Join your fearless and always curious host, AC Maxwell, in this eye-opening episode of the Swinging Single Podcast. Today, AC takes a deep dive into the world of swingers through the lens of social media, bringing to light real Facebook posts from individuals and couples navigating the swinging lifestyle.With her characteristic wit and empathy, AC offers her insightful perspectives on the complexities, joys, and occasional pitfalls of the swinging community. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just swinger-curious, this episode promises enlightening discussions, laughs, and perhaps a few learning moments along the way.What's Inside:Real Posts, Real People: Listen as AC reads aloud selected Facebook posts from those in the swinging lifestyle, ranging from humorous anecdotes to candid confessions.Advice and Insights: AC shares her take on the shared experiences, offering advice that's as practical as it is respectful, aiming to foster understanding and solidarity within the swinger community.Interactive Segments: Don't miss the Q A portion of the show, where AC responds to listener questions and comments, providing her unique advice on navigating the lifestyle.Guest Perspectives: In today's episode, AC will also feature a special guest who brings their own insights and experiences to the swinging conversation, enriching the dialogue with their personal stories.Tune in to the Swinging Single Podcast with AC Maxwell for an authentic, funny, and sometimes raw exploration of the swinging lifestyle through the words of those who live it. You won't want to miss this.
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Let's be honest. Buying cannabis shouldn't be complicated, sketchy, or low quality. That's why I want to tell you about Mood.com. That's M-O-O-D dot com. Mood ships federally legal cannabis straight to your door. No medical card, no hassle. And here's the kicker. The quality is better than anything you'll find at your local dispensary. Yeah, I said it. Whether you're into edibles, concentrates, flour, or just looking to explore, you'll find it all at Mood. And it's not just the variety that makes them stand out.
Every product is sourced from small, American-owned family farms that care deeply about what they grow. It's cannabis you can trust, delivered discreetly, and ready to elevate your mood. And because you're a listener, you get 20% off your first order. Just head to mood.com. That's M-O-O-D.com to get started. Welcome all you perverts. It's the Swinging Single Podcast. I'm your host, A.C. Maxwell. I'm the single male with the most assist in the swinging lifestyle. And I'm here to talk about a lot of good things. Today's episode is going to be about Facebook and Facebook Thank you.
lifestyle and i'm here to talk about a lot of good things today episode today's episode is going to be about facebook and facebook posts in the swinging lifestyle yes i'm a member of some groups and i saved their posts i want to talk about them today you know because you know it's good to hear from all these other people that are having some experiences and i'll give my insight my forward one on what these people are talking about and what my um you know perception of it is so with that sit back relax get your bottle of lube have your woman sit on your face have her suck your cock eat her pussy shave those cock and balls gentlemen and you're listening to the swing a single podcast with host ac maxwell the swinging single host A.C.
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Any questions or concerns regarding this disclaimer, please contact us at swing ogmail.com by listening to the swinging single podcast you acknowledge that you have read and understand this disclaimer and agree to its terms shave your cock and balls gentlemen oh yeah that's right shave your cock and balls gentlemen your ladies don't want to have a fucking force in their mouth and all that they want to suck on that cock and balls you want them to suck on that cock and balls that shaft you better shave those cock and balls baby all right so today we're going to talk about facebook posting as i go through my life and going through my uh swinging lifestyle together i try to help other people uh as much as i can because you know what some people just don't need to be swingers you know it's one of those things where hey man you want to swing well you better be be prepared uh for the ramifications that you did the pandora's box once you open that pandora's box you cannot close it i'm going to tell you that right now so like i said today's episode we're gonna talk about we're gonna read some of these facebook posts i got from on my facebook groups that i am all about swinging and i'm gonna give you my insight of what is going on and what advice i would give them so with that make sure you got that bottle of lube have that girl you know stroke that fucking big cock of yours finger that juicy pussy make that girl wet and we'll get ready with the swinging single podcast with your host ac maxwell so this first one comes from a facebook group i'm remembering i won't tell anybody what it is but i'm just gonna read it so it's from an anonymous member and i and i notice a lot of people are getting pissed off that more and more people are post posted anonymously well you know there's a reason why because you know what people jump on people because you know people are just assholes you know they don't like what they it's like being a democrat you don't like what someone says you automatically go to calling them names and shit calling them racist or whatever the fucking pervert whatever you want to do same thing swinging swinging you know people will fucking cut you down you know you say one thing they'll twist it and make you feel like you're a piece of shit but this one comes on august in august 6th so this says this is kind of a long but needing help my husband and i have been together for a really long time for years it's it was controlling behavior he was jealous over people looking at me or even wearing stuff that showed too much red flag a couple years ago he kind of stopped that and wanted to bring other people in the bedroom i'm probably guessing i don't know who i've always been insecure about myself from past issues but however he brought a guy and girls in before in threesomes well there were still trust issues going on to where he made me question things i stopped doing stuff with others and it seems like he seemed like he all the time wants to now every time we have sex he plays out scenarios and sometimes i feed them into feed into them while having sex.
