Welcome to the Swinging Single Podcast with your host, AC Maxwell. In today's episode, we delving into the captivating world of the hotwifing trend, exploring the nuances and dynamics of this unique lifestyle choice. Join us as we unravel the intriguing facets of hotwifing and its growing popularity, shedding light on the thrill and fulfillment it brings to those who embrace it.In addition, we address the thought-provoking inquiries of Reddit users seeking advice on delicate matters within the swinging community. From navigating insecurities when one partner is considered "ugly" to grappling with the evolving dynamics of communication within swinging relationships, we offer guidance, insights, and thoughtful perspectives to help individuals navigate these complex and sensitive situations.Join us for an illuminating and engaging episode where we delve into the captivating world of hotwifing, offer valuable advice on handling insecurities and evolving communication dynamics, and explore the multifaceted experiences within the swinging lifestyle. Gain valuable insights, thoughtful advice, and a deeper understanding of the diverse aspects of the swinging community.swingingsinglepodcast.comswingingsinglepodcast@gmail.comhttps://nypost.com/2025/03/29/lifestyle/hotwifing-is-a-bizarre-new-sex-trend-but-couples-claim-it-is-saving-their-marriages/https://wifey.vmg.studio/
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Welcome to the Swinging Single Podcast with your host, yours truly, A.C. Maxwell, coming to you live from the Upside Down Pineapple Studios here in the deep heart of Texas. Today's show is going to be a little about more hot wiping. The New York Times, the New York Post calls it a bizarre new sex trend.
But I have to disagree with the New York Post because I don't think it's very bizarre at all i think it's awesome hot wives forever and we're gonna have more reddit reddit is on fire just like the stock market the reddit is on fire with all kinds of advice and a lot of people need my help because you know what they can't function without me so sit back grab some lubes sit back get your wife have her sit on your face gentlemen shave those cock and balls for that special someone and get ready for the swinging single podcast the swinging single podcast with host ac maxwell is intended for entertainment and educational purposes only the opinions views and content expressed or shared on the podcast are solely those of the host, A.C.
Maxwell, and any featured guests or contributors, and do not necessarily represent those of the podcast's affiliates, sponsors, advertisers, or partners. Any information provided is given with the understanding that it does not constitute a contract, engagement, or formal advice. The content of the podcast is protected by copyright and other intellectual property laws. Oh, yeah. Thank you. Let me get ready. We're going to get started soon. I know, it's bad. I've got to get out of here.
But we're going to talk about Hot Wife and all that great stuff today on your awesome, the greatest podcast for single males that's me call me the brazilian baby i'll make them all go crazy They say that it's my smile, but I shake it, shake it well Throw my hair back, I'm a sick chick, no holding it Let it down, let it out, throw my hair back, I'm a sick chick No holding it, let it down, let it out He loves the boys, want me, wanna see big men on me, wanna see me take it, take it Come home so he can reclaim it, he loves the boys, want me Wanna see big men on me, wanna see me take it, take it Come home so he can reclaim it I'm in love with a caca, I'm in love with a caca Now you wanna admit it, but he knows that I love it I'm in love with the caca i'm in love with the caca ring ring in the regular ring ring in the regular who said this game was easy all righty i hope you all had a wonderful weekend and you're getting on that hump day hopefully you gained all your money back from the stock market it's going going crazy, yes.
But you know what? That's life. It's up and down. Just like swingers. It's up and down. And my thing ain't working again. A lot of shit's going on. But I saw, and I love hot wives. And I love hot wifing and all that. I love those couples and all that. So we're going to dedicate more time to the hot wives people. And all that great stuff. I'll see you next time. I love those couples and all that. So, we're going to dedicate more time to the Hot Wifes people and all that great stuff. Excuse me.
So, I saw in the New York Post, of all places, in their sex and relationship part, it says, Hot Wifes is a bizarre new sex trend, but couples swear it's saving their marriages. This is by Brooke Cato, and this is just recently march 29th 2025 uh now i do believe you know hot wifing is not a bizarre trend i don't know why they want to say that but okay i'll go with it so they want to say hot wifing is a bizarre trend uh It's only bizarre to the people that don't know better or anything like that.
So we're going to read it and see what Miss Brooke has to say about hot wifing and all that great stuff. Let's see what she says. So couples are opening up their relationships in a new trend called hot wifing, which sees husbands watch their wives sleep with other men. Now, yes, that is correct, but also guys want to see their wives sleep with other women, too. That could be hotwifing. We're not going to be closed-minded here on the Swingin' Single podcast. We're going to be open-minded.
So if you are a woman that sleeps with other women while your husband watches, I would consider yourself a hotwife. You don't do anything for me, but hey, whatever. Anyways, so it's called hot wiping. Watching your husband's watching the wives sleep with other men. It's kind of like letting your friend test drive your car. Explain what a husband named Logan, according to the Daily Mail. I don't know. Shit. I don't know if that's really something I would say. But okay. All right. So I guess you're letting your buddy test drive your car. And one thing I always say.
