Welcome back to "The Swinging Single Podcast," where your host, AC Maxwell, dives into the adventurous world of the swinger lifestyle. In today’s episode, we’re upping the ante on party entertainment by exploring fun, flirty, and exciting games perfect for any swinger party! Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just curious about the scene, these games are guaranteed to break the ice and heat things up.Join AC as he discusses classic party games with a twist, delves into the psychological aspects of game playing in a swinger setting, and shares tips on how to keep things sexy and consensual. Plus, don’t miss the exclusive interviews with veteran party hosts who reveal their top hits and epic fails in party gaming!Get ready to jot down some game-changing ideas that will ensure your next swinger party is both exhilarating and memorable.
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welcome my fantastic friends and free spirits you're turned into the ever titillizing always scandalous swinging single podcast i'm your charismatic host of all things playful and pleasure-filled ac maxwell here to guide you on another adventure through the risque and the arousing today oh, today we're diving deep into the delights of decadent diversions. We're talking about the kind of games that turn a gathering into a gala and a fiesta into a frenzy of fun. So grab a drink, slip into something more comfortable.
Ladies, grab on some lingerie or fucking just be naked and sit on your man's face and let your inhibitions check out the night because this episode is dedicated to the different party games you can play at swinger parties we got downright naughty whether you're a seasoned swinger or just as curious cat looking for a new adventure i promise you'll find something titillating to add to your next event make sure you stay with us because it's bound to get exciting educational and extra entertaining let's shuffle the deck of desires and see what playful cards we have in store for you tonight and remember what happens at a swinger party stays at a swinger party unless you get a std and that goes with you everywhere unless it's too good not to share on the swinging single uh swinging single podcast also so without further ado let's get this party started the swinging single podcast with host ac maxwell is intended for entertainment and educational purposes only the opinions views and content expressed or shared on the podcast are solely those of the host ac maxwell and any featured guests or contributors and do not necessarily represent those of the podcast's affiliates sponsors advertisers or partners any information provided is given with the understanding that it does not constitute a contract engagement or formal advice the host contributors affiliates sponsors advertisers and partners of the podcast shall not be liable for any direct, indirect, incidental, special, consequential, or punitive damages resulting from the use of, or inability to use, the information in the podcast or from any decisions made based on such information.
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By listening to the Swinging Single podcast, you acknowledge that you have read and understand this disclaimer and agree to its terms shave your cock and balls gentlemen that's right ladies and gentlemen shave those cock and balls shave those cock and balls gentlemen because the ladies love a nice shave man all right so today it's episode we're going to be talking about those games that swingers like to play, and hopefully we'll have some good ideas and all that, so who knows, let's see what we got, so let's take a look, and hopefully everyone's doing great, they're not having any struggling, hopefully all of Houston got their power back on, the clubs will be back open hopefully, I know last week was a disappointment because of all the lovely clubs that were closed, I'll see you next time.
back open hopefully i know last week was a disappointment because of all the lovely clubs that were closed for me and i couldn't get into any of them except for tpc north and it was a shitload of people and i was like no they already got those five people there for them so swinger parties or what we or the young cats like to call them lifestyle parties are growing in popularity among couples who want to try new sexual experience together safely and with consent excuse excuse me so i so i just saw on a show that i watched called ghost it's on cbs it's a real good show and the couple that's in there that's the main couple they went over to the next door neighbor's house and they weren't invited to come.
But they were surprised they came and all that. And the couple that was hosting was hosting a swinger party. So it just was awkward. But if you want to see a swinger party, that's what you would see mostly. Those type of bodies and those type of people.
You ain't going to see the hot ass people like you see on pornos and and all that so i thought it was a good thing that they had that because you know it showed what really uh swinging is all about so these parties are mainly about meeting other couples with similar interests all right the course hopefully if you're going to a swinger party and or swing house party or something like that that's filled swingers you're also interested in swinging and things like that now if it's okay if you want to just go there watch and you know see some live action so it's okay too you know it kind of sucks for us that we have to sit there and not be able to play with your sexy asses but you know what we take what we can get so adding games to these parties can make them even more fun and help everyone feel more connected it's a great way i see this is one of the problems we have the clubs some of the clubs they don't actually have people talk to each other they just sit there here they give a tour for your first time there and that's it say hey if you need anything let us know they don't really tell us that hey this is what you need to do uh we're gonna have games i've only been to one club in texas where they actually had a game which is really good because it really helped uh me who is an introvert who's not really open to going up to just a complete stranger start talking to them and you know start talking sex talk with them and all that it made it easier for me to talk to these people because you know we had something to talk about the game and all that so it really helped out so in this in this episode we'll talk about some fun and classy games for swinger parties that can help create a lively and unforgettable night for everyone involved all right so we're going to talk about that and i think this is the key to a great swinger party if you're going to host a swinger party i do believe you have to do this you're going to have to be able to you know get people to talk and all that you're going to have to get people to associate with each other things like that you're not going to be able to just sit back and relax and not do nothing you're going to actually have to do something so hosting is very hard um the reason why i haven't hosted any swinger clubs because i am a single guy and you know a lot of couples do not want to go to a party that's being hosted by a single guy now if i had a woman to host with i would do it at a home and all that because you know i think house parties are easier to do and i think i think house parties are actually even better than the regular club because you really get it's intimate and you really get to know the person more and you know a lot of couples now they want that connection you know not people are not down the fuck anymore or at least they say they're not down the fuck but who knows so icebreaker games starting a swinger party with some easy icebreaker games is a great idea to make everyone feel relaxed and connected these games aim to get people talking and comfortable with each other sexy truth or dare is Dare is a hit where people either share secrets or do fun challenges.