He's always wanting to send pictures to people, and I'm just uncomfortable with myself. I don't know if I can. I have trust issues. How do I overcome them and make him happy?
Well, the problem is you're probably never going to have get over these trust issues now and this is a lot of couples a lot of couples have this issue where the guy is very jealous now i'm very surprised that he brought another man into the bedroom with her his wife because i thought maybe because from what i mean if i stopped there and i stopped right there i go wow this dude is probably definitely searching for women uh to play with him and his wife because that's what he wants he wants to have those girls there and all that and you know so he's got those girls he's got his cake and he's eating it too but i was surprised when he says they brought guys and girls in before in threesome so i was like really shocked so i'm like good for the guy okay maybe he's getting over this jealousy shit and all that so the pandora's box has been open he's gotten what he's wanted the girl is not getting what she wants because she doesn't want to do it and you can see it in her writing or hear it in her writing that she doesn't want to do this she has trust issues it's going to take a very long time to get over they need to stop doing this she needs to stop feeding into the dude's um mental you know the state of yeah we're gonna fuck we're gonna have threesomes and all that and feeding into scenarios when they're fucking having sex because this is just gonna feed into it more and more and it's gonna cause more and more rifts and all that now can the relationship be safe sure of course you're just gonna have to do a lot of work it's gonna take a lot of work and if you want to put in that work honey you can save this marriage but if you don't want to put in the work this marriage is over pretty much because the fact that you open that pandora's box he wants it all the time now and he he's not going to be able to go back i always tell people you know what everyone thinks they could stop swinging just like that cold turkey i and i disagree with that i go it is harder for someone because you know sex addiction maybe i have a sex addiction maybe that's what it is why i love swinging more but more and more because i can fulfill that addiction and a lot of these people might have you might this her husband might have a sex addiction where he needs to have the threesomes and all that now you might be able to make it where he just wants to have that fantasy of you fucking other men and women where he's okay all you got to do is just talk about it when you're fucking them you know there's the one movie what was it side sideways sidewalk with paul giamatti and his buddy went to napa valley or the napa of california they were doing the wine country shit and he ends up hooking up with a wife uh the his buddy and he gets caught by the husband and all that comes home and starts and and later on they had to go back get his wallet and he's in there the guy's fucking his wife talking about the dude how he was fucking her and all that so he might like that he might just like that so you might get lucky where he's fine totally cool with just you fucking talking about it while he's fucking you and all that and i think you could live with that couldn't you uh but making him happy you gotta make only way you're gonna make him happy is if you make yourself happy and make yourself honest and say hey i don to swing anymore.
I don't want to fuck other men. I don't want to fuck other women. I just want to fuck you. And if, or you can say, Hey, I would love to fuck other men and other women. And that's fine. But I want to do it on my, my own terms and my way. And he's going to have to live with it.
Now he might be upset for a while, but later on when he grows up and matures a little bit he's gonna understand you know what i'm happy she's happy i'm fucking happy too because i always say the women run this lifestyle the men don't the men are just there for the ride and sooner or later women will discover that and more and more women will be happier and i think women especially more single women are getting into the lifestyle where they are like, I'm fucking who I want to fuck, when I want to fuck them. No man's going to tell me either other way. And that's great. I applaud those women.
Good job, ladies. I applaud you. All right? Anyways. So, it's going to be hard to overcome this. You're going to make them happy. I would just say, you know, sit back, take a pause.
There's nothing uh let's see what other people have need to do so here's one he needs to know how you feel and if you're not comfortable let him know and have an honest discussion we are brand new and haven't experienced anything yet but i have learned from being in this group you have to move the slowest face all right and let's see a few more comments there i go you should stop doing any lifestyle activities and fix your relationship first. I agree with this guy. Swinging is going to exasperate any problems you already have. Yeah. It's going to blow it up.
