On today's enlightening episode of the Swinging Single Podcast, your charismatic host AC Maxwell delves into one of the swinging lifestyle's most intriguing questions: Can singles truly be swingers? This episode promises to unravel the stereotypes, challenge the misconceptions, and shine a light on the reality of single swingers.AC brings his unique perspective and infectious energy to the forefront as he guides listeners through the complex landscape of swinging solo. With a blend of humor, candid anecdotes, and expert insights, this installment is designed to both educate and entertain those curious about the swinging lifestyle from a solo adventurer's point of view.
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hey everyone welcome back to the swinging single podcast i'm ac maxwell and i'm here to unravel the many layers of the swinging world especially from the perspective of the unattached adventurer whether you are a seasoned swinging swingers flying solo someone curious about dipping your toes into the lifestyle or somewhere in between you turned into the right place today we are tackling a couple of juicy topics that we'll ponder all ponder about now and then are singles really swingers and what happens next after a single finds that special someone or someone's to swing with it's a vibrant landscape out there for singles and believe me it's a complex as it is exciting first off let's address the elephant in the room can you be swinging solo well my friends not only the answer is resounding yes but as we'll explore single swingers play a pivotal role in the community bringing their unique flair and dynamics into the mix but what does the journey look like and how does the dynamic change when a swinger a single swinger finds a partner or partners who complements their lifestyle transitioning from swinging solo to swinging with someone can be thrilling yet intricate dance it's about balance understanding and almost importantly communication whether it's continuing as swinging swinging partners adjusting the dynamics or understanding how to navigate the broader swinging scene together we'll dive into all of that i got some fantastic guest speakers lined up maybe share their insights of the stories and all that so buckle up tune in and let's embark on this fascinating exploration together.
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By listening to the Swinging Single podcast, you acknowledge that you have read and understand this disclaimer and agree to its terms shave your cock and balls gentlemen all right so they're gonna have a little controversy today we're gonna talk about our singles can a single be swinging uh or be considered a swinger if you're a male or female can it i believe yes because you know swinging swinging is a different dynamic and all into itself bringing people in multiple people into the bedroom and having a lot of fun but before then if you have any questions you want to talk to me get back to me at swinging single podcast at gmail.com also on facebook twitter uh instagram and what's the other one uh tiktok twitch all that stuff and you can see it on my thing you can scroll in there it's also in my bio and all that so you can go on there and check it out only on only fans fansly and apple podcast that's where you get the more juicier stories i don't go into great detail on here but i go really in depth detail now on my paid site so you know it's only a dollar i think i mean it's only a dollar a show so you know you're not wasting a lot of money and all that anyways so let's sit back relax let's see what we got because i saw something interesting now i do this show twice three times a week i don't do it once a month or once every other week or certain shit like that i do this once twice a week bare minimum i could do more shows so you know coming up with topics and all that the talk about swinging because there's not a lot of stuff you can talk about it's you're going to regurgitate the same stuff i came along this reddit post and i thought it was a great post and i want to read it to you guys so this is a from someone that posted this and i thought it was a great question all right and that's what this post says uh quote not trying to be elitist or anything, just curious by the use of the label, really.
Me and my wife have often been to sex and fetish clubs where we've met single guys who introduced themselves as swingers, which is always a little jarring. In the past, I have asked, where is your partner?
And they would quickly said, oh, no, I'm single and or i'm here on my own it just raises eyebrows with me surely if you were single you aren't a swinger because you can have sex with whomever you like just like every other single person out there all semantics so that's what that person wrote on their reddit and when i go down to the comments you'll see a lot of back and forth and the problem with that is he just said single men he didn't say anything about single women i'm sure if a single woman was in there he's fine he'll call a single woman a swinger well if he would have put swinging a single woman in there i could probably back him up and say yeah you can say we're not swinging we're not swingers but like i said swinging is more dynamics than just what so as a single guy you can go off and fuck or a single girl you can fuck whoever you want that's obvious right you can but swinging is not just about fucking whoever you want it's about bringing more people into your bedroom so you got you and your wife you bring in another man you bring in another couple you bring in another girl you're putting multiple partners at once into the bedroom so you know it's one of those things where i believe you can be a swinger and being single so it's not one of those things where you don't it just stop so with that so yes indeed singles can embrace a swinging lifestyle no doubt about it there's a nuanced landscape between the terms like swapping and swinging that warrants clarification and these clarifications change often i i heard a new term now buck a buck what i don't know what the buck is i guess it's for a single guy um maybe not welding down i don't know what the fuck i'm like i'm trying to like figure everything out and it changes so often so fast anyways it's important to note that while some poly couples might engage in activities associated with swinging many don't necessarily identify with the swinger label the spectrum of non-monogamous non-monogamous relations is wide and varied after all all right so meanwhile there are couples who might swap partners on occasion but don't view themselves as entrenched in the swinger lifestyle in contrast there are also singles who engage in regular hookups and consider the relationship status monogamous in nature despite the frequency of their sexual encounters you know i know a lot of couples that don't really call themselves swingers even though they go to a swinger club to go to sex clubs and they exchange partners and all that so it's just who what label you want do you want a label that's what you got to ask yourself now when i was growing up people didn't want labels we all try to be one and now everyone has a fucking label there's a label for everything you'd be a female and all that single unicorn male a bull couples swapping stuff like that so there's a lot of different types of labels that are out there now and i don't know good or bad i don't know so furthermore it's entirely possible for single individuals to participate in swinger communities take for example a single man who frequents swinger clubs he may not be as successful as he hopes every night yet by virtue of his active participation and pursuit in the swinging scene he invites the spirit of a swinger and those are adding people i'm sure he's going to add two girls if he wanted if he could or two other couples and fuck as many women as he can in that night at the swing club to be a swinger is not just about one's relationship status or sexual activities now that's probably the key right there let me repeat to be a swinger is not just about one's relationship status or sexual activities it It's about partaking in the broader realm of non-traditional sexual experiences and concisely integrating oneself into the communal fabric of swingers.