Now, this might be difficult if you don't, if you're all strangers, like this is the first time you're hosting a party or you don't know no one at this party. This might be a little difficult to do Truth and Dare.
So I always say, if I say Truth and Dare will be a good thing for experienced swing swingers not newbies to the lifestyle because they might be a little shy to do anything any truth or dares that they might have truth they might do dares and you know you know everyone's gonna do dare like oh go lick that girl's pussy or something like that so you know that's gonna happen there so i will always stay if i have the truth of dare i would stay away from it if you have newbies at your house, at your party. Then we have the Naughty Dice game.
Playing with Naughty Dice can bring excitement and unexpected fun. This dice suggests actions to do or parts of the body to touch. This game can lead to playful moments and getting closer to one another. All right, great. This is also for experienced swingers.
Non-experienced swingers should not be doing this game because it's going to be too much it's going to be overwhelming as a veteran swinger you have the duty to make sure that your people at your party know what this is i don't know how many times in the 20 plus years i've been swinging that couples will walk into a party and not know well one of them will know it's a swinger party but the other one would not know that it's not it's a swinger party they were fucking disgusted and all that you would see fights and all that so it's just one of those things where holy shit you do see things like that and it just causes way too much drama so the naughty dice game good for those experienced open-minded down-to-fuck couples that want to have fun i was watching listening to a podcast uh consenting adults it's a great podcast she hasn't put anything out lately but i hope she comes back and they had one couple there.
They host parties. And they're called DTF parties. They're down to fuck parties. And I love this couple. They come in. They say, we're not here to make connections or anything else. If you're coming to our party, you better be down to fuck. We're not interested in you playing around, doing anything stupid. You're here to get naked, fuck, and have sex. Now, you get to say who you get to have sex with.
But they don't want anybody to you know sit there on the sidelines and just watching and all that so this is those two games the truth of dare the naughty dice game would be great for those type of parties if you're having a down the fuck party you this would be great now when i was in living in buffalo new york a long time ago i went to a couple would have hotel parties and where it was specifically for I don't know. I don lot of people bitching about that because they don't want single guys.
this is a single guy party and this is what she the couple wants they want these are the guys that want their girls to be with other men and they would have icebreaker games and stuff like that we would do the naughty dice and the truth or dare and we also used to do the what is it the would you suck on a playing card and you pass it with your lips and all that. So we used to do all kinds of shit there because that would break the ice. But the people there knew what they were there for. They knew they were there for extra men. It wasn't a couple, a swap of couples, anything like that.
I never saw, in the three years I would go to these couple's house parties or their hotel their their hotel parties i never saw any couple swapping it was always multiple men on the wives and all that so you got to know where you got to know your game with the people that you're inviting newbies it's a little difficult different you do something else and i'll talk about if you're having a newbie a bunch of newbies there's a one great thing that i saw at a hotel takeover. I'll talk about it in a minute. Blindfolded fun. This game is all about using your senses while blindfolded.
One person is blindfolded while others use different things like textures, objects, and foods to create sensation. The person wearing a blindfold has to guess what they are feeling, leaving them giggles, close moments, and deeper connections. I think even this would be a good a good one for newbies too, because you know, you don't be sticking your dick in her face or sticking a fucking ass in her, in the person's face. You know, just do this basic stuff. You don't have to do anything like that. But I think the blindfolded fun would be a great game for all to do.
Now, can you find someone that wants to be blindfolded flying footage sure you can there's always one of those party animals at any of these events so you're going to be able to find someone it ain't going to be that too difficult to do so don't worry about that if you're trying to find someone and all that uh let's see what else paint and twist now if you want to get messy and you could do with something outdoors this is a good one this paint and twist this game is for a fun spin on twister using body paint players get their color of washable paint make sure it's washable do not use any fucking real paint making the game colorful and intimate as players get painted during the game it's unique way to create lasting memories this is very good like i said if it's outdoors do this i do not recommend bringing paint into the house unless you want to fuck up your house and all that even though it's washable still can stain so the pain twist is really good fun for outdoors activities like a pool party or a barbecue that you're having make sure your neighbors cannot see into it and all that or make sure they're okay with the big party because you know they're gonna be hearing shit so if you had those nosy neighbors i wouldn't host the party strip poker is always a classic game a classic game for adults strip poker adds a playful spin to the evening players take off a piece of clothing when they lose making the game both exciting and a bit naughty it's a great way to lighten the mood and enjoy each other's company also you can do uh trivia strip trivia things like that where you have a trivia game 10 questions max the winner gets to keep his clothes on her his or her clothes on the losers have to strip one piece off and all that so you could do stuff like that so there's a lot of things different abbreviations just think do it like this think of a game think of a game that you know you know that's regular and just make it that sexy fucking game because it will work in the end it will make people will break the ice people are going to start talking to each other and when people start talking to each other guess what happens they start getting horny for each other they want to start fucking they want to go out and play they want to do that then they say what a great party you had this is a great party we love it we're going to come back to this place again and you know what you have a following now you have people wanting to come to your club or your lovely lovely house there's also a game that i saw play it wasn't really a game it really helped break down things because i went to a hotel takeover back in november i talked about it uh not the greatest people but you know decent decent people they weren't too bad but the the guy who runs it does a great job i'd say out of every hotel takeover i've been to that's small now there's large ones like you know purgatory naughty nolens and all that stuff that's that's way beyond any scope of greatness they would have men will get a number you'll get a you know a name tag instead of your name you put a number you can put your name on it i guess if you wanted to so you put your number girls will be given a shit of paper with what their sexual preferences what are they looking for and also what i also thought who are they willing to play with and be with so it gave these women a chance to go around and the women would come up to you and start talking to you and all that shit they would write down numbers and stuff like that they would write down what they're looking for who they're looking for they're looking for guys looking for couples looking for girls and stuff like that so they would do that and i thought that was great because it actually forced the couples the women of the couples to talk to other men and other couples sometimes it's always to do it.