You're going to have 20 times the problems that you keep swinging. Uh, let's see. Trust in each other is the cardinal rule. This doesn't work. If you can't have that Personally, the reclaimation of each other is just the best part of the whole experience. Yeah, he likes, he probably loves watching you fuck other people than reclaiming the pussy. Reclaiming the pussy is the fucking bomb. It is the shit. I love that shit because you know what? That pussy's going home with me. It ain't going home with that dude. It ain't going home with that couple.
That pussy's going home with me and and i'm gonna fuck the shit out of that pussy when we get home uh let's see you do what makes you comfortable you don't have to do anything and this is you don't want to no matter what now remember i'm meeting fucking facebook profiles so people don't always write the best stuff or the most accurate stuff okay guys so don't get there and say i can't read i'm just reading forward forward oh here's one this guy says this guy is definitely abusing you he's created these confidence issues for you and now he's trying to bully you into being subjected to them by sending pictures you're uncomfortable with and then toying with the trust you've lost by dangling the all we need is other people to fix you care it out there yeah the sending the picture is a no-no i don't like how guys will say i will have guys send me pictures i would just ask hey can i see a picture of your wife i don't want a nude i don't care i just want to see a picture of your wife see her body is she a big girl small girl whatever let's be honest's be honest.
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You know, if know if she a big girl there's certain positions we can and cannot do uh things like that small girl you know she might be too thick for her pussy she might have a tight pussy so what you know what are you going to do her anus you know things like that so we just got to be very careful i just want you know a face picture i don't need anything i just need a body picture i don't need a nude and him sending out pictures now i wonder are these pictures of her fucking other people or things like that and hopefully she he has permission of the other person now if he does not have the permission listen you cannot send pictures uh pornographic which they are pornographic pictures without consent from one the wife and also the participants so if you are sending pictures out of you fuck getting fucked by some other dude and the dude then say you can use those pictures he can go after you or a couple can go after you for whatever um things that are out there uh let's see you support a spouse happiness when you are generally happy as well finding someone who can freely confess your genuine desires as well as boundaries with and actually wants to hear and honor them is what provides mutual fulfillment trust trust stems from respect and respect from hearing and adhering to what you and the other one matters to you there's no respect in this relationship he doesn't respect her sending pictures out of her fucking you know i will hopefully now hopefully he's blocking out faces where there's you can't see faces hopefully he's not sending them to people and you can see her fucking blowing people face she knows what to look because that shit gets out and you know what not everyone is going is happy with you know sending pictures of your wife and blowing some dudes and all that eating other girls pussies and shit like that it might be uncomfortable for her at work and all that so you know you just want to be very careful all right you don't this is about making them happy that equates to taking one from the team only in a much worse way you two should never have gotten into the lifestyle i hate to say this babe but you are with a narcissist narcissist no shit please seek counseling first yourself and absolutely do not put yourself in a place to allow him to manipulate you into participating in a lifestyle this isn't the place or for either of you your relationship needs to be the priority if you all are going to try to fix it if you can't be fixed you need to learn and how to be happy with yourself yeah she's gonna have to learn to be happy by herself because that's what it's going to head to she's gonna be by herself and i'm sad but it's gonna be true uh she's gonna be having problems with that and all that so you know uh it is what it is hopefully she can fix it i don't think she can but who who knows?
So this one guy, well, I don't, I don't really. All right. So this guy kind of, I think it's a bad advice. Enjoy the experience and don't be worried about your insecurities. None of us are perfect and we are looking at naked people, no matter the body type, especially you let us play.
I don't fucking agree with that with that you got to be can't be insecure in this lifestyle guys you have to be very fully secure because you never you know you just don't want to do anything that's going to be wrong and this is what's going to happen with this person that's just wrong that what they're doing and this guy is just wrong all right so that is one let's go for another one august 2nd another anonymous member posted on this just an honest question because my wife and i have discussed this we're reasonably new newbies they should have listened to my last podcast but are on tons of pages learning making friends etc but some folks are just too much oh wonder where this is going.
Is anybody actually turned off by people that make the lifestyle their whole identity? I just talk about it. I didn't understand it. I see a lot of people on some of our local pages who are so self-absorbed that it's just constant pictures of themselves or photo shoots are constantly needing attention.
