n this eye-opening episode of Swinging Single, host AC Maxwell takes on society's biggest misconceptions surrounding the swinging lifestyle. Through candid conversations and expert insights, AC dismantles the stereotypes and myths that have shrouded the swinger community. From dispelling misconceptions about jealousy to challenging preconceived notions about intimacy, AC Maxwell fearlessly confronts the narratives that have shaped society's views on swingers. Join us as we embark on a thought-provoking journey to demystify the swinging lifestyle and uncover the truths behind the taboo. Get ready to challenge your perceptions and flip the script as AC Maxwell fearlessly leads the charge to debunk swinger myths.
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Welcome to the Swinging Single Podcast with your host, A.C. Maxwell. Get ready to challenge your preconceptions and dive into the world of swinging with insights that will reshape your perspective. Today, we are unraveling the myths and misconceptions surrounding the swinger lifestyle. So fasten your seatbelts and prepare for a mind-opening journey with A.C. Maxwell as your guide. Let's swing open the doors of understanding and explore the truth behind the titilizing veil of misconceptions. Without further ado, let's jump into today's episode of the Swinging Single Podcast.
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Any questions or concerns regarding this disclaimer, please contact us at swingingsingleMail.com. By listening to the Swinging Single podcast, you acknowledge that you have read and understand this disclaimer and agree to its terms. Shave your cock and balls, gentlemen. All right. Yeah, you heard her. Shave your cock and balls, everybody. because the ladies will love you for it. So, first, before we get into the misconceptions, let's start talking about SwingingSinglePodcast.com. That's my wife's website where you see everything AC, see my newest uploads, maybe some pictures.
I don't take a lot of pictures, so, you know, I really got to get better on that. But, unfortunately, you know, someday I will, maybe someday I won't.
But we go there, find everything out you want and maybe getting content we if you want to get a hold of me get to swing and single podcast at gmail.com you can reach me there if you want to have any questions uh want to do a phone interview you want me to come out to your club do a live remote show and all that fine i could do that you know it ain't gonna hurt me i love going to swinger uh clubs and having a lot of fun and talking about it so let's get into it today it is a saturday a beautiful saturday here in texas nice and cool nothing too hot not 120 degrees like it usually is so we're gonna talk about fucking and sex and swinger lifestyle lifestyle and all that so the swinger lifestyle often faces misinterpretations that mislead individuals it's essential to dispel these common misconceptions to ensure a better understanding of this community before considering joining it alright so this is for you newbies out there that are you know you're on the fence of should I should I stay or should i go uh that's all up to you and your wife and your husband and all that your partner or if you're a single person you decide well is this really for me do i really want to have encounters with strangers and all that uh you might like it so and you might hear a lot of stuff about it's all nasty it's ugly people uh that it's just one big orgy uh i wish it was one big orgy because i have never been i've been to a lot of clubs haven't seen the orgies a lot of orgies i have seen orgies but i haven't seen a lot of orgies it's not everyone just fucking having sex sometimes i see people at a club let's be at a certain club there'll be like one or two people having sex two couples will have sex and that is it no one else is screwing around or doing anything so you know it's not what you see in the movies if you watch a movie you watch a porno and you think it's like that you're wrong already it's not it's nothing like a porno it's nothing like in the movies uh you have regular mom and dad bod people there you have regular people there good looking young old ugly fat skinny you have everything so if you're a big girl and you're shy about your body, guess what?
So are the other hundred women that are in that same club, and they are, they can be big girls too, but yet they don't let that hold you, hold them back and have fun. So, the misconception of cheating and swinging. The swinger lifestyle is rooted in consensual sex and partner swapping making it a far cry from cheating while infidelity involves deception and betrayal swinging thrives as a transparency of mutual agreement although cheating can't occur in a swinger relationship it does align with the principles principles it does not align with the principles of consensual swinging, all right?
Now, remember, guys and girls and ladies and gentlemen, you're going to have cheaters everywhere. It don't matter what lifestyle you're in. You're in the nudist, you're in the vanilla, or you're in the swinging lifestyle, you're in the BDSM lifestyle, you're in the kinksters lifestyle. There's going to be cheating all the time. You're not going to get away with it. There will be cheaters at the swing clubs.
You'll see a lot of them because they'll be like, they have a wife, they have a husband, they go to the swing club by themselves, the husband don't know, the wife don't know, stuff like that. I have encountered a couple women like that. I had affairs with a couple women because they didn't tell me that their husband knew.
