In today's unmissable episode, your favorite provocateur, AC Maxwell, dives headfirst into the exhilarating yet undeniably complex world of group sex and maintaining a friends-with-benefits (FWB) relationship within your social circle. Known for his unabashed honesty and insightful commentary, AC breaks down the allure, the boundaries, and the taboo surrounding these experiences.We'll start by exploring the growing trend of group sex among singles and couples alike—what attracts people to it, how to navigate consent and comfort levels, and the unspoken rules that ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for everyone involved. AC doesn't shy away from the nitty-gritty, offering advice on communication, setting expectations, and dealing with the aftereffects in your social dynamics.Transitioning into the tantalizing topic of FWB relationships, AC will share personal anecdotes and advice on how to maintain a healthy balance between friendship and casual intimacy. This segment reveals how to establish clear boundaries, manage emotions, and preserve the underlying friendship amidst the complexities of added benefits.Today's episode is not just about the physical acts but delving into the psychological and emotional aspects, ensuring our listeners walk away with a deeper understanding of these intricate dynamics.Listeners are encouraged to join the conversation—share your stories, questions, or controversial opinions. AC Maxwell is here to entertain, inform, and maybe, just maybe, challenge the way you think about modern relationships.Tune in to "The Swinging Single Podcast" today and redefine the boundaries of your relationships, or simply enjoy the exciting tales from the wild side of single life.
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Hello, hello, welcome to the Swing and Single Podcast, your go-to place for exploring the fun and sometimes wild world of being untached and ready to mingle. I'm your host, AC Maxwell, and as always, I'm thrilled to have you join us. So today, we're diving into the topic that's definitely on the spicier side. We're talking about creating the best group sex situations.
Whether you're a seasoned participant or just curious about this adventurous approach to intimacy we've got some juicy details lined up also you won't want to miss the second part of the show where we share three essential tips for successful play with friends we're all about making the still sizzling scenarios safe consensual and incredibly fun so lock in folks it's going to be an enlightening episode filled with the all the do's don'ts and definitely try that's a group play stick around and let's get the party started on the swinging single podcast the swinging single podcast with host ac maxwell is intended for entertainment and educational The opinions, views, and content expressed or shared on the podcast are solely those of the host, AC Maxwell, and any featured guests or contributors, and do not necessarily represent those of the podcast's affiliates, sponsors, advertisers, or partners.
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All right, so today we're going to talk about some fun stuff that's fun for me, AC, and some of the other swingers that I know is group sex and how and why it's exciting.
How can you make it perfect for you and your partners in that group group sex scenario uh had a little group sex uh this past wednesday night at tpc hemstead brought a date with me and got her double stuffed and i got stuffed another woman so it's group sex is always fun so let's get to the action let's start talking about group sex so why is group sex exciting in the first place lots of people dream about group sex yes they do when people say they don't they're lying to you and it's a common desire among both men and women uh when people start getting drunk the real feelings start coming out and you'll see and you'll hear people and you'll see them and they'll talk about having group sex with multiple men just to go on tick tock where those guys interview the ladies on the streets people want to try it out for different reasons some are curious and want to enjoy life to the fullest we're including the excitement of being with more than one person at the same time i think the most common one of the common themes for fantasies for women is being with two men at once.
Same thing with men being with two women at once. So, you know, we all have these fantasies, but I also say, remind you that fantasies are sometimes just left to be fantasies and not always a reality. Others might want to explore being in charge or just have a really high sex drive. And I met a lot of people that have high sex drive, especially some of these women that can just take one cock after another and they drain the balls at every club and they still want more. Thinking about being with multiple partners at the same time is nothing to be ashamed of, people.
It's part of enjoying your fantasies. Don't let people kink shame you or whatever that is.
And don't let people talk bad about you you know what because in the end when people talk bad to you about this stuff they're probably jealous because you can do it and they want to do it but yet they don't do it because they are ashamed of who they really are so get them get them get in tune with your slutty self and enjoy it because you're only on this planet once and life is short we don't know what we don't have today we're not guaranteed tomorrow people ask me how you're doing i go well i'm doing great even though it's a shitty day because i woke up this morning and that's how i feel every day so you know what enjoy the time you have on this earth enjoy the people and just have a great old time so let's talk about You've got to get ready for some group sex.
You just can't go out there and fucking one day it happens. You know, it can be like that sometimes. You know, some you go to a party and it turns out to be a fucking orgy. Who knows? So getting ready is important in group sex scenarios. Group sex can really make your sex life more interesting, but getting ready for it is crucial. Like I said, gentlemen, shave your cock and balls. It also makes your dick look bigger, gentlemen. If you're planning a threesome or going to a bigger sex party, there are some things you should do to make sure everyone has a good time.
Remember to use lots of lube to make everything more comfortable. So now as a single guy, I would recommend any guy for that matter, couples, anything, buy one of those, you know, those fanny packs. Buy a fanny pack, you know, you can make it look nice and you can be-be-zazzle it, whatever you want to do. But always in that bag, you should have a shitload of condoms. Make sure you have Magnum.
And also make sure you have those non-latex skin condoms because you know you do have ladies that are allergic to latex and if you fuck them with the regular condom you're gonna fuck their insides raw and you're gonna kill the mood for everybody so have some magnums have some regular condoms and also have a lot of skins where it's non-latex because you know i do get some of those couples oh we're related to latex so we can't use condoms like well fuck so i always have them on hand a boy scout always come prepared and uh have a bottle of lube now here's the difference you have water-based and you have silicone-based lube if you are fucking in a pool like if you like when i was in florida You go to Caliente, Paradise Lakes, and you go to Secrets, you can fuck in the pool.