thought that was great because it actually forced the couples the women of the couples to talk to other men and other couples sometimes it's always most some of the times it's a lot of times it is really the guys who are doing all the talking why the women just sit back and you know don't talk that much so i thought that was a great um party uh icebreaker to have women fill out sheets like that. And I think I, if I was going to host a party, that's one thing I would do. I would actually give someone like say, Hey, give this, here's a thing, fill it out. What do you like?
What do you want to do? Things like that. And I would just use that as one of my, uh, ways to break the ice in the swinging lifestyle and all that so who knows but anyways what else do we got all right so do we have to play games at a swinger party now this is something that's commonly asked do you have to play do you have to participate no remember you don't have to do anything when you go to a swinger party or a swinger club or anything like that. If you feel like you don't want to do anything, don't do nothing. No means no.
So no games or swinger parties are a must, but they can make the party more fun. All right? That's all it can do. It can make the party more fun for you, your spouse, whoever you're with, or you're by yourself or whatnot.
You're going to have fun because people are going to be more open because there's none of that sexual element in there when you're playing a party game there's none of that later on that's going to happen but there's none of that where guys are going to be guarded with their ladies and all that you can actually get your foot into the door to some of these couples they help people get to know each other and relax especially if you're a newbie newbies are very scared even veteran swingers you know i'm going to tell i always say i'm always nervous before i go to a club because you don't know who's going to be there you don't know if it's going to be any good or anything like that anything's going to happen uh things like that and when you pay as a single guy i know a lot of couples well you shouldn't expect anything they'll go i'm the opposite when i go to a club i go to a swinger club swinger party i'm expecting to get laid i don't know about you guys i don't know why you guys would say i'm not expecting anything i'm always expecting to get laid my goal is to get laid i'm going to try as hard as i can to get laid in a respectful way so it's important to let guests know they can choose whether or not to play so if you're hosting just say you don't have to play or do anything you don't have to do nothing like that even like when they had to dress up like I'll see you next time.
so it's important to let guests know they can choose whether or not to play so if you're hosting just say you don't have to play or do anything you don't have to do nothing like that even like when they had to dress up like theme nights i don't do theme nights i just never got into it i never understood why waste your money not only do i have to pay 100 plus bucks to get in i'm gonna also pay for a costume and shit like that if there has to be one and i know a lot of people like the dress up in the themes that's great for them but it's not for me so if you don't want to dress up for the theme you don't even have to dress up for the theme either you know remember no means no it doesn't matter if you're at where you're at house party swinger club whatever so do you have to play the games no also what kind of games are good for everyone at a swinger party pick games that everyone is okay with and that don't make anyone uncomfortable good games help people chat make friends and have light fun i went to i think shit i'm trying to think i think it was called the velvet curtain it was in dallas and this is way back then it was like during 2005 2006 and i would go to dallas to go you know hang out because dallas has a really good swinger scene at that time, I don't know if it is now, but for whatever, during this time, Dallas had a great swinging scene, so we'll go to the Velvet Curtain, one of the few places I let single guys in, and I go, and the front desk lady would hand me a playing card, awesome, I get a playing card, what the hell is this for, and they called it a game of 21, and basically what you what you had to do you take your playing card you would have to go around and find someone with a playing card that your playing cards would have to add up to 21 then you come to the front desk you get a ticket a raffle ticket and like midnight one o'clock at night they raffle stuff off and they gave away good shit um you know vibrators for the ladies or the guys or whatever um nice bottles of drinks whiskey uh bourbon stuff like that high class stuff and this stuff that was worth probably 50 to 100 bucks so they would do this and that would force everybody to you know talk to each other just try to find everything and introduce themselves and it was a great way to and that was that would be a great game because people were chatting with each other i was making friends with people i'm making you know later on at the night you know women and couples were like hey you know you like your style dude so want you want to play with us and all that it's like yeah and all that so it's like okay and at the end of the night people know me give me their numbers stuff we'll go party outside the club you know fuck and all that stuff so it really helps out as a single guy single guys you really need to participate in the games that if they have games sometimes they don't and that's okay a lot of the clubs don't have any games or anything like that that's okay just don't worry about you go to secrets caliente they gotta have any games do it you know get your thing out there let people see you and all that and you know and that will bring light to you in a good positive way not in the negative you know single guy just wants to get laid type of way which is kind of funny because yeah i think all the guys want to get laid and all that.
So, you know, it is what it is. So make sure you have fun. Pick party games that everyone's going to be able to be comfortable with. Don't make anything uncomfortable. Don't be doing anything nude where you guess the cocksucker. You know, have one guy blindfold one guy and have all these women suck his cock and see if he can guess who his spouse is and all that. That's not going to be a good game to play when you've got a bunch of newbies and all that stuff and all that. Because it's going to make people uncomfortable. Even veterans are going to be uncomfortable with that.