I'm more, for me, I'm more getting away from the swinging scene and just meeting people and just having, you know, intimate encounters with them, that couples and single females it just seems like it's a lot easier where we know what we're getting into i tell them right off the bat i'm just looking for sex and all that and and they agree and that's good so frustratingly the debate on who qualifies as a swinger is sometimes used to unfairly exclude particular demographics.
Often single males due to various preconceptions, while unicorns or single bisexual females are traditionally welcomed with open arms. Now I got to ask yourself, is a unicorn, does it have to be bisexual female? Can a unicorn be a straight woman?
And, you know, I would for you straight women to come out to my show and talk about your experience in this lifestyle even straight couples but i wonder it is a unicorn just legitimately just a single bisexual female and can she be straight and be still called a unicorn who knows who knows you know those are one of those things you got to talk about all right so in the diverse world of non-monogamous non-monogamous relationships swinging has traditionally been viewed as a pastime for couples in which i would agree it usually is for couples and it's mostly gear it's all geared towards couples it's not tear gear towards single females or single men you know that's just the way it is who pays to go you go to a swinger club it's 99 couples you know and you got that little small percentage of singles you know like always said you know a lot of people say oh i would i would love to be a swinger or do stuff like that or whatever.
And the reality is not as good as the fantasy. The fantasy is always great. Like I always tell people, I have, in my ads, in my profiles, I always say, hey, I'm a swinger. I go to swing clubs. I go to news resorts and yada. So there's no surprise at the first date that, oh, I'm springing this up on you. So I tell people, and I'm honestly up and forward and all that with them. And, you know, they tell me, oh, it's cool. And they want to ask me 10,000 questions about it, which is fine, I'll answer them.
But I'm not there to get your jollies off so you can go masturbate and think about getting fucked by two dudes at a time while you sit there and let me hang out in the vast internet world and not let me benefit from anything while i'm getting you off so you know it's you know there's those things you just got to do all right but it is for couples and i in i'm not arguing that it is for couples i agree with you however the reality is more inclusive and very varies singles whether they may be men or women are integral part often misunderstood understood part of the swinging community their journey challenges and events use to connect in this collective landscape paint a broader picture for modern swinging scene if you're a woman you and you and you're a decent looking woman or under 40 you are going to have a great time in this lifestyle because you will be very, what is it?
You will be very chaste. You're going to get all the attentions. Now, once your woman gets up into her 50s and 60s, the chase slows down for them.
And it's sad because it's very uh discriminatory you know and i always and i hear people say we're all inclusive yeah you're all inclusive but you're not really all inclusive you're more exclusive than anything and it's your preference i understand like the young couples i meet they want to have a young couple they don't want to swap with someone in their 40s or 50s and i always tell them well don't worry about it one day you're going to get to that 40s or 50 and that young couple that you're attracted to at the club and you got a boner for and you got your wet pussy for they're not going to want to have anything to do with you Thank you.
And I always tell them, well, don't worry about it. One day you're going to get to that 40s or 50 and that young couple that you're attracted to at the club and you got a boner for and you got your wet pussy for, they're not going to want to have anything to do with you because you're too old. So, you know, you got to be able to compromise and have fun. You know, don't worry about looks and age and shit like that because you know what? Looks will fade. Your age is going to, you're guaranteed the age.
You know, there's only two guarantees in life, death and taxes, and we're all going to get there and we're all paying for it. So don't, you know, just go out and have fun guys. But for single women, you're going to be chased. Single men, unless you got six pack abs and 12 inch cock and dark skin and over six foot tall, you're not going to be chased. You're going to be doing the chasing. So, you know, you just got to put in your time. And you got to understand singles. You got to understand your place in the whole system. Because there is a place for us and everything.
Even though people say, no, singles cannot be swingers. So what's the role? The role of swinging singles. While couples may feature more dominantly in popular conceptions of swinging, single swingers are equally significant. They bring versatility and a dynamic to gatherings and events, often balancing the dynamics in ways couples alone might not manage. For instance, single swingers can provide more flexible interaction possibilities without the concern for partner preferences or limits that might otherwise dictate the pace and activities of coupled swingers.
However, alongside their contribution comes a gamut of challenges.
One primary challenge is overcoming the stigma or biases that may exist within the outside inside if then and outside of the swinging community really single males specifically often face criticisms and have to work harder to prove their understanding and respect for boundaries consent and the established etiquette of swinging now that is so true let's just talk about one at a time the boundaries couples need to talk about boundaries always talk about couples need to talk to their partners and say hey what are we looking for what are we going to do tonight at this party or at this club what are our boundaries kissing anal uh bdsm slapping shit like that so what are our boundaries are going to be?
Then consent. You know, I hear people says it's sad that we do have to talk about consent because you would think that would be a no brainer, you know, that you should ask for consent. But you know what? You've got people, couples are guilty of this too, not asking consent.