They say their husband knew about it, but their husband didn't't know about it and it left me in a really awkward situation uh where you know what do i do now do i continue or do i stop now i'm gonna be honest with you sometimes i just continue because the husband was a legitimate asshole and i was like well since he wants to disrespect me all the time in front of people at the club and, you know, talk badly about me as a single guy swinging that I shouldn't be swinging because I'm a single guy, I'll continue to fuck the shit out of his wife.
there have been times where the guy's real great but the wife's just a whore and she wants to fuck and she can't get enough for some odd reason she can't talk to the husband about it and I have to end that relationship because you know I have too much respect for the husband about it. And I have to end that relationship because, you know, I have too much respect for the husband. So basically, my thing is the husband's a good person. I stay away. If the husband's a shit person, guess what? I'm in there. I'll take it. You know what? Whatever you say. If it's mean, it's mean. It's horrible.
It's horrible. I don't care. But like I said, I'm going to live my best life, I'm going to possibly can, and do. But you will see couples cheat on each other in the swinging lifestyle. It's different when your husband, the husband, I have husbands call me, oh, hey, AC, can you, my wife wants to get laid tonight, can you go out and get a room and fuck her?
Sure, that's, but I'm not going he's not gonna be there it's just me and the wife i had experience like that this past uh thursday night husband wants me to take on his wife because she can't get enough she's very sexual and so thursday night i you know me and her have our adult relations and all that i send her home nice and happy, and he's happy. He's thanking me on the Telegram and all that. So, you know, it does work out. And swinging does sometimes have cheating in it, all right? But it doesn't always mean cheating.
Just because you're in the same room and you're sticking your penis or you're letting another man stick their penis inside you doesn't mean that you are cheating. It's like the T-shirt says, it ain't cheating if my husband watches, all right?
So if they know about are cheating it's like though it's like the t-shirt says it ain't cheating if my husband watches all right so if they know about it it's not cheating anyways some more misconceptions and this is probably the really big one that people see so someone in the love vanilla lifestyle finds out that tom and jane are swinging they might assume that the it's in a troubled relationship contrary contrary to popular belief not all swinger couples are troubled relationships seeking a quick fix through swinging in reality successful swinging requires a strong trusting relationship that is built on openness and communication it can be strengthened by a healthy relationship but may exasperate existing issues in a trouble relationship i always say this if you are in your marriage is on the rocks swinging is not for you all right swinging will probably end your marriage real quick because guess what one of you one of the two are out the door uh the last ditch effort you know as much as you want to try and try and try to get swinging the work and keep your marriage together for whatever reasons it's not going to work now are there you know, as much as you want to try and try and try to get swinging to work and keep your marriage together for whatever reasons, it's not going to work.
Now, are there any outliers? Yeah, there could be a couple where they were on the outs and they just started swinging. They found out they love it and they found a reconnection with themselves. That does happen too. But chances are, if you're in a troubled relationship already, it ain't going to, you know, it ain't going to work. Now, just because you are swinging and you're happy, you're veteran swingers or you're newbie swingers and you love the lifestyle, doesn't mean your relationship is in trouble. It means you have a solid foundation already built, and that's what you need.
You don't need cracks in the foundation, just like Maren Morris said in her song. There's no cracks in the foundation. The bones are good. All right. Thank you. And your best way to keep your sanity is not try to explain your lifestyle to other people. Just say, hey, I love watching my wife have sex with other people. I love it, and I'm encouraging you to do it. Vice versa, I love my husband being with other people. It's freedom. We feel free. We're not going to do it, vice versa. I love my husband being with other people. It's freedom. We feel free. We're not feeling trapped.
We're not in this box that everybody else is in. And that's all you got to say. You don't have to explain this shit to your family if they find out or they tell them. You don't have to explain it to your vanilla friends or any other people in the lifestyle. You. You're not displaying yourself to any of them. You just got to remember your relationship is good. And you know what? A lot of swingers' relationships are good. But there's always that bad stuff where people do end up getting divorced. I've seen it 26 years swinging, going on 27 in January.
And I have seen people get divorced in swinging. It happens. It's normal life. There are things that happen outside the control of swinging. You know, the sex is great, but them as a couple, they just don't function. You know, I always hear people, we're just better off as friends. That's what could be happening to a lot of couples. All right. Another one, the the perception of perception of, what would they say, of being just all-out fuckery. The notion that swingers will engage in sexual activities with anyone is a misrepresentation.
While this stereotype may be perpetrated in certain media portrayals, real-life swingers are discerning and choosing their partners. Most swingers are selective in value, mental attraction, mutual attraction, and compatibility in their interactions. All right, that's true too, all right? A lot of people, like I said, I wish the social media and the movies were like swinging because then everybody would have a great time. Now, when I first started swinging, yeah, it was like that. It was a fucking orgy and people were having sex and having a great time.