Not every veteran is like a hoe like me. I'm a hoe. But a lot of veterans are not. So they want to fucking have a connection and all that.
And you're over here having a bunch of women suck one guy's dick and all that good for that dude but you know because I saw games like that where you know pussy they would eat pussy you know this it was actually that Dayton Swimming Social Club where you know they would lay a girl on the table and four guys would go up there and eat her pussy and she would have to guess who her husband was and vice versa they would have the guy on they would girls would get 30 seconds suck his dick and then he would have to decide who's his who's the wife dick sucker and all that so it's kind of one of those things so it's kind of cool at the time but you know if you're thinking about it it's not really a good house game house party game to do all right how can i make sure no one feels left out during these games?
Choose games that let people play at their own comfort level and reflect the different types of relationships there. Games like Sexy, Truth or Dare, and Blindful Fun can be changed for everyone that feels welcome. I always go, you know what? You could always do the, whatchamacallit, the trivia games. Do trivia and all that. Sexy trivia.
Things like uh trivia games do trivia and all that sexy trivia things like that something about sex uh and all that something you know related to whoever if you got a bunch of 40 50 year olds at your party do something with for gen x and all that so you know you could always try something like that it's and it is tough it's not easy to you know uh what would you call it what would i say it's not easy to make everybody happy Thank you.
it's and it is tough it's not easy to you know uh what would you call it what would i say it's not easy to make everybody happy if you are hosting you're going to be a host you're going to own a club do not get pissed off when someone you know talk shit about your club i don't i don't understand this why do people who have who do parties who have clubs get angry when someone doesn't like their club or their party because this is what happens this is what i know you're not going to be able to please everybody everyone's going to have a problem with something there's no one that's had there's not one club on this planet where everyone agrees it's the greatest you go to go to secrets 95 of the people that love secrets they go there they love it they give a great review but there's that five people that don't like it They don't like the fact that it's so fucking loud and things like that.
They can't relax or anything It's just one of those things and you know people get pissed off I go I why are you getting pissed off about stuff like that because the fact that you know It's gonna happen you're going to make people angry because you know you know you because you got people that don't like everything and it's okay i don't know why people get all upset oh why don't they like our party our party's great you know dude just don't worry about you're going to have people that hate it just think of a business it's a business you're going to have people that love your business.
You're going to have people that hate your business. So don't get angry if AC Maxwell comes to your party and says it sucked. Remember, this is all based through single male's eyes. Single males are going to have different experiences than a couple will. I go as a couple too. Also, I have a different experience.
When I go as a couple too also i have a different experience when i go as a couple my access to couples and pussy is 100 more all of a sudden the couples that never saw me or never looked my way all of a sudden look look at my way and you know what i tell them i remember don't don't worry about it i'm gonna remember i remember so you know it's no big deal but you gotta remember not everyone's gonna like your party not everyone's gonna like your games that you're gonna be having you know people are gonna be angry about it or they're gonna talk shit about it maybe and you know what you just take it you go okay rolls off your back it's like a duck in water let the water roll down off that back you know you don't have to worry about anything like that you're just going to your thing and all that and you know i don't know it's just one of those things where people i don't understand why people get upset about things that are you know not they're not able to control but hey it is what it is so anyways let's see what else what else do we have to talk about all right so make sure everyone feels like they're not being left out what should i can be careful with when hosting swinger games just be sure to keep everyone safe and happy safe and happy will be the easiest way to have people like your stuff if you need the love of every single person on the planet that's the best way i can do it for you are you going to be is everyone going to be happy no there's not going to be everyone happy they're going to sometimes they're going to be angry so explain the game rooms game rules rules well do not be vague be very very actually show it do a demonstration do a demonstration have a couple demonstrate the game when i'm at secrets they have that's a fucking party place and they'll have uh games they'll have games where people can win prizes they will show they will do a demonstration of what they're looking for how to do dick whatever pop a balloon stuff like that so you know show it make sure you're stressed to consent and respect for all personal limits that people have some people don't want to get naked in front of other people some people are not voyeur i mean exhibitionist where they want to show their titties and cocks to everybody some guys have small penises they don't want to show the world they just want to show what who's ever in that little room with the other couple they don't want to show anything some guys got big d dicks where they want to whip it out and fucking do helicopters with it.
Some girls got nice big fake titties and fake asses. They'll show everybody, but some girls don't. They're a little, you know, they're a little, what do you want to call it? They're a little scared, a little, you know, of what they have.