Well, water-based lube does not work well, hence water-based. So you're going to need, might want to bring both. So if you're going to be fucking in the pool, you might want to bring some silicone lube. So that silicone lube works wonders in the pool. All right. So if you're in a hot tub, you need some lube, she's not wet enough or whatever, make sure you do that. Make sure you bring both. So always have condoms in that fanny pack and two bottles of lube, one silicone, one water base.
Water base, if you're just fucking on a regular bed, is good because if it gets on the bedding, the sheets and all that, it's right out silicone will be a different story you'll stain it and all that so you know you just gotta know your situation be smart use your big brain not that little brain down between your legs you know and uh also in that fanny pack for gentlemen you can have things like your viagra your cialis or whatever so you have a always on demand and you always carry that now what i do i leave it in my car i don't put it take it in the house with me i leave it in my car because it's always there to go so no matter what i'm always ready to go so you know you got to have lots of lube because you never know how many people are going to be fucking and who's going to be using actually being the lube guy having being prepared you will get more pussy that way because people will sit there and go this guy's reliable and he's going to take care of himself if you go to a sex club and like i said like on thursday i mean on wednesday night i took a female friend and she got fucked and all that and a couple of guys had no condoms with them and you're at the sex club so we had a pass i said no no thank you we're good and whatever so it's also important to have condoms and dental dams ready And I'll see you next time.
guys had no condoms with them and you're at the sex club so we had a pass i said no no thank you we're good and whatever so it's also important to have condoms and dental dams ready to help protect everyone involved now that's up to you like i said this swinging lifestyle is very dangerous you are at risk of every time you have sex condoms or no condoms i don't we i don't know why we lie to our listeners or people lie to the listeners you suck a dick you can get stds you eat The podcast is brought to you by the podcast is brought to you want to use a dental dam when you're eating out a girl that's fine go ahead you don't have to i don't use dental dams i always just eat pussy raw same thing getting blowjobs you know you hardly ever get a blowjob with the condom on or anything like that usually it's you know you always fuck with the condom but you always have those prepared i don't have them in my to-go bag my fanny pack because i don't i'll never use them if a girl doesn't want to get her pussy in and out then you know i don't it's not gonna be a big deal just put a slap on a condom and i'll start fucking so staying safe is the most important part i would think when you're having group sex so having a threesome or any group sex means should you should be careful to avoid risk like i said there is no 100 guaranteed non-risk you're always 100 guaranteed at risk in the swingers lifestyle or anytime you use sex there's no difference between you in the vanilla world going to a bar picking up a dude and fucking them at your house there's no difference don't let people sit there tell all swingers are dirty no the problem is a lot of people in the vanilla world are the most dirtiest people because they don't really think well i'm just gonna fuck this guy and that's it i don't need a condom or anything all right you fuck him but you do that for a while guess what it adds up at least with swingers you know most of them are most swingers are very safe with their sexual uh practices there's other swingers are very reckless and let loose and don't really give a shit you know they don't believe anything you tell them so using condoms and dental dam is vital especially for anal and oral sex best ways to stay safe and getting tested for stds before going with new partners like i said they have those PrEP pills now for HIV transmission that you can take to lessen the risk of catching the HIV.
Then they have DroxyPrep, which will help you with chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis. After you have unprotected sex with someone, take it within three days and you should be good to go.
So the technology, the medical field is evolving now because they finally realized that there's a lot of money to be made so hey let's let's start doing this stuff now people are gonna fuck anyway so let's you know have it and in houston in june 40 000 new std cases were uh were reported so you know what you're in houston you got to be safe you got to be very safe with yourself all right so make sure you have those condoms ready guys and couples if you do play with single men and they come to a meeting or they come to a swinger club and they don't have condoms on you you can tell that dude is dangerous and dirty don't fuck around with that person that's just my advice from ac a single uh single swinger male so changing condoms when switching partners and for different types of sex is also important to keep safe.
Yes, I don't know how many times I see one guy, he's wearing a condom, great, but then he'll fuck one girl, he'll go to the next girl and fucking put his dick inside the other girl. Now, what you're doing is you're transferring the germs from one woman to another.
And women, it's a lot easier to catch a STD know guys will blow their load inside of them so you got your sperm and all that inside that girl for i don't know how like 48 72 hours i don't know how long it lives in there so you got that marinated in there so it's a lot easier for you ladies so you gotta be very careful so you're out there sticking your dick in one girl you pull out go to the next girl you still got the same condom on you are at risk of getting those two girls diseases so make sure when you do pull out you change the condom listen if you're going to a group sex you know it buy a 12 pack buy a 24 pack of condoms all right i know some of you guys are some of you couples are married to other people or guys are married to other people i don't give a shit what you do like i don't judge you because you know what there are sexless marriages out there or there's some marriages where the woman is a fucking bitch and the guy never gets laid he gets made on his birthday on valentine's day and that's it so and guys need sex we all need sex women need sex too stop lying ladies you do need it you want more part than men anyways so if you if all you go to a sex party just buy a 12 pack of condoms I'll see you next time.
ladies you do need it you want it more probably than men anyways so if you if all you go to a sex party just buy a 12 pack of condoms and just throw them out when you get done so you don't get caught or anything i don't you know you gotta be have a lot of condoms because i know a lot of guys don't bring them and for some odd reason like i said i always bring shit a shit load i buy i probably have about 36 condoms with me uh at all times just in case you never know now am I gonna fuck 36 times no probably not probably only about once or twice but you know I'm just gonna make sure that I'm not gonna have any problems when I am uh in a group sex scenario so you gotta change out those condoms and I know some guys don't want to do it because you know what they have limited supply and all that.
And I don't give my condoms out to other guys because fuck it. You know what, I've been one of those guys where I'm getting everyone laid. I'm the one initiating all this shit. And yet when it's time to repay the AC back, no one wants to fucking share their girl with me or anything like that. All of a sudden now they want that girl to give her, give him pussy. So you know what, I don't, I stopped doing that. That's my policy.