One of my rules about hot wiping is never with friends that I know. Because you know what? It just makes everything complicated. I don't ever party. Don't ever swing. Don't ever have sex with friends. Because they're just going to mess things up in the end. I believe it is, so I don't know. But Logan says, like, you know, letting your friend take your test drive. He gets to see how well it rides. He's got to give it back, but it creates a sense of pride. You get a little taste of what my life is like. All right, so that's good.
So reason why this gentleman uh logan likes hot wife because he gets to you know it's a sense of pride his wife is hot he fucks she's gonna go home with him she's only fucking you she makes love to me and all that stuff and you know they logan loves it i don't kind of i agree with some of the things logan said but i don't agree with a lot of it i don't think i'm i won't equate my partner to a car my partner's a human being but you know that's swingers slingers love to use animals and all that stuff multiple couples partner with the adult site wifey so that the wives can bed professional porn stars as part of unconventional practice which a a Daily Mail describes as the modern take on cuckolding.
Now, hopefully they say something about cuckolding. But yeah, so I guess if you go to this website, Wifey, let's look up that website, Wifey. And let's see, W-I-F-E-Y, Wifey. Wifey, no, there's nothing. Wifey music. Wifey song. Dear future wifey. Wifey. Is there an app? Let's go. Adult site wifey. Let's see what this is. Adult site wifeyy. Wifey VG Vixen Group? Maybe. Let's see. Oh, okay, yeah. It's about Wifey.
Wifey is a new adult site from Vixen Media Group that offers authentic documentary-style look into the lives of a real couple exploring ethical non-monogamy with a focus on the hot life lifestyle. Each unscripted weekly scene begins with an intimate interview. Okay, I think I've seen some of these where they always get some big fucking huge cock dude to do this. Alright, let's go. Let's go Casey. Alright, meet the couples. Casey and Christian. Let's see, is there anything there? Not everybody fits into one box. We're not traditional marriage people, but we're also not swingers.
So, like, you have to find what works for you.
And I think it's important for people to see us because we're also not a traditional swinging couple either because I don't want him anywhere near all right first of all she says she's they're not swingers but now she's saying they are not that traditional swingers so she's putting a label on it what is she a swinger or not other women no offense i'm sure that's how we started this yeah we made an agreement when we started this i wanted this i was comfortable with it and she was not comfortable with me being with other women and i said this isn't about me in that sense it's about you being and me getting joy out of that and so i don't need the other women in order to enjoy this and so cool all right uh let's see what else we talked about it for about two years we would have these freaky fridays okay we had freaky fridays in this house you see that they said they talked about it for about two years we would have these freaky fridays we had freaky fridays and this house you see that they said they talked about it for two years guys you don't want to just jump into this lifestyle like five minutes into talking to you hey let's start hey you ever think about having sex with another man in front of me and she says oh yeah sometimes okay let's do it friday no take your time slow down hot wiping swinger it's all gonna be there don't worry about it started with us talking about it he wanted to learn me right and he was fascinated by my past because i was quite promiscuous in my past i have all kinds of crazy stories now i don't know about you gentlemen whenever i start dating a new woman you know you start talking about your past and all that stuff i will get i would be upset So, here's like, no, I don't want to do that.
I love you too much. I'd be like, you could do it for some bum on the street. You can have a threesome with two girls and a bum, some guy off the street, but you can't do that for me. You're supposed to love me and all that.
I know I kind upset i would i don't know maybe i'm maybe i'm wrong but i would kind of get upset about it be like what the fuck man it's like shit so you know why could you do with me but here this young beautiful this beautiful lady nice little blind well she's not blind she's dies of blind uh she's beautiful very beautiful and she's talking about she was talking about how promiscuous she was back in the old days and all that. So, no, no. Here's another one. Let's see. Is there one where they meet the big dick dude? Most people would think that was weird. Yeah, they didn't close.
No, there's not. You don't see who she would think that was weird she you don't see okay here's one here's another logan lorraine lorraine and anthony here she goes watching her is like is like watching a masterpiece being painted that's the way i feel and it's just it's amazing to me and it's so much fun And and we when we when we both look at each other and make eye contact, I can feel her love and she can feel mine. And, you know, it's that's it's a very good connection because we are, you know, we are life partners. That's a good point. Good job. You know, I really like that.
This couple's pretty good. Oh, the advice that I would give couples is to have open communication with each other and be honest with you. There you go. Open communication, honest, and have boundaries and all that stuff. So you want to have all that. so i really think it's this is but seems to me you don't really get to see what it really is this is now this website is really for it looking like for white couples to fuck black guys because all the the studs black on here. So if you're into that aspect, that race play aspect, you like the black on white. This is a good website.
Like I said, wifey.bmg.studio is the website. I will post a website on my show description when I post this up.
So you'll be able to see it and all that but yeah there is a website and you can see it it's kind of cool let's see is there any videos meet the compressed couples no there ain't really much of anything you can't really see who they're fucking well actually there's one okay so that's good anyways let's go back so you got hot wiping let's go back to the hot wiping um let's see it'd be really cool for me to see me with two hot guys just living my best life said sienna sienna logan's wife of course it would be hot i would agree with it that'd be fucking hot now i don't really care what the like.
I just worry about are their cocks going to be able to work and get in and up in you and have a little fun with you. And you make you come and squirt like you never come before and all that stuff. That's what I'm worried about. I'm not worried about they're hot or anything like that.