So it's one of those things where, you know, you just got to be careful with what people are, what the people you have who you are bringing to your party do not bring just you know people that you don't know because you're going to have to you know answer to those people you want to have a good party so people will come back people come back they talk about how great you are and all that shit bada boom bada bing you're all there you're good so now there can we play swinger games with just a few people or just couples yes you could play with three couples you could play four you could play with just you and another couple naughty dice you can change swinger games to work for any number of people whether it's a small group or just couples all right if you got singles there same thing you could change it up for all that so you don't have all these different you have these different dynamics that you can do so you don't have to be you know well I can't do this I can't do that yes you can you could do all that stuff so you can you know you have it you have time and all that so okay 28 minutes i've been on that's a long time guys all right how do I make sure the games are safe everyone agrees to them to make sure the games are safe and everyone's on board talk about the rules and boundaries before starting that's one place if they people go if you hear people groaning oh you might want to change it up a lot of time swingers will go with it you know you don't have those too many complainers and all that up the front they ain't gonna sit there say oh this sucks or whatever they'll they'll go with it they'll be good sports about it but make sure you talk about the rules and boundaries before starting you know you do not have to do anything you are uncomfortable with no means no and all that encourage people to talk openly make sure make clear they can stop playing the game at any time so if any times ever gets rough or anything like that because sometimes you know people get competitive and guess what happens when people get competitive they get take a little shit a little too seriously and you know what that's even in the swinger lifestyle there's no difference between the vanilla and the swinging lifestyle there are going to be there are very competitive people i'm very competitive too and i want to win uh but you know i'm mature enough to know that winning isn't everything it's not about the winning it's about having a great time a safe word or a sign can be helpful if someone wants to stop right away like i said that's between you and your spouse you're gonna have to figure out words or things or actions that will tell that person to stop or you know to give the yes and or no because i know couples where they have the lady will say do something that means she's good to go or she's not good to go or it's a no and all that so you know you got to learn that stuff you got to be open and you got to be very vigilant when you're doing this because you got to look at your girl and say okay because sometimes guess what you're going to forget that she said it and you're like huh what the fuck is she talking about but you just gotta remember have those talks with as a couple if you want to play or not and don't worry if you don't want to if you want to stop playing because guess what that's your prerogative to stop talking or stop playing all right uh let's see what else um should i pick certain games based on what my guests like yes think about what your guests enjoy and what they're comfortable with maybe it's in a survey or talk to them about what kinds of games they like that's a great way send the survey talk about games you could send out an email mass email like Thursday before the party on Saturday hey we're looking for a game suggestion what games do you think and you know have a detailed description of those games and all that uh for you it's a great way to show that you're trying you're planning and you know people that are on the fence we don't know if we're going because if you ever go to these uh websites like sdc swing lifestyle they'll post like the parties all the parties we've posted in there and you'll see these people going to four different parties in one night because what they're doing i don't i don't know if they're just looking for clicks or looking for you know oh come hang out with us thing type of thing but they're trying to decide they're on the fence of what party to go to so if you do that maybe the couple will say hey they're trying to they're trying to make this fun for us let's go to this place let's try this place out for uh tonight instead of going to this club or that club all right so also ages are your guests primary young old middle middle age whatever you know things like that you know are they newbies are they all new year maybe a year into it are they veteran swingers stuff like that you gotta look at all that dynamics those dynamics and say okay this is what games we can play if they're veterans and they're fucking dTF and all that you can probably do anything and they're gonna have a good fucking time can playing games help couples feel closer yes of course they can the right games can help couples feel more connected there are there are a chance to talk build trust and try new things together which can make relationships stronger all right that is so true you pick a great game you make those couples feel stronger together guess what good reviews and they'll come back and they'll tell their friends all right all that should i tell people that should i tell people what games will be playing before the party sure i would say yes but it you know it's not needed but telling guests what games you're playing to set the right mood and get people excited to participate yeah because that could be like i said before couples you know they go well we're going to go to this club this club so we're going to say we're going to go pick between these two where it's going to be a last minute decision so they're on the fence of where they're going to go you want to tilt them to your side and maybe telling them what games you're going to be playing what you're going to be doing there is a great way to do that.
You can put this info in an invitation or event description. Like I said, send an email out Wednesday, Thursday. I don't know. It's up to you. You decide when. Or you could do it like have a mass mailing night. Saturday, you know, July 26th, we're having a party. We're going to have games. We're going to play Naughty Dice, Naked Twister, shit like that. All right? Naked Twister probably wouldn't be a great game for newbies because they're kind of scared or, you know, things like that. I'll see a good time.
What if some of the people are nervous about playing games that's a great question talk to guests one-on-one if they are unsure about joining in games do not pressure these people do not pressure anybody no means no you know the funny thing is that we always have to say that in the lifestyle you know why we have to say it in lifestyle? Because people still pressure couples to do things that they don't want to do. It happens all the time. Couples will pressure other couples. And it just sucks that that's the way it is. Because some people just, I don't know.
I don't know what's up with some people.
But you've got to listen to them and address their worries to help them feel more relaxed and supported if they feel relaxed and supported by you they're going to want to be around you your people and your club or your house party and you know if they want that maybe you can move on to open up a club you have a house party like i said a house party is are usually the best parties to go to i always recommend if you have a choice between a club or a house party go to the house party because the house parties you know people fuck all the time it's none of this well we might not fuck we'll have a hundred cut we'll have a hundred 150 people in this club maybe three couples fuck all night they're everyone's probably going to start fucking at one point and everyone's get seen watching all that so you know house parties are just a little more fun because you have that more intimate more personal connection there at a house party as you do it as a club because for one what do you got out of the club you got the noise you got the music and the fucking music is so damn loud you can't really talk you're screaming at each other things other, things like that.
People get really hammered at clubs, too. House parties, people really don't drink that much. They drink, but they don't get sloppy drunk like they do at a club. So, you know, it is what it is. You decide what you want to do and all that stuff, and you'll have fun. All right. What can I do to make sure the games respect everyone's personal limits? Make sure everyone knows the ground rules that emphasize boundaries and respect. Keep an eye on things. Handle any issues fast and keep the environment safe and considered for everyone. You've got to have security.
Act like your security so those people can see you and know that you're there for their protection.