Not saying these people aren't totally cool in person, but we both end up just blocking some of these people because it gets to a point of irritating we met some super cool people off the pages between just hanging out or meeting at the club but some of these people it's like it's all they have to offer anybody else well anonymous i totally agree with you some of these people on these lifestyle websites are just too fucking much. They have four billion pictures posted. They're posting every five fucking minutes a picture of her top list and all that. Now, I love looking at naked women.
I'll look at naked women all day. But crying out loud, it's the same naked woman. It's the same picture. She's doing the same stuff.
Now, what I get irritated at, it's always the woman we're working at the woman i feel sorry for the ladies that like actual like cock who are not just doing this to make the husband happy that want to look at men and all that because guess what you look at these profiles there's a hundred pictures of her fucking other dudes are doing shit and naked posing her sexy lingerie then you have one picture of the husband that's it okay well aren't you a couple I'm going to show you a couple shouldn't there be just as many shouldn't be equal 50 50 all right and then it's all photos they have photo shoots at their photo shoots at their photo shoots it's like the swinging podcast that they're out there it's all about them they put out fucking content mercilessly on people every day new shit new photo shoots and all that they go and they it doesn't seem like they have a life it seems like their whole life is a lifestyle they make money off the lifestyle they they live the lifestyle 24 7 everybody in their circle that knows them knows they're in the lifestyle that they're into it and it just gets to be too much We'll see you next time.
they live the lifestyle 24 7 everybody in their circle that knows them knows they're in the lifestyle that they're into it and it just gets to be too much all right now like i like the post like the anonymous member said they probably are great people but you know what it gets a little too much leave something to the imagination all right it's like the only fans girls, I love OnlyFans. I'll support OnlyFan girls. I'll pay five bucks a month, ten bucks a month to subscribe to someone and see their content. But when it's the same shit over and over and over, like, I have the ones they fuck.
I only do the ones where I could think I could fuck the girl. Well, I look on it, and every video is her fucking a black guy.
i'm not black so okay are they gonna fuck any white guys are they fucking hispanic what about asian dudes and every video after video after video is her fucking black guy so i'm like why the fuck am i gonna spend waste my time and money on this fucking woman and this couple and because i never have a shot with her that's just my weird thinking when i look at a only fans i want the ability like hey maybe if i met this person in real life that i'm gonna be able to watch him i could fuck this girl well when she only fucks certain type of people i know it's not gonna happen so i don't pay for it so but it's the same shit how many different times can you fuck a black guy or you can fuck this guy or a hispanic guy or a white guy do some variety fuck in a porn theater fuck outdoors fuck somewheres do this do that do something different just don't have hey we met another bbc number three at the hotel room and okay great same fucking thing same concept okay how about you mean how about you do a bar pickup you fuck a bbc in the middle of a crowded bar do something like that and so it's always the same stuff with these couples same things in this and then like i said this poster i agree with them i get it's just too much it's like tone it down the back tone it down a little okay we know you are sinking attention because you got to remember, this younger generation are attention-sinking whores.
They need that validation from everybody else, and they're going to go get it through pictures, videos, and all that. They're not going to stop. They're always going to be the same way, and there's always going to be couples like that.
Now, like I said, they might be good people they might you talk to them they're fucking down to earth they're happy but jesus okay we don't need to know every single thing that's going on in your life and all that so you know it's just one of those things we just gotta be we just gotta be conscious of what we are putting out there uh so let's see what some people say so this person writes i think a lot of the time they're just trying to get publicity of course they want to get likes they want that likes because likes turn to be friends friends turning people and maybe they'll pay five bucks a month to fucking watch her fuck bunch of people on her only fans page and it makes money if the page doesn't look like legit normal person's page then i don't even give it a second look okay all right good it's definitely a huge huge turnoff and i do the same as far as blocking or muting for me this is just something we enjoy and do the constant posted news or non-type non-stop sex talk gets over me some may be okay with it but it's perfectly fine for them i just can't and that's great she can't do it she doesn't want to talk about it all right so uh let's see here's one that goes both back and forth yes and no i mean a lot i mean let people do them and you do you you don't have to meet up with any of these people if posting and getting attention makes them happy let them it's not hurting anyone okay yeah she's this girl's completely like like i said it is oh it it's just what in my opinion i just get bored with it i just get okay how many times am i gonna have to look at this girl's pussy it's the same pussy it looks the same as pink brown whatever i don't need to keep fucking it's the same thing over and over okay great no let's see something how about you doing a dress let's see what you look like with clothes on i won't recognize you with clothes on because you never post anything you're always butt-ass naked but step but this girl this this poster is right she don't let people be and let them do what they do you know and like here this one guy these are called attention horrors yes i said that earlier there are attention horrors people like this all right one lady writes i want to see what she says i think this might be something i love a lot of attention.
