Welcome to the Swinging Single Podcast with your host, AC Maxwell. In today's episode, we delve into the exciting yet sometimes daunting experience of going to a swingers club solo. Join us as we explore the ins and outs of navigating a swingers club as a solo attendee, discussing strategies, etiquette, and making the most of your solo swinging adventure.Additionally, we engage in an open conversation about the BBC (Big Black Cock) phenomenon within the swinging community. Get ready for a candid discussion that unpacks the complexities, myths, and realities surrounding this topic. Tune in to gain valuable insights, tips, and perspectives on both going solo to a swingers club and the nuanced discussions surrounding the BBC phenomenon.swingingsinglepodcast.comswingingsinglepodcast@gmail.comhttps://bitchtopia.com/i-went-to-a-sex-club-as-a-solo-guy/1
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head to mood.com that's m-o-o-d.com to get started welcome to the swing and single podcast with your host ac maxwell broadcasting live from the legendary upside down pineapple studios in the heart of texas so for over two decades i have embraced the swinging lifestyle as that single male yes that creepy single male is here on this show i'm here to share my wildest tales fantasies and my experiences that i have and also share some insight into the great lifestyle swinging so grab some lube grab some tissues grab your spouse have her sit on your Gentlemen, shave your cock and balls for that special lady or special man and get ready for more eye-opening stories and eye-opening content on the Swinging Single podcast.
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Oh, yeah Bitchin' bitches drain hoes just cancelin' on the one they stand Bitch, get the fuck up outta here Because I said I broke, bitch, never been allowed in here Ay, this my party, bitch, I'm about to crowd in here I said I'm drippin' on you bitches like a fuckin' cloud in here I wanna see some ass shakin', dick slinkin', huh? Sweat drippin', tracks hangin' I wanna see some ass shakin', dick slinkin', huh? Tell that bitch to quit playin' I wanna see some ass shakin', dick slinkin', huh? Sweat drippin', tracks hangin' I wanna see some ass shakin', dick slinkin', huh?
Tell that bitch to quit playin' I want to do some things. I all right let's get on out of here all right today we are going to talk a little more it's gonna be a boring show for a lot of people because it's gonna be talking about single men and single men going to the lifestyle club yeah i found an article in a bitchtopia about how a guy went to a club as a solo guy yeah you know a lot of you know i've been seeing a lot of more guys bitching there's a new place that opened up here in houston uh a great you know it's a porn theater slash party place for a lot of people.
And guys are bitching about it because it went from $30 to $50 for them to get in. And I'm like, shit, I would charge you $100. I would charge you $200 if it was a real club. So I'm just happy that there's another club for me for an avenue where I can enjoy my swinger lifestyle.
But like I it's a swing it's a it has glory holes it has two rooms with two beds and it's mainly for guys it's a it's basically a adult theater and you know who goes to adult theaters a lot it's the men that go there we are the ones that that pay the fees and all that stuff for those uh places so i don't know why but the guys are bitching and i think that just hurts men more and gives couples more Thank you, sir. Thank you I don't know why, but the guys are bitching.
And I think that just hurts men more and gives couples more feedback, more fire, a few for the fire to say, hey, these guys are the biggest bunch of assholes and we don't want them around. And I can understand why couples wouldn't want them around. But I saw this and I figure it would be something. Since it is the Swing and Single Podcast and shave your cock and balls. Remember, go to swingandsinglepodcast.com to check out all things AC. Go to swingandsinglepodcast at gmail.com, and we can have a discussion and all that great stuff. All righty. So, you know, I wanted to talk about that.
Then we're going to go later after we're done with that. We're going to go to Reddit. Back to Reddit. There are a couple people that need some of my help.
And we're gonna go later after we're done with that we're gonna go to reddit back to reddit there are a couple people uh that need some my help and we're gonna do so maybe a very controversial racial topic because there's something in the reddit with the uh you know dynamics of interracial play but we're gonna tackle it because hell we don't fucking back down from this place you know i know a lot of people will back down because they're just not fucking uh for it but hey whatever but anyways let's get into it so i found this ad it's on bitchtopia and i figure it's great because it was one of those things where, you know, I figured it would be great for single men.
So if you're a single man, pay attention. I went to a sex club as a solo guy, a single guy. I never in my dreams thought I would do something like this on my own, let alone be confident enough to actually go through with it. And you know what? You do see a lot of guys like that where you see them begging for a date on Reddit or SDC or any Facebook group looking for a date to go. We'll be right back.