It has evolved, you know, like everything else in life. It had to evolve. Now, do I like it? Not necessarily. I still enjoy the lifestyle, but, you know, I wish it was back to where, you know, everyone was happy and everyone was getting laid. But now it's like, well, you might not go. You go to the club. You might not get laid. You might be sitting there jerking off all night. But, you know, people look for connections, especially the women. The women always say, I got to have a connection to be with someone. Some of these guys are saying they need a connection. I think they're liars.
I'm sorry, but I just think you're lying if you say you need a connection as a guy You know I think gay guys Are the true indicator of how guys Really are they can fuck anything and anywhere They don't care And I love that for them I love it because they're true To themselves like straight men Oh I need a connection I'm a psyopay and whatever that thing is i'm charged to smartness no you're not you're lying to yourself you're lying to the world you can get hard if you can get hard you can fuck it like i mean i mean i fucking love all women i don't care the size shape color i'll fuck it you know i'm i'm there you want me to eat you out i'm there as long as that shit don't stink that pussy don't stink oh i'm good and all that so you know it is just uh it's kind of weird but people you know they say they need a connection and a lot of them do and that's fine if you say you need a connection guys well then i i i'll still think you're lying but okay girls I can see women needing a connection Because it's more mental for them Us, it's physical We see then I'll still think you're lying, but okay, girls, I can see women needing a connection because it's more mental for them.
Me, us, it's physical. We see a nice-looking girl or a girl that's attractive and she's naked, we got a horn on her heart and ready to rock and roll, all right? But most swingers are selective, very selective sometimes.
Sometimes, you know, you get the couples that only want skinny people or fit people they work out they do crossfit all day all the time uh then you got the ones couples who they only want to party with black couples other black couples will want to party with other black couples or you know other couples want to play hispanics want to party with hispanic couples or young want to party with young and all that uh uh and all that so you do have those type of couples and all that so you know it's not one big orgy if you're new or you're a newbie and a veteran you veterans you could tell you you could chime in and email me at swinging single podcast dot at gmail.com or swinging single podcast.com and say hey you know what or it's not like the movies swinging is not like the movies there's no orgies hardly ever I don't know.
or swinginsinglepodcast.com and say, hey, you know what? It's not like the movies. Swinging is not like the movies. There's no orgies hardly ever and stuff like that. Now, you might have an orgy once in a while, but yeah, you know what? Mostly it's just fun. So in conclusion, by debunking these misconceptions, it can become evident that the swinger lifestyle is more complex and nuanced than commonly perceived.
Understand these misconceptions is crucial for those considering entering that swinger community to navigate it with clear perspectives that's why i hate social media you gotta if you're trying to find swingers you gotta google it but if you're watching movies watching pornos and stuff like that only fans you do OnlyFans, some of these so-called swingers slash content creators, they only party with other content creators. So it's like they're professional. OnlyFans is pretty much professional porn. So for now, instead of studios owning it, the individual owns it. All right.
So, you know, these people are partying with each other it's not like that in real life you go to a swimming club you got all these handsome good-looking well-endowed dudes are there you don't got these fake titties nice ass six-pack ab chicks there you got mom and dad bods there and you're and that's what you're gonna see uh and the age range varies but most of them are 40s and 50 year olds you know why because 40 and 50 year olds have a lot of time on their hands because they raised their kids raised their families and the kids are gone or are near high school and they don't need them that much anymore and mom and dad go out and party a couple i play with their reasoning for getting into the lifestyle was they were bored they literally told They they were bored their kids were all out of the house they had nothing to do so they just figured swinging they like sex so they figured swinging was the next course of action and it's like wow that's because i always love finding ways when i interview someone or i talk to someone i always want i'm always interested as a guy and a couple or a single female how do you get into this stuff because for me i know my eye got in but i'm always interested in how other people get in you know they're horny they're always horny they have a high sex drive and so on and so on so they have various reasons but i thought the first time they told me that that was the first time i ever heard someone well they were just bored they had nothing else to do so when you look at swinging it's mostly 40 and 50 year olds doing the swinging now you do have the 30s and 20 year olds all right doing it so if you're a young couple and you only want young couples it's gonna be you are limiting your market when I first started swinging I'm 21 I couldn't get a 40 year old to fuck me it was hard because they always say I have a son your age or, you know, my kids are your age and stuff like that.
Now you got 40-year-olds fucking 18-year-olds out in the world now. So it's kind of reverse. So it kind of sucks because a lot of pussy I lost because of that because I was told a lot of times you're just too young, stuff like that. So, you know, you got to be, the social media has really destroyed what swinging is all about, all right?