And it's one of the things I'm able to get out of being part of the lifestyle. Okay. And yeah, cause she are a beautiful woman, big fucking tits. So you're going to get a lot of attention. I want to be around people who make me feel sexy, make me feel desired. This is one of the biggest turns on for me. All right.
So it's one of a good turn on for her that she's around people who give her attention so she wants attention she wants attention from certain people though that's where i kind of laugh it off and go okay whatever because we already know she wants the hottest looking people in the club to give her attention if it's ugly people no i'm also an exhibitionist both in and out of the bedroom so putting everyone on display is part of me we have participated in so many different aspects of the lifestyle over our entire relationship all of our family and friends know jesus christ why do they need to know you know i don't know we don't hide it so it's our it's our actual lifestyle and not just an occasional thing we do to spice things up in the bedroom okay Okay.
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Our vacations all around are centered around so they're a whole they're all in jesus that's a lot i'm highly sexual one who absolutely owns every every ounce of it i post on my page exact what i want what i'm feeling what i'm going through and do it staying authentic to myself most of it is very sexual in nature because it is who i am is who i am all capitalized are shared right on my regular profile i absolutely know i am a lot at times too much for some people and it's okay but the circle of people who i surround myself with they have come to love and appreciate my raw honest open book stance i take not only on social media but in real life now i guarantee that she said hey i'm going stop swinging.
I'm not going to do it anymore. All those people that love and know her will suddenly fall off the face of the earth. Because we know people are fucking selfish assholes. Not everyone is for everyone. So finding those who you vibe with, match energy with, and relate to is imperative for true connections. Okay, yeah, you're right. She's completely 100% right.
But when you're at a guess what there's other there's a hundred other people at that club where they don't need to fucking hear you hooting and howling being a woo girl and showing your titties and acting acting like a fool because you live the lifestyle 100 you're you're real you're a real og i wonder if it's more of a turnoff to you that you are being overwhelmed by lifestyle profiles that are constantly pushing content to drive traffic to their page sites that could be it too um and I wonder if this girl has a page shot I personally don't have an issue with that either but if it's connect its content isn't geared towards me I just scroll past it or when I get a friend request on here I peek at the page and it seems like advertising I usually won't accept but I'm not that way with vanilla profiles too but i'm that way with vanilla i don't want to have my feed full of tupperware party invites or being asked to share links to post belly cream cream yada all right and she loves attention let's see what she says genuine is awesome love it girl you never too much we always love your energy all right we can't wait to see you in and you and mold london in a few weeks missed you see you in florida all right i'm gonna go to this girl's profile yeah she looks oh let me see i mean i'm probably guessing i i actually gave a request and she hasn't done anything so I'm guessing she has a OnlyFans page too so kind of hypocritical but okay whatever so she writes a whole she wrote a lot in this response and you know great for her she's a lot of people she's always out there she's showing her titties off to everybody acting like a woo girl she lives the lifestyle 24-7 but you gotta understand she doesn't understand that she's a turn off to a lot of people because of the way her personality is man people go to these places just to relax to get away from their fucking day their jobs suck their fucking life sucks they're drowning in bills debt and they just want to relax and they got your fucking ass running around act like a fucking fucking someone who needs the attention because you're an attention whore.
You never got it when you were probably growing up. Now you want to get it now because all these guys will fucking tell you how beautiful you are and all that shit. All right. Take in consideration everybody else, honey. All right. Let's see what else people say. Let's go on. Let's move on to something else. This one got a little too heated. I can't stand it. All right.
Here's another here's another one another nine is i'll get second i've been in the lifestyle for over a decade now and i'm not sure if i'm the only one who feels like this but does anyone else feel it's more of a click group thing now back when you could just walk up to someone talk it up and make new friends now i feel like most people won't get to know you if you don't know someone from the group or don't know someone in general. Also, I know some couples won't message and they only respond to messages on OnlyFans.