Guys, you will believe that they could go up and touch anybody because you know they got their wife with them no you still got consent ladies oh she's so beautiful i could touch her and all that i see a lot of times you know and those are those are few and far and be just like the guys there's like i don't 26 years of swinging and i've seen And just less than a handful instances where guys were out of line i have seen more where the couples are out of line but you know i have seen where guys are online and i've seen that at las vegas mostly not anywhere like in out of paradise lakes cal Secrets.
I haven't seen any of that shit yet there. Usually, guys have been very, you know, very respectful of the couples there. So, the boundaries, consent, make sure you get consent. Now, you know, I have seen it where a lady just got her boob job done and another lady runs up and grabs her titties.
and that lady that grabbed the titties got a nice backhand from the lady because she was in pain when you grab it and it just hurt her and she was not happy with it then she goes on the Facebook page for Caliente and starts talking about getting consent and don't touch me when I don't ask you to be touched and just saying because you're a woman doesn't have you the right to touch another woman all right and the etiquette of swinging like that you just ask consent is etiquette you know you know what are you gonna you know what are you gonna do um and all that so you know we have to fight single males have to fight single females do not have to fight unless you know you're you know let's we got like i said this is gonna be this is an honest podcast unless you're not that good looking of a woman you're gonna you're gonna struggle but if you're decent looking to a beautiful very beautiful woman guess what you're gonna be chased and the age does hurt a little bit because i had some beautiful women that i know that are in the 50s that no one talks to them at the club and I'm and I'm shocked because I'm like how the fuck can no one be talking to you at the club because you're so fucking beautiful you're good looking and all that stuff and you know they just say no one talks to them and all that so it's just one of those weird things where no one talks to him so i don't know i don't know things are just weird in this world ladies and gentlemen so connecting in the swinging world opportunities that we can get so how can a swing single guy single lady get into it for singles intrigued by the swinging lifestyle connecting with like-minded individual couples can be navigated through various platforms you know we got so many fucking platforms i don't i don't know about you but i get annoyed when people i have to listen to a podcast talk about how to find other swingers how do people in 2024 do not know about google yet all you got to do is google swingers uh and you can find them if you live in a major city with shit close to a million or more people you're going to be easily find swingers now once you get out to kansas you know nebraska north south dakota it might be a little difficult but just google swingers in my area and something will pop up but i always hear these uh shows they're always doing some show uh talk about where can we find singles and all that and all that so it's kind of just what the hell's going on you know you shouldn't have to ask everybody where can you find them i don't know so let's look at the internet so google is one specialized dating websites and apps you got websites like sdc all right which is i do believe it's called swingers date club you got cassidy uh you got swinginglifestyle.com uh you got quiver and stuff like that so these are all designed for non-monogamous communities in mind fetlife you got fet life but i stay away from fet life i just don't like the type of people that it draws it you know i'm just a swinger i'm not into the s&m stuff part i don't like being i like the blood and shit like that and i really can't find any good single women off that website so i just stopped going to it altogether so these platforms offer detailed profiles where singles can specific be specific about their interest their experiences and what they are looking for within the swinging community now this is where men and women single women are just as bad as it's the single dudes they don't put a lot of information into their profiles i put a lot i got like a fucking book so if you go into my profile and you read it it's a lot of fucking information it tells you what i'm looking for things like that and and more about me so the couples can know i don't put pictures up because you know what guess what what do you do you think couples look at first?
They look at the pictures first. Then if they find you mildly attracted, they might read your profile, which I always think is wrong. I always think when a couple emails me and I always think that people take shitty pictures. There's very few of us supermodels where we actually look better in pictures than we do in person.
I always think we look better in person than we do in pictures so i just look at the picture okay that's the basic what they look like because you know what they might have her at work she might have a picture of her at work or something like that and you know when she goes out she gets all dialed up it looks fucking great this is a story when uh i met you know a 30 i think she was about 35 years old curly brunette Here we go.
this is a story when uh i met you know a 30 i think she was about 35 years old curly brunette hair i love brunettes and i love curly hair i don't know why girls want to straighten it but i love curly hair so this is about you know i moved to buffalo new york she's about 35 and i'm about 27 at the time so she's an older lady i was on sls and i'm like okay swing swing lifestyle.com I don't know.