While the pair are seasoned hot wipers partaking in it for two years, participating couples are just testing the waters one man named alex admitted that he never tried kinky acts until he met rebecca his wife now the married couple are into hot wiping and alex can witness his fantasy of his wife with two other men at once i'm thinking this is kind of becoming more of a trend now with all the hot wives and all that stuff that guys are more into seeing their their girls with other men and you know and all that you don't see you still see the crazy uh you know you know the always usual uh we're looking for a single female but you're seeing a lot more of these hot wives coming out of the woodwork and that's awesome because you know like i said i benefit from it because i'm a single guy and i benefit from men that love watching your wife be with other men you know like i said gentlemen you gotta you know start working out if you're out a lot of shape get better clothes shave your cock and balls go to swinging swingandsinglepodcast.com.
Comb your hair. If you got facial hair, you got a beard or anything like that, trim it. Make it nice and neat. Smell good. Take a shower. Wash your asshole and your cock and balls too as you shave them because that's what you need to do. Make yourself presentable. Make yourself beautiful. Remember, you're not going to be everyone's cup of tea. Not every lady is going to want to, you know, date you and all that or want to fuck you, basically. But some will. So, you know, it's a numbers game, single men. Couples, it's a numbers game. Like I said, there's a lot of flakes and fakes out there.
You're just going to have to kiss a few frogs to get there. So while some may bristle at the thought of their partner with another person, let alone two, Rebecca insists that the arrangement has actually brought a whole other level of comfort and security to the relationship. Of course, because, listen, think about this. If you can watch your wife get tag-teamed by two studs, can't you talk about anything to your wife?
Like, what's going to be only thing i could think is that that you're you're millionaires and one day you come home you lost everything you're flat broke i can see that be the hard thing to talk about but anything else is there really anything else that's gonna be hard to talk about uh to your husband as a husband and wife you already saw her get railed by two dudes so it's not gonna be a big deal like anything that honey the car broke down honey i might i got fired from my job you know get a new job you know there's nothing nothing is compared to you're gonna be able to really open up to your partner trust me there's really nothing like being able to share that experience with someone you love and knowing that it doesn't diminish what we have she said adding that sex and love are two completely different things and rebecca i completely agree with you and rebecca i wish your other swingers and hot wifers would learn this a lot of hot wife couples a lot of swinger couples believe for some odd reason that they're making love to everybody no listen you don't make love to your bull you fuck your bull and go home your husband makes love to you there's a difference and that's what all guys you got to realize realize that too if you're on the fence of like hey i don't want to watch her i don't know how i could watch her fuck another guy you know but i want to fuck another woman but i don't want to give her another guy well remember when you go fuck that girl you're just fucking her but you make love to your wife vice versa for her she's fucking the bull or you know as you fuck the unicorn but she's gonna go home and make love to you she loves you the love is there there's there's that love and that's why i always cringe when a couple about connections.
I go, connections lead to feelings. Feelings lead to divorces and shit like that. Dumb shit. So I don't, you know, like I said, I'm DTF, down the fuck, swinger. I'm not interested in your personal life or whatever. I'm interested, are you clean? Do you want to fucking have a great time? You want to play. That's all I'm interested in. And I know a lot of couples don't like to hear that and stuff like that. But I think a lot of couples are more DTF than they want to admit.
they just want to play that's all I'm interested in and I know a lot of couples don't like to hear that and stuff like that but I think a lot of couples are more DTF than they want to admit they just want to say they don't want to act like they're whores I'm a whore you can call me a whore all you want people it ain't gonna hurt my feelings I'm a whore I love sex it actually made it a lot made it a lot stronger and that's worth to say but I actually love him so much more because of it Hell yeah, should love him lady because he's letting you do be you he's letting you to be you and vice versa gentlemen if your wife lets you play with other women you better thank her and you better be loyal to her because guess what not every woman's loyal trust me a lot of guys know that now after the divorce so meanwhile one man man named Richard is looking forward to seeing his wife, Danielle, be defiled in a way that I've never seen her defiled before.
And Danielle plans to wear her wedding dress for the occasion. Oh, my God. Now, I have seen people do this where they wore their wedding dress while they got game banged by five guys or more like that. I have seen it. I have never participated in it. I don't ruin the sanctity of marriage so to speak but yeah i don't do anything like that i haven't done anything but i have seen it and i've seen pictures i actually think i've seen one couple actually on their wedding night he did a gang bang for her and they filmed it. So I don't know. But that's kind of cool.
And I just love the pristine wedding dress. Beautiful girl. My own wife. Just destroyed, Richard said. Okay. He's getting very violent right there. I don't want to see my partner get destroyed. I want her to see her be put into a trance of pleasure. I don't want her destroyed. Why would you? I don't ever want to. If she gets her pussy destroyed by a bunch of dudes, how are you going to get fucked? I don't want my partner's, you know, pussy be destroyed by a bunch of dudes. I don't want that pussy. I got to reclaim that pussy at the end. I don't want to put her in pain.
So I want her to be in a trance of pure pleasure. That's what I want my men to put my partner into. He explained that every hot wife in experience is a building block of love and trust, and it keeps getting stronger and stronger and stronger. Hopefully it does.