Swinging, you know you gotta be the social media has really destroyed what swinging is all about all right swinging you know doesn't involve hot supermodels fucking everywhere you're not gonna go to a party and everyone's fucking everywhere and everyone is got an eight inch cock or a fake titties and they look great all right you're gonna find a mom and dad you're gonna find the person that works in the cubicle next to you there that's's what you're going to see, all right? So, you know, you can have the standards, but I don't know. I don't know if you have too high of a standards.
It can be a lonely lifestyle for you. So, you know, just chill and enjoy. So, some things. There are misconceptions of orgies and group sex and swinging. It is a common misconception that swinging solely revolves around orgies and group sex. While some swingers do engage in such activities, others prefer various dynamics, such as partner swapping, threesomes, same-room interactions, and soft swapping. Many swingers find fulfillment in more intimate and limited sexual encounters rather than large group settings. Hence, labeling swinging as predominantly about orgies and group sex is inaccurate.
And that's so true. If you go to a swinger club, you won't see a lot of open sex. Now, you can have, I mean, when I've been in my swinger clubs, the open room, you have like 10, 15, maybe 20 people all having sex in the open room, the orgy room, they would call it. But what you're not seeing is you see those 20 people. But what you don't see is those 20 people are partner up and they're just playing with each other. They're not playing with the whole group. They're not going from one penis to another penis or one vagina to another vagina. They're just playing solely with their partners.
It's like having same room sex. It's just that they're all there in the same room, but they're not swapping. Now, that's not an orgy. That's not group sex. That is just you having sex in front of other people. That's extra business. That's not orgy or group sex. And you'll see a lot of that. And people will think that because the uneducated, the newbies won't know that this is not group sex. I don't know how many times I've been to a party where everyone's having sex in the room, but we're all staying with our selective partners. We're not swapping people.
Now, have I been to orgies where it's everybody going on everybody? Yes have you know the couple i met in ohio when she would have the um what is it greedy girl parties and that was for women that wanted more than one guy at a time that was going from one vagina to another vagina for me and so on and so on so that was all that was group sex that is an orgy. But for the most part, you don't see that. You see couple with couple. You might see couple with couple with another couple. A couple in a threesome. You know, two singles hooking up and stuff like that.
But you don't see a lot of open group sex where group sex has actually happened. Where people are swapping partners in that group sex and everyone's going from, you know, it's playing like musical cocks. You know, when the music stops, they jump onto another one. The music stops again, they jump onto another one. So you don't really see that much. Orgies, same thing. You don't see it that much. Are there? Yes. Are there on OnlyFans with a group of so-called swingers? Yes, there are because they're making money off of it it. If they weren't making money off of it, what would they be doing?
That's the question I want to know. If there are any OnlyFan creators listening and you want to come in and talk to me about this OnlyFans swinging content creation, please email me at swingingsinglepodcasts at gmail.com. I would love to hear your story. I ain't going to be hard on you. I ain't going to be doing anything like that. I'm just going to do an honest video interview.
I want to hear your story i ain't gonna be hard on you i ain't gonna be doing anything like that i'm just gonna do an honest video interview i want to hear your story i want to hear what you think because what i think and what you think are probably two different things all right so swinging is often misconstrued as being solely focused on sex while sexuality is a significant aspect of swinging is not the sole defining factor swingers also place value on socializing with like-minded individuals forming lasting friendships and building the sense of community within the lifestyle thus dismissing swinging as merely a pursuit of physical pleasure overlooks the deeper social connections and emotional aspects which i'm gonna have to agree when i'm at a swinger club swinger event anywhere other swingers i feel at home i feel i can be myself i can say what i want to say and not be judged based on that stuff now is there judgment yes swinging swinging we do judge others and that's because we're human beings.
There's no way of getting around it. We're all human. So, you know, I like being around these people because they're open, they're friendly. You know? Now, do I have lasting religious friendships?
To me, friendship is a, how do you, you mean like if I see them i say hello yeah but do we hang out no we don't i don't really hang out i have friendships where i uh text someone to say hey how you doing how's the missus how the kids you know all that stuff during holidays happy thanksgiving i hope you're doing all right during christmas time same thing and merry christmas happy new year to you but you know those are some still good friendships if I see them at the club it's like we might not see each other for a year but it's like we just saw each other last week and then you know nothing has changed we're you know we're building that and all that uh you got a community here unfortunately one thing i don't like about the community is if you don't agree with the community, they're like Democrats.
They try to, they ostracize you. They make, they talk shit about you. They talk badly about you because you don't agree. I'm sorry, but I don't always agree with what couples have to say. I'm sorry. Couples always talk about they want respect, but yet they don't give respect to single men. So I'm going to call it out. And there's nothing wrong with it. If you are, if you're angry about what I say, then you're probably what I'm talking about. If you're not angry, then you're not.