seven at the time so she's an older lady i was on sls and i'm like okay swing swing lifestyle.com she emailed me and we emailed back and i go listen let's go meet up let's have a drink it's sunday night her pictures were not great she looked chubby you know but i like chubby i like thick so she looked chubby and all that and her pictures didn't look didn't look at all they didn't do her justice well so we meet at a local bar which is everywhere buffalo there's bars everywhere man at the local bar she comes in it is during january so it's fucking cold so she's wearing jeans and a sweater and but you know when she walked, she was a lot better looking, in person, she just looked, her lips were full, her eyebrows were very nicely trimmed, everything about her looked good, the clothes she was wearing, the pants looked good on her, it showed off her fucking fat ass, her sweater, nice size, if you're a tit man, she had nice big size d tits and she looked good and outside of there and i even told her i go you need to get real pictures because you look better now than you do in your pictures and i just asked her i go so you know i'm always curious like how much action are you getting off this website she's like oh i don't get that much or anything but i'm not really really looking for that much and all that i go okay so i don't know so she could have been lying to me whatnot where she didn't really get any action off of that but i think if she had better pictures i go she'd get a lot but as a single woman anyway she gets you know fair sure like i said if you're a single woman you're decent looking shit you could be even butt ugly you put an ad on the swinger website you'll have 100 emails by the end of the day so we meet up looking fucking good and i'm fucking i'm i'm going by the end of the night i'm going down on her you know her pussy smells great it's nice nice and wet she's multi-orgasmic all that stuff bend her over eat her ass and shit and we just had a great time we had a great relationship and all that and you know we would party off and on and all that uh we'd go to some clubs and all that in the buffalo area but you know but that's one thing she put out what she was looking for i do believe she was married anyways and because i never went to her house and all that shit we always go back to my house so it's all right we never stayed overnight but hey not my problem that's her problem but she looked what she looked she was looking for straight up sex and she just wants to have a release from morality and stuff like that but she put that all in there and we figured it out now swinger clubs and parties many swingers clubs welcome single swingers through entry rules can vary significantly so if you are going to go to a swinger club look up the rules for singles single women i'm going to tell you right now you're welcome all the time 24 7 7 days a week 24 hours a day you're welcome guys we have to look up when we are available some clubs do not allow single guys at all a lot of clubs will own on specific days some nights might reserve for couples and single women to create a comfortable balance to ensure safety i don't think that's true i think that's always been a lie that the clubs tell themselves attending these events can be a golden opportunity for singles to engage with the community learn the norms and meet potential partners so if you're very new to singles uh swinging scene even if you've been a couple and you just got divorced so your partner doesn't want to be anything with you don't want to do it again relearn how to be a single guy in the lifestyle single girl too but i i lean more towards the single guys because since i'm a single guy i always give them advice so learn relearn all that so here in houston we have five clubs all five clubs allow single dudes tpc when they're open thursday and friday are the only days fridays they allow they said they allow 10 i've been on fridays where i see more than 10 single guys so i don't know what it is they say dress to impress so make sure you wear something nice when you go to tpc tpc is doing a better job now they're remodeling shit it's looking vibrant a lot better good job tpc um then you got collect friday night is when you want to go not a lot of couples not a lot of people but friday night they allow single guys i think they're open thursdays they allow single guys wednesdays i think they're open allow single guys saturdays are no go just like tpc saturdays single men single women and couples only tng tng is one of the few clubs is the only club in houston area that allows single men every day.
You're going to pay, but you're going to be able to get in. So those are the clubs. Now make sure if you are, guys, women don't have to worry about this, but men, just make sure you know what days you can and cannot go. So meetups and socials.
Some regions have informal or semi-formal gatherings and meetups for those interested in the lifestyle these can be less intimidating than a club environment offering a social atmosphere to forge connections without intimate pressure that's something you have to think about um if you are introverts i would recommend meetups and doing the socials i don't recommend going to a club because the music can be very loud it's hard to talk to people or there's just too many people uh this past weekend was eye candy event at uh at the uh secret tidal way in kissimio land uh florida and a couple i know that went said they just didn't like it because it was just the fucking music was just way too loud they couldn't really talk to people you know they could sit next to a hot tub.
They have to scream at the person just to talk. So if you don't like loud music, don't go to a club. Go to a meetup or social. Those are great. There are some great meetups. HR Club has a great hotel takeover. Go to that. They're very welcoming for new people. Just don't make them mad and all that. Let's see, socials.
There a lot of socials uh you can go to so just look google google swinger meetups swinger house parties in your area online forums and community telegram is a good one kick is a good one engaging in online forums related to swinging allow singles to ask questions share experiences and meet others virtually now this is a problem a lot of these groups have very low tolerance for single man questions a single guy can follow the rules and he'll still get shitted on and listen you can say oh no that's not true bullshit it is true a lot of times it is and you just don't want to see it but i was in this one group and any time with a guy with a big dick would come in the other couple guys and the couples who had small penises would get very upset it was man meet monday man meet monday show your dick dudes what's wrong with that don't get upset because your dick is small and some guys with the eight inch dick i'm gonna pick the guy with the eight inch dick to fuck my girl because i know my girl's gonna have a great time she's gonna rock that cock out but you know some guys are not like me where they're very insecure with themselves so be very careful with the online forums and who you go with and all that because you just don't know what the hell's going to happen events and travel i think it's naughty not new orleans naughty nolens this weekend big fucking party if you're new don't go get experience dingo you're fucking gonna have the time of your life if you go to that so events and travel swinging related travel such as cruises resort stays specifically geared towards those in the lives are often welcome singers these can be particularly rewarding as they offer extended time to build deeper connections in a relatively safe encapsulated environment i recommend going on bliss cruises go on to swingers clues make sure it's the right one fucking crazy I don't want to be all psyched because it's going to suck caliente go to it great paradise go to it it's great rooftop i don't know i can't give an honest review of it because you know when i went it was a friday night and only the people that were in the hotel could be there but go on rooftop on a saturday check it out so travel is fucking awesome plus one some of you might be scared that you might see your co-workers well you less chance of seeing your co-workers on a swingers cruise probably and if there are no swingers cruise guess what they're swingers too there's no no one's going to say anything at work the next week when you all are back all right and all that so you know what go to events when you travel so when you if you're worried about seeing people from your work at the local swinger club travel and events are very good because you got very less chance likely and i know couples where they would not swing in their city they live in a town a big city and they don't want to swing in that city because they're worried about meeting people seeing or actually seeing people they know well you know so when they go off and travel that's when they go do their swinging so it is you know so some people are like that uh and all that i always say if you're both at a club you both know what you're there for swingers clubs do not advertise there's not like a sign says tpc come have threesomes and foursomes here couple swap here there's no big signs like that it's very discreet there's no one knows only people that know that are swingers will know that it's there and all that so so go take out those go out to uh go to all those bliss cruises go to secrets worth top caliente paradise lakes you know even sea mountain resort some shit like that out of vegas so what are the best practices for singles and swing for singles entering the lifestyle or this lifestyle respecting established rules and etiquette is paramount this includes clear communication respect for boundaries impeccable personal hygiene and always prioritizing consent now let's look at the one clear communication talk what do you want i'm very honest and this is what gets me in trouble and why i get turned down a lot i'm just here for the sex i'm not here for the connection where we're going to be best buds and we're going to hang out outside the club.