actually go through with it and you know what you do see a lot of guys like that where you see them begging for a date on reddit or sdc or any facebook group looking for a date to go because for whatever reason some reasons are because they're just too goddamn cheap to pay the single guy fee and like i said guys if you are going to be participating in your lifestyle and you don't have money it's probably not best for you to go to the clubs you might not stay online and find couples like that because it is very expensive here in texas you're going to spend a hundred dollars just to go to a club you know that's just the way life is and that's how we are treated and it ain't nothing wrong with it fuck it i'll pay the hundred dollars because i like to swing and i'm i'm in that lifestyle but if you are don't have that much money you're not blessed yet uh you're going to have to figure out other avenues to find couples to and other single females to party with and all that so either they go for that because it's cheaper for them to get in pretty much 50 cheaper i do believe or they just don't want to go alone because they don't know what to do they don't know how to you know start conversations and you know like gi joe said back in the 80s initiating the conversation is initiating the conversation is half the battle and that's what it is really the battle so you know if you have a second person there you know a female a pussy you can really you know meet more people now when you are by yourself you got to initiate that conversation and some people don't want to have anything to do with you you know i've been to places where they just don't even want to talk to you you just looking at them pisses them off all right so you know but that's not all places there are very good there's a lot of good swingers out there that even though they don't want to have any sexual relationship with you they'll have conversation with you and they'll help you out so guys don't be afraid to go by yourself if you got the money go if you don't have the money find other avenues there's online and all that that you can go then when you do have the money you do get some money i would suggest go go by yourself it's fine so yet i did do it against my anxieties and predetermined ideals and i am proud to admit that it got really crazy good he had a hopefully this means he's had a great time i don't know i don't know if he did or not he might have had a bad time who knows i thought that it was was worth telling others just so you get an idea of what something like this uh is like for a solo guy in these places just listen to swing a single podcast with ac maxwell you'll know what it's like and it's not always great but you know what for me it's sometimes it's a lot of fun so it doesn't really you know it is what it is you it a swinger club for a single guy will be what he makes it out to be if he's going there with the uh thinking he's always going to get laid he you might be disappointed now me personally i when i go i think i am going to get laid i think i'm going to meet a couple play with them have fun but i also have that ability to say oh well it didn't happen today i didn't get any today i didn't meet any couples it was pretty much a dead night for me i don't get upset about it i don't go rant and rave to other people i don't go online and say this club sucks because i didn't get any i just go go home jack off or jack off at the club go in the room jack off and get bust my night and go home and i come back in next week because there's another day you know you live the fight another day that's what i will do i don't get all upset about it but i do have the expectations but a lot of guys don't have that mental capacity where they can separate reality and fantasy and all that the reality is probably not going to get any the fantasy is that you do but you're but you got to be able to separate that brain turn it on and off where you go you know i didn't get anything this weekend but next weekend when i come i'll get some and you don't have to get upset about it you don't have to have the attitude about it because some guys really do they think they pay 100 bucks or 200 bucks whatever the price is and they're entitled to pussy it's not how it works guys you have got to have consent and all that so you got to stop it with this i believe i earned this because i paid a fee you didn't earn it you don't get it you know like i said there's ways you can get laid as a single guy single guys there is and uh there is a there is a a need for single guys in a lifestyle it's just that some guys just put don't put any effort into it or think well i got a big dick all i gotta do is just swing it around and you know a lot of women will jump on it you know what maybe you're right maybe a lot of women like will go jump on any big dick but you got to remember to keep those women entertained and keep them satisfied you got to be able to use that big dick i don't know anyways i thought that it was worth telling so others we're're ideal solo guys at these places.
I'll start off by saying a few months ago, I didn't even know you could go to some sex clubs parties as a solo guy. But after reading about sex clubs and their differing rules, I decided to Google if there were any clubs near me.
Yes, it's very smart for guys to Google those those clubs so if you're in any state wherever you are you're in california new york illinois florida texas uh oklahoma nevada go google sex clubs swinger clubs in your area make sure single guys are allowed to go because you don't want to go there and find out you're not allowed to go uh rejection really sucks but anyways do that find out what days you can go because some clubs will allow single guys like on a thursday friday night but not on a saturday some clubs allow guys every night they're open and some clubs don't allow any guys at all don't matter what day they're open so you got to figure that out so you got to figure if you're welcomed or not at that place.
And like I said, I go to certain clubs because at other clubs, when I'm there, the owners make me feel not very welcome that I'm there. I'm there to pay their bills. I'm not there to, you know, enjoy the lifestyle. And there are clubs that make you single guys feel like that. All right. No problem.
problem you don't want my money you don't need my money i can go spend it somewhere else in another club i don't mind doing it it's like when secrets went to the no single occupancy uh and all that you know it upset me because what's wrong with my money why can't i go by myself and have rent a room for the weekend.'m paying the top price for it right so i kind of got mad i was upset i'm very i was upset about because i love going to secrets then i find out that i can go by myself and get a room if i'm a member i go oh well if i would have known that years ago i would have never stopped going anyways, make sure you're going to be wanted there.
Make sure you know the hours. And make sure you know what you need when you go there. All right? When I began looking, I noticed that some of them were couples only. Some of them make sure are couples and single women only.