Because like I said, when people talk about single males are being creepy, disrespectful, I don't get angry about that. I'm like, okay, let's talk about it. But I'm not angry at that because you know what? I'm not creepy. I'm a decent-looking guy. I'm not fucking the most handsomest dude that walks in. Maybe sometimes I am. I think I'm very good looking. I'm skinny. You know, I lost a lot of weight. I looking good. I can have a conversation other than sex. So, you know, that's a plus. So I don't think I'm any of that. So I don't get upset about it. I'll talk about it.
You might think I'm sound upset, but I'm not upset. I'm just talking about it and all that. And, you know, but it's also, you know, we like to socialize. It's good to socialize. It's good to be around people. Think about during COVID. You're locked in the room all day. You're locked in your house. How wonderful was it when you could go outside and talk to someone? You know, COVID really taught us some valuable lessons in life. Human interaction is very important for a lot of people. I don't know about you, but, you know, I cannot imagine being the only person on the planet.
Jeez, can you imagine how lonely that is not to see no one, not to hear no one? I don't know, man. But, you know, swinging is not just focused on sex. It was for a while when I first started. It was all about sex. But now it's evolved. And I think it's just as good as it was then. I just think there's more opportunities. There's less opportunities for single guys now. But when I started, there's a ton of opportunities for us. So, all right. Another misconception that swinging always involves random partner swapping is largely influenced by the myth of swinger key parties.
In reality, the concept of indiscriminate partner swapping is not common practice in the swinging community. Most swingers prioritize selectively consent with engaging in sexual activities, while small, close-knit swinger gatherings may foster more familiarity and comfort with your swinging partner swapping. Large-scale events typically do not promote random encounters. Therefore, categorizing swinging as primary about random partner swapping is misleading and lacks understanding of the community values. Now, let's talk about the key parties.
A key party was a long time ago, what they used to call swinger parties, where you would put your keys in a in a bowl and the ladies would come and pick a key and whoever keys they picked but they would go home with that person or they would fuck that person and all that which is kind of you know what honestly that is a great throwback party if you're hosting a house party a key party would be a great and just say hey you're gonna have to find a group of people that are okay with fucking so if you have one of those groups however you know have a key party and see what happens you know at you know everyone gets there by 10 o'clock 10 30 the girls get the keys and whoever they hook up with they hook whoever they draw the hook up with at the's a good, that's a little good, a little throwback, you know, old school swinger party.
All right. Now, partner swapping, a lot of people do the stranger sex thing. You know, if you go to a club, there are people, you go there, you know, never meet these people and you'll fuck them and that's it. You'll never see them again. There are couples out there like that where they don't want to have anything to do with anybody outside the lifestyle. They just want to come in, fuck, have a great time and see you later. Thank you for your time. Thank you for your service, but we're going to go on our way. There are a lot of couples like that.
So I don't totally agree with this paragraph here, but swinging is close-knit. There are, there's a close knit family in swinging and all that. And they do love the same old, same old. I don't, I like variety. That's why I get bored after a couple of times with a certain, with certain couples and all that, because this is the same thing. This is going to be something new that's strange and all that. So couples are selective and they always provide consent if they're going to have any fun. So, you know, you just got to be careful with what's going on in that.
So by debunking these misconceptions, individuals can develop a more nuanced understanding of swinging as a diverse lifestyle, encompassing various sexual dynamics, while social connections and personal boundaries bring on the oversimplified stereotypes, often pro-gadded by mainstream perception. Like I said, there's always going to be stereotypes, and you know what? Some of the stereotypes are true. There are people who just go out there and do orgies. There are people who do group sex. There are just people that go there to fuck strangers, and that's it.
And there's, like, all these mis-stereotypes, there is some truth to them. There's always some truth to stereotypes in anywhere, vanilla world or in the swinging world. So, you know, you just got to experience it. You just got to go take it day by day, party by party. So swinging destroys good relationships. Do they? I don't think so.
the idea that swinging inevitably ruins relationships often stems from judgmental attitudes towards non-conventional lifestyles in reality swinging can strengthen a healthy relationship by fostering open communication and creating shared experiences the concept the concept of comparison where individuals find joy in others partners pleasure is integral to many successful stringinger dynamics. Conversely, if a relationship is already plagued by mistrust, jealousy, and envy, engaging in swinging may indeed exasperate existing issues.
Therefore, labeling swinging as universally detrimental to relationships is unfounded unless the underlying bound is not as strong as believed. Like I said, swinging can strengthen the healthy relationship by fostering open communication. There's the key two words. Healthy relationship. If you have an unhealthy relationship, it's not going to work. It's not going to solve your problems. Maybe you're the one in the million couple where it will actually help.