Security is always good at at a club which a lot of clubs don't have any security they don't have it at all some of the clubs in houston have nothing you go outside some of the clubs are in the shitty part of town you got to take your risk of going there that's why i always carry my gun with me when i go to the club because you know you never know when you're walking out to the fucking bar walking out of that club what's going on because the shitty area they're in have security make sure security's on it not trying to fuck the couples and all that when i was working at caliente that was a big no-no even though some of the security guards would go off and do their little rounds and be back an hour later and they'd be fucking other cup the couples in the in the resort but that's on them we weren't we were told not do not fuck around with the guests and all that we're not a guest so don't fuck around with them no problem i was i followed my rules i did what i was a good little soldier and all that for them same thing at clubs you know you go to some of the clubs they got some good security inside but outside they don't have anybody so you, you got to make sure both inside and outside the party.
When you go to house parties, you know, the host and hostess have to be there, not the party. They're there to host and make sure everyone's having a good time. If they're there, if you're at a party, now they might have a small group. It might be five or six couples. That's fine.
But if you're hosting a big event at your house you got to be and you're the host and hostess you got to be the host and hostess you can't be going there trying to fuck your wife's going off and fucking everything that moves things like that so you got to be very um very in tune of what's happening at your party show that security there so people are feel safe make sure if there's excuse me any issues that come up you're good to go you're not going to have any problems with anybody at all because you know every club every place is going to have a problem and it's not just single guys it's couples couples get too drunk they start they fight whatever they cause problems they start grabbing too many people you know it causes a little problem alcohol and swinging does not mix and i wish they would cut down that swinging you know the alcohol consumption i wish people would you know i work when i was working at club cave way back in the day i'll go walk into the bar to the dance area i see people buckets puking in buckets and shit because they just drink so fucking much and it ruins the night for everybody and does it ruin the night for you, because you're sick, it also ruins your night for your spouse to get any action, because they're there with you, now I have seen it where guys would go off, their wives are puking in a bucket, and they would go off, fuck around, fuck all the couples and all that, but you know, those guys are assholes and all that, so those are some of the games you can play as a club, if you have a club, or you want to, if you want to, you know, what is it called, if you want to, you know, have a house party, and all that great stuff, so, let's see, about 38 minutes, all right, so, now, like I said now like i said i love my face my secrets facebook group because they always bring in some good shit uh to the table and they always have some good questions and this was from actually this is from swing society swinger society 2.0 and i have and i have this is a great question and hopefully let me see let me kind of refresh it yeah so this one is an anonymous member and he says he writes this is mostly just venting but one thing i have found is guys will message my wife and chat for days and weeks to actually put in effort to get to know her that is great you're finding some great guys dude so you'd be very proud of that guys single dudes or dudes in general good job all right however it seems to be the exact opposite on the other side the idea that a guy is just always down to fuck without getting to know them and actually showing some sort of interest in them has a per as them as a person sucks so what is happening here this guy is you know he's okay when his wife puts out an ad i don't know i don't know if they're swinging if they're looking for single guys or whatnot but what he does so when guys text his wife or message his wife they're always looking you know they're always happy to talk to her for days and weeks on end before anything happens whereas he's complaining when he talks to a woman that they just want to hurry up and fuck which i think is hilarious because i never heard a guy complain about that and some of the comments are funny and all that and some people put here's a woman a woman writes this i mean i'm a girl and i'm despised in this messaging let's meet and have fun and i agree with this woman why do you want to spend weeks talking to someone and you don't know what the fuck's going to happen you don't know if you're going to get laid or not isn't that the whole point of swinging is that you have fun have sex great yeah you want to meet talk hang out and be around other people that's great and all that but you know what in the end it's about sex putting your cock inside another vagina or having another cock put inside your vagina that's what it's all about and i like some of the replies i like your style girl i'm new so please understand but in this texting back and forth developing our leadership or not just physical fun i don't know so anyways but you know it's just one of those things and some people say oh that's so true i go who gives a shit messaging for weeks without meeting up is my ideal of hell and i agree with that i i have two couples right now that i'm i'm on uh the a website with and every time i mention meeting up they always have an excuse why not they can't meet up or they do something like uh we're busy that day or anything like that and that's a personal hell because you know what let's have fun why am i keep why are we playing around like this let's just have some fun and fucking enjoy each other enjoy me and all that here's a good one yeah i the woman's name she puts it in there i am not looking for in this chat and really don't want to develop any type of relationship with other men i appreciate a welcoming message but at the end of the day i want to know these things a is your wife hot b if your wife is fully C, if you're hot.
D, how big your dick is. E, if you are bisexual, bicarious or heteroflexible. F, looking to only hook up with other bisexual couples like us.
G, where would you like to meet for dinner, drinks, and if you and your spouse will be at the party we are attending so we can get right down in group fun i appreciate the chivalry but my husband is still hotter better and i just want to share the experience with him and the group i'm not interested in one-on-one sex with other men hmm they all say that but okay and i'm looking your husband's decent looking lady but he's not that hot so okay but But anyways, she is completely right. She has all this. She has, she's not interested. This is the type of couples I love down the fuck couples.
None of this, let's meet for drinks four or five for four or five weeks.