And one in the next town over around 40 minutes away from me allow single men to joy in sometimes too as long as they follow the rules and if i am one thing it's a rule follower all right like i said you got to make sure do your research you can always email me at swinging single podcast at gmail.com i can help you out if you want to if you're a single guy looking for a place in your area i can always help you out to find a place no no harm no foul just remember to shave your cock and balls so i played with the ideal for a few weeks yeah because you know what like i always said the reality the fantasy is always better than reality you know and when you go there you might see things that you only seen in pornos you know you'll see scantily clad ladies looking fucking fabulous with their mini skirts no panties maybe some pasties on their titties hanging out and the guys you know just looking like guys because it is the female-led lifestyle it's not male-led lifestyle guys think it is but it's really not because your wife runs the lifestyle she runs the show and you know if your wife ever figured it out you might mean they might be in trouble but anyways i checked the wife's website and they had a few policies that's also another good thing to do when you are going to a club look at the rules get a tour when you get there because and ask questions don't say yes yes ask questions can you know in the group room when i'm watching can i whip out my cock and jerk off stuff like that do that ask because you might want to be doing it you know i love watching people fucking jerk off at the same time i i don't mind i don don't love doing that.
If a couple allows me to watch them, I'll just watch them and jerk off. I love watching live porn. It ain't no big deal to me. So you want to ask your questions. Is it okay for you to join? How can I join? Do I ask? Do I just sit there and do nothing, you know? Ask those questions. The more questions you know, the more knowledgeable you are. the more knowledgeable you are, the more chance of success that you will have. Just don't go in there cold. Don't go in there, get drunk, and act like a fucking piece of shit because that's going to get you kicked out and whatnot.
And I saw that on some nights, they don't allow solo men. But on a special events nights and Fridays, for some reason, I don't know.
men come on their own but you may you but you can be turned away if you don't meet the criteria there you go the criteria uh dress for success if you are the jeans t-shirt cowboy hat type of dude that's not dressing for success that's dressing for being rejected at the door i always suggest go business casual or above go above and beyond like it's a job interview because basically guess what swinging is really a job interview when a couple talks to you they're interviewing you to see if they're gonna let you stick your cock inside my wife's pussy that's what's going on here so when you go in there dress up like it's a freaking job opportunity it's an interview guys just go there see what they you know dress in your sunday's best you know put in a suit i like i go when i go to the club i put on a suit three-piece suit tie uh cologne try to smell good make sure my cock and balls are shaved and everything and i'm all set to go you know i get compliments about how i dress by some couples and it gets me in the door to later on play action and all that so look at what they're looking for you know uh things like.
I got invited to Splash Mocha. And I'm like, look, and why would I even think about going to Splash? Because Splash Mocha is an interracial thing for black guys to fuck couples. And I'm like, how would I fit in that? What would be my dynamic in that whole situation? And I don't know.
I might go just to check it out you know maybe they'll let me do my podcast but i just want to i'm just thinking to that couple's like why would you think that would be a good place for me to go you know but i don't know maybe it'd be a great experience to go to but like i said i'm looking at the rules i'm looking at the people and i'm and i'm just like man maybe that's not the place for me maybe it's somewhere else where there's a run into the bulls or something like that where i can go but anyways so just make sure the criteria fits and all it is it's not about height not cock size anything like that it's just about dressing for success dress great dress the best you can put your sunday's best on that's probably much the criteria also the age 21 and over usually there are are some clubs that only do 25 and older, but I haven't come in conflict with any of these because basically I'm fucking late 40s now, so it doesn't really matter to me.
And I don't really pay attention to the age limit. Most of them are 21 and older. All right, so you got to build up the courage to go.
It was nerve-wracking really wanted to go through with it but i was holding myself back with insecurities and worry yes you're always going to be worried are the people better looking to me better looking to me is my cock big enough is my cock too small my cock too big i don't think people say that but i don't know it's my cock too big uh is it not the right type of people i'm'm 25 years old, are they all going to be old, fat, ugly people, things like that, and people do say stuff like that, remember, swinging and swingers are shallow people, we are a group of shallow people, we look at basically how you look, and if we don't like what you look, we say no thank you, or anything like that, now if we weren't shallow, it would be in one big fucking orgy every night at the swingers club but it's not we're shallow people and i don't know why and i see couples oh we were not shallow or anything like yes we are it's okay i'm shallow you're shallow it's all we're all shallow we're all a bunch of hypocrites in this lifestyle don't worry about just enjoy life don't go burn a fucking tesla just go fuck go have fun why are we fucking doing this stuff to ourselves we we our mental health in this country is so whacked out and it's not because of the hospitals it's because we're fucking people oh let's let's go fucking we don't like elon musk oh let's burn a bunch of teslas and shit like that okay why what does that get you all it is insurance company will pay for it you're gonna pay for it in the end basically We'll be right back.
of teslas and shit like that okay why what does that get you all it is insurance company will pay for it you're gonna pay for it in the end basically you get caught doing it guess what i could sue you for the damages and you will be paying for it for the rest of your life or whatever instead i would be like just go fuck go have sex get laid you might actually not give a fuck about what's going on in the world and all that. I would go to the website over and over again and one day when I was strolling through their event pages, there was a new party listed called Hot Wife Night.
