In today’s candid episode, host AC Maxwell tackles some of the most intriguing questions from the Swinging Single Facebook community—including one surprising story about a mom wanting to introduce her daughter to the lifestyle. We also discuss the common frustration with couples who spend hours at the club socializing but never actually play. And for a little real talk, we dive into the never-discussed topic of “stinky coochie” and how to navigate personal hygiene in the swinging scene. Get ready for an open, honest, and sometimes hilarious conversation about the ups and downs of swinging life!Listen now at swingingsinglepodcast.com and join the fun!
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With Eureka Ergonomic, you don't have to compromise between style and performance. You get both. Upgrade your space with Eureka Eureka Ergonomic at EurekaErgonomic.com. Welcome to the Swinging Single Podcast with your host, A.C. Maxwell, broadcasting from the legendary Upside Down Pineapple Studios here in the heart of Texas. So for over two decades, I've embraced the swinging lifestyle as that creepy single male that you all seem to hate, but I'm here to stay, and on this show, I'm here to share my wildest tales and experiences with you, also give advice and all that stuff.
So gentlemen, shave that cock and ball, grab some lube tissues for cleanup, we don't want no messy boys, and for the spouses out there, get your man, pull your panties to the side or take them off, sit on his face, and get ready and get cozy for some uncensored, eye-opening stories on the Swinging Single Podcast. The Swinging Single Podcast with host A.C. Maxwell is intended for entertainment and educational purposes only.
The opinions, views, and content expressed or shared on the podcast are solely those of the host, AC Maxwell, and any featured guests or contributors, and do not necessarily represent those of the podcast's affiliates, sponsors, advertisers, or partners. Any information provided is given with the understanding that it does not constitute a contract, engagement, or formal advice. The content of the night. She's got you wrapped around her finger. You try to linger, but she's already on her way to mine. It might be a little superficial. She plays with the boys, but she comes home to me.
A little me Little butter but I think it's official Cause she might be your girl But she's calling me daddy she's mine, but I never tie it down, they always come around, I'm a little bit of an ice cream, a little bit lean on, alrighty, let's get going, welcome to the Swing and Single Podcast, I'm your host AC Maxwell, you can go to Swing and.com go see all things ac you can go there and gentlemen shave your cock and balls also if you have any questions you want me a topic to cover in the swinging lifestyle give me a shout out or you send an email to swing a single podcast at gmail.com and all that great stuff see some pictures do something i don't know whatever but hey we're here to talk about something nasty ass raunchy adult fun and you know how much i love to get into that so let's get into it today we're going to talk about look at some facebook postings and get some people some help that you know maybe don't know where to turn because you know we're all newbies at once and we need help sometimes and with that that's what i'm here for i'm here to help you help yourself so let's get into it all right let's look at what's going on so this comes from an anonymous poster so who knows who's hell who the hell is posting this man woman child dude i'll never know with this place or the internet so this is a long one so stay tight sit back and enjoy my voice yeah baby i hope everyone is doing well and living a good life yes we are thank you i've been thinking about something for quite a while now but i've been struggling with how to go about it practically i couldn't figure out how to approach it so i thought i'd share it with you all hoping Thank you.
for quite a while now, but I've been struggling with how to go about it practically. I couldn't figure out how to approach it, so I thought I'd share it with you all, hoping that your life experiences might offer me some guidance. Well, I don't know. I don't know if my guidance is what you need in this particular subject. I'm not sure whether there is a right place to ask such a thing or even if I should be asking this at all. So I sincerely apologize in advance for what I'm about to say or ask that it offends anyone. And one thing, don't worry about offending anyone.
Listen, if someone's offended by what you asked, then you know what? That's just a sign from God or whoever you believe in and to mean that that person shouldn't be in your life. Fuck it. Let's see.
