a weirdo why don't you all act normal and converse with people like normal humans all right i agree if you're just sitting there staring at couples and you're just jacking up if the couple is not fucking i'm gonna rephrase that if a couple is just sand tanning out there you know talking having a you know like a normal day not like any thing remember at these places some places you're allowed to fuck and at this resort at secrets you're allowed to fuck anywhere other than the lobby and the club so you know she could start blowing you could you'd be putting lotion on your girl's ass and you could finger bang her from the back that's susceptible same thing she could start blowing you she could jump on top of you do it doggy style wherever you could fuck her in the pool the fuck in the hot tub all right if they're just sitting there tanning enjoying her day and you're sitting there jerking off and looking at them i consider that very creepy or fucking weird okay that's weird I would have to agree on that however there is always a caveat to everything if they're over there you're on one side of the pool and they're on the other side of the pool and she's blowing them or she's fucking riding them or he's eating her out and a person's and a guy's watching he's jerking touching himself jerking off or whatever I would be I don't see that as weird We'll be right back.
and a person's and a guy's watching he's jerking touching himself jerking off or whatever i would be i don't see that as weird because i just see that as human nature i love to watch every a lot of people love to watch a lot of people are voyeurs and they want to pleasure themselves watching because that's their live porn. A lot of couples do it. And you go there and you watch. Couples will masturbate. Girl will start touching herself. Guy will start dragging them off. I see that a lot at couple at secrets resorts too. So I don't see that as weird as it is.
But if you're jerking off and they're just suntanning there, okay, that's fucking weird. I would have to agree. That's just weird as shit. Hi, Brazil girl. How you doing? And all that. Brazil CD girl. Hell, hi. From Miami. Good. Miami's a great town. Great fucking swinging action there. So I always thought that was weird.
Now, when they were fucking, I didn't really, I don't really think any think any of it because you know what a lot of people are watching you fucking especially after you pull cider at the cabanas and all that stuff because a lot of everyone can see it so everyone's watching someone's everyone's looking um and all that stuff and now you might ask why don't you have a normal comment it says do, do you think that's a, okay, it's just icky, you look like a fool. Why don't you all act normal and converse with people like normal human beings? Okay, this is the problem.
We do try to talk to you, single men. We do try to talk to you, but you treat us disrespectfully. You treat us horribly. when we do try to talk to you, but you treat us disrespectfully, you treat us horribly. When we do try to talk to you, you either ignore us, you turn your back towards us. So what do you want? You want us to act normal, but then you don't want to treat us normally. you want to treat us like we're horrible pieces of shit. Okay, I get it. You don't like us. That's fine.
But don't complain when we act like fucking weirdos because we don't talk to you, but yet we'll stroke our dicks when we're watching you fuck. It's just one of those things where you got to pick.
What you want you know i have no problem talking to you but if you don't talk back it's it can't be a one-way conversation it doesn't have to be a conversation between everybody so and face it if it's an ugly guy fat guy barely see his cock you don't really pay attention to that dude at all even the ugly couples won't and there's a lot of ugly couples that go to these places not everyone's a 10 i know they put that in the movies and they put it on what did that uh huntington wives or whatever everyone's a fucking 10 on that show but that's not swinging baby Swinging his bods and dad bods subpar fives and a lot of fives and very few eights to tens so if you want us to act normal no and you want to talk you actually want to talk to us when we talk to you don't fucking blow us off actually have a conversation and all that that'd be you know that could help a little bit but you know i'm gonna be honest i'm not to tell you even you do talk to us there'll be some fucking guys that are just dumb as shit will start jerking off looking at a couple that's sunny if they're fucking you have no there's i don't care what what the people do if you're fucking and you're out in the public and you get upset because someone's watching you fuck and that's your problem now from what i was seeing it doesn't think this was happening to them i think they saw guys do it to other couples and they're just pointing it out now Now, does it turn a woman on?
I don't know, but I'm telling you this. In my experience, if it's a very good-looking hot guy, it turns a woman on. I had women tell me they want to watch me masturbate. They'll be fully clothed. I'll be jerking off. I had it at TPC twice this past year. They would just want to watch you jerk off. So it might turn some women on i don't know who knows i it's just weird that you know that you'll be at a swinger resort and get upset about just the little things. You had a great time. That's all that matters. All right, so what? The guys were fucking weirdos and all that stuff.