No, that's probably not going to happen because I keep my life. And I know people, this is a big bugaboo for some couples. I keep my swinging lifestyle separate from my personal lifestyle. This is just something I do that because I love.
I love having sex with with people i love the new type of feeling you get when you meet you know think about if you went to burger king and had the whopper every day for seven to ten years then all of a sudden you go to whataburger and you have a whataburger it's totally different you get that excitement that is new it's fresh that's how I feel when I meet a new couple or a new single, I get that fresh feeling, that new feeling and all that. And I like exploring the female body, what gets her off and all that. Cause I'm listening to her moans and how her body works.
Her hips are going up and down when I'm eating her pussy. I know I'm doing something right.
If she's just standing there there like a dead fish I know I'm doing something wrong you know it's all all about that but communication why am I'm there like I said my thing is just purely sex for me if now if we become good friends which I have actually become good friends with couples and we don't play anymore with each other because we are good friends and all that that has happened and that does happen i just had one this year i met him this year in a hotel we're very good friends and we hang out outside the club and we don't even fuck anymore we don't do none of that anymore we just have fun because it happens when you least expect it just like when i tell people you're trying to get married and you're trying to have a boyfriend and girlfriend, you know, don't pressure it.
It'll happen. Respect for boundaries. You know, this is something that's difficult because if there's no communication with the other couples, what boundaries do you know? I like to ask, you know, do you have to wear condoms? Are you, are you, uh, what is that?
a vasectomy are you vasectomy did you get a vasectomy are your tubes tied and stuff like that uh do you kiss do anal stuff all that stuff do you mind ass eating things like that uh what are the reboundaries now when they say they don't kiss you just gotta respect it and don't kiss the person now you want you know you want to kiss the person but then you gotta pull back you gotta remember oh they don't like it and sometimes you'll forget in the heat of everything when you're pounding you know when you're pounding each other you know doing stuff like that you forget so it's okay just say apologize and move on personal hygiene shave your cock and balls gentlemen uh ladies make sure that pussy doesn't smell stinky all right if a stinky pussy is on the table you you gotta be very careful about it uh there's always gonna be smells guys you know you're not gonna there's a difference between stinky pussy and just a sweaty dancing all night type pussy or fucking all night type pussy all right there's a difference you could definitely have it i had when i first started got my first uh partner miss r and i'll talk about her later on but when she took her panties off she stunk up the room she has a very bad odor and i mean you know at that time i'm 21 how do i tell a woman her pussy stinks because you know back then you get a fucking fist across your face if you told a woman her pussy stunk nowadays i think they're more appreciative that they're you're being honest with them but you know that you got to think about that um and consent like i said i don't know you know you have to ask for consent always ask for consent i don't know i'll drive to home so moreover singles should strive to be proactive in their community involvement showing genuine interest and commitment to the culture rather than only personal gratification.
Now, you might sound now to me, to you, it might sound like I'm only in it for personal gratification. Yes, but I'm also in it to help people out.
No, I always say single men should hang out with each other because that's one way you find out other couples who like to play with single guys and you can help each other out even with couples when couples ask me i know i can't find any good couples i go well you're doing it wrong probably because you're looking in the wrong area so i'm always helping i fucking tell people all about the clubs because i travel when i travel i swing i don't sit there and not travel if i'm going anywhere even a family, I'm still swinging.
You know, you get a day away, you get a night away from the kids, local club, let's go. I'm going there. I'm there. So, you know, I'm always doing something and swinging. So I've been all over the country. I know the clubs. I always tell, oh, you're going to New York, go to this club in New York. You're going to Florida, go to this. You're going to Vegas.
This is the place you want to go you know i'm always helping so i'm always giving out my feedback and i always tell them listen uh like the green door i had a horrible time at the green door in vegas because the men were just fucking hounds zombies but as for a couple that i know they went there they had a great time because she loves getting gang banged by all the men in the room she don't care how many dudes she'll fuck every guy in that club that's what she loves so they had a great time but for me it was a bad time because you know i'm not aggressive like these dudes were and you know short story you don't get anywhere so how so you know just to understand the difference between the gratification and what i'm feeling all right building a reputation as a respectfully reliable and engaging member of the community can open doors and reduce potential biases you know you're gonna always guys we're always gentlemen we're always gonna have a bias no matter what single women your guy you're good to go you shit you could be the biggest asshole in the world i think a lot of couples will overlook it and all that so that's just my personal opinion i do think women can be more of an asshole and do stupid shit where single guys if they do one dumb thing they're out for life me personally i don't care i'm looking i'm gonna be me and i have a great quote i want to read you know there's a great thing that i saw on tiktok and you know i'll read it to you later but i want to say it because it reminds me of what i am all right and how i feel about things in my life and in the swinging lights out because i get a lot of shit from people uh about what i do it's like okay whatever fuck you i'm enjoying my life why don't you just enjoy yours so let's see so let's see the conclusion the swinging lifestyle with its ethos of openness and exploration offers unique space uh for singles to connect with like-minded individuals and couples.