But in reality, it's not going to help help you you're going to be shit out of luck so to say you're going to end up doing something else i always say you know a lot of these couples have one foot out the door anyways if you have that one couple that's one foot out the door you are not going to end up well and you're going to be embarrassing yourself and you might embarrass the swinging community so you know just you know if you have a great relationship You're welcome.
embarrassing yourself and you might embarrass the swinging community so you know just you know if you have a great relationship you're going to be fine in swinging if you have a bad relationship you are not going to do yourself any favors uh swingers are immune to jealousy wrong contrary to properly jealousy and envy are not uncommon emotions within the swinging community however swingers actively address and manage these feelings through honest communication and mutual understanding by navigating jealousy and insecurities in a healthy manner couples can deepen their connection and discover comparison finding joy in their partner's pleasure acknowledging and processing jealousy is a pivotal aspect of maintaining a humorous and fulfilling lifestyle all right so So, yeah, you you're always gonna be jealous because there's gonna be someone bigger stronger faster than you you're a guy you're gonna have those guys with the bigger dicks than you you're gonna have those girls you're gonna have those ladies with the best fucking bodies around that have a better body than you look great all right you're gonna be jealous you know you You know, you're there, you're having a threesome with another male, and your wife is making noises that you never heard come out of her ever.
You might get jealous. Same thing, girls. Your husband might pound the hell out of some girl from the back, and he never did that to you. You're going to probably get jealous a little bit. bit but for swingers we know how to manage our jealousy not into rage uh when i was working at caliente i would have to break up couples because they would get in the fights with each other and it was over the stupid shit like they're at uh they're at the party and uh guys she's paying attention to the guy too much and not paying attention to him or she's, she's not paying attention to him at all.
She's paying attention to all the girls and all the guys at the party and all that. So there's a lot of jealousy that goes around. It's just how you manage it and how you talk about it is what's going to make you successful. If you can't share your feelings with your partner in a adult manner where there's no screaming, no yelling, no judgment, don't call your wife a whore because a bunch of guys are hitting on her. Guess what?
Gentlemen, your wife can go to a bar and if she's good looking, she's going to have a lot of guys hit on her no matter what so why are you angry at her at a swinger party that guys are hitting on her and talking to her and no one's talking to you i told you this you don't listen to this podcast enough women run this lifestyle we do not run this lifestyle if the women were not in the lifestyle there there will be no swinging lifestyle. Understand? The minute you guys get that through your head, the happier you will be as a couple.
People are going to pay attention to your wife more, especially if she's good looking. I don't know. What do you want me to do? Sugar coated? Oh, they're going to look at you because I don't want you? Yeah. Trust me. If a couple could get rid of your ass and not only have your wife, chances are they might do it. Let's just face facts. Let's face the reality, all right? So don't get upset that your wife gets all the attention. You know what? Let your wife have all the attention she wants. Guess what you're going to get? You're going to get the rewards of your wife.
Being attractive, being hot, being sexy. And another woman's going to fall on your dick. But you're more angry because she's not paying attention to you? Fuck it. Enjoy the silence, buddy. Enjoy it. Let her do her thing. Let her blow off steam and everything. And let her a great time, you know? And ladies, if your husband's a fucking hot stud, shit, let him do the work for you. You're going to get laid anyways. So, you know, let that happen, man. Don't be able to talk about it.
Tell, you know, say, hey, honey, could you just like pay attention to me, talk to me, get me into the conversation a little bit, things like that, you know? But if you're yelling and calling your wife a whore or shit like that, you think she's going to want to come to these clubs anymore, you're just going to run yourself right out of the lifestyle, and you're going to be with me. You're going to be hanging out in the single male section with me, AC. Don't worry, I got you.
I always get a lot of guys laid, you know, and they don't ever ever return the fucking favor you know i probably got more guys laid than i gotten laid myself because you know what i'm not selfish lover i always see there's there's enough to go around so there's no reason to be bogarting every pussy all right so you know remember we're not you're not immune to jealousy or anything like that you are going to get jealous maybe you know especially that first time that guy pulls out of a 12 inch wang and your wife is salivating over it that is a experience in yourself i had that happen to me and like oh boy this ain't good but you know what and in the end she loved it she had a great time and i you know me and her still party today so So there is a misconception that only certain individuals engage in swinging, which is far from reality.
Now, swingers encompass a diverse range of backgrounds spanning various races, religions, professions, social economic statuses. From shop owners to law enforcement officers, teachers to executives, swingers come from all walks of life. This exclusivity highlights the diversity and universally of the swinger community. Refuting the notion that swinging is limited to a certain type of view. Now, I'm going to say the majority of swingers are white couples, all right? You have a lot of Hispanic couples too. You have a minimum of black couples, Asian couples minimum.