Like I said i said sometimes it doesn't because that communication and honesty and those boundaries are either pushed or they're not there anymore like i said a lot of couples always have these rules i always talk i always ask about i always ask what are your rules and if they're experienced swingers and an experienced couple i always ask them so did you always have these same rules or have they evolved over time and when did you first break them because you know and know, and they're always, and they're going to be honest. Hopefully they are. They'll say, oh, we did it like a month in.
We did this. We did that and all that stuff. So, you know, rules are made to be broken. Boundaries are made to be pushed. You just got to be able to communicate those boundaries because boundaries do change. You, one you might not want any kissing on the lips. Bada boom, bada bing. A year later, you talk to your husband, you talk to your wife, and you change your boundary. It's okay to kiss on the lips.
So we're going to strengthen our relationship and going to get some entertainment and adrenaline from the defilement, added richard richard man richard good old richard he really likes his wife to be defiled i hope her pussy's all right shannon loflin a former colorado sheriff's deputy is also planning to take part in the experience the 44 year old who left her position in law enforcement when her side gig was an adult film star was outing while be sleeping with another porn star while her husband records it. She will be sleeping while her husband's recording it. Okay, good.
I don't understand the porn star thing. Maybe it's just it's a fantasy. But remember, porn stars are not, you know, real life. Ladies and gentlemen, contrary to what you believe, not every black man has a huge penis. Not every guy has a huge cock. So when you go to the swingers club or you go to a news resort, guess what you're going to see? You're going to see loomily millions. You're going to see average sized cocks. You're not going to see the guys on porn porn in black or fucking bang buzz with their cocks scraping their knee, touching their knees, and stuff like that.
You're not going to see that. So get that out of your fucking head. Stop watching swingers. The number one thing you can do to really enhance your swinging lifestyle, stop watching porn. Swinging and porn are nothing alike. The same people that do the swinging porn are not the same people you're going to see at the club. Ladies, the same guys that you want eight, nine inches, guess what? You're probably not. Chances are those eight, nine inches may not be at the club. Once in a while, they might be there.
But most of the guys are going to be average Seven inches, six inches Some are going to be below average Don't get it into your mind That you're going to be Fucking eight, nine, ten inches We're not all porn stars We all don't fuck like porn stars Guess what? Wednesday night at TPC It's not going to be a You got to go to work in the morning Guess what? Well, you know Maybe I'm not going to have my best fuck game I don't know Thank you. Wednesday night at TPC, it's not going to be a, you got to go to work in the morning. Guess what? Well, you know, maybe I'm not going to have my best fuck game.
I don't know. But, you know, people got to start with this porn shit because, you know, you get a bad taste in your mouth, so to speak, because you go to the club. Oh, none of these guys have big dicks or anything like that. We hope that we are able to provide insight into the hot wife lifestyle and show that a couple can remain deeply in love and stay strong together. Even when there are experiences with other partners, Loafland said, adding that the pair is just like any other couple, despite their sexual fantasies. Of course, I never say any swingers are not different.
You could get a room full of couples and who in hell you're going to know who's a swinger. The couple you probably think, you know, the loud, the boisterous, they're going out, they're a crazy couple. You go, oh, they probably swing. Those are probably the ones that are not swingers. That fucking quiet couple in the corner that doesn't do nothing, do nothing, they hardly talk.
My money would be on them because when they get to a different zone, all hats are off, all right, and like I said, this woman, former law enforcement, was doing porn, and all that, and now she's going, you know, I could feel my husband's unconditional love and support he she noted now only thing i don't like about that unconditional does she have unconditional love for her husband and unconditional support too or is it another story where there is conditions to that love and support i don't know this was a once-in-a-lifetime experience for both of us and it made our bond even stronger all right so i'm wondering uh how that went out went with them like i said this was in march 29th of 2025 in the new york post and that's the whole story and it's on you know it's great that these people are like i said they got to really can communicate and all that.
And you know, you're, it's great that these people are, like I said, they got to really communicate and all that. And, you know, you're going to get the hate because he has a comment section. So the comments are so sad that people keep looking outwards for the fix for their life and relationships. It's all inward. Introspection and self-improvement is where it's at. All right. So, you know. But you don't.
How do you know they're fixing anything maybe there's fucking bored like i said i always say i can never be monogamous because it'll be like going to mcdonald's every day for breakfast lunch and dinner you get the same food don't you want something different once you want to try something different and maybe that's what sex life is maybe they're maybe these people are just not so damn uptight that you know they're okay they're okay with trying a new flavor doesn't mean that you don't like your old flavor it just means you like something new let's see drg says this is not saving the marriage this is demand to allow and have your partner participate participate in infidelity it might temporarily keep the marriage afloat but the same shame resentment and anger will eventually tell at the very best you'll move from a married couple to something akin to roommates uh i don't know like i said sometimes swinger couples and hot wife couples stag vixen caco couples it's only there for a while they only do it for a while then they just quit they just stop that's it they're done now are there times where they do it forever because they're a great couple?
Hell, yes. Are there times where the marriage just falls apart? Maybe they've been doing the lifestyle, the hot wife and lifestyle for five years, and other things happen. They get divorced and all that. I know a couple in Florida, they were a hot wife. He would record her with other men, post it online.