They were letting couples, solo women, and a limited amount of men in.
But before I could go, they wanted pictures of me and to speak to me their policy for solo men was this type of for this type of event all right so they're checking out they don't want any ugly guys there that's what they're really doing or they want to get got the best quality guys in there and let's see now whenever i hear a limited amount i always see couples limited men and when i go there i go how many men because there's like 100 guys here what's their limit 200 100 was the 100 their limit so when i see limited men i don't really think too much of it i just still do whatever i gotta do uh like i said i always get there if there's a limited number like some of the clubs around here they'll limit the number of guys on a friday and saturday night so you know i have to get there if it opens at night i gotta be there at 901 or nine o'clock waiting at the door because i don't want to be getting there at 10 11 o'clock like some guys do and get rejected anyways so he's probably had to send in the picture he had to talk to him make sure they're real uh i think there's a club where i went to the hot spot in Florida.
I think you have to talk. When I went to the Running to the Bulls, which is a hot wife party night, I had to talk to the owner and talk to her. It was only a five-minute conversation to make sure I'm real and stuff like that. And that was it. And I went in there and had a great time. For some, this would be awful.
But there were events on the page where this wasn't the case case and i personally picked this event as i felt like once they saw me and i decided i could go it validate me for my fears and my fears of being rejected at the door would be ease yeah they know you're coming you're going to be put on a list a vip list that you are going to be there and all that stuff so you know you're good to go so that's another good good party to go and also as a solo guy if you do see a hot wife party that would be my one time you definitely need to go because that's where couples are looking for single men or other men to have play with his wife so those would be great times to go the photo part was easy just took my latest profile picture and sent that to them i had to answer some questions and got sent a dress code and club etiquette dress code is very important remember when you walk into the club the first thing they're going to see is what what you're wearing your face you're here all that use your beard scruffy and shit like that you would not believe how many guys come with a beard now i don't really care i have a beard myself but i keep my beard trimmed i keep it nice lined up as best as i can now i see some guys that come in they look like their zz top it's unkept they look like they they come out of the cave or just came out of the cave and all that so you know you it's okay to trim it up look at make it look nice you don't have to shave listen if a couple i have been rejected because i had a beard by couples oh we're playing with single guys oh but we don't play with guys with beards all right because i'm not shaving for a couple just to fuck some girl it ain't worth it it's not so don't do that shave your cock and balls because it's only polite but i'm not gonna shave my facial hair because i like having facial hair i think i look good for an old man but hey that's just me so you know make sure you're clean make sure you don't you wipe your asshole you know how many times a girl's gone down on a guy and you can smell shit you know how many times have you gone down on a girl you can smell shit and i'm not talking about shit like stinky stuff i'm talking like poo poop caca all that stuff and you see that and you smell it it is not good you don't want to sell smell it so you know make sure you clean your asshole real good make sure you bring some baby wipes you know if you do end up getting lucky in between play partners uh if you're if you're lucky wipe down your dick with a baby wipe clean that butthole make sure you know you get all in there you get any other you know things coming out you've been farting all night make sure you clean that out so you so the next woman doesn't smell your shit and think you're a stand-up guy i want to call you back for later on action uh clothes you wear make sure they're clean not dirty no holes in them shoes don't wear sliders wear some dress shoes just go above and beyond there is no harm it's better to overdress than underdress all right remember that it's better to overdress than underdress the club rules you know read the club rules read all of them some of them are just boring stupid boilerplate standard stuff ask for consent no means no use condoms stuff like that read them and if you have any questions on those make sure you ask because you never know there were lots of rules that they wanted me to follow which felt overwhelming at the start but i soon realized they were just basic these decency rules and nothing was hard to remember uh not to do yeah they're not very hard and half the time none of those a lot of the rules are not really enforced because there's really no security in a lot of these clubs which you know i hate you hate hate to see, but, you know, shit does happen.
Like, things go down. I worked at these clubs. I worked at Caliente, and they worked in the fuck rooms, and I seen some really fucked up shit. But there's no security, and they're, you know, they're out there busy trying to fuck the other women at that club, you know? So, you know, if you don't have security, some of these rules are hard to come by.