The situation is that has come from a very open-minded family where no one is judged instead we support each other in all aspects of life my mother supported me a lot especially because she was also part of the swinging lifestyle she taught me a lot guided me and encouraged me to explore that lifestyle in an informed and safe way so i wonder how now my daughter has also been greatly influenced by my mother oh boy here we go this should be good she has she was she has expressed that she would like to explore the swinging lifestyle too she told me mom i want to join the swinging lifestyle and enjoy it as well can you help me introduce me to it now i'm sure you know i'm unsure how to actually introduce her should i take her with me to a party and introduce her there should i keep her under my supervision at first and show her the environment or should i just bring her along and let her observe how things work is it wrong for my mother to personally introduce her daughter into swinger or finger party scene what's the finger party scene and if not what would be the right respectful way to go about it can someone guide me on this again i apologize and this question makes anyone uncomfortable or seems inappropriate i understand that every family is different and may view such things differently but i felt it was important to share a bit of your background uh of my background so i can understand where i'm coming from i hope this all understands all right first off um swingers are like liberals now if you don't follow their little you know their little uh what do they call it their little stance on everything, you get called all the names in a book, piece of shit, and even if you're a couple, they still call you a piece of shit, now single guys, I'm used to it, even if I agreed with them, they'll still think I'm a piece of shit, but anyways, this is the reason, this is what I always talked about earlier in my podcast, because even in the swinger lifestyle, people are very judgmental swinging is not a non-judgment place swinging is very judgmental and it's sad that she had to put i'm sorry if i offend anybody this is not offensive stuff i don't know i don't see what it is i think it's a legit question how do as a parent you're you're swinging what happens if your kids come up and say hey we feel like swinging too you know how you going to handle that?
And I think this lady, whoever it is, you came to the right place. You came to the right place for help because it is very difficult to sit there and guide your kids in a sexual environment because that's what it is.
Swinging is sex know i'm sure it's happened before where you know parents taught their kids and took them to swing parties i know firsthand when i was living in buffalo a couple brought their daughter to a off-premise swingers party and it was kind of weird but you know hey whatever whatever floats your boat baby so you know it is what it is, let's look at the questions, first of all. She asks, okay, should I take her with me to a party and introduce her there?
I think you being doing this is very good for you and for your daughter because, you know what, couples, single guys will take advantage of a single woman and other single women would do the same thing they will look at your daughter as a piece of meat which is very common in the swinging lifestyle because i'll have a lot of single female friends that say the same thing that they feel like the piece of meat when they meet other couples or they meet other single guys so this way you can protect your daughters from those pieces of shit those unicorn hunters which are probably in the top five of horrible things in the lifestyle so i would take her to a party yeah just take her to a party now what type of party i would take her to um not necessarily a place where you're gonna have to see some action maybe because i don't know maybe you don't care about seeing your daughter naked and getting railed by people me i would so i wouldn't want to take my son or daughter to a party where there's going to be action maybe like a little meet and greet take her to a meet and greet where she can meet other swingers and stuff like that and get her answers and all her questions answered that's what i do should i keep her under my supervision at first and show her the environment yes definitely do like i said before there are some dirty people in this lifestyle your daughter's Have a great day.
that's what I do should I keep her under my supervision at first and show her the environment yes definitely do like I said before there are some dirty people in this lifestyle your daughter's probably young so she's impressionable and the couples there will see that they will eat that up and they will cater to her her vulnerability and it can either hurt her or it can enhance her like i said there's always two sides it can make her great better it can make her life better it can make her self-esteem go up but it also will do this opposite where it destroys her self-esteem and it makes her feel like so i would definitely until she gets to her feet in the water she started doing it keep her under your supervision so you can guide her through it so she doesn't make any mistake because we want to keep her in the lifestyle we don't want her to leave the lifestyle or should i just bring her along and let her observe how things work no don't take her to somewhere say honey ask away ask a million questions you ask everything no question is stupid do not do that take let her go go, and she can see it, but don't, I repeat, don't just not have her ask you questions.
Just go out and let her ask a million questions. Stay with her. Is it wrong for a mother to personally introduce her daughter into the swinger or finger party scene? No. Once again, you're being a protective mother. You're the mama bear. Go ahead and do it. I don't see anything wrong with it. This episode sponsored by Eureka Ergonomic. Most people with a home office share a common problem. You design a beautiful space, but end up with a standing desk that feels more like equipment, not furniture. Suddenly, everything feels cold and out of place. Eureka Ergonomic is different.
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I will knock some sense into the people. Talk some sense into the people. Not knock.