I don't share my l my lube anymore with anybody fuck it if you're so stupid that you don't bring those things and you're a seasoned veteran then i don't know what to tell you so make sure you change your condoms when you're switching partners because you're going to give those girls ladies a std anyways maybe i don't know i can't say 100 but you know and while orgies can vary in size and rules, trust and safety are key. Make sure everyone is tested for STDs to keep them safe and fun. Now, I don't trust anyone who says, oh, yeah, we've been tested. You can fake results.
It's been in the porn industry. Porn industry can fake results. Trust me. There are people out here smarter than a lot of the people in porn industry.
Those content creators, those OnlyFans, swingers that they say they're swingers, but they only fuck the same people over and over on film they lie and people lie don't trust anyone when they say they got their test results just pay attention to how they are do they bring like i said my number one rule when we're swinging with single men is do you have condoms yes or no he says yes he's good the fucker he says no he's on the blacklist blackball list because i don't want to have anything to do because i know because i'm going to a sex club it's not like you pop in one day and go oh shit i thought i was going to the sports bar no you know it's a sex club you know you're going there bring fucking condoms and you know what happens so bring condoms uh and shave your cock and balls so make sure everyone is tested if you can and you're gonna and unfortunately you're gonna have to trust these people ac doesn't trust them so you know like like when i have women tell me oh i can't get pregnant i got my ovaries removed or whatnot okay show me the documentation that you had them move show me the doctor stuff you know because i'm not blowing a load inside of you because i don't trust that you would try to get trap someone to get pregnant and all that i don't want no more kids so another key to a cessful orgy is consent and being polite which is lost on a lot of men and a lot of couples you know a lot of men get blamed for a lot of that couples do where it's actually the couples that are the problems not the men i have seen it where more and more couples are very rude and very disrespectful to other people and where the men are always polite and respectful but yet get the shit brunt of it so group sex is more fun when everyone is considerate of each other remember what's what's enjoyable for one person might not be for another.
So, always check in with your partners about their likes and dislikes. Yes, anal. If you want to stick a finger in your ass, someone's ass, you want to stick your cock in someone's ass, ask to just not slide it in there, acting like, oops, I didn't know it was not your vagina. The anal and vagina feel are two very distinct. You could tell if you're fucking an asshole or you're fucking a vagina. So don't sit there and say, oh, I didn't know. And all that. So ask, make sure you know your partner's likes and dislike. And guess what?
As a single guy, if you sit there and say, hey, baby, you know, or hey, young, beautiful. I just want to know what do you like and don't like you're gonna put a good impression forward with that girl and that lady is going to decide if you're gonna fuck her again or you're gonna fuck her at all so single gentleman my advice would definitely make sure every time you're gonna stick your dick anywhere make sure it's okay make sure you know her likes and dislikes because you know that puts a good foot forward and you sound like a good guy. You might not be a great guy, but it sounds like you are.
Consent is the most important thing. Yes, if she likes anal, she wants to get anal, make sure you get consent to put it in there. All right? Always ask before trying something new. So this is what happens when you have new partners. In swinging, you always have a lot of new partners and all that.
so you got to find out what they like and what they don't like and you got to ask before you do anything touching or anything like that ladies always touch ladies are the biggest ones of not asking to touch because they think they got a pussy and that it's okay for you to touch another girl no it's not ladies ask the lady to touch okay because sometimes some women are very insecure with their body like i don't like my stomach touched like ever but you know women will try to touch your stomach or try to touch my stomach and shit like that i'm like oh no no thank you i just don't like it and you know i have learned how to be very cordial when they're doing it because i really hate it i don't know why and i don't have a big stomach anymore so i don't know why but it's just one of those things i have i don't like to be touching the stomach so i tell people don't touch me there this way everyone can have fun without worrying about std transmission unwanted pregnancy which happens more than you think in the lifestyle or crossing any personal boundaries.
Now, listen, if you're a couple and you're at peak fertile range and you're taking guys and you're having sex with other couples and you're not using condoms or birth control explaining to your family why the baby doesn't look like in anybody or is black and you're a white couple it's going to be very uh awkward maybe and i have seen it happen personally and it's just something that you want to make sure so you got to make sure you you're doing whatever you can now birth control is not foolproof it can backfire like i said like if you're taking antibiotics and you take the birth control pill I think that wipes out the birth control pill so you gotta be smart when you are swinging because you don't want any unrounded pregnancy because you don't want that awkward explaining you got to do to your family unless your family knows you're a swinger and all that but still I think if that was my kid I'd be like why aren't you fucking smart enough to know if you're trying to get pregnant not to fuck a bunch of dudes or anything like that I don't know I don't know so planning the communication can help everyone feel relaxed and enjoy the experience all right so all that stuff is great information to have when you're talking about group sex all right and group sex is very fun i'm telling you that right now from experience all right i enjoyed having group sex a lot because you know you got the variety and all that like i said this past wednesday me and my partner go to tpc hemstead it was a very slow night very quiet night which is good because she's very new to the scene she She doesn't know what she wants and all that.
Well, we get in there. Like I always said, no one fucks until later on to the night, 11, 12, midnight, and all that. So we walk in there, and we go in the back. And actually, I'm showing around, and we're going in the back. And lo and behold, there's a couple in the room fucking. There's about three guys watching, which is cool. We don't care. We're there for single guys.