They had of them Posted them online Made money One day they're gone No one knows Both couples are divorced They got divorced They went their separate ways But you can't I don't understand why there's so much Well know well you're gonna get divorced anyways no that's not always true like i said you vanilla couples guess what oh let's just not vanilla or swingers 50 of marriages end the divorce anyways so chances are even if you're vanilla you're gonna end the divorce to each their own but i don't get it especially saying that it helps a marriage all right he doesn't know i think it helps a marriage based off that the fact that it provides you a better way of communication like i said you just saw your wife get railed by two dudes what's the what uh what's what can you say to your wife now what can you do to your wife now that's worse than that?
You've seen the worst. Now it's all smooth sailing, right? Well, it should be at least, but you never know. It's kind of like letting your friends test drive your car. I didn't buy that car so my friends could drive it. Now's like i said i thought that was a stupid analogy or whatever by that one dude logan i agree with this uh commenter i don't let my friends drive i didn't buy my tesla i didn't buy my cybertruck for my fucking friends to drive it i bought it for me to drive drive. And so on. Nah. No thank you. My marriage 33 years survived just fine with plain old love and TLC.
This type of stuff is not normal for healthy whatever so this is my opinion. Okay. Couldn't hack marriage so they were opting for marriage light. It's pathetic in in my opinion, and tired of people cheapening the value of everything rather than just say your marriage failed. Ah, we don't know if their marriage failed. My wife had three boyfriends before me. I told her never introduce me if she would bump into one. Right? I don't want to know who the fuck my... If I got married, I wouldn't want to know who my wives fuck love and had to meet them. Never tell me about them. Not even their names.
I can't imagine this. 40 years and counting. So many Thank you. If I got married, I wouldn't want to know who my wives fuck, love, and have to meet them. Never tell me about them, not even their names. I can't imagine this. 40 years and counting, so many have a little dignity. All right. Well, you know what? You got small. I think this guy, remember lingerie? Question mark. Yeah, I think he has small dick energy right there. You know? Like, I don't want to know these guys, like, and all that.
But, you you know if you're going to tell me stories about i'm not going to shy away let me tell the stories about you fucking your ex-boyfriends but i don't want to know the names i don't need them and i don't want to know if i know them and all that any man who wants to see his wife being taken by another man simply don't actually love her and obviously has less than zero self-respect these are activities for unmarried have fun but not married it's a psychological problem i don't know i don't know how could you not love your wife you know what is love what what's what's your definition of now we got to come up with a definition of love uh i don't know like i said i just don't think it's really right you can't really judge people based on their preferences of their sex you know it's like saying no gay when gay people are getting married oh that's horrible it's blasphemy and stuffemy and stuff like that.
No, it's not. Who cares? What they do in my bedroom is none of your business until you post it online. Now, I get annoyed when people get angry. Oh, they all call me a whore and all that. Call me fat. Well, yeah, you're posting half-naked pictures of yourself online. What do you expect people are going to do? All right? This is the real world. Not everybody is green with your lifestyle. You decided to do OnlyFans, to do porn, to do content creation, or whatever you want to call it. So you're going to have to take the criticism. Like, I get criticized on here all the time.
If you want to criticize, swingandsinglepodcasts at gmail.com or go to swinging single podcast.com and shave your cock and balls gentlemen while you're at it you know i get criticized all the time but you know it's just one of those things you get criticized for you know you get criticized but i'm because i'm out there when i wasn't doing this podcast or anything like i didn't get criticized no one really talked shit about me now they want to talk shit about me right telegram HR group you know you do stupid stuff you open up your body you are now a public figure so now you are should get whatever it comes with you know you got to take the glory you got to take the bad with the good you know and I take the bad with the good.
You know, and I take the bad with the good. Some couples, you know, some people don't understand that. But when we open our marriages up, we open our lifestyles up to the world to know you're going to get that criticism.
So don't get angry because, you know, your friends, you tell your friends you're swingers and they don't want to hang out with you anymore Alright well that's your fault You don't need to tell anybody your shit I never understood why people Oh we tell everybody we're swingers You know That's one thing I remember When all this gay stuff was going on with gay guys They always introduce themselves Within five minutes they gotta tell you you're gay Okay I can tell you're gay you talk like a girl you talk very feminine so we know you're gay you don't have to tell me but they want to tell you all the time that they're gay okay we know you don't have to tell us i'm gonna be your friend if you're a good person i'm gonna be your friend anyway so you don't have to tell me anything but i never understand these couples they tell everybody everything yeah my wife fucks a bunch of dudes yeah we fuck couples i fuck girls my wife bring girls home for me to fuck and all that and they tell the family and friends that and family and friends reject them yeah because some people think it's disgusting guys it's not you're not changing anybody's mind, basically.
That is disgusting. Nine, eight, nine billion people in the world, eight billion plus think we live a disgusting life. Oh, well. So don't get angry when you get criticized because you go on OnlyFans and fuck yourself with a dildo and someone calls you a slut or they do stuff and they threaten to call the school and shit on you. That's wrong. Like I said, I think it's wrong when people do that shit. They can call you a slut, but they can't be fucking with your job and stuff like that.