And, oh, we'll decide then if we're going to party and all that, you know, just because I'm a single guy doesn't mean I don't have things going on in my life so you know what i'm not gonna bother with that uh let's see what is this guy look at comments under any woman picture on here doesn't matter can be 500 pounds ugly as fuck or 80 years old they will fuck anything and all of them are beautiful to them and many of them are the same guys i understand it's a swing group but for the fuck's sake have some type of women you like not just stick anything that walks and doesn't run on trees okay but see that's the problem you have this oh my god this dude okay he's on testosterone because he's an older gentleman but he's he's his, what he feels about swinging, I don't know.
I just don't, listen, you want to fuck whoever you want to fuck, that's great. I love all women. I don't discriminate against anyone. Asian women, you know, I haven't had very many of them, but if an Asian woman comes up to me and wants to fuck me, I'm down.
Now, if she's 500, 400 fucking pounds, that's a different story because it's not gonna probably work well because i'm a smaller gentleman but you know what even a thick girl big girls i love them all i'm not gonna sit there and criticize anyone that walks up and fucks everything now because i seen you know at caliente at secrets i seen some nasty looking women get game banged by a fucking group of men but i'm not saying i'm i'm happy for those guys they busted a nut also you know I don't have standards doesn't mean just because you might have standards that everyone else is going to have standards.
Some guys just want to some couples just want to fuck some women just want to fuck they don't give a shit i know women that as long as their cock is hard they don't they say they fuck the cock they don't fuck the dude that's good so you know so i don't understand why you know he's he's why he said that i don't you know actually i don't understand he's just saying people should have morals and all that but you know what his morals are not what my morals are going to be or someone else's morals are going to be uh i turn people down on immediate dms right off the spot and let my husband do the same as we same of the talks as well quite stern with vetting if you're aren't comfortable mingling through group threads yeah see i wouldn't i wouldn't like i want why do i have to mingle with you why i don't know so like i said that's why i always recommend single dudes and couples and everybody if you're just dtf you don't want all this just go to a club meet the people find them fuck them and go home there's no point in the internet going on SLS, SDC, Quiver, Cassie, and all that.
Because you're just gonna take so much time to do things you're gonna bore your shit out of yourself and you're going to frustrate the shit out of yourself and you're gonna be like well this ain't really the lifestyle that we want yes it is trust me it is it's going to be uh when i got into this many moons ago the guys come contacted the guy only girls contact the girls only otherwise you were heading down a divorce role talking turns to flirting flirting to screwing behind your back it's happened to way too many guys have messaged my wife from here and say she's and say she's to them contact my husband they push and push and then disappear of course you know that's that's going to happen when i first started none of the women ever fucking were on any swinger chat it was always the husband and all that so you always were talking to the husband and all that so that's kind of funny but the guy's right yeah you used to used to be the guys would talk to the guys maybe the girls would talk to the girls but usually it's just the guys talking to guys and you know what it probably still is that uh and this one this is a funny one so this guy writes you guys are meeting women that are actually down to fuck down dtf and it has that picture of the guy from we are the millers the kid looking all puzzled and all that but yeah you don't there are a lot of couples that are dtf they don't want to admit it out loud because they don't want to look be looked upon down upon by other couples I say bullshit you should have fun anyway it doesn't matter but you know it's what they want they don't want to you know they want to make sure everyone loves them and all that that's fine they can have it I don't care i'm down the fuck ac maxwell's down the fuck wants to fuck and have fun and all that so that is some that was a funny thing i saw today on facebook i thought it was great that you guys should see it maybe talk about it you know and all that so you know it is what it you said, have fun and all that.
So let's go to SDC. And speaking of SDC, so I'll log in to SDC. Let's see what action is this weekend because summer, you know, summer's going to come to a wind down pretty soon. All the summer parties are starting. I already saw advertisers for back to school, back to back-to-school parties in the swinging lifestyle. Go to speed dating. All right. Let's see. And there's a big event here in Houston called Purgatory. Purgatory is having a takeover. I do believe it's this weekend. It seems like that's where everyone's going. So it's going to be a big party there.
And everyone, it seems like they're going there. They go to Purgatory. All right. And all that.
Well what we got no single guys no single guy all right great let's see any no no they don't want they're looking for those no single guys there another couple that's going to be a purgatory all four nights so i think it's starting now so i think it's wednesday thursday friday saturday and sunday's the last day or whatever they have uh and all that so let's see no nothing so far nothing it's all purgatory people are going to be at purgatory uh and all that so here's one anyone going to marfilis thursday night or is everyone at purgatory i don't know i think everyone's going to be i think everyone's going to be at purgatory and all that because it is a big huge event here in houston i think there's like over 200 couples that are supposed to be there you never know uh i never go to them because like i said you gotta have a partner i'm not going to go i those type of places sound like to be more fun by by myself and being like, so yeah purgatory again, another purgatory god damn she looking good, nice fake titties let's see let's see what else, here's one solo straight husband with a straight Egyptian American male friend, looking to introduce my vanilla bro into the lifestyle, going to a strip club tonight.
No. That's not going to be it. Friday, Saturday. Another purgatory. In town for the weekend for a wife wants a legitimate essential massage at a hotel. Five was some real fun. Okay, here's one. She's there looking. July 19th. They're looking for a single. I guess someone to give.
If you give good massages, I would go to this couple go to sdc go to hot dates they're there another purgatory let's see zach bryant concert is a zach bryant concert oh that's next weekend okay cool all right so they're going to zach bryant not looking for single guys though another purgatory they're going to be at purgatory they're looking for males i want to want to purgatory. There's purgatory. Let's see. Let's go to parties and events. Does purgatory allow single men? Let's see. 379 people have signed up for this. And wow, that's going to be. That's a lot of fucking people, man.