Let's look at what some people say. I assume they do that because they enjoy being a creep. They don't care about turning anyone on. It's a creepy part. It's just self-gratification. they have no idea how to act normal because they're not uh you don't even know okay they're not normal in all this let's see what else exact same experience as a few chances we gave tuesday night never again the guys that show up tuesday night are roadkill level trash every direction guys jerking off staring at you cringe i've been on a tuesday i never saw that but you Thank you.
night never again the guys that show up tuesday night are roadkill level trash every direction guys jerking off staring at you cringe i've been on a tuesday i never saw that but you know what that's been a while since i've been on a tuesday so you know fuck shit changes quick on this lifestyle and all that stuff because it seems like more and more people are getting the hot wife lifestyle now and you know it goes from gang bangs couples couples interracial now it seems hot wifing is a big thing now so i don't know so i uh let's see i agree but i'm just trying to understand in my head how they think it works out for them all right i'll tell you how it works it works one time guess what they go to the club or they go to the resort they jerk off and it happens one time a couple fucking gets hard horny because guess what there are women out there that like that and they get laid so they do it again because it worked the first time and maybe it worked the second time so on and so on you know it's like a it's like an athlete they always have those superstitions where you know like wade boggs and he eat like a whole chicken before every game stuff like that uh they wear the same cup when they're on a hitting streak they're on a hot streak they wear the same clothes they don't wash them so on and so on that's what the single guy theory the maintaining if i did that last week i jerked off i looked at couples jerking off they saw my hard cock and fucked her.
If I do it again, I'll get laid again. And that's what's so fucked up. Because guess what? It works. If it never worked, they would never do it. I'm telling you guys, as a sparing, sparing single male, if it didn't work, they would not do it. Because you've got to find, like I said, over the years I had to find what works for me.
You know, bullshitting experience be able to bullshit about things talk about stuff did that work for me you know and i had to learn what works and what doesn't work for me staying fit getting in shape works for me i have a decent body i have a good body for my age you know i got a nice dick cock thick cock and all that. So I'm good. I figured out what works. I find out what ladies the women like over the years. These guys could be new. These guys could be just married and just looking for extra action on the side, which would be, you know, fucked up. But hey, that's their relationship.
Anyways, so they got to figure out. So I'm telling you, they were jerking off last week. They got laid. They come back another Tuesday. They jerk off. They'll get laid again. And guess what's going to happen? They're going to keep on doing it over and over. So if you want the single behavior, they're changed couples.
You're all going to have to be on a level playing field, be on the same page and say, okay, if he plays're not touching him no one talked to him because guess what after a while paying 500 dollars again in the secrets and not getting laid they're going to stop doing what they're doing so that's why they keep doing that's what you're overthinking op you're overthinking it it's simple it worked the first time so they're going to do it again.
And I avoid, like when I go out and I see, like when I see guys act like that, like the fucking hotel takeover and I got these fucking Indian dudes whipping out their dicks, standing right next to the bed, trying to jam their cock into some woman's face that doesn't want their cock in their face in the first place.
I grab them and say, get the fuck away from these people if they want you to come they'll tell you to come over you know and it and it'll cause some fucking uncomfortable standoffish shit you know where they'll try like these fucking indian dudes would try to square up on me because i'm telling them put their dicks away stop stick sticking your fucking dick in front of their girl's face because she doesn't want there was one woman she kept smacking the guy's hand away and he would not fucking stop it so i fucking grabbed him by the back of the neck and just pull him over say hey buddy man she's not interested right now don't do touch her anymore you can check off jack off right here like like i'm doing you're fine but don't go over there and start touching her without you didn't even fucking ask her in the first place and these fucking idiots do it so yeah i agree uh what kind of icebreakers work for me uh look at their clothes they're wearing you know sometimes guys will go people will get dressed up hey i.
Now, remember, I'm always talking to the male first. I don't ever approach a woman when she's by herself because I just think that's dirty and just disrespectful to the male. So when a guy's here, he's dressed nice, you go, hey, man, those are some nice shoes. Where'd you get them from?
And you just start bullshitting all that all that stuff because i always dress i always wear i try to wear a three-piece suit to every club i go to look nice it's a friday night maybe jeans uh dress shirt and a dinner jacket i'll have on looking good try to look good nice shoes and all that i'll look and try to fresh shave everything so you know i try to look at it so he'll go hey you know some people come hey to me and ask me about where I got my stuff and I'll tell them but you know here in Texas we got a lot of people who think they're cowboys or are cowboys and wear cowboy hats go oh that's a great cowboy hat so something about compliment them on something they're wearing and you know after a while you know they might start saying hey how you doing you know you come here a lot you know stuff like that so that's one icebreaker compliment them on the on what they're wearing you know you compliment the lady but make sure you don't do it like any guy a guy that's like jacking off on the pool staring at couples when they're sunbathing don't want to be doing like that don't be too aggressive on the compliment for the lady and all that stuff because later on you can start you know being complimentary to her but you know always talk to the male first you know when you do just introduce yourself stuff like that uh you know you can talk about your work whatever you do for work and things like that because you know what you might be in the same work industry like depending on where you go You're probably where, I don't know where you're at, Nudis Mill, Florida, you know what, you might be in the same work industry, like, depending on where you go.