You don't have too many of those you if you go to a club you have an asian fetish you might be waiting a long time at a club for an asian lady to come in uh same thing black couples there's not a lot you see more interracial couples with a black with the black male white female at the club than you will see two black people you know i always say i always said the black couple is the unicorn like the black hot wife i really don't see a lot of black women that do the hot wifing lifestyle usually it's always the white woman doing the hot wifing lifestyle uh where they might be just black only type of couples but you know that you know, that could change.
That's not always going to be. You're starting to see more and more ethnic people getting into it. You don't see a lot of Indian or Muslims doing this. Muslim males you see a lot of. Muslim women, not so much and all that. Now, why? I don't know. Maybe it's religion, but you do.
you'll see some people you'll you probably have all religions and swinging you probably have all nationalities i'm sure if you go to africa you go to a swingers club there if they have them it's filled with uh you know black people there so you know i'm just i'm sure but when i go to a club here in the texas or anywhere i call the country it's mostly white people and Hispanic couples. All right. The assumption that swinging entails unrestrained sexual activity aligns closely with earlier misconceptions addressed.
Given its similarity to previously discussed myths, it is evident that swinging is not solely about indulging in uncontrolled sexual encounters. Therefore, categorizing swinging as a married free-for-all sex overlooks the nuanced dynamics and diverse experiences that define the lifestyle. Man, I wish these stereotypes were still true because I really missed the free-for-all days of my early youth, of having great parties and all that. I really did. In my early years, I really found a great group of people, maybe because I wasn't bothered by a lot of stuff. I just go with the flow.
Now I'm old, I'm a grouchy and all that. So now I was like, Oh, maybe just maybe, uh, I don't want to deal with these people anymore or crowds, anything like that. And depression and anxiety also kicked in, uh, this year for me. So, you know, that might be suppressing my desire to go out and have a lot of uncontrollable sex. Do people really think we're just out there like monkeys, like fucking everywhere? Is that really true? God, man, that's kind of crazy.
So, by debunking these prevalent myths surrounding swinging individuals can gain a more uh more comprehensive understanding of the complexities benefits and misconceptions associated with this diverse and multifaceted lifestyle i always say the best way to find out that this is all about you is try it see See what happens. You know? So, you know, I don't know. Just try. See what happens.
Alright, so, the misconception has, this misconception has proliferated, particularly with single male community, primarily due to misleading advertisements from entities and individuals seeking to exploit the desires of eager individuals and couples. They have unrealistic assertions claiming that a mere investment in an e-book or an hour of reading could result in immediate sexual encounters. People always give a single guy's advice. How to do this, how to do that.
When Duchess of Dicks get better and she comes on, we're going to talk about a couple bitching about how guys should answer an email, but yet when they send the email out, they do the same thing they bitch about with other singles and all that. And they always charge us, single guys, money for this advice. And I'm like, you don't have to. If you are a human being and you can learn how to talk about everything and anything, you don't have to talk about sex. If you can talk about everything and anything, you are going to do well in the swinging lifestyle.
If your whole focus is on sex, then you are going to be screwed because they're going to pick up on it and they're not. Like with me, it is all about sex, but I can talk about shop. I can talk about a lot of things, stock market, government, all kinds of stuff, political things, everything. I can talk about everything and have a conversation with someone.
So'm good there so they charge us for these information that it really is useless because it doesn't help us at all because in the end it is about attraction what they really should do is talk about hygiene shaving your cock and balls shaving your asshole making your shit look nice losing keeping in shape, not being a fat slob. If you, I don't, I see these guys who are fat, they're single, they come to the club and they pull out their dicks and their dicks are about as big as my pinky. And I'm like, who wants that?
They got to pull back the fat to get to your cock all right now you it might be harsh to say but i'm listening it's true and don't laugh i hear people laughing i can hear you laughing right now in your car or wherever you're listening to this podcast the swinging single podcast and you are sitting there laughing because you've seen it at a club. These big-ass guys come in there with their guts. They haven't seen their penis since the Reagan administration, and you're trying to get laid, lose weight. You know, everyone says size matters. Size don't. I always hear these girls on the swinging.
Oh, size don't matter. But, yeah, I see their ads. We are looking for hung and young. Well, size don't matter. Why are you looking for hung? See, it's a lie. They tell us lies. They tell us lies to sell stuff to us, to us single guys. For 30 bucks, we can get you laid. No, you can't. Only us can get us laid because you have to have the game. Now, maybe because I'm a Gen Xer, I had to talk to girls when I was younger to get laid. I had to do things for girls to get laid. You know, you had to have a car. You had some money to take them out to McDonald's.