We want to get her split roasted we walk in we're just watching and she's watching she's getting wet she's getting pussy she starts rubbing on me and all that and i invited the couple there invited her to join them or invited us to join them and i'm like do you want to join them she didn't really say anything she just walked right over to him she gets on the bed the girl eats her pussy out for i think it was like about 30 minutes i go i never seen a girl eat a pussy out that long so the guys over me and the buddy me and her husband are over there watching just having a good you know just sitting there watching and he's asking me to fuck his wife i'm like no i just want to watch and enjoy the scene and all that make make sure she's comfortable with everything so the girl's going down there eating her pussy but for about 30 minutes almost and she finally gets and the girl gets done I asked my the partner go hey how you doing is everything cool she's like yeah everything's good and I go well she needs a cock in her mouth and I pointed to the husband and he's got a nice size cock good size cock and he puts it in her mouth she starts sucking him off the girl is looking at me the wife and all that so i'm like fuck so he starts trying to fuck her and this what and this is where he just tries to stick his dick inside of her and i'm like hello we gotta have condoms and all that he don't have he had condoms and all that so all that so he had to do a shot but his dick couldn't get hard so he had to do a shot of viagra he's something like that something he's stuck in his dick he's i think that trimax to get him hard so he gets hard i give him a condom here fuck my girl so he's fucking her i end up deciding you know to fuck the other girl his wife so i got her doggy style he's on top of my he's got her a missionary i'm pounding away you know on the girl and the wife and i blow my loads and all that i'm all done watching and all that she's coming a bunch of times and all that so it's all good he's fucking her i don't know if he got close or he came or not something but he pulls out he takes his condom off he's trying to like take his dick and rub her pussy and we're all like no that ain't gonna happen because you got to have a condom on and all that he goes oh she goes he's like oh is she close to go yeah she she came already don't worry about it dude but they were a nice couple they were very that.
They were very good and very awesome. So we all cleaned up. Me and her get cleaned up and go and do our thing, go sit down and talk. And I want to talk to her about the experience. She really didn't say much about it. She didn't have it one way or another. She didn't say anything about it. I asked her, how do you feel? She says, do you feel fine? Great. And all that. Great. About an hour goes by. We go back.
She starts sucking starts sucking my dick there's another dude a guy that she liked i saw i wave him over this fucking guy just sitting there staring at us i'm like i'm waving him over to come over because i want him to sit down so she could suck his dick and get him hard and start fucking him she don't do that he don't fucking he's over there just staring there's a couple new couple from new zealand's here they're she's you know making out with two of the other guys all that so he's either going back and forth looking at her looking at my girl looking at her looking at my girl and all that shit so finally some guy had the balls to come up and decide to come up and sit down i wave over to him he fucking moves over not the highest looking guy but you know a guy who's ready and all that so i said tell him sit down i go i tell you what so finally one guy wave over he finally comes over sits down tell him whip out his cock and i tell her suck his cock so she's sucking his cock and all that and all that so i go is he hard yet so because i want him to fuck and she wants to fuck she don't want to suck that cock all the time then he's like no i go well her you better hurry up buddy because you know you got limited time here and next thing i know she's sucking on him again and i guess he blows his load so i'm like okay oh i guess he's okay he's good he's he's apologizing to me i'm like don't apologize to me you're fine that's what the whole point is to blow your load you're supposed to fucking she wants you to fucking come that's the whole point and all that but it was very apologetic i'm like don't worry about it dude it's okay we're you're all good don't worry about it so we're sitting there the other couple new zealand couples they're on the bed and she starts fucking her husband and the guy and the two guys are getting their dick sucked by the girl and all that so it looks great so me and her get up we walk over there to check it out she loves she was well she really i think she's gonna be a voyeur i don't think she's gonna be too she might be in the lifestyle a little more than i think but i think she's gonna she really likes watching so she's watching i got her bent over so i start fucking her and all that and the new zealand couple start touching her and all that i'm like okay don't worry about she's cool and we fucking so i dropped my load inside of her again for the second time tonight and we're sitting there and we go talk to the new zealand couple and all that we're talking about they're asking those places to go and all that said well they probably fucked up because they came to houston they should went to dallas or should went to vegas or florida to go have fun but they were asking me is the club always like this like oh yeah usually you know you probably get about 20 30 people on a wednesday thursday you get maybe 50 and friday saturday is when you get the most people so you know we're talking to them and we finally uh asked her do you want to go fuck him and she's like no so i was like okay we're done then uh midnight so let's get on out of here excuse me so we get on out of here and all that and what i like about it that she drove her own car i drive my way i don't have to drive home or anything so it's great so we had a great time she had a great time uh and all that then she texted me about you know i hope i didn't disappoint you and stuff like that i go i tried to tell her listen you don't disappoint me it's what you want to do it's not what i want to do it's what you want to do because you're the one that's ultimately going to decide if you're going to stay in the lifestyle or not and all that so you know it's one of those things where you have to be very communicated with that person she wants to go back she wants to do all this stuff and I told her you're gonna have swinger burnout and I even said I even talked about well she's like what's swinger burnout I go well it's like when couples go there they want to do everything in one night where I try to tell her go listen this club's gonna be here next weekend it's gonna be here next year and so on and so on you don't have to do everything just go slow chill go at your own pace uh and all that you enjoy the ride and all that because you know what the couple there's a lot of good couples and there's a lot of bad couples just make sure you stay away from those bad couples because they will ruin your fucking life they will ruin your time having fun and she's like oh okay so she's you know i try to tell her just relax and don't you know be cool you'll be fine but she always has like a thousand questions about anything when i told her about it i go you have to make a profile online and all that and she just kept texting me what do i do here what i do here i go listen just make up everything you want you don't have to tell them anything just make up your name all that just make up a screen name and all that stuff so you know when you have a newbie it's kind of sometimes it could be difficult but it is what it is and it was a good time for her she had a great time i had a great time and all that so it is what it is anyways now we go from group sex now let's talk about having sex with friends i this is my personal feeling is i will never have any if i have a buddy who tells me hey my wife wants to have a threesome would you be interested i'd be like no thank you and this is my whole thing this is why i don't like playing bringing friends personal friends into the lifestyle and do anything because one you don't No, women will assume that your husband knew your husband's open game the fuck and she wants and we gotta be honest with this if a woman wants what you have she's gonna do everything in her power to get it from you so she wants your husband she's going to try to take your husband and that could open the door to a lot of fucking drama a lot of problems same thing with men now men not so much but guys will always think well if i'm going over ricky's house today i'm gonna be fucking his wife when you have no ideal you just want to watch the ball game with them so i always say know the friends but if you're one of those guys who don't give a shit you want to fuck friends that's fine this is for you uh i think someone i someone i met i was talking to someone earlier uh this week and they were talking about they want to bring in a friend to have a threesome with and i'm like don't do it because you're going to regret it in the end because the friendship's going to get ruined because of the sex sex does ruin ruin friendships.