No violence here or anything violence here or anything but yeah you're doing the right thing mom i and i applaud you for being a cool mother that will do this me personally my family will never know until i'm dead that i did this stuff my kids did nothing because i don't really you know i you your your mother was a swinger you are a swinger and now your daughter might become a swinger so you're this is generational with you this is not generation for my family or anything like that uh let's see and if not what would be the right and respectful way to go about it the way you're doing it now that's most respectful it's members your kid your daughter you do what you what you feel best can someone guide me on this yeah i just did okay but yeah so you know you're doing the right thing mom don't get discouraged and stuff like that you'll be you'll be fine your daughter will be fine better for it because like i said if she goes out and by herself and does it she might get manipulated by the wrong people and remember this i tell everyone this just because you're swingers doesn't mean you're a good person there are so many up people in the world vanilla lifestyle and swinger lifestyle you've got to be very careful but you know the also thing is swinging lifestyle you meet a lot of great people in the swinger lifestyle people that would give you the shirt out their back literally and figuratively and all that stuff so you know you got to be very careful when you're swinging all right but remember there are great people and you can make some you can get some you know long-lasting relationships out of this well your mother introduced you trying to do something she what she did it sounds like it went well for you okay um what better way than having someone who's actually looking out for her safety like i like this guy says predatory behavior is always a risk and newbies are always an easy target yep so like i said we i'm agreeing with this guy because you know what you are going to be able to protect your daughter from those predators in the lifestyle there's predators outside of myself too let's see i would be inclined to take my daughter to her first event follow her lead if she wants me to introduce her she wants work independent dinner range i want to let her work independent fuck that she's going to follow me she's going to mirror me and all that stuff that's why i said a meet and greet not a play party would be a great place for them to start then once she gets comfortable she can go to play parties and stuff like that i would definitely ask the daughter We'll be.
All right, that's one. Uh-oh. Let's see. Okay, here's a good one for Facebook. So, here's another good one. It says, do some couples in the lifestyle say they're interested but only want to hang out and be seen without any intention of engaging further? it's a time waster and i feel like it's just want to say they're in the lifestyle without actually being into the sex. Scratching my head. This is coming from a female. So this female is meeting people. They want to hang out. They want to do all the stuff. But when it comes down to laying the wood. She don't get any wood laid. On her.
This is very common a lot of people are just they're not they're technically not swingers but they go to swinger parties they go hang out swingers and all that stuff and it's you know it could be because they feel safe in that environment the woman loves to dress up sexy the guy likes to dress up too but the woman likes to dress up real slutty for her man no panties mini skirts stuff like it high heels you know if she goes to a regular club she might be harassed well she probably will be harassed especially if she's decent looking she'll be harassed by some other guys women will be jealous of her and all that stuff and give her the dirty looks but if you go to a swinger party you know you might get a look or two but you're not going to get the harassment and stuff like that so that's why maybe they go um you just got to find your people and that's tough you know you got to find you want to fuck you want to find down the down the fuck people so you know go online i don't like going online because there's a lot of fakes and flakes on there but you got to do what you got to do go to clubs go to clubs that you know people do fuck at like here where i live couples don't want to play until like midnight and when they go to a club and that's why i don't go to the clubs here that much anymore because of that when i leave town i go to dallas or i go to vegas florida cancun stuff like that i already know eight o'clock i could be in in something and having a good time with a bunch of couples uh and stuff like that so i when i go to those places i go there because i know people are dtf there down the fuck so you know you just got to find your niche you got to find your people and i'm looking at her pictures she is not uh she's a very good looking woman let's see she looks looks like she's in the bodybuilding and stuff like that so she's a you know good-sized girl but she's very good looking pretty face and all that so yeah you just got to find your people and you'll be all right so let's see what people are saying i'm one of those people that don't play at parties or clubs if we find a connection then we set up something for later yeah but see here's the problem some of us don't want to meet up later you know we want that's why that's the whole purpose of a club to go there and have sex for a lot of people you know now what what that's you so you know but i don't see you know some people just don't so lori oh she wrote I also don't play at clubs, but go thinking maybe I'll meet someone.
Some people want to drag this on for months. Sorry, the chemistry is not there because I can see you just think it's cool to stay in a lifestyle. I don't think people, I don't know. I don't know if people think it's cool to be in a lifestyle. You're way too pretty to be wasting time with people who disrespect your time.