So they got DJs from the U.S. and U.K. Also, they have a swing-a-thon in England this weekend, or was it last weekend? I don't know. This past weekend. But they got that going. Let's see. Who can else go? Only thing I don't like about it, they give the hotel. And you know what dudes are going to do? They're going to show up to those fucking places. Because, you know, guys are just fucking idiots. And all that. So let's see. Log in. Review. Click for more info. So I'm clicking on more info. Can a single guy do? Buy tickets. They even have an overflow. Party membership. Buy now.
Purgatory welcomes adult lifestyle couples and single females. Nope. Can't get in. See, that's another thing. That's Thank you.
fine now purgatory welcomes adult lifestyle couples and single females oh nope can't get in see that's another thing that's they can always allow single guys in i don't understand this whole we don't let single guys in you have fucking over almost 400 couples coming you really think if you allow 10 single guys in it's going to fucking cause problems the problem is going to be probably the other couples that are going there they're thinking that they could just touch and do shit to whoever they want to do because they're at purgatory but anyways so back to the hot dates south texas no purgatory they're going to purgatory purgatory everyone's going to fucking purgatory uh here we go here we go stay in a post okay indian wedding okay looking for other couples no not single men you know and i always look at the little icons they have for couples and all that make sure they have single guys on there here we go we'll be traveling through houston area and looking to have some quick fun while in the area bb bwc and they gotta stop saying bwc come on just say big cock you know big white cock we're only looking for white guys hereWC.
Come on, just say Big Cock. You know, Big White Cock. We're only looking for white guys. Here's one. And that's, she's looking good. Nice little thick chick. Like it, let's look at the pictures. Nice titties, tattoos all over her titties. Looks like she's got a tattoo on the pussy. Yes, she does. So she's looking good, you know, and all that. So maybe I'll email her. And all that. Where are they from? Are they from? I don't know. It's 190 miles away they're from, so fuck that. More purgatory. Purgatory. Nice. More purgatory. Fuck, man.
There's going to be a lot of people at this purgatory event. And that's good because that only brings more people to Houston. Maybe these people will venture out into the clubs here at Houston. So I wonder if the clubs here are going to be shitty because of the party and all that. They're going out Saturday. They're not looking for single men. Too bad. In town for purgatory. Great. Purgatory. More Purgatory. I feel like I'm in Purgatory by doing all this. We can have the clubs unless we'll have a better suggestion. Pendulum on Hempstead on Friday night and Saturday. Shoot us a message.
They're not looking for any dudes. They're just looking for couples and girls. Hurricane is over. You know, shit. Yes, it's over. And she's going to be at Purgatory. A single girl. Oh, girl oh you know she's gonna have a fucking shitload of she's probably got 20,000 emails right now she'll be at purgatory more purgatory see what the fun both Friday Saturday night clear like it II we were not looking for a single male at all, so please don't respond. Can I respond? Ooh, I think I can. I think I'm going to write them a message. Hey, you looking to have some fun? No, just be an asshole.
But no, I'm not going to do that. Fuck it. All right, here's a young couple. They're looking to hopefully make friends. They're not looking for single males at this time. At least they don't know it.
At least they don't have it capitalized like a lot of couples do all caps no single men all right great we can get it uh let's here we'll be in the kuma they're gonna kima hubby is a friend with him the wife is looking for a single male to hang out with she is extremely picky guys please be fit attractive preferably tall able to last longer than five minutes no b All right, so she's looking for a non-BBC and too bad I'm not going to be fit. Fuck it. You know, like I said, you know, it's cool. Fun fortune cookie. They're going to be staying at Fifth Amendment Hospital.
We're going to be attending the Kraken Resort Festival. So Kraken.
Kraken is a new swinger, nudist resort, up way up in like nesbitt off of 45 and i've been there i went there i went there when there was no one there and i have to say it's a great place i'll talk about that later i'm going to do a whole thing about that when i get to a saturday and see if it's saturday night there because there's some things i'm confused about that i'm going to talk to the owner or whoever's at the front desk about because i want to give them a good review and i uh and i already tell you it's a lot of it's brand new so it's a really good place i rec i would recommend going just check it out friday i would go you know saturday sunday because it seems like that's when most of people but yeah purgatory is dominating the houston scene this weekend so if you are looking for a good party to go to try to get to purgatory you know it's some words i'm not going to give out the information even though it gives it out on the website go to purgatory go on the website figure it out for yourself because i don't want to give out any information that they might not want because you know like i said there are dumb fucking guys out there that are going to be sitting out in the parking lot trying to pick up couples and shit like that like they do at the swinger clubs i mean i'll go i'll get out of tpc and i have my girl and there'll be dudes out there sitting there trying to chat us up and shit like that i was like dude go in pay your fucking 150 bucks and shut the fuck up you know i don't know but anyway so with that looks like we're gonna have to take off but i thank you for joining me on this wonderful Swing a Single podcast.
Hopefully, if you're going to be doing any hosting, anything like that, I came up with some games. Just Google Sexy Swinger games that you can play at your house party, and there you go. You'll have it. So it will be great. Trust me. gonna you're the host make sure everyone's having having a lot of fun because if you if everyone's having fun guess what we're all having fun and they're all gonna want to come back so just a little info for you all right so with that shave your cock and balls, gentlemen. Have a great night. Have a great weekend. And swing the night away, baby.