I think you should be able to do whatever you do on your own time should not be your work, your kid's school's problem or business and if you do that stuff you out people well you're a piece of shit and you know karma comes and gets you like i said i there's a lot of people i know i can out but i don't because you know i got i got better things to do so in karma i think i try to be a great person so karma will reward me. And I think it does with the beautiful people I get to play with and have fun play time with. So, you know. But that's hot wifing.
It's not bizarre, like the New York Post Times says. I'll post the wifey thing on. And I'll post the wifey website. We can watch a bunch of black dudes pound white girls and I will post a New York Post article. Let's go to Reddit. Reddit's on fire like the stock market, people, I'm telling you. You need to go to swingandsinglepodcast.com. Check that out and all that. Does this make me a cuck?
Oh it's long uh you know what fuck it we're not gonna do this long ass shit okay let's go short all right swinging as friends thoughts all right i think i had this one yeah i commented on this one guy got angry at me and all that i met a guy about ago, and we were hooking up, and one day he invited me to a party to which I was intrigued and decided to go. At this party, he asked me my thoughts and then asked me if I wanted to be part of the lifestyle with him, and I agreed. Cha-ching! Now we only see each other when we attend a party or event. We always play together as well as with others.
When we are out and people ask about us, I let him take the lead because I will just flat out say we are friends. Did it in the past and he wasn't too happy. He always says we are a couple and gives them this spiel about us. After we leave these events, we always go back to his place and we always hook up again just a little more intimately. in the future.
always says we are a couple and gives them this spiel about us after we leave these events we always go back to his place and we always hook up again just a little more intimately and i always stay the night and don't leave for hours after we after he has just left because i have work later than him after these encounters we do not speak until the next event which usually a week or two later we are very open with each other and always catch up when we see when we do see each other family work etc we even tell each other that what we have done sexually while apart i'm more than okay with what we have going on by the way just want your thoughts on it thank you what i thought is for one he's using you you are the coupon to give him access to free pussy let me know what you think go to swing and single podcast.com and let me know what you think is he using this girl or is he it's just okay she's okay with it she's okay with it okay all right but she's asking my thoughts my thought is she is what we call a coupon where he gets access to new pussy now i was talking i put my two cents in because i thought this was a good one so let me see where did i put my i'm scrolling down okay i put this is what i said you are his coupon to more pussy.
He's using you. But if you're okay with it, then enjoy the time and lifestyle. Then Henry replies, or maybe, just maybe, they are two people who mutually enjoy doing this together. And I told him, I would agree with you on that. But the reason I don't is because they only talk when they go to an event it's not like they're talking on a odd wednesday night only when they go swinging which leads to my theory then he just uses her as a coupon to get access to more pussy as a couple then he would be as a then he would be as a single.
And maybe, just maybe, that's also an arrangement Opie is happy with. She said, dude, she said, Henry. You, however, call an Opie a coupon for managing her sex life the way she enjoys it pretty gross. Well, thank you, Henry. I thought, I didn't think it's pretty gross. You obviously do, but I don't think it's pretty gross. You know why? Because she's happy with it. She asked me for my fucking opinion. If she didn't ask, why the hell is she... I don't think it... I think it does bother her because she's writing this. Because why would she want to know what people think?
If it doesn't bother her a little bit, but okay, I digress. Now, I didn't really read this all the way through. I'm guilty of it. So now I'm looking at it. It says, we always play together as well with others. When we are out and people ask about us, I let him take the lead because I will just flat out say we're friends. I did it in the past and he wasn't too happy. You know why? I now know he's fucking using her and it ain't changing my mind Because of that. If he wasn't using her, he would just say, yeah, we're just friends. We just love fucking swinging.
But he knows as a single guy, when you are with a couple, couples want to swing with other couples. They don't want to swing with people that are not committed to each other. A lot of the times there are ones that don't give a shit. But a lot of the couples now, they want a connection. Remember that word, connection. And if they know as a couple, couple A knows that those two are not a connected couple, they don't want to have anything to do with it, and he knows it.
And that's why he wasn't happy about it when she would tell we're just friends ah so now so henry fuck you henry i'm right you're wrong it's not gross so that's why i think he's just using as a coupon you know let me know what you think guys if you think she's using she's being used as a coupon swing and single podcast at gmail.com let me know we could talk about that more but i thought that's but it's great but she's okay with it she's happy with it i don't want to be happy with it as a person so if i met a girl and we only talked we said okay saturday night swing or party let's go and we don't talk for the rest of the week it kind of annoys me like okay uh i'm sticking my dick in you i won't lease and you're my partner it's not like we're oh okay this is a hot wife I'm gonna meet her on Friday night to go fuck her no this is my partner that I'm giving my sexuality to and barebacking to because you know when I have my partner I'm only barebacking with her tested and everything thank you very much And I don't know what the fuck she's doing The rest of the time Now they say they talk about their sex What they've done when they're not together Which is good, they always talk about it So they can always do all this stuff And they do all their catching up When they meet up for the swinger party.