right and she says thank you people can do whatever they want yes they can dave they can do whatever they want so can she yep don't get it either was the most disappointing trip to drm made worse by the fact that apparently a lot of But couples go there without any way to identify them short of talking okay so that's desire riviera maya like looking for a needle in a state haystack i get having chemistry but it's like 30 minutes into the conversation yet people seem to expect serious courting so they can have meaningful experience oh come on we all know why you're here there no katrina you are correct that's what i always say you know why you're there you're there for sex and i really think it's because people still believe they're whores they're sluts if they do stuff like that and that's further from the case i embrace my inner embrace your inner slut ladies and gentlemen i haven't learned to embrace my inner slut you need to learn to embrace your inner slut you like it you're fun protect yourself wear condoms get tested you and everything should be fine all right let's see what else there's some really good uh conversations there are couples who are just exhibitionists some that are just voyeurs or some that just enjoy meeting like-minded open people there's no one way that's the great that's what's great about the lifestyle yeah of course there is no one way but like i said she's just she's just asking the question why do people talk talk and talk go to a club spend all that money you're spending a hundred dollars almost to go to a club to talk well you can just go to a regular bar you can post online hey we're meeting at uh hooters down the road on 59 and 12 meet us there and you'll spend less money but no you want to go to a club spend a hundred dollars to get in and other costs to get in uh and do nothing so i think that's what she's saying trying to say i don't know uh let's see we're we are picky we go to clubs and parties to meet people and play with later all right we also tell people we do play on the first meeting why because vibe and chemistry matter a lot to us so we may think your picks hot, but decide we don't want to play when we actually meet.
Yeah, okay. I don't know. I think many were very curious about it, too afraid to actually do anything, so they just talk and talk and talk to waste your time. Yeah, or waste our time. Yeah, so, you know, you got to be very careful. And it looks like Georgia Tech beat Clemson.
I don't think clemson won the national jab this year but anyway sorry clemson fans i asked a question pretty early in the conversation and if i'm not at the party or event to play if i'm at a party or event to play that's a very good point you should probably say that this way i'm not wasting time mine or theirs there is nothing worse than spending hours with a perfectly nice couple only to find out that they're not interested in playing and that's what i tell single guys when i meet when i talk to other single guys i go why are you wasting four hours on a couple that you don't know if you're gonna fuck doesn't make any sense you know we're guys we don't need a connection no man needs a connection all those guys who tell you they need a connection or a spiritual connection they're lying to you because all they got to do is spread your legs and they'll be fucking go to a porn theater a girl walks in bends over you got a line of 20 guys waiting the fucker do they have they talked to that girl before are they having a you know do they when she's bent over they have a connection with her no they don't because guys lie guys are gonna lie to get what they want and do all that stupid shit so it is what it is so that's one thing so that's that was an interesting um thing that i feel the same way but like i said i found my people so i don't waste my time and all that so you know you just gotta like i said lady you just gotta find your people you're very beautiful so you shouldn't have no problem finding people that would want to you know play with you now here's a very interesting topic if you're insecure about your woman playing with a big dick man man why are you in the lifestyle good point i'm average size dick but average i don't mind a big dick guy going to town on my partner at the party i prefer it but i also don't care if a small guy comes and plays with my girl i prefer it i like watching my partner in action so you know i don't feel i don't understand why guys are threatened like by this but i also think that guys are insecure so the insecurity really hurts them where they tell their wives no man no man unless they got pussy with them and then oh it's okay so i think there's two things here there's a guy there's a couple there here's a couple he don't want anyone bigger than him because he's scared for whatever he has his insecurities but if the woman he has a woman with her so he has a little pussy he on the side he can she can play with a guy with a whatever size cock she don't he ain't gonna care so you know it's just one of those things where i don't understand it but yay whatever so some people get we get turned down so much because my fiance's got a huge number now but you also gotta remember this ladies with the big dick big cock it can really hurt you it can spread you too much and make you sore so some women just don't want it i have i talked to women about the you know i always think it's thickness that really matters and not the length of the cock and a lot of women are saying now length is good but you know i prefer thickness that stretching you get when you're a and i'm like okay well that's good to know because you know i got a nice thick cock and all that and um so maybe because of your thickness and size you know women are just saying no because they don't want to deal with what happens later on where the soreness and all that stuff so that could be one reason another reason maybe it's not because of the insecurity my bad i thought you know you know, I wasn't thinking too much, but anyways, I don't think, you know, you can always watch, you can, there is such a thing that's too big, and some women don't want to deal with a big one, and, you know, you gotta respect that.
let's see male half here it's easy for a man to think he can play with other women and not consider to be cheating but have an issue when your woman is joined another man you are not lifestyle i'm a thick seven seven inch and i actually get turned on when she plays with someone bigger than me well good job for you peachy uh you know but you're there you're not you're becoming the norm in the lifestyle more and more guys are getting into the hot wife thing and all that stuff. You see all that stuff. You know, you got that wifey.com now, which is, I don't know, it's real dumb.