So it's very up to you to be a decent human being and for the hubby and the couple to complete the police themselves and get the club owners and all that involved when something is broken and all that so like i said there's gonna be a shitload of rules but just read them have any questions of them that's fine once i submitted everything i waited 24 hours and i was approved by the club's team i knew then that i had to show up yes you probably want to show up don't want to be a dick and not show up if you're going to say you're going to show up show up i don't know how many times and it's very and you know what it's very common in the swingers lifestyle that people say they're going to go and they never show up it's like when you try to organize a orgy a gangbang or anything like that i know women that want to do gangbangs and i tell them well how many guys you want to gangbang they'll say like five six guys they want to have at their gangbang so i said you got to pretty much invite 15 guys and they're like why he goes well 50 of them don't show up in the first place because a lot of them are married they can't get out of the house because the wife got some doing something to kids and stuff like that some of them are not married but they have kids and they get them on the weekends so it's hard for them to get away sometimes when they think they're going to get away they're not going to be able to so you always got to invite more for a party because like i said people tend not to show up or you know what happens they get a better offer you know you go to a game bank yeah i'm gonna come to your game bank then you get a couple hey you know you want to come over have a threesome with me in the way a threesome with the wife might be a little more less uh intimidating for a single guy especially if they're new a guy like me ain't gonna fucking matter because i'm experiencing it i know i can perform either way either which way it ain't gonna matter to me it's just what's gonna be the best party for me and the guy goes hey i'm new i don't know if i'm gonna be able to do this so i'll go with the threesome now they don't go to your gangbang and all that stuff so you always gotta invite quite a few more than you really want even shit even if you're having a couples party you want to invite 10 couples guess what maybe only five of them show up maybe only two of them show up you know i've seen parties like that i heard parties about that where they invite couples a bunch of couples and only a few of them show up you know for whatever reasons you know people have lives and life fucking is unpredictable and if life wasn't predictable we'll be all geniuses and we'll all won't have any issues but you know it ain't so my reason for going i should say that i didn't go there thinking i was going to sleep with people i just wanted to meet mingle and be a fly on the wall and see how something like this actually looks from the inside in my head it would be a damp dark and seedy club and i had two ideas about it one is that it would be people who were super hot and out of my league depends on the club or two it would be loads of creepy people depends on the club i've been to places where it's been very creepy as a single guy i got creeped out by the way that people looked at me like the ladies were looking at me like i was meat and the ladies weren't you know i'm all for bbws but damn man these were b these were BBWs.
I mean, big Bs, big Bs, and big Ws. And it was, it just got, it just weirded me out. And I left. Then I've been to clubs where, shit, I ain't got to get laid because all these people are hot. And you're seeing a lot more people with the cost of plexus surgery going down. You can see more women, the fake tits, the more BBLs going on.
and you're seeing a lot more people with the cost of plexus surgery gone down you can see more women the fake tits the more bbls going on and you see a lot more hotter women who were just average a year ago now they're above average they've gone from a six to eight now so you see a lot more people getting better looking and you might be intimidated by that because there's no way and i can tell you should tell you yes there is a way if they're there they're there for a reason listen the lady might if the lady's smart she's there to get have fun and that's it she's not there to find her husband because guess what she's already married why does she need to find it so hopefully she's smart enough to go you know what i'm just fucking a dick i'm not worried about the man i'm just worried about his dick is a dick gonna work or not so also after reading lots of these stories and the membership i realized that i love to be part of this lifestyle and meet people in it with the hope that in the future meets someone would be would play with others we would play with others i passed the checks answered all the questions and asked a few of my own they seem really happy for me to come along and were really welcoming i never asked them if my outfit was okay the smartest suit without a bizarre all right good and they told me it was perfect i was excited and i had no idea what to expect or what was about to happen so i wore a suit smart guy wore a suit the first time now if he wants to go back and see check it out again he could wear something different maybe a little more casual i don't know i there's i never been looked at and said oh my god you're wearing a suit we don't want We don't want to play with you.
I never, ever. So I can never go wrong in a suit. I think it was ZZ Top said, every lady loves a well-dressed man. That's probably some truth in that. But I've never, ever been rejected because I wore a suit and all that. Anyways, so he wore a suit. It was perfect for it. He probably got some compliments.
And and it actually you wear something really nice and when every other guy's looking like shit that opens the door to a conversation and that conversation can also lead to you know a freaky play a little adult play so you know it's always in your best interest gentlemen to wear a suit all right. All right. Walking through the door of the sex club. I feel like I should mention that I am pretty extroverted. So that's good. He's extroverted. He will do fine. Introverts like me don't do as well, but I do great.
I think I really do great because when I go, I get laid, but I think that that's, that's my end game to get laid. But I think if you're introverted, it takes a little more time and a little more effort on your part to get to that promised land, to hit a home run. Where extroverts, like I wish I was extroverted where I could just walk up to people and just have a conversation with them, but I'm not. And that's what sucks. When I see guys who are extroverted go off to couples and bam, they're in there and they're out in the back having fun adult times.
But the moment I parked my car and then walked towards the entrance of the sex club, my heart was racing. I really did almost turn around five separate times. Yes, it's very, you are going to have a how pound your first time, first couple of times, you're going to have a piling heart, couples, singles, piling heart, worries, all that stuff are going to come. And it's natural. It's normal. But trust me, once you go in there, you get settled in, you're going to be thinking that you did it. It felt to me like jumping in a really cold pool without touching it first. My stomach was churning.
I was completely out of my comfort zone. But knowing I had passed the checks and knowing I was about to experience something new pushed me forward, and before I knew it, it was approaching the thick black doors. I had my phone with my email ticket showing and my ID ready, and once I showed it to the security, I got let in. They didn't flicker in my direction as I slowly stepped through the doors and on into the dimly lit corridor. I approached a booth where an attractive blonde woman was sitting.