In my experience, it has. So, you know, it is what it is. So if you're one of those people that want to put some friends and you want to play with your friends, this is how you can do it. Playing games with friends is about more than just having a good time. It's also about working as a team to reach a common goal. This could mean solving puzzles, fighting against enemies, or finishing tasks together. To do well in cooperative games, your team needs good communication, teamwork, and a shared way of thinking.
Here are three simple tips to make sure your gaming sessions with your friends are better and more fun. all right. So it's kind of like just regular game. Like you're going to play Uno or Monopoly or anything like that. You got to have. Means solving puzzles, problems. What problems do arise? Limp dicks, dried pussy. Those are problems. Fighting against enemies. Who do you don't want in the group? Who do you want to fuck? Who do you don't want to fuck? And finishing tasks, coming together. Like I said, my one fantasy is do a raw DP with another woman. All three of us come at the same time.
Me and the guy are inside of her puss vagina together, and we blow our loads inside of together and she comes at the same time too that would be a fantasy of mine does it always work uh no not always so key tips can you communicate clearly and respectfully make sure everyone stands each other and is on the same page what are we going to do in this little menage a trois or foursome or fivesome or sixsome or orgy good communication helps avoid misunderstandings it makes the sex games more enjoyable or just sex more enjoyable if you're inviting your buddy kent over for a night and your wife likes kent and your wife wants to fuck kent you better let kent know that maybe you know there's some opportunity for naughtiness because guess what not every guy or not every couple or not all your friends are down the fuck have threesomes look at when you go to a club think about that how many times guys get limp a lot of guys i'm in a group where we do game bangs and a lot of dudes cannot get hard or stay hard in these gang bang situations because there's so many dicks, especially the new youngies.
I never had, when I was young, when I was 21, I had no problem fucking doing this. I didn't have no stage fight.
I was able to, maybe because I was an athlete and all that, that I'm used to performing in front of people, that I can block out all that noise outside of the outside of my head maybe i could do that but these young cats today are getting limp and they can't do it so you know you gotta have some good communication where you tell kent hey man you know maybe my wife kind of likes you and she might be interested in having a little sex with you and if you want to have a threesome where it's you two split roasting your wife and kent can't get rise to occasion because you're in there that's going to change the dynamics of your threesome because maybe kent can only do it when you're outside the room and i know i know if you're like me i don't want to that's not my thing my cup of tea my cup of tea is going to be watching or participating in that threesome with you if you're my girl so you know make sure you just know the gaming so to use each each participant's strengths everyone has different skills uh and all that some girls are good at pussy eating some guys are good at pussy eating some guys are good at dick sucking some guy some are good at dick sucking.
What are their skills? What do they bring to the table? Some might be great at planning. Ah, planning those threesomes. I know some people want an orgy come organically. You know, it just happens. Well, you know, you got to plan those things out. Others are better at action.
Like I said, some guys can rise to the occasion no matter what the whole fucking 50 000 people in the stadium keep watching them fuck on the 50 yard line to they can't get if there's anyone other than the girl in that room they can't get hard so you got to have you know you got to be good at action recognize these differences support each other so that the whole team benefits so the whole group group benefits. You know, it's tough when you don't have that, you don't know each other's strengths. Because you got guys who can't last more than three minutes in bed.
So, if you can't last long, make sure you like eating pussy, enjoy eating pussy. And you got to really enjoy it. A woman will know if you enjoy eating pussy for your satisfaction or for her. I love eating pussy for me. I mean, if your pussy is good, I could stay down there for an hour, and I could keep my tongue going. I'm going to be sore tomorrow with my tongue, but I'm going to enjoy it.
I do it for my if i do it for my enjoyment i enjoy eating pussy and all that and if you don't like it and you can't let any and when you put your penis inside of a woman here cock inside of your girl and you only last about three four minutes well then you better start you know getting other strengths because you know that's not a long time now we gotta stop watching porn porn and movies and porn because you know the average sex time for people is like seven to ten minutes that's how long the average person has sex for you don't need to be fucking for hours and hours at a time some of these people are like oh we fuck for hours are you sure about that are you are you sure are you naked for hours and you just fuck for a couple minutes you know and all that so you know we got to think of things all right three focus on teamwork over anything else even through games even through the sex often i have a competitive edge yeah i'm always competitive with other people i always want to be i want to be the best pussy eater i'm a best fucker out here uh you know and all that like i said i always have like what is it called i go i call people i have an angry fuck so if i know you're kind of you're an asshole couple i'm gonna angry fuck the shit out of your wife so to make sure she remembers me and she remembers my name so focus on working together rather than trying to outdo each other that's not gonna be me i'm gonna outdo try to outdo everybody because you know as a single guy you got to really put a good foot foot forward and you know you want that callback this creates a happier uh sex uh experience or atmosphere whatever you want to call it additionally practice regularly to get better both individually and as a team get together more than once especially if you like your friends like i said they're your friends i'm'm talking about your regular friends I'm not talking about lifestyle friends I'm talking about regular friends The only way you're going to get better at To have a threesome or a group of sex Is to keep doing it And that's a good way to, you know Call everybody over I heard stories that people would actually Back in the early days of key clubs They would bring their kids And the kids would be in the basement While the couples were upstairs uh fucking i heard stories like that i'm like that can't i don't i'm now knowing as a gen xer knowing my parents and the grandparents i can see it i can believe it i think so too sometimes taking a well-thought-out risk can pay off keep it light and fun and remember that the main reason for sex with your friends is to enjoy yourselves together and come together do do i'll do all that so affect the communication in casual relationships so maybe this is going to be casual when playing with your friends it's very important to talk clearly especially when you're in a casual sexual relationship being open and honest about what you expect what you desire and your limits can make your relationship closer and make sure for you sure for you both understand each other well so let's look at this being open and honest a lot of people are not open and honest they don't tell you what they want and feelings change like i said women sometimes will start thinking well you know brad is not that of a guy.