But anyway, first off, I ain't checking for the next man meet. I'm focused on my own big woods. So if they happen to be bigger and she want it, have fun. Ain't no one that's really meant to be with you gonna leave y'all just because she got put down with some big wood that's childish we need to start checking psychological ids before we let folk in these events and play spaces oh great so who's gonna decide that now all right so you know we gotta be very careful listen as much as you want to stop everything you don't want to check people's ids for psychological stuff you just Thank you.
that now all right so you know we got to be very careful listen as much as you want to stop everything you don't want to check people's IDs for psychological stuff you just can't do it so you know chill out relax and everything's gonna be fine and all that stuff but just remember you know there's a couple of reasons why one insecurity and two there is such a thing that's too big maybe some girls don't want a big one maybe they just want to average that below average you know seven six inches is good for them so you know you know oh here's one that you know i had the luxury of having this past week what do you do when you run across a girl with a stinky coochie has anyone dealt with this the wife couldn't even have fun with her well i met a girl this week and she had a stinky coochie which i hate because i love eating pussy i could be down there for hours and hours and if it stinks it's just not fun for me and it's not going to be fun for you because i'm not going to give a heads up so you know if a girl has a stinky coochie there's a now there are exceptions to every rule you know sometimes you're partying dancing and having all that fun later on you go home or you go back to the playrooms and you know you might have a little stench okay no problem but if they take a shower and it still stinks there's something wrong and that's what happened it's just like oh my god it just was bad but the odds were against me anyways because you know i had the past two partners were have great smelling pussies actually had no smell to them no taste to them either so i'm like oh so that's good i was two for two then the the laws of averages met with me met up with me and they said nope you gotta have a, and I had one, and I just politely, you know, declined our future dates that we had planned and all that stuff, because I just can't stand, or I just can't take, you know, a stinky pussy or stinky coochie, and you, and I, you know, there's ways, you know, you can keep it, so let's see, for all of you of you here sympathizing with this shit you are part of the problem there is zero valid excuse for showing up to an ex experience smelling like a turtle tank what the fuck you know what you smell like if you can't get this now you know sometimes uh what is it nose blindness maybe you can't smell yourself because you're so used to it maybe Maybe.
If you can't get that shit corrected, then cancel, or it's something you're dealing with long-term, then exit the lifestyle. You know, I love it how these lifestyle people are very demanding of other people. Like, you gotta get out of the lifestyle because you don't fit my narrative. See what I'm saying about how lifestylers are becoming like the new liberals.
If you don't agree with we want you out we want to hurt you or whatever i don't understand it people it's not your job if she has a stinky coochie guess what there are there might be guys who like stinky coochies or there might be a girl that likes thinking coochie stinky shit like that so get over yourself if you don't like it don't fuck with them stop telling who and who cannot who and who can be in the lifestyle sir ben because nobody wants to deal with their health issues for those who don't know boric acid suppositories will clear that shit up no matter now okay he's not only is he a facebook poster he is also obgyn here's one could be a high ph or bb both are common with ladies that have multiple partners that strange fluids from men can cause it and a shower won't fix it yeah so you know what you got to do suggest we take a shower together no shower ain't gonna work because if it's bb or you know uti or your ph is off you're gonna have to do it so what you have to do you have to do pre-gaming you're where every day you do uh the ph balance cleanse and all that stuff and all that so you know it is you know it is time consuming but for someone like me i would appreciate it and i'll be between your legs all day and all night and all that stuff but yes i have come up with a stinky coochie and all that stuff so let's see let's see another one let's see what time oh we got that's about 30 minutes so let's see let's see single men always want to show up at the lifestyle party without a woman back in the day people come partnered or with door dates y'all busters come empty-handed then want to get mad when i turn you down okay so maybe this is a woman if you don't have a girl for my date or my play partner don't expect to play with me period and periods all capitalized and exclamation point think about the that before you pay that high ass door fee otherwise save your money for that little girl hosting a gangbang every week she may run through but at least with her you'll have a guaranteed play y'all don't get to like and share don't forget to like and share okay like again who the fuck are you to tell people who can and cannot be in the lifestyle i don't understand these people uh and all that stuff and for me i'll pay those high ass door fees you know why because i like the lifestyle i like the people i like watch people watch i like the fucking possibility of like a nail three or four women two three four one woman in a night and guess what you don't get to tell me that i I can't be a part of it.