By leveraging the right avenues and upholding the values of the community, single swingers can indeed find fulfilling experiences and enrich the tapestry of the swing community. The key lies in respectful participation, guys. Continuous learning and embracing the multifaceted nature of swinging. I'm always learning. I don't even know what the fuck. I just found out what a buck was and a buck is a single dude. I don't know how, you know, you get so many different ones. It's just like, come on, man. I don't know. But anyways, now you found a partner. All right.
So you go from swinging single to swinging partner, swinging couple.
And I think you should so you should talk about so if you find a partner it's going to be tough uh are you in this with this partner because you like this person and you want to be with this person or you just in it for the access to new pussy gentlemen and what you will because i always said when i go to a club by myself I'm invisible but once I bring a chick into the club I've become invisible couples see me and guess what I remember all those couples had never said a word to me when I was at the club now all of a sudden I got a nice looking chick with me now you want to talk to me i remember and i tell him i'm just simply we're simply not interested in you because you were not interested in me as a human being listen we don't all have to play guys remember that no means no consent we all don't have to play but you know what treat people more people like uh human beings and guess what karma will come back and treat you the same way so what should you talk about as a partner now you got a partner what kind of play are you okay with are you into parallel play soft swap hard swap same or separate rooms threesome foursomes orgies gang bangs where do you want to look what constellations are you okay with male female male threesomes male female female Mel, thomes partner swap foursomes we're all play together orgies you know do you want to go to clubs you want to go to parties or you want to go to private meetups some people don't want to go to clubs they just want to meet people off the online i and that's got to be very frustrating because there's a lot of fucking fakes and flakes out in the goddamn insta in the online world communication with other parties how are you going to decide who you're going to fuck when you're going to fuck things like that uh let's see what else you're gonna have to talk about will you be dtf or social swingers that means down to fuck are your social swingers are you just going to go there to hang out and if something happens happens but you know i love the dtf couples man you know even if they don't fuck me they're still fun to watch because they go out there and they go out to a couple after couple and there's one couple at a nudist resort that i knew i still don't and they're fucking great and i mean they go it's at caliente They have I learned actually i learned this from them they bring a fanny pack they have condoms lube viagra uh some other shit they had in there i can't remember all this back fanny pack and he would carry it or he would tote it around and all that and at night when you could play in the hot tub and the conversation the pool area they would literally i mean literally walk up to every single couple and try to fuck them they would be like hey my name is tim and tim and angie do you want to you know you know we think you're good looking you want to play and it would be they were down the fuck and i mean they would fuck a lot of people i mean a lot i was impressed i love these this couple they were just like they were what i would want she's like i just want to fuck and have a great time he was just fucking wants to fucking have a great time too and i go they don't i don't care their names and all that we just want to have a good time like okay great and all that so i asked them how do you and they're just like we just go up there and ask them if they want to fuck and because you know what she's very good looking and he's decent looking so it's not like they're ugly but they would fuck i mean he would fuck anything and she would fuck anything too i mean i saw her fucking suck a guy with a bear gut whose dick he probably hasn't been seen since the reagan administration but she's fucking going to town on his dick in front of everybody and he's fucking his wife in front of everybody so they're they're down to fucking they're the fun ones to watch i have to give them credit they are protected they always had condoms and shit and all that they were fucking prepared to go now i have some sometimes when the couples would like we don't use condoms they were cool with it and they just fucked with raw with them so but that's what a dtf couple is now you got social swingers who are oh well let's see what happens if something happens it happens it don't it don't okay what else you got to talk about what are your hard nose things you won't do you got to ask your girl what are you going to do i always ask my girls because we're looking for men and couples get a hold of me guys if you're looking for a nice pussy to fuck i always ask them what type of men they're into because they're new so they might have that little thing where they just want certain types guys they get older they go fuck it i don't care i just want a hard dick all right some couples some girls have been like that i just want a hard dick to fuck the shit out of me others they go oh we got to have this tight he's got to be this type this thing which i'm cool with fine that's good all right no problem what do you not want to do and things like that some girls are like they're strictly straight they're strictly dickly they don't want to do anything with women no women stuff like that so that's what you got to communicate all right also should you talk about how will you communicate to others if something is not okay when you meet up or during play code words you're going to have you know excuse yourself to the bathroom that means you know no or anything like that so you know it's just one of those things where you have to talk to your partner now because you're going to single remember as a single you single, you get to do whatever you want.
Now, I admit that I like going to clubs as a single guy because I get to do what I want. I don't have to worry about someone else all the time. I'm able to let loose and have fun where when I bring my partner, I have to or partners, I have to make sure they're having a great time. I always say if the woman has a great time, I'm going to have a greater time because she's going to want to come back and she wants to do this stuff over and over again. So, you know, that's one of the things. So also consider this. If you are highly emotional, how will you keep your drama out of the lifestyle? How?
There's always going to, no, you're not going to stop drama at all. Do not sit there and think, well, we'll never beat drama. We're not a drama couple. Yes, you're going to be a drama couple. Everyone's going to have some drama. It's just how is it played out? It's out in the club. I don't understand these dudes where they talk about threatening other guys and beat their asses and all that stuff. I go, you can't, all right, great. You're a tough guy. You could beat someone up. But if you do it at the club, you do it outside the club, guess what's going to happen?
The police are going to get involved. That club is going to get looked at more. And let's face it, 90% of the population in the world thinks we're scumbags. So they're going to go out and above and beyond. If I own a club and you fucking start fighting, I'm banning all your asses for life because I don't want none of that shit. I don't want the heat from the police. They can make your life difficult. Even though it's all legal, they can still make your life fucking difficult because this is such a sensitive topic.