I would wish I had myself a Brad. Oh, I can fuck Brad. Maybe I can take Brad away from Susie. All right. So what do you expect out of this threesome, foursome, whatever? Are you expecting a long-term casual sexual relationship? Are you expecting a one-time thing and no one talks about it ever? What are your desires? What do you want to get out of it? Busted nuts? Shit like that? All kinds of stuff? We don't know. You got to tell us. What's your limits? You know, do you want spanking, anal, kissing, stuff like that? All right.
For those in a friends with benefits situation or just exploring casual relationships, it's crucial to talk about sexual health and the importance of safe sex. Like I said, we have to talk about it. We don't talk about STDs and all that in this lifestyle that much. We just assume. All right. So we want to talk about that. Make sure you're safe. Always using the condoms is a must to protect against sexually transmitted diseases and keep a healthy sex life.
Here are some simple rules to help you communicate well in a sexual relationship plan clearly always agree on when and where you'll meet to avoid any confusion now that's kind of hard if you don't live together because you know their communication and times now that people are fucking busier and busier every day it seems like so you got to really think about you know where you're going to meet hotels stuff like that if you're married you don't want to you know and your spouses don't know where you're gonna meet up how you're gonna meet up things like that like i said i don't judge if you i don't give a fuck what your marital status is and all that as long as you don't bring your drama to my ass i don't care because you know what i understand shit happens in marriages and stuff like that you're not gonna be fucking ignorant say oh you should just be with your partner you know some fucking people are just assholes and when they withhold sex from you i think that's fucked up and you deserve whatever happens to you should deserve your if you're withholding sex from your husband or your wife and they cheat on you you fucking deserve it because you know what you took an oath to obey and do all this shit and you don't so you're breaking a contract by not fucking if you don't want to have sex with that person just tell them you don't have sex open up your relationship or get divorced i don't know be pacific when talking about what you like and you don't and what you like and don't like in bed be clear being vague can lead to uncomfortable situations or even crossing each other's boundaries i don't know how many times like i said i always assume anal is I don't like in bed, be clear.
Being vague can lead to uncomfortable situations or even crossing each other's boundaries. I don't know how many times, like I said, I always assume anal is going to be off the table. I'm not a big fan of anal. I don't really give a shit. I'm not sticking my dick in a fucking asshole, a place where people shit and bacteria is and all that. I don't really worry about it, so I don't really even ask because I don't really go that way. But, you know, if you're a guy and you like anal sex that much on women, make sure you ask. Make sure you know what's going on. Thank you.
don't really worry about it so i don't really even ask because i don't really go that way but you know if you're a guy and you like anal sex that much on women make sure you ask make sure you know what's going on make sure you know all this stuff so you don't have any you know hiccups along the way check in regularly keep the conversation going to make sure both of you are still happy with the arrangement and feel respected and safe after a couple times go back and talk about it so you still want this yeah okay that's all you gotta do it's not that difficult it's just not difficult at all just remember good communication is the key that keeps everything running smoothly ensuring trust and enjoyment for both of you do that you'll be fine and all that all right let's go to teamwork teamwork and support in games and casual issues when you play games with your friends it's really important to work together to help each other just like the respect and understanding you find in a friends with benefit which they call fwb partnership an fwb relationship is where two people meet each other's sexual needs without serious promise of a romantic relationship now can fwb a friends with benefits relationship turn into something serious and romantic sure it can i'm probably guessing we're human so it's probably happened a bunch of times when one person starts having catches the feels for another person and that could cause trouble because you guess what wasn't that your agreement originally that this was just about sex and nothing else and all that?
Then you start catching feelings for each one. One catches feelings for the other and all that. Maybe the other one doesn't feel the same way. That's where the communication has to come in because if you are a person that don't want that relationship with anybody, you just want the sex. Well, you better nip that shit in the butt because it's going to make it awkward. Watch movies.
similarly when you were gaming with your buddies it's better to concentrate on playing as a team and having fun instead of just trying to be the best player try to be the best player i always say i don't i don't really care you know i'm trying to be the best that i want i can be if everyone falls behind fuck them just like the guidelines of fwb relationships friends with benefits relationships there are rules to make playing games with your friends better respect limits always be consider of what your friends are okay with in the game or in the sex and all that talk honestly be open about what you expect from the game and how you feel while playing and stay safe and agree just like talking about stis and protections is important with your friends with benefits it's a good degree on safety and rules in games too so when you're in uh friends with benefits or playing a game with your friends remember that it's about having fun not getting too serious or emotional with games try not to let feelings get in the way if there's a bit of competition or if someone gets frustrated the main point of both situations hanging out with your benefits hanging out with benefits or playing games is to enjoy yourself and the people you're with using the ideals for friends with benefits can make your gaming times better because everyone feels support and part of the fun now this is really good for those younger crowd because i know like younger people do love the games video games and all that i personally don't give a flying fuck about a video game but you see a lot of them you see a lot of uh cam girls now girls get paid and guys get paid just to fucking play video games in lingerie by fucking people now so you know video games are very important so a friends with benefits situation can turn from a gaming you know you meet someone on a gaming console something on that i like i said i don't know too much about the gaming stuff i never got into it uh and all that but you know people can start having relationships over you know playing on your nintendo system or your sega whatever the fuck you're a PX you're a in your friends with benefits situations so in a friends with benefits setup it's all about having a good time without the serious stuff that comes with a regular relationship.