She greeted me, asked if it was my first time, and offered me a tour of the place, which I gratefully suspected. Yes, if it's your first time in a club, ask for a tour. Say, hey, I'm first time here. I don't know what's going on. What's what? Get a tour. It's fast. Five minutes, ten minutes tops. You're not spending too much time, but that's where you can ask a lot of your questions, like I said, in the room. When I go to a new club, I always ask, what are the rules in the group room?
Can sit there watch can i sit there whip it out and watch and you jack off are there any things and you get your answers to it uh some clubs say no you can't do that and some clubs say yes you can do whatever you want to do in this as long as you have consent and communicate so do that get that tour i was like daring the headlights of course unsure of where to look and where i was going but it was exhilarating see it's all good fun so now being shown around the sex club she took me under her wing showing me where everything was how everything worked and some tips on using each room people are already there some people some happily naked some just chatting amongst themselves, and others in a full party mode.
I tried not to stare at a girl having her pussy eaten by two different guys. Damn. She was laying on a red, inflatable lounger, and they were rock hard as they sucked her.
The woman taking me around noticed uh my shocked and smiled at me she took me into a completely pitch black room where we could hear people moaning roundly what the fuck is this club because this club sounds fucking awesome enjoying themselves somewhere in the darkness but we couldn't actually see anything then she showed me the jacuzzi and the pool area where couples were swimming around some making out on the incredible holistic rocks next to it and this is a nice club uh like i said where is this club maybe it tells me she introduced me to people one of the women she introduced me to was wearing mesh lingerie leaving little to the imagination and she giggled at my blushing cheeks.
She then took me towards some mirrors, showing me that it was one-sided and that you could watch kinky couples going at it from behind the glass. It was really turning me on, and although overwhelming, I couldn't wait to explore as the night went on. She showed me play signs and reminded me of the rules. She mentioned the number one rule of putting the play sign up if you wanted people to join in and putting the sign down if you didn't want anybody else participating. She told me it was an immediate ban if anyone broke this rule.
So if you had a play sign that you had to sign up in your room that said play, you can go in. If it was not there, you cannot go in. Then there were the kink rooms that had multiple glory holes at different levels. This is definitely a European club. The big velvet curtains where you can fuck without seeing the person you're fucking. The bar, the dance floor, and the locker room.
The place was huge huge she noted the look on my face and guided me in the direction of the bar and told me to come and find her if i needed help with anything i thanked her took a deep breath and had it in yeah you're gonna be all right dude i was lucky luckily approached by a woman when i got to the bar when i got there i took, ordered my drink, and swallowed it within seconds, ordering another before the first had even had a chance to reach the back of my throat. As I stood there, a woman approached me. She was wearing a tight black dress.
Her nipples were hard and poking through the slim material. She asked me if it was my first time here. Hold on one second.
I nodded, and she smiled she smiled for some reason she put me at ease despite her strikingly beautiful face and incredible figure she asked me what i wanted from my time here and i told her that i just wanted to meet new people i was intrigued about the hot life lifestyle and i wanted to put myself out there and try something new she nodded and listened to me she answered my questions about the event and came on to me a little bit asking me to meet her later in one of the kink rooms if i was up to it as we walked toward another scene and era she introduced me to a few people before kissing me on the cheek essentially and leaving with a dark-haired woman a couple couple began speaking to me then and they really hit it off.
It was starting to feel really relaxed and suddenly I was feeling excitement. I went for a look around. I played it cool. I didn't want to come across as creepy. I just wanted to see what people were up to.
People even more intimate than they had been when i had my initial walk around rooms were being used moans of the sounds of sex were more apparent and more and more people were undressed and exploring each other's bodies i didn't did have to get out of my own head and and it took a while but i got into the flow talking to people and really taking it all in a few super hot women being the center of orgies where it seemed like anything went the kind of thing I'd seen in porn but didn't realize was happening so close to my home I stood around and watched I had they had the play sign up meaning anyone could join in but i wasn't ready for something so intense just yet i watched as they moaned and wiggled between one another cocks entering any hole and orgasms spilling out of all of them i even noticed two couples clearly sopping with one another side by side on the huge bed my eyes lingered on them they looked as if they were having so much fun lost in the ecstasy of pleasure i noticed how liberated all of these people were free from constraints of modern society living their lives how they wanted to in a safe form and welcoming way all right so you see right there how they are doing you see they're having a great time all right so you know that's pretty much it he goes on all that uh he ended up becoming a play but let's see what happens after that whenever an event allows single miles i would go and i would see her every time she always played we always play together having amazing sex and allowing anyone to join she has shown me so much in just a few short weeks i've had more sex and more experiences than ever before and i can't thank her enough so now he is a true believer in swinging so now it wasn't a bad it wasn't a bad idea to go by yourself what's the worst thing that can happen okay he get you know doesn't get any doesn't have uh you know any fun right lesson learned he goes has a lot of sex now he's hooked on swinging but remember it doesn't always happen like that gentlemen sometimes sex and swinging you know you might strike out a lot but you might hit a home run once in a while you know it's like baseball a lot of guys strike out but once in a while they hit that long ball and that might be you so those are so that's what it's sometimes what it's like it's not always it's not always rosy.