Now, if you look here, they were fucking for six months before swinging. So, now all of a sudden they're swinging. He stops calling, stops it. Yeah, she's being used. I just think she's being used, man. STC, what do you guys think? You're in there. There's three people in my chat viewing me. Talk, guys. And all that. So, you know, it's kind of fucked up. But, yeah, we'll get back to that one. I have my friend come in. She'll do that. What's another one? Here's another one. Is MFM a good way to start into swinging?
Me and my wife will be in AMS and we are newbies trying to dip our toes into the lifestyle. We fantasize a lot during sex, mostly cockle and male, female, male, excuse me, scenarios. But want to take the next step now that we're visiting AMS. Planning to visit one or two clubs when in AMS. I think Amsterdam, seeking suggestions if going on a day when single males is better or couples day, just to make sure we do get a good first time experience with either way. Well, first of all, you got to figure out what you want. Do you want a male fee?
You want to be cock-holded and a male, a threesome with a male? All right. Now, do you mind if that male is part of a couple? And will that female, that couple, be okay with sitting on the sidelines? Because we always hear from American girls. Oh, I don't want to be the one doing anything. My husband don't have nothing to do. I want him to have fun, too.
Now, if you're're going if the ams stands for amsterdam i think it is you're probably going to be able to go on couples night and find a threesome with another man because you know what europeans are very sexually open they don't have no problems with singles single men single women couples playing alone they don't have a problem with that they're very're very sexual. They know their sexuality. They're very communicative and all that stuff. They're adventurous and they push their boundaries all the time. Here in America, we don't do so. So it would be a little different in America.
Now, you got to figure that out. Then if you say you don't want to go through that drama of a couple, then go when they allow single guys. Also, you can go to a club with that. You can do that stuff, all right? So you can find your pick of the litter there at the club. You can have a whole bunch, and you can say, okay, that's good. Let's do it. Or if you don't want to do a club, you want to go do it at your hotel room, you can find guys online.
Now, I don't know if European men are flaky, like the American men are flaky here but if they're not good for you you can do that i always recommend going to a club because like i said they're there for a reason they're there now you know what you're looking at when you do it online you do all the stuff online you don't know if they're real or not you know so i don't know but i think going to a club when they allow you have to first out what you want. Do you want the couple and just use the male and the female sets it out? Or do you want a single male?
Now, the less drama will be the single guy. Definitely the less drama will be the single guy because you don't have to worry about pleasing his partner.
He's partnerless, so you just got to worry about him be able to perform uh also i would also suggest try it a couple times the first time might be horrible also if you don't want it horrible find a one of them that is experienced in it someone has years experience not someone who's newbie also if you're a newbie and you do another newbie it's going to be difficult you might not have that chemistry that you would have with a whatchamacallit with someone that knows the lifestyle all right that's what i would that's what i would do get an experienced bull experience dragon whatever you want and have fun all right You don't have to really worry about it, you know, but it is a good way to start swinging, you know, and it seems like that's what you want most.
You don't really care about having sex with other women or swapping with another couple. So you're fine there. I think you'll be all right. So I think it's a very good way you're starting. Good job, guys. I think it's a very good way to start your swinging. All right, let's see. Let's do, we got 45 minutes, so let's do one more. Oh, swinging his friend. All right. All right, let's see. All right, here's one that's really tough. One partner significantly better looking than the other. Thoughts? That's a lot of couples in a swinger lifestyle. Hi, all.
My girlfriend and I, early 30s, are new to the lifestyle, still deciding if it's for us. I hope you stay around, but, you know, if it's not for you, it's not for you. She's athletic, slim, with an angel face to match. Me, I'm 5'1", with a prominent lower jaw protusion and an uncanny resemblance to Quentin Mastey's painting. Did I mention I'm well below average down in the saddle? Needless to say, the disparity in our aesthetics definitely gets attention. Last month, we visited a lifestyle bar. Plenty of single male interest, but my awesome girl made sure I wasn't left alone.
See, that's another problem here. All right. If it's okay with your husband, listen, ask your hubby, is it okay if I'm having fun? Hopefully, the hubby says, yeah, that's okay. Because guess what, guys? Your day will come to have fun. Trust me, karma. We get approached by another couple and chat and dance away. Right before crossing into the soft playground, I felt some reluctance from the woman I was with. It was clearly her husband's ideal, and she was repulsed by me.
Consent is paramount in this amusement park, off and my partner and i left oh that sucks now i've been laughed at when i introduced myself to a couple years ago and it wasn't great hopefully she did it respectfully there's a respectful way to turn someone down and there's a very disrespect laughing at someone and looking at them like they're repulsive is very disrespectful to one. Even, I don't think this guy's this ugly. I think he's just, you know, I wish he had a picture. Let me see. Let me see if there's a picture on his profile. No, there's no pictures. Yeah, so, can't see it.
Alright, but anyways. If you're going to tell someone, just say no to this mouth. No, thank you, I appreciate it. Listen, it should be flattering that people want to have sex with you. You shouldn't be making fun of them because they're ugly or anything like that. Because guess what? Probably 75% of those lifestyles are ugly. We're not that beautiful. Like I said, if you're new to the lifestyle and you think you're going to go see a bunch of supermodels at the club, you're going to be very disappointed.