But sometimes feelings can sneak up on people and that might make things change, things trickier, complicated. Like I said, it happened to me. You know, you have a woman I'm having sex with on the regular and all of a sudden, you know, she stops coming around.
She to talk to me anymore and you find out that she's she's falling for you and you're like why don't you say anything to me in the first place instead of just fucking ghosting me this was before the term ghost ghosting came out and all that so you you know and it hurts my feelings because i think i did something wrong but i didn't't do anything wrong. I just was, I was just there and she fell. She got emotional attachment towards me. She didn't like the fact that I was with other women and all that, but she was a swinger too. So I didn't understand that, but you got to be very careful.
It didn't ruin our friendship. That's one less friend I have. I, me and her were very good friends for five to seven years and all that.
So, you know, you got to be be very that's why i said sometimes a friendship benefit situation with friends can cause the friendship to end because one someone catches the feels now did i have a feelings for everyone i someone i fucked yeah of course i got feelings for someone i fucked but you know i would tell them and say something and say hey what do you think about being boyfriend girlfriend and yes or no you know and that that would happen i didn't sit there just stop talking to them because i was mad or anything like that now i would get jealous because they're out there fucking other men or other couples but you know i didn't get upset but i'd let them know how i felt and that they felt the same way.
Nine out of ten times, they didn't feel the same way. You know, once in a while, they felt the same way, and we started relationships. So it can happen. To keep a friends with benefits situation from getting too complicated, think about what you really want from it. Like I said before, you got to always think about it. Communication is key. Keep talking about it. Go revisit your situation every couple times.
It doesn't hurt once a month to talk about hey are we good you have any feelings stuff like that if you're cool with just being friends who have a bit of extra fun then stay relaxed about it no worries have great time i know some of those are the best relationships to have because you don't have no commitment to anyone and if you find someone else you know you can always leave.
Now that's another part that we'll probably talk about later, but what happens when you do find that person that you want to be with and you're in a friend or benefit situation, but if you're wishing for something more, you should talk about it. Here's a simple guide to help you, you know, keep things in check, have talks once in a while and see how you both feel.
Like I said, it's okay month maybe if you want to do it two once a week twice no every other week who knows but you know you gotta have that talk say hey how's everything going how's our situation how's our arrangement going go easy on the cuddling it can lead to feelings growing so bada boom bada bing get done get clean up and get the fuck out you know if you're cuddling you're talking you're talking like a couple that's what couples do at least most couples be upfront about what you are after so no one gets hurt like i said all she had to do is say if she would have said hey you know i really ac i really like you now i would be like okay let's do it because i Because she's good.
She was good and bad. She was fun to hang out with. So why not, fuck, why not have a relationship with that person? Because you know what? We both think the same. We're both, you know, high sex drive people. Let's fucking try it. Maybe we do. Maybe it turns into a marriage and family and all that. You never know.
But if she would have said that, I would have been saying, if she would have said, you said you know i've had your feelings for you i think i want you to be with me i've been like okay melissa we're good to go but nope she didn't she just stopped calling me so having a grown-up way of handling things is important to keep it all smooth that's that's a key word growing up a lot of people are not growing up to me they don't act grown up they act like a bunch of fucking assholes now and it sucks so emotions start to bubble up for you and your friend it's time to think things over all right before it gets like i said sex can ruin a friendship i repeat sex can lead can ruin a friendship you might take things to the next level or stop with the friends with benefits to avoid messy emotions you know and i'm always interested in hearing from anybody out there swinging single podcast dot at gmail.com have you had any messy friends with benefit breakups or did your friends with benefit lead to marriage or anything like that i would love to hear that You both should be cool with how things are without one person getting too attached.
Now. or did your friend's benefit lead to marriage or anything like that? I would love to hear that. You both should be cool with how things are without one person getting too attached. Now, that's difficult to do because some people will say, I can handle sex only, friendship. But they really can't. After a while, they start feeling, have feelings for the person because, and I think that's just natural. You start caring for the person.
You you care about their well-being so it's like if you're just regular friends like your best friend you care about their well-being and all that you're not sitting there oh i can't no i don't give a shit we're just fucking i would hope you would give a give a little shit about that person that you're fucking you know make sure they're cool all that so i don't know i think like i said i just don't want i don't bring friends into a sexual relationship and all that because i just think it's just going to ruin the friendship especially if you if i especially if i value the friendship you know i have some people where i can care fucking less if i ever hear from them again so if she said hey i want to fuck i'm down to fuck to be friends with benefits but there are some women i had in my life where i don't want to lose them at all i don't give a fuck about anything else i'm not gonna ruin it by having sex with her even if she asked me to i'll be like no that's all i value your friendship i love your friendship more than anything else on this planet so you know it is what it is so you gotta be smart don't be Don't be stupid.
So what is a friend for? What's a FWB relationship? Friends with benefits relationship is a chilled out thing where two friends have some fun in the bedroom, but don't act like a couple. If you didn't know. So these are some of the things people ask. So how do you set boundaries in a friends with benefits? You make clear rules in a friend with benefits by talking about what's okay and what's not. And being honest about how you're feeling. Now I would think that it's about some of the sex acts you're going to do. And also, you better have one of those things.
What's going to be the exit strategy for you guys? So let's say you have your friend and you're having a friend with benefits relationship with them. What happens if one of you meet someone that you want to be serious with? Does it stop? Does it continue? Things like that. You know, you got to talk about that. That's another thing. Exit strategy. You got to make sure you have an exit strategy.