Fucking other people while you're married is not something that's like, oh, okay.
Just because it's in the movies and they may glamorize it doesn't mean everybody's a swinger all right everyone is okay with it you know your partner your family might be okay yeah you're okay we're cool with you being the swingers and all that but you know what in reality they might not they might think you're a scumbag and you're a fucking horrible man for allowing another dude or another woman fuck your girl and vice versa so you know take the drama home don't be fucking getting fights at the club don't be threatening other dudes to beat him up or kill him because you know he bumped into your girl shit i've seen that where guys where a girl will bump into a dude and then the husband will get in the guy's face and want to kick his ass at a club and when i was working at caliente guess what we did we banned those couples we kicked them out for the night and we banned them for life so you just gotta think be smart leave the drama out there's gonna be drama just mitigate it so where it's not at the club it's not the club parking lot it's somewhere it's far away where the police ain't gonna get involved or anything like that all right so those are just some of the should ask if you get, if you become a partner up with someone.
You know, those are some of the few things you can ask. It's not, you know, set in stone. You can always come up with more. I don't know. It's all up to you guys. So that was great. So where should I go? talk about, let's talk about me going to, I don't know, what was my first club? I think I'm going to do my first club experience ever at the Dayton Swimming Soul Show. I think I'm going to do that on Apple Podcasts. That's what I'm going to do that on Apple podcasts. That's what I'm going to do, you know? So, yeah, I'm going to do that on Apple podcasts. So here's a story.
Here's a little story about Paul Rebier. Nope. So I just want to, this is a nice long story, so buckle up. The darkness pressed in around me as I stepped into the back room of the club. A wave of warmth and light washing over my skin as the heavy drapes parted to reveal the scene before me.
I don't know why they always use drapes but anyways a dozen or more couples lay intertwined upon the pillows their bodies slick with sweat and desire and ear thick with a heady scent of sex it was like walking into a dream a private oasis of inhibitions were left at the door and the only rule was to follow your heart's desires this was my one of my very first hotel orgies that I went to back in the late 1990s and this would be one that I would actually get raided by the police later on in the year so I scanned the room searching for the woman whose profile had caught my eye and this is when I'm an Aol so miss r let's call her miss r she had called herself on the internet which i will call herself on the internet uh caught uh under my a striking beauty with long oops wrong laven hair and eyes the color of the caribbean sea she had seemed so confident so sure of herself in the message we exchanged but now surrounded by all this sensuality Thank you.
color of the caribbean sea she had seemed so confident so sure of herself in the message we exchanged but now surrounded by all this sensuality i couldn't help but wonder if i had made a mistake as i as if summoned by my thoughts appear a familiar green eyes met mine from across the room my heart skipped a beat as miss r smiled a wicked grin playing the corners of her lips. She gestured for me to come closer, beckoning like a siren, calling her prey. Without hesitation, I crossed the space between us. My gaze looked at hers, my heart pounding in my chest. She said, hello, Mr. Maxwell.
She purred, her voice a sultry purr i'm so glad you can make it she reached out and took my hand her touch sending a shiver down my spine i can't wait to see what sort of trouble we're going we can get into together bada boom bada bing i'm hard right now her words sent a thrill of anticipation through me and for the moment i forgot about everything else in the world but the woman standing before me as we stood there lost in each other's eyes the music began to swell and the rest of the world seemed to fade away it was then that i realized the moment had arrived i was finally about to live out my wildest fantasies before this i was doing all gang bangs i wasn't doing orgies with multiple women i had maybe one or two women at a gangbang and that was it there were other women in the gangbangs but they weren't doing anything they're just watching to explore the depths of desire and intimacy that i had never dared to dream about and i looked into miss r's eyes i knew that together we're going to have time time of our lives.
Well, at least I was for sure. With a slow, deliberate motion, she slid her hand up my chest, tracing a path along my neck before coming to rest on my cheek. Her touch was featherlight, but it sent a shiver down my spine. I couldn't help but lean into her, my body craving more of her touch. And then before I knew it, her lips were on mine. The kiss was hot and hungry, a desperate exchange of breath and desire that left me reeling. As our tongues tangled together, I could feel her hands slip lower between us and brush against the growing bulge in my pants. I grasped into her mouth. Thank you.
her hands slip lower between us and brush against the growing bulge in my pants i grasped into her mouth i gasped into her mouth her lips her hips instinctively arching into her touch she seemed to take this as an imitation because with a slow you know grody growl she reached down and undid my pants freeing my erection from its confines which i was very thankful for in the next moment her hand was wrapped around me stroking up and down my length her grip firm but gentle i moaned into her mouth my head spinning with pleasure as she expertly brought me closer and closer to the edge you're so big which was the first time any woman ever said that to me because i'm not that big she whispered her breath hot against my ear i've been wanting to feel you inside me all night her words sent a wave of heat coursing through my veins and with a sudden burst of courage i reached down and grabbed her ass pulling her against me.
As if to underscore her words, Miss R reached behind her and undid her bra, freeing her breasts from their confines. Nice size D tits. They spilled forth, heavy and full. I couldn't help but stare in awe at their perfect pale pink flesh.