So I don't know what you're doing. If you need, you want to play with couples, then just play with couples. You don't have to yell at single men. You have to be a bitchy bitch to single men. We get it already. We understand. We get it. We're not wanted in the lifestyle because you guys are insecure or whatever.
But if you don like us then don't have to talk to us you don't have to email us we don't have you don't have to associate with us just be nice say hey thank you but no thank you and go on your day let's see let's see what else we got greetings i'm sure this kind of question has been asked before and i'm sorry for the repeat no worries my wife and i absolutely love going to the pool parties and hanging out in the sun they're talking about secrets hideaway we love being naked and we have no issues with having sex sucking licking each other in public oh yeah i like that we've been known to have it on more than one of those lounge chairs have known to have it on one of those okay so they've been having fun on the lounge chair our question is it is okay that we don't waste the day is it okay we don't want to share neither have that desire of being with others just like watching and being watched sir it is 100 okay if you don't want to play with anybody you want to mess with anybody you just want to be with your girl and you and that's it don't let anybody ever tell you you don't have you have to be with other people because you know what in all honesty you're going to you're going to have an evolution you're going to evolve evolve in your lifestyle, all right?
Today, you might not want anyone to join you. But can you say for sure in 10 years, you're not going to want someone to join you? And 20 years from now, you know, God willing, you're still alive and all that.
You know, you just don't you don't know what the future holds so it's 100 okay that you don't want no one to join you you sound very open-minded and i like that i like open-minded people that are willing to go to a swingers place and just have fun you know do have the fun and you because you never know you might think about experimenting with others your wife might start your wife might start thinking about experimenting with other people and you might say okay you know maybe the time is not it's been five years we've been going to secrets hideaway for the past five years we're gonna have some fun great good have a good time you know all that stuff but yeah it's perfectly fine don't ever worry that other people uh other people might give you shit but guess what those are the people that you don't want to be involved with you know and guess what there's probably other people at secrets that are just like you where they don't really want to play with other people they just like to watch and you know be watched so you know so no cares.
And if someone asks you to play, they say, no, thank you. We're voyeurs, we're exhibitionists. We don't do any of that. But you know what? We like you. It's cool that you asked. If we ever change our mind, we'll know where to find you. And you just go on. And if they have a problem with that, like I said, they can go fuck off. You can send them to me, the Swing Single Podcast. And let AC, me, sort them out. Talk to them. And they'll be on your side. Let's see what else. Let's go. A couple more before we get out of here. Okay. Okay, here it seems like that. Another one from The Secrets.
I literally don't understand why the husband has to be on the sidelineselines when a couple is open to play and you go all the way from getting to know each other and to having a swap session and at the end you say we would like to play with the wife well until and unless stated at the start the last moment disclosure kills the mood along with the play like you want me to stay put while you fuck my wife not happening have anyone been in the same of the situation i have when i was at paradise lakes we met a real dorky couple that only way that guy could get laid is through swinging they talked to us they were talking to me and my partner and they said hey you know we're we're going up to the playrooms you want to go up there and i'm like i looked at my partner said you do you want to go up there yes or no she said yes we went up there we get up to the room we're all naked we're all ready to get started i'm hard as a rock and she informs me i don't play i just watch my husband play and i'm like okay so you want to use my partner for your husband but you don't want to share and you never share this information they never shared the information with us because it would have changed everyone like no no thanks we're good because i want my girl to fuck good looking men not this fucking nerdy looking dude and we got pissed and we said no no thank you that's not our dynamic we play with couples even though it was a lie we we play with other single men but he was an ugly little troll and she is a same thing a little ugly troll but i had this thing where yeah so you gotta be very careful like couples like i said there's unicorn hunters there's people who there are couples that would try to separate couples other couples so they get to the wife and just play with the wife and not the husband and that's where you're going to have your partner has to be in tune with you in sync with you on the same page as you just because i know what i know women that will fuck off and do what they want to do without their husband's permission and do shit like that.
So, you know, you got to be very careful. You know, the right woman is the person you got to, you know, worry about. If you got the right lady, you're good. If you don't, I don't know what to tell you, you know. That's why I say I don't really like meeting women that are in the lifestyle.