You might not have a club like that. I guarantee this club, that club is in Europe. That club is not in the United States. It doesn't describe a club that I've been to in the United States. It might be in the United States. I don't know. I think it's in England. So if you're ever in England, go. Like I said, if you're ever in Europe and you want to go to a swinger club, you're going to have a great time. Guy, single guy, single girl, couple. It doesn't matter. All right? So, you know, you got all this great stuff. And I hope you single guys out there, you're not scared to go to the club now.
You're going to be nervous, but trust me, you'll be fine. If you're not creepy or anything like that, you should be fine. Don't drink too much. Don't drink a lot. All right? lot all right because it will hurt you all right so that was going solo to a swingers club now i'm gonna do some reddit and this is gonna be a big controversial topic but anyways i don't shy away from it so on reddit on swingers I see that they need my help. And this subs hate boner for BBC and QOS.
I find a near unanimous ass hurt over this dynamic on this board and how much more uptight people are than the general lifestyle community over this type of stuff really strange.
Why such a chasm between online and in real life i also find it disingenuous and self-serving to a degree as well the constant attempt at trying to frame it as being concerned for the well-being of black men being dehumanized when the majority of the ones in the lifestyle embrace it wholeheartedly and many of them in a local club i know felt shafted after the club rebranded their party to a less racial theme it's laughable i think the constant put down of anything related to this theme on here is actually some sort of self-serving sabotage a perceived competition from bruised egos that dresses itself up as social concern to mask its intentions it becomes off a very slimy and i think the so-called fetishists are often more open and genuine people all right so let's talk about this dehumanize uh i don't think they care i don't think black guys really give a shit They're having fun Why do they give a fuck what Other couples think And if they are dehumanizing Oh well That's not my problem That's not me as a white man To tell a black man you shouldn't be doing it Fuck it, do whatever you want to do I'm not not your boss.
You know, I don't really give a shit. If you feel dehumanized by a white couple that fucks you, you talk to them. You don't come talk to me about it. You don't bitch about it on Reddit. You go talk to that couple. If you think they're being dehumanized, that's on you. You know, they're getting something out of it. They're getting pussy. You know what?
Whenever you go to a club who's usually the first single people people to be taken care of the black guys for whatever reasons because it's taboo uh racist reasons because yeah there are listen it's swinging there are racists out there you know and reverse racists too you know why do they only play with black guys you know whatever i whatever. I, you know, I have two theories on it, why they do, only. But, you know, I don't go bitch about it. I'm going to take care of me. I'm going to take care of AC. I'm not worried about whatever other people are doing. So they dehumanize.
And the majority of the ones that I saw embrace, yeah, a lot of black guys don't care. They just don't give a fuck. Good.
They don't need to a fuck what what i don't know what social norms are going to change by actually going what so i'm no longer going to play with white people because i feel dehumanized no they're gonna fuck anyways now i have seen guys black guys that have said i am not your fetish i'm not your fantasy i'm a human being and i like those guys and you know i have mad respect for them because you know what they're telling how it is they see it are there couples that dehumanize black men yes of course but there's a lot of them that don't so you know you it's just whatever you prefer and let's see uh now someone felt uh shafted because they rebranded the party at a less and a less racial thing yeah you got to be very careful in this day and age you can't be just doing anything willy-nilly even in the swingers lifestyle because shit gets shit gets mistreed people take a lot of look at the fucking politics people take shit way too serious uh you know you got splash mocha splash mocha is mostly for black guys who are i think was started because of for black guys to fuck women white women hispanic women whatever asian women and you know to me i don't give a fuck about it i'm not gonna go proud you know i might go i might go to check it out but i'm not gonna go and spend my money on it because i already know that's not the theme of the party the theme of the party is for black guys not for white guys so you know why am i wasting my time going there but it ain't gonna it don't hurt me that they're going they're doing stuff like that so what good for them and they make i hope they make a lot of they better be making a lot well i guess they are making a lot of money because they're you know they have like four annual parties like they have a party every three months so good for them they're making that money they're making that cheddar but you know if you're a local club and you don't want to have a racial theme that's that's on the that's the club's right every right to do that you can't get mad because they don't have bbc night anymore they just call it hot wife night you know yeah there's a lot of people stupid people they think hot wives is where are cock holdings where you fuck a black guy that's how dumb a lot of couples are in this lifestyle because they don't they don't know anything they don't know better no one's taught them anything they just watch what they do on porn and what they see on fucking movies and the movies are wrong because the movies don't dictate swinging it and it's light no if you if you watch if you watch the video um in the movies they're all fucking hot and young and all that no it's not but it's that total opposite it's older people mom and dad bots you know things like that so you know you can't really put your thing on there