Because it's just average guys, average mom and dad bods, fat, small, skinny, no ass, flat ass, flat tits, big ass, big titties, stuff like that, you know? Dick's fucking big as my pinky, dick's big as my fucking arm, stuff like that. So, you know, it's just, hopefully he's not, he's over-exaggerating. I don't know. Anyways, it was a very unpleasant experience. Of course, dude, I agree with you, man. And I'm sorry, dude, that they did that to you. I know what it's like to be laughed at.
The last thing I want for us is to be stuck in another awkward situation or a poor woman feeling like she's charity in Wrangling Brothers Performer. Thank you. Last thing I want for us is to be stuck in another awkward situation or a poor woman feeling like she's charity in wrangling brothers performer. Thoughts, antidotes, advice. My advice is fuck it. If she's taking one for the team, fuck her. Have at it. Eat that pussy out so good. Fuck her so good that she's never been fucked before. Guess what? Couples will start noticing you. And not before your looks. It's because your sexual prowess.
You know what? Never judge a book by his cover, ladies. Because that guy could be the best pussy eater you get. The best fucking dick you get. His dick could be four fucking hard inches, but that four inches hit that G-spot and make you squirt on the walls, on the bed, make a fucking puddle. The swinger club's going to have to call the insurance company for flooding because he fucks you so good. Don't ever judge a book by its cover. All right? But also, are you cool? I would want to know, is he cool with his wife having a good time? Maybe the hot wife scenario is better for them.
Where she goes have fun, he goes help finds it. Thank you. I would want to know, is he cool with his wife having a good time? Maybe the hot wife scenario is better for them. Where she goes have fun, he goes help finds it. Like I said, I love walking up to a dude, man. The best part. Walking up to, hey, man, my girl thinks you're good looking. Why don't you come on over and talk to us? I love doing that. The chase is awesome. Sometimes you see you real efficient. Sometimes you don't. You got to cast that rail right back out and all that stuff.
So, you know, it is what it is, but in it, whatever. So, you know, I don't know. You're going to have to decide what you want. Let's see what other people. I'm atypical, I think, but in generally in this, to have a good time and meet fun people, I'd play play with you if my partner was into your girl and i liked your personality i like your writing so there's a good chance so see there's there is a chance some people can look behind looks swingers are shallow most of them are shallow we're shallow people just like vanilla so they might not get past the looks.
Like I said, if you look good, if you represent, you wear nice clothes, you look good, you're not a slob or anything like that, you dress well, you smell good, that's 90% of the door right there. You open up that door 90%. The other 10% is going to be that personality. But guess what? When you walk you walk into that club, what you wear, how you present yourself, is what those couples will see first. They don't know your personality from anything because they haven't talked to you. But if she sees you dress, like I said, I wear a three-piece suit when I was at Winter Nights in Kansas City.
This hot, beautiful couple, man and woman. They came up to me and said, hey, we love you. And they talked to me. So, here we go. Winter Nights in Kansas City, this hot, beautiful couple, man and woman, they came up to me and said, hey, we love you. And they talked to me. They were talking to me. We were jiving, jiving, all because I wore my suit. I look good. She's like, you're the only one that really looks good. You're really dressed. You look sharp, your clothes, everything. I go, yeah, thank you, man. I go, I'm a single guy. I'm not fucking blessed below, so I got to bring my A game.
And that dress is part of it. Smell good and all that. And maybe I did have sex with them. I don't know. I don't kiss and tell. But anyways, that's some advice. Look, sometimes at a glance, my wife isn't into the guy. After dialogue, seeing he is chill and has a good sense of humor, she warms up. Sometimes personality and a sense of humor can increase your attractiveness. Yeah. I already think this dude has a good sense of humor because he's making fun of himself. If you can't make fun of yourself, you can't be funny.
A funny person will always be able to make fun of themselves because we do stupid stuff, like I said.
So you what, dude don't worry about your looks, work on your personality, work on the way you dress and all that stuff, your looks ain't gonna matter you know we can't help it that you're 5 foot 1 you'll grow tall, look at that girl you know what, you have to have something because if your wife is as beautiful as you say she's with you out of all the dudes all the six foot two six pack abs eight inch cock dude she could have fucking went with she picked you bro there's something to be said about that man go for it dude just fucking fuck have a great time in a lifestyle and get the fuck out all right you're the man all right so with that that is the conclusion of the swing and single podcast i want you to go to swing and single podcast.com check all things they see go to swing and single podcast at gmail.com for my email if you got anything you want to plug you want to come on my show man come on do an interview you hear my interviews i'm great at interviewing and all got anything you want to plug.
You want to come on my show, man. Come on, do an interview. You hear my interviews. I'm great at interviewing and all that. If you want to hear that, you want to do all that, that's come on. You know, let's do it. Check me out on SDC. You looking for a single male? Hook me up. Open Minded Gen on SDC. All that great stuff. Swing Your Lifestyle and all that.
So with that, gentlemen, shave those cock and balls for your ladies and keep on swinging baby You'll get lucky like a four-leaf clover Baby, I'm a holly to your joker I wanna be there forever on your shoulder I wanna be the angel when it's over You'll get lucky like a four-leaf clover Baby, I'm a holly to your joker