My thing is, why should I have to make an OnlyFans account just to get to know you? It's become an advertisement for the OnlyFans.
is it just me or has the lifestyle changed and become more closed-minded the lifestyle has become very closed-minded all right let's let's break this down because i like this guy this whoever wrote this uh did a great job um it is a click it is a click now when i first started it was all about fucking yeah you're gonna fuck my wife go fucker you want to fuck this girl go fucker now it's about clicks who you know and who you don't know and you see it at the clubs you see where people are just sitting around watching each other talking to each other no one's fucking i take my partner to go fuck at the club i'm not fucking there to hang out and talk to you i don't give a shit about your life or your kids or whatever your job or your career i just want to you know you want to fuck my girl please fuck her let me watch let me participate but jesus christ i don't care about any of that stuff i just want to watch watch that fucking so a lot of it is more of a click and it has gone like that more and more because social media and hollywood and porn movies have destroyed their swinging lifestyle they made it what it was wasn't whenever you watch a porno of a movie and they do something a swinging scene you never see true what true swinging is you don't see that it's mostly just couple swapping or whatever you see mom and dad bods at the club but when you watch these pornos and movies it's fucking the hottest looking people at all these events it's like okay then people think well dude wow we go to these parties there'll be nothing but hot looking people and they go there and they find out there's fucking 50 year olds 60 year olds 40 year olds fucking guys look like they haven't seen their cock since the reagan administration are there women who fucking have fucking foompas you know they they don't see their vaginas because their fucking fat rolls are all hanging all over it's just normal everyday people you know women with stretch marks and stuff like that rare and tear on their body same thing with guys fucking look like they just got out the oil rig and just went straight to the club and you see that and people are fucking hesitant to talk to anybody they don't actually want to get to know.
They always said they want a connection, but they lie to us. They lie to people. They lie to themselves. It's not about. They want to look at someone. And within the first five seconds, the woman knows she's going to fuck you.
Like, have you remember dating before internet dating before internet what did the woman say yeah within the first minute first five seconds i know if i'm gonna fuck you or not and so she knows so if she's not attracted to you she ain't gonna want to get to know you she ain't gonna give you the time of day to even get to know you maybe if she talked to you for five minutes minutes, maybe she'll fucking get a little wet. She'll start fucking feeling things. But it's not going to happen.
If she don't like you, she ain't going to fucking, if she don't like the way you look or anything like that, you're done. You're not going to get in there. So you can't actually talk your way into getting pussy, you know, most of the times. Some guys can do it because, you know, they're attractive and all that. So they're all women's type.
Anyways, so yeah, so yeah this guy's right it is more of a group thing you know you could just walk up to someone talk to him for a while and guess what you can end up in the back now it's like okay do i fit that profile do i fit her type and stuff like that it's hard and you got to really pay attention to these couples and all that because they give off fucking resting bitch bitch face um vibes and all that and it's just tough and now like i said earlier my other podcast only fans has invaded the swinging lifestyle because people fucking use it they're not swingers they're not really swingers they're just people using swinging to advance and advertise their only fans shit uh they only fuck other only fans content creators and shit like that now if they say like the guy said you have to message them on only fans i don't even fucking worry about it because guess what they're just looking for you to get money off of you they're not interested in getting to know you or anything like that uh and all that uh just like when i went to hot wife night at collette's back in september and 2023 and one of the beautiful the beautiful sexy holly hot wife was having a party hot wife party there you know all the guys were going over there to fuck her trying to fuck her and her friends which fuck would have been a fucking fantastic night for me if i could have fucked all of them but all the all the guys there were trained on her well if she would if any of those guys would follow her were following her on twitter and her friends they were looking for other content creators to fuck they weren't looking for regular joes like me the fuck i didn't have a only fans page so i'm not gonna fuck with me so i knew that so i didn't bother with uh holly hot wife and i love how they hot wife man i want i subscribe to her page i love her fucking work i love her attitude and all that and god i would love to fuck her but she wasn't gonna fuck anybody because of the fact that you know she was looking for content creators to fuck and i got the fuck of four or five women that night because all the guys were occupied with her the other hot wives were sitting around looking for dick to fuck you know my dick was there so i did it so yeah only fans has taken over and made it worse and it is what it is a lot of podcasters i don't charge for nothing a lot of podcasters charge for a lot of stuff on their only fans they do the podcast they advertise for their only fans shit and those to do their their uh lifestyle podcast and shit i don't i don't really care damn i don't know what the hell's going on but anyways so uh these guys right i understand it's and it's frustrating because i'm a true swinger i just enjoy the lifestyle uh let's see i'm not sure if it's closed-minded.