put your you know your bread and butter on a crazy thing you change let the club change the theme you know what it's there for anyways all right let's see i think the concept put down of anything related to this theme on here is actually some sort of self-service advertising receive competition from every single guy that walks into a club when i'm there is competition i gotta one up i gotta i gotta explain to a couple why i'm better than all the other guys why you should pick me and all the other guys so you gotta have confidence so if you're not a competitive person you're not gonna be doing well you're probably not gonna be happy as a single guy because guess what your competition a couple sees you oh he's good looking oh he's even better looking they're gonna go for that better looking guy it's just like single guys see at the club they always want the hottest looking woman in the club why there are other women out there that would love to have you but you're stupid where you think oh okay i'm gonna go for the hottest woman everybody else is going for the hot woman there's competition that's why other women check out other women other women are checking out other women because their competition without everyone it don't matter if they're at the club or at work they're all checking each other out uh it comes off as very slimy and i think the so-called fetishists are often more open and genuine people i guess so i don't know i guess if you have a fetish for bbc and all that stuff i guess you're more genuine but i don't like i said i don't know i don't want to live your life i just want to be go out have fun but i always think this thing with the bbc the qos stuff type of crowd is just getting too weird and it's like you know so to me i don't know i don't know let's see what some of the people i find near unanimous post history about penis size really strange so there's that and the guy who always posts this always talks about cock size so i don't know uh me thinks the gentleman doth protest too much.
I don't know what the fuck that. Let's see. This one writes, First of all, BBC plays on racial stereotypes that aren't factually true, which means in turn that QOS mostly does the same. So many fashions around BBC QOS are pretty much based on false stereotypes, and these stereotypes are harmful to the very many black dudes who aren't big. Yeah. I don't know. I never have any black guys complaining about it. I've seen guys with small dicks calling themselves BBC. I have one, this one black dude.
He's in a group I'm in a group with it's a gang band group and this black dick is so fucking small guys i mean it's about five inches now maybe if he lost fucking 100 pounds his dick will be bigger but his dick is like four inches and it's thin and he's talking about all these girls that want his bbc i'm like what the fuck your dick is small as shit. I don't... I didn't want him to... Little B... Little Black Dick Cock. B... LBC.
I don't i didn't want on that little b little black dick cock lbc i don't know but it's kind of funny like but to him he has a small dick he's got to know he's got a small dick i don't know maybe he doesn't maybe he's in denial but he still calls himself bbc so you know i'm actually proud of him because he's not letting that hold him back that's a good job boy good man second yes treating black men like sexual objects instead of like full human beings is gross we're at a swingers club of course we're gonna be treated as sexual objects guys it's okay treat us like fucking sexual objects i'm sure that black guys are not complaining about it.
Sorry, but if a BBC working, sinking woman is married to a non-black man which most of the BBC seekers are, this isn't a preference it's a gross objectification of race. Her preferences clearly include non-black men, but suddenly she's only looking for black men for sex there isn't an explanation for that isn't racially gross in some way Let's do it. Suddenly, she's only looking for black men for sex. There isn't an explanation for that isn't racially gross in some way. Okay. This guy makes some good points, I know. Third, you can frame it by self-serving by those who object.
And maybe that's true in some cases. But that doesn't change the origins of the stereotype. Nor does it change the fact that people are treating black men as sexual objects in any case it's we're all fucking swinging we're all treating couples are treating couples as sexual objects and vice versa god damn alright that's why I said this is controversial how about we just don't make things racial true and no this isn't bruised ego I have plenty of sets in the lifestyle I'm white and I'm bigger than many black dude we've ever met. So I don't have hurt feelings and stereotypes. Go to Europe.
You see a lot of big fucking white cock in Europe. I'll tell you that. Especially in Germany. I just think it's gross and time to stop these racial stereotypes. I don't really give a fuck. You know what? Enjoy your life. But the guy makes some good, he made some good points. You know? Don't objectify men. Treat guys, treat don't matter if they're black or white, treat guys with some goddamn respect and all that stuff and you'll be Thank you.
to make some good he made some good points you know don't objectify men treat guys treat don't matter if they're black or white treat guys with some goddamn respect and all that stuff and you'll be everything will be great all right so with that we are going to get on out of here remember to shave your cock and balls gentlemen go to swinging single podcast.com see all things they see go to swinging single podcast at gmail.com check me out Thank you. Remember to shave your cock and balls, gentlemen. Go to swingandsinglepodcast.com. See all things AC. Go to swingandsinglepodcast at gmail.com.
Check me out. Have her. All right. You got all that? Hopefully you enjoyed this talk with single guys and BBC. I got to find a BBC lover out here so I can interview her and all that and talk to her about all this shit because it'd be interesting what she has to say. Hopefully, it's all good. But anyways, I got to get out of here so keep on swinging.
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