This girl was about my age she was only like 22 23 at the time so she had nice perky tits with a sigh of contentment she leaned back against my chest she leaned back against my chest offering one breast to my lips and i took it like a greedy little fucker sucking and nipping at her nipple as my other hand found its way between her legs She was wet and hot And as I pressed two fingers deep inside her I as my other hand found its way between her legs. She was wet and hot, and as I pressed two fingers deep inside her, I arched her back, moaning loudly.
Oh, God, yes, she murmured, her hips bucking against my hand. That's it, just like that. The feel of her body wrenching beneath my fingers was almost too much to bear, and I knew that I couldn't wait any longer. I had to be inside of her. Come here, I growled, lifting her up into my arms. She wrapped her legs around my waist as I lowered her down onto the hard length, feeling the heat and wetness of her surroundings as she took me deep inside.
With a shuddering groan, I thirst up up into her filling the head of my cock slipped past her cervix and into her room that's exaggeration i'm exaggerating it wasn't dang old up to her room it was way up there we moved together our bodies sliding against each other in the dance that was equal parts aggression and tenderness her nails raked down my back leaving a trail of fire in the wake and with each thrust i made she ground her hips against mine urging me deeper the room spun around us the music was on but we weren't paying attention to it as our orgasms built threatening to tear us apart at the seams i looked into her eyes and saw nothing but love and desire.
And in the moment, I knew that whatever happened next, we would face it together. Her breath came in ragged gas, her body arching upward to meet each of my thrusts. And we're fucking standing up. No, we're not on the fucking standing up her inner muscles tightened around me her nails digging into my shoulders as she tried to find some purchase some release from the unbearable pleasure coursing through her veins i felt my own release building uh building felt the familiar tightening on my balls the urgent need to empty myself into her we We're wearing condoms at this time.
There was no cream pie. With the final powerful thrust, I came, my body shuddering as wave after wave of hot, salty wicklets spilled into the condom, which was inside her pussy. She cried out my name, her body convulsing around me as she came as well, her orgasm rocking us both to the core. For what felt like an eternity, we clung to each other, our sweaty, slick bodies locked together, her breath hot and ragged against my neck. Finally, as the last tremors subsided, she pulled away from me, her chest heaving as she tried to catch her breath.
Her eyes met mine, and for a moment, there was nothing but tenderness and love between us. Then, with a soft laugh, she said, well, that was unexpected. I don't know why she said that because it was expected. We're at an orgy, but I'll tell you a little bit. Backstory. I couldn't help but smile back at her. I guess it was. I reached up gently, wiped the sweat from her brow. Are you okay? She nodded. Her breathing still labored. I am now, but I think we might need to clean up a little. Together, we disentangled ourselves from the mess we had made on the wall and on the floor.
So I hurried to find a couple of towels to mop up the remains of our passion as i turned back to her i realized that she was already dressing her movements efficient and business-like you know she said but in her brows i think we might need to have a little talk about what else happened what just happened i nodded feeling a mixture of embarrassment and anation. I think that might be a good idea. She walked over to the bed, picking up her clothes and folded them neatly. I mean, she continued, we've been through so much so far.
We've faced death and danger and all kinds of terrible things, but this? She trailed off, looking at me with a confused expression. It feels like a whole new level of intimacy. I didn't know what to say.
I had never expected to feel this way about her i had never been considered the possibility that there could be anything more than friendship between us but now i watched her move about the room her body gracefully fluid despite her nerves i couldn't deny the death of my feelings for her i know i finally managed to say it's just unexpected all right so we would have a conversation this would be my young miss r that had the stinky pussy uh like i said when she pulled off her panties when i first met her her pussy stunk up the room this was after we met this was the very first time we met we talked on the online and we were going to a hotel party and we're both going and we decided to go now she developed this it wasn't a bad smell she had an order but you couldn't smell it all across the room it would be it would get worse over time but you know it's one of those things where your personal hygiene comes in it was kind of embarrassing because we would meet a couple out for dinner and back home and the two girls would fuck each other and she would eat out another girl this is my very first time actually seeing two girls eat each other out live even though i was i've been a swinger for a couple years now and she goes down on this another beautiful brunette her husband was in her his 40s she was in her 20s so she it was like a you know sugar daddy sugar mama uh sugar baby uh type relationship and miss r's going down on her and she pulls her paintings off and you smell it and but you know what no one said anything at the time but i knew everyone was thinking the young the young lady the other girl she only stood down there for a while it wasn't that much you know i got into the action both me and the guy would take turns partnering up and fucking and her husband did a real good job of my girl i really appreciated that he fucked her good and i you know i tried my best with the other girl i ate her out made her come and all that but you know the personal hygiene was a problem because you know she you know she would start smelling and you can smell it and you know people just didn't like that and it's kind of hard you know it's what do i tell people you know with their stinky pussy so you know it's just one of those things like damn it you know have personal hygiene everybody because that's what's going to help you and all that so i hope you enjoyed the episode today uh so singles can be swingers and if you got a partner you got to communicate with that new partner that you get all right because you don't want to do anything stupid but with that ladies and gentlemen remember shave your cock and balls gentlemen ladies make your boys shave your cock and balls the other ladies in the couple will appreciate it single ladies hit me up swinging single podcast at gmail.com come on my show i could disguise your voice no video or anything like that couples too if you want to come on You want to bitch me out Saying I'm wrong Or whatever You want to say I'm right Whatever I'm more than happy To take you on Alright So with that Have a great day everybody Keep on swinging And shave those cock and balls Oh, baby, I'm a holly to your joker.
I wanna be there forever on your shoulder. I wanna be the angel when it's over. You'll get lucky like a four-leaf clover. Baby, I'm a holly to your joker.