I think people may be cautious, and there's a lot of sex workers using lifestyle sites and pages to advertise. Yeah, I disagree. I think it's closed-minded. I think people don't want to get to know people like they say they do. I think people will look at someone and go, okay, I will talk to them. No, I will not talk to them, and they do it. They don't actually do this. I don't know because I wasn't around pre-COVID, but I know that I have much more social anxiety than I ever did going into COVID and being isolated for so long. I love to meet new people. I'm just not good at breaking the ice.
It is, like I said, it's hard because guess what?
They have decided already, are they going to fuck you we know that because you know what i was dating in the 90s when there was no internet i couldn't fucking you know you had to actually talk and you knew women would tell you go up you ask hey you know when do you know you're gonna sleep with someone oh in the first fucking five minutes they know or some shit like that so you know it's one of those things where okay you know it is what it is uh let's see the first event i was ever invited to was very clicky and this is a woman is she good looking she's a decent like oh she is decent looking woman okay and i never ended up going because the group that chatted turned into certain people talking about what they're going to do and what they want i didn't feel like it was organic or natural you know what some of the best nights have been nights where it just all just happened nothing ever planned out and stuff like that you know i don't know so here's one here's one who actually is a creator so as a creator i do in my info list i am one of them so i don't miss the opportunity to record when allowed however we will also meet with people that don't that that won't record as well so don't let me let the i'm a content creator turn you off unless the point blank you tell me that's what they okay that's good uh she's a very good looking beautiful woman so miss brian if you ever want to record with me i will wear a mask and i will i I'm good.
All right, so let's see. My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for six years now, and I will have to say I agree with you. The first time we met a group, they were very warm and welcoming. It was great. Yes, of course, it was. When I first started, it was fucking awesome. It was phenomenal.
Now it's more of a fucking job interview interview with everybody now and like i said i don't know it feels more like it's dating now so let's see what this person last one as a general population i don't agree with this when you look at only fans and the people work in the system groups of or influence stats yes many sex workers are using the lifestyle parties as an easy way to meet others to connect and through the all the swings are different breed of them i totally like this woman i don't agree with her i think she's it's not she's not accurate she's not right a lot of people only fans has invaded go do secrets in kissimi it's fucking filled with people who only fans have taken pictures on the pool and i always thought there was supposed to be no cell phones there because you know what i don't want people posting my pictures because you know you don't know what people are putting those on all right no no that i don't mess around with those people okay we've been in the lifestyle for eight years and yes it can be clicky we have been and we have been a fortunate couple that has been able to move through them and make friends and that i think some of them has some people comfort and all that we are both shy her more than me but we learn to understand that not everyone you hang out with will always be there you will you so you have to step out of your comfort level and take a chance yes you got to take a chance and all that but you know if you don't get that chance that ever it's going to be tough all right so you know it's one of those things where you know it's very clicky and people that just want denied as not clicky is just one of those people i just i will never understand but you know it is all the good stuff all right uh let's see uh let's see anything else that we could do uh let's see what time is it about 36 minutes in okay one more and we'll get out of here all right i was originally going to make one of these novice posts but this page is supposed to be it's supposed to be a safe space without further ado my wife and i are a stag vixen hot wife couple i am not a cuck i don't get off on humiliation or any of that and as my wife would tell me tell the people she plays with i please her very well and we have a great relationship and a impersonal sex life usually when it comes to lifestyle things i have an attitude of not caring what people think good but recently i have been the subject of attack by people calling me a cuck etc how do you deal with that well i tell those people to fuck off because you know why because it doesn't matter what they think they're jealous because guess what you're fucking that girl they want to fuck your wife you probably didn't let them or they're not going to be able to fuck your wife so they want to throw names at you so you don't even have to worry about that sir you just go on and do your stag mixing relationship you watch her fuck all the dudes you want to fuck and have a great time let them call you cook because you know what usually it's deflecting they're really the cucks so you know it's only deflecting when you say someone's an asshole you're probably the asshole and all that For me that.
For me, cuckolding can be fine when used among us people in the lifestyle, but when used by vanilla people, it's extremely derogatory. All right, it shouldn't be like that. It should be more derogatory when people are in the lifestyle because in the lifestyle, you should know what a cuck fucking is. People in the vanilla world, they don't understand. They don't understand the fucking terminology. They don't understand anything. They're just dumb.