So what some fwb rules one would be an exit strategy uh must knowns are to keep the communication open respect each other's space like no staying over at anybody's house or anything like that and be mindful of the emotions involved because you're going to get emotions i'm i don't i don't understand how people say well there's no emotions about like oh there's going to be emotions about trust me women we know women you guys are very emotional men are becoming more of women like so they're going to be more these younger cats are more emotional and all that so just got to set those rules how do you step stop from catching feelings in the friendships with benefits i don't know to.
To keep feelings at bay in a friendship with benefits, check in with your own emotions. Chat openly with your sex buddy. And remember, this is not romance. Remember, you just decided that you're filling a need. And people are so wrong when it comes to sex.
Sex is a necessity in life you got to be that what sex brings to human beings is something that no friendship like your best friend cannot fulfill it's like people would say oh i will i don't care about being single no one on this fucking plan wants to be alone who the i don't understand these these feminists and all these these new age people would say i don't mind being alone bullshit you do mind being alone everybody does because you know what it's funner with someone you can share think about you can share your life with someone you get to share all those emotions all those fun times with someone and it's just youtube there's nothing on the the often in the world can take can describe that emotion those emotions are the greatest feelings that any human being would have and yet you have these people going around we don't need i don't need a man i don't need none of this yes you do we need i need a woman you need a man or you need a man your gay couples need each other you know two women need each other just as much as two men need each other guys it must be horrifying terrifying for someone to go in this world alone and never having that one partner they can talk to confide in that will always have your back so you're going to catch feelings and it's okay it's going to be all right so sex is like a necessity in life you know you just it just brings that feeling of closeness between two people now when it comes to swinging I always say you got to distinguish between sex and love you know I love my partner but when we go to a club and we swap with a couple or you have a single guy that's just sex they're nothing to us they're just a means of satisfaction for us all right so what if you get jealous in the friends with benefits which what happens to if you feel i get jealous i got jealous if you feel jealous in the the friends with benefits you gotta talk it out make sure everyone knows where they stand and think about if the friends with benefit thing is still working for you both and like i said i had to end friends with benefits i haven't had many but i had to end them because i got jealous because there were fucking other dudes and i wanted a relationship after a while with them and they didn't they just wanted to fuck around or they fucking felt the other guy was better that was better off for him jokes on them they all ended up divorced all right anyways how do you avoid getting too close emotionally in the friendship benefits to avoid getting too close in the friendship benefits keep your chats about fun stuff you know Don't deep dive into personal things.
Politics, religion, anything like that. Except for when I find out the girls are liberal, I fuck the shit out of her. And I always tell her, that's how us conservative Republicans fuck, baby. Because you know what? People take politics too fucking seriously nowadays. Who gives a shit? They're all fucking, they don't, you think those people in D.C. give a fuck about you? Then if you do, you're a fucking idiot. They don't give a flying fuck about you. Only time they care about you is on April 15th, make sure you pay your taxes, and every two to four years when they gotta have your vote.
They don't give a fuck about us. You think the Republicans and Democrats are all the same cocksuckers. Now, I'm a registered Republican, but you know what? I'm just fucking like, none of those guys give a shit about me. I never hear them call me up and say, hey, how you doing, AC? How you doing, dude? How you doing, Antoine? How you doing, Melissa? How you doing, Joey?
How you doing, De you doing Joey how you doing Devin Anthony Mark Giuseppe whatever Sarah how you guys doing no they don't fucking do that every two years they come out of the fucking woodwork these motherfucking Democrats Republicans we need your vote and tell you, oh, this is the most important election in history. Every fucking election is important, dumb fucks. And you know, you've got dumbass people in America that actually buy the shit. It's like democracy is on the vote, is on the line. We're not a democracy anyways, asshole. We're a constitutional republic. So, you know what?
That being said, focus on things you could do, fun dates, like going golf, go-karts, putt-putting, you know what that being said focus on things you could do fun dates like going golf uh go karts putt putting you know rather than deep talks go to the movies you don't have to talk that much you can finger when you're in the movies too that's kind of cool so just try to not to do get dive deep into the shit so what's good about the friends with benefits friends benefits is great to having a bit of no strings fun learning what you like and hanging out with without the pressure of being in a full on relationship you know sometimes you just don't have time for a relationship you know you're working on your career and all that you've got a good job now you want to you know but you do need sex because sex is fucking great so how do you keep the healthy sex life and the friends with benefits keep your sex life healthy and the friendship by staying safe talking about what you like and making sure everyone's good at it is everyone has to have a good time like i said use this friend's benefits to craft your oral skills you know how you eat pussy how you suck dick you know because every every woman thinks they're good at dick sucking i'm like some of them there's some a lot there's a lot of bad dick suckers women out there you know you know we just don't got a cock we got balls we got an anus we got a tank you know start touching all that shit dude and same thing with guys you know what you got to learn how to find that little man in the boat fucking ain't that hard you know you got to figure out how you got to be able to lick tongue a girl and be able to finger at the same time you know so use that friend with benefits as a way to improve your fuck game so when you do get that one girl you get that one guy you fucking blow their mind and they want to be with you forever so you know hopefully these are some good tips and hopefully those are some things that you like and will use in your personal life if not oh well but i hope you enjoyed the show today uh you know how to have some good group sex and how to uh you know fuck with your friends get a fwb or friends with benefits relationship so remember gentlemen do the ladies a favor shave those cock and balls remember go to doobie.gg order your energy drink for the extra kick at the swinger club or when you're with your friends with benefits rock her world rock his world just go to doobie.gg enter swinging single as your promo code and you get 10 to 15 to 30 off all right everyone have a wonderful day and enjoy your swinging action this weekend and be safe, everybody.
Shave those cock and balls, gentlemen. We'll see you next time.