I like dating women outside of the lifestyle and bringing them into the lifestyle because not of the single women I have met in the lifestyle have, and I hate to say it and generalize it, a lot of them have mental issues where, you know, they look at you and they think, well, he's going to try to tell me what to do. And I tell them, yeah, because when you're in a relationship with one person, not only are you in that relationship with that person, but you also have their health to think about. And you just can't go willy-nilly fucking everything on the block.
You're in a relationship with someone, you have to, you know, compromise. You're going to have to ask permission sometimes.
permission sometimes and a lot of single women in the lifestyle have been on their own so long and they've been doing their own thing they don't want to ask permission say hey can i go out and play with this couple can i do this can i do that and we i always tell them if you're having sex with someone you are putting your health at risk not just your health but also my health because you go go out fuck a couple you fuck two men or whatever you come home to me you didn't wear condoms or anything i don't know those two dudes i don't know that couple they could have something now you pass that shit on to me because we're you know we're we're a couple and you know am i wrong for having to worry about stuff like that but i'm just saying i personally just like to stay with women who are not in a lifestyle because of those reasons now i try i don't want to run someone's life and anything like that i have trouble you know i have enough hard enough time to run my own life i don't need to run your life i just want you know the someone that respects my boundaries and all that and i can respect theirs but i can't respect someone who doesn't take my health into consideration all right let's see what else we got one more uh okay man okay let's do this single man in the lifestyle let me give you a little one-on-one Thank you.
Okay, let's do this. Single man in the lifestyle. Let me give you a little one-on-one on successful experience in the lifestyle. First, bring your A game. Duh, I've been saying that for forever. You're dressed to impress. Yep, I will suit up. Take photos to impress. See, that's what sucks, because some people are just horrible at taking photos.
Anyways, it doesn't really matter what you look like bullshit it does matter what you look like let's not fucking get crazy here but educate yourself so you can have a good conversation because that will help you i agree you you if you can only talk about sex with couples you ain't gonna get much of anywhere next and this is the most important part do not message any couple or women with you're hot can i fuck your wife just don't that's tacky introduce yourself tell them a little bit about yourself and have a conversation i agree too many guys will sit there email one sentence and that's it sentence, and all that.
But however, I have couples that will respond to mine and doing the same thing. So if you want men to do better, couples, you need to do better too. Let's see. They know what you want.
You do not have to advertise it if you are if you're in a public setting same applies dress to him plus don't touch without consent don't be whiny and do not say i want to fuck your wife have normal respectful conversations show them who you are let the vibe build of course good that's all good advice and you know you don't have to say fuck you could say you know do your wife want to play or anything like that play means sex guys just if you didn't know i Thank you.
of course good that's all good advice and you know you don't have to say fuck you could say you know do your wife want to play or anything like that play means sex guys just if you didn't know i don't know if you're new swingers or your new enn whatever the fuck you want to labor yourselves as know that but play means usually means you want to have want to go out and have sex you don't have to be crude and say fuck they know what you're here therefore yep hopefully they will let you know if there is interest i'm not saying you can't let them know but do not Thank you.
they know what you're here therefore yep hopefully they will let you know if there is interest i'm not saying you can't let them know but do not lead with that your approach is everything act how you would at a vanilla club environment and you'll have more success yeah yeah that's a good point yeah act like you're at a vanilla club obviously i'm not speaking for all couples and women but the biggest thing to remember is just is just because you're at a vanilla club. Obviously, I'm not speaking for all couples and women.
But the biggest thing to remember is just because you're at a lifestyle event, it doesn't mean you're entitled to get lucky. Have a good character and charming, not tacky. And if you have all those, you're charming, you're good looking and all that stuff, guess what? You're going to get laid anyways. So don't worry about it. But anyways, it's about time we're going to get out of here. Yeah. Because you know what? I got to watch some more college football tomorrow, NFL. So go to swingingsinglepodcast.com. If you have any questions, go to swingingsinglepodcast.gmail.com.
Any topics you want me to cover. With that, have a great day. Have a great weekend. Have a great week. And remember, be kind kind to everyone just because they have a difference opinion doesn't mean they're horrible people just talk it out peacefully keep on swinging everybody and gentlemen shave those cock and balls We'll be right back. I want to be there forever on your shoulder I want to be the angel when it's over You'll get lucky like a four-leaf clover