They dumb they're just they're arrogant they don't know what's going on so i wouldn't like once if someone called me like some guy from vanilla the vanilla world called me a cuck i go okay whatever it ain't no big deal but if you call me you're in the lifestyle and you call me a cuck then it's gonna become a it's a big fucking deal because you know what a cuck is you know that i just like watching my girl have fun and enjoying herself and if that means she has to she's fucking a guy with a fucking 10 inch cock that's fine with me but i don't i don't agree with that i don't think it's derogatory when a vanilla uses it i think it's more derogatory when someone in the lifestyle uses it mentally it's already difficult at times to wrap my head around being into it this because it's abnormal in general oh shit you know what actually it's not abnormal a lot of people have a lot of men have this fantasy of another man taking their wife i consider myself a manly person and vanilla people have trouble wrapping their head around wanting your significant other to play fuck vanilla people like i said you are the ones that live your life only you two can decide what is and isn't don't let me or anyone else decide your relationship ladies and wives does what you do think of your husbands or husbands or hot wives men okay ladies and wives does what do you think of your husbands or husbands of hot wives men and husbands how do you deal with the backlash of your dynamic uh let me look at these pictures let's see uh actually am i a friend let's view the profile let's look at the pictures now from my picture she's a beautiful she is a bigger girl she is a nice thick girl blonde hair looks like she's got blue eyes one hell of a smile so she is fucking beautiful i will fuck her uh i'll definitely like to be i'll do some hot wifing for her uh and let's see what people say me personally i don't care what people think of me and my wife's last child choice i do explain the difference between a cuck and a stag and if the backlash me for it well fuck them we know what we are and we have never been happier.
If they are random people, who cares? If it's vanilla friends, explain the difference. And if they don't, move on. That's it. That's great advice. Just move on. All right? Cockholding and stag basing are two different dynamics. If someone was calling me or my husband a cuck and we aren't, I would just educate them. That's a good thing, educate them. But sometimes it's not even worth fucking educating these people.
it who cares it's none of their business uh it's totally normal within the lifestyle you're right and the reaction to the vanilla world is because they don't know what any of it means i know they want people in vanilla world are sometimes jealous of people in the swinging lifestyle because they can do what they cannot do. I guarantee if you take your vanilla friends and say, hey, would you allow, would you have a threesome with your wife if it's another girl? Most guys will say, hell yeah, I'll do it.
I'll always want to have my wife fuck another girl and we'll fuck another girl right i'll just use the girls that's usually easy it's always out of the mail every man's fancy well what's the difference between you and your wife fucking other people it's the same goddamn thing so you're going to call them out on it no because you know it's just biological with them they want to see that they're just hypocrites they just they can't do it so they have to make fun of you they are I don't have to be worried what the vanilla world thinks of you like i said 99% of the world i mean 90% of the world thinks we what we do is disgusting you know but you don't have to worry about because you don't have to live the the 99 the 90 of the world doesn't have to live in your household they don't have to go home to your wife they don't have to go home to your husband you don't have to go to your family they don't have to deal with your health issues your money problems shit like that they don't have to deal with that so you know what fuck them so it's one of those things where just say fuck it man let's see from a woman it's totally normal within the lifestyle you're right and the reaction to the vanilla world is because they don't know what any of it means they are they want to be derogatory and uneducated uneducated so educate them tell them that cuck requires consent from both parties and we don't kink shame but that's not personally what blows your socks off you just got a sexy wife that does it for you and wink at them make it awkward they didn't care if they did all right i see any more women sending their i want to find some women okay here we go vanillas will use everything out of their norm as derogatory they hear the word and use it incorrectly to try to shame others also most of also most I know believe men should have multiple partners but women should have only have one people are cruel personal personally I think it takes very strong secure people to make E&M work unless some has said they were a cuck or into it I wouldn't think anything about it honestly yeah so you know that girl's right most of the people are Here we go.
has said they were a cuck or into it i wouldn't think anything about it honestly yeah so you know that girl's right most of most of the people are like ignorant even in the lifestyle they're ignorant they talk about it and they say oh it's okay for us to fuck other women but when i want to bring it when the woman wants to bring another man fuck that so no way we're bringing on them so you know a lot of people believe men should have multiple partners but the women should have one i don't agree with that women should have as many partners as their man allows them and let them have fun so with that we're gonna get on out of here those are some of the facebook postings you know it's been over 40 minutes i hope you enjoyed the show talk about facebook if you have concerns, call me, email me at swinging single podcast at gmail.com.
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