You're probably where, I don't know where you're at, Nudis Mill, Florida, you know, service industry is big down there, so you might be part of the service industry. You could talk about that stuff. Here, I'm in Texas, oil and gas. Chances are you're going to, you go to a club, there's an oil and gas worker there.
You know, there's an oil rig worker there, so, you know, you know you can always talk so you got things you can find what you have in common icebreakers and also a lot of the clubs now have gone out of their way to not have icebreakers anymore a lot of the clubs when i first started in the late 90s early 2000s they would have ice breaker games and that would really did help a lot we would have a game where we play 21 where every person goes in the club gets a playing card and you got to find people that your cards equal to 21 and when you're done with 21 and you get it you go to the front you get a raffle ticket and you just keep playing through the whole night so you try to get as many raffle tickets as you can and they raffle off gifts at the end of the night and stuff like that so you know a lot of the clubs don't do that anymore they just give you a tour say hey if you need anything let us know which is bullshit because you know clubs should start really getting back to having people introduced because guess what there's a lot of introverted people in this lifestyle and you know you'll see them you'll see the introverts sit in the back staring being shy and all that because i'm not very and i'm not very aggressive because the way other single males are so you know nudist male i just sometimes i just let them come to me because you know what i'm not a bad looking, you know, I think I'm desirable for my age that I could still get it up and I could go multiple rounds and I could fuck for a while.
And I got my tongue and my fingers. And all that. So there you go. All right. So back to single male bashing. Like I said, it worked the first time. They're going to do it again over and over because it keeps working and all that stuff. So it's one of those bad things. Here's one. This is one I don't understand. Can't wait until club realize what a liability is allowing non-lifestyle single males in. They're not part of the swinging lifestyle. They're just treating it like a brothel or a pickup joint. Yes, I agree.
There are tons of non-single swinging males in the lifestyle because they're just waiting for their next girlfriend and all that stuff and it's and to them it's easy pussy however the problem with that is how do you know who's a non-swinger and who is a swinger how do you know and i do believe i asked him that, and I think that, uh, asked him. I think I did talk to him. I don't know. I'm trying to find out. Okay, yeah. And I asked him, how will you know who is a swinger and who is not? He said, by watching the above-mentioned actions. It's pretty simple.
Oh, so if a guy whips out his dick and starts it to you while you're fucking your wife that means he's a non-swinger he's not a swinger because i'm sorry but for the past 28 years i've seen a lot of guys do that married men who are with couples i've seen a lot of couples start jacking off when people are you know playing i've seen a lot of a lot of other guys do it, too. So I don't know. I didn't understand the dude's whole point of what he was, you know, talking about. And I told him, that does not prove they are a swinger or not. Proves they are in the wrong place.
If you think it's okay, you're part of the problem. Now, the problem I have with that is I was just responding to his comment about who is and who is not a swinger, and I never said it was okay. It's okay if they're jerking off and there's a couple fucking out in public. I'm okay with that. I'll tell you that right now. But I'm not okay if you're sitting there, you're suntanning, and there's a guy jerking off looking at you. That's just fucking, that is weird. That is weird whole behavior to me, and I don't understand it. Thank you, Brazil CD girl. Yes, I think I'm good looking.
Anyways, I'm about to get out of here anyways. But yeah, I had a little, that was a strange conversation I had with them.
I don't understand why people sit there and tell me that i'm part of the problem when i'm trying to defuse the problem by telling guys stop fucking doing this shit and i'm trying to tell couples the reason why you have this shit is because guess what it worked one time and in their stupid little heads they think it's gonna work couples do the same thing too couples will do the same thing it worked one time it'll do it again another time i've seen it before i've told you i've the years of experience i have seen it and it is annoying all right but anyways go to swinging single podcast.com check out my website go to you got any questions you want to be on the show Shit I'll do interviews Swing and Single Podcast Hey you want to be a co-host I can always Use a co-host Go call Swing and Single Podcast At gmail.com Check out Send me an email And all that So And all that stuff Remember gentlemen Shave your cock and balls Thank you CD girl Brazil Nudis Mel Thank you for participating In this SDC chat I always go live On SDC chat If you have a profile On there Go on there We'll be right back.
brazil nudismel thank you for participating in this sdc chat i always go live on sdc sdc chat if you have a profile on there go on there check it out anyways with that remember everybody shave your cock and balls gentlemen and keep on swinging and i'll see you next week Yeah, I'm a holly to your joker. I want to be the angel when it's over. You'll get lucky like a four-leaf clover. Baby, I'm a holly to your joker. I want to be the angel when it's over. I want to be the angel when it's over. You'll get lucky like a four-leaf clover. Baby, I'm a holly to your joker. We'll see you next time.