And maybe you get a blow job or a hand job. Or you might get laid. You never know. It depends on how easy the girl is or how much she likes you. But the people now, these kids, these young single guys that are coming up to date, they don't know how to talk. They don't know how to dress. Dressing is important. Like I said, a lot of couples come in, the girl dresses sexy, the guy dresses like he got out of the oil rig. And the single guys come in and they don't have nothing on. You know, I come in with a sports jacket, looking nice, pressed shirt, everything.
Or I come in with my three-piece suit everything looks good everything looks kosher and i'm fucking overdressed for the swinger club now where before you had you had you were kicked out if you didn't come dressed properly but that's what they really need to tell guys you know how to hygiene how to know, manners. Don't be touching on girls or women at the club. They will let you know if they want to be touched. Trust me, they're going to touch you. If a girl, you're talking to a couple and she's laughing at you, she's laughing at what you're talking about. They're having a good time.
She's touching your arm, touching your shoulder, your hands. You might be able to, it might be a time to ask, hey, do you mind if I touch you? You know, stuff like that.
So, you know, and lo and behold, you might be able it might be a time to ask hey do you mind if i touch you you know stuff like that so you know and lo and behold you might get lucky but you really gotta you know you just gotta watch out for the advertisement what the people are what's the end game this is like those swingers that are content creators what's their end game are they trying to sell you they're trying to sell you content they're trying to make money off of you so you know do i call them swingers i call i i'll be nice and say yeah you're swingers but to me you're really it's just porn stars that are swingers so and i don't really want to be on camera you know i tell them i could wear a mask oh no we gotta have face why what's the difference you see?
No one gives a shit about my face. Only thing they care about is the penis going inside of you, maybe the cum shot, stuff like that. So it must be emphasized that transitioning into a swinger does not guarantee instant sexual encounters solely based on purchasing into such misrepresented promises.
The reality is that genuine social skills and the ability to represent oneself sincerely are fundamental pre-whesequence embracing the swinger lifestyle does not include a shortcut to unlimited sexual opportunities regardless of one's appearance or behavior any monetary transactions or agreements based on these exaggerated claims constitute deceptive schemes man i wish it was unlimited sexual I wish you could pay 50 bucks and get Laid all the time, but it's not Going to happen, you're going to have to go to the Club, you're going to have to do stuff, you're going to have to actually Be a human being, and it's Just tough to see, watch these single Guys, or even single girls Because you know what, there are sometimes a girl Will go to a club and she don't get laid, and she's not Happy about it either So, you know, it's tough, or couples go And no one talks to them, or they don't get laid Or anything like that, they don't fuck with anybody I don't get laid and she's not happy about it either so you know it's tough or couples go and no one talks to them or they don't get laid or anything like that they don't fuck with anybody so you know it's just all depends on how you carry yourself guys if you carry yourself well you dress well you you don't have to be a six-pack ab you know bodybuilder type but you can't be a slob you know you got to look good shave your face if you got a beard trim it make it look nice uh comb your hair don't wear a hat all right don't wear a hat don't why you wear a baseball hat a cowboy hat let your hair grow let those girls see what's on top of that head they like it you gotta remember girls like that they like oh it's a smell good put some cologne some good smelling cologne, not some horrible smelling cologne.
All right. So with that understanding of the prevalent mystic accession surrounding the swing of lifestyle, there is a viable opportunity to evolve into its authentic essence and dispel any, any falsehoods that have peripherated. So I'm going to get out of here. It's been 45 minutes. I'm going to get out of here because I want to go eat and have some fun. It's a lovely Saturday, rainy here in the state of Texas. I hope you all have a wonderful day, and you are all enjoying the swinging lifestyle. Newbies, take your time. Swinging will be there tomorrow.
It will be there next week, and it will be here from years from now. But just take your time and enjoy it. Remember, you've got to have that solid foundation as a couple before you start swinging. If you have any cracks in the foundation, make sure you get those cracks fixed and start swinging when they're fixed. With that, everybody, remember, gentlemen, go to swingandsingopodcast.com and see all things AC. Got any questions, clubs, you want me to come out, do a live podcast at your club, go to SwingingSinglePodcast.com and see all things AC.
Got any questions, clubs, you want me to come out, do a live podcast at your club, go to SwingingSinglePodcast at gmail.com. Hit me up. So remember to shave those cock and balls, gentlemen, and keep on swinging, everybody. I want to be the angel when it's over. You'll get lucky like a four-leaf clover. Baby, I'm a holly to your joker. Closer.
